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I disagree. If we have fundamentally different feelings about something as foundational as that, we are not well suited and neither of us is missing out. I’m not interested in “getting commitment” from anyone. If we agree that we both want to commit, we do. If anyone has to be convinced or feels that they are doing the other a favor, it’s a bad idea and shouldn’t occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:52 AM
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And again, I’m guessing you didn’t just approach politely and walk way politely …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:19 AM
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There are many many women, I am one, who choose not to have sex with men outside of committed monogamous relationships. We also choose to only enter those relationships with men that we really like, not those that we don’t. There is nothing that would make me agree to have sex in a casual dating situation and any implication by a man that I would lose the opportunity to continue dating that man because of that would be the immediate end of that dating situation. Stop listening to manosphere idio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:16 AM
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Meh, if you approached politely and then politely excused yourself immediately when she wasn’t interested in responding, it seems unlikely that security would kick you out…if that’s actually what happened then it was wrong of them. Seems like that’s probably not the full story though…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:42 PM
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Planning dates is just one thing. That doesn’t mean that she doesn’t contribute to the maintenance of the relationship in 1,000 other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:38 PM
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Actually OP didn’t mention anything about that. He’s just complaining that he doesn’t want to plan dates or do nice things now that he’s in a relationship🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:50 PM
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RELATIONSHIPS require maintenance from both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:51 PM
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It’s no fair that I have to keep working out to stay in shape. I should be able to stay in shape for life without exercising 😭 It’s not fair that I have to keep mowing the lawn every week ! I already mowed it once 😭 It’s not fair that I have to keep doing laundry, why doesn’t it just stay clean forever 😭 It’s not fair that I have to keep going to work! I already interviewed and got hired 😭 Why should I have to keep walking the dog, I walked it when I first got it😭 Seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:55 PM
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Yes annoyed by a stranger interrupting my day because that stranger wants something from me when I have given them zero reason to think I’m at all interested. I also get annoyed at phone calls about extended warranty’s and people trying to ask about my relationship with their deity. What is that surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:55 AM
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Old guy hitting on young women is creepy by default. Most women have been fending off horny old men since they were tweens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:24 AM
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If that’s the case, then men should have no problem leaving us TF alone…please…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:05 AM
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If a man is polite and goes away, I’m not offended regardless of his appearance. I might be annoyed, but not offended. If a man isn’t polite or is persistent in the face of my disinterest I will be offended regardless of his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:33 AM
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So you think.00224% of the population is committing gender based and sexual violence against almost 1/6 of the population? Prevalence of violence against women and girls Global scale of violence against women: An estimated 840 million women – almost one in three – have been subjected to physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence, non-partner sexual violence, or both at least once in their life (30 per cent of women aged 15 and older). This figure, which does not include sexual harassment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:30 AM
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Actually an alarming number of comments were from men either doubting the evidence or saying that the women should have known better than to have gone outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:02 AM
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History shows that when men, of any nationality or religion, have the opportunity to sexually abuse women without consequence, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:00 AM
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And how about all the men who raped an unconscious woman in Germany for years? When men think they will escape repercussions, far too many choose sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:57 PM
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I think the point is that when men feel that raping and harassing women is acceptable, it becomes commonplace. I’d bet the vast majority of the perpetrators would have been deeply offended if someone had said that they were rapists but suddenly the stigma is gone and look what happened. Men are so quick to say that men who would commit violence against women are a tiny minority but that really seems not to be the case. Whether it’s Germany or Nigeria or anywhere else, when men think they can get…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:53 PM
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Went to an AC/DC concert in highschool that I wasn’t allowed to go to. Totally amazing but got busted because I couldn’t hear right for 3 days 🤣. Definitely worth it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:58 PM
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Make it awkward! Call that shit out, he doesn’t get to make his bad behavior your problem to manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:43 PM
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Except that women are victimized by men…and so are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:37 PM
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Absolutely. They are screening specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:12 PM
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People who do that to strangers don’t care if they are making you uncomfortable (they may even be trying to do so). It’s 100% a test. Women who put up with it or actually answer the questions are generally going to be easier to manipulate and potentially easier to get sexual access to. It’s seen an indicator of a lower ability to enforce personal boundaries, higher insecurity / need to comply and please, and more likely to be sexually available with less effort. Women who shut it down weren’t go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:56 PM
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Sure, it’s largely because they have the unrealistic expectation (because they are taught to by other angry men who feel that they should have unrestricted sexual access to women and girls) that the women and girls they want should make themselves easily and unconditionally sexually available to them. When that doesn’t happen they need someone to tell them that they’re right to expect that, by virtue of wanting it (biology- evolution - blah blah blah) and the women and girls are wrong to blame f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:47 PM
