BestAdviceYouCanHave Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Do you keep in touch After meetimg or hooking up with women while traveling? Not all women want to keep in touch with you though. That’s the problem	/r/seduction	15/05/25 02:12 PM
1	Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new people You’re not him. Move on.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 11:56 AM
7	20M, have everything to get laid but am scared Just by having to tell us that you are good looking, having a nice physique and have charm shows that you aren’t actually confident. Confidence is not caring if you have either and still go at it.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 10:39 AM
1	Ever fail to escalate early and she got cold? You said some	/r/seduction	25/10/22 02:10 AM
4	Club/Bar Game Tips I never buy drinks just to know a girl. I buy them drinks because it’s already going well and they’re nice 👌🏻 After talking to her for a bit and things are going well and she’s laughing and finishing up her own drink, that’s when I either tell her to follow me to the bar so I can top her up because I noticed her cup and mine is empty, or if a waiter passes by I’ll order myself one and point to her empty glass and say “what were you drinking? I’ll get this one..” slide the cash into the waiters h…	/r/seduction	23/10/22 11:20 AM
7	Ever fail to escalate early and she got cold? This is gonna be an unpopular opinion. I believe if it were because you took things too slow that it grew cold, she didn’t like you enough yet anyways.	/r/seduction	23/10/22 11:06 AM
1	Should I hide a political book because a girl will come watch a movie with me? Nice try grand wizard! Nice try!	/r/seduction	22/10/22 10:29 AM
1	I asked someone out for the first time in my life ! Rejection is just appetiser my man! It doesn’t say anything about you most of the time. A lot of times it can be the right girl just wrong time. Keep goin!	/r/seduction	21/10/22 11:24 AM
1	How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates? If you can count the number of rejection you have as a guy, you’re going in too few times!	/r/seduction	21/10/22 11:18 AM
1	Need advice for this and a girl point of view I guess. In my experience they always want to smash after giving you oral lol… let her say she wants it. Don’t even reply or respond, just continue foreplay till she begs.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 01:48 AM
0	"Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudes I agree… learning to socialise is #1 … of course followed by a decent paying job and some fun hobbies. You’ll be set.	/r/seduction	10/10/22 04:07 PM
2	How to date an introvert? It was probably the staring that did her in	/r/seduction	08/10/22 02:05 AM
1	How to date an introvert? Stop making small talk to get them to respond. They don’t like it. They’ll talk when they feel like it. Just smile and show them you’re having fun. It’s enough.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 01:23 PM
1	Why was I in a auto mode on my first time? IT’s performance anxiety. It’s real. You got to be comfortable and not think about the whole thing too much.	/r/seduction	06/10/22 02:54 PM
5	What am I doing wrong 18-20 girls want tall guys. When they hit 29 they realise that tall guys can protect them from a lot of things but poverty is not one of them. Wealth is where it’s at when they hit that age 😅	/r/seduction	05/10/22 11:43 AM
1	I've had an awkward conversation with the girl I like.. A girl has probably about 4-5 other guys that like her excluding you. You gotta be quick, make an impression and land her. If she doesn’t show interest, it’s probably becoz she likes one of the other 5 guys better. Move on after that. My advice is to go ask out another 4-5 girls, and pick the one who takes the time to get to know you better. It’s a numbers game.	/r/seduction	05/10/22 11:38 AM
1	I've had an awkward conversation with the girl I like.. They always are. That’s probably where she was rushing off to.	/r/seduction	05/10/22 11:35 AM
1	How to get out of your head? If you noticed already that waiting actually doesn’t make the “timing” any better then whatever better time then now? :)	/r/seduction	04/10/22 02:02 AM
68	What topics should you talk about with a girl? Views of feminism to make her feel angry 🤣 damn	/r/seduction	01/10/22 04:37 PM
0	Distinguishing friendly behavior and romantic interest Ok the joke totally went over your head.	/r/seduction	30/08/22 01:31 AM
7	Distinguishing friendly behavior and romantic interest None. Women are bad at it. Some show too much, some show none at all. They all mean different things and will get angry with you if you get it wrong! Approach with caution. If you get it wrong, offer her some money, back away and apologise profusely.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 10:32 AM
13	How do you subtly turn a girl on? Instructions unclear. Sunk a ship trying.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 11:24 AM
2	What do I do? All publicity is good publicity! All guys try to stand out from the crowd at the beginning, the rest is up to you my friend. Take advantage of any advantage you have! Own it!	/r/seduction	26/08/22 11:06 AM
1	Bars vs Clubs? Clubs are only good if you already know people there who treat you well (staff) or have a lot of money to blow. If you have neither, you’re gonna be treated like shit the whole night.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 10:18 AM
1	Paying for sex, am I a loser? You gotta pay for pussy no matter what	/r/seduction	26/04/22 12:16 PM
5	Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly? Start removing the cameras all over the apartment!	/r/seduction	21/04/22 11:35 AM
-1	How to approach girls on the gym? You don’t lol	/r/seduction	15/04/22 11:44 AM
