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I think the thing is with this is you attract the demographic of women who behave this way. I'm not sure how large the subset is, but you think it's ALL women because the ones who weren't interested fall through the cracks. Women who have had sex with a lot of different men and are popular with a lot of men tend to associate the less interested men as "further up the tree" because they are matching with "superior women" and highly interested men give off the "got any spare change?" vibe. Sexual …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 09:51 PM
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It was based on the premise that interest level is inversely proportional to value. E.g. if you're more half assed about the woman, she perceives you as slightly out of her league. I would think there would have to be some objective value too though. I doubt she is wondering whether a dishevveled homeless man likes her over a madly infatuated Chris Hemsworth clone. Plus as a man there seems to be little correlation between a woman's interest level and how attractive i find them. There are plenty…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 12:23 PM
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And you're trying to manipulate too, using a form of teasing and mockery to change someone's emotions
/r/seduction30/11/25 09:27 AM
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I tend to get shy in interviews but if I passed I can do the job well. Others fake interviews and lie on CVs and then get into the job and don't know what to do!
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:18 PM
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In my case she has a child with lighter gas guy, and they were in the drugs scene together. There was a time where he actually hit me, because he hated how attracted to me his ex was, although I didn't do anything sexual with her, though she had been at mine for a while. I keep her at a bit of a distance now as she can be a bit of a money pit.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:33 AM
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It sounds like they're staying more through fear or force than attraction then. I have a friend who was slashed on her legs by some ex partner. Another who inhales lighter gas and starts muttering to himself and gets violent. Guess what? I'm way more attractive to her than any of these guys because I treat her decently, and I'm probably much better looking than the other guys too.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:18 AM
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It's like job interview impression vs doing the job well and not getting sacked. The first is harder but the second is longer.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:06 AM
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But melting into the couch with a joint and getting fat is also bad. Even if you're dating Allie in Weedyland.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:05 AM
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I mean Peter Scully isn't all that in the looks department either. Who did have way beyond their fair share of interest was Ian Watkins from the Lost Prophets, although probably now the vast majority think ugh. I wonder if Fearne Cotton is like "Can't believe I dated THAT!"
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:59 AM
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Define "abuse." E.g. "I was working in the drive through and Henry Cavill did a 'fire in the hole.' What a jerk. I forgive him though as he's damn good looking."
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:51 AM
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There is a balance of generally attractive and casting a wide net, which is what dating coaches focus on. So if things like neediness, or smoking cigarettes makes your net smaller, then the dating teachers will tell you to avoid it. If you find a niche within a small net, all power to you.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/25 12:56 PM
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The titles are very click bait though I've never been in a long term relationship so don't have first hand experience of what he says. I could imagine there are grains of truth in everything although whether the types of women are emotionally healthy or not. If this is the vast majority God help us all. The force of attraction isn't always virtuous though. If a woman partner pulls me out of a house fire that burns away her looks. The physiological lust response i have for her will be less. It is…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/25 11:32 AM
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So what works on a high value woman? Sipping coffee and talking about the weather?
/r/seduction18/08/25 05:10 PM
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I'm not someone who has success with women, so take what I say with a grain of salt, but it does seem like he's focused on an (increasingly widening) demographic of status chasing women always looking for the next best thing. I'm not in the dating market for "non Christians" so anyone I date must be a follower of Jesus Christ. As a result, some of these types of behaviours may be tamed or weeded out as the person becomes more and more like Jesus. But I binged watched a lot of his videos, and was…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/25 11:29 AM
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It's as much about detecting attraction as it is making it. If you could be attractive to women but can't detect attraction, then you're not going to bother initiating or leading things to kisses and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:18 AM
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I think in some ways it's worse than the "just friends" zone because the women don't confuse the men by being interested in sex if they don't want a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:15 AM
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From a reproduction standpoint, no matter how many different penises, a woman can't make more than 1 child every 9 months. Let's say a man can get about 3 good jizzes in a day. If each one gets a woman pregnant, that's good for over 800 women on rotation before the limit is the number of men. So it makes sense to start favouring the preservation of men only when women outnumber them 800 to 1. Whilst it seems like the world isn't short on humans, the maximum baby popping out rate does factor a lo…
/r/MensRights17/05/24 12:57 AM
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It's like the joke about the woman who goes man shopping in the multi level shop with a one way system and keeps advancing levels until the top floor where there are no men and she leaves empty handed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:15 AM
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If I'm capable of orbiting a woman she probably needs to lose some weight.