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Wow…just wow. So you believe that women exist solely for men’s benefit and pleasure? A woman who isn’t a “pick me” can’t be a “good woman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:59 AM
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Soooo, scummy sociopathic men with microphones who advocate mistreating women and shamelessly exploit their followers, and their popularity with a certain segment of men and boys is…women’s fault?🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:55 AM
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And most women net/net don’t prefer younger men 🤷‍♀️. Sex itself (in isolation and when other compatibility characteristics aren’t present ) isn’t everything or the most important thing in having a satisfying relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:05 AM
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So go for it! Pretty please, like right now. ALL conservative men should ruthlessly avoid non-conservative women. Definitely. 100%. Do it. Do it now, no exceptions no excuses. How can we help make this dream come true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:47 PM
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The only people arguing that politics shouldn’t matter in this day and age are unsuccessful trumper men who are big mad that women haven’t been subjugated yet and still maintain the right to have political views. They are holding onto to hope that their problems really are the fault of women, immigrants and various “others” and their big orange daddy is going to rig the game so that they can feel superior without actually having to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:45 PM
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You guys just can’t accept the fact that young women overwhelmingly find sexual attention from older men to be creepy and completely undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:35 PM
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As an older woman, absolutely we sexually prefer younger men. If sex was the only factor.🤷‍♀️. Unfortunately they tend to do unattractive things like speak, express opinions, want to be seen as actual people etc that make the juice not worth the squeeze. Younger men, better bodies, more stamina, open to instruction, no ED issues, fewer gaseous interruptions? Awesome. If they would just sit there and look pretty and maybe smile more… Unfortunately many women are burdened with the desire to engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:34 PM
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It’s a big beautiful world out there full of fascinating people who will never be your friends or lovers but can absolutely add to your life experience as you can add to theirs. A pleasant interaction can make someone’s day (including yours!) without needing to lead anywhere. A casual chat (without an agenda) can be nice. People are interesting and everyone has their own story. Have you ever volunteered anywhere? An animal shelter, food bank, library, senior center? Maybe try it. You will intera…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:21 PM
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Clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:08 PM
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Are you incapable of making social conversation without jumping to hitting on women before you know anything about them? The idea behind social events is …to be social…that means chatting with all kinds of people. Men, women, old young, people you find attractive and people you don’t. If you’re chatting with someone you do find attractive AND they are actively engaging with you AND through the course of casual conversation it seems like they are single and you want to see if they would be intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:06 PM
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FFS don’t approach strangers to tell them what you think of their appearance 🤦‍♀️. Seriously, have you guys never learned how to just make conversation? Start off with the same kind of conversation you would have with someone you aren’t trying to hit on. Innocuous stuff about the environment you’re both in etc. if they ACTIVELY engage, keep chatting and see if you actually have anything in common and if they keep the conversation going. If that happens you could end it with a casual invitation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:49 AM
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Ok, just because someone at the dog park might be open to being approached romantically doesn’t mean the everyone or even most people are open to that… See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:35 AM
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Do you see that using the way men treat other men as the default “right” way for people to be treated IS patriarchal and sexist in and of itself? Why would equality of treatment have to center on men as the default (just like medical testing, automobile safety standards, language etc…🙄)? C’mon, you’re sooo close to getting the point. It’s right there in front of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:31 AM
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People can and do express sincere empathy for those who feel lonely and unwanted. That doesn’t mean that those people have to agree with the reasons that those people think that they are lonely and unwanted or agree with what those people think should be done about their feelings of loneliness and unwantedness. Expecting people to wholeheartedly buy into your whole narrative in order to empathize with those feelings is not asking for empathy, it’s asking for validation and agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:23 AM
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So people should have empathy for men feeling lonely but not for women feeling threatened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:15 AM
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Tell that to OP. He’s the one saying, as a man, that men are lonelier and women have stronger social networks/ friendships. He asked why, I provided my opinion. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:07 AM
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Did you respond to the wrong comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:27 AM
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Because they find those relationships fulfilling and rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:42 PM
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Nobody is talking about healthcare besides you. What does that have to do with men feeling disadvantaged by not having women distributed to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:32 PM
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And you didn’t answer my question. If you’re not talking about taxpayer funded sexual professionals offering their labor to the poor, what is the correlation to affordable healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:31 PM
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People expend time and energy on the things that are important to them. Maybe ask why men don’t do it and then lament their loneliness 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:29 PM
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If that IS your idea, would lgbtq and Cis-women be entitled to taxpayer funded sexual access to the sex workers of their choice as well? Where are you going to find all of these sexworkers btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:27 PM
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Re-read my comment. I added to it immediately after posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:24 PM
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And again, how is access to healthcare equivalent to men’s sexual access to women’s bodies? OMG, are you suggesting that everyone should be taxed to pay sex workers to provide sexual access to men who can’t afford to pay those sex workers directly? Is that it? Is that your plan for sexless men not to be “disadvantaged”????
