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Loyalty, respect and appreciation does not make someone Mr. Perfect; but it can make someone perfect for you when you prioritise and seek those traits. There is no fairytale, you are right. But there are men who are attractive, loyal, and respectfully appreciative of where they are at and who they are with. You just need to find someone who is compatible with you in those categories and bring your part and the same things to the table. This is the entire concept of vetting and letting someone sh…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 05:25 AM
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You are very welcome! It takes time, so don’t beat yourself up if you have trouble; just use each time as a plot point on how your worries could have affected your reality, but you consciously put forth the work to change the thought process. With that, put forth that energy to know that you deserve the good treatment, and tell those negative self talks that they aren’t allowed to hold weight in your happiness bubble. I struggle with the very same negative self talks, but it has gotten so much b…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 12:34 AM
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I understand the feeling! Just remember that you need to be kind to yourself and embrace graciousness. I have made it a point to say “thank you” and share praise and love in response any time I have the urge to say “sorry”, if that makes sense. Remember that he is doing these things for you because he loves you, cherishes you, and wants you to be happy and taken care of. The number one thing that needs to always be reciprocated is appreciation, not apologies. Apologies indicates that you; 1) fee…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/25 07:09 AM
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I fail to see how OP’s statement indicated any sort of conflict avoidance within her marriage. I also fail to see how there is a “recurring pattern” of OP’s husband avoiding conflict, unless I misunderstood your statement. Quite frankly, your advice has been consistently off topic and poorly representative of any of OP’s concerns.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/25 03:44 AM
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A few days, little communication and no dates yet, yet your family wants you to make it work? Invest energy into those who deserve it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 02:21 AM
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This is such a beautiful comment; and I agree completely! She needs the very same genuine nature and raw pragmatic perspectives that she herself ascribes to.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 01:35 AM
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I want to add on, I think what you mean to describe is diplomacy; and there is a very distinct difference between diplomacy and fake niceness. Diplomacy is respected, while fakeness is unattractive and not respected. Diplomacy is a skill that is honed; just because you dislike someone doesn’t mean it is respected to disrespect them, nor does it constitute showing interest and compliments just to internally think “man, this person sucks, I wish I didn’t have to speak to them”. Just make it busine…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 01:31 AM
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I hear you, and that is valid! That’s where I believe it comes down entirely to what the person is looking for and vetting off of that. I’d like to think that there are so many more dimensions and aspects to assess when coming to generalized conclusions for social constructs and reasonings for attraction. Most single people who are aiming to build a life with someone, with deeper meaning, will be able to separate feelings of surface level acknowledgment of attractiveness vs. a deeper draw. The i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 01:43 AM
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I love this take. I would also like to offer a differing perspective; I feel as if the whole “men prefer to be attracted to younger women” thing also has to do with the point of choosing a woman to build a life with; not keeping up with the jonses of “always being attracted to, and chasing, someone more youthful”. A preference isn’t in stone, and once he chooses and builds a life with you, aging is normal. It’s more meaningful and beautiful, even; and while men are visual, there is something so …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 11:38 PM
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I'm a lurker here who doesn't necessarily align with rpw fully, so you can take what I say with a grain of salt. It sounds like you have really good self-awareness, so kudos for that! It's good that you recognized that he needed your support and acknowledgment, not tit for tat. Regardless, if you genuinely feel as if you do deserve more, I would say speak to him about it in its own isolated conversation. IME, things don't really have the impact they should when responding to constructive critici…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 07:28 PM
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He compared her to a homeless woman. How exactly was he trying to fix? His communication sounds awful, and she sounds incredibly isolated and depressed, like you said. Mental health isn't easy but the last thing she needs is her husband comparing her prim self to beauty and her now self to homeless.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 05:39 AM
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I understand what you mean, but the fact that he would make a point like that in expense of your feelings is disheartening. Im sorry for all that is going on, but he is not treating* you right.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 11:05 PM
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He said he has a free pass to go fuck someone else because you slept with someone after you guys werent together anymore??? He sounds resentful, insecure, and definitely not in the mindset to dedicate and date. Think of it this way; if he loves you, why would he want to fuck someone else like that whenever you both are coming back together? And why would he throw that in your face? He is vengeful and resentful. He would be doing it because he feels that he is entitled since you gave your body to…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 05:59 PM
