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that may not be the best idea. I agree, I'd only take that risk if actually didn't care about the outcome. But I like having her trust and I don't want to ruin a good thing by getting overeager. I accepted that months ago which is why I've been thinking about how to get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:56 AM

I like love, sex, and holding someone I like in my arms gives me happy chemicals so that's reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:38 AM

We are both gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:34 AM

I have done that several times in different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:32 AM

Eh, if it is a shit test I'm not purposeful not going to pass it. I'm autistic for that shit either you say what you want or you don't tell me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:28 AM

Indeed, I do get to hug her and as long as I don't start feeling her up she's not upset with me touching her in any other way. So there's that upside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:22 AM

Is she worried about things becoming awkward if it doesn’t work out? Basically this yes. She's worried about losing the current friendship we have if things don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:19 AM

Have you considered that this is her way of checking if you are up for it? No because she knows I'm interested, I've floated the idea of us having sex or dating several times. I've done so in very explicit words that can't be misinterpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:16 AM

Seemingly she's told me every time she's had one. The last time she had one was because we hung out alone a week ago. I am interested but I'm of the opinion once someone makes this decision they aren't going to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:07 AM

Because she like how things are currently and doesn't want to lose the bond we have if we were to ever break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:05 AM

A girl I'm friends with has had several sex dreams about me but doesn't want to have sex because if we did it would change things between us and she wouldn't want that despite actively thinking about doing it. I sort just don't care that much and just think about finding a gf, I do find it odd though I think it's just abandonment issues and me not being attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:53 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:12 PM
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So just to be clear are you actually saying all black pillers and incels should leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:09 PM
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No I would say your average woman seemingly puts the same amount of effort into her body as men into there's. Though I guess your talking about grooming rather then just taking care of you body. The average American man and woman is overweight and in horrible shape. The main difference is that men care less about skin care routines, shaving, pedicures, manicures, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:00 PM

Yes Nordstrom RACK has a 30 day return policy for instore purchase and 40 for online purchases, but Nordstrom will just let you return whatever item you bought whenever. There are a lot instances of people buying things at a nordstrom but trying to return them to a Rack store but having to get turned away because it. Though currently there is an extended return policy because of the holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:54 AM

Don't worry Nordstrom has no return policy. You could wear it, damage it, and return it next year like nothing happened to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:42 AM
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He said women and you know he means sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:59 AM
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Is this supposed to be a controversial opinion or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:58 AM
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She looks nice. My sisters always had short hair, so I don't mind it on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:56 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:54 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:19 PM
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I do think that my ancestor had to pissed off a witch or something. Or maybe I angered a fertility god some how. Either I have some oddly bad luck with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:19 PM
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"Bullied"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:11 PM
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Yes and no. I care in as much it matters that I know so I can know why I'm considered on attractive. But it doesn't effect the way I act, dress, or anything else really. There might be some subconscious effects I'm experiencing that I'm not aware of. But everything I do consciously is unrelated to what women find attractive. I explicity know which aspect of my appearance turns women off and I do nothing about it because I don't care what women think about it I'll dress how I want. The same could…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:42 PM
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What kind of idiot would say no to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:59 PM
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I'm not sure the problem us your libido because mine is pretty high and used to jerk off two or three times a day. Even at my worst I didn't get that bad after 3 days. I was only that bad when I discovered porn for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:36 PM
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That's not better man not even I get that bad after 3 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:21 PM
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This year I learned that I really am easy to please. If s girl talks to me daily or close to it and gives me lots of physical contact for an extended period of time and just spends time with me I'd be very happy. Obviously it wouldn't eliminate whatever sexual urges I have in me. But it would satisfy me alot. On a related note I feel fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:12 PM
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How exactly were you planning to go about that? Are you going to tell a woman your in love with her and ask her out on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:34 AM
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No? Idk it's more like an accusation. You know first it was I was weird, then it was creepy, then it was a pervert, and then it was that I was a rapist. I think it was more of a "I raped them by staring at them" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:30 AM
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Do you mean pretend to be in love with a real woman? Or a imaginary gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:21 AM
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As in a police report? Thankfully no. I had some girls call me a rapist for a few months but no reports were made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:18 AM
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is this ex the situationship girl ? Nope that was a girl I met after my ex. A friend asked me out, I said yes, then we dated for 6 months. Then during those 6 months I met the situstionship girl. Then after my ex broke up with me me the girl got closer then everything with her happened. The only other thing of note is a friend of mine went through a very bad break up, went through a hoe phase, we agreed to have sex but she flacked last minute, then after staying friends (more like acquaintances …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:14 AM
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Yeah you got to be carful with that it's normally a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:59 AM
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I feel like I've mentioned I've slept with men but I suppose you weren't around and I never gave a number. And I also never mentioned anything about my ex besides she was cheating with me, though her and that guy got back together sometime later after she broke up with me and moved, so good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:58 AM
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Anyway, I’m probably gonna have to pay to play(some ladies) myself at some point, ole chap. It what it is I guess More power to ya. Do what you got to do just make sure your safe and go through the right channels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:55 AM
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Receiving, not counting the bjs that lead to sex. One was from my ex back in freshmen year of high-school and the other was this year from an older man off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:49 AM
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lol 3 of those are stripper I paid $300 each, 2 were men who were in the closet, and 1 was my ex 12 years ago. You could spend $900 on escorts and fuck men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:36 AM
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Giga whore n=4 (6 if you count bjs)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:30 AM
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True when my friend has a gf regardless of how I feel about her I just say she's cute, or hot, or that she has a nice tits. Or I just say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:22 AM
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>Do you know what you want? In what way? Like life purpose? Or just out of a relationship? Are your goals realistically achievable? Depends on the goal. I wanted to pass all my classes. Achievable but not something I did. I also wanted a girlfriend and well that obviously didn't happen. I do have new female friend so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:17 AM
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I'm not sure men do this, I've never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:07 AM
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I would the average guy can manage 3 dates a month maybe alittle less then that. But those are numbers I'm pulling from my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:59 AM
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I remember trying to find the answer to how many dates a man goes on monthly or yearly and being unable to find an answer. As far as I can tell there has been no surveys or studies with that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:44 AM
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This is not a feeling I'm familiar with usually people don't want to talk to me that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:23 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:17 AM
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To me, I read "prefer to be desirable over commitment" as a choice between either being desirable or having commitment. That's how I took it as well but I think she means it the other way because otherwise her question makes no sense. I doubt even most women here would rather be committed to and never desired then be desired but never committed to. I could be wrong but I think women care about being desired by they're partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:15 AM
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Okay? I don't know if I agree but even if I did I'm not sure why that would matter? Most people aren't virgins' at 35 yet some people are. Anomalies exist it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:06 AM
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>To repeat myself: women view that ability for you to accumulate money as a part of you. I know and I think they're wrong. It's a difference of a opinion that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:04 AM
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I guess you view having money as a fickle thing It's not fickle, it's important it's just not apart of who I am. don't really view my looks as a part of me either because my genetics were by chance. I didn't earn my looks. Unless, I put in effort to be pretty which is equal to a guy putting in effort to earn money. Something you earn or work for can't be part of you unless we're talking about plastic surgery. My hair is a part of me. I didn't earn it, it's just something I naturally have. I spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:45 PM
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The assumption being mad is that the person commeting to you also desires you as well. Which is in no way guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:39 PM
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100% I would take that over. Honestly being luster over is a such a great feeling and I only experience that from gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:31 PM
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It's not my nightmare, I never said rich or attractive people can't be kind. I would just argue kindness has little to do with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:30 PM
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And would you have preferred to be desirable but never have any women want to commit to you? Yes, as I'm not concerned about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:26 PM
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I was in love in high-school and that feeling was so good it like I'm chasing a high. Also I've always been very open to love and letting someone into my life and that's never really changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:30 PM
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Alittle worse but not by much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:19 PM

What am I supposed to take from this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:57 PM