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:21 PM
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What in the world are you talking about? Are you responding in the wrong subreddit? What does any of that have to do with the person in this thread saying that men are disadvantaged because women aren’t distributed like cookies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:18 PM
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Women (generalization coming) work much harder than men to maintain and invest in friendships and familial ties. It makes sense that those friendships and ties would be stronger and buffer feelings of isolation and loneliness. Men could do the same, many just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:12 PM
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What slavery? Who’s talking about slavery? The topic is men wanting women to be distributed/ MADE available to them sexually so that those men are not “disadvantaged”. You tried to equate those men to poor people not having access to healthcare and the brought up slavery and rape. Are you saying that men NOT having distributed sexual access to women is enslaving those men and that that lack of facilitated access is the same as men raping those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:10 PM
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Sexual access to women’s bodies is not equivalent to access to healthcare. Frankly, how dare you imply that it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 PM
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And yet they try to do so and then rage whine that they get dumped for no reason because women are fickle / monkey branching / blah blah blah🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:48 PM
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He actually said that men are disadvantaged because women are distributed like cookies…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:45 PM
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Not sure how many ways we can explain that men who play games are, by definition, not “high tier”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:53 PM
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I’m confused. Is your argument that we women should choose to be with men we aren’t attracted to because if we don’t, those men are going to get attractive and then become dating royalty and boy-o-boy won’t we be sorry then? So our choice is to date unattractive men or be unable to date attractive men? Not sure if you’ve noticed but we would much rather be single and alone than to date men we find unattractive… Make it make sense…is this a retread of the typical “Die along with wine and cats” th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:50 PM
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So…do tell, how would it be fair to women (you know, actual sentient human beings) to be “distributed” to men like cookies? Do you see how that would be a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:00 PM
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Men are “disadvantaged” because women aren’t “fairly” distributed like cookies at snack time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:54 AM
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Same. Best decision ever. Highly recommend!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:31 PM
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Try reading the details. That includes retirement aged couples. When you look at working aged families the numbers are very different and the employment rate difference between men and women is tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:14 PM
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Sounds like hurting her is a big part of the thrill for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:39 PM
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And…that’s not what taxonomy means 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:27 AM
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So…you’re making up conditional definitions for words and mandating that everyone adhere to your made up definitions? You know that’s not how words work, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:00 AM
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That would be insane too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:54 AM
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The minute a man thinks that his paranoid insecurities should dictate my medical care is the same minute I drop him like the loser that he is. That’s absolutely absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:26 PM
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There’s absolutely no reason for you to commit if you’re happier not doing so🤷‍♀️. The one caveat that I do think is important is to be very clear from the beginning with people you want to date that you are only looking for casual relationships. Don’t play the “see how it goes”, “open to a serious relationship if it’s right” thing when you know it’s not really true (and no, the idea that it’s a remote possibility like getting hit by lightning, winning the lottery or being eaten by a shark doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:46 PM
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Best reason ever to get buzzed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:26 PM
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You don’t. If she wanted to she already would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:25 PM
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Do they compliment your sundress and scent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:24 PM
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Maybe if the power has been off for days so the cool goods are all wilted and sad, frozen are puddles in the aisles, some of the goods smell truly awful, there are families of raccoons are having decathlons in the warehouse and most of the “best by” dates are well past. Plus someone has stripped all the labels off of the canned goods so you are really guessing at what’s inside, and a bunch of super obnoxious twatwaffles are chasing you around trying to force “free samples” of low performing good…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:21 PM
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Where on earth did you get that from? Again, a home sale is a financial transaction that doesn’t require intimacy or personal interaction. The qualifications to buy a home are financial. Not racial or religious or gender based at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:42 PM
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Society doesn’t sell homes. Society doesn’t dispense sex. People who have the qualifications to purchase homes from other people are able to do so. People who do not meet those qualifications cannot. The people selling the home need to want to sell of course but a home is an object. A sale is a financial transaction that doesn’t require intimacy or personal interaction. People who want to have sex need to meet the qualifications of those people who they want to have sex with. People who don’t me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:37 PM
