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Men are disposable. Women are rare valuable resources. This is just the way it is. 9 men and 1 women can only make 1 baby in 9 months. 9 women and 1 man can make 9 babies in 9 months. Now that women can support themselves, there is effectively no use for men. I wish guys on here would realize this. Don’t feel bad that no women wants you. You were born a man, meaning you do not have inherit value. You have to fight and struggle to earn it, and you will likely lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:48 AM
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This kind of man/relationship isn’t acceptable anymore. Men now have to be adults, imagine that! Handle your own appointments and bills like a friggin adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:24 AM
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Study after study says men are more affected by a break up. How else would you interpret that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:39 PM
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Why do you think your experience with men in your family is applicable to all men? The men in your family sound like children, to be honest. Maybe that kind of man was acceptable before, but not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:37 PM
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Two things. One, there is no reason why emotions are tied to consciousness. Being conscious of emotions is a seperate thing to having the emotions. Second, we don’t actually know nor have proof that babies at that age are conscious. We can’t even pinpoint consciousness in adults, other than “I think therefore I am”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:47 AM
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You’re the one assigning nonsense to an entire gender. Ever heard of a self report? That’s what your post, and most posts by guys claiming “all men”, are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:43 AM
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How is sex more freely accessible today? The height of hook up culture was 2008. It has been in decline since then, and took a nose dive during Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:24 PM
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Of course it is honey. Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:29 PM
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It was a failure of a protest. Trying to reclaim the word “slut” as a positive fell flat. The rape issue was not in public discourse about this. A failure of a protest. All people saw was women in a self proclaimed “slut walk”, dressed in skimpy clothing, demanding that nobody calls them sluts. Why didn’t they go with “clothing doesn’t make someone a slut”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:32 PM
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You are the one being overly emotional. Seems like you get off on it. And having a stick in your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:27 PM
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If you’re not going to respond to what I’m saying, and go on an unhinged rant instead, then I’m done. Go back to 2x
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:48 AM
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First of all, take the stick out of your ass. Please. You are completely and utterly missing my point in your keyboard rage. Men have been getting constant societal messaging that “all women are beautiful.” Having looks preferences as a man gets you shamed. Why is it a-OK for women to explicitly state their preferences and shame men who don’t meet them, but men get shamed for having any preference at all. Maybe the commonality is your urge to shit on and shame men? Seems to be. Have you not seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:21 AM
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This is also why they are attracted to dark triad traits. A psychopath on your side is good protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:51 PM
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It’s the schizophrenic messaging being put out that is causing men to have this confusion. It seems half of women say height is super important to attraction, while the other half say it doesn’t matter. That betrays the “it’s biological” explanation and suggests it’s cultural or learned. There is also a bit of dissonance when there is a push with women to say “all bodies are beautiful” while simultaneously saying “short guys are unattractive, deal with it.” It’s either one or the other. If you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:49 PM
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I don’t think the decline in the top 5% of players is indicative of anything other than people are taking sex more seriously now. Good. An average of 90 women is fucking insane and not normal nor healthy. That’s more women than our ancestors probably met in their entire lives. Society is moving away from being hyper-fixated on sex. Again I see this as a positive. The last gasp of this, to me, was the “slut walks”. Women protesting being called sluts for having tons of sex while simultaneously ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:04 PM
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The height of hookup culture was 2008, according to studies. That was peak “everyone is getting laid”. I remember that period. I was in university. A guy on my floor was having a dilemma. A girl he slept with once wanted to come over again. He was conflicted because, as he said, sleeping with her twice means he “likes” her. He was unsure if he liked her. Honestly, good riddance to hookup culture. I knew plenty of people that hated the fact that dating had to start with sex first. Sexual compatib…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:34 AM
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I would call that a “ride or die” and it’s pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:01 AM
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So you’re just going to skip the part where it says this effect is more pronounced in women? It’s right there in the discussion section at the top. Also, this study is about self perception not perception of others. Please read the study before you use it as evidence. At least the abstract and discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:58 AM
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I’ve actually seen this. Where less attractive women seem to have an easier time having male friendships. Like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:54 AM
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It’s women who are against male only spaces. You must be quite young to not remember the controversies over male-only clubs. Threaten to take away female only places being this back into conversation and hopefully the dissonance becomes plainly visible to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:50 AM
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One study = settled science? Pleas go back to school and finish your education.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:02 AM
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Found the person who actually took a statistics class. Thank god. Correlation does not equal causation. The effect could go in reverse, or be related to a third unknown variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:01 AM
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I think you fundamentally do not understand statistics at the population level. The study you posted in no way says women are “better off” looking for a man than staying single. That’s an individual decision based on an individual situation and individual reasons. The fact that the largest group of convicted criminals are black men does not mean you should assume all black men are criminals. Another example of the fallacy of applying population statistics to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:59 AM
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Why should women get women-only spaces while men aren’t allowed? That’s my issue. We need to decide as a society if we want to live in a society without gender barriers, or one with segregated gendered spaces. Not “rules for thee but not for me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:46 AM
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Society has deemed these places inappropriate because men can make connections that help their career. These places have been forced to allow women in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:36 AM
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What about a men’s only social club? Men’s only golf club?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:53 PM
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The idea of opening a “man shed” was talked about in my local subreddit. A place for men to bond by working on projects together. Cue the comments about it being a breeding ground for incels and nazis. Saying it’s sexist to exclude women. It’s not fair that men get to network here and make job connections in a place where women are not allowed. And yet I see place after place and convention after convention aimed squarely at helping women network with other women. The cognitive dissonance betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:43 PM
