Bern_who_Learns Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enough r/oddlyspecific I do agree with many of your points, but it sounds like you're also generalizing a lot and projecting your own experience here But yeah, mamas boys are often full of issues. The exact issues can vary, but the overall toxicity remains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 02:06 AM
3	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore I think you are right - and studies show that this is strongly correlated with better education and career prospects for women in society, as well as economic development of the country; more developed and equal nations are generally having less kids. But this is a problem, especially concerning the ageing population crisis. Also, as boomers' lifespans approach their ends (boomers being the richest generation in all of human history), the greatest transfer of wealth in human history is about to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 08:01 AM
1	Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshit Okay and how many men are between the ages 20-24? And how many of them are at least average or above looking? I'm sure a similar number. You don't have to be some superior man to pull - you just need to be reasonable. The "red pill" internet community is a refuge bubble for the angry failures. Internet hermits who only interact with "red pill" communities online are deluded into thinking that their community is so large that it's a majority and that most men are like this, when in fact most men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 09:56 PM
2	According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men. I find this quite flawed. It can't be healthy for someone to proactively choose friendships with "alpha males" and random other men they don't necessarily organically connect with, just to try and get laid in the long run. It also sounds like using other people to try and solve your own problems. Men who can't pull need to critically analyze themselves (advanced cognition, empathy and self-awareness being abilities we humans are blessed with, so use them!) and then work on their issues. Ugly or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 08:51 AM
3	Getting women to be initially interested in you almost entirely depends on whether they perceive you as above or below their league. I totally disagree. First of all, I don't think many women would react well to a stranger hitting on them in public, even if he was very good looking and "above her league". Also good looking men get rejected all the time for being the wrong vibe - it's not all just appearance and "league", but also things like how you carry yourself. Confidence matters but isn't just confidence, it's your entire style and choice of presenting yourself; for example, some women may prefer a suit and tie Wall Stre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 08:38 AM
1	A lot of guys who want virgins, even if they are virgins themselves, aren’t pure enough for a lot of women who want to wait for marriage Any guys on here who think that "women who aren’t virgins are impure hoes" are in for a harsh reality check, whenever it may come. For one, they need to get off Reddit and explore the real world around them. You're somewhat right that a lot of the "purity" oriented girls tend to be super religious and would probably reject pornography watchers, but I would also somewhat disagree - many so-called "pure" virgin girls actually frequently engage in oral sex and sodomy in order to avoid breaking thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 12:23 AM
1	Does availability of options dictate whether someone views dating as a market? You make intelligent points, but I would still disagree with this comparison. The art world is saturated (i.e. high supply) and multiple people seeking to purchase the same of artwork (i.e. higher demand) is rare - it only really starts to notably kick in for famous artists, at which point the art industry is really just a mafia-like scene for money laundering. Value here is actually quite artificial and is practically never determined by things like how nice the painting looks, or the skill of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 12:05 AM
-1	Does availability of options dictate whether someone views dating as a market? Economic forces would apply if we were talking about commodities, goods, services etc. - but no, we're talking about humans, of which each is different and unique. It's more like choosing who to form a friendship with, except deeper and more sexual. I'm not sure what relevance you think monogamy vs polygamy has to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 05:25 PM
3	Does availability of options dictate whether someone views dating as a market? I disagree with your premise that women have far more options than men. Women get a lot of unwanted attention from creeps, weirdos, womanisers and more - these are not reasonable options, just like how I'm sure most men wouldn't consider a violent heroin addicted ex-prison woman to be a reasonable option (to give an extreme example). Women can get laid easily, sure, but they cannot find a reasonable relationship so easily. As a man who had to try very hard to get any dates, I never once viewed t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 04:22 PM
11	Relationship expert says alpha males make up only 25-30% max of the male population, perhaps helps explain the 80/20 rule If this man was an actual expert in any academic sense, he would likely not be referring to "alpha" or "beta" males. He would most certainly not be commenting on what percentage of society are "alpha males" either. The entire "alpha male" thing came from a very old study of wolf pack behaviours, which has since been debunked. Try searching this guy up outside of his podcast, on Google Scholar - see how many papers he has published. If he has any less than 10 peer reviewed papers about the psycho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 09:09 AM
140	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. It's more about knowing which kind of men to avoid. Even then, it's all a game of chance and so I don't think any strategy would guarantee avoiding all abusive men, but a good filter could definitely filter a few obviously problematic ones out... 1) Don't date high school bullies. I don't care if they're funny, charismatic, tall, popular and strong - look at how they treat their victims. If you date him, you'll be a victim too. 2) Don't date men who you are attracted to for being confident but i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 11:35 AM
