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| 10 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tips | Betrootjuice | /r/askMRP | 16/08/19 09:03 AM | |
| 1 | MRP - My Genesis | Betrootjuice | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/06/19 07:25 AM |
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| 5 | Setting Boundary or Mate Guarding?The 2nd wave of Covid is raging and she is going to be in a flat with 8-9 people drinking? Nice Recipe to get contaminated and all your relatives. Just for that reckless behaviour, I’d next. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019This is a good point. I am doing Yoga 2x a week and the end of the session is these 3-4min lying and doing nothing. This is really helpful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/10/19 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019OYS #13 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (5th month of pregnancy). This is a summary for the past 3 weeks. Readings I have read more on mindfulness recently, in particular when having a bad habit, taking the time to look at the habit, the experience and understand what it does, what it brings to you. I have identified 2 bad habits I want to correct over the course of the next weeks. First eating too much over the weekend (cancelling some of th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 08, 2019OYS #12 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (5th month of pregnancy). This is the summary of the past 2 weeks. I went on a 3 day trip with my wife this past weekend, without our child. First trip outside the country for 2 overnights without the kid. Readings Re-read my notes on NMMNG. Doing the activities. Also started to do visualisations work from Napoleon Hill’s book. I am resuming something I did in the past which is reading a few pages of a … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019compound lifts and forget about body-weight exercises. I've been doing heavy lifting since Jan 2018 (not too long in the grand scheme of life) and my wife cant keep her hands off me. You clearly aren't even trying hard enough. Your looking for easy ways out. Instead of actually building dread properly you want to drop the divorce bomb on a pregnant women in hopes to speed up the dread. The fundamentals of dread is that other women want to fuck you... and not some random suzy from HR.. the majori… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Yes I am. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Unattractive for her. This is my benchmark. Otherwise, I am not a 1 I am good looking, not too fat, I speak fluently 3 languages, I am sociable, I have $1m in the bank, am a good dad and have many interesting hobbies. What I do not have is a clear vision and the execution of it. This is unattractive to me first. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019OK read the OYS posts. Lots of "she" and me trying tactics like "hey mommy look at me". I am a fucking fly on a piece of meat. No carryover in all the postings, lack of consistency galore except fitness (which is where I am happiest as I have created a durable habit). Looks like I need to go back to the drawing board, plan better my vision and execute at least some extra bits (probably wanting to do too much and doing everything badly). thx for the insightful comments | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Thx I will re-read my OYS and execute what I should have done. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019I know what I have to do but I still don't do it. This is lame. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Yes. I am still think too much about her pussy. Or rather her lack of attraction towards me. I have not managed yet to think about me first. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Yes, I have not owned it so far. Still trying to blame someone /something at times. This is the key I know it. Thanks for taking the time | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Why? Her body language says so. Let's say I go to kiss her. She just takes a peck on the lips and then physically pushes me back. She makes a disgusted face. Just the look on her face is enough, she needn't say a word. The wife is pregnant so I am not doing "dread" as it is not recommended which I understand - there is enough drama as it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019Height is 179cm - 5'11. I do callisthenics - I know not ideal but I am committed and I have not missed a single training session because of a lack of motivation or any excuse. The gym has a few free weights. No barbell. Nevertheless, at the moment, I have access to a gym with weights for my knee rehab and I tried the DL. For 1 RM, I have DL: 210, OHP: 85. OHP I am stalling but I have seen the notes written and I will incorporate them into my practice. Squats I do pistol squats. I can also do 10 … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 24, 2019OYS #11 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (5th month of pregnancy). RP since June 2019 Fitness 78.0kg (+1.6kg over 2 weeks). I am back from 3 days of mountain cycling and lots of good food / wine with my friends. My waste and hips line are unchanged and yet I am heavier. I am back on the cut anyway with the determination to reach the 12% BF for Xmas (currently at around 17.5%, coming from 22-23%). Relationship Going backwards. She is snappy a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/19 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 10, 2019I feel I do not know how to flirt anymore. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 10, 2019I initiated in bed and got turned down. So I left the bedroom and went to do stuff for me. Outside the house. I do not see how you can withdraw time and attention if you are still in the same bed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 10, 2019OYS #10 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (4th month of pregnancy). Readings Not much done apart from some post readings. Read more on nutrition and workouts. I am gonna get a “gaming” book next. I need to get that part going again as I am not making much effort on that front with the wife. Also will re-read Napoléon Hill and start the visualisation exercises in earnest. Fitness 76.4kg (-900g but over 3 weeks). Waist now at 78cm, at 15 year l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019Check what the MRP veterans are doing nutrition wise. Lots to learn. I now what you feel: your head is exploding with the new info and you want to act at all cost. Plan it carefully. As for 5am: looks like you did not hold it through time. Find out why. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/19 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019I am new to MRP so maybe this is crap but. It feels to me that your goals are too ambitious or not thought through - yet. For instance, waking up at 5am. To wake up at 5am every day and hold it, you also need to go to bed before 10pm to manage at least 7h of sleep. So what's the evening bedtime plan? You cannot last otherwise. Working out: in 3 months, you want to lose 30lbs, workout every day, etc. From zero probably. Losing 30lbs will be achieved in the kitchen. You need to research that part … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/19 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019Yes, this ties in with the more active social life I am building. I want to be at a stage where I can eject from the house and meet friends at the last minute. Not there yet but in progress | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/19 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019OK got that. There is not much I can see at 11pm manly in my house but a good challenge to think about it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/19 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019Yes, I want to say "your loss" but it does not come to my mouth on the action. There is no shortages of things to do in the house (no DIY though) or for me but I have lacked the energy so late at night. Mind you, there is now a big pile of ironing so I know what to do if she rejects me tonight. Generally, I am trying to think of an activity in the evening to do if she says no. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/19 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsI have been losing lean body mass. Not much, maybe 1kg out of the 6kg I have lost so far. Maybe it is water as you explained. Anyway, I think this askmrp thread was great to get better ideas and more discipline. As for Keto: I did a LCHF diet a few years back and I remember the "flu" phase as the body adapted. I found Keto hard to maintain over the long run (the food became boring after a while) and very time consuming (I was cooking all the time and had no child back then). | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019OYS #9 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (4th month of pregnancy). Readings A few sidebar articles and also documenting myself on diet and compound lifts post a askmrp post. Fitness 77.3kg (-600g). Waist now 10cm smaller and hips 9cm. I am now looking as good as 10yr ago, my last “peak”. After a headless chicken start to health and fitness, I need to adjust what I am doing to do things right. Physio work - I have a hamstrings imbalance to add… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsThank you everyone for the useful comments. I am very early on in the process so this is good to correct now the mistakes I have been making rather than complain in 6 months. So far I will adjust with the following: - For the diet part, I have increased calories to 2,200 and will do refeed days. - I will keep training in the morning most of the time but will wake up a bit earlier, eat something and go training. I did that this morning and surprise I had more energy towards the second part of the… | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsOk so looks like I am cutting too much at 1800. I am still losing weight at the moment (weighting myself every morning). TDEE suggests 2650 as maintenance so I would need to move up calorie intake towards 2200-2300 to keep cutting the fat and not the muscle. Thx | /r/askMRP | 16/08/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsYes, it could be a crap gym. But I want to get into a habit. There are no other gyms within 20-25min of where I live which are open at 6am and 24/7. Once I have the habit (need 3-4months and I'll see with winter coming), I can consider changing. I think doing something is better than potentially doing. I have been on/off at the gym (clue: because I had no staffing power) and saw a few people develop and got fitter / bigger / stronger. The bigger came only through nutrition. So routines There a… | /r/askMRP | 16/08/19 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipswow thanks for these answers. Yes, I am impatient - big flaw. But hopefully lifting will give me the delayed gratification spirit. Constipation: I think I eat enough fibres. This is something I discovered with doing a low carb high fat diet a few years back - I am a bit gluten intolerant. And gluten free options are often full of crap. Actually the nutrition plan has more carbs than I am used to. I sleep at least 7h a night. My routine: I am in a calisthenic gym. So lots of dips, pull-ups, chi… | /r/askMRP | 16/08/19 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsStrength. The workout and nutrition plan is targeted