1	Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girls Wise pearls of wisdom! You tell’em bruhhh! #truth	/r/seduction	06/04/22 11:14 AM
66	How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate? You would have to enter a hidden cave and have met a wiseman with a robe for this kind of advice. Give him your gold. Listen to him.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 10:41 AM
0	Maybe = No, right? Maybe you’re just bad with women lol	/r/seduction	23/02/22 03:37 AM
1	Maybe = No, right? Any maybes can always be turned into a yes	/r/seduction	23/02/22 12:41 AM
0	Maybe = No, right? When it’s a no.. you’ll definitely know it 100%… women are pretty ruthless if they don’t like you. They’re well trained in the art of rejection. Maybe is definitely a maybe but you gotta be cool becoz after the maybe it might very well be a no if you get it wrong!	/r/seduction	22/02/22 02:22 PM
70	Maybe = No, right? Maybe means maybe… the pick up line was cringe and she probably thought the same however she said maybe and perhaps is willing to forget about it if you can be less creepy the second time. She’s giving you a chance mate. Take it. Be nice be natural and you’re in!	/r/seduction	22/02/22 02:11 PM
1	Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy? Yes.. the best time to date is in Uni	/r/seduction	21/02/22 10:09 AM
109	Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your life Software developers all over the world shedding tears now	/r/seduction	20/02/22 07:02 AM
1	How to approach in social media to random girls through DMs? Using social media to fine women to date is like the equivalent of looking for a job on tinder. Basically you are using the wrong platform to find dates. Go pick do your research and find out what is an activity girls like to do and where you can meet them. It could be like rock climbing, some yoga or exercise class like spin etc etc… make sure it’s an activity you also enjoy. This at least guarantees you that you have something in common immediately and can hit the ground running.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 05:48 AM
1	How do I get girls to approach me first so I don’t get rejected? You’re a guy. Getting rejected is part of the game. If you can’t bare being rejected, you’re a woman.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 05:42 AM
1	[deleted by user] So your friend is a slut. Who are you to change her? Are you in love with her or the image you have of her in your mind. If u can accept that she’s a slut and still love her than you won’t want to change her. If you can’t accept that she’s a slut then you’re not really in love with her.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 05:19 AM
1	Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy? Yes they always want more! Ain’t nobody got time for that shit!	/r/seduction	18/02/22 09:01 AM
1	I’m beginning to feel like cold approach doesn’t work. Your 4 sample group is smaller than my user interface sample test group of 20	/r/seduction	17/02/22 12:22 PM
18	Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately after Women sometimes have “guilt sex”. They do the nasty and then go home and cry feeling guilty. They don’t like to feel like sluts although they did something slutty.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 12:19 PM
1	Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? You have value if you can’t make girls laugh. The friend value. People want to be around others who they can laugh and be silly with romantically. You can be serious and have a great personality as a friend.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 12:16 PM
1	So a girl at my local Wendy’s played me when I asked for her number. Then after not paying her no mind for a few weeks, she give me her number in a receipt. WHAT?!? She’s playing by fuckboy rules… give it to her fuckboy style…	/r/seduction	17/02/22 01:05 AM
1	[deleted by user] She doesn’t like you. If she likes you, anything you say will be funny or adorable.	/r/seduction	12/02/22 02:44 PM
1	Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? Humour doesn’t have to be in your DNA. It can be learnt. Anyone can be taught humour. You don’t have to find your jokes funny to entertain anyone. If you think it’s possible to have an awesome personality without being funny, how is it currently working for you with the ladies then?	/r/seduction	12/02/22 02:39 PM
1	Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? Then go learn to be funny… having a awesome personality is one good way to attract people to you. If you say you aren’t funny then you really have nothing to lose!	/r/seduction	08/02/22 10:37 AM
3	Had sex with my first cousin Retarded… that’s your children.	/r/seduction	08/02/22 10:35 AM
1	Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? Don’t feel guilty. That’s being normal. That’s being human. We all aren’t just robots. Get out there! Speak to women! Make them laugh and let them play with your pp after!	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:54 PM
2	How do I get IN the friendzone? Humble brag!	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:23 AM
1	Deez nuts joke to a girl Yeah a lot of times they flirt with you because of the attention you give them. Girls love the attention guys give them. Not always the guys but 100% they love the attention. Helps boost the ego when they need it.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 01:47 PM
2	Deez nuts joke to a girl You better make sure she likes you first for real though. U wanna take that chance?	/r/seduction	25/01/22 12:21 PM
1	My coworker lately has gotten used to stare at me, and we just look right in each others' eyes for a long time It’s better to try and maybe get rejected then to never know. Girls like it when you man up and go for it bruh	/r/seduction	24/01/22 02:26 PM
1	[deleted by user] Fingering will seal the deal!	/r/seduction	23/01/22 11:24 AM