Benjaminnewcomb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Met A Hot Bartender	Field Report	Benjaminnewcomb	/r/seduction	12/09/22 02:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Nothing seems to work with this girl, I need your thoughts please. The only way to get her back is to move on and stop talking to her entirely, keep improving your life, date other girls and wait until she reaches out and be completely okay if she never reaches out again. If she does reach out, act like nothing happened and you're happy to hear from her. Then invite her out. If she doesn't meet up with you at that point go back to your life without chasing her, again. This is a tough one though because all this effort you've put in really was a bad screw up	/r/seduction	22/07/26 02:27 AM
0	How to deal with aggressive female cockblockers Talk to them both. There's only a few reasons she would be blocking you. 1 is she is afraid that you're gonna take her friend or 2 she is noticing her friend is uncomfortable with you. So include the fridge in the conversation. After all if you start dating the girl you're talking to you still have to deal with her blocker friend. You want to get the blocker on your side and telling her friend what a great guy you are and that social proof is very good for moving forward. If you can identify the…	/r/seduction	11/07/26 12:10 AM
1	No idea how to get sex Read my comment above. Game is a skill that has a ton of parts if you want to be really good. You have to hit attraction triggers in women. There are 10 to 12 depending who you ask. Here's most of them humor, preselection, leadership, grooming, sexual, physically taking care of yourself, spontaneous, access to scarce resources/places, thoughtful, social, competence, status and being a challenge. These make an attractive man. If you don't have looks, the rest will still get you laid.	/r/seduction	26/05/26 03:04 PM
1	No idea how to get sex Three ways, touch, mentally and verbally. You need to turn her on in her mind and through flirting then touch before she'll ever be excited to sleep with you. Making sure a woman is relaxed turns her on. Handle all the logistics. Also, on a date you need 3 parts, an activity, food and a reason to go back to your place. Make sure she has fun and make sex silly, fun and light hearted, not romantic and heavy.	/r/seduction	26/05/26 02:49 PM
2	No idea how to get sex Build abundance. Get social, meet people, especially women, everywhere. Talk to all women the same. Old, young, cute, ugly, doesn't matter. You've got several things to work on, starting with meeting them all the way to escalation. Don't worry about getting sex Work about making sure women have fun around you. Touch early, but not inappropriate ways. Instead of working about sex, get to the point where you hold her hand. Hands are the most used body part in sex. Holding hands is where that start…	/r/seduction	26/05/26 02:53 AM
1	Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs? Bring women with you to the club, as many as you can. Preselection is king.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 12:00 AM
2	Where do you go to approach women? I don't directly approach women. They often approach me though because I build social groups everywhere I go and have a ton of fun with everyone around me. I also dance, a lot and women will absolutely walk right up and dance with a guy having a blast.	/r/seduction	16/07/25 06:33 PM
1	I have a very close female friend but, I really want us to have a casual sexual relationship. She likes you as a friend. The only way to really know if she likes you enough to date is to get really busy. You've built too much rapport without escalation. Tell her you're looking to find a girlfriend but don't bring her into it. She'll either get jealous and profess her interest or she'll help you find a girlfriend. If you're dead set on this one girl, then you've gotta pull away from her, level up your life and let her see you doing it while creating some space. Focus on developing attract…	/r/seduction	12/05/25 11:31 AM
1	Should I approach women at my gym? Make friends with everyone at the gym, ignore all the hot women until they approach you.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 05:03 AM
1	Is it over for me or is there any hope left for me I have a friend who is an Indian guy and he gets laid all the time. So no it isn't your race, your game sucks.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 03:52 AM
3	Sliding into Instagram DMs how to ? A girl you do not know is quite complicated to get into her DM's. Probably not even worth the effort since most girls phots are so photoshopped that they don't actually look like that in real life. However, if you really want to make the effort and have it work the best way tis through networking with the people she follows. Make friends with them and get shout outs from the influencers that she follows. This will give you social proof and you can start making comments on her posts that are not …	/r/seduction	07/10/22 04:36 AM
1	I started cold approaching women. Had no idea this is so easy! Yep opening in this way is super easy. Then you just have to isolate her and escalate. If it doesn't work the first meeting no problem just see her again in the same places over an over. Build familiarity.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 09:44 PM