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| 2 | If men love women unconditionally, then the dickpocalypse will never happenMen don't love women unconditionally. They don't like women who are fat. I bet that is contributing to falling birth rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 09:30 AM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyIt's true that there are women attracted to violent men. But while it may be fun for some blackpillers online to morph that into the general population, this phenomenon isn't all that common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themDating apps cannot be the most popular way of meeting people, if Tinder's own stats for the UK are taken into account (women swiping left on 97.6% of men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 07:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manIt's because even the fattest women on Tinder are only swiping on Henry Cavill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?I though it was obvious why we were having this discussion: To clarify that seething over not getting any, from desirable people out of one's league, is not exclusive to men. I'm glad you're clear on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?So? Men are less likely to chase them and will never find out if they'd have been rejected. Anyway, the reverse is also true. I've been sexually harrassed/'revenged' by women in the workplace who I rejected, because they weren't on my level looks-wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?Your original point was that these women won't date those men because they were unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?You haven't worked in too many offices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?Men hate attractive women who won’t date them. Most women in offices who dress like this are not single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps have likely peaked in popularityAverage women on dating apps are refusing average guys for both pumping/dumping and relationships. Fat women shouldn't complain that a slim guy dumped her after sex. She needs to learn her place in the world and either go on a diet or get into a relationship with a fat man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 03:52 PM |
| – | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.A market is when currency is exchanged for goods/services. Here, fat women are selling exclusively to fit men, who are not buying. You're confusing fat and ugly women only desiring attractive men, with said fatties actually attaining them. So no, it isn't a 'free market'. No-one is trading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.How many times does the OP have to be told? Physically unattractive women are refusing to date men within their own aesthetic league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:41 PM |
| 0 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?I glanced at it. Meanwhile, whoever constructed it is probably Napoleon Dynamite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?The fact that there is a 'chart' for this kind of thing at all is telling about the creator and discussion here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?Attraction not possible between colleagues? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?Tinder's own stats have revealed that fat women refuse to date fat men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:45 PM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Men don't fuck anything. I'm an ex-model, paid taxes for this. I didn't 'fuck anything', neither did my colleagues. We were and are repulsed by fat/unattractive women who did not give men in their own league a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:50 AM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.1) Men don't care about a woman's social value. 2) Women also care about a man's reproductive value 3) Sexual attraction to a woman is 'for who she is' (i.e. sexy), the opposite of what the OP is arguing. I think the whole post went over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:48 AM |
| 0 | What do you assume to be the normal rate of matches the average guy on a dating app receives?We don't need to assume when stats have been released. Women swipe left on 98% of men, IIRC. This means that obese, unattractive women think they deserve a man way, way out of their league. An 8/10 guy begging fat, ugly single mothers for attention on OLD when he only has to apply himself a little in real life and looks-match is kind of sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What Makes a Man Creepy?As a man who has been repeatedly sexually harassed, 'creepy' behavior is hardly exclusive to men. In fact, I'd argue that when a woman is creepy, it's even worse. Since lewd comments, groping and sexual aggression are laughed off when they do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man?Looks trump everything. Car. Confidence. Money. 'Game'. Height. Everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 11:24 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”It is about looks for women. They can dress up their settling for the ogre guy with turgid pscho-babble, but the fact is they aren't with a good looking man simply because they don't have the confidence to hold him in a relationship. I'm a good looking guy and I see it and have experienced it. They'll overtly reveal their 'carnal attraction' to me before I ever even opened my mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Are "Ladies Nights" at bars sexist? Should they be abolished?Less men are chasing women at bars now anyway. A 6/10 guy does not want to chase a 6/10 woman who, in her heart of hearts, thinks she deserves a 9/10 guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 01:34 PM |
| – | If women are hypergamous, does this mean that social status is more important that everything else?Women care about looks the same way men care about looks. Who gives a fuck if she's 'marrying up' to some 6'1 guy who earns great money, when he's got a pot-belly, ugly face, can't dress and she doesn't really lust after him? She'll force herself to stop fucking the cute 5'10 guy on minimum wage, but let him DM her anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 01:49 PM |
| 8 | Has Mandatory Use of Dating Apps Changed the Game?They're not mandatory. If anything, hot girls are getting hit on even less nowadays in real life. So a guy with balls who approaches is ahead of the pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 04:27 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.That's a long, turgid screed re: the problem of obese women refusing to date fat men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersNot my experience. I date 9/10 women and recently first ever true 10/10. I get blown out on OLD by angry fat single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:42 PM |
| 59 | Everything I've learned from my online dating experience. Maybe this can help you too:Most of what you've written is not relevant to most guys' online dating experience, since they're being swiped left on by women who aren't even as good looking as they are from the get-go. The problem with online dating is the aesthetic +3/-3 rules. I.e. a guy who is a 7/10 in real life is turned into a 4/10 and a woman who is a 7/10 in real life is effectively turned into a 10/10. Tinder = fat women turning down men too hot for them, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 08:37 AM |
