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really really far into the automated worker future not far at all progress of technology is exponential To be fair, women will be boned by that before men. After all, it's not like one gender will reign in the future. It'll be the same as now; a select few live in tremendous wealth, and the rest of us are left to fend for ourselves what will really happen will be that the transgenderism will become mainstream, and everyone will be able to choose a body and the scales of genders will instantly re…
/r/MensRights11/05/23 04:10 PM
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the pendulum is never going to swing back as technology progresses, men become more and more obsolete
/r/MensRights11/05/23 12:06 PM
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Well as I said, you're only as attractive as the best woman you can get at your most basic I don't agree with that you're giving women too much credit
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:09 AM
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not sure I'd call him "good looking" lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 10:39 AM
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nope, pick me has a different meaning pick me is reserved for women that go against the female collective, aka betraying the sisterhood
/r/MensRights11/05/23 10:36 AM
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lol I knew that you'd try to spin it into "men will fuck anything" men appreciate female looks and are attracted to women women are barely sexually attracted to men, and find most men unattractive spin it whatever way, I'm sure women are just so morally righteous for having obscene standards and not being attracted to men
/r/MensRights10/05/23 05:27 PM
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It's fine for women to care about looks - men do too! But if they have such draconian standards, why don't they appreciate the male body/looks? Seems like they are doing it not to be attracted, but not to be disgusted Men value female looks, and therefore even average looks are hot to them Women have crazy standards, but don't value looks, as the average is trash to them and a guy can't get laid based on looks like women can - he has to have a million other things too
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:59 PM
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Most women absolutely don't work out lol
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:52 PM
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even if it was to directly cause a suicide, with proof, noone would care, I mean false accusations and this type of female social warfare cost male lives everyday and noone is even speaking about it
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:09 PM
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mistyped
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:03 PM
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sarcasm?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 11:06 AM
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plenty of women nothing goes near my butt that's weird, vast majority of women prefer to be the receiver, not giver the fact that women are not as strongly attracted to men and have a way higher disgust level to things like the genitals and asshole
/r/MensRights10/05/23 11:06 AM
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the female inherent sexual worth is the pillar on which the female gender role disillusionment stands on
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 05:32 PM
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How is this not the evidence that women can use toxic and abusive female weapons such as slander, false accusations and reputation destruction on a society wide scale without any reprimand Just as male specific advantages (physical strength and the implications of it) became irrelevant under civilized society and technology, female ones that deal primarily with the social sphere of life became all the more powerful
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 03:48 PM
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Men cannot tell between a 30 yo and a 20 yo woman? sure
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 02:18 PM
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yet people often cite India as country where women's rights still have a way to go
/r/MensRights07/05/23 04:04 PM
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recorded? the cops were right there as it was happening
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:33 PM
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if it's not the truth then it should be easily disproved and the ideas would not even take root
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:48 PM
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What did he say
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 07:01 PM
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Just don't even live your life bro, just stay in your basement
/r/MensRights02/05/23 06:26 AM
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ya, so either have perfect looks (and get laid based on that) or have an unattainable lifestyle/charisma figured out this much so far
/r/seduction30/04/23 09:13 PM
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Pretty much every male is fuckable with decently muscular physique and low body fat in the face men are not women women can find sex just with a sexy body (which is even an average one), but it does not work that way for men, women do not have sex just because they think a guy has a "hot body", women aren't attracted to male bodies like we are to theirs women aren't nearly as obsessed with looks as you think if women arent about the looks, then why did you even mention "muscular physique"? if wo…
/r/seduction30/04/23 08:18 PM
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you can't be sexual if you don't have the looks in the first place and very few men have the looks
/r/seduction30/04/23 08:06 PM
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You choosing to tell me my comment made you faded bad just tells me it was on point
/r/MensRights30/04/23 10:26 AM
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ukrainecels need to make some sort of a database when it comes to this shit
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 04:01 PM
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men will still be the ones hit by the collapse the most lol
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 07:27 AM
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but you're wrong and a troll
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:46 PM
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no youre being downvoted for being a fucking retard "little pain"
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:43 PM
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dude that was sarcasm, based from the common reply "we do it for ourselves" even tho they clearly do it for the attention
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 05:30 PM
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well it's a pretty on point book I'd say
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 05:02 PM
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they do it for themselves dude but really, feeling sexy and desirable is a great feeling which is why women telling men "sex is not a need" or "you're not entitled to sex" is the most hypocritical shit ever
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 04:53 PM
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I've heard about it, it's on my reading list Why?
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 02:41 PM
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yep, even without either they will have better lives than all of us
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 12:33 PM
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there are not good parts of manhood - everything good men have and can have, women have also the advantages men have over women are insignificant at best, while the advantages women have over men are substantial there is nothing good about being a man
/r/MensRights24/04/23 09:55 AM
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the reasons why life sucks for men, are factual the tone of voice has nothing to do with facts and statistics seems like you just want to avoid stating your position, you even ignored my commend in the link
/r/MensRights24/04/23 09:18 AM
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there is no difference between text and voice, if what you say makes sense it makes sense in both voice and text if it does not, then it does not and "women not liking short men" is literally just the tip of the iceberg, of what is the position of men and women in our society https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/12wq7ck/im_beginning_to_believe_the_blackpill_is_not_as/jhhvt6p/
/r/MensRights24/04/23 08:35 AM
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men don't see this because they project - for men, the woman is the only avenue of emotional validation, affection, physical touch, "deep" relationship stuff etc... but for women it's not the case - women get all these needs met by their "platonic" friends for women the word "platonic" has a completely different meaning than it does for men, women have vast and rich social structures that get them all their emotional needs met for women sex is abundant, it's on tap their whole lives - therefore …
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 08:32 AM
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what delusion
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:56 AM
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the halo effect is well studies, youre talking nonsense it's fucking common sense too
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:30 AM
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trying to "stop the judgement of people on apperance" is a fools enderavour, people will always judge each other on appearance
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:29 AM
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what does she bring to the table? hell, why am I the one supposed to "take her" on a date?
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:28 AM
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1) men in power don't care about men below them, they act in the interest of women 2) if you're going by race, you should be worried about some other ethnic group being overrepresented 3) while men are at the top, they are ALSO at the bottom, men occupy both ends of the spectrum - youre committing apex fallacy
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:27 AM
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feminists seem to believe that when a boy hits 18 the Monopoly guy comes and hands them a new car, a couple of bags of money, a yacht, and an Orion slave girl those priviliged rich men are the only men that exist in the worldview of women
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:24 AM
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Which is what makes MGTOW so effective just deny yourself basic social needs bro
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:21 AM
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exactly, it's so infuriating that they expect us to engage in their insasne "we are the victims" rethoric
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:20 AM
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OKAY... let's discuss sexually suggestive comments. Let me see if I can make you see it from my point of view. I had a male coworker (who I never flirted with and I dressed modestly) tell me while I was on my knees cleaning a low shelf "while you're down there..." I'll let you figure out the rest. That's NOT a compliment is that really that much of a problem tho? seems like your life is so easy that you see even the mildest inconveniences as some great oppression
