BeneficialTop5136 Archive

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1	How do you pull girls in clubs ? I’m a woman, but I saw your comment and looked you up. Your videos are really good, and your advice applies to both men and women alike. I especially appreciated where you spoke about becoming attached to the wrong people - you mentioned how if a person grew up around a lot of inconsistency, their minds will oftentimes confuse emotional instability with excitement. Very interesting perspective.	/r/seduction	27/04/25 03:55 AM
2	The ugly side of pretty privilege. What are some ugly experiences you encounter as an exceptionally attractive person? God, I empathize with your wife. Discounting any success I have as a given or “luck” based on my looks, rather than intellect or actual hard work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 03:35 PM
4	The ugly side of pretty privilege. What are some ugly experiences you encounter as an exceptionally attractive person? I’ve noticed that many men assume that I’m somehow impervious to feelings such as sadness, loneliness, rejection. It’s hard to connect with someone on a deeper level, as many either automatically assume I’d never be interested in them, or they’re so focused on “impressing” me that they completely miss any opportunity to understand who I really am. It’s hard to explain, but this has taken me out of the dating game. It was all much too mentally draining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 03:32 PM
1	What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late? Absolutely. Lack of purpose, direction or guidance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 05:07 AM
1	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? Oh yeah, definitely. I won’t talk about anything like that around other people, let alone guys! Lol But guys think it’s hilarious. My son thinks it’s hilarious! lol Meanwhile I’m clutching my pearls. 😱 Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 12:56 AM
3	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? Hey, don’t kill the messenger. I’m just answering the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 06:26 PM
2	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? 😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 06:26 PM
30	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick? Fart jokes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 09:50 AM
0	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Noticed that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:20 AM
1	Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women? That’s what inspired my question. Like, it’s all just incredibly depressing and shallow, and I can’t relate to these things in my own life at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 11:19 PM
1	Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women? I know exactly what you’re talking about. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 11:17 PM
1	Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women? Thank you for such a thoughtful reply. I definitely share your dislike for modern hookup culture and in my opinion, this is one of the many negative outcomes of the age of social media. I recommend reading the Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt. It gives intense perspective into what is happening in society, in what they call “the largest social experiment of all time”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 11:15 PM
1	Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women? This sub popped up on my feed when I 1st joined Reddit. At the time, it was some interesting discussion that made me join. I have to ask though; who are these people who post stuff like this on Reddit? Even on the most ridiculous posts, the the commenters are oftentimes much more reasonably-minded (save for a troll or two whose views are so weirdly extreme, I have a hard time believing they’re genuine). This is such a sad, immature and cynical way to look at life. I know or interact with a varie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 04:02 AM
5	Women cannot accurately assess the wall themselves Everyone’s reality is subjective. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 12:26 PM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them Oof, that was a response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 02:38 AM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them Absolutely. Many men and women are guilty of thinking the opposite sex can read their mind. So using my example, say I was interested in this guy. The way that he initially asked, while in his car was still a little risky, because many women have a hard time saying no and it might have created a feeling of obligation to agree. You don’t want that. The best way to ask, if you feel like she’s into you but aren’t sure, would be to simply say “let me take you to dinner” or “how about I take you to l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 01:36 PM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them Lol no, that’s not what I mean. A guy with more experience interacting with women would more than likely be able to pick up on cues that his advances are unwanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 01:10 PM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them Thank you for asking. Physical attraction is important, but even guys who I was initially very physically attracted to have behaved in ways that completely killed my desire, so it’s not only appearance. I can answer your question based on my own experiences. I’ve been told many times that I have a warmth and about me and a personality that evidently comes across as more coy than simple politeness to some guys (not all), even though to me, I’m just smiley and happy most times. I don’t touch or hu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 03:59 AM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them He ruined the friendship because that is not how friends act towards each other. I think a lot of guys are taking THIS example as how a normal guy should act and forgetting social cues and nuance. The girl in the video (or her voice) was relatable. Because you don’t want to be mean or hurt him, but the way she’s really going out of her way to sound “cool, friendly” is exactly the way I’ve acted when a guy friend has done something like this. “Uhhh, why are you acting like that (ha ha)” yet he ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 12:08 AM
2	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them I felt that TikTok so much. Ugh. His face, his uncomfortably-soft voice. No. Lol I feel like if you’re actually unable to see the OBVIOUS reason that we would be so turned off by the way this dude is acting, you need to hone your social skills for little while longer. I have seen people comment that maybe your friend group would be a good place to meet girls but DO NOT do it like the guy in the video. Please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 11:53 PM