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There needs to be a societal shift to say that not all men are predator monsters, men are allowed in public spaces. Woman who complain about this or worse, push initiatives to kick men out of places, need to be shamed. Like how we would shame a country club that only allows men. We need to abolish women’s only places like gyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:39 PM
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The average man has essentially nothing in common with politicians. This is a really poor take. Politicians don’t care about the constituents who vote for them, why would they fight for gender issues that don’t effect themselves in the slightest? Just because most politicians are men, does not mean most men can become a politician. This should be really obvious but apparently it needs to be repeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:36 PM
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All mothers are women. If men are like this today…where did they learn that from? Men don’t appear out of some other dimension fully formed with all of their biases and issues. They are raised. By mothers and fathers. By a society that is…50% women. Why did men help women push for equal rights, votings rights, etc…? Why is it their responsibility? Because we live in a society and improving society should be everyone’s goal. Today, it isn’t about improving society. It’s about “fight for what bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:33 PM
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After having tried to intervene on a situation, only to have both parties turn against me, my stance is now a hard “no”. I thought I was helping an abused woman get help. In an emergency situation where the woman said the boyfriend was “on something” and trying to kill her. So I helped. Dude ends up in jail. Breaks restraining order and gets back in touch with the girlfriend. They get back together. Now he’s out of jail and threatening to kill me. I will never, ever, ever intervene in another si…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:11 PM
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I get what you’re saying, but there is a growing movement that is pushing things like “date within your race”. Mostly it’s black women and Indian men pushing this. This isn’t the 90s where racial divisions were supposed to be ignored. Now, race is highly important, it’s a huge part of someone’s identity, and race needs to be a deciding factor in things like employment and relationships. The left and right have completely flipped positions on race, which feels weird because my views have not chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:24 PM
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So until what age should we still be considering people “children”? 30? There are people in their 50s who are still clueless. So maybe childhood should extend to age 60? We are approaching crazy town with this rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:17 PM
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It’s ironically very anti-women. As if a grown ass adult women is incapable of making this decision for herself. I had friends who admitted to being into guys 20+ years older. Either we shame these women as equally as we do the men (both are consenting adults), or we let people have dating and sexual preferences without judgment. It’s interesting how anti-women some women will go in their pursuit to paint men as monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:14 PM
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Or have some self respect and don’t be a sugar daddy? It’s quite pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:05 PM
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Naw, that ain’t it chief. Yes, a lot of people experience a rejection or unrequited love. That’s not the issue. The issue is holding this torch for years. Making alt social media accounts with the girls name (what in the actual fuck?). Telling your wife you don’t believe in love because this white women rejected you 20 years ago. That’s not normal nor healthy. The severe lack of any personal or emotional growth by this guy is astounding. If you fall into PUA then bounce back out, nobody cares. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:36 PM
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I’m sorry, but no. This is not normal male behaviour. Far from it. I had an unrequited crush on my 20s. Though it was my soul mate. I haven’t thought of this women for years until I read this post. I don’t fantasize about her, ever. This has nothing to do with porn. Porn is impersonal. This is VERY personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:29 PM
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You said there is an implication behind it when said to a women. What did you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:14 PM
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So it’s obviously sexual if a man says it to a woman, but reverse the genders and it’s “I dunno”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:18 AM
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Kids rebelling against parents…tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:56 PM
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It would be something that you and I can’t imagine right now. That’s why it’s futile to try to predict that far into the future. Perhaps AI and robots replace all jobs and there is no longer a “need” for human work, so all the projections of economic turmoil due to declining populations go out of the window. Reproduction will become purely a hobby. It probably won’t be that though, because that is something we can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:55 PM
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The latter is…education, information and discussion. How is that more brute force than raising a child in a closed environment without outside influence? Who is stealing children? Do you mean public school?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:52 PM
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Statistically, London had a real concern in the 1800s about the streets being overrun with horse shit as the number of people with horses was sharply increasing. This was based on statistical projections. They didn’t predict cars being invented. Trying to predict population trends 300 years out, especially in this age of innovation, is incredibly foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:50 AM
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The age of low religiosity now spring out of an age of maximum religiosity. It didn’t happen because atheists had more children than religious folk. The real split is birthing rates is due to intelligence. The more intelligent a couple is, the more educated a couple is, the more career successful a couple is, the less children they have. Idiocracy. This is true regardless of religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:47 AM
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The goal of liberal progressives is not to maximize the number of children. Spreading culture through brute force numbers is a conservative tactic. Those “quiver” weirdos who consider children to be “arrows” for the future fight. It’s a thing, these people are real, and they are training in militias for this “fight”. Liberal progressives didn’t get to their place today via birthing liberal babies. Their tactic is to speak to the vulnerable and disenfranchised and offer solutions. Not alway good …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:43 AM
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You are ignoring the parts of history where immigrants were new. First generation immigrants. They always hold onto their home country’s culture strongly. Speak their native language at home. They are always rejected by the host country’s culture. It takes a generation or two for them to integrate and be allowed to integrate. I’m Irish. We were treated like shit when we arrived to the new world. Controversial take, but Irish indentured servants were treated worse than black slaves. Scientists at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:37 AM
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Impressive mental gymnastics! I actually thought the Barbie movie had a good message for guys - don’t let your life revolve around a women. Ken is basically a simp. Barbie world is the inverse of real world and it shows the flaws in both kinds of gender-dominated societies. But that point is lost on people who like to complain about Barbie without having seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:24 AM
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It’s really not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:24 AM
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I am not. That’s the bare minimum to be an attractive option. A lot of guys can’t achieve this. This wasn’t an issue back in the day, it’s a modern day issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:18 PM
