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| 704 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes. | Marriage/Children | Bestbeast127 | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 12:40 AM |
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| 1 | Should men give up their seats on public transport for women? Battle of the sexes breaks out over Londoner's divisive clip of her Tube journey🤣🤣 | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.That’s rough. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/25 11:05 PM |
| -1 | What is your experience with the "Women are wonderful" effect? Have you noticed this in your work life?What health risk, sweaty ball disease? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/25 05:13 AM |
| 2 | "Pick me"s Stand out Because the Norm Today is Women Bashing MenWhat about the casual use of “cuck” or “soy boy” as a sort of equivalent | /r/MensRights | 14/06/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | "Pick me"s Stand out Because the Norm Today is Women Bashing MenWhat is your take on the root cause. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/25 11:43 PM |
| 4 | The Unfairness between Men and Women (Me and my Sister)Not my experience. Got a divorce and was suddenly single at 51. I was treated very poorly by women close to my age. Surprisingly I found that it been decided for me by some benevolent god that my new “league” was college educated women aged 25-35yo and not single moms, these were ones with no kids or ex husbands. I was like WTF. Ok fine. I am in an amazing relationship with a high sex drive much younger woman now. Quite an upgrade from age appropriate ex-wife with a dead bed | /r/MensRights | 14/06/25 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Twitter, Tiktok, Reddit and Instagram really need to change their policies on misandry entirely and we should be reporting misandrist content immediatelyThey need to be beaten in the market of ideas as opposed to silenced. That’s what they do (use censorship to avoid real debate) | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/06/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is a Woman’s Body Her Own, But a Man’s Body Belongs to the Country?Hahahahah good point | /r/MensRights | 08/06/25 01:54 AM |
| 6 | The Gen Z gender pay gap has reversed with young women earning more than young men – so what’s up with boys?Men had the advantage= clear discrimination against women….. now that women have the advantage= just shows that women are “better than men” …. This is what I hear in my circle | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Do you notice women get more entry level jobs?When it comes to sex most men can be idiots | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 04:04 AM |
| 8 | Do you notice women get more entry level jobs?So they have more than a leg up, they have both legs up hahaha | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 04:04 AM |
| 6 | Do you notice women get more entry level jobs?Hell yes… In my field of STEM women are favored at all levels | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Woman Beats Child - Comment Section Cheers!That was man on man violence not the same 🤣 | /r/MensRights | 29/05/25 02:40 PM |
| 11 | What unconscious digs have you heard at men's expense?"a woman needs to experience childbirth to understand a man with a cold". Which is interesting because women take more sick days than men. Even post-menopause so it is not about periods cramps | /r/MensRights | 28/05/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Woman on TikTok says it’s okay to call all men “inherently evil”People should be able to say whatever they want within the context of the first amendment | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.I heard about that but I don’t know if it happened. It wasn’t in the Big Beautiful Bill I read the relevant parts Friday | /r/MensRights | 26/05/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.She was a stay at home mom and before that had emotional disability | /r/MensRights | 24/05/25 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.1-kid 2000, ex-wife 3000 | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Child support has not been deductible for 70 years I think. Alimony stopped being deductible in 2022 I think, which was the implementation of the 2017 TCJA to divorces after 1/2019. Here in California the standard practice is the Child Support goes through garnishment, there may be ways to pay it monthly to the county but that is not standard. For alimony once the receiver has a judgment for alimony, even for temporary support while in process, they take the order to the county and they do the r… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Haha I understand. Appreciate your honesty. I am trying to bring more visibility to what I think is something egregious. One aspect of this I didn’t mention is that one of the stated goals of the change was that to correct for missing money. I.e. payers over repot and receivers under report. IRS sees the math doesn’t math. HOWEVER, in many states now, California included, the county collects either through garnishment or you send the money to the county who then keeps track of it and sends it on… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.It's under consideration for real | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Yes we agree no double taxation | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.It’s not my kids fault. I need to keep alive and keep going because when she turns 18 I am sure she will show up on my doorstep kicked out by her mom and boyfriend. Due to child support drying up. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Yes she won’t even give the kid (a teen girl) a decent allowance because she is “poor due to her dad” she leaves out the part that her mom was having an affair with a lawyer who helped her design my demise for free. Or the fact that the mom was an addict and I had to be a single dad raising the kid essentially by myself for the first 8 years | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Child support has always been tax free we were talking about alimony if you read what I said | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 10:04 AM |
