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| 1 | The real line between wanting something and acting entitled to it.Do you think it's wrong to be attracted to kids or just to act on that attraction 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 03:10 PM |
| 4 | How do women know what about personality turns them on?You called him a sociopathic alien and then rebut with "personal attack?" X'D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | One reason Gen Z has less sex is because alot of people are weird about sex.A lot of kids from Gen Z were exposed to porn really early on. Porn is horrifying. Omg, can't wait to get choked by a stranger and then deepthroated until I puke, and then have him cum on my face like I'm a human urinal! You think sex is a ritual that bonds two people together once sufficient trust has been established and maybe even some kind of long term commitment, like marriage? Weeeeeird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:31 AM |
| – | Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etcMen used to wear high heels & powdered wigs. We could make it happen :| | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you define a female friend?If I think your definition of a friend is actually an acquaintance (anyone you just met & talked to a minimum of one or two times and have the means to talk to again) and you think my definition of friend is too restrictive (someone I've known for a minimum of around 6 months-2 years who knows me on a deeper than surface level basis, who I enjoy being around), then yeah, we need definitions. Is a female friend a coworker a man is chatty with, or a member of a friend/hobby group they enjoy spendi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?How many women have you dated, irl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life.I also find it hilarious that men just selectively don't see any women who struggle as much as they do. There are women who never learn that doing those things is necessary or how to do them. Women are capable of being shitty friends, struggling socially, and being anxious basket cases who really can't be a good friend to anyone, or even just moving too many times and never developing close friendships. People who don't do the work end up like this. It's a personal failure, even in cases where t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life.bs mindgames and pretending you're just "seeing where the things go" like you aren't actually interested in your partner Is this the way you interact on dates? You don't have to do that, fyi. You can come into it saying, "hi, I think you're attractive, I want a family (or not)." if you want to attract someone who's no nonsense and also looking for a life partner. Or you can be friendly to everyone and treat your dates the same way-- have a good conversation, do something cheap/free and enjoy the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 05:50 AM |
| 2 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.I've experienced it :) I used to use chatrooms & forums; never disclosed my sex and used a masculine username. Nobody would talk to me. So I ended up further and further outside my comfort zone. I'd start replying to people even though they would be cliquey and literally ignore my presence, and then I'd start bantering based on stuff they said, but basically out into the void. The same can be true of irl-- I experienced that, too, lol. I don't agree with OP on her take that if nobody wants to kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:27 AM |
| – | Women have no problems with "power dynamics" if it’s something they’re attracted to and validates their egosI see you post the same thing all the time, OP. You really need to seek help irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:17 AM |
| – | Red pill should go to therapy to learn how to listen.So you selectively listen to only some women and only some of the things they say, mostly on rage bait social media. Not sure this is the same thing as having a one on one conversation with somebody as an individual, but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:15 AM |
| – | Red pill should go to therapy to learn how to listen.Ignoring is an action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:13 AM |
| 4 | what is it you think when men complain?100%. I literally just want to know you heard me, you understand, you aren't immediately trying to find a way to interpret what I said in the most negative way possible, and that I'm not alone. That somebody gets it. Sometimes, this leads to asking for an opinion or advice. Sometimes it leads to wanting help brainstorming. First part can't be skipped otherwise I have no idea you if actually listened or understand wtf I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Would you like to live in a post gender society?I'd love to live on the moon in a private apartment building where I own all the units. And I'd like antennae. Fluffy antennae, like a moth. In all seriousness, the internet was a mistake and I'm eagerly awaiting the asteroid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 04:12 AM |
| – | Everything that men claim women are is pure projection.Ain't nothin down there but dirt, I'm afraid. That's ok tho cuz most grave diggers are men, too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 04:11 AM |