No she's not worth it. But I guess if I'm dating a woman like that presumably I have a lot of money so I might not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:55 PM

They look ai generated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:49 PM
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I was super happy yesterday. Now the high is gone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:03 PM
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I'd be open but I'm to much a degenerate and I doubt many would okay with me being friends with the women I know. Also there's all my escort use. I'm a walking red flag lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:11 PM
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I'm secretly a chad. It's just that it's a secret so not even I knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:00 PM
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The sisterhood remains strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:57 PM

I feel like I made a wish on a monkey's paw or something. I guess I can't complain about it because it's not like I'm unhappy with how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:27 AM

Eh, it doesn't feel the same. I'm a helpful person and I like doing so but doing that and holding a woman I love are two different things. Sex and giving to charity are not equal feelings. Working out and wrapping my arm's a woman's waist do not feel the same. Seriously the feeling I get after holding someone is so different to anything else I don't know why people compare to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:17 AM
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There's already going to be less people in the world. Since people are having less kids after the last generation dies off the world will be alot more empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:10 PM
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A good parent wouldn't have 27 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:07 PM
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Yes exactly it's validation and attention. Yes I recognize that unwanted attention is bad but literally getting no attention is also bad. Both of these things are bad and they have different effects. I think alot of women (and men) understand all the attention they get has negative sides. But, and I admittedly could be wrong, but with all this attention comes the understanding that it's there as an option always. It's always there and freely available to. Then there's all the physical aspects wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:28 PM
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It's because the circumstances are completely different. Women who don't need men will still have men in their lives. Yeah they'll have brothers and fathers. But they'll also have orbiters, and situationships. The elephant in the room around this topic is how much attention and affection men and women get from the opposite sex natrually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:34 PM
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I didn't even see it was Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:32 PM

Who says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:26 AM
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She a mod so she's lickings her own boot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:51 AM
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Hmm maybe, yeah maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:50 AM
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She's cute in a nerdy way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:50 AM
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What did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:49 AM
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I chock that up to high-school and middle-school. Girls back in my high-school were very voical about what they didn't like about me. The amount of times a girl would just tell me she thought my hair as gross is high. Honestly I think girls still have all these opinions they're just older and keep it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:19 AM
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So yes to the friendship but no to the Popeyes? Got it want to get some Chinese food?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:11 PM
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Do you want to be my friend we can get some Popeyes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:04 PM
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Me to sister me to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:50 PM
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Probably concerns about herpes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:49 PM
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Depends on the hooker but frankly that would be a waste of money. They'll most likely charge you full price so you might as well just go all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:48 PM
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Part of me believes it has to be an elaborate troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:31 PM
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How are you this unaware? Don't tell random women on reddit you think about them while you're jerking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:28 PM
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Oh I meant that all the women on ppd seem to be taken. Though in hindsight that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:55 PM
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Also taken seemingly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:51 PM
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I've only met one that was that crazy. Seemingly truly believed she had psychic powers and was very nieve despite being in her early 30's. The other two are mentally ill but just the normal amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:47 PM
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That's why I said types. It's not one kind of woman it's a few different kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:37 PM
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I think my types was established by the time I a as 8 or 9 and has stayed consistent ever since. The first girl I had a crush on was a chubby Hispanic girl who lived next door and the next one was a skinny twig of a black girl in 4th grade. The only changed is that I got in to "alt" women both the goth emo kind and the new age crystal kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:21 PM
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How long have you known this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:14 PM
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Assuming this message is real I would say "My love for you is so strong that no woman could ever match you babe. You're the most sexy beautiful woman I've ever known."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:11 PM
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How's the twink life treating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:46 PM
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I trim it some times but it's rare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:45 PM
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Faith
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:44 PM
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Yeah but a girl like that has to be a nightmare to date. Unless you're actually wealthy it just wouldn't be worth the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:43 PM
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I'll admit I wouldn't date a fat ugly woman with tons of friends and great career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:42 PM
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While I might be intelligent. I'm also unmotivated, neurotic, unfocused, and neurodivergent. At best we would have another hot loser. There's also an extremely low chance that the kid would be and very attractive autistic person who just struggles socially but I'm not taking that chance. The curse stops with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:34 PM
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As long as we aren't having kids then yes. The world doesn't need the combination of our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:19 PM
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It's not worth it man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:11 PM
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Sadly no life is a poorly balanced mess I wouldn't even pay $10 for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:10 PM
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I would say yeah that makes you a chad but I feel like I'll reach a point in my life where that happens so it's possible your not lol. How long have you been celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:49 AM
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Were you sleeping on the couch?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:38 AM
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its hard to imagine over the course of a long period of time, the chance of you having sex once is VERY TINY. I know right it's hard to believe my life is real as well. instead if pondering this, maybe do something less self defeating. I do, I just think about a lot of different shit. This is just something that pop in to my head occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:56 AM
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I will tell you directly without any bearing around the bush that based on your post history that for the good of other people it is a positive that you do not have I can't tell if this is a joke or not so forgive me if I'm wrong buy why? What about my post history is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:50 AM
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A question I often wonder about is if someone wants to have sex but for whatever reason can't find a welling participant what are they to do? This isn't a question about rape but prostitution. That's always a question I have whenever arguments about sex work in all it's forms are had. There's discussion about the ethicacy of it, how harmful it is one way or another, can someone consensually have sex for money, etc... But no one just ask if sex work is immoral what do we do about the sexless? Sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:42 AM
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No I would probably find it cute
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:18 AM

What does that mean? What did South Koreas president do? Did they get rid of that shadow feminist cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:08 AM
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I know how it sounds believe me I do. If I told you everything you'd think I'm crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:53 PM
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Yes not her face or tits 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:11 PM

Sounds like she might not understand social cues I think she's autistic so probably. I'd if she doesn't consider those she dates as friends she might pick bad men. Without getting to deep into the weeds of my opinion and observation about her. I'll say your perspective and mine aren't that dissimilar. I just didn't want to say to much because it's personal to her situation and it would sound like bitter whinning and shit talking on my end. I could be pedestalizing her but I don't think I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:10 PM
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People are hopefully friends with those they date She has also told me several times that she doesn't date friends. Having female friends isn't a bad thing, at least. Yeah I don't think it's a bad thing personally. She's cool, we have alot in common, and she's a good cook lol. I don't think it'll help in the gf finding front but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:42 PM
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I think he means on the cusp between Genz and Millennial. Some sources say 1997 is start for Genz so we both just make the cut for Genz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:32 PM
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I already moved the friendship to the more flirtier side of things. I've been subtle, well as subtle as I'm capable of being, and very explicit in some instances. Things have stayed more or less the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:30 PM

she hasn't explicitly told you she's not interested She has explicitly told me she likes me as a friend and doesn't want to ruin that bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:08 PM
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I'm 27 and she's 24
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:04 PM
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there are some women who just do not give a fuck about the simplest social conventions I'm pretty sure she autistic so I think that is the answer. What normal men and women do socially and what she does, are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah the whole thing has been a learning experience. I've never had a girl treat me like this before so naturally I thought she's intrested. But then after learning more about her and just actually asking her outright the answer is no she isn't interested in me that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:59 PM
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How do you get to the point where she knows you like her, doesn't reciprocate, and gives you a key to her place? I don't know Is your flirting so bad that she doesn't know you like her, I am bad at flirting but that's not the issue here. Let's just say my attraction to her is very known. are you bad at reading signals and she wants you to make a move I am bad at reading signals but in this case I don't believe that's what's happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:51 PM
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So she trusts you so much that she gives you a spare key to her apartment but she doesn't wanna do anything romantically? Correct If that's the case then I'm pretty sure it's your looks, you're not attractive enough I am aware of that lol Maybe you're too skinny or too fat, so hit the gym. If you're balding you have to get a hair transplant as soon as possible. Lol I have long hair and I'm skinny. If women have any issue how I look (which I know they do), it's probably that I'm not muscular. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:49 PM
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Letting you eat dinner at her place with her? Or “you have a key, you can put yourself a plate of leftovers while I’m out”? I had a bus card I wasn't using and she asked she could have it. I said sure and she mentioned she was cooking something and asked if I wanted any. I said yeah and left home. When I got there she said she didn't have any plastic containers and asked if I wanted to eat it there. I said sure and eat the food there. Anyway regardless, have you had any really spiritual or deep …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:44 PM
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She likes me as a friend and wouldn't want to destroy that bond, her words. Also I'm not 90% she seeing someone causally. I mostly think about other girls to ask out. Eh, next year I should try getting closer to classmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:18 PM