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Nobody is metaphorically chopping the man’s arm off. Nobody is taking anything away from him. Nobody is doing anything at all to him. Someone, or many someones, not choosing to have someone else’s penis inserted in their body is not committing any offense towards the penis owner who wants them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:20 PM
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If they aspire to have women find them sexually and romantically desirable and women *don’t” find them desirable, they are undesirable in the only way that matters to them. Desire is not an objective metric that can be imposed on people because you think it should be. Each person gets to specify what is desirable and undesirable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:16 PM
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Let’s assume that everything you said is absolutely true (it’s not), why get so angry at women for your own lack of desirability? Would you prefer that any woman who has ever laid eyes on a more initially attractive man just ignore you entirely? Should women refuse to interact with men unless we, upon first glimpsing them, open our mental dating database and commit, on the spot, to accelerating sexual access and minimizing expectations X degrees as compared to the last (obviously hottest because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:06 PM
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The world isn’t “denying” them sex. The simple fact is that they have not been able to find a woman who wants to have sex WITH them. Sex is not some stand alone commodity that is being wrongly and unfairly withheld. It’s an incredibly intimate activity that requires both people to want to choose the other and to feel that doing so will be a positive experience for them. Being “denied” implies that one is entitled to something and when that something requires the intimate access to another person…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:44 PM
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Men 100% choose whether or not to deposit their sperm inside a woman. They can 100% choose to have sex without doing that and completely prevent the possibility of a child. That is where they get to have sex and choose not to create a child. It’s not even difficult🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:18 AM
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If the man deposits the sperm (active and entirely within his ultimate control) and the woman receives the sperm (passive snd entirely out of her ultimate control), and we ignore stealthing, lies about vasectomies, pull out promises etc., they are BOTH participating in an activity that can predictably result in a child. Why then is it the woman’s responsibility to either endure a potentially dangerous / deadly / illegal medical procedure to mitigate the predictable consequences of the decision t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:35 AM
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No failure of women’s birth control can cause a pregnancy if there’s no sperm present. No sperm 100% equals no possibility of a child. No exceptions. Diaphragms are approximately 84% effective when used with spermicide. That means that they are not effective ~16% of the time even when used with spermicide. Plan B wreaks havoc on a woman’s hormones and is not 100% effective. Men policing their sperm has zero side effects and is 100% effective. I’m absolutely sure that if men were the ones saddled…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:44 AM
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Nobody is forcing men to deposit their sperm inside of women. They could absolutely have sex without depositing the one thing, that’s 100% under their control, that allows conception to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:39 AM
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Literally nobody can force a man to be a parent. There are no government mandates that say a biological father ever has to lay eyes on his child. Once he ejaculates, his in person obligation is gone forever. His sperm is entirely under his control and is where his physical control and physical responsibility ends. You’re right, consent to sex doesn’t mean consent to parenthood. Sex doesn’t have to result in a child. Without the presence of sperm in a woman’s reproductive system, there can be no …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:29 AM
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I think you may have missed the point…🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:17 PM
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Why are you being cold?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:35 AM
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Try voting for universal healthcare, then you can get your very own vagina! You won’t even have to leave the house once your post-op checkups are done. Just you and your vagina, all day every day! I’m pretty sure all women would vote for this for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:06 AM
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So then who are all of these women connecting with globally?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:02 AM
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This part always cracks me up. Are men somehow constricted to their specific locale on dating apps? Why is the complaint always that women now have this global reach that is completely one sided? Are men not allowed to swipe on the same broad geographic range?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:06 AM
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Ummm…I think I solved your problem…the fridge is supposed to be cold. Maybe you meant the oven? I know, it’s confusing🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:27 PM
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Met my last ex online on match. Really good guy, just ended up wanting different things in the end. We were together for 12 years, most of which was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:56 PM
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Didn’t you know? Women only wear bikinis to make incels sad and mad and throw in their faces that they aren’t ever going to get to touch a woman?🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:02 AM
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Pretty sure that’s code for “submissive people pleaser”🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:00 AM
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Sounds like something a condescending twatwaffle would say. I’m sure you didn’t mean it that way though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:59 PM