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That seems like the perfect reason to move in, like a test run. Anyone can put on a good face to impress 2x a week when you come over, you know? I'm not saying full on move in and get rid of your apartment or house.... but waking up at eachothers houses 3X a week for a year is a much better test of compatability than seeing someone 2x a week. Marriage is a serious commitment, and if you aren't around eachothers enough on good days/bad days/normal days, then it is challenging to test compatabilit…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 01:45 AM
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If you're into your schooling and you guys aren't financially *tied together, id advise not to. Especially if you both have not lived together.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 01:31 AM
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(Disclaimer: not exactly redpilled, just enjoy browsing the sub at times) Thats because it was out of acts of love from both sides, not expectation or obligation. Their relationship sounds beautiful c: everyone pulling their weight in their own way. I personally think your dynamic will work. Redpill has some good trinkets of advice, especially between how to handle conflict and stress, but a lot of it seems to be tailored to women who are choosing to submit to a deserving man. When you find a de…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 05:52 AM
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Out of all of that, you decided to respond with a question about their mom cleaning the kitchen.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 05:44 AM
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I have facebook that I have only used for messenger for the past few years. If i'm connecting with people I do not know very well but am open to talking to, I will often times offer to friend them on facebook. It's less personal, and it is something most people have. I rarely ever scroll through, and even when I do I just tend to lurk. Social media can be a great thing to bring people together. If you tend to get sucked into being mean or overly involved in it, maybe it is not best for you. If y…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 02:37 AM
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That kind of just sounds like you had shitty partners. Being honest/blunt and being overly critical/cruel has a line. Not being battered doesn't mean you're pampered.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 11:30 PM
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It depends on if the relationship is seeked out for the fact that they need citizenship or if it is someone you meet who you click with and checks your boxes. Aside from that, try to make your "good quality/tolerate/wont tolerate list for this aspect. Idea: 1) Figure out if you want to have kids. Also decide whether you would be comfortable AND supportive of your children being raised on your partners religion. If not, try to make "non religious" a preference based on the level of tolerance. 2) …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/21 04:53 AM
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He must have missed the part where you said "to help protect" if you decide to have sex. You know, the entire point of the post.
/r/MGTOW215/11/20 03:04 AM
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I personally think it should be equal first date unless someone offers off the bat. I pay mine, you pay yours. We don't know if we like each other yet, so why does it matter?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 12:30 AM
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My exact thoughts. I would fear for a 47yo woman to be getting divorced and have not had any job experience/income for the past 20 years and her get left high and dry, no experience or record of personal income. You've got to really trust your husband/wife for both parties to agree with that. SAH wife to not take advantage of you in (the case of) divorce, and for your husband to truly be dedicated and take care of the family and not abandon.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 03:56 PM
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Im a size 7-8 and weigh 140lbs, am 5'9. I often get compared to a stick. Unless you are very short size ten means nothing!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 01:16 AM
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Definately. Does it work the same way as losing weight in a way? I know with losing weight it encompasses loooots of cardio and calorie/carb intake. (E:or lack of)
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 06:58 PM
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You right. I saw another person say something about fasting, but im not knowledgable enough on that to advocate for it lol.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:57 PM
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She wasn't comparing her weight gain to that, she outright said she was lazy and gained it. She was referring to the amount of skil left over after weight loss. That it LOOKS comparable to loose baby weight skin, and not some TLC 20inches of loose skin flabbing over her entire body. It was a reference. Edit: Wait both of us are wrong! She even said "its not even like a post baby bod". Meaning her loose skin isn't comparable to extreme or slight. Its just a little bit of loose skin. She didnt eve…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:49 PM
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If all women behaved and looked feminine like they're supposed to then there would be no need for rivalry. See that's where I disagree. If everyone didn't judge levels of reaction based off of femenimity then there would be no existence of rivalry againsed a random woman out in public.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 10:45 PM
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At first I was thinking "eh i understand her frustration with him not having a job and her being distant" and the it escalated REALLY QUICKLY.
