BeneficialDistance57 Archive

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–	What is the desired financial status women want? Your original point was why would anyone live there which I answered but yeah it’s not perfect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:28 PM
–	What is the desired financial status women want? Not really misleading when salaries are commensurate with increased COL. Even making a similar % after COL means you’ve saved up an insane amount of money compared to the rest of the country. There’s a reason “rich Californians coming into (your state here) and raising housing costs” is a meme. They have saved an amount of money that’ll dwarf what most locals will have made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:20 PM
–	What is the desired financial status women want? Some people are jaded sure but economics don’t lie it’s expensive because of much higher demand than almost anywhere else and that’s because most of the state is gorgeous with great weather and good job opportunities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 06:52 PM
–	What is the desired financial status women want? Have you ever been to the (non-LA) cities up and down the southern CA coast? It feels like Disney world but real. Perfect weather year round, great food, good cultural amenities, I could go on but it the reason it’s so expensive is because it’s extremely desirable. I’d urge you to visit Carmel by the Sea, Santa Barbra, San Diego in the winter and see if you still wonder why people choose to live there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 06:18 PM
0	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? As another anecdote, I’m in medical school and my female classmates who put “medical student” in their dating profiles get significantly less matches than when they leave it out. Men want women who are educated but not necessarily high earners and many men don’t want women who seriously out earn them. Also almost every guy in my class would rather take a smoke show nurse over an average doctor any day. Guys do care less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 05:26 AM
1	Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault? Everyone does it (or wishes they could) the difference is 7 women don’t give 4 men the time of day while more attractive men will fuck less attractive women but not commit. This gives some women a false sense of their attractiveness and ends up with guys generally figuring out their place while more women remain delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 11:55 PM
1	Has it been depressing to read about women's inner thoughts on this subreddit? Do other women really judge you or make negative comments for being with a short guy? That’s actually super sad to hear as a guy who’s pretty short. Never had problems getting women but this shit just saps your confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 11:34 PM
1	How important is a "high-status career" really when it comes to dating? What specialties are you looking into that don’t have more than 40-50 hour weeks as a resident? Never heard of that beyond maybe some derm, psych and PM&R	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 06:08 AM
1	q4a any low libido people here? how is dating for you? Also lower libido and tbh I also see it as a blessing. The girls that I date/FWB with have all been an objective baddies and I have more time to focus on other things when I’m between relationships. When I’m in a relationship libido isn’t an issue bc the attraction is really strong. Kinda best of both worlds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 05:38 PM
15	“Low libido” litmus test. I mean you’re on PPD the only things on here are wild over-generalizations and one size fits all statements lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 12:22 AM
0	We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why? Damn where I live (relatively young wealthy urban area) things like teeth straightening, whitening, dressing at least semi well (no graphic Ts etc.) and proper grooming are the bare minimum I feel like. Once you reach that level though you’re in the game even if you’re below average looking, but not having those means basically game over unless you’re incredibly attractive lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 07:49 PM
2	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? I live in a very fit area. Most of the people here in our demographic are thin she’s not any more in shape than the average girl here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 05:52 AM
1	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? This actually just happened a couple hours ago and it’s a great example. Was out with a friend who showed me the guy she was hooking up with + another guy she’s been going out with from hinge and prob gonna start hooking up with soon. These dudes are EASY 8/10 one of them maybe being higher. Honest to god these guys were very classically good looking. She’s an awesome person with a great personality but she’s prob a 4/10 or 5/10 at best just based on looks. Thats why. Dudes are happy to hook up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 04:29 AM
6	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Actual girls don’t do this. I’ve never heard a hysterical rant about men beyond the classic “men suck” after a bad date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 06:09 PM
-5	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Def not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:14 AM
3	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? My b on the backend of a 16 hour shift and brain dead 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:14 AM
5	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Lol that was never my motive I just like hanging out with people that I actually enjoy being around. If that introduces me to more ppl and I hit it off with them then great but that’s not my goal. Not sure if that was meant ti be sarcasm or not lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:29 AM
43	What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women? Over the last 6 or so years I started becoming friends with more girls just by happenstance. Some of them have become some my closest friends and I prob hangout with more girls than guys now tbh. I’ve also noticed I’ve pulled wayyy more than I ever did before just by being around more of their friends, getting introduced etc. I think if more guys here just tried to actually be platonically be around women they’d understand them more and maybe be less resentful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:16 AM
1	Women don't care what it took to get there, they are just waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners. Def not true. Girls in their 20s value ambition, girls 30+ value results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 09:11 PM
8	If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl? I disagree with this idea. Being ambitious and intelligent can make you attractive to women that may not have been interested based on looks alone and can have nothing to do with gold digging. This idea that women can’t be attracted to anything besides looks and money is definitely inaccurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 03:08 AM
2	Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive men Ok this is a very damaging way to frame the proximity effect but yes this is a real phenomenon. This doesn’t mean you’re unattractive if it’s true it works for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 01:24 AM
16	At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man? I don’t think it’s shitty unless it’s come up and you lied about it. The number of partners I’ve had has rarely come up before a ONS, idk why you’d have to shoehorn in that you haven’t been with anyone. Also for any virgins out there who feel like it’ll be clear you’re a virgin by your performance, there are plenty of dudes who’ve had lots of sex and are terrible at it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 02:17 AM
–	Q4W How do you feel about the ok cupid study? Dataclysm Actually a good book tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 02:15 AM
1	Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail. Google, my friend. Really though it could be BS but I didn’t really feel like putting the time into it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 09:06 PM
3	Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail. Keep in mind only 33% of guys in the US can even grow a beard and likely less can grow a beard that actually looks good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 12:12 AM
8	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. Yeah I think having money is slowly becoming less important meaning more of the focus will shift to looks and (hopefully) personality. Though in my experience looks > personality as long as you meet the minimum of not being super awkward or a creep. I say this as someone with above average looks and a fine personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 03:14 AM
14	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. Agreed looks aren’t an end all be all and I think women have gotten the short end of the stick in the past. I’m just trying to explain why there seems to be a rise in the number of incels. Also I’m interested to see how the “get rich get chicks” strategy works now that more women are becoming financially successful themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 01:50 AM
48	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. You’re correct but the issue is that the genders aren’t interchangeable so that’s where the issue is coming from. Yes women were judged more by their looks, but they were also still able to acquire sex and physical intimacy since women are and have always been the gatekeepers of sex (this is necessary biologically). Since men aren’t the gatekeepers of sex and therefore can’t get physical intimacy as easily, being judged by their looks means only the very attractive are able to gain said intimacy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 01:46 AM
3	We know gym can really fix fat/skinny guys into a more attractive version, what about the rest. No dude you can absolutely tell who goes to the gym with the right outfits. Wear well fitting clothes especially form fitting Ts in the warmer months. You’ll have great arms and your back muscles and pecs can be very apparent even in sweaters etc. think about Chris Hemsworth in a tee shirt, you can tell he goes to the gym without being shirtless. Obv an extreme example but you get the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 01:32 AM