On hand I'm happy that I've gotten to the point where a woman feels comfortable enough with me to bring up giving me a spare key to her apartment, and let me eat dinner at her place. But on the other hand this hasn't gotten me any closer into a relationship. I value the friendship and my social life has improved from the state it was in before even a half a year ago. But still romance and sex alludes me, it's frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:08 PM
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It's reddit thing. The site is mostly populated by middle and upper middle class liberals. Even this sub is going to be well to do people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:37 PM
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I'm from the moderately not bad part of the ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:29 PM
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As in it's not a big deal it's just the flu. "Oh come on it's just the flu"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:13 PM
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Man you aren't "going crazy" you're already off the deep end. Seriously get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:35 PM
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I think you can only really "enjoy" being single if you have some experience of being in a relationship. Otherwise you don't have any concept of how they differ. Idk it's something I think about whenever people talk about how they lover being single. I don't really have a concept of what being a relationship is like. Sure I've seen some of my sister's relationship but outside of the first two I knew of it didn't seem that bad or that different then her regular life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:34 PM
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Quotes only work on mobile for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:58 PM
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lack of physical touch This is a big one for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:16 PM
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imo attraction/spark can only "grow" if there's something there already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:03 PM
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5/10 I'm a people pleaser
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:00 PM
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How do you keep finding these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:27 PM
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All's good, not good but in the grand scheme of things nothing really changed much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:36 AM
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Longtime no see man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:03 AM
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Observe how other people interact and basically copy their principles. I'm never going to do that personally. But thanks for the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:53 AM
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Q4A How would you suggest someone who has poor social skills and has no game how would you suggest improving both of these? I think the question has obvious answers but I like asking questions with obvious answers. Like how would you know you've improved your social skills? When people say just talk to people do they mean just go and talk random people on the street? If you're messing up some how, how would you figure out how you're messing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:43 AM
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sexual inclusion of men who don't fit the standard definition of beauty, who have any kind of disability, who have any genetic reason why they were not included in the first place. That's not possible you'd have to force women to sleep with men they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:36 AM
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Same with “it only takes one to say yes bro (my friend told me this yesterday).” It doesn't only take one. Logically you probably aren't going to hit it off with the first girl to give you a chance. Anyone who says less is just wrong or lying to you. Most people go through several relationships before they "find their person" or whatever. The chances of you hitting it off with the first one to give her number is very small.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:53 AM
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So then under that logic wouldn't the onis be on broader society to accept the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:37 AM
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Why not just date lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:56 PM
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I get it. Despite being attracted to men and having had sex with one I can't actually see myself marrying and man. I just enjoy the general personality of women more. It's probably why I'm more attracted to them at the end of the day. Though it's not like I'm the voice of all bisexual people. So the answers as to why would probably vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:55 PM

Yeah that's why in the scenario I agree to it. If she's sleeping with me then I assume she's attracted to me so I would say sure. Because I guess she just wasn't sure how serious she wanted the relationship to be. This is of course something I've never experienced before but it's something I'd be open to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:35 PM

Tbf gay men aren’t that much better on that front. The idea that man will leave you for a man or woman is very scary. Also alot of seemingly very progressive women find the idea of their man having sex with another before they met gross and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:31 PM

I thought it was just my account for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:28 PM

Sure why not? Of course things like that don't happen to me but if it did I wouldn't be upset. I suppose if it was years later and she was in a worse place and seemingly just came back to me after running out of options then that would be a different question. I know I'm gonna be settled for but even I have more self respect then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:26 PM
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I think having women as friends can be great for dating in that they can introduce you to their friends. This has never happens to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:14 PM
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Just from personal experience a woman feeling safe with you dosen't mean she'll want to sleep with you or date you. Edit:I think the issue isn't that men haven't tried what your suggested. The problem is that women don't like what you suggest. Instead of trying to convice men of anything you need to talk to the women. They're the road block here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:50 PM
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Women routinely say they feel deceived when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:37 PM
1

Rot and go to work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:27 PM
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Taking account of my academic failure and how I could improve. I think I might have underestimated and overestimated the difficulty of the classes I took. Pre-calc wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be but required alot more memorization and study which is what I falter with. My film class is easy I just wasn't focused enough on it. I never devoted enough time to it and when push came to shove I chose math over it and that costed me. My computer science class was the hardest and most conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:13 PM
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Well I think I should officially write off this semester. I would say I made a good effort but that would be a lie. I made an mediocre effort and got bad results. It's times like these that I wish I could just drop all my classes and wait until next semester to start over again because I'm not passing two my classes and I doubt I'll pass the third one I have to pass. What did I learn? Don't buy parts for and upgrade PC mid semester. Pay closer attention to my schedule and how it's set up. And st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:54 AM
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That's not that uncommon in certain areas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:40 AM
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2-6 I prefer more feminine women but I also like tomboys plenty enough if we click.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:15 AM
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I'd join but I wouldn't be very active. I don't do well in discord servers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:56 AM
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I know and I'm not talking about being hungover. I don't like being buzzed lol. I hate how it feels and I hate how alcohol taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:31 AM
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How? It just feels like shit. It's a personal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:25 AM
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Being buzzed is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:13 AM
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We did in 2015 though I didn't ask anyone to sign mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:12 AM
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The answer is that alot of feminist are atheist and were former christens. From a feminist perspective Lilith is an empowered woman who defined God and Men and decided her own path. In a biblical sense she is the first feminist. Also depending on how into mysticism they are she is the mother of all demons and loves her children. Motherhood is an important part of femininity so it makes sense that a feminist woman would see her as an impowered figure and use her name. I'm not as familiar with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:13 PM
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Maybe I'm crazy but OP never said how women treat the men they expect an apology from. I suppose you can infer that they don't treat those men well or at least not like the gods. But I didn't take it as a extreme as you she did. I also didn't say it was an okay opinion or hateful even. I asked how it was misogyny as I failed to see how it was hatful toward women and how it was looking down on them. I disagree with OP and think that it's a biggeted Idea but I wasn't sure I'd call it misogyny. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:02 PM
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I hate both but I've had more luck looking for a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:03 PM
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Get an escort I do but it's cheaper and I just want skin to skin contact sometimes tbh. Also the website is also for none paid services as that as well. https://youtu.be/OcvaXt-w2zo?feature=shared&t=84 It's crazy how that movie was made in 1999 and the book was written 1994.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:48 PM
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Dating is like looking for a job and I hate looking for work. I hate filling out 30 applications and hearing nothing back. I hate doing that for months and getting nothing for my effort. I hate the process of getting interviewed and still not hearing anything back. The whole process is terrible and nerve racking and I despise it in every way. Just a thought I had after looking at a professional cuddling website and finding that the same dynamics apply there as well. There are far more men then w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:36 PM
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He didn't say anything about them being emotional abusers. He said that they worship Chad's and expect apologies from other men. I didn't think that meant the women were abusing those men. Idk seem like a stretch. in terms you’d understand, “only Chad doesn’t have to walk around on eggshells.” Why did you say that? I don't use chad in any comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:33 PM
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I don’t tolerate random misogyny from friends or even people who are overly negative you can’t have fun with people like that. How was that misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:01 PM
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Oh we're the same age. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:45 AM
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Tonight I am reminded that I need a girlfriend. Man can't keep this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:06 AM
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When men talk about how easy it is for women, I always wonder how many of these women they're just not seeing. I see women like this all the time and normally they're seeing someone. Men notice these women but I would imagine the kind of men who regularly hit on women aren't hitting on them because they aren't approachable. It's not that they're invisible they just seem standoffish, not fun, or they don't respond to normal flirting cues. Guys clock them as unavailable and go after other girls. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:26 AM
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Yup though to be fair I haven't been in a relationship of any kind since.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:41 AM
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Yeah sorry I honestly try not to talk about her these days. If it was me two years ago I probably would have mention her in a heart beat as she was still constantly on my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:27 AM
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I guess I have. I not sure I told this story on here but I'll shorten it. Basically I was obsessed with this girl in high-school. We were friends of friends and we would flirt ok occasion and I would put my hand up her shirt during gym. I developed a crush on her and my friend convinced me to ask her out because he said she liked me. So I asked her out but turns out she was seeing someone so she rejected me. We still talked and flirted and she would sit on my lap. Her relationship did eventually…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:20 AM
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Most guys are just talking about the step of getting someone attracted to them which is one of the hardest parts I always look at it like steps. I'm stuck on step 1 finding women that are attracted to me. Alot of dating advice sort of focuses on maintaining a relationship or finding a healthy one. I'm just trying to get into one in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:54 AM
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It’s not that hard to be have some attraction with someone else. Speak for yourself. Finding women attracted to me is extremely difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:39 AM
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Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:12 AM
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Ohhh I don't think they aren't able to name them I just think it's rare for them to do so ime. I'm sure they do so all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:22 AM