/r/MensRights24/04/23 07:18 AM
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what a fucking nonsense there are tons of studies proving the exact opposite
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:54 AM
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literally they want to continue acting like children but on a societal level
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:53 AM
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doomerpilled on this so fast you can "debunk" a lifetime of negative experiences and dozens upon dozens of studies?
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:52 AM
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what are women doing?
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:51 AM
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this is your mind on feminism
/r/MensRights24/04/23 06:51 AM
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it's kinda brutal to realize that men are just NPC's to women
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 10:21 PM
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one thing the blackpill does not cover is that women have all the power, at all times, and sometimes they decide to not go for chad but something else the blackpilled part is that they have all the power and youre just a plaything for them, they will throw you away once they get tired and find a new guy to entertain them just as easily
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 09:20 PM
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amazing argument one just needs to look outside and see that women have more vale, and better lives than men do
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:46 PM
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weird, misplaced anger, inadequacy, confusion, and delusion it's just men waking up from the gaslighting and lies, and realizing they are worthless compared to their female counterparts
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 01:37 PM
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isn't the man's character tested when a rich man goes for a "next door type" girl?
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 10:57 AM
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perhaps, but that would mean you were a chadlite below the fat all along pm face and Ill tell you I have a good eye for this
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 09:27 AM
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chad, chadlite, etc.. is about the face, not the overall rating
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 09:26 AM
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I'm talking about admitting the female privilege, not admitting some women are retarded
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 03:09 PM
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it will never be fair because women have sexual and reproductive power over men (that the feminists convinently forget about) in the past men had physical advantages, then financial - both have been taken away from men, so now the playing field is not level in an "equal" society women have the advantage, because their priviliges are social, more "soft", like getting more empathy, the sexual power as I already mentioned, the women are wondreful effect etc...
/r/MensRights20/04/23 03:34 PM
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incels are one of the most ethnically diverse groups
/r/AllPillDebate20/04/23 02:54 PM
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is there someone holding women at gunpoint forcing them to give birth? while it is a disadvantage of the female gender, it has also advantages - far more legal power over the child and the family men have zero say over their families or children
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:39 PM
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how is height cope it's the most well researched and objective trait
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 04:47 PM
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as a male you can't really talk about any of this in a mixed gender social circle, women are like rabid dogs when you call out their privilege but in an all male company, drunk at 2 am, literally every dude agrees with the "incel worldview", even sexually sucessful men, and even men with girlfriends almost as if it just made sense
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 08:50 AM
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go read the other stories if a woman wants to ruin your life, she will
/r/MensRights18/04/23 07:07 PM
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women are not entitled to sex or relationships
/r/MensRights18/04/23 04:19 PM
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I meant actual, real thirst traps the ones that have women liking it
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 04:09 PM
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Live your life as best as you can he can't tho because it at any point can be ruined by any woman
/r/MensRights18/04/23 04:08 PM
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why would women fuck men they dont find sexually attractive
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:36 AM
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they all find the same men attractive, they all want chad average body is not sexy to anybody, they all want athletic and tall
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:29 AM
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why would women suddenly want to fuck average men? averag men dont get any attention, if that was true, then average men would have women simping too go look up any thread where women are asked what % of men do they find attractive
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:20 AM
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one is not without the other women can both get good dick easily, and relationships also men have neither
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:19 AM
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studies prove women get more emathy look up "the empathy gap"
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:18 AM
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its just logic what, are "deviantart sonic fanfic and twitter fandom artists" not women? why should they suddenly be attracted to average men? when average mne aren not attractive to women
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:17 AM
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being able to find good partners easily IS a privilige
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 07:46 AM
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they still get more empathy, get better treatment, get partners easily... the female privilege is global, divorced from the racial or class privilige yes - white middle/upper class women have "the most" of privilege, bbut other types of women have plenty
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 07:46 AM
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now you're stretching the words tbh, do some people enjoy it to some extent? sure, but we can't say women like the male body like men like the female one
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 07:32 AM
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only the perfect ones get attetion tho - average men cannot "thirst trap" like average women can
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 07:08 AM
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an average guy cannot post his body in a sexual context, he'd get ridiculed only a jacked one can, because it's seen as an accomplishment, not a thirst trap men can't thirst trap (models on tiktok dont count)
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:46 PM
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Because you’re looking at insta thots most women dont even need to post anything extra to have unlimited options and attention
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:45 PM
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not even close one is sexual, the other one is just a pic noone gives a fuck about some random guys body it's not attractive (unless chad ofc), so noone cares
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:44 PM
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ignore the thousands of deviantart sonic fanfic and twitter fandom artists that counteract your argument those women are niche, and in reality they are the same, same hypergamy everything they can get laid with chad just as well
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:43 PM
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tr*nnies are unironically the least bad part of this image it's just guys who wanted to be women, I believe that they are actually more dateable than real women
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:11 PM
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It's easy to dismantly feminism with facts - the issue is that they don't care about facts
/r/MensRights17/04/23 03:23 PM
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Is this the real life? Is this just fantasy? Caught in a landside, No escape from reality
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 02:45 PM
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The most sufficient description is that your success is deiced by genetcs and your early life/environment aka that the most important factors were already set in stone long before you ever even thought about dating
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:37 AM
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what's untrue? female hypergamy is common knowledge by now
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:36 PM
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if you date a woman on your level, she will treat you like shit and constatnly be on a lookout for someone better
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:19 PM
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Actually, I would LOVE to not be desired for my body. I would LOVE for men to have a conversation with me without the intent of trying to get me in bed. I would LOVE for colleagues to be nice to me without thinking it’ll get me on my knees for them. I would LOVE for men to stop befriending me and then suddenly just asking for nudes because I “owe” them for how nice they are. I would LOVE for men to stop treating me like a game when they find out I like women, and insisting that I just “haven’t h…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:53 PM
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can you say the same for women without belittling their issues? I can, I do acknowledge that women face issues want I don't acknowledge is that those issues are worse than the male ones and I will also not accept women playing their issues up but you and i both know society is more dangerous for women which makes it a gendered problem women struggle with safety, so we do our best to help them men struggle in relationships and sex, so we tell them to go starve and die and they are not entitled to…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:14 PM
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that comes with its own set of problems for them. like filtering through a bunch of creepy weirdos and freaks, and people just using them for sex. sounds a lot better than the problems men face regardless that doesn’t change the fact that you aren’t owed a relationship. just like you aren’t owed anything else in life. you have to work for it. improve yourself, make yourself desirable funny how this is not you attitude when it comes to female issues and by the way, women - and men - should try to…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 04:39 PM
