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Thats where you are wrong. even being approach by totally normal and respectful guys is a nuisance because of the sheer volume of it. Even if most approaches are respectful, the cumulative effect is a constant stream of unsolicited attention. Women end up being interrupted, evaluated, and forced to reject strangers over and over again. Spreading the responsibility for initiating relationships creates a more comfortable social environment for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:00 PM
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Yes i agree. But i think a culture where women approach will lead to better social outcomes than a culture where only men approach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:58 PM
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Yeah, but someone has to make the step to go from friendly conversion to romantic one. Women should
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:54 PM
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Interesting. So If a woman wants to, she will; if she doesn’t, she’ll do the bare minimum Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:51 PM
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No. Never said that. Women should only approach men they are interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:48 PM
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Putting all the pressure on men to make the first move incentivizes them to become go-getters and more aggressive, which can create an unsafe environment. And I'm not talking about danger in the sense of physical harm or death. I mean that having men constantly approach women can make the situation uncomfortable for everyone. Women approaching men doesn't create the same dynamic. Edit Another benefit is that women approaching men gives them more control over their dating lives. Since women are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:46 PM
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But i actually agree with u, cold approach for men is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:46 PM
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so some women not being able to go out with some men disturbing them is fine to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:45 PM
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Im not talking only about approaching strangers. Even on friends group, college, gym, its better when women approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:37 PM
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You are a woman. You know that being randomly approached by men can often be uncomfortable. The cumulative effect of constant unsolicited attention from men is exhausting. Pushing women to approach more and men less create a better environnement it’s not like there was a rule stating that men have to do it Actually there are rules. In many cultures, men are expected to initiate romantic interactions. Many men learn that “making the first move” is part of dating. This is a well known social norm …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:35 PM
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would actually happen. You all would just be annoyed and unsatisfied with your options because you wouldn't be being approached by your preferences. Do you realize the contradiction in your answer? If you think men would simply be annoyed and unsatisfied with their options, what does that say about how women feel right now? Women already experience frustration and dissatisfaction with the current dynamic. Since women are generally more selective, they may actually experience this frustration mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:27 PM
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I agree. Men should optimise their" female gaze".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:23 PM
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Which outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:22 PM
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Yes, your experience is exceptionally negative, so I would not use it as a general reference. Being assaulted 30 seconds after greeting someone is an extremely rare event. That being said, kudos to you for approaching and taking control of your dating life. Women like you help make the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:21 PM
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Have you ever talked to women? Being approached by men is often seen as a nuisance. It is not always an enjoyable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:16 PM
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Im not ONLY talking about cold approach, but ALL approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:15 PM
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Third spaces are a good solution. But even in third spaces, what I said still applies: women generally do not want unsolicited attention, while men are often more open to being approached. For me, the ideal solution would be a combination of third spaces and women approaching men more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:12 PM
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Im not talking about strangers. But about every situation. A friend or your friend, at school, at your gym. I think women should make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:10 PM
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It's not about handling rejection or being afraid. Men can approach. Some men can even approach hundreds of women without flinching. But does that create a safe environment for women? No. It creates a constant stream of unsolicited attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:09 PM
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The men "not chosen" won't be magically chosen because he is approaching. its for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:07 PM
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False. Just because a system exists doesn't mean it's the best one. This dynamic exists because of tradition, not because it's the most effective. We continue to encourage men to do the approaching, but I think our culture should instead encourage women to approach more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:06 PM
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For biological reasons, men are more likely to approach if left to their own devices. Culture exists, in part, to shape or push back against our biological tendencies. My argument is that encouraging women to approach more and men to approach less leads to better social outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:03 PM
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Women benefit by creating a safer environment where they can thrive without being disturbed by unsolicited attention. Unsolicited attention is one of the biggest problems many women face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:00 PM
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not being approach is better than being rejected. And i disagree, approaching a woman doesnt make her attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:57 PM
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Im not talking only about cold approaching. i'm talking about all approach. Its always better when women approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:56 PM
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Putting all the pressure on men to make the first move incentivizes them to become go-getters and more aggressive, which can create an unsafe environment. And I'm not talking about danger in the sense of physical harm or death. I mean that having men constantly approach women can make the situation uncomfortable for everyone. Women approaching men doesn't create the same dynamic. Edit Another benefit is that women approaching men gives them more control over their dating lives. Since women are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:52 PM