| – | Men's lust clouds their judgement and makes them see women as evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 08:32 AM |
| 0 | Are more women excited by non-'chads' than people think?Chad, effectively, does not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:36 AM |
| 106 | A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBPAll of Reddit pivots to the left. It's full of purple-haired feminist moderators and transgender men moderators. The entire site is built on a mass grave of shadow banned centrists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?Most hot taken women I see have men who are not their aesthetic equal. ALL of them had social circles crossing over. In other words, the little hobbits lucked out. They weren't some type of alpha hot-shot outdoing his ugliness with sheer masculinity, nor are any of them rich. But are at constant risk. Many, maybe even most cannot retain the chick beyond a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What does someone finding you attractive feels like?It's not a great example. Female 'expressions of interest' usually suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 07:16 PM |
| 3 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.You’ve NEVER seen guys here whine that women dont like seeing men being vulnerable? That's not what you said. Your OP said nobody likes being around an individual who bitches and whines 24/7. I've never in all of my browsing of Reddit seen men or even a man complain that women don't like hearing constant bitching and whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 07:11 PM |
| 19 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.I've never seen any of these posts that the OP is referring to on this sub. Like, literally never have I seen someone on Reddit criticize a woman for not putting up with constant whining. And neither has the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Luck plays a much larger role in dating success than most people like to admitMost good looking women I know are in relationships with men nowhere near as attractive... they just met via overlapping social circles and settled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Approaching in real life is obsolete, and that may actually be a good thing for both men and womenGet into shape is in the original post. I mean, emaciated guys who dress like hobos really need to stop complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Approaching in real life is obsolete, and that may actually be a good thing for both men and womenWell, there you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Approaching in real life is obsolete, and that may actually be a good thing for both men and womenThen get muscular and in-shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:26 AM |
| -4 | Approaching in real life is obsolete, and that may actually be a good thing for both men and womenGet into shape, dress well, groom, approach the women who WILL give you IOIs. Or, stay a defeatist slob and whine about getting no IOIs. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Women don’t wear revealing outfits for male attentionIt's not that 'SOME women' do it for sexual attention. It's that SOME don't. I.e., most do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do people say Tinder doesn’t work? It’s just an interface that mirrors real life dating preferencesI have paid taxes as a male model in the past. I have looked at two fat female acquaintances' profiles, they had 5x+ the amount of likes I had when I was using it. They also swiped left on men as fat as they were and right on men patently out of their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:46 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menWow, these women are not attractive enough to be turning down 49 out of 50 men, LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:23 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menA problem markedly worse among women. "Well women doing it 50x worse isn't relevant, since men also do it a little". Nice logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:09 PM |
| -1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Obese women refusing to date fat men is not women having 'standards', it's having delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:27 AM |
| 22 | Over 30 yo nurse with high body count (and high standards) increasingly ghosted.Dispense with EVERYTHING else. Here are the two KEY takeaways from her: 1) She considers herself 'slightly above average' in looks. 2) She considers herself 'relatively' fit. Translated: 5/10 with a spare tyre and fat ass looking for 8/10 man. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/07/24 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Hidden competition among women?What are your thoughts on the matter? The majority of women who are sexually provocative with me are in relationships, bored and have no intention of acting on anything. And are seeking a thrill, attention, validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menI think you meant 'did it survey'? Anyway, no, but these studies have almost certainly surveyed more women than 'most woman (sic)' you know. So there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Self improvement is quite limited for menIt isn't appealing to every woman, but it is appealing to most of them. Per studies that have confirmed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:09 PM |
| 11 | Self improvement is quite limited for menThings that men think women care about, but actually don't: muscles (at the most, it's a bonus) Ohhhh boy. How wrong this is. How very, very wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:41 AM |
| 1 | There are very few women considered "losers" and this leads to a kind of empathy gap between men and women.Well you're not being friend zoned, they're waiting for you to move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 05:32 PM |
| 11 | There are very few women considered "losers" and this leads to a kind of empathy gap between men and women.Not if they guy is good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:21 AM |
| 1 | There are very few women considered "losers" and this leads to a kind of empathy gap between men and women.Single mothers aren't considered losers. But in practice they are, and are treated like losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:21 AM |
| 6 | Everything I want but he's a Trumper.I mean, that's just not EXCITING! I need a man who knows how to live. By the way my card is blown out teehee!! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/06/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMExactly. It happens to me SO much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMI don't know about in front of their partners but as an attractive guy I can say it one billion percent happens behind the back: The plausible deniability flirting bullshit, testing her worth etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:10 AM |
| – | Men on lesbian apps. I’m tired of itLiberals hoisted on their own petard. Gotta love it. They voted for this batshit extremism, now they must eat it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 11:55 AM |
| 32 | That's not what "family man" means, Example #678268Delete the apps, gents. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/05/24 09:48 AM |
