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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be taken Because when women misbehave, it's women's fault; when men misbehave, it's women's fault for letting them. It's a philosophy that equally pedestalizes and infantilizes men, and is just an excuse to be angry at women regardless of the circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 03:44 PM
3	how many women in this sub? I'm a woman. I don't usually post here, but I lurk quite frequently.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 12:36 PM
2	How do Ex-Red Pillers explain rates of marriage declining and divorces increasing? Ever since women entered the work force and are starting to be more educated then men, marriage has been dying and we are seeing more divorces than ever. Doesn’t this prove that hypergamy is a real thing with women? Correlation is not causation. Those two could be absolutely unrelated. It's the same logic as saying that more police agencies use SWAT teams than ever before and divorces are up, so clearly marriages suffer from more aggressive police tactics. You're taking one statistic and making …	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/21 09:00 PM
1	Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations? No. No one has an obligation to risk their safety for another person except professionals hired to do so (police, fire fighters, etc) and maybe the parents of a child in danger. I do, however, think everyone has a responsibility to "intervene" in ways that are safe, such as calling emergency services if the situation allows for it. Just shrugging and walking away or even staying around to watch is messed up and wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 01:10 PM
2	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? Women get this stigma too- single at 30+, never married, no kids, isn’t your clock running out? At 30? Shit, I started getting that when I hit 25 or so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 03:35 PM
1	The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill community I am not familiar with this work, what is the source? The first one is from a blog called No Ma'am, it's in the sidebar as core reading under the name "Women, the most responsible teenager in the house". The others are from The Rational Male, which is also TRP standard. Although I know that this is about the extent of the modern left thinking, name calling. This is puzzling to me. In what way was name calling the extent of my comment? How about actually addressing one or more of these points? Be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 04:39 AM
3	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? This reads like you didn't read my response. I was pretty clear on why I think this behavior exists. And yet, you will fuck men you don't value - you give away what you value most, to men you value the least. I don't necessarily think there's as much overlap between the two behaviors (making a prospective LTR wait and sleeping with fucbois right away) as you think. There are a lot of women who don't engage in casual sex and so are consistent in making a "good" man wait, and a lot of women who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:05 PM
1	Why does the red pill receive so much hate on PPD? TRP teaches that you should disengage and not pressure her, if she isn't enthusiastic, leave. Or lie and manipulate. Don't forget the gaslighting and emotional abuse. TRP gleefully recommends tearing women down psychologically (negging, dreading, plausible deniability and double-speak on the issue of exclusivity, cheating, weaponizing affection and attention, controlling behavior, etc).	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 02:30 PM
5	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? But if a woman values a man, she works hard to NOT give him what he wants. More like if a woman values a man, she wants to be valued by him as well. I can't count the number of times I was told while growing up that if you give sex away too easily then a man won't value you and will lose interest. That idea is still going strong, at least in my experience. Hell, even on TRP subreddits you see men subscribe to the idea that a woman who has sex right away is a slut and you don't LTR sluts. The Mad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 02:10 PM
1	The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill community The Red Pill absolutely says that men are better than women. From the sidebar: It becomes like comparing three-month fermented wine served in a box of Chateau Cardboard to single malt scotch aged for decades in an oak cask. As such, women do mature faster than males but stop maturing at around the mentality of an eighteen year old (or also, I suppose, to the maturity of a 28 year old man), leaving the woman as literally, the most responsible teenager in the house. (...) As women are generally in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 01:04 AM
1	TRP credibility (Women of TRP) women of TRP, do you find the posts you read about on female behavior to be true on the way you or other females act to be true? No. Most, if not all, of the things TRP ascribes to women are pretty common in men, too. TRP is right to take down the image of women as better or more empathetic, ethical, honest, moral, etc. than men. The problem is it when it turns around and says that men are actually more logical, rational, honest, honorable, etc. Everyone sucks in largely the same ways. Male, fem…	/r/askTRP	17/03/21 01:26 PM
2	Is my pair bonding affected by promiscuity if I never enjoyed the sex? The above basically states how a person's first exposure to oxytocin is especially important. And knowing that oxytocin has an even greater impact on women than on men based on (3), (6), & (7) means first experiences/exposures of it have a greater impact on women as well. When we look at this next study (9), we find that oxytocin causes stronger emotional imprints, regardless of whether those emotions are positive or negative. Tying everything together so far, it means that the emotional impact …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/21 04:28 PM
