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| 1 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men(sigh) you're the one who called it a collective decision, not me--but hey, I get it, you need to backtrack, there's no shame in that. 😊 and here I am again, helping you out a second time! Two outcomes that are the same, in fact have nothing whatsoever to say about the sameness or difference of their causes--a basic easy example is a set of identical twins that both lost 20 lbs, one from diet and exercise and one from having his leg amputated. So it's not too interesting to read someone trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men..."women have collectively decided to" and "women feel pressure to fit into the group" are really two very, very different statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Do you or someone you know pay for Onlyfans?Yeah sorry, I phrased that awkwardly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you or someone you know pay for Onlyfans?Their relationship didn't end, at least not as of the last time I spoke to her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 03:44 AM |
| 6 | Do you or someone you know pay for Onlyfans?My ex-bestie's boyfriend did (possibly/maybe/probably still does?). I only know the answer to some of your questions: Why did he purchase an OnlyFans subscription: All I know is why she thought he did it, and I have no idea if any of those reasons were accurate or not, so I won't speculate since you're clearly looking for hard data here How much did he spend on it: $50-$100 per month, I do know that one for sure! Was it worth it: oof well, I would say he thought "Yes" for sure BEFORE she knew ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menYeah, 13 year old girls REALLY appreciate men's "kindness!" 🤢🤮 (spoiler alert: we did not) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menWas besties with the uggo for some years, can confirm this is a regular occurrence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menI'm pretty sure that there is no collective decision made by women about any subject whatsoever and never has been. You're kidding, right? 🤣 (and if you're not, how do I get the invite to the female hivemind, because I haven't yet and that's a real oversight) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men“Heterosexual” doesn’t mean “attracted to every single member of the opposite sex.” It really, really really doesn't, though oddly, I have met a fair number of heterosexual men who think that it should mean that for heterosexual women. Which then made me wonder...are *they* attracted to every single woman...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?omg, does someone think men are more empathetic than women? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 05:58 PM |
| 5 | The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't matchThey really don't. It's amazing how clueless so many men are about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Well, they don't exclusively call sleeping around those things, lol. They call any number of activities those things. That is but one activity a woman might call "finding herself" or "healing." For such a woman, possibly she was stuck in a relationship where she was made to feel incredibly unattractive, she's finally out of it, and this is an act of self-validation (have seen this in several friends). Another possibility is that she was widowed with small children after her husband's lengthy ill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:01 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men pretend to not notice hints so they can continue putting in the bare minimumYeah, I wouldn't understand that "subtle hint" either, I'd either throw out the obv. dead flowers and be on my merry way or I'd figure she had some reason for keeping them (who knows what artsy-crafty people need at any given moment? etc.) and ignore them too. This is hilarious, does anyone seriously think that another person is responsible for picking up on their "subtle hints" or, wth is wrong with just telling someone outright that you want something...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats."There's a common belief here that men have terrible personalities" There is? How did I miss ever seeing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageYeah, after reading this, I don't think my husband IS actually "obsessed" with me; I think he's just devoted to me. Okay, now I'm happy today. 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageHmm. I sort of want to weigh in on this and sort of don't. Like, I'm not exactly sure if my husband is obsessed with me or not. He says he is (but he may not really be serious? but he's the sort of person that does tend to get obssessed with things in general so maybe he is serious?) but he for sure does NOT stalk me (at least not that I'm aware of and honestly, I'm boring as shit, anyone can stalk me and would totally quit of their own accord within days because zzzzzzzzz). But it is actually n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 03:20 PM |
| 27 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?My first husband complained constantly about my cleaning too, most notably stating on multiple occasions that if HE did the cleaning then the whole place would be immaculate. I was quite pleased to see, after we divorced, one day when I was picking up the kids (we had shared custody) and had to come inside for some reason or other, that it was an absolute total sloppy mess in all directions. 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?Same! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?That's me! sadly lol (about being the one to do most/all of the cleaning). How often my man complains about my cleaning: 0%. I do literally mean 0%, he has never complained about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Sex work is the way of the future...all I could think after reading this is, how on earth could sex work possibly be turned into a BIGGER market? everyone on earth becomes one? It's already enormous! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 09:05 PM |
