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Ding ding ding!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 03:31 AM
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Fake tits or not, the way you feel about her is likely not going to improve. You very likely should not get married at your age, and going out to live your life a bit is a good idea. Just keep in mind, there aren't a lot of good ones. You may get to pass on one or two, but you may live to regret it.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:01 PM
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r/lostredditors
/r/PussyPass12/06/21 12:32 PM
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Borderline.....
/r/PussyPass09/06/21 09:26 AM
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Go make friends with everyone Infront of her, and ignore her. That's some alpha shit.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:49 AM
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Borderline shit.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:06 AM
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If they cancel inside two hours of the date, I say no, your not doing that I'm already on my way to meet you. This happened a few times to me, and only one in 6 or so that tried this last minute shit actually did not show up after I said no. Then you block the ones that don't show.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:06 PM
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Your ability to step back from the situation and see it so objectively is impressive. I'd say that if they hit you with that rhetoric, you are just getting your first glimpse behind the curtain. Take it for what it is. Enjoy the ride, remember to get off.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:57 AM
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She's not yours. It's just.....
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:07 AM
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If you value your life you will keep anyone with a cluster b personality disorder far far away.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 06:56 AM
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You make a buck twenny on your ass and you don't know what to do. Fucking hell. Did you ever do any amount of introspection on what kind of person you are or what things you like?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:55 AM
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Except for stonks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/20 12:22 PM
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If you think things are bad now, just keep doing what you are doing. You will see how bad it can get.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:55 PM
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Lol. Shit attitude.....
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/20 12:07 PM
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It could happen to you.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/20 05:53 AM
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Your ability to be realistic with your self assesment is great. You don't seem to be trying to fool yourself any longer. You seem close to bottom now. The good news is, there is a lot of room to move up. You made this so important. Mate, just go to a brothel. Your torturing yourself. Women arent the goal. You doing things you like is.
/r/seduction05/11/20 12:56 PM
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The horrifying thing about all this is the default position of nearly everyone if you question the "goodness" of women. The agent Smith effect if you don't know. I've dated a BPD. It went as you imagine. I had no idea what I was up against. It went bad for me. No legal issues, but years of therapy later.....I don't really like women that much. When you take off the sexy clothes, remove the nice makeup, they are mostly (not all ofc), pretty damn average. For anyone thinking women are more than ju…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:50 AM
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Just run over there and change numbers and say you want to have someone to make fun of customers with or something.
/r/seduction29/10/20 03:29 AM
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You better be carefully what you with for.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:37 PM
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because there is a spectrum between simps that will grovel, and dudes that care about themselves and their own happiness way before hers. from outside it looks like they treat their partners badly because the women complain that he doesnt care about her. but he cares about him first. self respect man. part of the whole answer, but not the answer entirely. That and the fact that women and men with lots of choices get hubristic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:13 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 09:55 AM
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Fucken a man. Can I updoot this twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:15 AM
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Looks like she........forgot about Dre........- puts on glasses -
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/20 09:28 AM
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five days later!!!!!!!!!! hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:14 PM
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Best two times to plant a tree is 20 years ago, and today.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:00 AM
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You've been stewing on this for the last days haven't you? It's been burning you up, and you waited days to finally respond with that? Don't forget, nobody loves you, nobody likes you, and you will keep jumping to new friends the rest of you life as they figure you out. You are going to be abandoned over and over again.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:04 AM
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Politics and religion.
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:59 AM
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PLEASE......
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:54 AM
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It sounds like you are just replying to be argumentative at this point. My comment was about what normally happens. To the bulk of society. You're coming around here like 'but the whammenz'. It's not the oppression Olympics. That's idealogical possession in action. Read a book man.
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:46 AM
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Look, I didn't invent women or relationships. Go argue with God about the morality of it. I just call it like I see it. It's not for me to say what's right, I don't even agree with it. It is what it is. You are "pleasing" at me like I have a say in it.
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:51 AM
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Show me a woman who will long term a respect a man who has low self esteem, confidence, and can't talk to women, and she will stay with him. Men will stay with pushover women any day, and it happens all the time.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:54 AM
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I knew someone was going to say this. But it's not. Men are expected to know what to do and lead. It's why men lead in dance, it's why men approach, and women are approached. Women can giggle and act ditzy when they are nervous, and people think it's cute. It's just not cute on a man. No, I'm not saying women can't, I'm saying it's not the norm, and I'm saying men will not get sympathy or understanding.
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:30 AM
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Hahaha, that's exactly what a borderline would say.... That's a bingo.....
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:19 PM
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You have a cluster B personality disorder, right?
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:57 PM
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You're a feminist right? Lol.... I'm the asshole because I don't want miserable disfunctional kids? Did I not consider your personal feeling before having an opinion of my own? I should go along with women's narcisistic tendency to HAVE TO HAVE a kid despite it often being exactly what they should not be doing?
