Benerlak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	What is your go to line when wanting hookup?	Fundamentals	Benerlak	/r/seduction	27/07/26 04:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you handle your friends? I wasn't asking about their opinion, they shared it on their own. I believe you think women are some kind of social terminators, they are not. I try to make it simple, if you cockblock me or are acting in a way that makes it hard for me to express myself around you, if you are a good friend, I will give it a thought, but I will adjust my relationship towards you.	/r/seduction	30/07/26 05:30 AM
1	How do you handle your friends? I have a friend like that, but he most certainly doesn't have higher social status. I thought so, because he can be highly sexual and women seem to enjoy it, but that was at the first glance. Several of the women told me he is a clown and while it's nice to have their back or head scratched, he thinks he is moving somewhere, but they stop giving a fuck about him the moment they leave, so essentialy what he's doing is pointless, some kind of flirtatious masturbation or I don't know what to call i…	/r/seduction	29/07/26 12:51 PM
8	Had a planned "sex-date" but she said a day earlier she gave it a thought and want to stay friends Cut contact with her. While you fumbled by not kissing her, you gave her a chance by trying to arrange a hookup. If she thinks she can find better, let her, but I wouldn't tolerate this sudden change of plans, if it's not an emergency. You probably cleared your schedule, just for her to shit on your free time for a thing she should've decided beforehand. Mindset that keeps my life simple is that if a girl is implying sex is happening, sex should happen. She has all the freedom to change her mind…	/r/seduction	28/07/26 12:07 PM
7	What is your go to line when wanting hookup? dude, no offense, but if that's what you suggest saying to her, I would rather go with the ol' "netflix and chill" thing	/r/seduction	27/07/26 05:59 PM
-14	What is your go to line when wanting hookup? well since I am asking how to initiate hookup I would say I am up for it.	/r/seduction	27/07/26 05:53 PM
1	This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that. projection	/r/seduction	27/07/26 10:36 AM
1	This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that. It's more about "don't ask, don't tell" In the end she can do whatever she wants, but if I'm dating her and find out she slept with another dude, she can have him. It's called standards. But like enjoy whatever floats your boat I guess. Saying I don't have game is ridiculous, no one's trying to outalpha you big dog, you don't need to act tough. I'm saying that maybe with some women I won't have the big spark that keeps her attached, but that's allright. Maybe I meet the kind of woman who likes t…	/r/seduction	27/07/26 07:52 AM
4	This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that. Man, it isn't about a game, it's about setting up boundaries. You can't control what she does after the date, maybe she goes to another guy's house to get fucked, maybe she don't. Maybe she is honest about it or you figure it somehow, maybe you don't. But you need to have firm boundaries on what you want. If the intimacy isn't happening by date two or three, you drop her. Because women are people too and they get horny. I don't know if I heard it somewhere or read it here, but a good mantra is: …	/r/seduction	27/07/26 06:15 AM
8	This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that. Sorry, if you are okay with her "having fun" while you date her, be my guest. If I found out that a woman I am dating goes to another man right after the date, I would end it.	/r/seduction	27/07/26 06:12 AM
0	Anyone ever succeed with seducing a bartender? How did you do it? The issue is not that she can't like you or she won't because she is a bartender. It's that many men mistake bartenders talking to them as a sign of affection. Men who pull bartenders are men who are good with women in general.	/r/seduction	26/07/26 05:56 PM
7	Anyone ever succeed with seducing a bartender? How did you do it? I drink more than I should, which means I've met several bartenders, with one I've managed to hook up. you need to be a special kind of person to like this job and women bartenders tend to be, at least from my experiences, kind of whores. I don't mean pretending to be nice and friendly for tips.	/r/seduction	26/07/26 04:42 PM
16	Anyone ever succeed with seducing a bartender? How did you do it? If she likes you she likes you, what can I tell you? Yes, bartenders get hit on almost constantly, but bring your A game, ask her out once and if she says no or flakes when texting her, leave it be. no harm done	/r/seduction	26/07/26 03:40 PM
1	Bad at talking in general You're bad at conversation, because the other side doesn't want to talk to you. A lot of people say be yourself, have fun, tell that joke, and it's a good advice overall, just remember that conversation is an interaction and there is a place for telling jokes, sharing something about yourself and so on. Breaking that won't make you a better conversationalist, but can make you more weird. This is not an advice to shut up and never improve. Just keep this in mind, I for the longest time thought th…	/r/seduction	24/07/26 09:04 AM
7	79 Women Later: Everything I’ve Learned About Women, Attraction, and Dating Women, or more like people in general can't tell shit, it's one of the biggest misconceptions in seduction, because confident/cowardly behavior looks often times identical, you just need a correct frame of reference to tell which is which. and there is too many variables at play to tell right away. Imagine a fat, nerdy guy with old baggy clothes that don't fit him walking up to a 10/10 woman. He starts talking without introduction, but after a few sentences that didn't go so bad, he leaves, just…	/r/seduction	24/07/26 08:27 AM
1	Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing? Shit I don't know. Last year I could get at least a date a month, sometimes several, f-closes all. Nothing really changed, except I got into a relationship that lasted several months and after that nothing... my tactics didn't change, nothing, it's just as if I was under the spell or something.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 06:19 PM
1	I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silent yeah even I got an embarrasing story, but at most I tell it among friends to get a laugh. Dude asked a woman whose pussy is it, girl went silent and dude went on Reddit to ask where is the problem...	/r/seduction	23/07/26 08:47 AM
1	I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silent As an old gambler once said: Don't go all-in if a check will do, especially if you ain' sure you gonna win.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 08:40 AM
2	I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silent Shit dude, you're right, but waterboarding wouldn't get this out of me.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 08:30 AM
6	Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold Approaches It's a very good guide, only thing I would add is keep your humour and wit, but don't see it as "girl having a right to shit test you hard, since you escalate fast". It's important to pass shit tests, but she should feel from you that this is her chance. If she isn't game, she will be finding someone else at the second date latest.	/r/seduction	20/07/26 05:24 PM