BetterRemember Archive

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1	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems The thing with self-defeatest creeps like you is that you will always whine that anything anybody has that you don't have is because of dumb luck. I wasn't born with abs or straight white teeth or well-styled hair. Everybody has to put effort into their appearance and personal hygiene, a lot of why you feel you've fallen behind is likely due to laziness. I could tell you that my ex was a total psychopath and you'd still side with him simply because he has a penis. It seems to be your hobby to go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 12:24 AM
1	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems It's funny how whenever a man is in the wrong it's "choose better men" but his bad actions are just how he gets to be and should continue to be. The thing is people change a lot from 17-25 so if he was a sweet kid he could still turn out to be an asshole of a man but incels will put "teen love" up on a pedestal and push girls to devote themselves to their first love no matter how much he changes. There is literally no pleasing bitter incel types like you so I'm not trying to! I'm dating a mental…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 10:44 PM
1	A month ago, Scientists managed to reverse aging in Mice, What will happen to the human male/female dynamic when this applies to Humans? I don't think technologies like CRISPR will be able to make anyone 21 again because that would require un-doing growth and development, not aging. Human beings are not fully developed until 25-27. Granted, there are people in their mid-20s who look a lot younger but what I'm saying is I don't think the human body will ever put up with reversing actual development. This technology will also only be attainable by the elites and there will be MUCH bigger concerns than dating dynamics. Rejuvenation …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:58 PM
2	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems Actually, though I've never been involved in hook-up culture myself, I've heard that the assertive and dominant guys tend to not care about a woman's pleasure at all, and basically just masturbate using her body. I've had friends who had never had an orgasm because they were brainwashed into going for the types of men that OTHER MEN find appealing. Porn does a lot of that brainwashing too so that women end up never being satisfied and men end up addicted with early-onset erectile dysfunction. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 07:46 PM
1	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems The thing is you are looking at this from a male perspective. Women have had to be culturally gaslit into preferring aggressive "assholes". Male aggression has literally needed to be marketed towards us from childhood. Even in porn the amount of aggressive domineering males has had to be artificially inflated to a ridiculous degree because that is what MALES want to see. A woman is not going to be as concerned as you are about where you fall in the male hierarchy. Just because many males are con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 07:15 PM
1	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems UH OH!?? WHAT'S HAPPENING TO ME??? shrinks in stature, head and brow bone grow larger, and brain becomes less advanced.\ Finally, I am a neanderthal, modern man's ideal woman! I shall find a male of the homo sapiens sapiens species and revert him to my glorious new form. Thus saving him from the pains and trials of anatomically modern human thoughts and emotions! Perhaps we can even devolve further if we idealize animalistic behaviors and eschew critical thought for long enough! Australopithec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 06:00 PM
1	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems His mindset reminds me of the Henrik Ibsen play "A Doll's House". which was written BY A MAN who had to watch a similar "gilded cage with clipped wings" situation happen to one of his contemporaries and friends. There were men in the fucking 1870's experiencing this "utopia" of male decision-making and no female freedom in their daily lives and it horrified them. In the end, everybody loses when anybody's freedom is restricted. We've collectively learned this lesson before and yet modern men are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:53 PM
2	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems Yet if a woman has no safety net or income of her own and she gets abused or murdered you'll fall over yourself to blame her lack of independence as the reason she was killed rather than the man who chose to kill her. Or it's "choose better men" meanwhile men are studying day and night to be able to manipulate and falsely represent themselves until they've got a woman trapped with marriage and kids. Even my ex's guy friends were fooled by his sweet goofy "good guy" facade for YEARS until he got …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:47 PM
1	Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problems Because during the height of patriarchal control doctors were far more likely to prescribe heavy amounts of prescription drugs to unhappy housewives. They did this because they also felt that it benefitted their husbands to have doped up wives who are numb to emotional pain... which I'm sure it likely did. I think that women are actually learning what IS best for them based on life expectancy and self-reported happiness studies. Being married to a man increases HIS lifespan and decreases HERS. L…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 05:38 PM