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it does not matter because he is disqualified based on the things he mentioned, before anything like personality or what he thinks of himself comes into play
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 11:56 AM
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your gender matters the most, that is the most important dice roll an average woman has a better life that even the top men
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 11:55 AM
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I don't want to be desired for just my body what if you never were desired for your body? what if you body was just not something that can be sexy or pretty? what if your body was just this thing, utilitarian, and not sexual in the slightest? worthless? what if you no longer could wear sexualized clothing and get attention and preferential treatment from men because of it? or having a super easy time dating because thanks to your looks and your body, the attraction from men is guaranteed? you wo…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 11:21 AM
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This isn’t a pissing contest about oppression and you’ve fully missed that as the point why should it not be? because men would come out as the victims and you can't have that happening? You obviously have a pretty deep seated issue with women you would also have a "deep seated issue" with the opposite gender if they had every privilege under the sun and chronically pretended how hard they have it and what victims they are
/r/MensRights16/04/23 11:10 AM
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there is no point in speaking with someone lying youre completely delusional if you thin having options is worse than having none most options women have are normal men, I will not be gaslight by your victim narrative that they all are trash, abusers or "bad" in some other way
/r/MensRights16/04/23 01:06 AM
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it's easy to see how good women have it just by observing the reality the female privilege is everywhere Have dates, have fun, get to know women in general dating is not fun for men, it's work We are not the enemy yeah? look at the comments OP got from women
/r/MensRights16/04/23 01:04 AM
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We want to be equals, Always have. you want to be superior, and to have all the power
/r/MensRights16/04/23 01:02 AM
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women have more options therefore better odds when you have no options, you have to take what you can, or be alone forever are you really saying having options is worse than not having any (or extremely little?)
/r/MensRights16/04/23 01:00 AM
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men dont build society for other men, they build it for women
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:58 AM
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according to your feminist opinion
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:57 AM
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What has happened to you that has given you this perspective? one just needs to open his eyes and see the anti male bias is everywhere
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:57 AM
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what do you bring to he table other then your body?
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:54 AM
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Women have it much harder than men, imo youre wrong and delusional women have it easier by every metric
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:54 AM
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you cant start because he's not wrong
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:53 AM
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Women also struggle with the exact same issues you do they dont women have sex and relationships on tap
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:53 AM
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it's rich from women to say men are not "owed" anything when they damn well know they themselves always had, have and will have sex and relationships on tap are women "owed" men trying to make society safer for them?
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:50 AM
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where did you come from? twoX? such obvious brigading I got first catcalled at 6, I first saw a man’s genitalia at 8, I was sexually touched by an adult at 12 and I got my first (of many) dick pics sent at 13. I was first told to work on my looks at 7, I was first declined a physical job at 11 because (and I quote) they “didn’t want my pretty little hands to get hurt”, I was first told to try to find a man who can support me at 12 and I was first laughed at what career I wanted at 14. I was firs…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:48 AM
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your whole comment is full of invented "issues" so you can pretend you have it harder while ignoring all your privilege's every single "point" you've made is wrong or written from a skewed perspective I don’t think you understand how difficult it is to find a man that doesn’t just want to sleep with us it's not difficult, there is plenty, and many of them above your level Not a relationship, just sleeping with me. The list of men who have objectified me is long enough to use as a rock climbing r…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:44 AM
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it may help you feel better to know that most of your views are categorically incorrect they are not, nearly everything he has said is on point Being a man is not a curse. Being human is hard being a man is far harder Good women cant find love either they can get sex and relationships on tap easier to find love when you have options People think we're lesbian old spinsters if we didn't find our guy by 25, and it hurts nobody thinks this, stop making shit up
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:37 AM
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yet men are expected to care about female problems
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:34 AM
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overcome these ideas those "ideas" ideas are reality and your comment is a fever dream of wanting to still be seen as the victim
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:32 AM
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because somehow the inequality in dating suddenly does not count as inequality
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:30 AM
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Plenty of women go through exactly what you described a small % of women does, while almost every guy does focus onto bettering yourself just better yourself until youre a 7 feel tall millonaire bro Every relationship I've had started with friendship. Even a sniff of "I think youre hot and want to fuck" sends me running from opposite sex friendships you're literally contradicting yourself But organically grown friendships to relationships no such thing as "organically grown" - it's always the ma…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:28 AM
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and listen to a goddamn feminist podcast while you’re at it my dude why should he? there is nothing legitimate about feminism - it's an anti-male hate movement
/r/MensRights16/04/23 12:25 AM
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brutal truth is that it's still better for them than it is for men their age
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 08:45 PM
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short chad slays amongst the % of women who care about face and not height, and the tall LTN slays amongst women who fetishize height/size
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 08:32 PM
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people just think that male beauty standards are not harsh because the men that do not meet them are invisible to them
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 06:58 PM
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height (or size in general), baldness, size of genitalia these things that impact all men to a some extent women don't have to worry about at all
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 06:58 PM
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if I could choose, I'd rather have my parents abort me and raise a female me
/r/MensRights15/04/23 06:55 PM
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do they? more men are single than ever and who's to say that the men are dating BECAUSE of their attractiveness and not DESPITE? most guys who date simply compensate for their lack of attractiveness with other traits
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 03:20 PM
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The majority of people are average average men are not attractive and get zero attention in the dating world, average men are worthless replaceable trash
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 03:11 PM
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from that standpoint men ARE taught to "never hit a woman"
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:39 PM
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Most men don't do the things you've listed most men DO try hard, some more, some less, depending on their starting position My husband and I met at 16, do you think he had had much time to grind? he didn't need to because his starting position was already good enough for you, his looks didn't need work and his personality/social skills neither not everyone is fortunate to have a good home life, naturally sociable personality and good looks
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 02:38 PM
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dude you literally cannot hit back because that will automatically make everyone see YOU as the abuser/instigator and it will give her all the material she needs to put you behind bars or if it's more of a stranger type situation, then some other man (or more) will step in and defend her/attack you
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:35 PM
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paywalled
/r/MensRights15/04/23 01:38 PM
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so show them how men suffered so that women can benefit?
/r/MensRights15/04/23 12:32 PM
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why bring male children to this anti male world? have female ones, or none at all
/r/MensRights15/04/23 12:32 PM
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"I started wearing skirts" "I started going to parties" "I became less shy and more friendly" meanwhile men: spend years grinding to get a well paying job spend years pushing your body to the limit to have the desirable physique grind social skills/"game" as if it was a videogame skill, with no regard for your mental health get plastic surgery which cost is in the tens of thousands (and that's assuming you even have genetic base that's good enough) isn't it insane that for women dating is actual…
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 12:29 PM
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The answer is that we would regress back, the world would be extremly tribal - women are much more attuned to hierarchies and in group biases
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 05:17 PM
4

