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Toxic masculinity is you thinking you deserve women’s attention/desire even though you have no idea how to demonstrate that you are actually worth it. Honest question: what should a woman see in you? Why should they be attracted to you?
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:59 PM
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She’ll have to pay only if she had previously been supporting him in some particular lifestyle and he gave up opportunities for work. It will be based off previous lifestyle, not some raise she got right before the breakup.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/22 03:35 PM
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Ugh.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:15 PM
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And yes, it is an exciting story!
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:02 AM
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No apologies necessary! This community is about support and finding fulfillment. There’s a lot to keep in mind :)
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:01 AM
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Never invest more in someone who isn’t invested in you. Someone can be hot and cool and all that but at the end of the day it’s mutual attraction and chemistry, and communication that will make for the best relationship, most excitement, best sex, most fun, etc.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:34 AM
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Change your definition if winning. If you hang around hot girls all the time you’ll be perceived differently by new women you meet.
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:51 AM
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Matching pace is good but be sure that you are the one who slows down/stops responding at least some of the time.
/r/seduction10/08/18 07:09 PM
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Flirt with other women at the party.
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:06 AM
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Still cracks me up
/r/seduction27/05/17 05:53 PM
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Okay, I don't know what that means.
/r/seduction26/05/17 04:05 PM
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English is not everyone's first language.
/r/seduction26/05/17 02:38 PM
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Eh, skip occupation, not because it is offensive but because it is boring. If that's all you can come up with then at least one of you is probably a bit boring.
/r/seduction28/03/17 03:51 PM
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Word, but even meeting for coffee you want the girl to feel like you know her well enough to value her for the 'right' reasons. Good luck out there.
/r/seduction10/02/17 12:06 AM
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it really depends on how comfortable and interested this person is. If you have a great connection and you've already been talking together about something you both really want to do then you can close on the date/plan right there. If you don't have as strong of a connection you might have to spend some time. I like to be forward and playful with women. At the same time you have to be realistic and don't try to set a date that neither of you have really earned. If you try to get a date before yo…
/r/seduction09/02/17 08:33 PM
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I think you just negged OP
/r/seduction20/05/16 01:25 PM
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No one is going to swipe on KFC, bro. It doesn't say "I'm the fun mysterious guy you want to date" It says "I'm just sitting here eating fried chicken, alone, taking selfies." Super lonely vibe. The other 3 are fine. Consider opening with the beach or the smile though. People want an adventure. If you can find a way to include a picture of you not alone, in a cool place, having fun, people are going to be more interested.
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:53 PM
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its normal to give someone a hug, but there are different types of hugs. Squeeze a little tighter, hold on a little longer. Hugging someone you are friendly with and someone you are interested in can and should be two different things.
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:12 PM
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If you've already been touching her shoulder, doing light kino, flirting, etc, you can just create an excuse grab her hand: "Hey, come look at this." Hold it for a second or two and if she doesn't pull away then its cool. You can kind of take it from there. Incremental escalation, observe body language, recalibrate.
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:21 PM
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You don't hold hands, you touch her shoulder briefly as you walk past her to reach something in the kitchen. You give her a hug when you see her. Little things, consistently, and if she's uncomfortable or unreceptive you know not to push further without jeopardizing your friend/family relationships.
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:10 PM
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Reading body language is what it is all about. I takes practice. it doesn't have to take a few weeks, per say. You can go through all this in a couple of hours. If you touch her shoulder, and she responds positively, you'll know its okay. If you hold her hand while you walk, squeeze her hand gently, and if she squeezes back, you'll know she is with you. If you are looking each other in the eye, focused on each other, and you brush her hair out of her face gently and she keeps eye contact you are…
/r/seduction21/07/15 05:17 PM
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Two things: 1- what is your goal? If it's just a hookup than tread lightly. Long term risk for short term gain is not smart. 2- It's not about "making a move," it's about continuous escalation and calibration. If you go from zero to 100 then you're going to weird someone out and yeah, your friends and family are going to hear about it. If you touch her does she pull away (think like a short touch on the shoulder)? How about eye contact while touching? What about holding hands? If you are getting…
/r/seduction21/07/15 03:53 PM
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A) It's the lady's call, you gotta respect that. B) you chose to get in a taxi with them. Be a man and say "I'm doing my own thing." Don't put yourself in that situation. C) good on you for leaving. (Most) Everyone gets jealous, it sucks, it feels like shit. Rite of passage. If he wants to talk say "hey, I was digging on that girl. She's not my girlfriend or anything so by all means congrats, but I didn't want to stick around and I figured you'd enjoy your privacy." It sucks, everyone has those …
/r/seduction14/12/14 01:32 PM
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You can sit with her but don't give her all your attention. She knows you want her and she can get her attention fix from you and she doesn't have to give you anything in return. It may be wise to start socializing with other people in class as well. Be the straw that stirs the drink.
