Benniwannamarijuana Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	How to incorporate flirting into online dating?		Benniwannamarijuana	/r/seduction	20/04/16 03:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to incorporate flirting into online dating? Thanks for the comments and criticism. I'll work on the confidence. I know I'm fairly insecure. I've been in my own head too much lately and I second guess myself into oblivion. I wanted to put myself out there for this type of criticism. You sedditors don't disappoint. Cheers!	/r/seduction	21/04/16 06:00 PM
1	Where has this community gone from the beginning? You and a couple of other comments here have echoed the same "do you, and grow confidence in yourself, then go get the ladies" (heavy paraphrase), but I just wonder one thing; how do I do me? I'm eclectic as fuck, I find interest in a plethora of things but master none, am so busy socially with 99% guy friends who either are getting married, are married, or are in a serious relationship, or am busy with sports (again, male dominated, baseball and hockey), that I just don't find myself out shoppi…	/r/seduction	16/03/16 04:49 PM
15	How to get girls engaged/interested/investing/obsessed with you via text/snapchat? I use too many elipses...but then again, I really like the dramatic pause. Don't use too many. Like, 1 per response...tops.	/r/seduction	26/02/16 06:13 AM
1	[FR] My first time approaching in college. Don't sell yourself short. Think of a time you were excited to tell someone something. A new job, your acceptance to school, or you got a cool gift for Christmas, or your birthday, or you watched a show your friends would really like. Anything you can think of you wanted to tell or ask someone, it can be from when ever. You have likely called friends to hang out, or see what they are doing on the weekend, or if they want to grab a bite. You don't need to remember the particulars of the conversat…	/r/seduction	26/02/16 12:06 AM
1	[FR] My first time approaching in college. Good for you for trying. Now you know what can happen. Here is my advice. If you had 3 hours there together, then you had 3 hours of possible conversation topics. "Did you smell that guy with the big ugly sweater walk by? I thought I was gonna gag." Or, "that flickering light has been driving me nuts. I almost threw my biggest text book at it." Use your surroundings as possible topics. Strategize your approach, and have an exit strategy if things are going belly up, or you are feeling like you a…	/r/seduction	25/02/16 03:43 PM
10	How do you grind with a girl? Your attitude shouldn't be, "which girl do I want to grind with?" It should be, "damn these women grinding on me! All I wanted to do was DANCE!!!" Serious though...if you think a girl is attractive, the best way to get her attention...is to attract it. By dancing your face off.	/r/seduction	18/11/15 02:12 AM
1	Picking Up Women at the Gym - Field Report I can appreciate your point. Well stated. Just don't let it drag you down, man.	/r/seduction	13/11/15 07:04 PM
1	Picking Up Women at the Gym - Field Report Haha! I know you weren't trying to say that you are incapable of smiling, I'm just trying to kick that negative thought out of your head. You even said it again to me. See, everytime you say it, that your facial structure is this or that, you reignite your own belief in what you said...it is what you want it to be. You may have a preconceived notion in your mind that your facial structure is different than others. There is nothing wrong with being different. That makes us unique. It doesn't make…	/r/seduction	13/11/15 06:25 PM
2	Picking Up Women at the Gym - Field Report No facial structure is incapable of smiling genuinely. And saying to yourself that you can't smile is negative reinforcement. Here, try this. Honestly. It might work. You should go through pictures of yourself on FB or a photo album (if people still use those). Find photos where you are out with people and smiling, not necessarily aware of the camera. Look through until one slaps you in the face and says, "that guys smile is warm and inviting, and he looks like he's a lot of fun to be around." Y…	/r/seduction	13/11/15 05:48 PM
14	The girl of my dreams stepped on the train this morning, and I didn't do shit I've never commented here before, but I just felt it needed to be said; a new girl of your dreams will come around again. Don't get caught up on one missed experience. Use it as a lesson, that "I won't miss my chance next time."	/r/seduction	30/07/15 09:43 PM