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I'm based asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:39 AM
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I was joking, but more seriously, I assure you most women do not orgasm from penetration alone. Just google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:33 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:24 AM
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rape. The thing is seduction is just a trick to get women to want penetration but once the penetration happens it doesn't feel like anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:17 PM
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Haha no I don't give a fk Hard to get to know someone when they're LYING, WHY U ALWAYS LYING Sorry I haven't slept. The thing is I don't want to be so selective, it'd be great if I could expect great things enough to not be picky like men. I was just ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:15 PM
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But redpill complains I'm picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:43 AM
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In this world there are boys and gurrs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:28 AM
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Well they clearly found out because they make it really hard for you to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:08 AM
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It's not dysfunction it's just how things are biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:00 AM
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Why should women have sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:55 AM
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If sex was more beneficial for women they would want it more. That's why the sex isn't happening. It's not unfair for men, it's like this because sex is unfair for women in the first place. Therefore you complaining about it being unfair for yourself is unfair. If that makes sense. How would you feel about sex if you couldn't orgasm from penetration, had to take birth control and risk contracting UTI while your partner doesn't have to think about any of that? Is it really unfair for you? Yeah, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:51 AM
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I meant it's less fun for men who feel the burden of performance and get all anxious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:24 AM
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The reason women do that is because men lie and say they want a relationship when all they want is sex. The reason why women make men wait is men's fault. They have made women feel unsafe. That's why it's hypocritical for men to criticize women for being picky or taking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:54 PM
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Yeah the "I want to snuggle up to" I can also feel that. If I really crave contact I'll look at a guy with big arms and be like "I'd love to be buried in there".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:36 PM
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No, I don't think I could ever get !aroused! by simply looking at a guy I don't know no matter how handsome they are. I am not turned on by visual stimulus alone. I am not sure myself. I think female desire is much more complex. I can be attracted to a man instantly and think he is very handsome, but will it be sexual? Maybe if he has lots of muscles and is lean, like a perfect body, but even then it'll be attraction but not arousal. I need to know the guy, maybe to allow myself to feel that att…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:26 PM
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I like myself and how I look and am confident in myself but I'm not confident in the idea of someone else finding me attractive
/r/BlackPillScience27/06/22 02:56 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBaurTo7VAI
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 06:30 AM
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Aragorn is the man I wish men would be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:37 PM
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Haha sorry. Men who are like what I described are very rare. You also have to add sexually compatible. I just described the perfect man. It's also that I feel like a meet a lot of these standarts myself, so I want someone who's more like me. You may also not realize what makes you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:35 AM
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I believe there is something biological that makes women attracted to men. I believe women are genetically programmed to be attracted to certain men. Which means you can say women are all different, but you can see PATTERNS. But if we're talking about me specifically.. hehe. Ideally.. Physically, I'm attracted to wide shoulders, thin hips, strong thighs, nice haircut, good looking clothes. I prefer asian men. I like defined jawline. Large mouth, thick eyebrows. Defined cheekbones. I don't like s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:09 PM
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I have low self esteem and a while ago I made a list of traits that I have that could bring something positive in some people's lives. Honest I think about others I get attached a lot and am very emotional I'm introverted and it has it's perks open minded I enjoy listenning to people's problems and try to help I'm excellent at communication I'm not impulsive I can take blames I don't accept mean behaviors I'm not a pushover I'm thankful, appreciative Tactful I have thin waist, attractive, I'm bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:11 AM
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Perhaps these things are cyclical It's a thought I had but I preffered to avoid. It's very possible. But maybe it can be avoided if we teach people how to actually raise children. How not to spoil them or ruin their self-esteem. I wonder and want to believe that most people are good people. It maybe has to do with genetic predispostitions. I am HPS, and I think that helped me develop my empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:13 AM
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Even early bloomers don't have the traits that makes men look attractive. These traits and small differences only appear in early 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:06 AM