| 3 | There are similar patterns in men anticipating sex, and women anticipating commitmentCongrats OP, you reinvented the wheel. Women use everything they have to get commitment and men use everything they have to get sex. Nobody knew this before your post. Lol. If you want sex, hire a prostitute & get an OF subscription. It's that easy. The woman you dated wanted a life partner. So she did what people do when they want to build a relationship: she cooked for you to show she was useful & not a dependent and to create a long term bond with you. I'm not sure if you know this, but that'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyMeritocracy just means that the person most fit for the role will get chosen, rather than being chosen due to some relationship bs. She's saying that standards are down to the individual, and if one woman is happy to stay single instead of settle for someone she doesn't want, then her standards aren't harming anyone because the men who would be interested in her can always find someone else, who may have standards that they'd fit. One woman's 4 is another's 6, and both parties may be 3's accordi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”I think the issue is that there are people who don't have any social hobbies, male & female. There are people who've done the things you mention but never met anyone. After a certain point, if it doesnt just work out for you, you're going to be a lot more single minded about getting what you want and less carefree about letting it happen.. since it hasnt and/or wont, given your current lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 01:41 AM |
| 2 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Well, women want those things, too <-< We just also need emotional safety & conversation a lot more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:49 AM |
| 3 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”No normal person would ever turn marriage into an issue of validation. This site collects the most deranged opinions, i swear to god. Half of these people have probably never even had a friend before and are so paranoid they cant comprehend connection without some kind of fucked up psychological pathology tainting things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:37 AM |
| 4 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Tbf, going to a social event to socialize isn't desperate or pathetic. We live in such backward times that we're really telling people "go sit in your house, alone, and scroll yer dang screen" rather than "go out & mingle". And yet 15 years ago, it was seen as desperate and pathetic to try to find a partner online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:34 AM |
| 6 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”I honestly think we'll never stop having this argument because this is all circular. He doesnt go to a dating event because relationships often form from friendships. Especially if you crave a deeper relationship built on shared interests, personality, and humor. Yes, people can get lucky through an app or speed dating. But the far more enjoyable route for many people is to suss out a group and then gravitate towards someone in particular. And with more time to meet people and without being inst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:30 AM |
| 4 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”Yeah, but the people youre referring to are Redditors... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:16 AM |
| 6 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”I think the problem is that people who are lonely and isolated cant really focus on hobbies. They need friends. If your interests are reading and watching movies, there's no group that caters to those interests. Ergo, you have to join something later in life that you dont really care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceTHERES NO MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND WOMEN. I took that to mean she was referring to certain kinds of men, not all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:03 AM |
| – | Women are the one radicalizing menSince you don't include numbers, neither of those statements are factually, statistically valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:19 AM |
| – | Women are the one radicalizing menWomen hate 40% of men Well, 70% of men have penises growing out of their eyeballs. don't feel attracted to 80% of men Did you know 92% of men have spatulas for hands Half or 80% of there policies are made to help women and hurt men or take taxes from men to pay for women. 112.6% of baboons share genetic links with men over the age of 40.5. Isn't that crazy? I freaking love stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Women ignore men on purposeWhat language do you speak? I can tell it's not English, and I'm just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:49 AM |
| 5 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.He's trying SUPER hard lmao. I bet his ego is as fragile as thin ice tho. Poke it and he'll cry :'( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:30 AM |
| – | Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men?I really love how you took the choices of a few women and applied that broadly to all women in an accusatory and smug way. Men made approaching OR responding to them such a life threatening minefield by raping and abusing women that we have to be extremely careful about who we allow into our lives. Men did that. Men did it. Men created that quagmire. Only men can solve it. Jesus dude, why don't you do something good with your life instead of waste it embittered. You'll never get a girlfriend thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Talking to women is impossible.it would never cross my mind to want to talk to a stranger in a cafe based on the t-shirt they are wearing. Then I take it you have enough friends & people who love you, such that you aren't in a place where you need to find new connections. If I as a woman walked up to a woman I didn’t know out of the blue and started talking to her, that would be weird. Actually no. This was normal human behaviour before the nightmare of whatever the fuck the last 15ish years has been. It's called being friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:18 AM |