it’s not lol. “tall, dark and handsome” is quite a popular trope. same with comments of “he’s so tall 😍” I meant that it's an expectation as in it's one of the rare things women will out right name. all it took was a 5 second reddit search of “favorite part of the male body” to have my suspicions confirmed… Yeah I've read those threads. It's still difficult to find those answers when you aren't explicity looking for it. okay, you’ve answered your own question then, no? Yeah I answered it for mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:27 PM

i mean, male height counts, as a sexually dimorphic physical trait. and ime, women are plenty open about their love of it, but apparently that’s controversial True but that's rare another popular one is v lines, veiny forearms I almost never see those talked about. it’s really not that hard to find. It is, if you a man and you don't spend time in female spaces you will never hear any of those things talked about. It's really rare to find women say they like v lines. Have I seen it? Yes but is it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:01 PM

a straight woman should be able to point to specific aspects of a male body that she finds attractive. if she can’t, odds are she’s not straight. Honestly it's difficult to find straight, or bisexual women for that matter, who can point to specific aspects of men they find attractive. I remember hunting around for instances of women talking about what aspects of men's physical body they like. More often then not they'll just ignore the physical aspect entirely and just start talking about person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:32 PM
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I mean yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:45 PM

D size only matter after they agree to sleep with you. You aren't gonna get laid by just telling women you have a big dick that only works on gay guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:41 PM
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It's from a movie and that's a woman he kidnapped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:21 PM
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Depending on who you are it'll help, though personally it hasn't been a permanent solution. I'd still prefer a gf but I tend to hype fixate less on the problem after sex. Like it's not mind blowing but there's a sort of calming effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:12 PM
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I think the only real answer outside of get lucky is pay for play which is expensive but what you gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:03 PM
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Does it feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:49 PM
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If yes, gonna let her know or nah? I'd feel bad about secretly doing it so yeah I'd tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:37 PM
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You know what's funny I haven't heard of LA devotee because I stopped listing after Vices-virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:08 PM
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I'd go with rock in general. My musical awaking was guitar hero 3 and before that the only music I liked was video sound tracks. The environment I grew up in was mostly RnB, and Hip-Hop which I don't have alot of interest in. When I was younger I listened to alot Paramore, Foo Fighters, Rage Against the Machine, Rise against, Linkin park, POD (which I didn't know was a christian rock band), Crush 40, Boom Satellites, Panic at the disco. I do listen to other things. Like I got really into vocaloi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:55 PM
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q4all: what’s something that makes you happy ? Discovering new songs makes me happy. Music really is one those things that helps me get through my life and if me saw me in the wild I'm probably listing to some song.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:36 PM
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I get what you mean man. Personally I'm aware I'll settled for I've basically just learned to accept it. I'm at the point mentally where I'd take being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:22 PM
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That would leave alot of unmarried men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:18 PM
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Okay I never argued against any of that. I just said men don't argue in favor of no fault divorce and the idea of getting rid of it wouldn't bother them. Admittedly maybe if they thought about it they'd be against getting rid of it. But most mens gut reaction to it is women leaving men for quite literally any reason. From abusive spouse to pure boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:27 PM
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Sounds bad but generally I see red pillers complain about no fault divorce not champion it. Also a lot of men stick around in sexless marriages I think most men just strug their shoulder and stay in unhappy marriages. I could be wrong but I don't think men benefit from no fault divorce as much as women or at least they don't use it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:11 PM
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Enjoy the end of no fault divorce. I'm not sure why that would upset a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:04 PM
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Q4All do you actively read body language and social cues. What I mean by actively is purposely looking for soical cues or changes in body language. This will come as no surprise but I don't. In fact I'm not really aware of body language or social cues. There has been rare instances of me picking up on either but those are few and far between. The only thing I'm sure of is when someone isn't interested in what I'm saying but that's it and that's from years of me speaking about my interest and peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:46 AM
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Okay but do you meet friends of friends at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:14 AM
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I know though it's never happened irl so I'm not worried about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:51 AM
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If there's one thing you can say about me I certainly am emotionally available. I'm very ready and willing to give my heart to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:20 AM
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Never heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:16 AM
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I would say she's above average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/f0ygocemc44e1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b33af1514f4bf1246f0798deae4b4b5ec616410 There are just the most average people I could find without just going on Instagram which would honestly be better but just posting random Instagram users seem worse then post random redditor I found on truerate me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:55 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/lyccjsl9c44e1.png?width=1244&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ff2438ba9dc779a57f376cc10ace666504b47a33 I would personally say this girl is cute but I recognize people would say more in average category
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:54 PM
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But the catch is you have to also be chill for people to want to introduce you to their friends. I don't think the issue is being chill since every person I know would describe me as chill. Still I don't go around getting introduced to friends left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:42 PM
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Then again though, my social skills aren't great and most people who don't know me well seem to be put off by me for some reason. I think it's just a "weird filter" basically. If you're off or different in someway normies tend to just pick on that. You can either end up in the "fun weird" camp or the "bad weird" camp. I have sort of a similar effect on people and it's caused me trouble growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:39 PM
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Can you think of any reason why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:26 PM
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What is an active friend group? I’ve met my friends friends at house parties, bbq’s, service industry events, bars, etc. I don't get invited to things and like I said I've only know one guy who "puts stuff together". I'm not saying they don't have other friends but I've never met them. I have three friends I would consider family at this point and I have never met their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:54 PM
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Assholes don't want to fight me and I'm good at deescalating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:38 PM
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No and I'm not bothered that they won't as they would never have to as I don't get into fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:07 PM
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It's really just all the same benefits as a male friend except maybe you'll talk about your feelings occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:15 PM

For men who are romantically or sexually unsuccessful assuming you have friends how often would you say you are introduced to their friends? Orginally this question was going to be how many female friends has you're female friend introduced you to but I realized this can extend to male friends as well. In this instance romantically unsuccessful means difficulty forming romantic or sexual relationships. So you either don't get likes on dating apps or you get maybe one a month. You either are a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:15 AM

Thanks I don't get complimented about my voice really.ToraDora really is amazing I wish more new gen anime fans would watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:38 AM

https://voca.ro/1o3i7W8BJXyp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:58 AM
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I'm fine now. I've been in a bit of a bad head space emotionally lately which is in part why I stopped commenting. But at this moment I'm okay. I've saw an escort (well stripper) the experience was nothing to right home about but I got touch a woman sexually so that's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:20 AM