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Mmm. I kinda hate men. But not completly. I like men being men. I feel like being romantically involved with a man would make me more ''complete''. I like when men save other people with their strenght for unselfish reasons. I wish I could do that. I'd save a man too don't worry. aaaaah.. I don't have any ideas. I guess I really hate men. But, it's not a gender thing. I'm sure some men are fine, like my teacher in economy yay. But seriously, I admire people individually for individual reasons. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 12:13 PM
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The fear of knowing you have to provide for a family Women have responsabilities/obligations too Much harder to find love It's hard for women too Judged in more than just looks (e.g. jobs, height, money, etc) Women are sex objects, men are money objects narrative. People admire people who make lots of money, people don't admire sex objects. Also you don't risk being raped. Higher risk of suicide Women commit more suicide attempts but men use more violent methods so they are more likely to die fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:49 AM
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Yeah men only see us as fuckchoice in earliest stages niiiiiice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:24 AM
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Omg my ex is a woman too, is this a coincidence?! I'm really into men btw, but I can be attracted to women sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:20 AM
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Me? YES. I really don't mind about that. But I never been with one. I like to put my elbow on people's shoulder. And also when people are too tall it's difficult to make eye contact. Username checkout btw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:16 AM
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Well, not really, you make it sound like the gentle, kind and caring part is like the ''side dishes'' but no, it's kinda like 2/3 of the main dinner. Oh I think I just realized. What is more accurate is '' When women say "I want a rough guy", it translates to "I want a guy with a rough side". '' I don't know but I think maybe sensitive men can be rough too sometimes during sex. Maybe the fact that you don't like being rough is not due to the fact that you're sensitive but more due to the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:05 AM
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I'm reading Plato right now. Plato says that some people are virtuous, meaning they have good moral. If you give a man with no moral the opportunity to break the law, he will. A truly virtuous man will not break the law if he is truly virtuous. Therefore religious people aren't necessarly virtuous, they just follow the law. As non-religious people, if we are virtuous, we do not want to be degenerate like Ellen because we care about social order, we care about people's feelings and we care about …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:16 AM
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The decision to have kids is the decision to make a choice between the things you really want. If you have kids you have to be aware of the freedom it'll take away. Also thank feminists now the sacrifices is not all on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:04 AM
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As a woman during sex ed when I was 11, the teacher asked what we found attractive in men. One of the girl said she liked when they were popular with girls. I was shocked. It does not apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:59 AM
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Men reminded me everyday growing up of their nature therefore I avoided them because I didn't want them to use my body for sex therefore I am still a virgin and I don't trust men. A part of me also want to keep believing men aren't really like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:32 AM
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This is my opinion as a woman. Women's bodies are portrayed as flawless, hairless and everything. When women are portrayed normally, in their natural state, men are not used to see it and it doesn't match the perfect image they had because of medias and women's beauty standarts therefore they feel disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:25 AM
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I do not want to get married because I don't want to sign a contract to be with someone. I do not want to get married, if I have kids, I would not get married either. I never dreamed about getting married. I don't like long white dresses. I don't particularly like marriage scenes in movies. Where I live most people don't get married anyway. I would not rely on marriage to prove my futur boyfriend how much I love him. I don't dream or believe in life long love relashionship, because today we live…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:09 AM
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Does being assertive, confident and dominant really contradict with being sensitive? Does being assertive, confident and dominant contradict with being gentle kind and caring? I will be turned on by the dominant, assertive and confident side, but I will fall in love with the gentle, kind and caring side. That is the man every women dream about. When women say they like sensitive men, they don't mean they like pushover, submissive and un-confident men. Someone who's gentle, kind and caring is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:50 AM
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I don't percieve the fact that I can have male attention as power. Some manipulative may use their look to manipulate men tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:35 AM
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Most men would fuck any good looking girls, that's the concept of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:24 AM
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If the man could have chosen better looking or other women than me, it could mean I have something more, in my personality, that he likes. If he wants to fuck he could just fuck anyone, that means he sees me as special. He consider me for more than just sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:21 AM