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This is the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:09 PM
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You cannot control what people do to you, but you can control how you react to it. I never said ignore it. I said deal with it. People get dealt much worse cards in life, and still recover. You are just making up excuses. Fix yourself. Then you will be in a position to help others. Whining and “woe is me” is not going to change the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:27 PM
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Are you going to build a Time Machine and raise yourself? No? Then shut up and take some responsibility for your life instead of blaming others. Stop with the victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:54 PM
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She’s known as the girl who hangs out as friends. Again, what is the problem here? I’m wondering what the ideal situation would look like for you. Single men and women living seperate lives, unable to form friendships unless it’s strictly for mating purposes. Any potential hang out has terms pre-discussed and agreed upon and notarized by a licensed lawyer. Video games and social media have completely neutered your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:33 PM
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This woman point blank tells people she prefers male friends. What more do you want? Are you suspicious of every mixed gender friendship? Are attractive women not allowed to have male friends? Not allowed to hang out past 9 PM? What, exactly, is the problem here? We have one girl explicitly stating why she wants to hang out. And all these guys trying to flip a friendship into a relationship. Again, the fault is squarely on the guys here. You haven’t answered with your age so I assume you are ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:56 PM
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Parties. Or playing an instrument and joining a band. Or painting and joining classes/clubs/art exhibits. There is a whole subsection of activities that people used to do for fun…but don’t anymore because of video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:50 PM
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A planet where the women says point blank “I’m here for friendship, I prefer male friends.” This ain’t rocket science bud. You even said this girl is known for doing this. So every guy does a friend hang out with the “friends only” girl hoping they are secretly the one to break on through? Only one side is being unreasonable here, and it’s the guys. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:21 PM
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Online dating is based on first impressions. Which is your photos, your bio. If you can’t be assed to put effort into that, why should one believe you will put effort into dating, relationships, or anything else? Kinda unreal how men talk about being lonely and unable to find dates, only to put 30 seconds into their profile using pictures from the last time they got fucked up drunk at a bonfire. This is the equivalent of going to a bar or the club wearing pajamas, and complaining nobody is givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:17 PM
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Your inability to be friends with a women who is attractive is your fault, not womens. God forbid you find a friend attractive, the absolute horror! This girl seems very clear about wanting to be just friends. If someone clearly states they just want friendship, and you hang out hoping it turns into a date…bro again that’s on you. I really hope you and your friends are 16 and this is teenage hormones making you stupid. Otherwise you need to go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:04 PM
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Are you professionally diagnosed? Diagnosis usually comes with therapy and training to develop skills to compensate. Many people with autism so just fine, have careers and social lives and romantic relationships. Think of it like hardware versus software. You don’t have the “social cues” hardware, but you can emulate it in software with practice. I have to suspect most of the men claiming to be autistic are not actually properly diagnosed. A doctor will not just give you a paper saying “you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:54 PM
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Do you live in a Western country?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:50 PM
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Why are you struggling to understand this? There are more options than “isolate in your basement” and “hit on literally everything with two legs and boobs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:49 PM
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All men’s problems are actually because of a women. Unbelievably bad take. Y’all push back (rightly) when women blame literally everything on men…then go and do the same. SMH Regardless of your mother, you as an adult man need to fix your shit. Excuses are for losers. Be a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:47 PM
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Guys start porn and video games long before puberty. You can’t have an effect before the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:43 PM
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So we just abort male children en masse because they are male? Can you kindly fuck right off with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:42 PM
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Video games ruined a generation of men. Change my mind. I know guys who have like 6k hours into League of Legends. Imagine if they spent half that time doing…literally anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:41 PM
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No, she is right. A good friend of mine showed me their Tinder matches. I was utterly shocked at the low effort shitty profiles and horrible pictures. The messages my friend got were either just “sup” or straight out the gate a dick pic. If Tinder is representative of average men, then average men are fucked. I say this as a guy. Seeing my friend’s Tinder matches was the biggest confidence boost for me, because I didn’t realize the competition was that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:39 PM
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Do you have any kind of social life? Or just gym and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:32 PM
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This sub is mostly men. I know plenty of women who are complaining. I’ve seen their online dating results, and it’s honestly shocking. Yeah they get 50 messages a day. But it’s 50 messages from guys that, honestly, look mostly horrible. Horrible pictures. No personality. Dead fish or dead animals pictures. Pictures of them smoking and drinking. And these guys either just say “sup” or they send an unsolicited dick pic. I am lucky enough to see both sides here. A lot of men seem to be stuck in ado…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:18 PM
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2x subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:06 PM
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I think they would. Beauty is not objective, it’s subjective. Time, place, culture all play a part. It’s all relative to your environment. A super attractive Asian man in Asia will struggle relatively in a US market, for example. Because, culturally here, Asian men are rated as the least attractive. There isn’t an “objective” reason for this, Asian men are not objectively less attractive. It’s all subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:58 AM
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You are arguing against yourself here. Attraction is illogical. Except Red Pill makes it logical? Pick a side
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:56 AM
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The negative connotations are you will have anger and impulse control issues. I assumed that’s the part that was making women nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:29 PM
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This is a biological reaction. It isn’t magic. Magic is just something you don’t understand. It absolutely can be studied. Researchers have been studying this for decades. Why couldn’t it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:15 AM
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Can’t you make similar arguments about an employer hiring an employee? Employers have individual preferences, types and needs when it comes to hiring an employee. You can’t force employers to feel a certain way about a potential employee (I.e based on race or gender or other born attributes). For example, what if an employer just does not want to work with black people? Or women? Society has been pushing for equality in many areas, very strongly in employment. This subreddit and similar are tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:26 AM