I have, and I would switch in an instant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:24 PM
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this literally how women DO NOT think - they never look at a sub top % guy and think he looks attractive, their attraction is reserved for the genetic elite if you do not feel attraction, you simply do not feel attraction, I as a straight male am not attracted to men either The notion that "only the top 10% will do" in any aspect of life is some bizarre sophistry conjured up by inexplicably bitter people that contradicts the vast majority of what we see around us in everyday life if it's not tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:03 PM
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see if someone feels sorry for ya no-one feel sorry for men, the empathy gap is real You cannot expect to be treated like the other gender it’s just ridiculous no shit, but it also does not stop me from seeing how much better women have it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:46 PM
1

a man has to be very top % to have a similar power to a woman, an average or even above average dude has zero power compared to his gf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:31 PM
1

I dont need to talk to women to see that they are not attracted to average men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:23 PM
1

you cannot change your personality 180 guys who were losers in HS almost always stay losers for life (regarding women at least)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:21 PM
1

Like I've said more effort but also more reward. Most guys can't even make a women cum and idk if you heard of the orgasm gap? Sex is generally more pleasurable for the man dude how can sex be more plesaurable for the man if women have multiple full body orgasms? do you even have sex? who gets more pleasure, you or the woman? why are women so much louder and shake and scream? have you ever seen a man do that? ... So do men? I work in tech. A male dominated field and we are have women on my team.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:19 PM
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at some point it's not in your control, is it my fault I had bad formative years and have developed into a schizoid because of the rejection? I will never have the personality of a guy who was good looking and popular, he has a different brain not to mention the looks issue still remains, and both the things I've mentioned are also true to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:07 PM
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A HVM does not need to be top 5% I'd say I'm in the top 30% and I do good IRL and on ok on tinder. Keeps getting better, the more I improve. I'm no giga chad but I can fuck a new girl every other weekend if I really tried. yeah, you have to try hard - the woman does not have to try at all, the burden of performance is on you, and the actual act is even more enjoyable for her Versus a man will say he would prefer variety men also prefer relationships or FWBs because dating is just far more effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:58 PM
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what difference does it make when women are not attracted to me anyway and also hate me for some "oppression" that has supposedly happened hundreds of years ago, not to them, and not caused by me? do I even want to like women? when they hate me or see me as a disposable worthless male at best?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:54 PM
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you can look at any of the copious threads where women rave about how all men are ugly and how they find just a few % attractive one thread in the DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:48 PM
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like you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:26 PM
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Not true, a HVM has a much better life than an HVW. More respected, more freedom, not bound by age as much he is loved less, he gets less sympathy, he still has to provide and perform - so in the end a woman wins anyway and what about the fact that a good % of women are HVW while for men its a vanishingly small %? a HVM is a top 5% or so, while even a good half of the female population can be a HVW Women can get casual sex easily, but most women don't even enjoy casual sex like men do. Therefore…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:26 PM
1

is touching grass another way of saying you have no argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:21 PM
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not sexually they manage to attract women, but DESPITE their sexuality/body not BECAUSE for a man to have any sexual value he needs to be top tier, basically perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:19 PM
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good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:18 PM
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He's not in any % because he isn't even participating well he can see the types that are wanted and knows that isnt him And not only 10% of men manage to date but are they getting dates BECAUSE of their attractivness, or DESPITE? You're another example of those dudes that live online and pretend like average dudes don't date and only the 1 hot guy in town gets to average dudes get to chase like pathetic dogs and are unsucessful in the end anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:15 PM
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I find solace is the fact that being HVM is better than being HVW. that's not true, women get better treatment all over the spectrum When a women becomes HVW her options decrease bc she won't go for a dude beneath her that's entirely on her So all the advantage they have really means NIL because their mating strategies are diffrent. yet women are able to get anything they want sexually or romantically, so how are they NIL?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:13 PM
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I have never seen a woman show attraction for traits that are found in average men, it's alwyas above average traits, tall, big dick, model face, amazing charisma, built body an average male does not have attractive traits like an average woman, men don't get to have an attractive body regardless of the height or the size of genitals and average male is sexually worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:11 PM
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why should I not hate women for being only attracted to the top 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:07 PM
4

explain how a man is supposed not to be bitter after discovering that women lead objectively better lives just due to their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:06 PM
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there is not much difference between "the real world" and this sub its not like the gender dynamics suddenly shift
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:05 PM
0

the stats say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:04 PM
2

why should the men not have a grudge?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:04 PM
2