| 15 | Is a man acting "masculine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by him? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act masculine arousing, so long as he looks hot?I have literally made a 20 year career out of fixing things, I am amazing at it. But nobody ever thinks I'm even remotely masculine. I think we kinda gotta rethink this whole "fixing things is masculine" meme, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Is a man acting "masculine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by him? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act masculine arousing, so long as he looks hot?I find competence to be sexually and romantically attractive. It almost doesn't matter what the focus of said competence is (I am COMPLETELY sure that somebody on here could find something that would be an exception lol--like honestly, I think taxidermy is kind of gross, I'm not really sure even incredibly competent taxidermy would flip my switches)--it's been physical activities, it's been mental activities, it's been combo activities, and it almost always has prickled my sexual/romantic intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How did you girls meet your significant other?Let's see, in order...school, school, work, work, work, work, MySpace (yes, that last one and I have been together for QUITE a while 😁) Edited to add: I have no idea if any of that conforms to any of the viewpoints proposed on this sub, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 06:25 PM |
| 13 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.I have a few bisexual family members and they've both told me (they're female) that gay women don't prefer to date bisexual women either. Apparently there's some feeling of "lacking authenticity" or "caving to heteronormativity" or some such...(note: straight men, according to them, while having 0 issues with dating a bisexual woman, do have a tendency to either not take it seriously or regard it as a sexual fantasy just waiting to happen) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 02:35 PM |
| 3 | If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay.Yup, that's the article I'm already familiar with, which makes it clear why it's not actually 3.7%. But, you know, I see you all really want it to be! so I will argue no more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 12:45 PM |
| 0 | If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay.It's really not 3.7%. You should look up the history of that number. 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 12:09 PM |
| 0 | If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay.I don't think you're right about the US; I just Googled it: "In New Jersey, a suit to establish paternity must be brought within five years after the child reaches adulthood, i.e. 18...In Kentucky, the statute of limitations is 18 years after the birth of the child...In Michigan the statute of limitations for bringing a paternity suit is when the child reaches the age of 18..." etc. etc. Clearly people have put some thought into this, is what I'm saying, it just doesn't strike me as an unexplore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:37 AM |
| -2 | If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay.No, because you already can sue for paternity fraud under existing law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 11:04 AM |
| 12 | Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally.Right, that's why breast implants exist, because women are loved unconditionally. 🤣 ...I promise you, women are not loved unconditionally, not by men and not by each other. Admittedly, your children up through like, age 8 or so, love you unconditionally! And your dogs. Definitely your dogs! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?What about when women aren't around? (historically this has often been the case outside the home, so why did they like them then?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?::faints:: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?Truly, I do want to know why men respect, admire and follow dominant men. I hope some men answer this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Mans ImperativeI'm pretty sure that virtually no women refuse to accept that men have a biological drive to have sex. What are you actually asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist?I wouldn't necessarily say that "using OnlyFans is pro-feminist!" 🤣I mean, it's totally fine by me if you do (normally I'd say it's none of my biz that you use OnlyFans regardless of your reasons! but you know, you're kinda put it all out here for weighing in so, I'm weighing in) but it's hardly equivalent to striking a blow for women's empowerment. Different women have all kinds of reasons for either approving or disapproving of men for using OnlyFans--the only personal experience I have with i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 09:39 PM |
| 7 | How do you screen for political compatibility, and how important is that for you when dating?Ohh yeah, I do screen for LGBTQ acceptance too, I have a lot of gay family members! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 01:54 PM |
| – | Men are evilAre we supposed to be debating whether or not men are evil, or something else? (if the former, please give me the definition of "evil" that we're using) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 12:43 PM |
| 7 | How do you screen for political compatibility, and how important is that for you when dating?I don't necessarily prioritize political alignment (and I can back this up--fairly liberal Democrat that I am, all three of my husbands past and present were at some point registered Republicans), but I definitely prioritize whether or not a man has negative issues with women as a gender (regardless of whether or not said man declares with great sincerity that I am different! and not like other women! and eh, meh. I'm still a woman, and eventually, if you don't care for women in some fundamental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 11:37 AM |