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Being confident you can defend yourself reduces your anxiety in a sticky situation, which reduces the chances of violence happening in the first place. So if you really want to protect your face…learn some self defence. The number one self defence rule is still run away if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:42 PM
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Paying for something that regular people get for free will forever stain your soul. It definitive proof that you as a man are a failure. You seem to be a prostitute yourself? Your opinion will be a bit biased here. Like asking a drug dealer if drugs are good for their customers…of course they say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:46 AM
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Paying for sex isn’t going to make me less anxious in the future with women. Because once I’ve paid for sex once, I can never undo that. That will be forever…something that I had to pay for. I’ve been to the strip club, and the fake interest in me so I pay more money is very apparent and not flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:53 AM
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What is an example of a negative that men do, and the reason for why it got that way? If the reason is social, doesn’t it stand to reason that a social movement can change these behaviours?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:10 AM
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Your ignorance is about the very real struggles that woman still face today. I know a ton of woman that have been harassed, creeped on, stalked, etc by guys at their work. I have never, ever heard an equivalent story with genders reversed. We still have a very long way to go with woman being treated as equals on the workplace. What do you mean by men don’t care about women having “things”, they care what it means for men? What does it mean for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:53 AM
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Do you live in a country or culture that generally discourages sex before marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:22 PM
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Is there somewhere between owning a large house and living in a trailer? You speak like wanting decent living conditions is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:46 PM
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That’s an incredibly low bar you chose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:22 PM
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I disagree that the average man can achieve status. The stats don’t bear that out. Most men are getting left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:21 PM
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Yes, it’s called a Loud Minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:39 PM
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The patriarchy is a control system created by the elites. It punishes men as much as it does women. Learn a bit more about your feminist theory before spreading anti-male bullshit. Ask any man on here, who it is that has a problem with men with emotions…it’s women. Patriarchy is patriarchy, but women are upholding the patriarchy in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:56 PM
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They say that but they don’t mean it. The number one absolute god-given truth that I can attest to is that men cannot be emotional. You will be shunned by friends and family. If you’re not Mr Big Energy, stay away from people. The truth is nobody likes emotional people. Do you like emotional women? There is a reason for the phrase “man up”. It’s the only thing you’re allowed to do, shove down your emotions and put on a fake face and keep working. It sucks but it is what it is and it’s never chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:53 AM
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There is also the problem of women disliking you once you become emotional. You step too far out of the gender role and they can’t see you as a man anymore. Nobody likes being around emotional people. I think that’s just a standard for everyone. An overly emotional women isn’t great either. You are either bringing good energy and people want to be around you, or you bring negative energy and people push you away. Nobody enjoys negative energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:56 PM
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What is the difference between a “right” man and a “wrong” man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:23 PM
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The problem is there is no agreed upon definition of what the “right kind of partner” is. We teach men to treat women as equals in society, we don’t teach them to be masculine and dominant over them. A lot of men have the notion that a healthy relationship is one that is equal - no one is dominant or submissive. If this isn’t what women are attracted to, then we should be teaching our young men to act differently. It’s no surprise we have declining relationship numbers when men are taught to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:24 AM
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The lack of sympathy between the sexes is a huge issue. At least you are cognizant of your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:19 AM
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Need? Or want? The difference is important. Nobody is dying from lack of hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:21 PM
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Don’t use autism as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:20 PM
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It’s 100% this. I don’t even think this is controversial. Marriage used to be a matter of survival, that’s no longer the case. Of course that means some men will be left out. It is what it is. If anything, men need to adopt this attitude of independence that women have, because some number of guys will never have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:19 PM
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When people say “independent woman”, they don’t mean living in the woods off the grid. It never meant that. It means living without a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:17 PM
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They do. Plenty of videos of western women treating Filipina women as sub human. And plenty of Filipina women snapping back at them. It’s a bit of a social media back and forth. These women in the Philippines are university educated and taught English since grade school. On the average I would say more intelligent than the average western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:30 PM
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I love when female copium crosses into racism. Stay woke!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:32 PM
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Bro…your plan is to move to the Philippines and live like a local? If you’re not working remote for a US company and for US wages…you’re doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:31 PM
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It’s a first step, and a whole hell of a lot better than getting 0 responses. These foreign dating sites are amazing for boosting men’s self confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:28 PM
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I love how you assume that if a man is struggling with women…it’s because the man doesn’t view women as fully human. Literally everything is men’s fault, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:24 PM
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I know a couple that doesn’t use a condom because “it doesn’t feel good”. They have three kids and could have another at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:45 PM
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It’s a self fulfilling problem. Less guy out and about makes it harder to make friends. The decline in people going to bars and live music over the past 10 years is huge. Whether it’s video games or Netflix, people are more choosing to stay inside than go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:43 PM
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I did school, I did college. Tons of guys still spent their free time gaming instead of socializing. It’s a plague on modern men. You won’t convince me otherwise. The hours that men put into video games…just imagine if that was towards literally anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:58 PM
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It absolutely has an effect. Men start dropping from heart attacks around age 50. Others live into their 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:46 PM
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Same here. I can’t rationalize having a child when I know that child will suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:36 PM
1