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High IQ post. Well done
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:35 PM
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People your age are in settling down mode with someone they have been dating on and off the past few years and not really interested in meeting new people. People "your age" ? You can date any woman you want as long as she is adult. So not an issue You basically will have to wait 10 years when half of their marriage fail for them to be back on the “market”, but with kids and baggage. Idem. You can date any woman you want as long as she is adult. So not an issue Even if you look young and could a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:03 PM
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Blow job while looking at me, eye to eye This is love But more seriously, there is passionated love and selfless love. Passionated love is a chemical reaction in your brain that make you release dopamine in presence of the adored. Selfless love is truly wanting the best for the adored.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:57 PM
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yes there are bad but there are here to stay so we have to adapt. Espacially men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:06 PM
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First object have worth and even though objects don't have feeling, the one who made the object do , and put their bloods and sweat to make the object. Yet if the object doesn't catch your attention, you will reject it coldly. People aren’t products but if the man doesn't catch your attention, you will reject it coldly. Online dating app are literal marketplace. The process is the same. You may reject it but on a dating app, people ARE INDEED products.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:14 AM
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Amazon, online stores allow customer to be more picky about product that they were before. It allows them to reject product coldly Are you going to stop ecommerce ? No you can't, you just adapt to this new environnement
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:04 AM
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"standind out" on message has nothing to de with being "introverted" and everything to do about how your look in the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:37 AM
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What would be disastrous ? I believe there are less relationships today and they will be less and less as the time advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:11 PM
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when i say alone, I'm just talking about being single. Living single. You can still have friends, networks, hookup, s*xfriends. Just you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:56 PM
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When i say alone, I'm just talking about being single. Living single. You can still have friends, networks, hookup, s*xfriends. Just you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:50 PM
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Thats my point lowering your chance of finding a LTR is good because being in an LTR is not a must but a bonus. Either be in a fantastic relationship of stay single. Why settle for less when the single life is good nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:48 PM
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i'm just talking about being single. Living single. You can still have friends, networks, hookup, s*xfriends. Just you are single. All good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:38 PM
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I'm for raising all standards. Raise your standards for both attraction and personality !! No lowering
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:37 PM
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Good comment. We live in an era where being a relationships is not a must anymore. Yes it's easier for women to stay single for the reason you stay above. BUT Men can develop support networks if they truly want and for the hookup part, if a man truly want s*x, like he really just want s*x, there are way to get it. So these are not good reason to start a relationship to me. Not being able to be alone sounds scary to me, because you are basically putting so much pressure on your partner. And what …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:25 PM
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Physiological, security, social, and esteem needs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:02 PM
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Without attraction there is no relationship. A guy who can elevate a girl, make her laugh ... will be and STAY just a Friend If she doesn't find him attractive. So no, attraction is a Must.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:01 PM
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I agree about dating. But i'm not talking about dating, i'm talking about relationship. Date a lot of people but only commit to the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:59 PM
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I dont see the point of dating women who "have not a strong attraction to me at first". Why do that ? Dating is only worth it when the women strongly desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:58 PM
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Again cohabiting be can be cool. It has pros and cons. Nevertheless, i don't see this as a need. It's still a bonus. So you are not refuting my main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:56 PM
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You are the moron. If you want a second income , get a roommate. Thats what is it for. Getting into a relationship, investing yourself within a deep profound relationship because " i need to save some money bro" is absurd , i would feel stupid to suggest such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:54 PM
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You are bringing a good point. Men should experience dating, getting with women to realize it's not all flowers and sunshine. But let's start from the bottom. Humans have need that they want to fulfill. This is what drive their thoughts and actions. Nowadays, you can fulfill every single needs without being in a relationship. It's a just a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:43 PM
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You need to be happy in the long-term. Strive for the best you want or stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:38 PM
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This has to be a joke. When you are relationship you have to spend time, energy and ressources to maintain the relationship. You have to make compromise. Not everything is about a money. Saying that being single is more expensive is actually CRAZY to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:19 PM
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This shit ain't rocket science but every guy is simping so apparently it is rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:53 AM
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Bingo. The more they speak the more you realize that younger is better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:36 AM
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Bro even if you are desperate , being desperate doesn't attract women. So you have no choice lol. What do you lack? Sex ? you can get it by another means if you really need it. Affection ? You can go to your mom, sisters. Anyway you need to correct this attitude before getting with a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:32 AM
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Nowaday, average guy struggle. So as a below average man you are playing the game on hardcore. Start working on yourself first.