| 11 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropI think this is really more a question for men; I'm not sure women have a huge amount of insight into what men's role is in the worldwide birthrate drop are, because honestly, men are somewhat peripheral to it. Men are obviously not peripheral to women's ability to physically conceive children (lol!) but, said worldwide birthrate drop is overwhelmingly driven by women's personal decisions to limit their own childbearing, and I haven't seen any evidence anywhere that these decisions are in any si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Is being too nurturing a turn off?I mean, we've been married for 13 years, I feel like if it was ever gonna get weird, it probably already would have? We're close enough at this point that if he actually started texting me like every 15 mins with protestations of undying love, I'd probably get scared thinking maybe he'd just learned he had a terminal illness or something horrible 😱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 06:56 PM |
| 10 | Is being too nurturing a turn off?...I guess the closest to this is, when we're not both teleworking (ie one of us is nowhere nearby) my husband and I text each other probably once every hour or two on those days, and while some of them are desperately unromantic ("is Friday a good day for you to drop the dog's fecal sample off at the vet's on your way to work?" yummy! this is today's actual example hahahaha) some of them are "I miss you so much, I can't wait to see you tonight" and I love those, I don't ever get tired of them a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 06:28 PM |
| 19 | Is being too nurturing a turn off?To date, no man has ever been so nurturing towards me that it had a negative impact on my sexual attraction to him. No man in my life has ever made breakfast and lunch every day (spoiler: I don't make breakfast and lunch every day either) but, as something kinda close, my husband makes tacos one night a week every week, his tacos are SPECTACULAR and the only impact it ever has on me is a 100% positive mismash of hunger and adoration, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 06:24 PM |
| – | One good thing about dating in 2025 is that the red pill idea of faking it until you make it simply doesn’t work anymore. Women want authentically attractive men.I live with my father-in-law and unfortunately, I think a huge percentage of the people that keep those scams alive are like, 70+. It makes me sad. 😟 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 02:50 PM |
| – | One good thing about dating in 2025 is that the red pill idea of faking it until you make it simply doesn’t work anymore. Women want authentically attractive men.I love modern makeup. I wish tinted moisturizer had always been a thing--I never let that thick nasty foundation crap touch my face anymore, tinted moisturizer is where it's AT. 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 02:48 PM |
| – | One good thing about dating in 2025 is that the red pill idea of faking it until you make it simply doesn’t work anymore. Women want authentically attractive men.The "negging" thing always amazed me as something that worked for or on anyone, because I was always so uncertain about how attractive I was to any particular man at any given moment that if he gave me the impression he didn't think I was all that to him, I'd totally agree with him, clearly I am not worthy of you! and instantly move on, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 02:47 PM |
| – | Dating feels worse for men because the average man is better off than the average womanI am sad to have to contradict you, but 5'9" 195lb men do look like they're overweight. They don't look morbidly obese, no (I mean, cause they're not!) but they all have big ol' double chins and more than a hint of manboobs. It's not an objectively sexy look. Edited to add: Gaah, I'm SO UNCOMFORTABLE with having said this, I do not believe in picking on people because of their looks! my need for accuracy in perceptions drove me to it. BUT I WANT TO SAY THAT IF ANYONE READING THIS IS A 5'9" 195 L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:56 PM |
| 7 | If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell youYeah, I can't figure it out either 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:52 PM |
| 9 | You Can’t "Prove" the Red Pill And That’s Not a FlawSo it's like a fad diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating an OnlyFans model - why do straight men say no but lesbians say yes?Makes total sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:46 PM |
| 3 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toTruly, masturbation is by far the more appealing option. 100% guaranteed orgasm and NO weird shit afterwards to mess up the post-orgasmic buzz of sleepy contentment 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 07:54 PM |
| 9 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toI do, when that third option is available! It just hasn't always been available, unlike the other two options, which are ALWAYS available. 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 07:46 PM |
| 5 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toIt's honestly mindblowing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 06:28 PM |
| 13 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toThis is so me 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsWomen can't be beautiful without makeup? wow, never heard that one before. That's hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Dating an OnlyFans model - why do straight men say no but lesbians say yes?...without it being an extension of their existing career as a porn star? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating an OnlyFans model - why do straight men say no but lesbians say yes?...I know this is slightly off topic, but now I'm wondering if there is such a thing as a straight OnlyFans male model, catering to a straight female audience...? does anyone know? (I don't actually want to search the internet for this answer, I shudder to think what my sidebar ads would suddenly become 🤣) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsOne person's claim of anything is never the Oppression Olympics...you gotta have at least two participants with utterly opposite positions on which of their <demographic> is the most oppressed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsI've really only had 2-3 girlfriends who were seriously active on dating apps for extended periods of time, and all I remember of that is how much THEY complained, lol...the only man I've known well who spent time internet dating is my husband and he liked it a lot, he didn't really have much complaints. I mean, it worked out well for him, has always been my impression...he may've approached it more like you, though (just using the dating app as one of many internet tools as opposed to expecting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?I've had girlfriends who absolutely adored a guy to go for an hour, and then there are others of us who don't actually really yearn for an hour or more--it's all over the map really! If the ladies you've been with were happy, especially since you've both asked and made a point of trying to notice any non-verbal cues as well, I wouldn't worry about it at all if I were you! 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?Well, I'm probably not the best person to be answering here, as my "BC" (lol!) isn't anywhere near high enough to be a statistically significant sample of the adult male population...not to mention that my answer is probably not even remotely helpful, as in my experience, not only does it vary wildly from guy to guy, but it can vary wildly FOR the same guy. Like, today can be 3 mins, next week can be 30 mins, it's just soooo situational!....certainly some men have been overall on the shorter end… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansMostly it seems super man-centric to me, which means you know, there's not a lot there for me personally so I'm not particularly compelled to make a study of it. I admit to a weird fascination sometimes about what y'all will all say next, sort of like the fascination that prods you to peek sideways at a really horrific highway pileup as you inch past it during rush hour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 02:37 PM |
| – | Women like innate and natural genetic traits in men, rather than actionable and modifiable traits and featuresI gotta tell ya that modifying your apparent personality and it coming off as genuine is really not impossible at all. Nonromantic example, but I am by nature extremely introverted, managed to pick up a massive dose of social anxiety in the course of growing up, and honestly don't care much for most people period. However, I also wanted to succeed in corporate America, and I'm female, which meant I needed to become sweet, charming, outgoing and above all, warm, and also, I needed to be able to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a high chance to get average/above average success with minimum effort (women) or Would you rather have the low chance of getting tremendous success through Massive efforts (men)? And why?OH you mean "in dating." I thought you meant "in life," lol. Because I'd totally rather be a man professionally! For dating, mostly I'd rather be a woman, though all the time, effort and restrictions I've had to invest in for my own personal safety have sometimes been an emotional and psychological drain and I imagine that if I were a man, there'd have been a lot less of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | High value virgin women dont wan't sexually unsuccessful menI can't express how relieved I am to not be a high value female. I cannot imagine having to deal with all that crap. ewwwwww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Men below 25 want a relationship more than women below 25Are you below 25? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingIt's pretty easy. Take gender out of it and realize that not everyone who is nice to you is being more than simply polite, and if they actively express a desire for your company outside of whatever context you're in that isn't giving them a choice about having your company, then you know they actually do like you and want to be your friend. If they never do express that desire, and you're not comfortable just assuming their niceness is politeness, then you can make sure by asking them to hang ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 06:30 PM |
| 19 | You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problemI totally didn't get this at all til the second paragraph, when I realized what you meant was, sympathy won't get you any dates. Ah-ha! Yep, you're right, it won't. I mean, that's not what it's for at all. Does someone think it will? I honestly thought people wanted sympathy to help them with their feelings of sadness specifically, lol, not as a dating tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you be okay with your man getting eggs from another woman and having a baby in your womb?Haha, is this a serious question? It's not my child and my womb isn't someone else's rent-an-incubator (or even worse here because it sounds like I'm not even the recipient of any $$$). All those things the first paragraph, I've had that without having to deal with any of the rest of the weird stuff below it. ...I def. have to read through the responses here because it's really hard to imagine ANYBODY agreeing to this, lol, I mean why on earth would they...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 12:54 PM |
| 3 | How do you gauge the emotional intelligence of a man you’re interested in?Completely agree with this--I am not interested in bowling or baseball and my husband is not interested in writing speculative fiction, but we are each other's most dedicated cheerleaders on those subjects, always ready for lengthy discussions of the same with the other, and probably know more about them than anyone who doesn't actually do them themselves at this point! 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Who has the nicest things to say about the other gender?I wanted to be a man when I grew up, when I was a kid--not a gender-dysphoric kind of way, I accepted I was a woman the same way I accepted that my eyes were blue and I was taller than average and etc. But in a societal-role kind of way. Not just any man, though, a specific kind of man--heroic and stoic, strong and brave and true, a great provider, a pillar of strength in times of adversity. I still so admire men like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:54 PM |