Are you talking from experience? Or shit you read online?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:28 PM
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Thank you for being a shining example of my point! Guys are so brain broken today that they can’t even imagine a fulfilling life without video games. You have one life. Don’t waste it sitting on your ass for hours in front of a screen. Save the video games for when you’re old and feeble. Live your fucking life, do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:16 PM
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Most immigrants come as a couple. Married and with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:12 PM
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What? Don’t blame your alcoholism on women. Be responsible for your own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:07 PM
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Is it the women? Or the men who are dating multiple women? Why are you blaming one side but not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:04 PM
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I always get downvoted for this, it I blame gaming. SO many guys my age and younger do nothing with their free time but play video games. Easily 4+ hours a day. Imagine how much confidence and how much more attractive these guys would be if they were developing a skill instead of wasting their time in front of a glorified slot machine? At this point it’s difficult to find a guy who DOESN’T binge on video games. It’s sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:03 PM
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“Common knowledge” and “actually a good thing” are miles apart. It used to be common knowledge that people are fuck bunnies and need to be constrained for the benefit of society. That’s what marriage is. That’s what punishment for infidelity is. So something being common knowledge doesn’t mean that it’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:59 PM
1

But you can muster up yourself to tell men their concerns don’t matter. Real nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:56 PM
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I wonder about how relationship is defined in this study. Is a FWB thing considered a relationship? Is it just up to the respondent? I could see there being a disagreement on terms between genders. I would be more interested in a study that measures monogamy. I’m not really interested in FWB or “situationships” and I don’t consider those real relationships. Whenever a study like this comes out, we should be suspicious and look for flaws in the methodology. Instead, people take it at face value a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:53 PM
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Not my problem. The way society is set up, it is discouraging people having children. I’m a symptom of the problem, not the problem itself. You have to be an idiot to have children in 2023, I’m not an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:34 PM
3