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:05 PM
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you are so dumb it's not even funny. whats is harder , getting one client or getting new clients every month? Of course getting a girlfriend is easier than getting multiple girls every month. Most men get girlfriends, a few guys get laid when they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:43 AM
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but it does make sense. maybe they did a better job a negociation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:08 PM
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Context is everything. You are working at a company, all your need are met :), happy with the salary. Now you learn that all your coworkers doing less work with less experience than you, are actually getting paid more. How would feel ? I can already feel your anger within such situation. This is what men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:28 PM
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Whats your type ?
/r/seduction01/01/25 01:03 AM
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you are a virgin, what do you know about sex ? shut your mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:26 PM
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You are suppose to be blue pill. What you said is very red pill. A blue pill man would say " being ripped is a bonus the most important is your personnality. Be a gentleman"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:50 PM
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Vey very true. Porn is not inherently bad. Only excess of it but excess of anything is bad. and honestly, amateur porn is more realist than romantic movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:46 PM
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I agree bro. the way a woman treat you is the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:26 AM
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The best opener is having better picture or being better looking
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:58 AM
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A guy I met last week is a serial monogamist, If you are an average guy, being a serial monogamist while working on yourself to become above average is actually the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:51 PM
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you can fuck girl , see them again, touch each other and cuddle Its called a fuckbuddy, fwb , a lot of girl are into that.
/r/seduction27/11/24 08:32 PM
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why do you want a relationship ?
/r/seduction27/11/24 12:52 PM
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use multiple dating app, try out different pictures, use instagram too
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:32 AM
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To get laid consistently you need to be talking to at least 10 women per week MINIMUM.
/r/seduction23/11/24 04:15 AM
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Women get married for several reasons : social pressure, security , traditional norms. A woman getting married is not a testament of a strong primal attraction honestly. But Do not let reddit distort the reality outside of the screen. I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:39 PM
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This is very true. Men don't even need to know a woman's name to produce desire. Women need more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:37 PM
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For men you are right* Simply existing on this planet has a girl actually guarantee dates and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:24 PM
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A woman is appealing to men by existing. Men are not. So are you are agreeing with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:23 PM
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Someone said that women should not be called "heterosexual" but something else because women are not attracted to most men, point blank lol. It sounds crazy but honestly he has a point. Is being attracted to 2% of men = being attracted to men ? Is liking 2% of pizza = liking pizza ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:21 PM
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Because I get approached so much I don't feel the need to. /THREAD men need to stop these questions. It's just about supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:09 PM
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he is definitely gay
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:41 AM
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you are gay. Try men
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:41 AM
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High IQ answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:52 PM
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n
/r/seduction17/11/24 06:22 AM
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That tinder is lying because a bad ratio is bad marketing. Even high end nightclubs struggle to get a 50% ratio without filtering out most men you think a free open dating app can ? The only place you could have a 50% such ratio in Europe is in Ukraine right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:33 AM
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because a larger number of women try it out a few times Got you. ;) "trying casual sex" is "having casual sex". Women will try casual sex for 2 years and say it's not for them everyday. They still had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:38 PM
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If most women didn't have casual sex then casual sex would be a rarity. The word casual sex would not even been use this much. "Ons", "FWB", "hookup" these words would not exist if " most women don't have casual sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:02 PM
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Think for yourself. You are an average man. You tell 10 woman you want to invite them on a date. You tell 10 woman, you just want to sleep with them. What option will give you less direct rejection ? Think. IT's a dumb question. Woman will say they have higher standart for relationship? Do they really ? IS getting the relationship really harder than basically getting her on your bed with just your s* appeal ? Think and look at woman action not words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:05 PM
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ahah, his question is the dumbest question i have seen this year
/r/seduction15/11/24 11:28 PM
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No its not. When you sleep with a girl you should marry her on spot !!!!