I hope those women are in court themselves because that should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:10 PM
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He's also extremely rich
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:06 PM
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I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:25 AM
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I know he's actually hot I thought he'd be average looking at least lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:56 AM
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It's cool these sort of feelings come and go like the tide. I make it through them every couple months I can make it through them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:52 AM
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I have what amounts to an audio journal and I made an entry a week ago talking about how I think I'll die alone. And how despite I have this internal desire for companionship that I feel powerless to fulfill and how I can't talk about this with anyone else because they don't understand what I'm going through. I can write about it just fine but when I say the words to myself I tend to breakdown. This afternoon was because of the same reasons. They just got brought to the front of my mind because …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah I cried a week ago, and I felt like crying this afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:04 AM
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True but I meant irl. Online is the only place I meet single, desperate, and lonely people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:53 AM
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You're misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not saying being fat doesn't effect how much success you have dating I'm saying that from looking around my life it seems like everyman manages to find a partner no matter what they look like but me. Maybe they have difficulties dating but they are dating unlike me. Now logically having "x" trait will lower your odds but for some reason everyone else beats the odds some how or to put another way. Every fat person I know is partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:48 AM
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I like stick insects but also chubby women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:04 AM
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Also, nothing stings more than being branded as a long term relationship material but still haven’t been in any form of long term relationship. Tell me about it. The "you're so lovely you'd be such a catch to marry" attitude when you havnt had a long term relationship or havnt been in one in years stings a lot. It really reinforces that you are the person people "settle" for feeling and it makes me feel resentful of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:47 AM
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I could care less if she has a healthy BMI I don't have obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:34 AM
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Or she was lonely or drunk or had low self esteem and wanted to be liked. Personally I would be very happy if a woman had sex with me for any of those reasons. But I'm approaching this from a different angle so that makes sense. not because she’s pining for someone she knew years ago. Some do but I have no idea how common it is. It’s this fever dream that some men insist is real and common. Seriously, it’s not a thing 99.9% of the time. I don't have enough faith in female sexuality, or just huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:32 AM
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It the idea that both guys aren't getting equal treatment. The guy she regrets got to have adventures wield lustful sex and the guy she loves get boring routine sex. Also alot of men feel like they're wives and gf's don't desire them. If asked they might say they feel loved but not sexually desired. The guy she regrets is sexually desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:05 AM
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This might be too woe-is-me so I understand if the mods delete it but one of the overwhelming feelings I get is this sense that other men don't have these problems. Nearly every guy I know is either in a relationship or able to date with comparative ease. Sex and dating aren't really a worry for them. Then add to that getting rejected and finding out that she got into a relationship the next week or month. And I get this overwhelming feeling it seems like every other guys but me is considered at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 11:10 PM
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I don't reconsider our relationship but I readjust my opinion of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:55 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:36 PM
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8
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:35 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:46 PM
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I mean there's more to it then talking to them like normal people. Even I can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:15 AM
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Weird is an understatement it was terrible. I don't hate a lot people, three people in total, but I hate that kid to this very day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:58 AM
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By a stranger? no but I'm male that's to be expected. But when I was a kid, i.e. 3rd to 6th grade, there was an older boy at my school who would constantly make sexual comments at me and squeeze my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:52 AM
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Oh well thanks I guess. I've never been in a muti year relationship so that's good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:49 AM
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Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:28 AM
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I am? There's not anxiety or fear or whatever it's just resignation with sprinkle of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:24 AM
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27 turning 28 soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:10 AM
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You don't have to bite and yeah I like my life well enough. Suppose it could be better but that's everything. You take it all one day at a time you. If so, what does it look like? Life I guess? Idk, I eat, sleep, work, go to class, talk to friends, listen to some audiobooks and play some games. Try out some new stuff. Sometimes I go hiking and roller skating. You know life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:08 AM
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I'm just not desirable and I don't feel like running the infinite "self-improvement" race to become such. If some woman decides to date me it'll be because I'm okay guy who doesn't fly off the handle and is stable. I seem nice and sweet so I'm very much the "gets settled for when after all the fun is had" type. That's if I get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:02 AM

Find a woman who desires you and you don’t ever have to worry about being left behind. I think I would win the lottery before that. I'm being settled for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:51 AM

I don't hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:34 AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vh0hj9ZD9FY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iHr5tJhTgA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:25 AM

Personal rating is a 6 but I think women would say higher maybe after getting to know you. I agree with hoemath that women basically view all men as 5 and below until they get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:21 AM

Wow I could have written this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:50 PM
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But moral character has nothing to do with how actually attractive someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:12 PM
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Honestly, this is good news! I feel like others women would disagree with you since they're always complaining about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:38 PM
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That mental virgin guy would probably say so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:33 PM
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How do you people get so many messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:24 PM
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No it hasn't. Very few people men or women actually participate in hookup culture ev everyone just thinks everyone else is partaking in hookup culture. People keep complaining about hookup culture but it's not causing anything if anything it's the perception that we live in a hookup culture that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:44 PM
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Things were bad before the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:39 PM
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"I know women who have given up on marriage & dating" The interesting bit is that the women who have given up on marriage and dating probably aren't doing so because of the lonely men. They're doing so because the men they're currently dating and fucking aren't meeting their standards. Got noting to do with the men who can't get a date in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:29 PM
1

Shame
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:30 PM
1

Will I have sex in December?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:26 PM
2

Yeah it's crazy we had weeks without rain around here but now we got two days straight of rain and random snow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:18 PM
2

No he's right people prefer women in customer service roles. All our new heirs at my store for instance are women maybe we'll get three or four new guys a year but they never stay long. It's just that the job market is very tough .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:17 PM
1

That's normal a friend of mine has been trying for months now and hasn't found a position. She's had some interviews but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:15 PM
1

You're right but it's a sizable chunk and as far as I know that chunk doesn't have higher chance of finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:52 AM
1

I think people would describe me as such. Well the women would anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:44 AM
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If being raised by women did me any good romantically I'd actually have a girlfriend. Actually since alot of men in the US have been raised by single mothers the last three decades are proof being raised by women doesn't increase your desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:40 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:12 AM

Those cases are definitely unfortunate, but they're not common enough to fear men who approach in a public place. You can also get shot as an innocent bystander, but that doesn't mean you should fear going outside. For alot of women on reddit as long as there's even a 1% chance of a guy overreacting they feel like they have to do things like this. It's why they choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:52 AM

anorexic girls What parts of twitter do you go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:49 AM

so I don't know why people always show short men with GF's going "Look! Look! He has a GF! Seems like height isn't your guys' problem 🤭" as some sort of gotcha or proof. People don't have a proper understanding of statics. If I say something is highly improbable you'll have a hundred people telling me about their friend or cousin who manage to do it. I think this is why people play the lottery. They see a few people win and actually think "That could be me".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:47 AM

Where do you live that this is "a little above average "? This is bait gg man gg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:40 AM

That seems dumb honestly. I don't think alot of guys actually care if a girls gives it up as a ons, or in a few weeks or months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:30 AM

Masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:27 AM

That's not a "normal" nerdy girl, that's a model wearing glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:26 AM

Looking on the brightside of this year I've gotten used to talking to and touching women, well a woman but whatever same difference. I can't think of a better way to say it. But if I do ever go on date I shouldn't be to afraid to touch her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:53 PM

I mean if they just slowly poison the men they can make it seem like he died in his sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:50 PM

Or kik or telegram
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:23 PM

I had a Tumblr just for art but sfw and NSFW. I also followed a few e-girls because titties. I never posted anything I just scrolled and looked .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:15 PM
1

Yes and so do Jamaican women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:09 PM
1

I have now been inside two girls rooms. That's not much of am accomplishment but it's more then zero and one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:03 PM
1