| 6 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.I didn’t complain about paying I am complaining about OVERPAYING. The spilt is not equal she is got more hard assets than I did and she gets more pay than I get. 50/50 would be a good starting point. In three years my kid turns 18 and child support will end. 2000 Dollars a month is Too Much child support. I already know it cost about 500 a month to have the kid live with me. Not sure why it’s 2000 a month. Even 1000 would be more reasonable. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.My ex is building a fat nest egg based on most recent financial disclosures while I have liquidated my retirement, took a roommate, still not making it I am going flat broke. She basically banks the money she gets. She quit her job she doesn’t need to work under the deal she got. She hangs out at her boyfriends house a lot (the one she cheated with) | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:54 AM |
| 4 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.You want the new system which means more goes to the government and less collectively to the parties in the divorce. Do you work for the government? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:48 AM |
| 7 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Not what I said. I want the old system back. Less goes to the government that way. Not sure what you don’t understand. You need to learn more about the tax law and then come back to this discussion | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Also by her not having to claim it as income she gets favorable welfare consideration and FAFSA and every possible benefit. In fact she quit her job she is getting 7k a month tax free plus welfare and she has no expenses . | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:39 AM |
| 9 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.It’s gonna have to start happening to women and then maybe a change can happen | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:35 AM |
| 6 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Yes indeed. I had to change jobs due to an industry slump and took a 10% pay cut. My lawyer says to wait a year and see if it goes back up because it it does it is cheaper to just pay 10% higher for a year than go to court. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Well the divorce started and then COVID hit and all paperwork slowed to a crawl. After all the battles it took two years to get it final. I didn’t pay monthly rent directly, they did a calculation at the end for what I owed the estate for “beneficial use of an asset” (the paid off house) and she got a line item of 30K against my side of the ledger which was half the “lost rent” minus taxes and fire insurance that I paid. This was for the period between separation and final divorce. I paid the mo… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:26 AM |
| 11 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.This is California you can end up in jail for not paying child support. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:08 AM |
| 28 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.I pay 1900 USD child support per month and when the child lived with me my for a year, my incremental cost was about 500 USD a month. I have no problem paying child support but it should be capped | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 09:02 AM |
| 18 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Thanks brother. I am not the victim type, but it has gotten to a human-rights level at this point. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 03:09 AM |
| 24 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Things may change as more women start paying alimony and some of the other things. However, women are more clever than men in that they don't tend to get with guys making less money than them. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Its a good point, I have to admit. The Dems are purer in their adherence to women's issues than GOP is in their adherence to men's issues, in light of what we are discussing here. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 02:32 AM |
| 25 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.hahahaha I see your point | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 02:26 AM |
| 31 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.I have no chance at the kid because she started a false allegation paper trail before the divorce was filed. Three times I am literally sitting in my living room and the cops show up saying I am threating the family. They got a restraining order and I got thrown out of the house then filed on my. I had to live in hotels until I could get renters out of a rental house we owned. I moved in there to save money. However, I had to pay rent to her for using the property. This was during COVID and I wa… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.We are in late-2019 so stuck with new system | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.I am being sincere here, do you know anything else about the TCJA alimony change? Its hard to research because its nominally stated objective doesn't make sense and is not square with reality. I can elaborate if needed. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.I know about the TCJA, what does who signed it have to do with my situation. I am being spit roasted by both sides at this point because I am being screwed by the DEMS on some other issues. I hear what you are saying, thanks for the input | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 01:45 AM |