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As a woman, YES! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! YES!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:16 AM
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I have to admit I have a small crush on my teacher in economy because he laugh all the time and he seem very charistmatic. He seem very emotionnal. I want a boyfriend like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:07 AM
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As a woman who's really emotionnal that would scare me. I would wonder if his emotionnal intelligence is low. If he is unnable to understand emotions or communicate in a healthy way this is a deal breaker. Also as someone who's anxious I think I would prefer someone who's more calm. Be my "safe place".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:58 AM
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Teenage boys aren't physically mature yet until like 22. Women may find some teenage boys attractive but some men aren't particularly attractive until like 22. When I was a teenager I physically preffered older men in their 20 but they were too old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:53 AM
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As a young woman, I believe sexuality and attraction is very fluid. Women are attracted to all types of men as long as they're good looking and they have a large waist-shoulder ratio. I used to be more attracted to very masculine older men when I was a teenager. Now I am attracted to "pretty boys" too. "pretty boy" can also have muscles. Also I don't mind men doing typically feminine things or wearing more feminine clothes as long as their personality is manly. That's my taste personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:48 AM
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To say it simply. I want to feel protected. If the guy has empathy for me, it's a sign that he cares, therefore I know he will protect me the best he can when the time comes. It all comes down to trust. If I get signs he cares about me, like empathy, then I trust him. I trust him to capitalize on my best interests, therefore I feel protected.
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:17 AM
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Why are you trying to teach these guys to get women? Get them away from us! XD
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:00 AM
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Because they didn't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:03 AM
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It's pretty clear what men fundamentally want with all the movies aimed at men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:15 AM
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I think your problem is that you're too young and inexperienced. Yes So you can't have it at the first glance When I talk to a guy I'm more ''let's get to know him'', or when I see a guy. AND YOU TOO are going to people because they're hot. Yes but I'm also interested in who they are you probably only have romantic interest in hot men and think their personality is so much better than others nope! I've avoided hot men because of their personality. I don't imagine things, I am interested in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:06 AM
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But men are low standards I'll never understand why it offends women that we're not very picky personality wise and why it's misrepresented as dehumanifying. You don't want to be someone's low standart. It feels deshumanizing when the person talks to you only because he wants your body. You could be anyone's body it wouldn't matter. You don't want to feel like you could just be any other girls. You also don't want to feel like someone isn't considering you. You see yourself as important, as a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:38 AM
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We all notice the full package of looks and how a person moves. You notice it but how much do you care about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:22 AM
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If you want to know what girls really like go on AO3 and search with the tag ''Plot what plot/porn without plot'' and skip to the sex scenes, you might get an idea of what girls like to imagine. Doesn't mean we think it's realistic either. Also if it's gay just imagine the bottom is the girl. You'regonnacringe Also maybe look at the tags they can tell a lot I just checked and there was a tag ''soul fingering'' lol Women might like rough sex but only if it's done in a pleasurable way for us, unli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:53 PM
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Frankly, I'm 20. It's been around 2-3 years since I haven't talked to men/boys? and I progressively lost my female friends because of 'social anxiety'. I used to talk to boys but I found them all immature or they were jerks. I had some boys wanting to go out with me because some were desperate or some were just playing. I didn't click with any of them and I ended up with a girl. I'm bi but I prefer men. I was afraid and anxious to approach men who I found attractive, it was so bad to the point m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:51 AM
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Also sometimes, I find men better looking when they're bald than when they have inly a few hairs. Losing hair is not pretty, just like wrinkles, you might hide it with a hat. But don't complex over it. Focus on the good parts of yourself. Seriously, I remember seeing some good looking bald men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:32 AM
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Looking good makes you feel more confident which makes you more attractive. You gotta feel sexy, not lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:29 AM
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It's all about what looks good on you. Choose a hairstyle that makes you look good. Wear good looking clothes. Working out, having large arms/shoulders, will boost your attractiveness. It's as if women could work out and increase the size of their boobs. Look at artists women typically are crazy about, look at their clothes, hair. I personally like the guy with skinny pants, shirt slightly unbonned with the necklace (not chain please), with the belt, or the hat, or big shoes, I look at shoes a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:15 AM
