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3	Made a girl fall in love with me and now I'm in a predicament. If you're actually open, this isn't a conflict with S. I know not all open relationships are the same, but if you're hiding important shit from S, you're opening yourself up to more potential pain. K needs help, but not from you. Tell her that her destructive behavior worries you and you can't be a part of it. Encourage her to lean on her support network of friends/family. Find a suicide prevention hotline in her area. Next time don't be a dumbass about your intentions. If you have to lead her o…	/r/seduction	16/01/18 02:32 PM
26	What are your typical escalation 'moves' Yeah, the conversation shouldn't be so un-sexy if you're trying to escalate things. One thing missing from what you're describing is her reaction and level of interest. If you're talking to someone about their job/family and randomly touching them and they aren't interested, you're going to creep them out. Eye contact is huge. If you're into talking to her, but the topic is mundane, hold eye contact longer than feels 'normal'. Really peer into her eyes. This will probably create a pause, you can…	/r/seduction	16/01/18 02:22 PM
1	How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting small Practice in situations where you aren't putting so much pressure on yourself. Not every conversation is a seduction. Start with common interests. Find a thing you like to do, find groups of people who also like it, hang out in the groups, talk to women naturally as the opportunities arise, and don't make every conversation a seduction attempt, or you're going to build talking to women up in your mind as a pass/fail attempt, and you're going to beat yourself up for failing.	/r/seduction	16/01/18 02:13 PM
1	Need help with a problem that maybe effects my interaction with women. You have to be ok with yourself first. If you're battling jealousy and anger, it's going to undercut your interactions with other people. Especially if the anger starts to come out when you think things are going sideways with a girl; that shit is scary for women and for good reason. The more you set up interactions in your mind as 'win/fail' moments, the more pressure you're going to put on yourself, and the worse it will make things. Be ok with a woman rejecting you. Don't be the guy who comes…	/r/seduction	16/01/18 02:08 PM
7	How to Get Laid - A Demonstration of Screening If your screening process involves making people flee in discomfort, then your process suuuucks.	/r/seduction	01/01/18 10:32 AM

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