The majority of the real world is not like this presented without argument They don't need biased internet forums to tell them how to live based on other people's specific lifestyles and past. they are just experiencing the pills IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:03 PM
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dating is just one side of the oppression men face, compulsory military service being another one of many others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:02 PM
2

do you really think OP is in the top 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:01 PM
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There is no help, that's the whole point That there is nothing to do except these 3 options: 1) break yourself grinding your entire life to get extremely expensive surgery, steroids, hair transplants, do dangerous dick enlargement, all for just just for a crumb of affection from creatures who did not have to do even a fraction of what you did and have more than you can ever imagine 2) live life in solitude 3) kill yourself
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 02:13 PM
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That's not true - he (and me and other worthless men) lacks the genetic makeup to be sexually attractive He is not tall enough, not factually good looking enough, his wrists may be too thing or his build very slim in general, dick too small etc there is a million things that a man needs to have to he physically attractive - and few have them all A man has to be pretty much perfect to be a "Chad", and not only physically but also mentally and personality wise - don't you think that's a tall order…
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 01:45 PM
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it's impossible because it's like they're different creatures they are you and (most) women do not live in the same reality you are a cockroach and they are loved, wanted and valued
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 12:59 PM
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the mind is in a "messy place" because his life as a worthless incel male is dogshit, I don't know what state do you expect him to be mental health is a joke for inferior men, mental health is a privilige afforded to those who have value
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 12:57 PM
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Not a wrong take Is it really not better to abort a male and have a female child? There is a 100% chance that the female will have a FAR better life than the male, it all aspects What's the point of bringing another incel into this world? I know that I would rather have been aborted and born female instead
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 11:57 AM
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If you aren't a dancing monkey then you will simply be unsuccessful dating because there always will be another man who is willing to be more engaging and entertaining than you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:29 AM
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All a woman needs to have a nice life, are her looks What a man needs to have a woman, is a nice life - aka having it all, looks, lifestyle, money, charisma... Not one thing can be lackluster Then a woman latches onto him, and experiences life through him - she does not need to do anything, he will create an interesting life, good experiences for her, and if he does not, she will find another male that does How anyone can even debate the equality of dating is beyond me, being accepted by a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:28 AM
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Men have the short end of the stick in literally everything social, so sex, dating, even friendships and social groups Women are kings of the social domain and a male can never hope to match the value of any given woman - women have inherent value while men are inherently worthless Any dude other than the one model all women want loses And even that one alpha loses too because he is just objectified & if he was to hit a worse period in life, all the women would abandon him for another one that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:26 AM
1

All a woman needs to have a nice life, are her looks What a man needs to have a woman, is a nice life - aka having it all, looks, lifestyle, money, charisma... Not one thing can be lackluster Then a woman latches onto him, and experiences life through him - she does not need to do anything, he will create an interesting life, good experiences for her, and if he does not, she will find another male that does How anyone can even debate the equality of dating is beyond me, being accepted by a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:58 AM
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I have trouble believing this
/r/MensRights13/04/23 07:51 AM
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It's a mindset of a male who never was and never will be a sexual entity
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 07:45 AM
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How will therapy help him It's just blue pill, packaged in a more professional way His problems are real, not imagined
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 07:44 AM
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Not a single guy in this place is the type of a guy who gets women do this to them Women don't care if some average dude does not want them, this is about Chad and always was
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 07:42 AM
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If you wanted to have been loved or accepted, you should have been born a woman as if we're not human, all ugly men are completely subhuman Not just ugly men are subhuman - all men are subhuman compared to women All men lack innate value, all men are expected to perform the masculine gender role aka provide and serve women Good looking guys just get chosen to fullfil this role more - but is it really a victory, the permission to provide for a woman? Even the best looking men have it worse than m…
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 07:34 AM
1

A 6/10 that is 5'8 and athletic is still quite a lot below the actually attractive men A guy like that will still get slaughtered on the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:21 AM
1

Most men self improve to get laid, most women can get laid (and get relationships) without needing any self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:16 AM
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being attractive IS everything, because if you're not attractive, you're just not on the radar
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 07:43 PM
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pointless, he is invisible regardless
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 07:42 PM
1

one can also learn from observing how women act
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 09:34 PM
0

yeah women are taught its okay to be bitchy & emotionally manipulate men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:52 PM
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dont act like "plain, demure, chaste" women dont get attention they get plenty, unless they are ugly I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:48 PM
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Hygiene, athletics, charisma, intellect, humor, financial status, gentle values and virtues all irrelevant if the genetic base is not there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:26 PM
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youre expecting the impossible thats not how humans work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:10 PM
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youre expecting men to skip a step on the hierarchy of needs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:52 AM
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they don't really do anything to actually improve how attractive they are to women there isnt much men can do: all the important traits are genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:51 AM
2