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Sounds like you’re talking about making a woman totally responsible for your wellbeing happiness. That’s not an expression of love, it’s a huge burden to place on anyone. It’s extremely selfish to do and absolutely exhausting for whoever you choose to obsess over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:56 PM
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Someone’s never been to Walmart…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:43 PM
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Awesome! If men start doing all of the grocery shopping, clothes shopping for the family, school supplies shopping, household goods shopping, baby goods shopping, gift shopping etc. the %s would probably even out. Give it a try!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:34 PM
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I think in general the answer is going to depend on exactly what is being taught and to whom… Teaching all young people about respect, effective communication, peaceful conflict resolution, honesty and integrity, accountability etc. is a positive thing. The problem comes when the lessons are used to enforce “traditional” or religiously based gender roles, subservience/ submission of women, men’s value inexorably tied to financial provision, etc. Those are ideologies that, if both people, as adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:31 PM
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Here’s the thing, regardless of stats, women have to be vigilant in ways that men can’t even imagine. Every time I need to have someone come into my home to do something (chimney sweep, plumber, electrician, contractor whatever) I am absolutely hyper vigilant because the fact is that even though I have my ccw, even though I have a giant reactive dog, any one of those men could easily overpower me if he chose to do so. What % would? Probably not high BUT…how do we know which ones might? There’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:12 AM
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Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:51 PM
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https://www.visionofhumanity.org/violence-against-women-in-mexico/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:22 PM
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Don’t threaten us with a good time 🤣🤣🤣. But seriously, that would be amazing. Not being sexually or domestically pursued by men who hate us✅ Being judged for the content of our character instead of the perceived accessibility of our genitalia?✅ Not more men treating women as placeholder sex givers?✅ No more incentive for men to obfuscate their true intentions in order to get laid?✅ Please, do this. Do it now! We agree with this plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:18 PM
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My point is that women’s attraction and sexual desire isn’t static. It’s heavily influenced by relationship stress, life stress, exhaustion, body image, feelings of emotional safety and relationship stability etc etc etc. none of which have anything to do with “using” anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:01 PM
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A foot🤣. Perfect example. Haven’t really heard of women scouring the internet for pics of men’s feet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:47 PM
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That would be a great thing, both for them and for women because they would be filtering for someone that actually shares their interests and women who don’t like those things wouldn’t have to be bothered by them. Surely that’s better than ending up in a relationship where both parties end up resentful and miserable. Not sure why anyone would be mad about that 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:42 PM
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Sex has little to nothing to do with whether a man is being “used” or not. Lack of sex can and does occur for MANY different reasons in relationships, the vast majority of which have zero to do with “using” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:52 PM
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Gonna go out on a limb and guess that for the VAST majority, they expected therapists to tell them the 3 step secret cheat code to get effortless nsa sex with hot 19 year old virgins…when that didn’t happen they decided it was worthless…and chose to give their money to RP grifters instead who at least pretend to have the non-existent code. When that doesn’t work they sink into just hating women for not wanting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:18 AM
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Okay, how about this: there are multiple restaurants in town that sell xyz entree. A person can absolutely choose to not go to any of those restaurants and have xyz entree at all if it gives them heartburn every time and they decide it’s not worth eating. There are obviously other ways to satisfy their hunger that *don’t” give them heartburn… That’s a perfectly valid choice, just like choosing not to enter into romantic relationships with men is a choice. Relationships aren’t mandatory. Life isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:03 AM
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You do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:15 AM
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lol. Nice try. Maybe address the discrepancy in your argument, that would be more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:15 AM
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Well how’s it working out for you so far?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:13 AM
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They can’t accept that not being in a relationship is far better than being in a relationship that is a net negative. I think it’s directly correlated to their belief that any sex is better than no sex (🤢🤢🤢).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:13 AM
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Women who have lots of options are choosing to remain single. We /they are actively choosing not to engage with men who don’t provide a net positive impact. That’s not settling. Settling would be choosing one of those options that’s a net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:10 AM
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I know a lot of you guys scoff at the idea of therapy but if that’s your history, it might really help to have some professional help to unpack it and understand how it impacts your day to day functioning and feelings. You may be sabotaging yourself and preventing potential happiness because of things that aren’t your fault that are influencing your emotional responses to otherwise healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:08 AM
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Good luck. With that attitude you’re going to need it. No woman will ever feel enduring desire for a man who hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:04 AM
