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The amorality on here is useful for “nice guys” to realize they don’t have all the tools. Reevaluate if your virtues are antiquated. Take what’s said here and reconstruct your own system All ideas are just tools. A lot of people are just mimicking antiquated ideas about virtue that hold them back and don’t help anyone. Redpill will help with that. It’s just another perspective I don’t believe in arguing with people in general any more, which is a common theme here. You should state your view and…
/r/askMRP29/07/26 08:32 PM
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After reading the comments I wanted to make another comment. This type of game always seems so transparent to me and attracts the wrong women, and even they know what you’re doing anyway. If I’d only focused on logistics, being genuine and inner game I’d have had better results than I did losing myself pretending to be something I’m not. I don’t even know if it even fooled anyone. I think I’m generally “enough” that it worked despite my fakery. Women want men, any success came despite playing ga…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/26 10:10 PM
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I feel like this “maybe” philosophy ruined all my opportunities when I was younger, like the best women don’t play games. and just being genuine (sometimes even needy) has worked so many times it’s hilarious. I always chalked it up to weak game and just played the numbers well. In retrospect, all my best success came from starting with that cocky baseline and pivoting toward genuine as quickly as possible. Sometimes women even tell you to do this and spell it out. Also, persistence. The “8 hour …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/26 09:57 PM
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Day game is just easier. And a dozen is a joke. If you just flirt with everyone all day and never pass up saying hi to an attractive woman, no matter how bad your game is, you will have a wild year It’s a numbers game. Most guys meet a few who are DTF every day and just never know it cause they don’t try. Just tighten up logistics and always be nudging someone your way. Just go easy and don’t be a creep, and give off good energy so your leaving everyone a little better off for having met you Num…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/26 04:38 PM
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I doubt I’d have done this in the moment, but the strongest guys i know in this spot would have said something like “I need to get some rest, you guys can swing by my place when your done” or whatever. And let them gossip about you all night and plan whatever they want to do to you etc Then Just whoever is dtf will show up
/r/TheRedPill11/05/26 04:28 PM
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XX organisms are the ones who decide what there should be more of in the future, the next generation. That’s why they have more “taste” and their taste and desires “matter.” Why me can living in dumpsters and society doesn’t care if they don’t like it. Why she gets the house XY organisms are literally a half/quarter step to being mutants. The Y chromosome lets 25% of mutations on the X chromosome be active. It’s a lot more gray and complicated, but this effect is magnified socially in humans. We…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/26 09:03 PM
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Im married and out of the game. But I can say at this age, I’d probably even prefer more normal looking women anyway. Not that 18-30 aren’t attractive, same way I saw plenty of 40-50 year olds as attractive when I was young. But with age, they become more desirable too 🤷 I think the divide by 2, then add 7 rule is a good benchmark for lower bound
/r/TheRedPill31/08/25 11:31 PM
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This mindset is a useful tool to be sure. You should be stoic and all of this. But my experience hasn’t been like this. I’m have no shortage of evidence if I was trying to find proof that I’m stupid and people have helped me and I’ve been blessed with great friends I did nothing to deserve except maybe be a nice person and I’m not even sure about that. Also women have been there for me when I needed love, affection and validation. I think cause I was always ambitious which is very attractive. Pr…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/25 04:45 PM
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most of those men are also fake and not actually role models
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 12:45 AM
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But asking if women treat men some way is a non sequitur tapping into bitterness at either the antiquated fantasy that men and women are the same or that past mistreatment justifies lowering our own standards. Some women may want mistreated i guess. Some pushovers could experiment briefly with testing their own limits. But the implication that some women do something stupid so we should too isnt useful toward a life strategy
/r/TheRedPill11/05/25 12:12 AM
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I went over board, but it’s not just moralizing. Men have an obligation created by natural selection that is different than women’s role. Trying to pretend we’re the same is NOT what this sub is about
/r/TheRedPill10/05/25 11:26 PM
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If you are looking for empathy you should go to the sidebar We’re the soldiers. If you look at another species or go to another planet, the ones who put the most into child rearing and the mutants nature experiments with will show the same imbalance. That you get to be an experiment in living is a blessing. Don’t expect to be coddled the way children and child rearers do. Single dads do get a lot of this coddling you’re looking for. Children are a blessing, but you lose a lot of your warrior sta…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/25 11:13 PM
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Just start flirting with every girl/woman you interact with. Doesn’t have to be much. Just be 1% more flirty every day. So what’s easy, but be consistent and everything will get easier. Offer to buy girls a juice or coffee somewhere. Money isn’t going to buy happiness. Women won’t. Children won’t. Status won’t. Choose to be happy right now. And start flirting more. Go out of your way to say high to as many beautiful women as you can. Some will befriend you even and introduce you etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/25 03:05 AM
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Short guys also get away with a lot of borderline childish sht that tall people get called out on. One short king I knew always cut in front of everyone and stood whenever he wanted always in ways a buff or tall dude would get challenged on Other short were just funny and assertive in ways that tall people would be cringe if they did. Tall people obviously have a passive advantage that’s easier, but short kings get more leeway and flexibility in a lot of situations. People are quicker to back th…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/25 07:23 PM
