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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | When do the dreams stop? | Better_Echo2275 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 04:46 PM |
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| 2 | Today is the day of my divorce and I'm just so sad.This is incredible advice. Society acts like the divorce part is the hardest and that after the paperwork is signed all is good. For me, I was in a daze and kinda numb during those things. Sure they sucked and I was a mess but real pain was after we both signed and eventually it was finalized and the reality of it sunk in. It’s been a few years and I still have days where a dream happens or a thought and I still get the pain in my chest and stomach. It’s definitely a process and finding ways to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Today is the day of my divorce and I'm just so sad.Stay strong brother. It’s terrible. It hurts and guts you. I was in a similar boat. 12 together married for 1. We had just moved across the country to start this new chapter and she blindsided me. That was about 3 years ago. The intense pain and hopelessness is temporary. It does get easier. I had to mourn it like a death basically. I went through all the stages. Some days are still tough but it will get better my guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 08:02 PM |
| 2 | When do the dreams stop?Sorry to hear that man. It’s tough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | When do the dreams stop?It was about that 8mo mark, yeah. The crazy thing is I knew it would happen. I’ve dealt with loss and grief enough that I knew it would happen and actually journaled about not looking forward to right after she ended things. I genuinely appreciate the response and the optimism. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 06:32 PM |
| 3 | When do the dreams stop?I appreciate it. And I am a huge proponent of therapy, sadly I just can’t afford it without insurance (US healthcare is fun) I 100% recognize that I do need it though. For many things but this included. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 05:04 PM |
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