What makes men and women truly equal did you mean to say "unequal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:50 AM
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which is why women having the advantage in sex and dating (or anything social) is such a huge privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:47 AM
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well he's not a 9
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:25 AM
2

a man that is funny but not attractive is a friend, not a lover
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:20 PM
2

if he's not fuckable, how can one liners and jokes help
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:04 PM
1

a 5'9 dude can never be truly top %
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:56 PM
1

at what cost
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:55 PM
1

I'm not 6'3" or a male model and I still managed to be successful (on dating apps no less). define successful you're not getting laid easily, not without tons of effort, and not with women on your (or above) level and when you DO get laid, its all about the woman anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:51 PM
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Men have physical advantages over women, and when they abuse them, its physical sexual harassment - women can't defend themselves much, unless another man steps in and protects her Women have social powers over men, men cannot defend themselves against it - what these women are doing is equivalent to male physical sexual harassment, it's social harassment, a social attack - and it's entirely legal and encouraged, and you cannot defend yourself as a male, in the social realm and a false rape accu…
/r/MensRights08/04/23 06:48 PM
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Women have become more willing to remain single rather than lower their standards. they are not "single" if they have sex and fwb's with the best looking men lowering their standards: touching a guy that is not 6'3 Because there are a lot of undesirable women who also aren't getting relationships. every woman that wants one, can get one - with a man that better than her I don't consider "you have to step up your game" to be bad for men, but you do you. sure, Ill step up my game and become a 6'3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:31 PM
2

if a guy is not sexually attractive, what good will meeting many women do for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:18 PM
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either it applies, or women have far less desire for men overall - because you have to explain all the men who get 0 attention their whole lives, and there's a lot of them both cases are bad for men anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:53 PM
2

when men swipe they aren't interested? there is just as many toxic women as men - if not more since female abusers are more tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:29 PM
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the % of bad options for men is about the same, if not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:29 PM
1

you cannot alter your personality to such a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:30 PM
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aka almost all women are above men in our society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:28 PM
2

million times harder to be an attractive man tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:26 PM
3

any remotely cute woman can get an older rich guy to fund her lifestyle and the guys are not even ugly, and treat them nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:25 PM
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women dont have to do any of that - aka they have privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:17 PM
10

top women above top men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:12 PM
9

everyone is so creepy now aka male sexuality is unwanted by women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:10 PM
0

to be an 8 you'd need to be like 6'1 or taller so not possible for most
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:01 PM
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it applies IRL and also to relationships as well average men are worthless to women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:59 AM
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there is no point if one is to be romantically and sexually unsuccessful forever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:57 AM
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both short guys are undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:52 AM
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.. . A hot woman, isnt a hot guy. I don't think you understand my "male equivalent" comment. are you stupid or something? that is exactly my point, a hot guy = top 10%, a a hot woman = top 50% its so much easier to be "hot" as a woman a shinny woman is hot, yet a skinny guy is not - a guy has to spend years in the gym, assuming he is not too short or bald in the first place it actually makes me mad how your female brain cannot accept that you just have it easier - newsflash: you'd have been ugly…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 12:24 AM
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Most guys have to level up just to be allowed to please a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:07 AM
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there is no point engaging with you if youre this bad faith yah sure, I, a normal looking slightly cute dude, with a normal body would be an ugly cheap reclusive prostitute I know very well what I would look like as a woman, its not hard to imagine at all - and that woman would be highly desired it just shows how much easier it is for women to be attractive, the bar is so much lower
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 12:04 AM
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my attention, affection, sexuality, friendship, effort (and others) all of them are low value because I am a male and men are worthless and abundant, while these things from a woman have high value
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:55 PM
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but the female equivalent of me is a "hottie" take me, and change nothing but the gender, and youll have a "hottie" - skinny, cute, etc all my negative traits are suddenly endearing: introversion is no longer an issue, low social status, etc do you not understand that women just have more value just due to being women? the average woman is hot, while the average guy is an entirely asexual being
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:54 PM
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That’s really limited thinking its reality for men I feel pity for you because with that sour puss attitude you’ll never find a woman who will support you because you won’t even allow her too because of your mentality my mentality reflects the situation, and changing my mentality wont change how the genders interact with each other What would you want as support from your woman if this is what you believe? the same thing I give her - but that impossible because the male is the lower value party
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:51 PM
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this is the model for (almost) all heterosexual relationships women do not date down
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:45 PM
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It’s dangerous to say all women don’t support men. That’s not true the system works in such a way that women simply dont have to, (and are actually encouraged to treat men like trash) women have their sexual capital, and that alone is worth so much, that they dont need to do anything else - while men dont have any, so they are forced to compensate for the lack in other ways, like effort, money, or literally anything of value
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:40 PM
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women dont support men because they dont have to, and also they have been taught their whole lives that men are there to take care of them
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:34 PM
1

Someone is able to support me and I can support them women dont support men
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:29 PM
1

what a bullshit - women always want the man to be better than them
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:28 PM
1

it does not matter as youre in the same position anyway
/r/MensRights07/04/23 11:04 PM
3

how come when women are provided for?
/r/MensRights07/04/23 11:04 PM
0

then youre not a part of the conversation and dont matter in this context just like asexual people
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 08:37 AM
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wow 2 women over an entire life? truly an amount needed to have an amazing sex and romantic life
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 07:16 AM
1

"check out" what does that even mean most men are already checked out, they are invisible to women are they going to stop working? what will they eat? where will they live? how will they afford their complacent lifestyles?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:30 PM
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cope this is inherent to our species, it always was like this, and always will be only at certain times in some societies it was different, but that's because the circumstances were also different now, that technology has eroded any advantage men have, it's over men have physical strengths, which are irrelevant in todays modern society, and women have social strengths, which have never been stronger look into male out group bias and the female in-group bias = men can never win on a societal scal…
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:24 PM
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It's just the side-effect of men having no value we as species do not care if low value people have problems, I mean take a look at this a woman is complaining about being TOO attractive - someone who is literally at the top of society, the single most privileged class it's like a billionaire complaining he's too rich and that's causing him issues - completely insane yet, there is nothing but sympathy in the comments, how crazy is that? the human inclination to give women sympathy and see them a…
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:14 PM
2

in todays world, men and women are not even the same species - at least if we judge it by life experiences, and quality of life
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 09:53 PM
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dating apps only expose true human nature it's the same IRL, just less visible
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 09:51 PM
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absolutely not, a woman like that has lived entire lifetimes more of experiences going on dates, free vacations, unlimited attention, parties, festivals, all kinds of fun social situations - while the man had to rot, or wageslave because he was undesirable
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 08:49 PM
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I looked at some comments and other posts here earlier today. I recall one anecdote about a woman complaining about the way her rp ex had her play in some invisible competition with a rotation of other girls. She got out, and good on her. But then I have to ask, what about those other girls? that's not the norm, unless a woman wants to date a model outside of her league - its such a fraction of men that gets any attention from women to begin with women have all the power in sex and dating, not t…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 08:34 PM
0