–	Hot take: Women would care much less about height if there were widespread awareness about just how little correlation there is between height and penis size (and would also give more short and average guys chance, knowing there might be a pleasant surprise) It doesn’t work that way. We find tall men attractive because of their presence, not their penis size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 04:05 AM
–	Hot take: Women would care much less about height if there were widespread awareness about just how little correlation there is between height and penis size (and would also give more short and average guys chance, knowing there might be a pleasant surprise) I thought that was well-known. It literally has no relation to penis size. We see a tall man as a protector, masculine, etc. Obviously those traits do not match every tall man, but it’s in our subconscious that we perceive tall men that way. Women can be confusing, I know. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 04:03 AM
–	Hot take: Women would care much less about height if there were widespread awareness about just how little correlation there is between height and penis size (and would also give more short and average guys chance, knowing there might be a pleasant surprise) My being attracted to tall guys isn’t related to how big I think their penis is. I’ve dated shorter guys who were well-endowed, and tall guy who were average. It’s the height that makes tall guys attractive. It makes me feel small and protected (whether that’s a reality or just my perception). What you guys will eventually come to understand is that men and women work in different ways. Men are often more physically-minded and literal, and women often have a host of “reasons” she finds someone a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 04:00 AM
1	The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chances But you’re forgetting a crucial detail: attractiveness, competence,likability, et. al, are all subjective to the individual beholder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:37 AM
4	The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chances You’re absolutely right about that. The only way to learn about the world, and how to interact with the people in it, is to go learn about it yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 07:38 PM
17	The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chances Because there is no black and white answer to “how to get a girl” or “how to get a guy”. Any advice from someone is going to be based on that individual’s subjective experiences. Nobody on this sub is kind or nice (that I’ve seen), the women are all over the place, the men are all over the place. Get out into the world and learn for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 05:53 PM
–	Where in the US can you still find someone who isnt shallow? I concur. Scholars worldwide dream of the opportunity to study alongside Rural Christian-American Southerners ™️	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 03:34 AM
–	Where in the US can you still find someone who isnt shallow? What is the gender war?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 03:29 AM
–	Women have been brainwashed by society to identify with the Bourgeoisie, and it’s getting worse by the day Consumerism and a highly materialistic society - including both men and women, is the issue here. Also, it’s TikTok. The most shocking, dividing or salacious antics are also the most viewed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 10:07 PM
8	Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral? My mom was 36 and my dad was 47 when I was born and two years later, my sister came along. My parents maintained a stable, happy home and enviably great marriage for the next 28 years, when my dad passed away. My mom just had no interest in kids at all until she met my dad, and they gave us an amazingly wholesome life. On the other hand, I met a great guy at 23, married and had kids, but said guy had other plans and left, leaving me to raise my kids on my own. It wasn’t always easy, but I’ve giv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 04:31 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself Women have been that way for a long time, I hate to break it to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 04:45 AM
1	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Hmm, ok. I think you may be looking too deep into those types of responses. I would take those comments more in jest/guys giving each other a hard time than actual, experienced-based advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 02:10 AM
1	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 07:18 AM
5	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating But you are correct, many women can orgasm during penetration, as long as their clitoris is also stimulated. But there are those rare unicorns who can orgasm by penetration only, and I salute them. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 08:10 AM
7	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Well that’s not penetration only. Most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 08:08 AM
1	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Well, because sex for a straight person would not be satisfying with only oral, hence his comparison. It IS less of a sex for a straight person who wants piv intercourse. I think a more homophobic statement would be something like “it makes me think of lesbian sex, and lesbians are all disgusting people!” He just didn’t articulate himself well at all. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 08:06 AM
1	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating I agree this is a stupid post, and OP is projecting his own insecurities, but how is it sexist or homophobic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 06:46 AM
9	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Lol Wanna know how I know you haven’t been paying attention to the women you have sex with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 06:43 AM
5	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating You said exactly what I’m thinking every time I see another post here. Yet it’s sort of like looking at an awful car accident; I just can’t look away 🫣	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 06:42 AM
9	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating What person in real life tells someone that though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 01:31 AM
