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| 4 | Affirmative Reminder | Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broad | Bhardwaj-littlesub | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Attraction? | Fundamentals | Bhardwaj-littlesub | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 07:58 AM |
| 2 | For Men | Bhardwaj-littlesub | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 03:08 PM |
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| 10 | Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise?And lack of empathy | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise?I would say , they lack self awareness, they are intrusive, charming , extraverted, high mood swings , they are less empathetic, they get bored easily too often open to new experiences , but I'd say the biggest risk factor is lack of empathy and intrusiveness. If you want to be wary , you can ask your future dates , their thoughts on cheating etc. that can give you clues. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys respond to "I have a bf" in a playful way" Well , can I have his number?" | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:13 AM |
| 39 | how to handle gf tantrumsI don't think so, that is the exact kind of behaviour where in online dating they will summarise it as " if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve my best" , like wtf | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:35 AM |
| 6 | how to handle gf tantrumsOmg , the type that is hard to please with silent treatment & passive aggression. If she's not willing to communicate like an adult and not willing to empathize with you, it's going to get harder to the point where you won't even care about it anymore. If i were you, I'd leave. Who knows, maybe she likes getting your attention in that way, she might be doing it intentionally. Your top priority is , Get her to verbally express her emotions appropriately. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:35 AM |
| -5 | No idea how to flirt.Just Talk , say something that's it. We often tend to associate the term " Flirt" with some communication skills which are so specific, sophisticated, advance & guaranteed to Win . It's nothing like that. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:24 AM |
| 6 | Flirting blueprintYes just upvote | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Flirting blueprintOk , talk to her like introduction or small talk then pretend like you need to go somewhere important then say , " wow, just talking to you feels nice , you seem really interesting, I'd like to get to know you more or talk to you more later ,so can i get your number? " | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | What traits about a girl get the most attention from guys?Being polite I think | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Picking up women from impoverished countries does not count!If you even try to pick up girls from " 3rd world country" then it doesn't mean that you actually like them. From what you you're saying, it seems like you are only looking for ways to make things easy for you in terms of dating & fear for your money. It seems like you have hope & expectations that at least these ones will be easier & have lower standards P.s : from 3rd world countries | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:55 AM |
| 3 | i am finding a youtuberI can't believe the relief you must have felt after finally getting the name. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I need help with dating gameOkay , i would suggest you therapy, talk these issues & then you will do some useful activities with your therapist to increase your confidence as well solve social anxiety which is definitely not a joke. You said its been with you for years. Even though you'll get some other advices. These issues will definitely not ve solve within 10 mins of reading advices. So go to to therapy, ask for some behavioural of cognitive therapy :) | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Girls who have too many male "just friends". What's your opinion on them?I also have few male friends but i always maintain the friendly boundary, we just text , we never call or meet & i tell my partner everything. So depends on the people. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Starting on tinder with no dating/game/texting experienceDon't take too much time to come up with a date, what ever you feel is right , just plan it & do what matters is you tried not whether the person like it or not, also if the person you're going with is making you feel confuse and making you question yourself & their intentions don't waste roo much time on them. A person who is interested in you will make everything easy , communication is easy, you don't have to think much what to say , making plans is easy , you don't feel uncertain. Just some … | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with a girl and don’t know what to do nowYou said it yourself, you didn't discuss what you wanted and directly jump to sleeping together...hmmmmm ok maybe try texting her or talking to her, say. " Last time was great, i was wondering we can meet again so we can discuss something serious" | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I’ve Hung out with her 2 times how do I make text convos sexier ?Well, from the times that you have hung out with her...what do you feel? What is your intuition tells you? Does she seem to enjoy your company? Does she show enthusiasm when she talks with you? If you have achieve a 3rd date, maybe it's going well. Just try, if she doesn't want it, then don't do it...Just do it, what matters is you try...you never know what the outcome is..maybe you will be thankful of your present self for this. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Starting on tinder with no dating/game/texting experienceYou just have to keep trying so you get experience and maybe learn a thing or two for your own benefits. One thing though, when you start sharing pictures..please choose a proper picture with blank background, not crowded , probably and where you look masculine enough...don't just send any pictures you're comfortable with. You have to make person WOW for you. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I’ve Hung out with her 2 times how do I make text convos sexier ?You can text imaginary scenarios to her like " What are you right now?" " Oh you're in bed?" " Can I join? ". " Or what are you wearing in bed?" Or " do you want me cuddle you right now?" " Do you want to sleep on my arms or chest ?" You get it , it stuffs like that you can make it sexy & affectionate at the same time . Best of luck | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:37 AM |