Gain depth as a human beyond "how much you make", "how much you lift", or your videogame skills and anime collection. Be a dynamic, interesting, confident person, who shows emotional depth (including compassion and empathy). Work on your conversation and social-relational skills. all of that is irrelevant because those men are not physically attractive nothing can substitute for physical attraction what you named comes AFTER two people find each other attractive So step it up and bring us equall…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 08:23 PM
1

If you mean to say that I am not ok with my boyfriend purposefully flirting with other women in a real and intentional way, that's correct yet youre content with enjoying the fact youre attractive and wanted by other men I do not accept infidelity, disloyalty, and trying to cause a feeling of dread in me yet youre content with causing that feeling in him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:13 PM
1

I do come from a place where ugly men still get women (Asian from Asia), but they both know that it is often for financial/comfort reason rather than genuine sexual interest (but with both partner aware and agreed to it, so no deception). sounds amazing
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 08:11 PM
1

old men being sexually successful is a redpill cope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:08 PM
5

not all casual sex is equal meeting a random dude from tinder != having an authentic connection (and sex) with some cute guy at the hotel during a vacation women go through life knowing that the option of sex and romance almost always is there there are many options where the whole thing is just good - safe, good sex, chemistry, simply everything just because most options are bad, does not mean that you still dont have 100 times more good options than men 90% of men never experience a spontaneou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:56 PM
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not all casual sex is equal meeting a random dude from tinder != having an authentic connection (and sex) with some cute guy at the hotel during a vacation women go through life knowing that the option of sex and romance almost always is there there are many options where the whole thing is just good - safe, good sex, chemistry, simply everything just because most options are bad, does not mean that you still dont have 100 times more good options than men 90% of men never experience a spontaneou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:56 PM
3

A man can also arrange his life in such a way that those three things are also true for him. most cannot, they lack the genetic foundation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:50 PM
24

most men are never chosen sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:49 PM
22

if you never had access to sex and had 0 people in your life that find you attractive, youd act the same its only your abundance that allows you to take the moral high ground
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:48 PM
34

women dont care about male issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:47 PM
1

average woman - sexy average man - far from it it takes SO much more for a guy to be attractive, let alone sexy
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 10:29 PM
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But it is unfair to claim only a small % of women are unattractive. It’s easy to think this way, but if I’m honest with myself about how I treated women in my youth, I completely ignored women who weren’t extremely pretty. But men are much more desperate about this than women are, so it affects men differently. Maybe men should introspect on why that is vast majority of women can become pretty with little bit of effort just some gym, skincare no need for surgery like men have to they dont even h…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 10:05 PM
0

lol, sorry for not accepting your just world take where women are angels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:41 PM
1

Plenty of 6 or 7's by your standards get laid after doing how much work? I said get laid on looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:20 PM
0

there is a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeee gap in between those two is it? in the end it's the same: women have all the power since men are the desperate party and by quite a big margin in the end men have to dance as women whistle
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 09:19 PM
0

Maybe shit like this has something to do with it?? nope, those men are simply not good enough genetically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:18 PM
6

women see most men as worthless, why would they want relationships with them? they want relationships with the top % which they are also having casual sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:03 PM
2

‘They do not look like models’. Touch the grass. Go to your local high street. Plenty of average, or even ugly, couples exist. I dont care about men whose women are not attracted to them Most (not all, but most) women want relationships most women see most men as trash, and wants nothing to do with us They are losing because as explained they want casual sex and women don’t men also lose in the relationship game, not just the sex game Women are ALSO losing, because they are being used and manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:00 PM
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This is an issue for entitled, socially maladaptive men, who failed to adapt and thrive under changes that came with feminism and equal rights for women. That's entirely self-inflicted, and if all you want to do is whine (instead of take personal accountability), then likely not a whole lot of people are going to care, no. how are men supposed to adapt? grow taller? rearrange our facial bones? women are only attracted to a few %, the rest are sexually worthless Women do not "hold all the cards" …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:58 PM
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I don’t think people who do all the right things don’t get laid. There will be a reason they don’t get laid. And unless that reason is addressed then they still won’t get laid. they are unattractive, or, they do not look like models Also most women DO NOT WANT CASUAL SEX yet they have a lot of it they are kinda losing from the start they are losing because theyre men - men lose by default in the human race
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:48 PM
6

Tbh I don’t believe they exist you dont think men who dont get laid exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:39 PM
3

lol look what "male hyperagency" means
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:38 PM
2

Most want relationships most dont want anything to do with most men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:37 PM
-1

you only consider the women, and dont give a fuck about men you see this as a power struggle, one that women are winning, but at what cost? men and women are hating each other at unprecedented rates you want men to dance as you whistle, and if they dont, you throw them into trash - because you can as most women do and you wonder that men have negative opinions of women? how about you start seeing men as humans, and treat us as such or is that too much to want from your misandrist brain? I have t…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:32 PM
-1

No one cares what you "want", get it? do men not care about female issues? why should men continue to care, when you clearly do not give a fuck about ours That's entitlement (and you're whining) are women entitled to men caring about your issues? (like you expect from us) except women do not give a rats ass about what men want as you've demonstrated here, since they hold all the cards since when tf consider anything from the male perspective - theyre too high up in their ivory tower to care abou…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:15 PM
0

truly the empathetic gender really anti redpill when you tell men to either dance as women want, or go die really raises my opinion of women
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:07 PM
1

if women were as attracted to men as we are to them, things would look a lot differently
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 08:00 PM
1

straight women are way less into men than men are into women some exception with a male model or an actor does not change anything - men prefer models too, but they are also attracted to cute next door types too women are not if women were into men, a male 6 or a 7 would get laid based on looks easily
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:59 PM
0

nope, male sexuality as a whole is seen as worthless and negative Men who are confident in who they are, have good hygiene, goals, and ambitions, are desirable nope, only a few % of men are desirable just look at the reaction people have when women complain about sex ("men should do better"), and when men complain (they just get called incels) If you are looking for women to be as interested in meaningless, unattached sex as men are (and as shallowly attracted to only physicality), you're going …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 07:20 PM
1

it makes a lot of sense, you're just not trying to understand maybe you're a woman too
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 06:56 PM
0