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This is pretty cool. Also consider, XYs are literally mutants. I mean we’re all mutants, but most women’s mutations are usually recessive. Men have to prove their differences have value in the real world so they can have a daughter with that gene and then she needs to mate with another freak/outlier with that trait before she can have a mutant daughter like that women are literally designing the next generation by choosing which freaks/outliers there should be more of and which we have enough of…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 01:47 AM
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I hate to repeat a cliche here, but it’s more that media lets us think everyone else’s highlight reels are their lives. So even if everyone made a sweet life for themselves to show off on social media, we wouldn’t necessarily be happy cause even for most high status people, that’s not their life that’s still just the highlight reel.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 01:44 AM
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Max out your health first. Like everyone here says, lift weights. Then just start flirting with everyone, just to be fun. You don’t have to be a jerk. Build people up. And find a passion besides video games. Study ikigai to find your place in the world. Be flirty and show at least minimal interest in every girl/woman. Women won’t save you and you don’t need them tho. Just keep the door open This may not be popular on here, but don’t just focus on yourself. Whatever you think you want, if given t…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/25 04:31 AM
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I really blame video games. Some of the other worst hobbies or jobs can still give you a foundation. If you just get jacked, buy a cool outfit every season, flirt awkwardly, consistently approaching, and shutting up as much as you will be fine. Put yourself in proximity as much as you can. Get logistics sorted, like live in the singles area etc. Then just be friendly and available and assume they’re all down and just be SLOWLY escalating all the time. We’re on the same team. Not a crime to be sh…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/24 05:06 PM
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Almost Every girl I ever hooked up with “never does this.” I think compared to most men they don’t. But they all do when they meet men who put in the time to get good. But not as rare as they make it out to be obviously. I did mostly go for good girl types so it might not have been as much of a stretch, but they certainly weren’t all angels who say this. It’s just what men want to hear. I’m probably average on this sub, but every girl says “you’re the best!” In their defense, i sort of always fa…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 07:15 PM
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Relative silence
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 04:39 PM
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I think they wanted to write a manifesto If they just posted 5 common points we always rehash with one sentence explanations it wouldn’t feel so profound
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 01:18 PM
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Maybe. Even if they were, according to the theory here they may still do this if their goal is to test and screen betas.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/24 05:18 PM
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Is this copy pasta? I’ve read this before. What’s the point of this? It seems like it’s a brag like telling people there was once some dude who went to the gym a lot until some woman through herself at him. ”Yeah, I got married. Wanna know my secret?”
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 11:02 AM
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Shouldn’t be cold at all. Keep the escalations micro, plausible deniability and indifference is a turn on. Shows you get it and have enough swag. Just treat them like friends/wings. Like the Dao of Steve, just be excellent in front of them. Chads do this all the time, and girls come around. I even did this as a beta male. Obviously don’t be an orbiter, but keep your stick on the ice. Everyone reading this has at least a few of memories from their youth where they blew it with great girls cause t…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/23 09:02 PM
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I’m trying to be objective, why I speak more broadly about females and species then men and women. It would be ridiculous to claim mating is always consensual among humans let alone all animals. I do think consensual mating is a better way of life. Maybe societal brainwashing. If you disagree, then you are explicitly endorsing rape and coercion based mating. Maybe for some frustrated incels this makes sense. Would you rather your parents mated based on affinity or because your dad was a rapist? …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/23 06:19 PM
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This is like the worker ants or worker bees claiming to be the boss of the colony/hive. It’s all semantics and perspective. The only way for a species to not be steered by women’s taste is through rape and coercion, which obviously happens. That’s the real red pill. Why incels are seen as repulsive. If your a Virgin and doing your own thing and don’t care, it’s fine; We need teslas and newtons. But if you feel entitled to be part of the 40% of men that procreate without demonstrating enough valu…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/23 10:47 AM
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I wish. People should be grateful for what they are. If they’re weak, it’s because society is gentle and let some soft ones propagate. If they’re strong it’s because some woman saw something good in the world and thought that a little more of that was worth committing their energy into. (Most of us are nice a mix of strengths and weaknesses, cause there’s no telling what humanity will need next) Most of what almost any man does is less important than this. Women can do what most men can do, but …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/23 12:07 AM
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Females are literally what determine the future of a species. They turn dignified animals into absurd peacocks, birds of paradise and other weird disfunctionals that’s how universally powerful a females feelings are. Why they matter and male’s by comparison don’t. People pillsplaing on here, whining like this are just bitter they were told we’re all the same. Whining that life is harder for a man is like peacocks whining about having to carry so many feathers around looking ridiculous
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 09:48 PM
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Remember celebrities and the rich commit suicide too The point of seeking that validation is to trick you into becoming competent, powerful, self sufficient, healthy, social etc. you did it and women and abundance are the confirmation. Now your real life begins, finding purpose by giving back. It sounds blue pill, but it’s the truth. You have to give it al back now Build companies to solve the problems you care about, not to make the most money. Be a source of good energy. Lift up others. Find t…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 10:18 AM
