Bepositivebruh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is a man only as valuable as the women he sleeps with? :-/ couldn't be further from the truth. Money obviously matters but no one (male or female) respects or admires a dude that sleeps with prostitutes. Hell, prostitutes generally don't even respect their clients. Tolerating someone because they can pay you, directly or indirectly, isn't respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/20 06:18 PM
1	Don’t you think it’s unrealistic to want women to feel raw, immediate sexual attraction for you if you’re average or below? "I know that someone will probably say “men can feel immediate attraction for average women” but we all also know very well how high the male sex drive is- they’re basically always LOOKING for reasons to feel attracted to a girl because fucking a girl (just because she’s a girl) is their imperative." To clear up a misconception, being good enough to fuck doesn't mean a man is attracted to you. I think a lot of women erroneously overestimate their attractiveness because they got a guy to sleep wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/20 06:07 PM
2	How do YOU define "the average man/woman"? Safe, lefty opinions on everything It's funny, there's this narrative all liberals are beta but the overwhelming majority of vocal incels seem to be extremely right wing. Go to middle America or the South, you'll see tons of unattractive conservative men that are single or with really fat unattractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/20 05:57 PM
13	When it comes to our biological desires, only men are expected to take the high road The women who do that are looked down on, yes, but praised by the more vocal SJW types. bruh, i've never heard a woman tell a dude to turn down an accountant and date a drug dealer. hell, i haven't even heard hood rats say that, unless you're talking about rap music. The men are only looked down on by the few jealous fools. A guy dating a 20 girl in his 40's are looked down on the femcels and such. you're misunderstanding what is happening. when a dude with life experience sees a guy that is ess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/20 10:51 PM
2	80/20 is completely logical. Just for clarification, they included 18, 19, 20, and 21 year olds in that study, and as times have changed, those age groups are the more likely to live at home with their parents. Also, people are living at home with with their parents for longer than they were in the 80s-2010s. In general, a girl isn't going to come get smashed at your parents' house. Not saying that disproves the study or anything. What I am saying is there are a lot of factors, many of them economic, that could be contribut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/20 06:58 AM
2	If women are able to sleep with attractive, valuable men, why would they choose to sleep with lesser men? Generally most guys don't care who a woman sleeps with. What guys don't like is the expectation a woman can spend her best years, physically, sleeping around then expect a different type of guy, one that she wasn't showing attention to, to settle down with her when she's out of options. It's not a jealousy issue, they simply want partners that haven't slept around a lot, for their own various reasons. Casting it as a jealousy issue is a misunderstanding. There's nothing wrong with a guy wanting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/20 04:38 PM
2	Do you think some men become bitter since they have very high expectations of young women? How many men actually do the things OP is talking about? It's pretty obvious we're talking about a small minority of guys. Also define provider. As is, men do tend to spend more on dating and relationships in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/20 03:27 PM
5	Do you think some men become bitter since they have very high expectations of young women? This is sort of true, sort of not true. Yes, there are some men that have unrealistic expectations. Yes, many women are young people living a fun life. With that said, historically dating took on certain norms and roles and a lot of women want to abandon their end of that arrangement while continuing to take the benefits of traditional customs. A lot of the entitled behavior you mentioned are simply guys saying "if I'm going to be expected to take on the traditional role of a provider, I demand …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/20 03:40 AM
25	Female empowerment takes power away from men who want to exploit women. Today's circumstances are preferable for everyone. I don't want to be behind a plow trying to support my wife and 8 kids while dodging Spanish Influenza. What I'm saying is even in my lifetime, and I'm not that old, the plight of women seems to be worse than say....10 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/20 07:31 PM
37	Female empowerment takes power away from men who want to exploit women. To a degree you're correct. With that said, there sure do seem to be a lot more miserable single women, especially in their late 20s and 30s. Like all things, there are positives and negatives and the pendulum can swing too far. I don't think anyone on this sub that's rational wants a powerless woman. It seems like most guys just want a woman that doesn't have an overinflated ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/20 07:09 PM
0	The problem isn’t that women are too picky. It’s that women are too attractive. The average American woman over 20 is 170 lbs and 5 feet 3.5 inches. That's very overweight and possibly borderline obese. There are outliers but the idea that the average American woman is attractive is wrong. When it comes to American women, there's a tendency for some women to have unrealistic desires compared to what they offer. Also women overrate women as a tactic to keep from rating themselves appropriately. "Everywhere I look, I see a visually-pleasing woman. If she doesn’t have a beauti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/20 05:39 PM
1	Seriously Guys, is there REALLY a huge problem with dating???? "Women might wish they had a Chad, but Chad already did them once, so he stopped calling. That means the women wake up and realize that they need to focus on what is achievable. And there you are, not even trying for sex on a first date. Nah, you save yourself for women you are in a relationship with." Why would any rational guy want to spend his time and money winning over a woman that goes and fucks some other guy for next to nothing? Imagine I had a restaurant and your friend and you came for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/20 05:31 PM
7	Why isn't it understood that the majority of young men who haven't had sex in the last year also haven't APPROACHED a girl in the last year? you're describing a minority of girls. I'm aware of that, just like the men you're describing are a minority of men. The thing is, it doesn't take a ton of people to change the social scene. You just need a sizable minority. We're not to the point that society is collapsing, the sky isn't falling. But, it has affected the dating market, and not in a positive way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/20 08:24 PM
13	Why isn't it understood that the majority of young men who haven't had sex in the last year also haven't APPROACHED a girl in the last year? The above post is an exaggeration but you can't deny a lot more women are interacting less (people in general are) and instead relying on platforms like IG, FB, and Tinder to receive dopamine boosts. A lack of social interactions, leads to more reliance on electronics and thirsty dudes to receive dopamine boosts, which creates an overly inflated ego (eg: these women think their value is much higher than it is because thirsty men are boosting them online), the overly inflated ego woman can't find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/20 08:03 PM
0	Are men just not that attractive? Yes, yes, of course they are, I'm not denying that. I'm denying the notion that most guys are in shape and athletic. The post gave off this vibe that most guys are in shape and athletic because of evolution, I agree the potential is there but, take a walk in a grocery store, most guys aren't in shape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/20 06:18 PM
13	CMV Low value women hate porn because it lessens their bargaining power getting pumped and dumped isn't power. those women can get dick, often with guys embarrassed to be with them. but, they don't really find desirable partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/20 04:17 AM
2	Wouldn't most issues women have with dating go away if they asked out men instead? humans aren't naturally violent people, mentally damaged people are. Even if you account for wars dating back to pre-historic times, the overwhelming majority of social interactions people have are non-violent. This idea that people are prone to violence is an idiotic assumption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/20 01:15 AM
-1	Are men just not that attractive? Men are built to be stronger and faster. ...most men are neither strong nor fast, and this is coming from a dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/20 12:24 AM