| 2 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?It actually is necessary. People are more prone to heart disease and dementia when suffering chronic isolation. You could say eating more than the bare minimum to survive isnt necessary, but you'd be technically wrong. To be healthy, you have to eat a certain amount not to suffer negative effects to your health or even to not feel pain. It's like making a case that eating one piece of bread a day "isn't ideal". Um, yes, starvation isn't ideal x'D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Most women have someone.Why are you being a doormat for anyone? Does that mean you put up with being treated badly by someone who doesnt care about you, hoping she'll eventually sleep with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Most women have someone.Hey, maybe you should try it <_< Looked pretty good on Johnny Depp when he played Jack Sparrow. You never know, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 06:03 AM |
| 1 | The idea that men shouldn’t approach women is dying out in the mainstreamI get the feeling you don't actually want to know. Do you actually? Cuz I'd be down to talk about it a bit if you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?The work thing.. you know what i don't get? Why people don't go super slow and/or exchange contact into when someone leaves. As for hobby groups, I think people are very protective over their group. Similar to work, if things go sour, now your weekly social outlet is awkward. I get the feeling people are becoming more closed off on every front. Don't meet people at work, hobby groups, at the grocery store, on the street... like, where IS it ok to talk to people?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 4 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?relationships aren't really a "requirement" anymore. I've heard people say this but I don't understand. Aren't like 50% of us in the west on antidepressants, and isn't there a loneliness epidemic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Inability to attract a woman isn’t always bad personality.I don't think people know that they're entitled, emotionally immature, narcissistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Inability to attract a woman isn’t always bad personality.Plus, there's a whole world beyond "asshole or violent". A lot of men aren't empathetic, kind, playful, warm, welcoming, or inviting. They do nothing to make other people feel comfortable or reassured, don't show friendship to anyone who needs it, don't even show curiosity in others. I'd consider that to be one flavor of "bad personality" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red PillDid ChatGPT help you with that reply ;P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 10:30 PM |
| 1 | People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable womanIt's better to be alone than with the wrong person, at least from the female perspective. The only people who can tolerate a relationship like that are people who use their partner in some way (for sex or resources, or are so dysfunctional themselves that they feed off the ongoing tension) "Decenter men", as I understand it, isn't about pretending you don't care about wanting a partner. It's about trying to move on, shift your focus to the things you have control over in life. Trying to be healt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | The average woman would fail at dating as a MenJust because theoretically woman have more options on a dating app doesn’t mean they are actually into those guys. It can actually be traumatizing to interact with these people. They're all the same: generally pretty stupid, with massive egos and ugly personalities. They don't appear to feel empathy for other people and all are really entitled. I tried to date somebody I later found out had red pill beliefs, who I initiated with. The guy actually spent time complaining to me about women. He happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 09:09 PM |
| – | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red Pill(Side note: I used ChatGPT to help summarize and polish this argument — the views are my own.) Dude. Writing is equivalent to thinking. You can't think for yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.Welp, fantastic discussion. Thanks for the chat xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.Tell me what context is and I'll give you a more well thought out answer! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.So you don't know what context is. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 12:45 AM |
| – | Changing your behavior does not earn you a relationship, only validation"don't be weird," which essentially serves to mute some aspect of the man's personality or force neurodivergent men to mask. Do you feel like antisocial behaviour should be accepted by other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenWho hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenWho's experiences are these? I don't get why so many arguments here are made in such absolutes Usually people with low intelligence or autism. People like that struggle to think in hypotheticals and see everything in very black & white terms. They're also usually stunted because growing up, nobody likes them, and they get fewer opportunities to socialize and be socialized by the kids and people around them. Some of this is also down to neglect suffered in early childhood; parents not mirroring t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.Genuine question: do you not understand what "context" is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.I guess it is kinda complex when you don't have a brain that picks up on social cues naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenif there was a complete lack of reciprocation they wouldn’t be someone I would call a friend. Totally think this is the whole problem. Women tend to try harder to keep people in their lives based on who they hope that person could someday be, whereas men will basically only do that when they're approaching a woman they're romantically interested in and then stop once she agrees to date him. So we end up giving too much to people who we shouldn't. I recently initiated with a guy, and in as little… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 08:15 AM |
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