–	„Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did… So in conclusion, OP went outside for four hours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 12:49 PM
1	Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity? Ryan Reynolds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 03:16 AM
5	How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down? If you’re so high value now, why would you be concerned with competition? Based on everything you’ve said, I think it would be a very, very unwise decision to run around on your family. Unless you just want to replace your wife with a hood rat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 05:32 PM
5	How do you think you guys will handle it once it's over and you're settled down? You like attention, you need attention, it’s where you find your self-worth. Like a child constantly wanting to hear that they’re good enough. I can smell this sort of energy in a man from a mile away, especially in “successful” men, and it’s such a turn off. You didn’t say that because of your success, you can now get higher-value women, only that in the hood, your competition will be null. That statement alone screams a lack of self-esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 04:41 PM
2	Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run! You definitely have the right idea there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 07:44 PM
2	Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run! Not to me. “Simping” would be more like your first example. Way too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 07:38 PM
1	Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run! It’s interesting you ask that, because over-texting has ruined a good relationship before. I think it’s more about how much you say in each text. For example, the guy’s response in that first scenario you mentioned. It was way too wordy. The best way to respond to those little insecurities that girls might have (e.g., “I feel ugly today”) is simply “nope. You’re beautiful” or “wanna talk about it?”. Going into long, drawn-out spills like that usually get old fast. I know women can seem a little …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 07:21 PM
5	Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run! But it’s different with texting/in person. In an established relationship, I love when I can talk to him for hours, but in person, not on text.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 06:48 PM
3	Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run! Absolutely! I perceive these types of words TOTALLY different in person than I do on text. Every guy I’ve been crazy about was a short-and-sweet texter (usually quite the opposite of me) but they were always present and made me feel wanted, adored and cared for by their actions when we were together. In my experience, many women tend to show love through words, while men show it through actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 06:42 PM
–	CMV The primary reason why for example Drug dealers have success with women is not because they are „hypermasculine“, it is because they fit perfectly in the „women like men with a interesting life“ theory. This is a great perspective. Yes, all the types of men you describe give off an air of mystery. They’re interesting to the opposite sex because they have a whole life outside of the relationship. Oftentimes they aren’t needy and don’t smother. A girl in her late teens/20s may see a drug dealer as an enigma, which is attractive. A woman in her 30s may not necessarily be interested in a drug dealer, but the same principle of being attracted to someone who does not need you is nonetheless the same.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 02:36 PM
–	It's crazy how a lot of people would rather be lonely forever than give up their mile long list of standards that they want in a partner. Is this really what the world has become? Porn is not the problem, but it is a problem. Before porn became so easily accessible, all of that pent up energy is what helped motivate men to pursue hobbies, take risks, live life. Working out, lifting weights or even just consistent cardio do so, so much more than just make your body look better. These things affect your mind in significant ways. It’s hard to explain, but it really does help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 02:25 PM
5	Are men like Androids? Because every single person is not the same. Every single person is experiencing a subjective consciousness as they navigate this world. To reduce anyone to androids because you aren’t able to “feel their energy” shows either a lack of life experience or lack of empathy on your part. If you’re as intuitive as you claim, you should know this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 06:58 AM
0	Can the mods please make a rule that comments saying that somebody is just lying about their personal experience will be deleted? That’s subjectivity. Similarly, many of the negative replies to your subjective experience, are likely also highly subjective and based on the author’s own experiences. Part of life is developing both grit and empathy; both of which teach you which battles are worth your energy and which ones aren’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 11:42 PM
5	Can the mods please make a rule that comments saying that somebody is just lying about their personal experience will be deleted? This is the world. Not everyone is going to affirm your experiences. That goes for anything with a subjective perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 06:16 PM
4	CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselves Yep, I dated a couple guys like this. It was such a turn-on for me to hear that they spent little to no time at all worrying about or being on social media. To me, it means that they do OTHER things out in the real world. Men used to fill their time with hobbies, work, etc. My ex boyfriend built me a platform bed and two nightstands for my birthday one year. He’s literally never on social media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:33 AM
1	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive Well, yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:16 AM
1	Alcohol is a means of coping with anxiety/poor social skills Mom, how’d you find this sub??	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:03 AM
4	Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200k That’s not real life. They could’ve asked 150 girls the same question, but are only going to post the ones with answers that will generate the most content interactions. Those are videos specifically curated for social media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 01:14 AM