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Nah, observes me and strips me naked It just sounds like harassment or something like that It lacks the part where it explain that he is not just a random man, he is the most amazing perfect man, and he loves YOU only.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:10 AM
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But she's only hurting herself If someone said they want love but realize it's just lust, it's only hurting the other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:59 AM
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If men couldn't have empathy, women would be raped, killed and everything all the time. So we would go and create our own place, kill all the men and only keep a few we would put in cage, to make babies, we would take their sperms regularly and do abortion when the foetus is a male. And we would all be lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:48 AM
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I'm a woman (F20) and I think about sex everyday, many times a day, and I realize I'm less productive. For me it starts with the need to be close to someone then it escalates. It might be that some hormones are making me more likely to think about sex, I don't know if I'm horny because it's something I nurture or if it's because of a hormone. I did have a year in my life when I kinda 'forgot' about mastubation. And I did have a year or two where the horniness was unbearable. I can't indentify cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:23 AM
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I don't want a child. For this reason. Pregnancy can damage my body and then you have to take care of an alive being and if you don't it dies. And then you're scared to have sex because they might hear you, or because your body is damaged and you can't run because you'd pee on yourself, and all the money you could have gathered for yourself, you could give it to charity to help people who are already alive. Men don't really think about this because there are less consequences for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:39 AM
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If he is a serial killer , doesn't care about my orgasms and pleasure during sex , is an asshole, fat, lacks the ability to understand me or have empathy, if he's booooring, is addicted to heroin, is underaged, if he is sexist and doesn't view women as equal, has a cheating history, if he's too old, if he's really ugly are all dealbreakers for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:27 AM
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Yeah you're right, men only value me for my look.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:04 PM
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women are not expected to 'accept men for who they are even when they're fat/just unattractive' except by incels (are are a widely hated people group) most men in 2019 will jump at your throat to tell you the following: women are not obligated to accept men they deem as unattractive. I needed to hear that. I must have low self-esteem unlike before, I feel like I must settle for a guy below my standarts for some reasons. I feel like they're all taken, this is what being alone for too long does to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:23 AM
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I think what upsets me is not the expectations for me, it's the acceptation that men think they are fine when they are fat lazy and ugly. I'm just frustrated I need a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:17 AM
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I agree I hate neglect almost as much as abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:13 AM
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I'll say more is expected from men in other areas besides looks than is expected from women. I'd like to have men value me for other areas besides look sometimes I realize this contradicts my initial post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:13 AM
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The standart of beauty for women is higher. If women put the same effort in their appearance as men men would be surprized how ugly women can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:52 AM
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Who said it was 2 girls and 1 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:29 AM
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I would do something interesting in my life and find value in myself somewhere else. I would not give up on relashionships. Like I do now, I would try to be virtuous, and I would find meaning by changing the world even if it's a small thing. Oh no I just saw the eddit. Mmm.. I don't know if being virtuous is possible then..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:26 AM
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(I'm a woman) Is this objectification? See an attractive girl at a bar and attempt to pick her up. no Hire a woman solely because you like the way she looks. yes - I don't know, can be limit, it can depends on her job and if she's aware that her look is why she is there Make excuses for not hiring a woman because you don’t like the way she looks. yes See your SOs junk in a pair of tight jeans and get excited. no Rub up against a woman you don’t know in a bar. YES Tell one of your students you’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:11 AM
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Haha, yeah maybe I don't actually know if the age at which your brain develops correlate with level of intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:56 AM
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I would choose the ugly man, except if he EXTREMELY ugly which is EXTREMELY rare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:40 AM
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4 is the age at which the memory part of our brain is developed and we can start having long term memories. If the memory is emotionally strong it'll be easier to remember, so she must have felt strong emotions when her mother yelled at her. Also gifted kids with higher IQ develop memories earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:27 AM