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:07 AM
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You don't have to do that, but definitely stop pursuing her. As for her interest, you shouldn't "ask her" per say, but rather say that you are going to be selecting all the best classes on Saturday and she can join if she has her old man lets her out if the house. "We should sign up for classes when are you available" is a fundamentally more needy proposition. Anyway, you've said your part. Don't text for a few weeks and if she doesn't get back to you you know where you stand.
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:04 AM
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You don't have to do that, but definitely stop pursuing her.
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:59 AM
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Do it with everyone. Everyone. Just get used to making people comfortable. Just general social skills. People like to talk about themselves. Listen. Create a "conspiracy/inside joke" narrative. Play a game where you talk about the people you see. Us against the world creates a powerful bond quickly. Create an "escape" fantasy/emotion. Best looking girl I opened cold ever was a smoking hot bartender. I walked up right before closing time and said "run away with me" and she was floored. This led t…
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:58 AM
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Dude, if she wanted to, she would. You're being a creeper.
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:50 AM
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You're asking for validation by saying you don't get enough of her. You keep on asking for more and she stops you cold in your tracks. Bottom line is you're giving her too much and she isn't giving you anything back. You're talking about "hanging out" but what are you giving her? What option do you present? Instead, do something awesome and say she can come if she wants. "I found this crazy show not far from the screening, I'm gonna go to the show with my crazy friends and dance my ass off. It's…
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:50 AM
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Sometimes it works every time
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:29 PM
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Don't do that
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:48 AM
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Ha, maybe a comma....
/r/seduction17/06/14 05:44 PM
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Bro, you and your friend are acting pretty immature.
/r/seduction22/03/14 04:23 PM
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Bro I don't get interested until they buy me diamonds.
/r/seduction09/02/14 11:24 AM
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You don't have to run game to have ladies interested, it just makes it easier.
/r/seduction08/02/14 11:59 PM
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"Ok, you and me are going to pack our bags and get out of this place: where do you go?" I really like to create escape imagery emotions early in my interactions. I feel it helps me become that person where the woman can share her hopes and dreams. This opens up women's minds to fantasy. Best part is, I'm in the position to run away with them if they are awesome and can wait a few months till the end of my next contract. Edit: autocorrect
/r/seduction08/01/14 06:17 PM
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If it makes you happy, do it. Relationships can be awesome, way more fulfilling than running game. Sacrifices are part of living for 2 , but the rewards are phenomenal. Sounds like you met a rad girl and you are ready. Go for it, enjoy. Just don't stop "gaming" her because you're in a relationship. Be awesome, blow her mind every single day, and make her feel better than she has ever felt before. Also, stay true to yourself. Bring up shit that bothers you early and communicate. Don't be a pushov…
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:51 AM
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I always felt the same way, but then I figured: if I can't enjoy these clubs without 4 beers, maybe they aren't actually fun? They aren't. Lots of other places to meet women, and besides, who wants to meet only club girls?
/r/seduction22/09/13 06:21 PM
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I think it has more to do with stated preferences vs demonstrated preference. Stated has everything to do with what we think and demonstrated has more to do with what we feel.
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:13 PM
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Just use the button
/r/seduction28/07/13 06:56 PM
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For me, avoiding self pleasure forced me to engage with ladies. My "expectations," which were unrealistic at the time, caught up to reality very quickly.
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:15 AM
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But hey, at least you've got excuses!
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:38 AM
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