Less money, less other things to do. I truly believe this is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:51 PM
2

I graduated in the top 5% of my class. I am never having children. The only way for me to have a decent life is if I focus on my career and side hustles. Housing is too expensive where I live to even dream of owning a home, so I’m going to make money and travel. I have family member that struggled to graduate. They have multiple children because they don’t use condoms, they use the rhythm method. Because condoms don’t feel as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:48 PM
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I know. I was just trying to see if she has a shred of self introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:57 PM
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You’re the one being an emotional illogical mess all over this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:39 PM
3

It’s all cultural, is kinda my point. To further it, hebephilia is culturally equivalent to pedophile in our culture, so arguing about the differences is a moot point. Like I said, plenty of psychological studies to back up the fact that statuatory rape has negative effects on the victim. Just as pedophilia is taboo because of the damage, so is hebephilia. Stop trying to justify hebephilia as innocent or natural or normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:38 PM
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Milf is the top searched porn term. “Barely legal” or similar isn’t even in the top five.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:34 PM
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You just called all men pedophiles…and you’re complaining about personal attacks!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:33 PM
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Pedophilia was culturally accepted in Ancient Greece, among other cultures. So I don’t know how you can say one is “objectively” wrong and the other is “culturally” wrong…both are culturally wrong. You might say there are studies on the negative effects of pedophilia on the victim. I would counter with studies on teens who are victims as well, they also get fucked up. My point here is that there is no difference. Both are cultural. And both are cultural taboos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:32 PM
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Men are attracted to youth…something that every women experiences. Women are attracted to money…something that only a select few men can get. Please, tell me which gender is “worse” here. Men like women for what they are, women like men for what they provide. One of these seems more equitable than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:27 PM
1

So ND dudes have to act non-ND, always be masking, for it to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:47 PM
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Facts. Glad you brought the receipts. I’ve known this for years. I have a family member whose ex is in jail for murdering his own grandmother. She STILL thinks about him, despite being married with two kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:43 PM
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It’s very much true. Just take a look at how dating works out for neurodivergent women versus men. Stark differences. Ignoring this is not to the benefit of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:37 PM
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Want =/= need though. I want a million dollars. I’m not going to die if I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:56 AM
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Women are part of Mother Nature. As are men. As is everything we do. The environment has changed, ergo sexually selective pressures change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:55 AM
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That’s called masking and it’s horrible for mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:50 AM
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ND woman don’t want ND men. Watch videos of ND women talk about how horrible ND men are, it will kill your soul. Nobody wants ND men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:49 AM
0