to make me "ripped" by lowering the body fat and keeping the muscle mass. I'll try to gulp another protein shake every day to see if there is a difference. | /r/askMRP | 16/08/19 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Lifting but losing muscles - need tipsI get that. But I want to maintain muscle. So I am wondering if I am not setting myself to lose muscle anyway given my timings. Which is annoying because the more I cut, the more I need to cut! | /r/askMRP | 16/08/19 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019On the fitness front. So far I am on track with what I read on MRP, which is losing 1.7lbs per week when the BF% is above 15%. My BF% rate varies according to sources: 15% with Navy method and 18% with a machine at the gym (which looks more accurate). I still have 5 kgs to lose from that perspective to get to the 12% BF which is what I am after in the grand scheme of things. So I am just halfway but I have really 3 weeks of being scrupulous in terms of cut. My plan was to cut until at least mid-… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/08/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019thx | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/19 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019I am a person that goes from 0 to 100 in seconds. In both directions. I must have exaggerated the threat, in a puke moment. Even if there is/was something, this is me pushing her into his arms. So back to being a better myself anyway. This is more urgent. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019OK, got that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/19 12:34 PM |
| 9 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019OYS #8 (MRP since June 2019) 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (4th month of pregnancy). Readings I finished NMMNG for a first read. I do not share the bad childhood or bad father relationship. However, I surely do lack a vision. Also, I need to re-read the passage with the explanation of caring vs care taking. Sidebar: finally understood comfort tests vs when women express feelings. I still try to fix her. Something to work on. Fitness Weigh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/19 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019Fuck. Each week I hope to progress and each week I discover another thing I do wrong. True, I am not finding topics to talk with her at the moment, besides our kid. Or listening to her venting after a day at work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019thx for the explanation. I am thinking too much - this is so true | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019On this occasion, this is not about the washing. We both keep the house well. I am owning part of the chores, she does as well. We both anticipate many chores. This is more a proof of her being a bitch. She is using every situation to bitch. Another one: I am at a red light, in neutral gear. The stop&start device activates. Then the traffic light goes green while I looked outside the window. The car behind beeped and she starts a rant about how I am turning off the engine at a traffic light whic… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019I am not sure I got a shit test recently - besides 2-3 weeks ago when she was irate at my joke of going to the toilet. What I get is lots of interactions where she is snappy, bitchy. For instance, on Sunday, she goes out to her dad and tells me to take the laundry out of the washing machine when it is done. I forgot and when she came home, about 1h30 after the end of the washing machine, she starts :" I asked you to do it, you forgot again,..." to which I replied the same as what my daughter say… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019Action points Using the template recommended last time about my fuck-ups Last week Fuckup 1 is my knee: getting better, physio booked, going lifting 4x a week. Fuckup 2 is bringing her into conversation with strangers, in particular if female. Probably oneitis and being full beta with her in charge. I have not done it the past week unless I am discussing my relationship with close male friends. Fuckup 3 is withdrawing attention and contact when she rejects me. I did it. On Saturday, after re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/19 09:59 AM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019OYS #7 (MRP since June 2019) 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (3rd month of pregnancy). Readings Finished MMSLP. I need something about getting her out of the mommy persona. Any recommendations? Fitness Before: 83kg - waist 89cm, hips 111cm Now: 78.5kg - waist 81cm, hips 104cm. Target: 75kg by mid-Sept (for a cycling trip in the mountains) and by YE being defo below 15% BF. This is the area with visible progress. I am looking more toned. My … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/19 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019Yes, I am a bit torn between gaming her and building sound bases first. At the wedding, she was telling again a common friend how she admired that I went to the gym everyday. I like that she said that but that is validation again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019OK that is very useful. Thx. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019OK. Fuckup 1 is my knee. I went to the gym this morning, will do every day of the week. I will concentrate on upper body and on the muscle groups where I am weaker (I used the symmetrical strength app to flesh this result out) which are my back muscles. Fuckup 2 is bringing her into conversation with strangers, in particular if female. Stop that shit Fuckup 3 is withdrawing attention and contact when she rejects me. This time I am not trapped in a hotel room at 2am so no excuses. My gym is at th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019Good point, thx | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019The consent thing I took it as a shit test. Maybe I did not get it the right way. It is true that she holds the power. I am not going to ask for consent. That's clear in my mind. Butthurt I am yes. It was difficult to leave the last few days as I was on holiday and on a single leg. But I am making excuses surely. I am finding this gaming / flirting so tough at the moment because I am like talking to a wall. There is no reciprocity. How do you guys keep going through that? I feel the answer is do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019please format. Jesus | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | You don’t know how weak you are because you don’t know what strength is.Nice resource. Started MRP 2 months ago, I am at 46 but with huge variations. Untrained / novice everywhere excepts triceps / pecs where I am intermediate. Which feels about right in what I lift. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 09:55 AM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 30, 2019OYS #6 (MRP since June 2019) 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (3rd month of pregnancy). Readings Continuing MMSLP and some sidebar but not much otherwise. MMSLP gave me the impetus to restart gaming. Fitness Before: 83kg - waist 89cm, hips 111cm Now: 79.5kg - waist 81cm, hips 105cm. Target: 75kg by mid-Sept (for a cycling trip in the mountains) and by YE being defo below 15% BF, closer as possible to 12%. I sprained my knee 2 weeks ago, 3 da… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/19 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019This is a great point. I think it is humour but it is not. Attitude follows behaviour and getting these thoughts not leaving my mouth is a first step. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019In this instance, a good endocrinologue can help you. Lots of tests involved. Also, he was testing foods on a rolling 6week basis to understand their impacts on his body. Lots of trial and error and ultimately he managed to identify what helped and what detracted. He could go back to doing intensive jogging which he loved. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Primer: Your ShouldersCould you use the shoulder retraction harness for other sports? I do a bit of road cycling and I wonder if it would be effective? Thx for the primer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/19 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019I did not mean that way. There are some food he was eating and not anymore. It could be anything for you. Fruits were fine except berries and avocado. For instance. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019I am already in a sex moratorium :-D | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019thx, I have not read it yet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019Thx. Excellent points. Sometimes I just need to stop thinking and just do things I enjoy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019How much were you drinking before? In which circumstances? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019A friend has also thyroid issues. He consulted an endocrinologist and changed his diet markedly, which removed most of his symptoms. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019She is pregnant so could be hormonal. Could be she needs sex as well, could be I am slightly less unattractive to her eyes. I do not care too much, I felt I would not have sex for months. As for validation. I must misunderstand the concept. I came to the MRP because of the bad / lack of sex. It opened my eyes on how I sucked. So I am training more, I am trying to improve myself. At first, the idea was to get more sex but more and more I do it because I want to be a better me and be proud of my… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 10:10 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019What do you mean? I am taking steps to change my life, change my environment. My wife is pregnant so I cannot rock the boat like crazy (this is what is recommended anyway by the community). I take measured steps, baby steps maybe. My first priority is fitness. I have always felt a bit fat. I want to be fitter to stop feeling that way and to prove myself I can do things. I would appreciate if you could highlight which parts make you want to commit suicide and explain why this is wrong. Otherwis… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019OYS #5 (MRP since June 2019) 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (2nd month of pregnancy). Readings Lots of sidebar readings and re-readings. Health Before: 83kg - waist 89cm Now: 79.3kg - waist 81cm. I have lost around 5kg of fat now. I continue to shed weight at a good regular pace. I have now new energy as I was stalling somewhat by not pushing myself hard enough. Pushing harder in cardio and strength training now. Exercise since last Friday… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/19 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019Yes true. I did not express it well. This was the event that opened the eyes. Now I have at least a couple of years of hard work in front of me but this is also exciting to think I can emerge as a better person. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/19 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019I did not get what you mean. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/19 11:42 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019Thx for your comment. I felt like a punch in my stomach and was miserable about it. This means: - I am weak and have a long road ahead of me to better myself - I give a shit about what people think about me. It is constant validation seeking. Linked to the point above. Please continue commenting my OYS. How much I care about that type of answer will also be a good indication of how far I have come. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019True! It is a tricky situation because the pregnancy created the shitstorm in the relationship but also the point from which to start improving. I think I need to re-read this dread story because I am doing a mix of everything at the same time and I am not even sure I am doing dread anyway. Or I am not really doing Dread consciously though. There is no action plan currently like it is described . For instance, I dress better now (would be level 5) but this is because I feel better that way and i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 10:46 AM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019OYS #4, (MRP since early June 2019). 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (2nd month of pregnancy). Readings Kept reading the sidebars, key posts and started MMSLP. Health Before: 83kg - waist 89cm Now: 80.2kg - waist 83cm I used a BF apparatus and it gave me 19%. Not the 15% of the Navy BF. New this week is that I started with proper get ripped nutrition. I have better definition, now some vascularity on my forearms. Wife makes a positive rem… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/19 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 02, 2019thx for the links. I feel like I want to cuddle anyway, it is a nice moment together. This is a long journey and I am impatient. My social life is good. I am out 2-3 times a week, she said "sometimes I do not know what you are up to anymore" because I meet a lot of people. Deep inside, I feel I am in the right direction. The key will be to have the stamina and continue beyond the summer. My body hurts a bit from the workouts (in a good way), I am planning new experiences regularly without gett… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 02, 2019thx for the feedback. 1) There sex felt OK but it took us only 2 months to conceive. I could vary positions and try stuff. Now that I think of it, she would not let me finger her. 2) Will do 3) I do not want a divorce because of my child. I want to see her everyday. Also, I am in a foreign country where laws are firmly against fathers. So getting custody would not be possible. I do not mind not being with my wife (sure, at the beginning I would miss her) but I want to be with my kid. I am not so… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/19 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 02, 2019OYS #3 (discovered MRP in early June 2019). 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (1st month of pregnancy). Readings Ordered and received MMSLP. I stopped 31 Days to Masculinity in the middle. I was not ready to continue - the no masturbation was too tough given the sex drought. Physical / health Before: 83kg - waist 89cm - Navy BF: 21% Now: 81kg - waist 83cm - Navy BF: 15% Target is 10-12% BF at the end of the year. The Navy BF seems to underest… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/07/19 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019You are right. This is not what she needs right now. I am going to concentrate on myself: get a better body, better mind, improve myself through some coursework I am following. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/19 08:41 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019Get rid of the pets. 3 hours a day for them! Or do something while you walk the dogs. Move closer to work. These are big time savings. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/19 01:48 PM |
| -1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019Are you a breastfeeding mother? If not, this is not your problem. My point is that I am leading her to do stuff she cares about. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019OYS #2 - 18/06 OYS #2 (discovered MRP in Early June 2019). 37, wife 33, married 4 years, together 9 years, 1 kid (2yo), another one on the way (1st month of pregnancy). Readings Currently reading 31 days to Masculinity by Hunter Drew. On day 13. Failed twice at masturbation (I could do better but I come from masturbating once a day, sometimes more, with porn - have not touched porn and spaced my releases). Physical / health When I started this journey on the 23rd of May, these were the stats… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 11, 2019Baby Yes, baby #2 is probably under way now (news of today) and we are both not ecstatic about it. That tells you something. I am optimist that it can turn around in a few months. She is a good spouse and mother. Wife Something I omitted to say is that she has been following me in many thanks several times in the past. We moved country twice (she followed). We moved homes... I am planning more days out together and the family and she really likes it. She wants to be led. Panic attacks Pani… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 11, 2019Hello everyone, I am new on MRP. I am coming here because I am in a personal crisis and I want to get out of the hole. I have a combo unemployment and dead bedroom - both monsters feeding each other. This is the initial situation as a reference and I will post in the OYS weekly from now on to report progress. Age: 37 and wife 32, a child nearly 3, 9 years together, nearly 4 years married. The dead bedroom started really a bit after she moved in with me, around 3 years in the relationship. It was… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/06/19 12:43 PM |
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