| 7 | How do you know a woman is interested in you?One thing, she is not going lead to feeling confusion, communication is easy, relationship progress faster , making plans & stuff is easier...like someone posted in this sub before " When a woman is interested in you , A lot things become easy" | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Confused About Her Commitment LevelIf they're making you question Things, it's not good thinking about it. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Girl gave me number and decided to meet in college next day. I texted her. She seenzoned. What's going on in her mind?If a person makes you feel firm & certain then it's a good sign...than this | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:05 AM |
| 0 | Girl gave me number and decided to meet in college next day. I texted her. She seenzoned. What's going on in her mind?If she's making you feel confuse...leave it , maybe she hist wants to play hard to get | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | It's depressing to me that oral is much less performed on women than it's performed on men and not because of male selfishness, but because men don't value female genitalia.It's not that men don't value it, it's the women themselves who are insecure about they own vagina and most of them are uncomfortable with it . Simple as that. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 20 | How to approach a woman who flashes?First confirm it with a simple greeting, if you think she's making you feel like she's asking something from you. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How should I pursue this follow up?Then you can confirm it through a simple text | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How should I pursue this follow up?Hmmm let's say , what you described happened at night...then next afternoon?? Or if you're hesitant, just say text something like " good morning, had a wonderful time with you last night" ....see what her response is | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How should I pursue this follow up?This happened recently?? Well, do you feel like she enjoyed that time together? If yes then maybe she is interested...go for it | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How should I pursue this follow up?Just continue talking to her in text or call, maybe go out together again ..who knows | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I keep faking my personality or go back to my old selfBest of luck then :) | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:02 PM |
| 7 | Do girls and women enjoy checking out or staring at men's crotch? ( Expert Female opinions are highly welcomed if there are any ladies in here which I highly doubt 😔😄)Yes, like i imagine..how nice the outline would feel if i touch it from the outside, how nice would it feel if i rub it gently and feel the outline on my cheek like a stuff toy 😘 | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:38 AM |
| 42 | Do girls and women enjoy checking out or staring at men's crotch? ( Expert Female opinions are highly welcomed if there are any ladies in here which I highly doubt 😔😄)A woman, and yes..it's my guilty pleasure | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Should I keep faking my personality or go back to my old selfYou're doing great!! Instead you should give yourself more credit , for achieving so much and coming this far ❤️ | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Taking her backJust do what you feel is right, you are the one who has been communicating with her all along. You chose to say these because you know what others don't know. It might leave you more confused than clarified, since we are speaking only from what you posted , not what you & the other person has gone through. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?Don't think about it too much, maybe she's going through a tough time herself, her mood is affected which in turn , might come out in the way she texts you. May be you can instead ask her ", i notice the way you text with me is quite different from the first time or something. Is everything all right ? " That's all i know, hope this helps :) | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Do good looking people (both guys and girls) not have to care about their clothing and they still get attention?Maybe , but with clothing...it accentuate & make you look better. My SO is also very very attractive, but sometimes when they wear colours/ clothes that compliment their appearance , it looks better. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What do y’all think about the situation when a girl looks away quickly after you make eye contact?She might be feeling embrasssed, that you saw her looking at you 🤷 | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Asked girl to get ice cream and she agreed butYou should try meeting her again. This time, plan it immediately..not 3-4 days prior. Good luck :) | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Guy following random bikini models on InstagramHave you brought this concern to him in any conversation?? | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | (25M)Girl I Have Been Talking To Online For 3 Months (24F) Says She Likes Me But Doesn't Want To Get Into RelationshipJust keep doing what you ate doing , then make a plan to meet up...don't give up on this. 1 year ago my situation was also like this, i continued talking & having a good time, then later that person was comfortable enough to be in relationship with me. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | My crush likes me back!!Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | girl in an open relationship?You can just be friends with her instead, maybe If you have questions regarding dating & women. You can ask her for advices & all...I'm just saying :), relationship or hook up will be useless with this particular person | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What do people actually do/talk about in long term relationships? How do you actually stay together without getting somewhat bored to an extent?Hmm I'm in a long distance relationship, this happens all the time, in fact we are going through it. The one thing i do is i try to find videos, stories online and tell him about it in video calls or i just straight show my boobs to please him | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:05 AM |
| 4 | how to make an open ended question in the first place?Sorry that was the only i thought of at that time. Ok another example could be " what's your hobby?" And followed by " how did you get in to it or what do you like about it ?" Etc etc ....hope you get more useful replies | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | how to make an open ended question in the first place?Close ended questions require one word answers like " did you sleep well?" While open ended questions require answers which needs elaboration, description it opens to possibility of more related questions. Like " how was your sleep? " | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Would a guy make sexual jokes about a girl he’s just friends with?Obviously, if they both know they are comfortable with it | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Serious Question: How to Keep a Woman Interested in YouBe emotionally unavailable...women go crazy in that shit | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:11 AM |
| -4 | Girls bumping into me at clubs, what do I do?Don't do anything, who knows what accusations they might make...save yourself brother | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Seduction adviceFlirt, initiate, dominate , be confident & also take good care of them....my boyfriend also did that too before we were in relationship....i fell for him instantly ❤️❤️ | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?I just like bulky ( non - body building types as well) , bearded & tall....is protective, has required good qualities & is also obviously pervert❤️😍 | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtI'm a woman myself but still find this sad & disappointing | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtIt's in India as well | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 10:45 AM |
| 11 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtSeriously man, anything to do with women now a days is risky business. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:26 PM |
| 7 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtWho will flirt ? When now a days women are so easily offended and the laws are like supporting these women's insecurities. Like recently, There is a new law in London , staring at women for too long can put men in jail... anything to do with women now a days are risky business | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when girl writes her name on my hand?Awwww this is so cute, I need to know what happens afterwards. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Hairy body men, attractive or nah?Attractive 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Mission completed: First time going out solo😎Congratulations 💐💐💐 | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I believe I’m just not meant for this or to even find love. I have the confidence, looks, style, humor, upped my texting game and still nothing is working. Is it something psychological? Is it my energy? My inner thoughts? Or am I just not meant for the “game” or to attract more women.You said " sometimes i believe" , it means that you yourself have belief this, so it will seem like it even on the outside...if you want to understand this more i would recommend you read on RATIONAL EMOTIVE BEHAVIOURAL THERAPY or REBT. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I believe I’m just not meant for this or to even find love. I have the confidence, looks, style, humor, upped my texting game and still nothing is working. Is it something psychological? Is it my energy? My inner thoughts? Or am I just not meant for the “game” or to attract more women.Sorry not letter , I mean word | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I believe I’m just not meant for this or to even find love. I have the confidence, looks, style, humor, upped my texting game and still nothing is working. Is it something psychological? Is it my energy? My inner thoughts? Or am I just not meant for the “game” or to attract more women.Your first third letter is your answer | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:50 PM |
| 8 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysBecause women are too complicated to approach, so why waste time? Just enjoy with the people who accept you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Whats your pickup line?How is that bad?? 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:25 AM |