1	Q4ALL: Why do some men wish for lots of casual sex but shame women who have lots of it? Not to you, maybe, but you don't get to define sexy for everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 08:20 PM
1	Q4ALL: Why do some men wish for lots of casual sex but shame women who have lots of it? being servile It's sad that that's how you interpret respect and a desire to help/do kind things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 03:23 PM
1	Q4ALL: Why do some men wish for lots of casual sex but shame women who have lots of it? Why do women have to rationalize good traits as being "sexy"? Because they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 03:21 PM
3	What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience? They increase the risk of ectopic pregnancies (a pregnancy stuck in the fallopian tube instead of the uterus), which can be dangerous and I believe lead to sepsis (less sure about that one). To add to this, ectopic pregnancy can be fatal. The fallopian tube can rupture and will, if not treated, result in death. Also, 5% of ectopic pregnancies can happen in another place, such as the cervix or outside the uterus in the abdomen. As with a tubal pregnancy, if it does not spontaneously abort early o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 06:01 PM
8	What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man I don't know, but there is always two sides to every story. He posted a while ago on another subreddit about having an affair with a high school girl and asking for advice on how to keep if from ruining his life. When the overwhelming response was to end it, he insisted he wanted to "have his cake and eat it, too" and that he wanted to keep up the facade while still having an affair. He outright admitted to always avoiding conflict and being a coward. He paints himself here as a real good guy an…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/18 02:07 PM
1	What are representations of gender roles that you think should be shown in media? Children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 09:51 PM
1	Virgins by 24 30 years old and I'm in the same boat. Sometimes I can get pretty down on myself about it, but I think it's been beneficial in some ways, too. It's worse, though, when I'm around people who insist on making comments. I'm tired of being told my "eggs are drying up," that I'm "past my prime" and that no one will want me now. Even though I'm not especially bothered by being alone, those comments get under my skin way more than they should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/18 02:39 AM
2	If almost 4% of US fathers are victims of paternity fraud, isn't this a large scale abuse against men? And this right here is why I don't take modern feminism seriously. Jesus, this garbage makes me mad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/17 06:40 PM
1	Q4W: How often do you smile at or acknowledge random guys you find attractive at the mall or on the street? Small town New England is better than the south; all the irresistible charm of inbreeding and animal waste without any of the poisonous snakes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/17 08:04 PM
1	Q4W: How often do you smile at or acknowledge random guys you find attractive at the mall or on the street? Very. My neighbors were cows and my high school BFF married her second cousin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/17 07:48 PM
2	CMV: the "women are children" trp notion isn't so ridiculous given how often females cry and the fact that they cry at all well into adulthood Babies laugh a lot, too; doesn't mean people who laugh are childish. All adults have to share some traits with babies and children, seeing as we're the same species. It's basic human communication/expression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/17 06:59 PM
4	Q4W: How often do you smile at or acknowledge random guys you find attractive at the mall or on the street? Huh, I didn't realize that was a southern habit. I'm from the north and I do the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/17 06:50 PM
5	Q4ALL: What do you guys think about this psychological technique? He looks like an angtsy bumblebee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/17 03:16 PM
2	CMV: Many RP truths are merely solipsism. Putting your snark aside, I think you know that some terpers are indeed familiar with women, and some of their observations do have merit. I agree with you that AWALT is bullshit, but if you believe NAWALT, then you also have to accept that some women are like that. It's just as ludicrous to believe that women are incapable of terrible, selfish behavior, or to believe that people aren't treated differently based on their sex, and that this is probably not going away any time soon. This. My broth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/17 04:42 PM
2	Q4 Men I'll Never Meet: What do you have to offer me? Marry me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/17 01:50 AM
5	Q4W: What would it take to inspire submissiveness in you? Personally I'd prefer it. The only misgiving I have with that is the possibility that my husband would divorce me and I would have no career prospects or way to support myself. I know TRP has lots of stories of men getting screwed over in divorce, but I've seen a lot of housewives get burned financially when their husbands left them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/17 03:46 PM
2	Q4 BP What are your thoughts on No More Mister Nice Guy, Married Man Sex Life Primer, and Mutual Attraction Plan? I read MAP and used to frequent Athol Kay's website. As a woman who finds most of TRP absolutely abhorrent, I actually REALLY like Mr. Kay's view on relationships. The big difference in my mind was that I felt he had a lot more respect for women than the average RP redditor. He mostly seemed to argue for the return of traditional relationships with the man as the head of the household, which is a very different animal from the usual RP fare of "women are children" and "women are incapable of rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/17 06:36 PM