3	This is so "empowering" 😂 Heavily tattooed women existed in the 1940's, queer women existed in the 1940's, plenty of women you wouldn't find appealing existed in the 1940's. You can stick your fingers in your ears and deny it but women have always and will always be individual human beings and they do not have to mold themselves to your preferences. It wasn't some magical utopia where all women loved being perfect little submissive domestic robots. They had just been able to work their own jobs and then men came back fro…	/r/AntiFeminists	18/09/21 07:30 PM
1	Are you attracted to what you’re attracted to because it’s what you like, or because you’ve been conditioned? I feel like some of it truly is innate, especially as a bisexual woman, studies have found that bi women tend to prefer men who do not have a bunch of hyper-masculine features. I feel like I was raised in an environment where hyper-masculine features were upheld as an ideal but despite all that reinforcement I've never had any interest in that kind of look. I'm sure preferences are shaped by outside influences to some extent but it seems like some of it is innate as well. I think that wherever y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/20 08:44 PM
1	The Red Pill was a response to an unbalanced dating market in favor of women. R/ Female Dating Strategy serves to swing it back in their favor I don't know if it's just the fact that I'm bisexual rather than straight but this entire way of thinking seems way too cold and impersonal to ever really be effective to me. It's all strategies based on figuring out how to end up with the most personal gain from a "romantic" relationship, like it's a business deal rather than a human relationship. You want youth, beauty, access to a female body and you assume all women want money, a man with status (why wouldn't she want her own status?), and f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 12:01 AM
0	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. There are always extremists, that still doesn't mean the entire movement has never done anything productive and good and we should just trash it all. Plus, not my country so there isn't a lot I can do about it.	/r/MensRights	22/03/20 06:03 AM
-1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Feminism isn't the big bad wolf of a movement you are making it out to be. My mom advocated for my dad to get equal custody even though he left her because she's a feminist and she though being as equal as possible would help things go more smoothly... but the judge was old and sexist and literally told her "children are first and foremost a woman's responsibility and duty" even though she told him my dad is the more responsible parent. Individual factors don't matter to a sexist judge they just…	/r/MensRights	21/03/20 08:27 AM
-1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. I'm saying men cause most of men's problems and then try to blame it on everyone else. Men want to take credit for building society, fine. But by doing that they also have to admit to the issues a patriarchal society causes for everyone living in it. No human being is 100% hyper masculine in every single way but that's the expectation men put on other men and guess what? That fucks people up!	/r/MensRights	19/03/20 12:26 AM
-1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Feminism could be a tool to untangle some of that mess for sure but the end goal would just be a neutral society where nobody is pressure or forced to perform certain roles or crush their own personality and replace it with something more acceptable according to their genitals. I think we are slowly inching our way there despite the stockholm syndrome in communities such as this. Y'all love your own poison like alcoholics love the booze that's slowly killing them.	/r/MensRights	19/03/20 12:13 AM
0	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Yep, every history book ever written is completeley false. Do you have any spare tinfoil hats I can borrow?	/r/MensRights	19/03/20 12:01 AM
-1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. As if men pressuring other men into bottling up their emotions doesn't lead to higher rates of suicide. As if the draft isn't controlled by men and wars are not started by men to begin with. As if men don't mock other men who come forward about being victims of sexual assault and tell a victim that "he should feel lucky that he got laid" even if that victim is a little boy. As if men didn't forcefully block women from participating in manual labour and more high risk employment for centuries. As…	/r/MensRights	18/03/20 11:49 PM
-5	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. The thing is, he could have made an argument without minimizing what was likley the most traumatic experience of her life. Shocking that he's even married to begin with when he enjoys taking the low blows whenever he can like that.	/r/MensRights	18/03/20 11:37 PM
-4	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. I've been acting since I was a pre-teen and conjuring fake tears is still nearly impossible... especially without bright stage-lights to stare into to literally hurt your eyes when you inevitably fail to produce tears through thought alone. This little conspiracy theory hits a snag when you consider that even with money on the line most people can't fake cry without years of purposeful training to do so. It's fucking hard. You don't just passively pick up a stage crying skill through social cond…	/r/MensRights	18/03/20 11:34 PM
1	Spoke with my wife about gender equality today. Crying when someone who you thought loved you begins regularly gaslighting you and denying your lived experiences is a very normal response I would say...	/r/MensRights	18/03/20 11:27 PM