/r/seduction03/11/22 01:11 AM
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As a Christian myself we are instructed to not be unequally yoked. That is if I am on a journey to leaving the practice of sin and the influence of a fallen world (and hopefully lead others out too) then having a partner who does not care about this is a massive hindrance. It would be like an ex alcoholic going out with someone who brews their own. Yet we can still be drawn physically to someone who is not a Christian, though know "it will never work" and hopefully not get stuck in the "maybe I …
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:28 AM
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As a Christian myself we are instructed to not be unequally yoked. That is if I am on a journey to leaving the practice of sin and the influence of a fallen world (and hopefully lead others out too) then having a partner who does not care about this is a massive hindrance. It would be like an ex alcoholic going out with someone who brews their own. Yet we can still be drawn physically to someone who is not a Christian, though know "it will never work" and hopefully not get stuck in the "maybe I …
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:28 AM
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I bought into a similar contract but in my mind it was, "being handsome will make her want me sexually" and "being nice will make her lower her standards". E.g. she'll be with a 6/10 who is nice but if an asshole must be a 9/10. Asshole anything below 9 gets told to beat it. Nice anything below 6 gets politely declined. I'm a 7 so can't get away with route 2. The other problem is being a poor evaluator of my own behaviour when under the spell of "attraction", especially just after puberty but of…
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:11 PM
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Although it then goes to "because I followed Mystery Method to a T, she should be attracted". No one is universally attractive no matter what. Even Jesus Christ would be considered a pauper and not interest the "gold diggers". Although you want to be attractive to a good selection of the kind you like, going after "this one girl" is a bit of a fool's errand.
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:08 PM
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This is the reason for the "neg" in Mystery stuff. I usually feel like I'm a refrigerator to most women apart from the odd one here and there out of hundreds - usually twice my age or 20 stone. I'm not hideous but not boy band hot obviously. I'm the equivalent of a slightly chubby brunette without make up. I probably don't move and touch as naturally due to high functioning autism, and annoyingly a repetitive touch OCD since age 10, which let's be honest I reckon would ruin intimacy. So I do not…
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:13 PM
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Although I wouldn't want her to lie about the connection when the real reason was she could smell my arm pits. Assuming my nose had desensitised to the smell of my own body. After all I don't want to be doing something that's a universal turn off rather than a turn off to just this one specific woman I'll probably never see again.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:47 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't have spotted that as a game if I hadn't read anything on the Internet about chasing, neediness, cat and string. Though I never thought that "niceness" and "chasing her around" made any attraction either, anymore than a guy taking me to a fancy dinner in a bugatti veyron turns me gay. I would have thought I'm the same level of handsome ness, whether I follow her to the door or stay. Though I probably would have made the right decision simply by thinking "she's probably not gonna l…
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:26 PM
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You know that slightly nervous feeling about meeting someone new for the first time? Sometimes that's enough to make people cower out.... It's sad when you read all this stuff on confidence and approaching and then the other party is the chicken shit! Although bumble, isn't that where women do the first message anyway? So it's not like she's just begrudgingly accepting someone she's semi attracted to. It is easy to start analysing all the body language and say "I should have been leaning my head…
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:07 PM
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That means don't buy an expensive car on a credit card haha
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:26 AM
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It's not about rape. It's a want to go from being not sexually desired to sexually desired. E.g. First time you are a generic person picked at random from a crowd in a club and she doesn't know you and she stays away. This will be EVERY woman's opinion of you in the entire club and any different club you go to at first. So leaving at the first hesitancy and never taking to them again will mean you don't talk to ANYONE in the venue because NO ONE "likes" you straight up as she wants to know you a…
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:37 PM
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In a club scenario though I usually would play it off like I'm a different guy each time. E.g. maybe I was too in personal space first time, or I happened to be standing behind in a place she didn't feel safe. Is she rejecting "me" or a style of approach? I would feel free to observe other guys and imitate their style of approach (I'm talking hypothetically as I haven't been in a club in years and usually any attempt at conversation is drowned by music so that either leaves me with do nothing or…
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:27 PM
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Yep, men often feel like the overworked customer service person at the refunds desk in relationships. Get bitched and whined at but fired if you dare give it back.
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