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I started masturbating as a kid around 6 and I personally developped fantasies at least before the age 8. (It's hard to put things in time because I was so young). I even remember having my first wet dream. I think it depends on people. I remember fantasising about robots and weird things. And I also remember that I had orgasms. So kids can have orgasms. My fantasies didn't involve boys or other people. I don't think I knew how sex worked I didn't even know there was a hole. I also didn't know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:22 AM
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I'm a woman and I've masturbated since I was 6-7 year old. I saw a post one day and it said that even infants masturbate, and it's probable that girls start masturbating faster than men, and parents don't know how to deal with their infants masturbating so they might say things like ''don't touch there it's dirty''. When you're so young you're not good at hiding things, so I think my parents knew I was doing it, I think my mother tried not to say anything. So it's really the parents..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:15 AM
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I'm a woman and I've masturbated since I was 6-7 year old. I saw a post one day and it said that even infants masturbate, and it's probable that girls start masturbating faster than men, and parents don't know how to deal with their infants masturbating so they might say things like ''don't touch there it's dirty''. When you're so young you're not good at hiding things, so I think my parents knew I was doing it, I think my mother tried not to say anything. So it's really the parents, the culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:12 AM
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It's more like, if a manipulator see he can use you because you're ready to do everything for him, he will. But men don't want to be with someone so desperate because it looks like you don't have self-respect and confidence. Men want women who step up for themselves sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:24 AM
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The trick I use, instead of trying to remember all these redflags in the moment, I simply pay attention to how I feel when I'm with someone. As soon as I feel hurt or stepped on, I identify why. And soon, I have enough proof to know if I can trust someone or not. The worst thing you can do, is ignore that feeling because you're so desperate for a relashionship. Yes, you want to drink water very badly, but if you find poisoned water, don't drink it. Knowing specific red flags help, but your emoti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:20 AM
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Can I have a resume?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:06 AM
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Oh wow, you mean men can take care of children alone without any problems? Do you really need statistics for everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:28 AM
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The father has a role for the kid, but also has a role for the mother. It's hard to be a single mother. The roles can be reversed too, I think single father would need a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:08 AM
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I should love everyone and talk with a soft voice because I am kind and never angry. I loooove babies and cute kittens and also I do all my homeworks. I always smile and do the houseworks :) I have so much empathy and am soo caring. I don't care about my own needs I care more about people around me :) Also I spend hours on my makeup and hair in the morning, I am not very assertive it's hard for me to stand my ground. And people take advantage of me but they're good people right? I still like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:58 PM
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Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:44 PM
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I would rather be with an average guy who loves me than with a rich guy who like me for my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:42 PM
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I met men with big ego. Especially in my family. My mother has a big ego too. I think I surrounded myself with people who didn't have the big ego. For some of my friend it wasn't about the ego, it's just that their self-esteem was so low and were a bit manipulative maybe, so when you said something they thought you meant something else to hurt their feelings, and so you couldn't say anything without hurting their feeling. I met one girl that was really like that and I'm not friend with her anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:39 PM
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I have no experience in life but the idea of 'sex without meaning' or 'casual sex' sounds weird to me. Isn't sex like, really intimate and isn't it the goal? People don't do 'casual hug' I don't know XD People don't just go in the street and hug strangers. It's like they want to pretend they don't care about the person they rubbed their private genitals with. Maybe horniness makes you love everyone regardless of who they are because they look like a good mate to have kids. and then you wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:27 PM
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I wouldn't be in a relashionship with someone who isn't ready for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:12 PM
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I will describe the PERFECT man, so in no way I hold men around me to these standarts, but if a man is to the opposite extreme of something I want I might be really less attracted. How does he looks like? I like muscles. I personally don't care about height. Some guys are lucky and they actually don't need to work out, some are unlucky and are really thin. I don't like fat guys. I am thin myself and don't have belly fat, so I don't like belly fat. His face needs to be the most symetrical possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:38 AM
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They have a better personality and values than you.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:01 AM
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