/r/seduction04/10/20 08:01 PM
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Good man.
/r/seduction04/10/20 07:54 PM
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What conditioned him to be like that do you think? I'm not asking to be combative, nor to even hear the answer. That's for you to think about.
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:45 PM
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I think this hits men raised by single mothers the hardest. They have no point of reference to even see what normal relationship behaviour is like.
/r/seduction04/10/20 10:53 AM
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BPD. You're lucky she didn't kill you.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/20 10:56 PM
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The parts of me that want to see a more equal go for everyone in society hates this. My personal experience knows this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:54 AM
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This isn't r/therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:12 AM
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You mean reading FDS? I don't. Dealing with the FDS attitude is what I am referring to. I really want to find a girlfriend, and I've been on dates, but I can't stand most of them. I would not say I'm worthy of 10s, nor do I chase them(or anyone now), but to have such incredibly low standards for what you need in a gf, and have them unmet so often is too much. No personality disorders, no narcissists, no feeling that I have to pay for everything because you feel entitled, be a similar build to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 03:06 AM
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For me at least, my issue is that so many women think like that, that it's virtually impossible to find someone is not a total pain to be around. I've all but given up of finding a partner. It's just far too much work to be around these entitled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:47 AM
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How dare you come around here dropping such truths. If you weren't right I would give you a piece of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:44 AM
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Lol. This is what's wrong with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 03:27 AM
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Yeah, that's other people's responsibility right!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:51 AM
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Fucking nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:48 AM
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Happened to me on Friday. My bills are a little tight right now, and she offered, I said, I'll get it, then she said, are you sure, her own card in hand. I said, ok, sure let's split. Date was going well. Right up to then. Messaged yesterday to check in, no reply yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 12:00 AM
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It's the entirety of men's fault that they don't want to spend their lives with women who treat them badly. Got it.......
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah but you are the one who gets to choose. You don't get to be the one making the choice and then blame all the men because you chose wrong? How does that even make sense? That's two year old thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:08 AM
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Sure, I agree, there is probably 90% of women I don't want to be in a relationship with either, but I don't go around calling I'll of them gold digging home wrecking whores, because I'm not trying to be divisive. There are good ones and bad ones, even some I don't even care about. I don't need to try to denegrate a whole sex in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:01 AM
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In today's world, having kids is not an accident. It's not a job. It's a relationship with a child that the women chose to start. You can't carry on about Muh kids' when it's a choice you made. You want a career, go get one like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:42 AM
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It always comes back to this. Abusive men. All the men become abusive. That's your father, brother and sons your talking about. The idea that all these men are abusive therefore femenism is such a stretch. How can you guys keep pushing this. It's so divisive. I don't know anyone like the men you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:01 AM
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Who gets to decide who those people are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:15 PM
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Hahaha, actually laughed at this one. Then I realised it's because I have this in common with you.
/r/seduction04/08/20 08:31 PM
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LMAO. She's not yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:06 AM
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If you feel bad after reading that, just look at the post history of who is writing. Really. It's fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 08:51 AM
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Let me get this straight, women get my body my choice, and men get forced to raise children?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:33 AM
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So glad people are willing to set boundaries on bullshit behaviour. I'm pumped for us to be able to read this and celebrate your healthy choices.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:39 PM
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Username does not check out. Lol. Eric Berne.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 01:26 PM
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The games people play. One of the greatest, accessible, books on psychology written.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:02 AM
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This planet is fucked.
/r/PussyPass02/07/20 12:54 PM
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Fucken borderlines
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 11:33 AM
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I don't. I am just tired of the entitlement.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:26 PM
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excellent. Thanks. Great advice.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:32 PM
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Look, I didn't invent women. Don't get snippy with me over it. I can't tell you why I don't have a radar that weeds them out. I roll my dice like everyone else.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:09 PM
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Ah, yes... Shame tactics. Your not a real man/good man/nice person//or "chivalrous" unless you pay for every random broke chicks dinner.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:05 PM
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Gladly, but they are about 17000km away.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:11 PM
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Food, girls or the country?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:02 PM
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Some good points for sure. Don't get me wrong though, I'll buy a girl an expensive dinner and drinks if we are seeing each other. I will cook for others, but this expectation of first date blowouts is just a bridge too far.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:52 AM
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if you get one date a week, and have to pay for dinner and drinks, which can quickly approach 150-200 dollars in a night, for girls you probably wont see again, and they all expect you to pay for them, you need your head examined.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:42 AM
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there is a handbook, but you cant link it here.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:51 AM
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Oh? is that a joke, or is there actually one? link?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:43 AM
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It's not what it looks like ..... Fucking hell.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 08:00 AM
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Same here man. Once is enough.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 11:25 AM
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They have this backwards. "Borderline women are so slimy and amorphous that they will take on any trait that will garner the attention of men." They are just really good at being what you want. Source: I was naive enough to date/fall for one.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 05:01 AM
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Polarising people against each other isn't really helpful, and blaming all whatever's shows you lack the ability to take responsibility for your own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:18 AM
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That's an amazing story brus. We are all very proud of you.