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And sh’d be texting you back right away, not fucking anyone else and essentially sharing her salary with you🤷‍♀️. If you expect her sexual efforts to match early days, why shouldn’t your romantic efforts match early days to show her that you’re not just using her for sex and validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:54 AM
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You do realize that more women than ever are choosing to be single? That’s literally the choice that most women make about most men, is being with him better than not being with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:50 AM
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And do you believe that they genuinely desire sex with those men? Men who are disrespectful or mean? Or maybe are they submitting to the “sex tax” because they are afraid of being alone? Just maybe they are so desperate to feel wanted that they are ignoring their own feelings and going along with it. Seriously, sit with that a minute. Think about the women in your life that you actually care about (mom? Sister? Daughters?). Do you honestly think that they would want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:46 AM
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Any woman who did the same thing should be dropped like a rock. “Creating” a situation like that to test someone is insane. That’s not a gendered standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:34 AM
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Because you have no actual experience with women, I’m going to assume that this attitude is based in innocent ignorance as opposed to actual idiocy… Do you not understand that women’s level of sexual desire is directly correlated to the health of the relationship and her overall stress level? You may be able to live in anger and rage and still be horny but women’s sexuality doesn’t really work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:26 AM
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That would be an automatic relationship ending event. No exceptions, no excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:19 AM
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No, sex is usually the sign that it is a healthy relationship where both parties feel appreciated and respected. You guys seem to not understand that women don’t feel sexual desire for men who disrespect them, fail to appreciate their contributions, lie to them, use them for household labor / childcare, are unkind, treats sex like an obligation, etc. Men may still want to fuck under those circumstances but women? Nope. Sahara time. Doesn’t matter how attracted she once was, that’s deader than a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:15 AM
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Do you still expect this if you’re being an asshole or cranky - mean? How about mid-argument? What if you cheated? How about when you have little kids? Baby keeping her up all night every night? Do you expect this regardless of how you treat her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:10 AM
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And are you still behaving in exactly the same way as when you were hoping she’d sleep with you?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:05 AM
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Confident people don’t need to offend others or try to make them feel small in order to make themselves feel big. They are far more likely to follow social norms and treat others respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:09 PM
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I think you’re confusing self confidence with abusive arrogance (which is also what happens when insecure people try to role play what they think confidence looks like). True confidence is knowing who you are and being comfortable in your own skin. Faking confidence often manifests as trying loudly to convince everyone else that you are better than them. Pretty important difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:30 PM
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Yeah, his looks get a foot in the door. Flirting is what happens when someone is initially attracted (usually based on looks since they don’t know anything else about you). Personality is what determines (among other things) whether something goes beyond flirting and lasts once they get to know your personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:38 PM
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That term always makes me picture little bantam rooster strutting around in tiny little pants with suspenders 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:08 AM
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Oh honey, bless your heart. 90% of the posts here are men complaining that they can’t get attention from women. The manosphere was created and is entirely perpetuated by men who are lonely and the men who exploit them. Why is it so hard for some men to believe that women sincerely prefer being single to being in a relationship that doesn’t meet her needs? Why can’t you understand that if our lives are better with a specific man than without him, we will happily by with him. If not? We prefer not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:04 AM
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You reply doesn’t make any sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:52 AM
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Nothing kills attraction into a slimy puddle of icked out contempt faster than an unpleasant personality. You guys really think that if a woman is initially attracted to a man’s looks, that is a permanent thing. That could not be further from the truth. Initial looks based attraction is the most fragile thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:15 AM
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The thing is that nothing is a prize if nobody wants to compete for it🤷‍♀️. Young “peak fertility” women aren’t competing for the VAST majority of 30-50 year old men. In fact, even putting fertility aside, most women aren’t competing for most 30-50 year old men. In general most of those men might at best be considered a sad consolation prize to most similarly aged women. Not to say that men don’t have value as human beings, but the idea that desirable young women (or any women really) are yearni…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:09 AM
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Maybe try telling that to all the men complaining about women’s standards and how they deserve sex and relationships and their looks match… Women who aren’t happy with their choices are opting out, men who aren’t happy with their choices are threatening the looming dickpocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:48 PM
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Accountability for what and to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:43 PM