| 5 | How do you gauge the emotional intelligence of a man you’re interested in?I had a friend once who complained that my husband was mansplaining her. I had to tell her that he really wasn't, he was <insert his name here>-splaining her, which he did to absolutely everybody regardless of gender all the time. TBH, I DO actually find it a bit endearing. 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:46 PM |
| 6 | How do you gauge the emotional intelligence of a man you’re interested in?Two out of my three husbands (yes, that's a lot, I know, it's very embarrassing) early on in our dating relationships, offered me books I came quickly to love and value. 😊 It's so great if you're a huge reader and that happens! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you gauge the emotional intelligence of a man you’re interested in?I admit, I never explicitly thought of it as "gauging his emotional intelligence." More, was he interesting and was he interested in me? lol, I absolutely SHOULD have always asked if he reads, since I read like a fiend! but honestly I think I've spent most of my life so used to being in the small minority of readers in any group I'm in, it just never occurred to me to explicitly ask that. I can only think of one or two times ever where the dude failed to ever switch topic off himself and/or was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Modern dating is in the state it is today due to Women’s romantic interest and attention now essentially becoming the most dominant if not only currency (in The West)Oh goodness, I'm not out of the league of 99.89% of men! I was just out of HIS league. That's, lessee... 1/(0.504*8.062x10^9) = 0.00000000002% of men. I can't really extrapolate with any kind of dependable accuracy *what* actual percentage of the world's men I'm out of the league of; I haven't met a statistically significant representative enough sample of of them that would enable me to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingIt always amazes me how most men don't seem to realize this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Modern dating is in the state it is today due to Women’s romantic interest and attention now essentially becoming the most dominant if not only currency (in The West)You look shockingly like my college bestie's little brother who hilariously spent *years* thinking he might have a shot with me someday. I'm sorry, you really do, it's almost unbelievable 🤣I only know you aren't secretly him in fact because he now looks 20 years older than this... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingCan't argue with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Historically, the average dude likely never found academics easyThis reminds me of an argument I had once with someone about how "women just aren't as good as men at STEM" and I was all like "well first let's calibrate our argument, with the starting point that 'PEOPLE just aren't good at STEM, in the overwhelming majority'" and you know, that's reeeeally true. My mom, who was wrong about *countless* things she told me growing up, was actually right about the part where she said since I was good at it, I would never lack employment because everybody always d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller?I found the answer to BC elsewhere in the thread! BC = "body count," which while it would be infinitely cooler if it actually meant "how many people she's killed," prob. means "how many men she's had sex with." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller?::runs to the Internet:: "what is a baddie girl" answer: "Short for "a bad bitch", which usually means sexy, confident, no-nonsense, maybe a bit of a troublemaker, intimidating, etc." ...I guess lacking in the sweet giggly submissiveness that for some characterizes true femininity...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:19 PM |
| 9 | Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller?Dude, I don't even know half the lingo or acronyms my 13-year-old daughter uses, yet I'm still raising her as her mother 🤣 pretty sure that's not a requirement to participate in any specific walk of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller?omg wait I have figured one of them out! "ONS" = gotta mean "one night stand"! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller?See, here's where my whole ignorance of finer details of the redpill movement trips me up. I hardly know what half of what you're saying even means 🤣 wth is an "ONS"? what's a "fattie?" (I mean obv., that's a fat person, but is that only women or can men be fatties too? how "fat" is a fattie, like 50 lbs overweight, 20 lbs, 10, 5..?) what's an alt-girl? what's a BC woman? birth control woman? (I mean who doesn't want a birth control woman) what's a "baddie" girl? hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:03 PM |
| 3 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testThat did occur to me too, lol. Just like, if you want one, get one. The offense or lack thereof of your partner is a separate issue from your ability to get one, which is unrestricted by anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:43 PM |
| 3 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testWell, there's a time and place for everything, lol. When you're in a serious, committed relationship with someone, preparing to marry (or cohabitate, if you're not the marrying types), you should discuss and come to an agreement on many issues prior to taking that next step forward. Are we merging our assets or keeping them separate? Do we want a prenup (or if not marrying, some other contractual agreement for division of said assets)? Are we planning on having children? If so, what kind of gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:18 PM |
