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> Is there is something I can say to make her message me back You leave like an alpha by fully leaving and not caring about leaving her another message. If you TRULY want to leave like an alpha, we in the RedPill subreddit community should NOT give you what you're asking for.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:22 AM
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Read "Practical Female Psychology" and read "stages of manipulation." It's posted here on TRP but unfortunately the rules here prevent me from linking to a subreddit (or else this comment will be auto-removed), so feel free to PM me if you can't find it. Long story short - it's a woman's evolutionary job to find an alpha man (hunter) and make a bitch out of him (to provide for her and offspring). She then loses attraction to him, so she becomes single again, and ready to have another family, rin…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 07:14 AM
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Totally agree with your post, OP. That said, sometimes you argue with them for fun and as long as you hold the basis of truth in nature like the late great Patrice O'Neal did, you can insult your way into her panties like he did.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 07:38 PM
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Good job listening to your instinct. Ultimately women are wired to seek out stability - for me it's emotional stability that they see, for you they see financial stability. The pull is pretty strong too, so good job realizing that. Now - just enjoy the attention!
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:38 PM
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Nice man. Just be careful - the Brazillians are in for the long con- US Citizenship. If you hit the sack, make sure to use that condom and flush it down the toilet. I know a few. PM me if you have any questions.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:12 PM
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Seriously dude - hang low. You're a shiny piece of gold right now. I once made 6 figures , I once had negative in the bank account - but my game was the same. While 6 figures isn't in the same level of wealth that you may have amassed, my happiness was the same as when I made 2 figures. I attracted women same - though arguably I was a lot happier with less money. I did do that on purposed to see how I'd feel (again, I go outside my comfort zone, test limits, and then share the secrets as a life …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 04:51 PM
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Alright, feel free to re-post here or PM me with how you're doing. Congratulations, enjoy your freedom, take your time and don't rush into another cage.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 04:16 PM
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Oh, I was a Bay Area resident for more than 7 years. You're about a half our drive from meeting lots of open-minded women in the East Bay - so you don't even need to travel that far.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 03:47 PM
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The options for women over 35 are limited and for the most part unappealing. Even the married chicks I know are trying to pawn me off on their single friends. Any guy in decent shape with a career and some charm can clean up. Where do you live? I travel a lot so I meet women from all over the world, so this doesn't apply to me. And a lot of money isn't necessary to travel (though I assume you aren't lacking here). Even if you travel locally, you'll automatically expand your market. A few years a…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 03:23 PM
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You can use this as motivation to experiment with your self-image a little bit. If feedback is women need "to be perfect" around you, then you may want to not mention that you're an executive and heir to the company. If you usually dress glitzy, you might want to dress more casually to "average yourself" out. There's a chance you might be attracting women who see more of what they want out of you than what you really bring to the table as a person. The key thing to make your self image work in y…
/r/seduction25/05/18 02:52 PM
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You should check out Tom Torero. He's lives for the challenge of mastering these Eastern European woman that are verbally fiesty and immediately pusback.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:25 PM
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Hmmm very interesting - good one bud. Quite interesting how women-to-womencompetition always brings out the best in women. While in evolutionary biology women tend to be the one waiting for the man to hunt her, when you bring in other single woman to hunt she suddenty becomes the hunter.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:23 PM
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Hey, I live in Chi. Been looking for a wing as my potential wings have been carrying approach anxiety. I know the city like the back of my palm, and a pretty social person, and involved in a few (legal) things. Check my ~post~ comment history for my philosophy with seduction. Let's talk.
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:28 PM
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and Rocky doesnt have to come ;) My old beta response: "But how do you know she didn't just say that to prevent offending you?" My more alpha self: "Doesn't matter. Competition between women can turn this into anything. Dude's in full control of the direction, like he was during the auction."
/r/seduction24/05/18 04:44 PM
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I'm sorry, but I'm disagreeing here. The reason why the contestant was grossed out - and I'm assuming the reaction's real here, not staged - was the lack of congruence. The woman probably had an imagination of a great looking guy in her head before the light turned on. If she had seen him before they started talking, her reaction and his result would have been better. It's no different than if the guy is good looking buyt not have game: his looks would have been incongruent with his game, produc…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 04:30 PM
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A.B.C.!!!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 08:55 PM
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Saved. Going to watch 500 Days of Summer. I'll be back.
/r/seduction22/05/18 02:23 PM
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Not if he likes her. Then she'll use his desire for her to get him to do things for her (because he would).
/r/seduction22/05/18 04:50 AM
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Good call. Update us in a couple of weeks to see how you did
/r/seduction22/05/18 04:49 AM
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P.S. Bay to Breakers tomorrow = GUTTER GAME
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:37 AM
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Look dude - there's no other way to say this. If you want real help you're going to have to tell us more - a lot more about who you are and what you do for women. But I have a feeling when you do like a girl, you're too nice to her.