| 19 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Well child support hasn't been deductible for a long time, but up until a couple years ago, alimony was deductible by the payer and had to be claimed as income by the receiver. The payer is the party with more income. So consider now with the new laws, the payer has to pay taxes on the whole amount at a higher income tax bracket than if the alimony was deductible. In a case like mine, where there is a large difference in income, the new laws leaves LESS MONEY FOR BOTH SIDES as collectively, more… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 01:34 AM |
| 23 | Half my take home pay in USA is garnished to Child Support and Alimony. I can't deduct it off my taxes, have to pay tax as if I was getting the whole amount. To add insult to injury my ex does not have claim it as income on her taxes.Was slow to learn, but yes, I am rebuilding. FWIW I am broke but happy for the first time in forever. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/25 12:51 AM |
| 18 | What if marriage was actually insisted upon by middle-aged women?Well a lot of them agree getting alimony and don’t want to get married because they lose that. But yeah as an alimony payer would love this. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women act creepy or overly touchy toward certain men, but behave normally around others?You are being generous 🤣🤣 | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Child supportDo you live together? | /r/MensRights | 15/05/25 12:24 AM |
| 70 | Egalitarian Feminism is NOT opposed to Men's Rights ActivismWhy do you call it feminism, can’t you just call egalitarianism | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 02:39 AM |
| -2 | No more breath for the daughters of entitlementRight on brother | /r/MensRights | 11/05/25 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Debunk the "Feminist" claim that female leaders supposedly protect the environment much more than men, who are in return responsible for climate change?Good food for thought. Then in today’s USA which major political party is more “masculine” and does that party have the “woman vote”? | /r/MensRights | 11/05/25 04:34 AM |
| 27 | Debunk the "Feminist" claim that female leaders supposedly protect the environment much more than men, who are in return responsible for climate change?Women tend to like “climate crisis policies” in my opinion because it leads to more government programs, gov jobs, gov control etc. just my opinion | /r/MensRights | 10/05/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Female supervisor sacked for sexual comments - how to report sexual harassment in the workplace as a manI wouldn’t snitch to HR that’s whamen stuff | /r/MensRights | 09/05/25 04:14 AM |
| 4 | What was your "red pill" moment?My mom paying full ride for my sister and not jack for me | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | What was your "red pill" moment?“Deal me in” Hillary Clinton | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Is There Any Political Figure in the US Who Openly Advocates for Men’s Issues Much Like How Feminists Support Women?I don’t support DEI under any circumstances but i understand what you are saying | /r/MensRights | 04/05/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Political Figure in the US Who Openly Advocates for Men’s Issues Much Like How Feminists Support Women?A lot of boomers are “happy wife happy life types”. Hopefully as demographics start to shift and they “fade away “ so to speak we can make some ground | /r/MensRights | 04/05/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Political Figure in the US Who Openly Advocates for Men’s Issues Much Like How Feminists Support Women?Like the “men in women sports” stuff. Why should we care? What do we get out of it. The TERFs gonna ride shotgun with us now? | /r/MensRights | 04/05/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Political Figure in the US Who Openly Advocates for Men’s Issues Much Like How Feminists Support Women?Trying to bring manufacturing jobs back to USA is a man position. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/25 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?That may be true but you can’t reasonably say that Dems don’t represent women (and trans women too) | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 06:15 PM |
| 9 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?I didn’t want it this way but it’s “boys against the girls”. I can’t think of a Dem policy that has helped me as a man in the past decade or more. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 06:12 PM |
| 35 | I wish that I could find a partner to be an equal who I can emotionally lean on at times and not have to be a constant stoic rockGet a dog for companionship | /r/MensRights | 26/04/25 08:04 PM |
| 42 | Mike Johnson Says Men Need to Stop 'Playing Video Games All Day' and Get to Work: 'They're Draining Resources'Yes. No more cheap illegal labor. Let the chips fall where they may but it’s a good step. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/25 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Why are people here actually for egalitarianism?Getting equal treatment would be an upgrade for me | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 10:57 PM |
| 11 | "I always see average men dating..."They seem to aging faster these days IMO | /r/MensRights | 05/04/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why most women(from my experience) are feminist?I don’t agree with that because the Democrat platform IS feminism. As a man they haven’t put forth anything to bring me back (ex Democrat here switched in 2014) | /r/MensRights | 31/03/25 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Why most women(from my experience) are feminist?When push comes to shove most of the women even on Fox News will let the mask slip and show some feminism. They catch themselves usually but if you look you will see | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm 27 and now afraid of women.I don’t want to sound cliche but there is a bright side. I didn’t get to your point until my 40s. Rebuilding my life at this point. I wish I knew what you do in your 20s | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 06:07 PM |
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