2	If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life? I’m in my 30s, attractive, independent, happy and single. There are a LOT of really great older and younger men everywhere, I just enjoy my solitude and don’t have attachment issues. The ONLY women I know who say things such as “Where are all the good men at?”, “men are dogs”, “I wish I could find a good guy”, are hot messes (even if they hide it well), emotionally immature, and are often in and out of crap relationships. No secure, confident and emotionally-mature woman thinks that way or says …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 05:17 PM
1	CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine. Thank you for saying this! Yes, there’s a huge difference between being “nice” and being spineless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:13 PM
1	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. In what world is this true? Maybe for kids, early 20s but not anytime after that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 02:32 PM
1	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. Lying about what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 04:22 AM
1	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. I don’t know a single woman who’s ever said they want a “sensitive” guy. Lol no one says that in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 04:21 AM
1	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. Well, I mean I’m not against 6’ and up, but 5’10” is a normal height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 04:19 AM
4	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. Yeah, I’m a woman, but as I’m seeing these comments from women about preferring super-short men and yes, that is definitely not the norm. If I were to guess off the top of my head, I’d say that the average height of men I have dated, including the guy I’m dating now were 5’10 at the shortest, and I’m 5’4.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 05:34 AM
2	Redpill ideology is just legitimizing manipulation It sounds like he’s just emotionally immature, to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 04:30 AM
0	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 03:03 PM
1	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you This is pretty cringe. You’re 25, you still have a lot to learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 03:03 PM
1	Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOL Right. Because men and women think differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 05:30 AM
4	Have you ever been aroused by a man's personality who otherwise had no remarkable physical qualities? If so, what drew you in to him ? I agree with this. My last boyfriend was not going to be winning any beauty contests, but he was very masculine, assertive, optimistic, kind and confident, and eventually I agreed to let him take me to dinner. He was amazingly attentive in bed. Also, he was financially secure and very stable, which I learned as we continued dating. So while his personality did turn me on and win me over initially, the stability and financial security he offered were huge factors in the reasons I stayed with him …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 06:47 PM
2	What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ? People oftentimes want what they don’t or can’t have. For example, it’s easy to fantasize about how amazing it would feel to have a partner, when you don’t have one. Alternatively, it’s easy to believe that life would be more exciting as a single person, when you’re in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 07:34 PM
30	Women are allowed to complain about the suitors they get but men can't 90% of the crap people complain about here does not happen in the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 10:18 PM
9	Men and Women define casual sex differently, leading to total misunderstanding of each other This is unusually on point for this sub. Well done. You give great examples of what miscommunication means and how men and women think differently - without just saying “women/men are awful people and this is why”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 09:55 PM
3	Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later. That is absolutely false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 03:03 PM
1	The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at all Omg I know! These aren’t really conversations or debates or anything. Just “I’m fucked as far dating goes, the system is totally rigged against me, here’s why…CMV” and then any comment that disagrees (often with anecdotal evidence) is met with “yeah but…I’m different, cause I have it wayyyy worse”. There’s no point in this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 07:35 PM
2	Like Attracts Like. If you feel like you're getting the short end of the stick in your dating/relationships, you should stop going for that stick! I actually agree with this. It took me a long time to actually realize that my own cynicism about others, albeit subconsciously, was greatly affecting what/who I was attracting and repelling. In other words, my cynicism and self-loathing were creating even more things to be cynical and loathsome about. It’s hard to explain, but I do think that there is such thing as a self-fulfilling negative feedback loop that can and will make a person completely miserable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 05:52 AM
5	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." Yes! I think the No True Scotsman fallacy is a great comparison here. To take it a step further, it applies to “real women”, “chad”, “Stacy”, etc. Life, people and relationships are so much more nuanced than a lot of people want to believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 02:28 AM
–	If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are ok I can honestly say that I do not research this topic in my free time. I have a job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 03:04 AM
–	If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are ok Are you looking for affirmation that the study is true? It’s a single study. Wow, you’ve really swayed the masses here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 02:54 AM
–	If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are ok Ok, so what’s your argument?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 02:52 AM
–	If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are ok Why are you paying for holes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 02:41 AM