10	As a man, I am fed up with RP trying to hijack the definition of masculinity I agree with many of your points. Red pills do have some valid criticisms of society, but in general they are backwards and overly-negative toxic people who overthink and overanalyze society from afar, with the internet as their shield and echo chamber. It leads them to a warped view of reality. That said, you don't need to argue with them about masculinity - the global order is already takig care of them. They are being disenfranchised and deplatformed as we speak. They are also being laughed a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 10:58 AM
7	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts I somewhat agree with you, but also somewhat disagree with you. I think there are many reasons why many men aren't keen on ladies with very high body counts, but I think it can be justified to an argumentative Karen very simply as: "my dick, my choice". Keep repeating it until they go away - or at least, that's how I handle it on Reddit! I don't agree with you that "the majority of men are sexually unattracted to women who have slept around" - this sounds like an unsubstantiated and heavily echo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 07:37 PM
104	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Many women don't really stand for gender equality - they simply want to have the cake and eat it, when it comes to their rights and responsibilities in society. Feminism is a very deserving cause and clearly women's rights have been lacking for centuries, compared to men's rights, but if you stand for true gender equality then it must work both ways, even when not totally convenient for everyone. For example, if you want to encourage more women to take up currently male-dominated majors such as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:00 PM
2	DiCaprio: Your misogyny has been noticed. Oh yes, it's been noticed The fact that everything here has to be on some kind of "red pill" forum alienates half of the userbase here and prevents normal people from sharing their experiences of toxic golddiggers here. This is also why new content only comes every 24-48 hours and this sub is in no place to match and complement r/NiceGuys, despite it being important that it does. I'm not clicking on that and will wait until Reddit decides to show an image.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/09/22 10:19 AM
4	Are women just as cruel as men? That is the exact same kind of thinking that racists use when they point to crime statistics in order to justify their racist prejudice. The truth is that even one exception to the rule means that being prejudiced is deeply unfair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 12:03 PM
1	Are women just as cruel as men? The simple answer is that humans in general can be cruel. When it comes to the hetero dating game, the opposite sex's cruelty becomes more apparent but it is always important to note that your experience is limited and does not represent an accurate sample of all humanity - this is why so many females fall into the trap of saying "men are trash" and many males fall into the equivalent trap of saying "women are psychos". The truth is that all kinds of humans suck and it has very little to do with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:53 AM
4	Chasing that sky-high orphaned virgin shut in! Definitely a good, realistic set of expectations for this gamalóg! Her demand for no mothers or sisters or besties in the man's life is seriously messed up. She only wants to go for guys who lost their mothers? Is she insane? Is she so insecure that she cannot even consider a guy who has a mother? In what way does she think that mothers or sisters or friends are threats? Therapy is needed for this one.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/09/22 10:38 PM
13	"Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't like While "nice guy" is often used as a strawman, it is (in its correct use) used to refer to misogynists who think that women owe them sex, just because they were superficially "nice" (and not as if being nice is something you should be doing anyway, without expecting some physically intimate reward). They often become extremely hostile, in the face of rejection, resorting to more openly misogynistic and abusive insults. Whether or not many women date bullies is irrelevant to the situation of an in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 06:01 PM
1	“Keep This Between Us” on Hulu is the life that many of the women you know lived as teenagers. I agree with you. Women get treated like dumb objects at best or are outright abused at worst and it's terrible. Some stories are worse than others, but they all suck. Men have a hard time too, but usually in very different ways. We need to recognise that humans in general can really suck, regardless of gender, and that living as any gender has extremely difficult aspects that society needs to address. Tackling violence against women takes first priority, in a society with limited resources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:09 AM
31	Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom? Dildos fine, penis sleeves no. The toy should be its own separate thing, not an add-on for me to wear because I'm not good enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:05 AM
11	"You gotta love my 3 kids MORE than you love me." How does someone in a developed country even acquire 3 kids by age 25? I can more understand single mums who realised the heavy financial and emotional responsibility required, after the first pregnancy, and are now trying to balance everything and build themselves while they're still young, but someone like this is an enigma. Maybe she's just doing it for the government child support benefits. "I didn't choose the mom life, the mom life chose me!" Well that sounds like she was irresponsible abo…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/08/22 05:22 PM
6	What credit score do you need to be a stepdad? Is that a penis tattooed on her chest? Wtf. And she literally demands in writing: "good credit score", "good career" and "savings account". I am in disbelief. How transparent can you get? My rich grandpa ran off with a 19 year old ballerina, when he was in his 40s. What exactly does this 29 year old single mum with a penis tattooed on her chest think she can offer, to justify a younger more single rich man going for her as a golddigger? And why is everything on her profile about her demands for …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/08/22 10:04 AM