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:53 AM
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good for you dude. I am really happy for you. 1. look like the guy, 2. feel like the guy, 3. be. the. guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 01:51 AM
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There is probably someone else and she is keeping you warm.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:45 AM
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no guilt or shame. no ownership of problems. read the DSM, its worth it to not have to deal with these people. the whole cluster B personality disorder set is something to be avioded AT ALL COSTS.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 12:18 PM
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Bitches be crazy
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:28 AM
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Equal rights, equal lefts.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/20 05:52 AM
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WORLDSTAR!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/20 05:51 AM
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Start fixing your own shit. Make a list and start crossing shit off. Start with easy things. Clean your bathroom. Plan your finances. Build it up. Next meditate. Do it for as long as you can handle. But start small. 5 mins. Sit still. Think about your breathing here and now. When your mind wanders, push that thought away and get back to breathing. Here. Now. Make it a routine. Take a short break from others. Now is the perfect time. Focus on your ducks. Get them all in a row.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:04 AM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/20 02:37 AM
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If someone is trying to communicate to you that they are a fucking landmine. You must pay attention. Listen to the message. You may think she is nice now, but there is signs that clearly indicate she is going to rip your heart out if you give her a chance to. You think you want this because you believe you don't have other options, but you have lots of options. You just need to learn how to apply the right energy towards the right people. Stay the fuck away from this psycho.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:55 PM
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Fucken, fuck yeah!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/20 07:44 AM
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No idea breh, I live 12000km away from there. She's on the passport.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/20 01:46 AM
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Yeah, welcome to life.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/20 10:44 AM
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LISTEN HERE: your ex likely had a cluster B personality disorder. They by definition are over sexualised, and they are unstable. Let me guess: she had no sense of shame or guilt, she loves attention, she thought you are going to leave or abandon her, she made you feel like the greatest person on earth for moments and then she made you feel like the worst. How am I doing? Suicide attempts are very common for them. Mine had razor scars on her wrists that were "from falling off a roof"..... You jus…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:22 AM
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different hot young fun hookers
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:12 AM
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And what's so great about that? Seriously?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:10 AM
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Don't want kids, don't want marriage, there are enough miserable children on the planet to justify not bringing more. Besides I can't stand crying or screaming. I'm happy running my own routine, living my best life.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:09 AM
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It's called beyond reasonable doubt.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/20 10:01 AM
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you should endorse her on linkedin for misandry.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 08:37 AM
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classic. that is always the draw card. I 'feel' uncomfortable. so that should be enough to shift the focus back to the patriarchy.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 08:36 AM
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Fuck insecurity. This will only make it worse. Pick up your dignity, lose her number, and get on with your life.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 09:54 AM
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just remember, if she is running that game now, she will later too. thats not wife material.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 04:51 AM
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BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:23 AM
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if you ever want to know if something is sexism, reverse the genders in the story and ask your self, does this also outrage me? this makes me fucking mad as fuck. if the genders were reversed, the guy would go to prison. Fuck this Planet.
/r/PussyPass18/06/19 10:57 PM
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That's really aggravating.
/r/PussyPass16/05/19 07:21 AM
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these people have a habit of holding everything you ever did wrong against you in future. just remember that.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 03:40 AM
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they are called borderlines. ​
/r/TheRedPillStories17/03/19 04:21 AM
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IMHO you need to work on every part of your psyche, not just one part of it. The rational male is excellent, and its a good starting point. But be diverse. Work on yourself. Try "the game" too. But then move onto character building. Love yourself. Treat yourself with respect. No one is going to respect you enough to sleep with you if you don't respect yourself. Figure out what you're capable of. Try "ordinary men", or "a first rate madness". Then read some philosophy, try neiche, "the will to po…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:10 AM
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Mother fucker, go over there and say hi,
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:03 AM
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I like my women as I like my cars. 22 years old and full of issues. its more fun that way. ​
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:48 AM
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I dont know man, this comment is just so..... je ne sais pas....
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/19 10:04 AM
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Meetup.com
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:08 AM
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Let's get it!
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:32 PM
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Do anything and then keep moving. Don't stop putting one foot in front of the other. Solutions will appear when you want to find them.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:18 AM
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dude, that is how women boost their egos. cut her off, but if you want a slice back, put a pic of you and some random hot girl in a bar up on some social media that she is likely going to check in on you with, ie insta. then, move the fuck on with your life.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:00 AM
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Be silly about it. 'lets go back to my place so we can talk' then look her right in the eyes. Do and say silly things. Be fun.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:32 PM
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You are asking yourself this question should really be enough. But if you want ninja radar for this stuff, check out: 'the games people play.' by Eric berne. It's amazing and one of the best books I ever read.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:49 AM
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