| 0 | Whats your pickup line?" hey, is your last name piece?" " No , why?" " Because you're a MASTERPIECE 🤩" | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Effort for the daySometimes we lie, just to avoid the situation or the person | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Enforcing my boundaries made her like me more! How do I do it more often? Men, we need to not be afraid of our masculinity!Congratulations brother 💐 | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Hot ig model lives on a different continent, is it worth?Please be careful, you never know she's shoking you the nicer side & flattering you for a an ulterior motives. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | How to daygame at a college campus?If you want to notice without having to approach , you can try first to just expose the girls to your presence, you are already in close proximity to them which is good, next thing is " repeated exposure" just do self - enhancement and expose yourself to them via walking by or if their is some cafeteria drinking or eating there etc , it can be for few minutes as well, with some casual friendly greeting or wave, then gradually as you're expose to them also, maybe start approaching them and have c… | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 10 | This girl I’m dating seems a bit selfish am I wrong for thinking this?Have you talked about it before doing the actual thing? What's her opinion on it, is she ok with it? Because, even with me when I have never given a head to someone, i hesitate to do it....so there might be some reasons. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Survey for the boys: How many women are a 7+I'm definitely a 3 upper & lower | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?Cooking , Editing animated videos & watching anime | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?So don't blame yourself, just try, if it's not , fuck it and enjoy something else | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?Yes, i think i also partly blame the woke feminism ideology, which I think maybe especially in America, women want equal power to men so they might not appreciate being approached anymore, like maybe it's a big deal anymore to them, since they have become less traditional | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?A lot of People are bro, we are getting too dependent on texting , we have lost confidence in initiating conversations offline | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?Hmmmm , according to social psychology a close proximity and repeated as well as small greetings always help in increase attraction, maybe this can help before the main approach. I don't have any experience in offline dating , so i can't say much in to it😂😂😂. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?It depends, some women might be attracted to same age or just 1 years older or some might not care.. which means you can't be sure unless you communicate with the interested person. Which means you can always have a chance. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?I completely agree with you | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?Can you explain more? I don't get it | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Feel I’ve got no game need help ASAP it’s pissing me off….Proximity and repeated exposure bro | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?Just my preference, some People are concerned with age gaps so I cannot generalize. But I have seen older age men , even middle age , they still have physical charm on them.... which is appealing either sexually or just aesthetically. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?Yes definitely, personally I'm into guys who are at least 3 years older or more than me. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?23 years | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is the idea of a 30 something year old guy being more attractive than a very good looking 20 something year old guy something that keeps getting passed around in this sub and similar subs?Because for Men, the older they are the more they look Manly , Masculine, Mature. A 20 year old guy can be attractive in that age as well but the more he ages, the more subtly attractive he can be. While for women, the more we age , the less attractive we become. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Why do women feel entitled of you as men taking them out to dinner on a first date?If you wanna avoid that , just say something like " i wanna taste the food that you cook" make if sound like a compliment then go for a picnic instead. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:27 PM |
| 0 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?Use a pickup line when replying to a story like Hey girl, is your last name piece? Cause you're a masterpiece 🤩 | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys pick up girls in parties and bars with no experience and social anxietyUse pick up lines | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How to get matches to go out with me?Ohh sorry I forgot the cultural differences...in my place, it won't be .... it's very common | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Send him cute selfies with little skin showing here & there | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How to get matches to go out with me?I suggest you a technique called " foot in the door technique" you start with small request then move to bigger. First ask your matches to switch to another personal app for conversation, very simple & small, if she say yes. Next after sometime ask to talk in call and again if she conforms.. there's a high chance you guys can go out. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | How can I deal with half-assed texts? are they shit tests?Try talking to her again | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | How can I deal with half-assed texts? are they shit tests?It's a compliment from your side but she might took it in another way. You mention the response seems half ass right. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 10:32 AM |
| 2 | How can I deal with half-assed texts? are they shit tests?You saying " throwing tantrums out of no where" must have pissed her | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you reply if the girl you’re chatting with for the first time asks “Why are you talking to me?”Say " because humans are social animals duh" | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 03:51 PM |
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