Come to America there are alot of those over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:00 PM
1

Hey man it's hard out for there straight none pedo ex roblox devs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:55 PM

One lives in California and is aromantic (and I suspect asexual) and the other isn't interested in me in that way. I know I've asked and we've talked about it. Besides we hang out together already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:58 PM

Honestly the more time I spend with women platonically the more it makes me want a gf or some kind of female sexual companion. I'm not picky about weather it's a gf, or fwb just someone to spend time with who I also have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:39 PM

Key word there is friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:25 PM
1

Personally I'm pretty used to it just doesn't leave me alot of time to do things consistently. I can't do something every Sunday because sometimes I work Sunday. It's annoying I could find time to date but not find the time to do any activity that might help me meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:49 PM
2

I think alot of my life problems would be solved with more money and an consistent schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:40 PM
3

I doubt it matters since it's not like those women would date those men anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:24 PM
1

Having known and spoken candidly to a decent of sex workers they all seem to be very short sighted. They want money and they want it now. They don't want to save up money, or get a shitty wagy job since that would be to much work and take to much time. So they sell nudes to make money and make it quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:39 AM
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Nah, there are women I want to see naked and it's not good enough to see a similar woman naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:28 AM
1

How could you buy into the idea they personally care about you? This is an oddly common misconception. While yes the whales usually have a parasocial relationship with girls, the majority of clients know that models don't care about them. It's a job to them and a job to clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:27 AM
1

Nah I don't mind it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:20 AM
2

Stop being shy. You can not male and shy. It doesn't fit women's idea of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:30 AM
1

Those odds are so shit you'd have better luck at the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:18 AM
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He could of had sex with 3 of them but chose not to. That said 20 dates out of 950 is horrible odds and this man is attractive I'm not sure what that says for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:22 AM
1

Yes I would obviously take that offer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:49 AM
2

A
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:47 AM
1

I'm a people pleaser and doing good deeds makes me feel good inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:47 AM
1

You just aren't degen enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:56 PM
1

If it makes you feel any better having a big dick doesn't magically make women want to fuck you. It only matters if you can attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:53 PM
1

I guess that sub is the opposite of the BNWO sub. It's just a raceplay sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:51 PM
1

I agree with you up until the end. I've long believed that outcast men and women should build our own spaces. The spaces can be mixed gendered but I think it's important that outcast take care of our own. The rest of the world won't take care of us or care about us but that doesn't mean we can't look out for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:14 PM
1

You could also just not use sexual success or lack there of as a means to insult people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:59 PM
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The term has been watered down to the point where it just means misogynist to most people. It's the replacement for virgin neckbeard for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:37 PM
2

Or a 25 year old woman, slightly overweight and average at best, but an amazing personality, thinks that women should be subservient to men. This one sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:23 PM
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I sometimes wonder if there's something wrong with me and every other person knows about it but doesn't want to tell me. Like it's not so bad that people won't work with me, talk to me, or joke around with me. But if I try to make plans to do other things it always seems like I'm given the run around. It would explain things or maybe I'm justing trying with the wrong people, at the wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:40 PM
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He said he'd barely crack 20 before. We went from doing great to doing amazing I never tell people to give up but if someone told me they're going on dates and having sex then giving up makes even less sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:55 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:47 PM

You know that's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:13 PM
1

Please stop asking why women don't approach men. The question has been asked a million times and the answers are always the same. What is knowing the answer going to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:43 PM

That post is talking about women who do both b/g and g/g which is not what you said. A woman who exclusively dose lesbian porn is making a specific decision to only sleep with women for her job. Now there could be psychological or financial reasons why she's making that chose but first I would need to be told them and then I would have to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:27 PM

I can't tell if that's a joke or not. If it's not then I would say purposely only doing scenes with women is gay as shit and imo shows a preference for women overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:20 PM

No because she's probably gay. I've seen women talk alot about how they prefer women but are dating a man and it always sounds fucking horrible. I'm not putting myself through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:14 PM
1

Yes I do all these things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:40 AM
1

How isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:56 AM
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He was convicted but spared prison time and now he is engaged to Meagan Good, who got with him while he was in middle of this scandal. Why would a rich and powerful man harming a presumably wealthy woman, not getting no jail time and then getting engaged to another presumably wealthy woman be a win for team men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:03 PM
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I think training and running a marathon would be very doable for me. It would be difficult with the asthma but doable. Dating requires another person which is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:25 PM
1

I am the best version of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:23 PM
1

How do they find them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:32 AM
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Gonna start saying “must just be choosing wrong 🤷‍♀️” #womeninmalefields I didn't say that and I would be completely fine with you saying that to a guy. I told a male friend of mine something similar years ago. That said I'm more expressing confusion a out how anyone of you run into these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:45 AM
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Become master manipulating top tier man. Why do I have to manipulate them? I mean a women with low self-esteem shouldn't actually have to be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:43 AM
1

Sadly I'm only black 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:12 AM
1

Okay but where specifically??? If these women are so easy why can't I find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:07 AM
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Eh, I think she's above average looking. I didn't know some people thought she was really pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:05 AM
1

Then masculinity is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:57 AM
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Another one on the list of things I've never seen a man do or say. Not saying it doesn't happen but I do wonder where these ladies find these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 AM
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I'm not sure maybe not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:50 AM
2

I watched Megalopolis Shia lebouf doesn't shave his pubes, Audry Plaza has nice tits, and Nathaile Emmanuel is very cute. Oh and the movie was almost incoherent and the dialogue was shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:41 AM
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Sarai seem responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:42 AM
1

Me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:41 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/g6XbnImHSM He means rob in the business sense and to be fair anyone charging +1000 for a 30min platonic meeting is scamming you because there is no sexual service worth that much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:11 AM
1

Yeah no I'm not get fucked in jail to impress some woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:56 PM
1

Yeah no I'm not get fucked in jail to impress some woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:56 PM

That's why I never wear white
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:11 PM
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Yeah, women can become downright creepy sex offenders or total simps for men they feel truly attracted to. I've only seen this once every other woman I know is some variation of asexual. Some will be very willing to talk about their sex lives but show no interest in having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:32 PM

I really don't get it either. I think black or brown hair is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:27 PM
2

Can women match men in their intensity? It seem really rare to find a woman that matches men sexual intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:44 PM
1

The first guy maybe because he probably had a lot of rage built up while the second guy has a lot of anger but releases it everyday abusing random people. Though the second guy is morally worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:42 PM

They both have 10 fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:02 PM

She's obviously overreacting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:00 PM

but hes dating someone else healthy bmi also blond I mean she's less attractive then the girl in the video but still attractive and in great shape. So still good for him and they've been together for 10 years so even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:59 PM

I don't care about blonds so that means nothing to me but if you mean that girl at the start then yeah she's attractive. Congrats to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:44 PM

I'll say maybe in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:41 PM

Solid 4, he needs to lose weight. Honestly he has nice style and takes good photos. If he lost weight I'd say he'd be a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:37 PM
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You can't be stacy widowed if you've never been with a Stacy. Most men have never been with either a extremely attractive or extremely sexual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:29 AM
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That's something I've really been realizing. I think on some level they're aware of it but they don't really internalize it. It's like they'd actually have to grow up male or have very close male relatives or friends to fully get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:08 AM
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I went back to school and enough of my credits didn't transfer over for me to get out of taking the class. Depending on the school you can test out of certain classes or just have credits in certain classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:41 AM
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well good on you for going back Lol it felt more like I was pestered to go back with everyone asking me if I was. But it's been fine experience. i hope the circumstances that are causing frustration lift for you soon Idk, I hope they do as well. I doubt they will but I hope they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:38 AM
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I need to study for my pre-calc class and my major is mechanical engineering. I dropped out three years ago and then went back for my associates. I don't talk about school that often so it's not surprising you didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:31 AM
2