/r/seduction15/11/24 11:27 PM
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Dating is only pleasurable when you are above average. If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with DATING point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:33 AM
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Men need to be smarter and find environnement where they will thrive. Fighting to get an average woman who doesn't like you XD, these guys are crazy. Dating is only pleasurable when you are a top 10% man so become one or change your environnement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:13 PM
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BS. If most women did not have casual sex, the word " casual sex" would not even been democratized. "hookup" "ons" these words would not even been so prevalent in our daily language if only a few women indulge in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:20 PM
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A LTR can't grant more. Most high value man keep entertaining women while in an LTR. Hard truth: A king never have only one woman in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:44 PM
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I agree. The best way to get a docile man is to make him wait for sex like a dog wait for food. I'm not docile so waiting make me run away but most men are docile and weak minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:35 PM
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because it's harder for men to date than woman /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:28 PM
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Do every leads convert into sale ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:54 PM
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No, tinder give you leads keep using it but don't over invest.
/r/seduction10/11/24 12:19 PM
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She just was not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:15 PM
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women like sex you know ? sex can be mutually beneficial. giving money is, by nature, only beneficial to one person
/r/seduction30/10/24 09:29 PM
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if you are a man there is no point in bringing the government in your relationship, just stay in a relationship government-free. The only type of mariage that makes sense is the religious one if you are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:56 PM
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a great dating advice is when women REJECT it not endorse it.
/r/seduction27/10/24 09:01 AM
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This guy just had his first hookup and now he is saying " so over sex for fun". Holy sh*t, the arrogance is crazy there.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:07 PM
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Just get a 9 to 5. Forget about starting a businesS. Don't hustle, don't grind. Just find a 9 to 5 , its better for you. Your advice is the same. I actually agree with you. Most men are not cut out for this lifestyle. Most men should follow this. But for the minority who want to aim higher else this advice is almost an insult.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:04 PM
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Dating apps lie about their ratio. It"s bad marketing to show a crazy unbalanced ratio. I believe every dating app have at least 2 more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:05 PM
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Chicken and egg dilemma. Men produce millions of sperm per day. Men are less selective because of biology. Women have a higher cost of reproduction, therefore they are more selective. Because men are less selective -> women can be picky because women are picky -> men need to cast a wider net to get results. Vicious circle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:03 PM
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i have an interesting theory about compatibility, i need to talk more about this. But basically, i believe that compatibility is not really rare if you give people enough time to spend together. Compatibility is not what build relationships, Time spend together bonding over activities is what build relationship. Proof? In big cities, you have more people but more people single. In small cities most people are in relationship and less people are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:20 AM
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Because when you don't put limit : -people quickly become disposable -users fall into the paradox of choice, everyone suffers from FOMO If i don't like this little thing about him, there is another. The reason dating in real life is better is because you are not swiping at a never ending streams of potential partners, you are talking one to one to an human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:29 AM
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You are basically agreeing with my point lol Dating is a competition an a fierce one too. Only a few men can win
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:14 AM
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They are not good dating app for everyone. Dating is a competition, a zero sum game. For some men to win really big, you need other men to loose. If one men successfully attract beautiful women, it takes women of the market. The best dating app for average people would be one that limit the options of attractive people and allow you to emphasize your main quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:21 AM
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Good. Men need to stop approaching. Women already get way too much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:21 AM
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She is not a 10/10 stop putting her on a pedestal for god sake. People don't even know how to rate. Beauty follow a gaussian function. No one is perfect, no one is a 10. Most women are between 4 and 6 /10. At 8 we are reaching model looking girl.