Why would someone struggling with mental illness want to pass that on to their children!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:48 AM
2

People with ADHD who are managing it properly tend to do better than neurotypicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:47 AM
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The modern world is increasingly selective for the type of person who can be successful. When we were all doing physical labour back in the day, it didn’t matter how intelligent you were. It didn’t matter if you had mental deficits. The 80 IQ socially awkward guy is going to farm the same amount as the 120 IQ social butterfly. The other side of this is that women don’t need marriage to survive anymore. Marriage is now about love, not survival. Lots of guys who would have been settled for, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:45 AM
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Ignoring the very real effects of being neurodivergent is ableism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:35 AM
2

There will always be someone with better cards than you. Doesn’t mean you should just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:33 AM
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Phobia literally means “fear”, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:08 AM
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My province made a big stink about removing protections for trans kids in schools. A freedom of information request was made for any standing complaints against trans children…there were none. This is an example of trans issues being that don’t really matter. Fear of trans far outweighs any actual issues going on with trans students. I would much rather people be discussing taxes, social services, foreign policy, etc…instead of trans issues 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:06 AM
2

What ways do you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:37 PM
6

Woman do tons of shit for attraction. Literally entire industries dedicated to it (fashion, makeup, exercise).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:33 PM
1

They know what to do, they aren’t retarded. C’mon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:31 PM
1

We tried separate but equal, it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:47 PM
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It depends on how rape is defined. Many places define it as penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:45 PM
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Courts rule in favour of what is best for the child. Including child support payments from male rape victims. This has already happened. A 13 year old boy who was raped by his babysitter was charged for child support. The kid lost and has to pay when he turns 18. Sounds cruel, but it would be crueler for the child to suffer than an adult man to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:44 PM
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They know. They aren’t idiots. Nobody believes sitting around all day playing video games by yourself is attractive. You really think Jordan Peterson’s advice of “clean your room” is groundbreaking? That’s basic life skills 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:42 PM
1

What is ROBtube? Stop trying to police what people can and cannot talk about. Simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:27 PM
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That’s an example of “true but obvious things”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:26 PM
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Maybe ask some deeper questions, like why do men overwhelmingly feel this way? Possibly because society treats women better than men? Glad you’re having fun fucking and sucking. You have to be dense if you can’t see that that isn’t the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:57 PM
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If you really believe men have it better, why don’t YOU transition?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:42 PM
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It’s discussed, but usually by shills trying to sell some bullshit (Jordan Peterson).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:37 PM
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Not interested in dating a child. Thankfully there are plenty of women out there who can do things like checks notes do paperwork. Your take is so out of touch with every couple I know, including my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:35 PM
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If men had standards, they wouldn’t be hurt so much by rejection. Because a lot of women would fail their standards, if they had some. There’s something odd going on when men seemingly are both desperate for a women…and they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:31 PM
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…this is a debate sub. If you don’t want to debate, don’t come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:28 PM
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Except the patterns only exist with large populations. At an individual level, individual differences far outweighs gender differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:34 PM
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Trump was campaigning on adding a government subsidy for newborns to increase the birth rate. “It’s gonna be a great time for the men out there. I’m jealous of the fun they will have.” He said something along these lines. Basically government money for babies so men can have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:32 PM
1

Stop smoking weed. You are thinking too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:38 PM
6

What should mothers do differently when raising children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:31 PM
1

God forbid men want women who are actually attracted to them and not just looking for a life raft.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:19 PM
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The bans in US states are only for government officials with government phones. It does not ban citizens from using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:29 PM
2

Don’t be foolish, age gaps can definitely be predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:26 PM
1

Women who wouldn’t have given them the time of day 5 years earlier? Nobody likes to be the one that someone settles for. It feels shitty. That’s the male perspective we are talking about here. God forbid some men have some self value and they don’t want to be someone’s “safe backup plan”. This is why there are increasing numbers of intentionally single men in their 30s and 40s, and why articles like in OP are being written.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:24 PM
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I have a family member who has two exes that are now in jail for murder. One of them killed his own grandmother. She STILL talks about that guy to this day. So…yeah it’s real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:14 PM
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Maybe it’s your attitude? I don’t get positive vibes from your username. It sounds sarcastic but I feel it’s the truth. The reason this hasn’t changed over your entire life is because YOU haven’t changed!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:13 PM
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