Congrats man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:18 AM
1

I've been annoyed and frustrated and annoyed these last few days. I'm just playing moonlighter and then studying afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:18 AM
1

Okay you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:53 AM
1

Yeah that's the point? It's an open ended question for open personally answers. What do you or anyone mean when they say "perosnality" when it comes to dating? The question is a tad ambiguous because the word is kinda ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:28 AM
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It's also a word that has a definition that theoretically you should be able to define.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:25 AM
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the personality type it describes I don't actually
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:23 AM
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That doesn't make them not buzzwords. You didn't give a definition you just listed a bunch of traits and threw them out as "personality" without defining what "personality" even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:22 AM
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I was looking for an definitive definition and not just a bunch buzzwords. I think I get what she's trying to say so I won't complain to much but it doesn't really answer my question well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:20 AM
1

When people talk about personality in dating advice what do they mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:07 AM
1

Yeah it's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:40 AM
6

It's crazy how many men I see people say are sub 5 or just plain unattractive and I think the guy is just normal looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:36 AM
1

She doesn't have a 6 face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:55 PM
1

A
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:53 PM
1

Ugh I feel old somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:24 PM
1

How long ago was all of that? It feels like it's only been 3 or 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:15 PM
1

Ugly face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:14 PM
1

It's so bizarre how common that is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:51 PM
2

I wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:40 PM
1

5 and a 6 on a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:44 PM
1

While I do think the whole men age like fine wine thing is just a meme. People are more gentle about the looks of older men then older women. As along as you eat you eat healthy and take care of yourself you should be fine for your 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:48 AM
1

You can be desperate but not verbally expresss it. You don't have to type every single thing that comes to your mind. Don't type I would do anything for you unless you've at the very least had sex a few times. I get that you're desperate but you can keep that inside or express it in other ways. Like bringing them flowers on a date or constantly asking them questions about themes. Also you really need to recognize you have a lot of options. None of these girls are "you're last chance". You can af…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:27 AM
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I would normally never say this but it's probably because you're somehow the most desperate man here. You seriously need to ton it down and not beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:13 AM
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A few years ago I used to obsess over the question of why other men were chosen by women but me. It wasn't a nice guy thing I meant just regular guys. I had a few incidents that really ignitioned that insecurity and I was just stuck on this why. Why can other men who are seemingly not better or worse then me get into some kind of relationship but I can't. At somepoint in my thinking I came to the conclusion that asking this question was dumb. At the end of the day I wasn't those guys and realist…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:12 AM
1

You're hot seriously if you're having trouble it not your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:44 PM
1

Do you consume the flesh of children to stay young?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:11 PM

You're not a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:05 PM

Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:59 PM

You're a gay man it's not difficult for you to have a sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:57 PM
1

I feel bad for this lady but how was that guy a incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:39 PM
1

I disagree small boobs are great and besides if you like chubby women they're still soft and squishy which is probably what you were after anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 PM
3

Because he's a bald virgin, it's in his flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:57 PM
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I mean it can still be gross and she just doesn't care. Pussy doesn't taste like sun shine and rainbows either but I'd still go down on a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:29 PM
1

Most men would not date one or want to be linked to one in public because other people will judge him for it, and they will know he’s average since his woman is nothing special to look at. You keep saying this but it seems like this is just how you think because I've never seen a guy express these thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:49 PM
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Those aren’t the women you would notice, No I notice kind of women all the time. Average women aren’t the type that a man would look at and think “I would want to date her” or “I want her to be my gf” or would want to be seen out in public, romantically linked to her. Man I don't know what your smoking but I indeed have those thoughts about "average women". Do you just mean unattractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:42 PM
1

Are people really wearing that just walking down the streets where you live? Most people? No. Some people? Yes. Is it enough is it enough women for me to ask why? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:20 PM
2

Being loved and desired
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:17 PM

I went to my sister's place so my BIL could take a look at my car. I talked to my sister for a bit and during our conversation my coworker came up in conversation. I find it amusing just how many questions she started asking eventhough I made it clear we weren't dating. I guess it makes sense she was being nosey, I am her little brother and this would the second girl I've ever mentioned to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:53 AM

I wonder if genalpha is gonna be more radicalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:45 AM

It would depend on the girl tbh if I would think it's compliant. But my gut reaction to this wasn't immediate distrust. It reeks of mind games and I'm not down for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:50 AM

So what most women I guess? In my experience most women have bfs so I'm not sure I agree with your assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:27 AM

What does an average girl look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:17 AM

I'm happy I could make you cringe I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:47 AM

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:38 AM

Reddit users can't write dialogue to save their lives. I've never read something on reddit and thought that's what a regular person would say, it always sounds fake. I constantly wonder where these people live that everyone they know is so well spoken. No human-being talks like a reddit post and they all sound so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:24 AM

Then why wasn't that your orginal argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:03 AM

So the argument is because you can never know it doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:57 AM
1

That's a British show and male dominated industries can still be very liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:39 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:30 PM
1

I was about to say that might not work even if he gets approval. But I don't know how much the US spends on social security and medicare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:29 PM
2

Do we think it’s plausible within 18 months? No how would he even accomplish that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:14 PM
1

I never minded it though to be fair the last time I did it was 12 years ago. But I never saw the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:48 PM
2

Would there be more or less molestation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:57 PM
1

I’ve always been intrigued by stutters. Like, how does it happen? Why can’t you just say the words in one go? I feel like I should know the answer to these but I don't. Looking it up, it seems like researchers aren't sure. There seems to be evidence that the brains of people are different from those who don't and that there are genes associated with stuttering. So there is evidence that it's genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:36 PM
4

Yeah I was wondering what that tiktok was talking about but maybe this is a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:06 PM
1

Sure but I'd need something to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:34 PM
1

Another human you are in some kind of sexual or romantic relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:14 PM
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Fun fact about me no one asked for but I have a persistent stutter. I've had it since second grade. So all my comments should have little stops and repeating words and sounds to make it more authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:09 PM
1

Sort of? How do you sort of have a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:04 PM
2

No he said, female teen audience. I think he's right too. Avril lavigne has the same audience and most of her songs are about getting into and out of relationships. Female teen angst is very rapped up in boys, dating boys, dating boys who are obviously bad for you, and being kinda toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:49 PM
2

>I think his was blank. No he had a wojak meme for his avatar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:05 PM
2

Yes there are as far as I can tell but there aren't nearly as many.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:01 PM
1

Kids are treated like kids, maybe some teachers are lenient on girls They are there's been studies showing teachers have a biases towards girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:01 PM
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They are not but what if they do is what I'm saying The government would be happy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:58 PM
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but it legitimately does feel like you’re going “What am I missing that everyone else seems to get?!” A lot. I've legit broken down in tears asking myself this question. Like there has to be something wrong with me. It's like every other guy but me is "chosen" and I just want to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:51 AM

My mom dose I think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:39 AM
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I have and it predictably has mixed results. If a guy was having trouble attracting women changing his environment probably won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:45 PM
1

If it makes you feel any better no one will care about that when they're looking at your resume
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:18 PM
1

Hey so do I! What was your mistake ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:00 PM
1

Nope, I was when I was a kid but after around I turned 12 that stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:05 PM
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No? Why would they? There might be a small number of femboys who want to live somekind of trad wife fantasy but other gay men aren't looking to have a "traditional husband".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:14 PM
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I wish my desire for companionship and sex were actually social constructs, that would make them way easier to ignore. Actually I do have an internal desire for a life partner, no one in my life is telling me I need a gf or need to be out having sex. It's just annoying physical and emotional desire, it would also be easier if I was low libido. Being a high libido autistic male is not something I would ever wish on another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:05 PM
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The only people in the daily who predict are some women and red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:30 AM

The physiquecritique is really just a bunch of gay guy complimenting and thirsting after each other. It got to the point where a guy actually censored the bulge in his pants. There's something fastening to me about a non-sexual sub becoming a haven for horny gay dudes looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:35 AM