–	If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are ok I hate to break it to you, but having a job is a normal part of adult life, and having an income is a necessity if you plan to live in the world. A spouse can leave a spouse for any reason, thank to No-Fault Divorce. If a man’s wife is too sick to sleep with him, he’s certainly within his rights to leave, sure. But guess what, he still has to have a job. Just get a fucking job, dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 02:35 AM
3	Question for the 35+ crowd This was so well written. I agree that most, if not all of the online “social” platforms we see today simply flatten people out. Humans are so much more than 2-dimensional characters, summed up in 300 words or less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:38 AM
1	Are women actually attracted to toxic men? Deflection of what? Assertive doesn’t mean confrontational. If you’re scared of every bigger guy, you’re in for a miserable life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 05:17 PM
1	Are women actually attracted to toxic men? Assertive does not mean confrontational or ready to fight. Besides, why would a 6’3 muscular guy be fucking with you at a bar in the first place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 10:44 PM
1	Are women actually attracted to toxic men? There’s a big difference between an assertive man and a toxic man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 06:24 PM
2	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. Jfc we get it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 02:29 AM
6	The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it all I don’t know any women like the “Becky” you mention, that would ever be successful with a man of the caliber you describe. Regardless of your starting goal, self improvement - especially to the degree your referencing (healthy, fit, well-educated, multilingual, well-traveled, with a variety of hobbies), the journey to get to that point shapes you as a person. Someone like that isn’t needy, self-conscious or spending his time lamenting about how unfair the world is to them. These accomplishments …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 11:58 PM
2	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy This an overly-extreme example of thin = malnourished. Being thin doesn’t mean you’re unhealthy, being dedicated to a strict gym routine isn’t unhealthy. I also think that many women are naturally skinny, and just because she doesn’t work out “a day in her life” doesn’t automatically signify that she’s unhealthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 10:34 PM
6	On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions. This happens a lot with me. Im friendly to everyone, I’m interested in what people say and just generally have a pleasant attitude. It’s not uncommon for men to completely misinterpret my personality for romantic or sexual interest. It got to a point where, for about a year I became extremely introverted because I just didn’t have the energy for another situation where someone misread my behavior. But I decided that I’m not going to dim my personality or just be a bitch to every man, simply beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 08:51 PM
1	PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaic Well…sign me up!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 02:55 PM
1	PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaic That’s not self-esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 02:01 AM
1	PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaic What? How do orgasms increase a woman’s confidence? I don’t understand that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 02:01 AM
2	How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?" I told my son the same thing! How important it is to take care of your appearance and be a well-rounded person overall - it ALL matters and will absolutely affect the quality of his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 11:16 PM
1	How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?" Never. Looks definitely matter. I don’t think I’ve ever heard a girl say that looks don’t matter. Looks certainly aren’t everything, but that holds true for both girls and guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 11:14 PM
–	Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some? But that’s the thing - being a great cook is awesome, but this guy shot that down, saying “well I can hire someone to cook, clean, etc.” So I think this particular person is asking out of arrogance, and not out of any sort of genuine interest. Love is funny. It’s oftentimes the most inconsequential or trivial things that can make someone so unique and amazing. Those things can’t be listed. A guy could give me a list of all the things he brings “to the table”, be wonderful on paper, but it’s how …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 03:12 PM
–	Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's Doing You brush your teeth for sex? Man, this is just sad. You know men are sexy when they have goals, chase dreams and have a life outside of dating, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 08:07 AM
1	Why women claim they hate when a man cold approaches and why almost all men should cold approach. By “cold approach”, do you mean “flirting”? That’s not exactly a new concept. Are there really grown men who’ve never ever gone up to a pretty woman and tried to talk to her? Like all of their dating experiences began online? Jfc Some people really need to just get out of their head and INTO THE WORLD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 12:15 PM
3	TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive men As a male, she just looks like an average, pre-pubescent boy. Are you using this example as a way to argue that men have it way worse than women? Men like what men like; women like what women like. Even a petite man’s features are inherently masculine, so this isn’t much of an argument, in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 09:31 PM
7	Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong? I agree. I mean, I don’t know this girl but I think the sentiment towards her (at least in this thread) is overly pessimistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:05 PM
14	Do You Think This Woman Was In The Wrong? So what is she in the wrong for? Seeing the error of her ways? Isn’t that a good thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:35 AM
2	When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you. Well, you have to ask yourself, can you love a woman for who she is and not only the ways in which you benefit from her? Trust me when I say, there are women who will absolutely love and adore you for who you are as a person. I feel like you’re speaking from a place of hopelessness, but I promise you that it is absolutely possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:23 AM