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Is women choosing to date and marry men, who are their equal, some new “feminist” thing? Seriously? Why would anyone, who aspires to a fulfilling relationship, want to marry someone they see as below themselves socially, physically, and financially? Why (other than the subset of men who actively prefer to financially dominate women in the name of “submission🙄)? How is it that you consider that to be a radical feminist idea that disproportionately advantages women? How is it a slight against men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:42 PM
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One of the central tenets of most organized religions is the concept of suffering in this life being temporary and tolerable because it will be rewarded in the afterlife. That tends to be comforting to those who disproportionally suffer hardship and injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:57 PM
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You’re kidding right? Are you seriously asking this? Ok, assuming that you’re sincere…no. That isn’t how it works for women. At all. Ever. For any woman in the history of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:32 AM
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Men resentfully fantasizing about leaving for younger women? Sure. Men leaving thinking he’s going to get with younger women? Yup. Men leaving for younger women and actually getting with younger women? Very rare. Men leaving for younger women, actually getting with younger women and being wanted by those younger women for anything other than money? Almost unheard of. But sure, go indulge your “nature”🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:58 PM
1

Men sacrificing their futures to pursue wetting their dicks doesn’t exactly scream logical and rational does it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:18 AM
1

Yes, women tend to acknowledge the serious issues and problems in relationships and are far more willing to choose to end those relationships when those serious issues and problems become chronic and cannot be resolved, even if that means that other parts of their lives will become more difficult. Men tend to ignore those same serious issues and problems in order to maintain the status quo in the ways that benefit them (household labor, access to sex, human interaction or at least adjacency, chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:16 AM
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You probably think your looks are why women don’t like you, don’t you…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:09 AM
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Now look up women committed to insane asylums and mental institutions and subjected to torturous “treatments”, often for life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:00 AM
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If a man can only feel big when the woman he’s with pretends to be smaller, he’s not worth the trouble. Requiring “submission” is the refuge of the weak, insecure, incompetent man. Strong, secure men aren’t threatened by their partners strength and competence. They understand, respect, and appreciate it and enjoy the inherent force multiplier of moving through life, side by side, with their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:23 AM
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Didn’t even know that was a thing 🤣🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:18 AM
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And this, gentle reader, is a prime example of either internalized misogyny, mental illness, or a man truly committed to larping. OP, assuming that you are actually a woman, you are free to wallow in your trad wife lifestyle. Hope it doesn’t bite you in the butt in the future. But please refrain from inflicting your toxic self hatred on other women. You have zero standing to tell other women what they should settle for or what they deserve in their own lives. Your choice to “submit” and abase yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:59 AM
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Barefoot because shoes were only for church on Sunday!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:37 PM
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Keep in mind the selection criteria…over 60 AND on dating apps. Slightly skewed group, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:34 PM
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Here’s the flaw in your arguments below, women aren’t asking how to change in order to “be likable” to men. Women are confused about why men bother to pursue women and spend so much time and energy complaining that women (who they feel should be) aren’t attracted to them, when those same men loudly and clearly dislike and resent women as a whole. It’s not about how to change those men’s minds so that they “like” the women that they relentlessly desire/despise. It’s about how weird it is that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:46 AM
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A “creep” ignores (whether willfully or through extreme levels of social cue ignorance) the blatant lack of reciprocity of his “desire”. He (or she) imposes that desire on unwilling participants creating an unsolicited and unwanted obligation / burden that the target successfully manage the creep’s desire, for their own protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:32 AM
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How about providing even just one example of what you’re referring to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:00 AM
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Oh goody! A looming dickpocalypse threat. Haven’t seen one of those since…yesterday 🥱.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:58 PM
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So a woman not having sex before she is comfortable is “not putting in 109% effort”? Interesting…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:44 AM
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Then why do men keep complaining that women’s standards are too high? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:42 AM
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Guaranteed they wouldn’t “forgive” a low sex drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:14 PM
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Cue all the men who believe they could defeat a tiger bare handed…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:41 AM
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But wait…I thought men only want to be with women who are viscerally attracted to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:38 AM
2

Was your fly down? Did you have a bat in the cave? Are you genuinely considered funny looking? Did someone say something funny just before you walked up? Could be any one of 1,000 things most of which have exactly zero to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:32 AM
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Sounds like a black widow / praying mantis moment…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:23 AM