/r/MGTOW209/08/20 07:15 PM
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Of course! And its alright, everybody has different boundries. I was just imagining that hes probably trying to hint at and broach the subject, and maybe its a new thing hes become interested in and doesnt know how to approach it or maybe he has been into it and felt afraid to tell her until it had been a good while. Thanks for your feedback! I dont think you were kink shaming as much as you were affirming her perspective, the portrayal just went across a bit short.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 01:54 AM
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What do you mean its not a "normal" kink? A kink in itself consiststs of non conventional sexual acts. Its become mainstream, but at most it was simply uncommon to be sensationalized before. I really hope she sticks to "im uncomfortable with that" rather than telling her bf its not normal because that would make someone definately feel crappy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 05:44 PM
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I'm sure he could come up with something better than "women in kitchen doing women work" joke. Missed opportunity for a good burn there.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/20 08:39 AM
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I wouldn't identify as a RP, but we share a personal view. I feel the same way about cheating. I don't see it as a mistake as much as a very weighted choice in the root, and that in itself would bring me to never feel the security needed to continue or grow from that "mistake" and rebuild trust. Its harsh but once someone has broken that security of vunerability, which takes a looong time and series of patterns to completely break (or one time with cheating), I know I cannot commit trust and sur…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 05:52 PM
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God I pray this is an Onion thing.
/r/PussyPass16/06/19 06:19 AM
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Hell yeah man haha, good on you. I wonder if the guy had a bad medical condition tho, and he always wanted to ignore the salt lol.
/r/MGTOW220/05/19 01:26 AM
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https://www.itv.com/news/2019-02-20/shamima-begum-shocked-as-itv-news-informs-her-home-office-has-revoked-her-british-citizenship/ She truly doesn't understand. God, how can someone be so dense.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 05:59 PM
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Given hormones litterally are out of whack, and one may be more emotional or irritable. But that is NEVER an excuse to treat someone shittily. Communications, refrain and a decency ie needed with an initiative to do better if things get that way. As well as understanding from all parties involved and their feels. My hOrmOnES aRE oUt oF whAcK is just an excuse to be a cunt, regarding wording. It could be explained waaay better and y'know, actually communicated.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/19 07:41 AM
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No problem, i hope everything works out for you c: id love an update. Just be sure to portray empathy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 02:45 AM
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You can apologize as you feel as if you were insensitive, and you can stress that you understand her situation. Show her motivation after that to do better, without keeping it going too long. Dont harp on it, because she will most likely be on the defensive and it may come off self righteous to have apologized. If you believe what you said was what you meant, but not how you said it, tell her that. But if you truly regret what you said in its entirety, then apologize for all of it. One can be so…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 01:46 AM
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B-but the ofiicer was being racist to the innocent girl mecause shes mexican! And she made fun of her for not having hrr real dads last name! /s
/r/PussyPassDenied16/10/18 08:33 PM
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He was asking about what she could possibly do legally, if anything, so that he could be prepared for shit to hit the fan for whatever bullshit she could conjure up with athorities. He said he was going to leave within 10 minutes reguardless, because obviously his child's life is more important than the wife's neglectful beliefs.
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 12:09 PM
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How the fuck do they think the falsely accused men felt??? They automatically recieve a decade+ of solitude and grey walls. Resentment and vulnerability of their false accusation and sentance, trapped in the prison that is their minds and physical walls around them. Not to mention the life long stamp of "sex offender" on their identity. Honestly, even though the opinion of one individual is easily discarded, I believe false rape accusation should result in the same sentence as a legitimate rape …
/r/MGTOW30/06/18 11:32 PM
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Oof 😂 They'd lose their minds if they dabbled in the Braincel sub.
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 08:23 PM
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The emojis used really hit it on the head of how serious the situation at hand was 🙈 /s
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 03:36 PM
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