/r/seduction16/10/24 10:05 AM
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I like this attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:32 AM
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Someone finally said it. Unless you live/ work at the beach, abs are overrated. The only time girl see your abs is when you are about to f*. Whats really important is having a low body fat for your face, jawline ect.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/24 01:20 PM
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Guys should just improve themselves and just approach where there are CLEAR signs of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:46 AM
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You hear something you don't like and now you want me gone. I won't go. And If you ban me, i will just use one of my 10 others account.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 01:07 PM
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i honestly don't care about having a relationship that work in the long run. I just want sex, fun and low drama situationships
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:36 PM
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lol why are you talking about a very tiny small subset of men ? In 2024 sex come before relationship, so if you get sex you are getting somewhere If you can't get sex you get nothing.
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:32 PM
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Haha , you owned him. Love it
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:58 AM
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Yes because for men finding fuckbuddies and FWB is hard. If most men could get sex outside of relationship you would see LESS relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:01 AM
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If a man is unattractive he should lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:59 AM
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AF is the best deal. The only way i could be BB is ... if im very old and still want to date 20-30 years old girl . Thats the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:29 PM
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Thats it lol. People trying to make complicated theory. Men just want to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:28 PM
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Exactly. this guys is naive. Women can do all kind of stuff with guy they are not attracted to. But they sur won't sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:38 PM
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no they aren't. The only true way to know that she desire you is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:37 PM
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Women have way more option. Women get approach more. So the women HAVE to love the man more for the relationship to last. Basic common sense
/r/seduction01/09/24 11:00 AM
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high iq comment. Women don't need to face the cold hard realities. Unless she is an over weight ugly black girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:43 PM
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Why CMV ? You are right bro ? Thats like saying : " CMV 1+1=2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:05 PM
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This is what i have been saying. If you want an healthy dating app : Just limit the number of options -> 5 matches max. Break this paradox of choice, -> less option = each option is more valued and treated as a human Dating app should mimic real life, in real life you don't talk to 30 people at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:09 PM
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no they don't. Most husband believe they are a their wife first option
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:08 PM
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He was being made to perform like a circus animal to prove hes trustworthy enough while the attractive guys got a pass Honestly ignorance might be a bliss. Because if every men knew the truth about how women select men, most men would choose to deal with only high interest women. But because not many men have the genetic to get high interest women -> it would be a disastear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:40 PM
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Even if 90% of men demands casual sex, you have 10% of men who wants LTR. 10% of hundred of matches, you will be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:10 PM
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You cannot send picture on the tinder app.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:42 PM
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You get the point. Do get stuck on a number. Take a step back and see the idea behind my word
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:43 AM
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Because women can get what they want quickly. When you can get what you want easily you can leave the app quickly. Let's say, people are looking for a LTR. An average woman get 100 matches a week. An average man get 10 matches a week. Who will find faster what they want statistically ? Who will stay longer on the app ? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:34 AM
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As a man you would have a greater desire for sex, while having ten times less option. Have fun ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:30 AM
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As an heterosexual man, i'm not attracted to men too and i like women. If she is not attracted to men, maybe she is asexual or like women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:30 AM
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Trans women don't complain either. Thats not the point. Women are supposed to be empathic yet they can't see how they are privileged in the dating realm. As a tall man i know i have an advantage over short men. I can empathize with them. As a quite handsome man, i know i i have an advantage over non handsome men. I can empathize with them. Why can't women do the same as in seeing the privilege they have over men. Talk about the empathic gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:23 AM