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What? Dude, you can go to the dollar store for $20 and buy a seasons worth of absurd accessories and junk to give away like your Santa
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 05:42 PM
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You can only read it that way when your still in some redpill identity flex. I didn’t say anything about game or your relationship. The only thing that could be interpreted as being situation specific is to NOT feel obligated Statistically it’s probably winter where you are. Most people, especially women, get some winter depression. All this holiday season stuff is a reminder to people who are less affected to look out for others. I know this isn’t redpill philosophy but it’s the reality. If you…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 04:41 PM
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Some of this is probably winter doldrums. Good time of year for buying cheap fun stuff to cheer people up. The holidays exist to remind us to check in on each other and make sure no one is going too crazy and that they’ll make it through the winter I used to hate the commercialization of holidays, but not any more. Just don’t feel obligated to be apart of any gift exchange or anything else for that matter. Just be more generous and buy people silly fun stuff. Why we/they need chocolate holidays …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 04:14 PM
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It’s proof that what you think is success won’t make you happy either
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 02:14 PM
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Consider appreciation a more useful synonym for gratitude. Appreciation is more proactive. Appreciate all directions and goals and priorities. Be attracted to a wider spectrum. Most women are beautiful. Most men are too in some way, if not in the way we focus here. Find the good in activities, outcomes, people etc. appreciate what you have and that even in the worst circumstances, eg Holocaust survivors finding moments of gratitude. I was only goal oriented for a long time, and as you say it hel…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 09:57 AM
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All the other comments are like they didn’t even read your post Collecting useless numbers is just the beginning. Stop focusing on that now and focus on making a connection and giving value. 20 years ago they emphasized eliciting values early. Make a habit of doing this with everyone. First add value. Give everyone enough validation that you can get away with a playful neg and they’ll know your joking. Find out what makes people tick, what do they aspire to. Then find where that overlaps with yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 09:01 AM
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You just need to add value to the group. Homey was driving and snapping pics, probably some level of safety. most women you meet actually have some level of attraction to you. Combined, 2 breeders could recreate mankind. It’s just the whole world in between you. I mean this both as a joke and literally. Just like two models meet, they probably wont hookup either because of logistics and prior commitments and priorities, etc. The biggest thing scaring away most single women is worrying that you’r…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 06:07 AM
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Sick brag, but most of this fashion nonsense is high school kids trying to find themselves After that all fashion becomes utilitarian or ironic
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 04:44 PM
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For younger people I think they’re trying on an identity. There’s too many decisions to make and they know too little. So they’re picking trends and fashions that appeal to something that kids in their cohort feel they’re lacking and making the decisions people in that culture make. So suddenly every kid is dressing like a surfer all year despite living in Appalachia. Or everyone dresses like a lumberjack despite living in New York City or Miami. They embrace some philosophy and attitude and wan…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 02:58 PM
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Seems The redpill is all about following the same cliches as everyone else, but acting like when you say the stuff it’s provocative and profound.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 09:49 AM
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As a recovered fake boy, it reminds me of the quote “some people are so poor, all they have is money” As I grew out of it I was almost envious of the sexually ambivalent like “you must have so much time…You can do anything!” And they were indeed like walking Ted talks
/r/TheRedPill06/04/23 08:03 AM
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People straddle these identities. They like tools that come into popularity to deal with something in the zeitgeist. Slackers being a reaction to over worked yuppies the way hippies were to the silent Gen. Rednecks to suburbanites. But they synthesize overtime as they co-opt each other like cyber red necks, and nerdy prepped obsessed with hip hop I say this as someone who took a similar anti conformist path, without embracing the ironically homogenous culture of the non conformists
/r/TheRedPill06/04/23 08:01 AM
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Let's express ourselves with a list of our favorite pop bands that act emo and edgy
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/17 03:13 AM
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TRP and this feminist's interpretation is not mutually exclusive. The woman wants a badass that can see through her bullshit. He wants a wild woman no one else can tame. Sleep deprivation? This is a euphemism. He is sexing her all night instead of 2 minutes of sex and falling asleep I know marriedRP is different, but this discussion would be completely different if it was allowed in TRP The point of TRP is so you can see and accept things for how they truly are. If you're still bitter, your not …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/17 06:50 AM
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Stop denying people's reality. Try to find what's true about what they're saying first. State the truth as matter of factly and then move on. I used to fight everyone all the time and always be splitting hairs and shit. I was right about everything and wrong about life. Arguing with people just polarizes them. Unless your sure it's worth it and hey are open minded don't waste your time. But I'm pretty sure it's not curious minds that are making your cry. Just state the truth briefly and then mov…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:43 PM
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