I would actually like to see a picture of you and your kid. You can blur the faces, but I think it would go a long way to prove your authenticity. It would also give you way more credibility than most of the other "Everyone thinks I'm a pedophile bawww" posts.
Now I don't have any sources either so I don't know how different the statistics would be, but "more women than men abuse children" is different than "mothers abusing the kids vs the fathers doing so". Additionally, what percent of care for children is provided by women? I wouldn't be surprised if it were around 80%-85%
Is that true? I find it hard to believe that woman abuse children more than men proportional to their access to them. And yes, a good woman would support awareness and prevention of child abuse and murder.