The 298384737 checklist somehow magically gets taken care of when you’re not taking everything she says so seriously and just doing your thing more like "gets taken care of when your a tall, athletic male model"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:33 PM
-1

How is 5-10% reasonable when every woman I know has been harassed, sexually assaulted, or had some uncomfortable experience with a man perhaps they are embellishing a little? every woman want to have her own "harassment" story, it's a lot of clout in female circles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:32 PM
1

so you can enjoy the attention of the members of the opposite sex, but he can't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:25 PM
2

isn't that the crux of the whole issue? women not being into men as much as men into women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:24 PM
1

? answering the question
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 05:24 PM
1

how is that relevant to my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:09 PM
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Not really, women who don’t meet conventional attractiveness standards and those out of a narrow age range are by default just as undesirable oh, okay, so it's 80% of men, and a few bottom % of (mostly) obese women totally equal
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 05:08 PM
1

I feel like it would be super helpful for men to have a community amongst themselves where they could focus on building their self esteem outside of the conversation of relationships and women but in the end it would be pointless because they would be as undesirable as ever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:57 PM
-1

yes to all counts
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 04:56 PM
-1

The guy whining about some woman friend-zoning him? No one's holding a gun to his head and forcing him to stay friends with her. The woman whining about some man only keeping her around for sex? No one's holding a gun to her head and forcing her to have sex with him. it's easy for a woman to find new connections, but hard for a man so not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:45 PM
1

just be born into the worthless gender but dont be "jaded" bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:44 PM
-1

but you have had that privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:43 PM
1

Why not get mad at the men that are hitting on your woman instead of at her for just existing as a woman? Or, I can get mad at women because they don't even find men attractive or should I get mad at nature, for giving men such a dogshit position in sex and dating, in our race?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:41 PM
1

I could say the same for men, some men work out and post shirtless pics on Instagram to get likes from women those men do not get likes from women lmao Does that automatically mean that I secretly love the attention and that's the reason why I go? Even when getting followed around all night to the point where I want to leave almost makes me not want to go at all? stop trying to invent problems to be a victim what you experience, is the goal for men, that is our dream youd mentally self destruct …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:39 PM
2

whatever it is in your life that is making you feel like you and all other men are worthless just seeing how the human race works it's pretty clear, that we as a species value women more (and I'm not even speaking sexually) It also helps to not put women on such a high up pedestal and just start seeing us as people same as men even though we're different but we are not the same if my gender was switched, I would be hopelessly out of my "current me's" league how are they not on a pedestal, when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:35 PM
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because men are by default undesirable, sexually worthless you cannot understand, because for you, a woman, being desirable is like air - you've always had it, and know you always will but without it you would choke you have no idea, what's it like to live your life, without any sexuality, to always suppress that large part of yourself because it's undesirable and worthless you would have a mental breakdown the second your sexuality would no longer be seen as something positive, but as something…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 03:49 PM
1

but they still go to clubs and post on Instagram they go there because women are there, and also the average clubbing experience is a bit different for the average man vs an average woman don't you think? b) most people go out and have fun and post pictures online because they want to enjoy themselves, not because they have weird ulterior motives you can't deny that the attention, free drinks and validation are a big part of the female experience, but not the male one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:28 PM
1

women like going to clubs or posting on Instagram BECAUSE of the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:06 PM
1

yes it makes the whole thing different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:39 PM
1

And funny you should talk about delusions, because you are clinging to yours really hard, dude :D the entirety of our society is set up in a way, where men have to work and compensate for their lack of sexual value with something else why do women get offended when men want just sex? because they know their sexuality is an asset, and men wanting it for free (or exchanged for their own worthless male one) is insulting to them But I'll tell you dude - I'd not have wanted to be born a female. No of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:31 PM
1

my problem is my gender, not my looks - had I been born a woman, I would be sexy, but as a male, I am not, and will never be certainly not anywhere a woman can be my attitude does not matter, I am worthless and invisible to women in the first place, my attitude does not even come to the question Lack of confidence and self-worth is physically visible why tf should I have "confidence" or self worth? as a male, I have no value - especially in the context of sex and dating Utterly not true. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:06 PM
1

Hit the gym, groom yourself up the male body is fundamentally unattractive, and any effort or work that goes into it has a horrendous ROI why do I go to the gym? just to cope I suppose, no woman is ever going go lust after it, it's never going to be attractive it already should be attractive, but too bad, male bodies aren't besides, I don't have the genetic foundation needed to build such a body, my wrists are only 6 inches, and I'm only of average height not to mention, that even the perfect ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:40 PM
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You, a second class worker drone, were not supposed to try to engage in having fun in a club, that is for women only
/r/MensRights02/04/23 01:24 PM
1

if your point stands on something that happens to only 1% of the population, maybe it's a bad take
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:21 PM
1

Men are sexually worthless, and women have sexual value. Women can do everything men can, but men can never match women in the realm of sex and dating So explain to me, how are men not inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:13 PM
1

It's not fair to expect young beautiful girls to just skip that right of passage so what equivalent do men get?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:09 PM
2

or rather pointing out the inequalities and double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:09 PM
1

so basically you want to own all the sexual capital in the relationship, and if he ever did anything in attempt to equalize it, you'd end things and find a guy who is content with you holding all the power
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:08 PM
1

getting over your resentment I don't think it's possible to get over the fact that men are basically inferior to women in life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:07 PM
4

so basically you want to own all the sexual capital in the relationship, and if he ever did anything in attempt to equalize it, you'd end things and find a guy who is content with you holding all the power
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:04 PM
2

take the hint and move on move on to what? for the majority of men, there aren't any women that actually find them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:02 PM
2

Men also post pictures of themselves on Instagram and go to the club it's not equivalent - nobody gives a fuck about dudes in the club or on the Instagram, and surely won't give them sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:49 PM
2

how is a man supposed to come to terms with the fact he's worthless compared to the woman he's with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:48 PM
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