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:27 PM
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Read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover Without much detail from you I can't help you much but the first and biggest thing is that you're likely to be accommodating them. Figuring out what they like and trying to do that. You gotta go follow your passion, do what you want. Women want to be taken for the ride along the way. They want a ready-made meal surprise, they don't want to have to specify every single ingredients to each meal.
/r/seduction19/05/18 09:22 PM
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Hey bud - I used to live in SF (in the city no less) and back here for a few days, I was planning on Daygaming this coming Monday Tuesday and/or Wednesday. Feel free to look at my recent post response to see what I'm about. Let's meet up! I'm like you I have a great social presence in business, in many other matters, but the approach anxiety is there with cold-approaching women. I was a former management consultant that spoke regularly in front of C-level executives, now I do personal empowermen…
/r/seduction19/05/18 07:43 PM
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That could just be me subconsciously wanting to try and change her mind though. It definitely is. Give it a try. You don't have to say anything to her - you're giving her the power if you did. Just stop texting and talking to her. If she texts you, wait a day before texting back. You're not as responsive because you ARE busy. You're focusing on other things. This isn't just ignoring her, this is allowing other things that you actually like to occupy your mind (or enjoy nothingness and have nothi…
/r/seduction19/05/18 07:40 PM
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Drop her from your life. Not because of who she is. It's because you'll continue to pine after her. If you don't want to drop her, just suspend yourself* from any contact with her for at least 2 weeks. Why suspend yourself and not her? Because we, gentlemen, are 100% responsible for friendzoning ourselves. And by that time that happens, the woman is already occupying our mind, distracting us from other opportunities out there. Source: Me, former nice guy, used to have TONS of women friends.
/r/seduction19/05/18 06:58 PM
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Always assume attraction. You don't want to count non-kino rejections - it means you DID NOT even try. Now if you try Kino and then she rejects it doesn't mean she's rejected you. It likely means she just wants to "do the dance" which is always two steps forward, one step back. In fact, even after she accepts Kino, at some point you let her hand/arm/shoulder/breasts go. Two steps forwards, one step back. Push, pull.
/r/seduction15/05/18 05:48 PM
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Potential Answers: a) She might seem happy with her man, but she loves your maturity. Not just because you know how to handle girls, but your age and age difference (older guy here). b) She's 21 dude. Girls don't know the reason why they do things, they just do them, much less that she's 21. On the bright side...she's 21 and she's more fun-seeking. You're probably not the only one she's banging on the side (no matter what she says).
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 05:22 PM
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How old is she and what's the age difference between you guys? It may not make a difference - as you know AWALT whether they are 18 or 36. But - it might give you an insight, because I know you're (and we're) trying to make sense of it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 03:00 PM
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Good job! Feeling the rejection might seem to be the worst thing but it's how they make diamonds out of coals.
/r/seduction14/05/18 10:09 PM
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There's a saying: "If it's something you're afraid of, it's something you need to do." I would say approaching no matter what is good. Then stay and do your game so you can get feedback in how you do. And then how she does is feedback. Then recalibrate for next one. I think approaching from desire is always good. But you have to have "comfort" - she has to be able to feel safe in accepting that desire (this all happens subconsciously). But you have to demonstrate desire first (and this is what I…
/r/seduction11/05/18 04:19 PM
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Exactly. It's showing vulnerability as strength, as in you're comfortable enough in your own self to show your inside. But once it turns to vulnerability as to subconsciously want approval from her, then it starts the clock of losing attraction on her end.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 06:09 PM
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Illnois here. I just finished coming back from a farm with grass fed beef and free range chicken. The animals are actually a delight to watch when they are treated normally, with food to eat and (LOTS) space to roam prior to slaughter. I enjoy eating the eggs and meat, and the milk (raw) I actually stomach quite well. I feel healthiest and it's from eating as pure food as possible.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 11:39 PM
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Ohhh boy, you have much to learn, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 04:42 AM
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Jewish gf who bosses him around all the time Isn't that the core definition of Jewish girlfriend?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 04:40 AM
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There were these 2 cute girls, 1 of which who was making mad eye contact with me (It's not a "Cold Approach" if a girl is giving you IOI) The girl in this FR is separate. (Ahhhhhh, so a real cold approach! kicks back and enjoys the rest of the story) Good job, OP. Push, pull, nonchalant. Number may or may not flake - but that's not the matter really. You went up, IN THE GYM NO LESS, to a girl by herself and cold approached, probably against your will. Good one. Still maintained a LOT of eye cont…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:42 PM
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Thanks
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:29 PM
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I offer a Red Pill Fitness Coaching Service. Are we allowed to make offerings here? Because I've been Coaching men's masculinity for quite some time, and have held back on soliciting clients. Note: I'm a long time TRP member - this account might be historically new because it is. I delete whatever Reddit account once in a while and go on a social media vacation. Even if I don't go on vacation, I delete the account before I start associating myself with the account - I believe our online tools sh…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:06 PM
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