| 50 | That's not what "family man" means, Example #678268The picture was taken by a professional photographer. This in itself is a red flag, it means that she's firmly aiming at Bumble's top 10%. That's before you talk about the filtered face, or the missing ass/legs. She also wants a successful man. One who will make her and her kids 'his world'. My God why would such a man do that? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/05/24 09:42 AM |
| 13 | Men can now message first on BumbleMen are probably getting sick of women demanding men out of their league, and quitting these apps because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 06:07 PM |
| – | As a Man, the saying that "todays women are delusional in terms off standards" is not true. In the first time in 2000 Years, women can choose a Partner based on attraction and love only. This is a good thing.I'm a good looking guy. I am constantly, always, being chased by fat women who refuse to date fat men. They're quite arrogant too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 07:01 PM |
| 15 | Bumble now admits that their main marketing ploy has been dumb this whole timeTranslation: Men are tired of the +3/-3 rule (where a 7/10 woman becomes a 10/10 online, and a 7/10 man becomes a 4/10 online) and it's finally starting to hurt them financially. Why use Bumble to beg 6/10 arrogant sour-faced women if the cute 8/10 chick two offices up is showing you her legs and flirting in real life? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/05/24 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Most successful men on OLD are married men or committed menWhat's even more crazy: the guys who have maximum success on dating apps are all married guys. I doubt it. And this is based on no data. Most married guys I know are pot-bellied and get more complacent by the year. Online dating is brutal. A 'life of the party' dadbod husband from real life will get 0.00% matches. Even single guys on steroids are getting spammed with obese women in OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:00 AM |
| -2 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.I'm an attractive guy. I get bombarded with IOIs every day of life. I can tell you, by far, the biggest problem is getting them from women in relationships, often settling with a non looks-matched boyfriend. They wanna know if you'll make a move. They'll not mention him or his existence until absolutely forced to, or unless you pull the trigger and they get their validation. Or they intend to cheat, or both. Again, by far this is the most common type of attention from women I get. It wasn't Andr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Man goes broke, wife bails - by u/mustangfrank'My children'. Could be saltiness, but it could also mean we're dealing with a cuck here. Did he marry someone with another man's kids? She probably spent his money. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 0 | What is causing gen z men to be "pill theory" obsessed?Condensed version? Fat women thinking nothing less than Chad will do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you show your interest in a guy?It's not whether or not you can take it. Even if the guy can take it too, it's just not attractive coming from a woman. Guys don't like lockeroom shit talk from females, even if the guy is hard as fuck. It's a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 09:36 AM |
| 3 | How do you show your interest in a guy?Ah the old sexual assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 09:33 AM |
| 6 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itSingle women do not get these benefits. Sure they do. Rigging exams so that women can keep pace with men who are intellectually superior is the norm: https://www.breitbart.com/europe/2018/01/22/oxford-university-extends-exam-time-women-better-grades/ You'd be surprised to find out the government doesn't care about single women anymore than single men. You're mistaking divorced/single parents, which are just a section of the population. Oh yeah. They're a section of the population alright. With 8… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:45 AM |
| 4 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itWell, I haven't invented anything. However, since women like to assign blame collectively to men for their problems, by this logic I'm allowed to share in our collective glory. And of course, you skipped over my tax argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Woman leaves good husband for bad boy. Bad boy dumps her to marry other woman. For some reason cats and dogs are not the same as a man/husbandThe stuff appearing on here lately seems sus TBH. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/03/24 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itA better argument is that they do need men not because of what we invented, but because their new 'strong/independent' lifestyle is usually funded by male taxpayers. Or alimony. Or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 08:38 AM |
| 9 | I don't really trust her definition of "finer things"Laughing. She likes to laugh. Can you make her laugh? That is key. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/24 12:45 PM |
| 3 | There's just as many low quality Women as Men...and? It's already been established that men will fuck anyone... That's not true. I constantly get hit on by women not in my league. I don't fuck any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | She has to like you moreThe man described in the OP is the one who ends up dating controlling fat woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Does paying for everything excuse you from chores?You're contradicting yourself. What you've described as Person B's responsibilities are the 'chores' you're demanding Person A also do. E.g. 'looking after the home', which is a chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | What's the best strategy for betabuxxers?Lift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 04:18 PM |
| – | What constitutes “SMV” for women is not the same as what constitutes “SMV” for menI'm in a relationship with a woman in my league, and still get hit on women in my league. To reiterate the point: The average women you say are uninterested in average men, are not getting wifed up by the men they actually desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 05:11 PM |
| 4 | What constitutes “SMV” for women is not the same as what constitutes “SMV” for menI don't need 'revenge'. I'm an attractive guy, who regularly, routinely, gets hit on by fat women who ignore fat men in their league. The point is: While you boast that 6/10 women are revolted by 6/10 men, the men they actually find attractive are also revolted by them. Few things in life disgust me more than an arrogant woman with a fat ass trying her game on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes “SMV” for women is not the same as what constitutes “SMV” for menIt’s because you’re not a fucking 6-7 to women. This is correcting itself. Even CNN is now reporting on men quitting dating. I.e. overweight 6/10 women are struggling to attract men more and more. In other words, women are deluded, and it's coming home to roost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 10:01 AM |
| 2 | “Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves.Most women I've seen who are turned on by assholes are flabby alcoholics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 12:13 PM |
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