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| 2 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...I can understand that! Some men are snakes in the grass. They have no remorse for mess they make of our lives. Matter of fact- they blame us for it. Always pay attention to who they make the villains in their life. If their exes are all “crazy” or “deceitful” it’s most likely them that is the culprit. You got this. Take time to heal. Make you your priority! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:03 PM |
| 3 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...There’s a special place in hell for the gaslighting manipulators that make you question your reality. I’m sorry you went through this. Not all men are like this. When you work on yourself and get yourself to a place of self security and know your self worth you will no longer crave that unnecessary attention. You will be enough for you. They are parasites and bottom feeders. Leave them be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...Yup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 4 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...I agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 15 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...I concur. No contact unclouded the mind from the situation. You sit with the hurt and evaluate the situation. Then you grow from there. I’m done making the same mistake. I’d rather be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 10:46 PM |
| 14 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...Ouch! 😣 however that’s the truth... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Don't tolerate their bullshit anymore ✌️Yes. God, yes! Patterns emerge this way... :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | From the bottom of my heart, thank you FDS!That’s hellah inspirational! So happy for you!! I am focusing on me now too. Really sucked when a coworker approached me today and told me that I used to laugh, used to smile all the time- literally would crack myself up- but all the joy was sucked dry from my life as of late and she missed that side of me. Said I needed to focus back on me. She’s right- all you ladies are right! It’s time to take care of you and me of me! Time to level up! Proud of you for doing it girl! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:10 AM |
| 38 | Why I love when people call me guardedOmg! So true! Trust no one. They move in to mess with your mind. I’m so sick of men treating women like they’re the problem. Hell no! Move on... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | For anyone who’s struggling or feeling vulnerable after leaving a guy just remember..Thank you for this :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | The Weird Power of Journalling. Really.This!! ❤️ Wow I needed this today. I’m heading to the gym now, but when I get home I’m doing this! Thank you so much for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 8 | She is clothed in strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future! 👑This is beautiful!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | My own design of one of my favourite quotes ✨Haha! That’s awesome! I love this❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Be Courageous & Listen to your GutI’ll check that out rn. Thank you! You have no idea how much help this is for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Be Courageous & Listen to your GutWell thank you! I looked her up and watched her TED Talks. Just, wow! I have a lot of emotional damage from 16 years of a horrifically abusive relationship- what she spoke of, the need to make yourself vulnerable- it just hit home. The walls I built to protect myself from pain also excluded me from feeling joy and compassion. Strong stuff there!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Be Courageous & Listen to your GutI’ll need to check out her book bc that’s a pretty epic quote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:47 PM |
| -5 | God love Aileen 😅I take care of myself. His loaded wallet just means he can afford his own things. She is, however, laughing and enjoying her response. To be happy at that age is what I want to be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:47 AM |
| 24 | Amen! 👏Yas! I get so sick of saying actions speak louder than words. Do what you say and stop being fake! My ex was always guilty of being the opposite of this. I made excuses for years. Never again!! Walk the walk or walk the fuck out of my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 5 | My mom sent me this. I thought it’d serve as a good reminder for everyone on this sub.Damn! That hit me in the gut! Sadly have been in that position more than once in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Devastated over narcissistic ex, months after D-day How do u move on, please share your tipsYas! I second and third this. Chump Lady helped me get over my N Ex who was a serial cheater! excellent book! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 19 | I don’t know who needs to hear this; remember you yourself are enough for a happy ending. Never settle. 💕When I left my ex-husband I declared this to be my world. I would never again depend on another souls to get me by. I stand firm on my two feet and show my children they can build their own empires. It doesn’t matter when you start over, it’s just matters that you start and start right! Thank you for the reminder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 8 | Taking the trash out is never a lossAmen to that! Left mine almost a year ago and no looking back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:11 AM |
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