| 9 | If Men Should Accept Women’s Preferences, It’s Fair for Women to Accept that Men Prefer Young Women"Sure you can want young women but which young woman wants you?" I rarely point that out in these sorts of conversations, but inside I am giggling a bit over that fairly common fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | If Men Should Accept Women’s Preferences, It’s Fair for Women to Accept that Men Prefer Young WomenI have no problem with men finding younger women (though I do mean *women* here, not adolescents) more physically attractive than older women, because mostly they are, let's be realistic here. It only starts to squick me out if there are *other* factors at play besides the physical, like any creepy daddy-daughter vibes or deliberate efforts to secure a heavily psychologically imbalanced relationship or etc. etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | The "No True Good Guy" FallacyOkay, so most young straight women make all sorts of bad decisions < age 25 due to immaturity and lack of life experience. ....like most young straight men do... so I don't think I'd categorize any straight woman who did any of the stuff you list at least once in her life as the "kind of woman a man shouldn't want." Much as I wouldn't categorize a man who made any number of the really boneheaded personal calls I've seen allll kinds of young men < age 25 make (I was in the Army, I've got the STOR… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?No. There, that was an easy one, keep bringin on these softball questions! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractiveI have no idea how this translates to privilege for anybody of any gender, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractiveWell, I'm only speculating here to some extent because I have 0 tattoos, lol, but I think I don't actually care too much about "being perceived as easy." I'm totally uninterested in trying to meet someone else's arbitrary sexual purity standard--I honestly can't imagine why I'd want to? Truly sounds like a "them" problem, not a "me" problem...maybe if I had some kind of interest in pursuing an emotional relationship with someone who equates tattoos to a lack of sexual discriminatory taste, I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:20 PM |
| 13 | Redpillers and feminists both make some valid pointsHonestly, it really depends on the list of points presented, lol. It would be 100% possible for someone to present a list of feminist points and a list of manosphere points and for me to disagree with ALL of them...it's so point-specific! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Raising children an unpaid job!I feel like you're deliberately avoiding the actual point, but that's okay because maybe I'm just not understanding where you're coming from here--but then, I don't have a lot of emotion associated with the argument, and likely you do (I certainly would have a lot of emotion if my employer decided that room, board, clothes and use of a car was equivalent to paying me actual money! but luckily, in my state, that's not legally a decision they can make!). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 08:19 PM |
| 57 | Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractiveWell, I mean, it makes sense that anybody would be more likely to make a request of someone they'd think would be more likely to grant it. At least it makes sense to me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Raising children an unpaid job!Well, the above is definitely in no way exact numbers, as regional differences across the US can be huge, variability in the number of children in a household can be significant, and the cost of living with and without children is, let's just say, not remotely the same number (I did sit down once and figure out roughly how much money I've spent on my three children over my lifetime and OMG). But aside from all that, the main point remains the same--room, board, clothing and the use of a vehicle … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 07:29 PM |
| 10 | Raising children an unpaid job!Yeah, but somehow your argument here is changing from the original "being a SAHP is JUST as fiscally compensating as a salaried job because you get room, board, clothes and the use of a car" to the new "being a SAHP is so emotionally rewarding to me personally that I'd rather do that than have a salaried job." The latter may well be true, but has really nothing to do with whether or not room, board, clothes and the use of a car are actually equivalent compensation for work to an actual salary...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:25 PM |
| 15 | Raising children an unpaid job!"Mom still has a good driving vehicle a place to live, food, family, clothes" Sounds good, so let your boss know that you no longer want to be given a salary, just room, board, clothing and the use of a car. ...no? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Would You Date A Man With The Following Qualities?Would you date a man who's slept with 20+ people? Maybe Would you date a man who always has a messy room? Yes Would you date a man who's a farmer for a living? Yes Would you date a man who is 5 years younger than you? Yes Would you date a man who's gone to prison for 5+ years? No Would you date a man who is on the autism spectrum? Maybe Would you date a man who is on the sex offenders registry? No Would you date a man who lost his virginity to a prostitute? Maybe Would you date a man who refuses… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Would You Date A Man With The Following Qualities?Would you date a man who uses marijuana at least once a month? No Would you date a man who considers himself to be a devout christian? Maybe Would you date a man who dislikes physical exercise? Maybe Would you date a man who doesn't believe that gay marriage should be legal? No Would you date a man who believes that abortion should be illegal? No Would you date a man who watches porn at least 3x a week? Maybe Would you date a man who lives 1000 miles away? No Would you date a man who's currently… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 12:33 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?I tend to shuttle between "insanely high maintenance" and "no maintenance," depending on the specific situation...I'd say I'm 90% "no maintenance" and 10% "insanely high maintenance," lol. I have no issues whatsoever with either label. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:05 PM |
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