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so you are saying that 95% of men are bad ? If thats the case, you should try to date women honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:16 AM
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On tinder women reject 95% of the men. If as a woman you are in position to reject 95% of the men and still get options thats a very advantageous position to have
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:14 AM
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Yes but this is a fictional scenario so it hold no value. In the real life, men sleep with woman less hotter than them and can get gf benefits. For most men, if they don't wont children, FWB is the best deal. You get all the benefits of a relationship minus the responsabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:12 AM
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So being an average guy invisible to women is better? We are not saying that the dating life of women is perfect Butt the dating life of a 6/10 women >>> the one of a 6/10 men Actually i think that if you put a woman in the shoes of a man for one year, she would probably fall in depression and kill herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:08 AM
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I will bite. Here is what babyface_bogart is trying to say : Men are attracted to a wider variety of women. The tall blonde, the small curvy latina, the short asian with small breast. Some men even like bbw women ect; ON the contrary, women are only attracted to a small subset of men which is : tall - broad shoulder - squared jawed. You won't see women fantasize about chubby men. Some men fantasize about chubby women. You won't see women fantasize about short men. Some men fantasize about short …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:50 PM
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babyface_bogart is right. But you CaregiverFlashy4240 seems to have a double digit IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:33 PM
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Exactly. A hot woman can exploited men's lust with her beauty. Beauty is a weapon. And the funny thing is, if you put western women in an highly competitive market for western women ie Thailands for example, they will start complaining. Like men complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:33 PM
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This can be a strategy too.
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:42 PM
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A man can find your face totally average and still be attracted to you because you have a beautiful body. I never said they were not attracted.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 08:34 PM
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You can spam your sniper. Snipe a lot. Stop escaping the number game.
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:09 PM
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It is mandatory unless you want to rely on LUCK. I won't plan my life on LUCK so i suggest using volume to get what you want
/r/seduction20/08/24 07:58 PM
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I will be blunt. First Getting approach by a lot of men is not an indicator of beauty. A woman just need one attractive part to attract men A woman could have an average face, if she has a big booty or big boobs she will attract a lot of men. Second The men who approach you have a higher probability of wanting just sex because the men who want a serious relationship may be more reserved, more subtile. Even then , you are the one who choose those men.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 07:55 PM
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laid literally every day Ok dont over exagerate. Thats not realistic. It gets exhausting spinning it does
/r/seduction20/08/24 07:55 AM
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Instagram, dating app, park, library, starbuck, beaches,bar
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:15 AM
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In this specific extreme situation, yes they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:24 PM
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if your frame and game suck. To improve your game, you need more experience. So again, just talk to more girls. We always get back to this. It's the core of the game.
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:04 PM
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Yes but men will get attached romantically and get jealous. What will the women do ? Choose one or two. What about the others ? No thats a scary situation. Imagine yourself in an island with 10 men. Thats scary af. The more women the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:03 PM
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Men are somewhat scare so they are highly valued. Men just have to take 2-3 wife. Its meant to be this way anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:00 PM
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1 men to 3 women. Thats the best one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:13 PM
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🤣 1 woman per 10 men. This is the worst ratio ever. Imagine for a second, 1 woman and 10 men in a desert island. Its actually scary. The woman will get abused, men will start doing crazy shit. Now 10 woman and 1 man, WE CAN build something. Create a society with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:02 PM
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I just need to talk to more girls to get attention from the girl that I want? Why this would work? You are fixating on this girl because you believe she is special. You believe she is special because you have not talk to enough girls. Talk to more girls
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:23 PM
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I'm having a hard time believing that looks aren't that important when wanting to hookup or something casual Who said it wasn't ? If someone say it was not he is a liar. LMAO
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:26 PM
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Stop thinking start doing.
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:11 AM
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You need to build up your confidence by achieving more in your life.
