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1	Girl calls me bro after the night we had sex This is the answer. If you think it's goofy or odd, why are you not making a joke of it and PLAYFULLY teasing her a little? At the end of the day, it's probably just a word she uses anyways.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 02:49 PM
1	When a woman gives you that "I’m interested, but I’m not gonna make it obvious" vibe... is it working? As another poster said, a man will probably appreciate it more if he at least has to work a little... I think most guys will deny this and say it's annoying to hold back and that women should just be completely clear and make an obvious move... but the bottom line is that we all want what we can't have (or are unsure whether we can have). Just like women get turned off by men who are too available, so do we get (eventually) turned off by women who are too available. At first we may love it becau…	/r/seduction	11/12/24 02:34 AM
1	How to stop getting attached and obsessed so quickly I hope it serves you well, Brother. 👊	/r/seduction	07/12/24 12:03 AM
2	What is the Most Amount of Women You Can Talk to at Once? Peak optimization.	/r/seduction	06/12/24 03:41 PM
18	How to stop getting attached and obsessed so quickly Always tell yourself that it's probably not going to work out, accept it, and enjoy whatever happens regardless. Not to be pessimistic but rather to avoid getting your hopes up while also teaching yourself to enjoy the reality of the moment (as opposed to some fantasy of the future that currently only exists in your head). Think about it this way. Telling yourself it will end in one way or another is actually the truth. Because even if things did work out, it's still all temporary. You would hur…	/r/seduction	06/12/24 03:18 PM
28	Approaching a latina with her family -- in field The thing with Mexico and Philippines (I've lived more than 3 years in each) and their family-centric cultures is that they're very accustomed to getting put on the spot in front of the group. Yes, they'll look out for her too, but when you're always out and about with your tribe, you get used to being exposed. Her whole life has been largely "public." Family might have some good natured laughs and jokes at the expense of you two, and it'll all seem a bit immature to a westerner... but they'll l…	/r/seduction	03/12/24 08:53 PM
1	Being called sweet a death sentence? No. Completely based on context. Sometimes they'll even call you sweet because they want to convince themselves you're sweet. Basically, they know you're a player so want to interpret any nice thing you do as "sweet" to fool themselves. Again, context. It's just a word. It could be a bad sign in your case, though - more details needed.	/r/seduction	30/11/24 09:27 PM
1	Mirroring response time (is she crazy?) She could have read somewhere that this is what you have to do to catch a man, just as many men have read about maintaining a woman's interest, and then is just following the "rule" a bit too literally. In which case, it could be an indicator that she's actually emotionally invested in holding your interest, which is a good thing... In fact, I've learned over the years that any emotional behavior from a woman I'm just getting to know (even if negative) is an indicator of attraction. Women who ha…	/r/seduction	30/11/24 09:02 PM