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Seahorses would like a word…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:21 AM
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How does hyperbole “prove” his point? Please lay out the logic that brings you to that conclusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:35 AM
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Because women can no longer be socially or financially compelled to suffer in order to satisfy those unsuccessful men’s desires? Boo freaking hoo. Ask yourself why the women you want would choose you over any of their other options including the option to remain single. Not why you think they should. (aka because you want them to), but realistically, why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:20 AM
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Aaaaand Zerohedge (and 47 other alts) is baaaaaaack!🤣🤣🤣 Get ready for the usual post rotation… Men that are actually attractive to women are doing just fine. Men who think women who are out of their league should find them attractive are struggling as they always have. TRP gets pushed back on because it’s largely misogynistic claptrap designed to exploit unattractive men by making them believe that they are entitled to easy access to the women they want and are being unfairly denied. This post i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:01 AM
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Decentering isn’t about avoidance or hatred or resentment etc. It’s about viewing yourself and your decisions, achievements, goals, and ambitions (basically yourself), through the mirror of your own eyes instead of through the eyes of real or imaginary “others”. It doesn’t mean that you aren’t interested in romance or sex or relationships. It means that you don’t define or alter your own sense of self based solely on their success. You can learn and grow in ways that YOU feel are important witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:24 AM
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Not probably the main reason but… when you go out for dinner or something similar there’s no pressure to figure out what to cook that everyone will like, make sure you have all the ingredients, worry about how it will turn out, clean up afterwards. There’s literally no way you can throw in a load of laundry or fold towels or run the vacuum etc.while you’re cooking. You don’t get annoyed that you’re doing all of those things while “someone else” is napping or playing video games or watching sport…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:25 AM
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Think about it this way, why would a debilitating medical condition be excluded from workplace accommodation just because men don’t suffer from it? How would that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:21 AM
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Not probably the main reason but… when you go out for dinner or something similar there’s no pressure to figure out what to cook that everyone will like, make sure you have all the ingredients, worry about how it will turn out, clean up afterwards. There’s literally no way you can throw in a load of laundry or fold towels or run the vacuum etc.while you’re cooking. You don’t get annoyed that you’re doing all of those things while “someone else” is napping or playing video games or watching sport…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:13 AM
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Women want to have sex with men that they like, enjoy, feel safe with, and feel valued by. Women don’t want to have sex with men that don’t evoke those feelings. Liking = sexy time Wanting to smother in his sleep = no sexy time. That’s not rewards, that’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:09 AM
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Idk, I think it’s valuable for insecure and misogynistic men to have available language choices to express their feelings in ways that everyone understands. The first amendment doesn’t just allow for speaking truth to power, it facilitates idiocy telling on itself, loudly and clearly and for the benefit of all who hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:04 AM
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Why would being in a “traditional male led” relationship be more beneficial than being in an equal and respectful egalitarian relationship? Why would one fully formed and educated adult deferring to and “serving” another adult be more beneficial to the deferential and subservient adult? How would one adult subverting their humanity to the will and whims of another adult be “for her benefit”? If the leader/ follower model be beneficial to the follower, why is the Y chromosome the determinative ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:56 AM
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“If men stopped caring so much about how quickly they get laid” “If men stopped thinking that getting laid means they’re successful” “If men stopped considering getting laid the goal and human connection an unfortunate impediment” “If men stopped considering women’s personhood as an inconvenience in their pursuit of getting laid” “If men understood that they aren’t competing with other men, they are competing with women’s lives without them” If if if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:57 AM
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Zero chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:36 AM
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I think they call that the “French disease” or the “pox”…🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:32 AM
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Some men give themselves away with their actions, some with their words, some with their post history…(dude…🙄🤢). Women aren’t swayed by media, they’re swayed by their lived experience with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:29 AM
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A woman choosing not to share her time, attention, body, or life with someone she is neither attracted to nor interested for whatever reason in is not disrespect. It’s disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:13 AM
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All oranges are fruits. Not all fruits are oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:06 AM
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Older women are far less likely to be interested in dating men than younger women are. And don’t forget that women pay taxes that go to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:00 AM
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If dating men were universally better than not dating men, women wouldn’t be checking out of dating and men entirely in such huge numbers that men are freaking out about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:45 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:13 AM
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