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:09 AM
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Bro are you dumb ? She is obviously telling dumb shit to artificially increase her value in the eyes of high value men. She can do the same with s*x workers,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:45 PM
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Your comment is really stupid Imagine saying something like : I'd love to live in a world where ppl aren't compelled to seek jobs opportunities, better life quality from others countries, just because they can't get their ideal jobs or life in their own country. That whole traveling is exploitative asf. Do you realize now how stupid your comment is ? I Won't explain more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:41 AM
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and what are you gonna do about it ? The genius is out of the bottle. You can still choose to date in more conservative countries/region. You don't have to date in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:48 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. Your actions show that you don't love him deeply. If you are unsatisfied , leave the relationship. But, be sure you won't regret....
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 05:42 PM
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I wanted to comment but after reading this one, I realize that nothing needs to be added. Perfect comment queen.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 05:40 PM
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Thats like the man saying: " I don't want to do bonding and romantic activities with you no more" Giving it and retracting it is actually worse than full celibacy
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 08:20 PM
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but don't feel the need to have it at all. If we put your religious beliefs aside, i don't see how you can sustain a relationship long term if you dont really care about sex
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 08:17 PM
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Yes, either they stay single either they work their ass off to get an average women who will settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:01 PM
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the majority of men who get no matches and no messages? These men already get no matches. Nothing will change for them. They just have to learn to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:42 PM
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because women are lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:22 PM
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OP you are right. You cannot convince low IQ emotional people tough. Every relationship is a power control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:03 PM
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the perfect dating app should just be : On one side Woman doing the swiping and messaging men On the other side Men being able to use the app only when they are liked and messaged by woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:58 PM
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the perfect dating app should just be : On one side Woman doing the swiping and messaging men On the other side Men being able to use the app only when they are liked and messaged by woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:57 PM
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the perfect dating app should just be : On one side Woman swiping the profile and messaging men On the other sideMen being able to talk when they are liked and messaged by woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:56 PM
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Or maybe they dont like sex. You think everybody like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:57 AM
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A bottle of water cost $0.80 at tesco and $2 at the airport. What is the value of the bottle of water? It's the same with people, the value change with the environnment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:09 PM
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She is right tought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:06 PM
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Extremely correct. To be desirable the man must remain composed and the woman has to be the one madly in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:57 PM
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If men started being genuinely happy single (which is impossible for most in my opinion) WTF what do you mean impossible? If you can't be happy, single you deserve sadness. Relying on other people to be happy is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:53 PM
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I'd rather be dead. this is what you said. You rather be death than being alone. So yes, you NEED women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:33 PM
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You will meet a girl who make you wait while having a fcvk buddy . But ... It's okay, because she made YOU wait :)) You are the bluest blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:24 PM
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Do you know which girls will GADLY make you wait for sex ? Girls who are "meh" about you ! Your strategy is a GREAT way to attract girl who are "so so" about you. Keep on !
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:14 PM
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so you can't fuck on the first date and get in a serious relationship ? Therefore , if a woman is really attracted to you from the get-go, she should make you wait for sex to make sure you take her seriously ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:03 AM
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"married to hs sweetheart" You comment Make sense, you are as experienced in the dating market as a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:39 AM
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For most men who are pussies it seems it does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:28 AM
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This is the KEY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:28 AM
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Its not hard or i would rather say its the easier time of history to do so. There are a billion thing to do, to achieve, to explore nowaday. Men need to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:26 AM
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And thats why men will never get the upper hand in the dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:23 AM
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So basically you NEED women to live. Don't complain of getting use then if you NEED them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:22 AM
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Have you been there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:18 PM
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In dating, being a shy guy is worse than being an arrogant asshole. Being boring is worse than being mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:17 PM
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Strongly disagree. The more morality you have, the harder it is. in every field.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:59 PM
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Go to asia. Thank me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:56 PM
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Yes you are right. But the rules are way harsher with men. A woman could have all the negative traits of the world and still find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:56 PM
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Exactly. I don't know if people are lying to themselves like crazy or simply dumb to deny this fact. Men buying goods and gift to women is actually a big part of the economy. The numbers are there. How can you deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:24 PM
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Men create romance women consume it. Most of the romantic gesture are made from men. Women just receive. Giving is hard, receiving is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:46 PM
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Exacly, the person with the most options need to be the adorer in Every single relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:12 PM
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You should enjoy your single life. To the point where you only bring a girl to your life when she adds more to your life. If you need a girl, it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:03 PM
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Paying for the date dont mean you will fck. If you want to fuck, invite her to your place. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:57 PM
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Oversea you can
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:56 PM
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Yeah but the experience are not the same. A black man from a small poor village in africa doesnt experience life like a blond girl from a rich background in the us. When your primal needs are met, it's easy to be ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah but the experience are not the same. A black man from a small poor village in africa doesnt experience life like a blond girl from a rich background in the us. When your primal needs are met, it's easy to be ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:33 PM
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Easy to speak when you can't empathize with the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:26 PM
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When you have a low IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:27 PM
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bad example. A better example is Someone struggle to find a job, they need money now. They choose to lie in their CV to find a job -> they success in getting a job. And here you are telling them " you lie it's bad you should be honest" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:35 PM
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If you don't have any solutions, it's pointless to criticize. Don't criticize, if you don't offer alternative options. I mean you can try but if you can't give alternative then they won't care about your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:06 PM
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Most men are in scarcity. If men were in the same abundance as women, we would have way less marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:02 PM
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Do you realize I already know this and don't really care? Exactly. You don"t care. And men don't care about lying to women. Fair enough right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:49 PM
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There are way more men than women who want casual sex. Therefore, when a woman want casual sex, she will be able to choose from very sexually appealing men. Therefore the typical average man, don't stand a chance. Do you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:46 PM
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I'm not interested in a relationship and personally i don't lie as i don't want to waste time. BUT, if i wanted to improve my success rate i know exactly what i should tell, how i should talk and behave. It's so easy to know what women want to hear...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:44 PM
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In a competitive market, people lie. Look at the job market. The dating market for men is even more competitive. Being honest while being average and trying to get casual sex is actually stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:42 PM
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Do you realize that some men can't get sex without commitment ? To get casual sex, you need to be sexually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:37 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree. Men are 10 hornier than women. Women have thousands of options at their fingertips now due to online dating. Women have clearly became the choosers. It’s just logical at that point to let women do the approaching. It’s a waste of time to put in effort only to be discarded bc she has 50 other options to choose from. It’s just a waste of time. Men should : learn to enjoy their life single, improve on every aspect, MARKET themselves and let women show their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:42 AM
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You either must be a virgin or living in lalaland. Listen, no man alive fuck 30 women without working for it. Unless he is a celebrity. What are you smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:15 PM
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This is the right mindset. At the end of the it's just supply and demand / value exchange. Imagine someone try to sell you something at $500 when it was priced at $100 before. And when you know for a fact many people got to enjoy the product/service for $100. How would you feel ? Visualize the feeling, the pain you will feel. This is the feeling i get when a slutty women try to talk about commitment with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:11 PM
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Exactly it's a zero sum game. And the needs of women and men are Antagonist. So it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:50 PM
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High IQ thread. Tinder is just a mirror of human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:05 PM
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The barrier of entry is the reason why its so good. Otherwise it would have been ruined by western simps. I agree with you. Men should not bother dating in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:32 PM
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Yeah bro. And when you have deal with women who were truly attracted to you. The simple taught of being a BB make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:26 PM
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tell me more about this please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:06 PM
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if you have to ask you are lol. And if you don't know the difference, you have never been AF. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:51 PM
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She is trans , just saw a profile. I knew something was up. Normal Straight women don't think or speak like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:27 AM
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The only way you could have this, is with a war eliminating men. Leaving a country with a big deficit of men. Thats it. You have to create environnement with way more girls than guys to get this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:22 AM
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Whats the point ? you think they give a f ? A better social experiment would be to create a dating app that gatekeep the entry for men to keep a 50/50 ratio instead of having a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:20 PM
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