I don't really think about getting married so it's not something I consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:25 AM

What actions do women do as gas? I'm being serious by the way. I've asked this question a few times with no answers. Maybe it's too obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:23 AM

how do you define "wife material"? Woman who would make a good wife. Or do you think it doesn't exist Yeah it exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:51 AM

Well I'm obviously biased but no it makes no sense to call a petite woman with no curves a child. When people say things like that I wonder of they've ever actually seen children. I've seen enough petite women to know they don't look like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:50 AM

Thanks for the vote of confidence but many women would beg to differ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:21 AM

The post mostly seems odd I suppose. But I never approache things as "I should chase this or that woman". So the idea I shouldn't chase party girls just makes me wonder how many options do you guys think I have lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:10 AM
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No I only hate three people. I'm a very forgiving person and natrually don't have alot of hate in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:55 PM
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Can't this argument be applied to women? If a woman is a dirtbag I'm allowed to be sexist towards her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:43 PM
1

I would get rated by like AI or professional internet autists or something and then look at the faces of opposite sex members who got the same rating Where would I find that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:10 PM
1

Idk I feel arrogant thinking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:09 PM
1

Kinda funny you're black-pilled then. The black pill just makes the most logical sense to me. You know your physical features better than any of us do, and women are more or less into the same things, so if I had to guess I'd still guess you're a shy 6 or 7. Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:08 PM
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Appreciate the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:55 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/9jxT13RdS9
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:46 PM
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or more of a case of you're friends for a while and they like your personality kind of deal? It's this. I'm talking about friends of friends, and a coworker. All I had known for months before it became obvious they were attracted to me. but I know my personality is doing the heavy lifting to attract the girls I'm attracted to. Same there few women into me were seemingly mainly into me because of my personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:43 PM
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Idk something about that feels off. Like there was a hot girl I was flirting with and it was mutual. But using that as a metric seems odd even of it was three women in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:35 PM
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I'm in my late 20's and I have zero game. For me two very attractive women are fucking with that average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:25 PM
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That doesn't help me since they vary in terms of how attractive they are and if I average them out it comes out to 7 or 6 which doesn't feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:16 PM
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Only 4 or 5 women have wanted me. I don't think I have a good sample size and they varied in attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:13 PM
1

How do I determine what my league is? I'm trying to figure out if my standards are to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:08 PM
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If a girl shows interest in me, is single, and I find her slighty attractive then I would ask her out. The only kind of women I really dislike hoodrats and even then that's mainly because my personality just never mixes well with hoodrats. The idea of only going after certain types of women seems kinda odd. Sure if you have the options that makes sense, be picky. But if you don't it just feels like limiting your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:00 PM
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That's true I remember years ago trying to find statistics or news stories about female on female SA and I just couldn't find anything but one news article.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:27 AM
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I go for who's ever interested, party girl or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:54 AM
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i’ve seen it happen to other girls multiple times I've never seen it happen to any girl any time. I'm surprised because it's rare for two people to talk to one another on public transit where I'm from and when they do it's because they knew each other already. As far as I can tell there are no girls being hit on. I can't say it's never happened in human history but I can say I've never seen it in front of my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:53 AM
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Today I came to the conclusion that my initial thoughts were right. Back then I figured that logically speaking it has to happen I had just never seen it. Which lead me to ask why hadn’t I. Which lead me to conclude that it happens in places I don't go or am not invited too. As well as it happens in private between two people. So the answers I got today more or less align with my conclusions. The people who have seen it tend to me the more social party types and expectedly the few who hadn’t see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:22 AM
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When I was around 21 I came to the conclusion I had never seen anyone ask another person out. I found that odd. It made no sense to me. I felt like it should me be very common. So common in fact that even I should have seen it at least once but I hadn’t. I came to a few conclusions after that realization. I was thinking about this today and I figured I'd ask it here. I got about the answers I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:09 AM
1

People doing the snapchat QR code thing I feel like I've seen dozens of times. Never seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:05 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:01 AM
1

I'm not asking if it's happened to you but if you've watched it happen to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:55 AM
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No? Logically I know they do but I've never seen it. So I'm asking if other people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:55 AM
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I don't mean if you've done it. I'm asking if you've seen other people doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:53 AM
1

Where and when?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:26 AM
1

Where do you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:26 AM
1

Yeah but it could be warm I guess as well. Like two people who are aquaintances but aren't really close. Friends of friends, coworkers, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:25 AM
1

Where did you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:18 AM
1

When I was in my early 20's me and a few friends would get together and hangout at my place in my room. All but one of us were single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:18 AM
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Q4A have you seen two people in not in a relationship flirt and exchange contact info? I haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:10 AM

No because I don't think people think on that level at all including politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:08 AM
1

Pms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:06 PM
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For cheating on her boyfriend I would assume. If it's not okay for her to kiss guys it logically shouldn't be okay for her to kiss girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:05 PM
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Nah it's just a break
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:49 PM
1

How far along are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:33 PM
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Yeah that's normal. Women don't magically become attracted to you if you're nice to them. It doesn't matter if you have alterear motives or not. Niceness or kindness doesn’t creat attraction It only adds to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:24 PM
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She don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:02 PM

That's another angle that I don't see discussed as much. While I get women not wanting children. If mass of liberal women just collectively decide to not reproduce that will just leave the conservatives to have kids and pass on their ideology. If that actually does happen then in 20 years the conservatives would just have more political power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:49 PM
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I'm not going on a trip for my birthday anymore since I had to sink money into fixing my PC. So that sucks. Instead my coworker asked if I wanted to go roller skating with her for my birthday. Which was a pleasant surprise since she's never made plans to do anything before. She asked if I wanted invite any other coworkers or friends which I said no to. It would probably be 7 people not counting us two which is to many people imo. Plus the idea of planning a birthday party with her and inviting e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:43 PM

Based on my beliefs and Laissez-faire attitude around sex and relationships I think it would make sense for me to be promiscuous. If you took an extrovert with moderate social skills and remove the neurodivergen he do totally fine romanticly. Might be abit of a hoe but fine. A moderator of incel.co said that there are two types of incels. The first type is the traditional conservative guy who wants a family and traditional marriage. He's upset about the state of dating and hates what society has…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:07 PM
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Does anyone actually care about passing on their legacy when it comes to last names Alittle but not by much. My dad had a son before he met my mother so the brother I never met will probably take care of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:41 PM
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Ah then no, I'm to poor you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:39 PM
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Try and avoid “woe is me” content and you should be ok. I try to avoid it. Though one of my recent comments got removed for that and I'm not sure it why? All I did was ask Blackpillers and PurplePiller how many women they had approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:38 PM
2

Should I stop using the sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:03 PM
1

Do you mean the website?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:00 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:59 PM
1

Something with girls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:03 AM
1

I'll look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:28 AM
1

Is it easy to learn? Is there a good way to learn it without lessons?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:16 AM
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Are there any hobby groups I can drop in on when I have the free time? I keep trying to do the "pick up a new hobby" dating advice but room into the problem of either not having enough time or having it a packed week between work and school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:03 AM

I'm not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:38 PM

Women with small boobs and flat chest should wear more open tops and deep v-necks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:01 PM

Exactly we agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:49 PM

wear V-necks without looking sexual. I hate to burst your bubble but flat women in v-necks are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:48 PM
5

larping what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:12 PM
3

Well yeah I think of actual dads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:32 PM
1

>If you're single, do you expect to meet a person who shares your political beliefs? No not really >Do you think that person is out there? Sure but I don't expect to meet them >And would you settle for someone who had opposing beliefs to you? I wouldn't call it settling since I wouldn't care if we didn't share political beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:27 PM
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Yes no further explanation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah it was abit if a learning experience for me as well. I've encountered plenty of women who actively didn't like me and ones who just wasn't attracted to me. But I didn't have as much experience with women who seemed like they were into me, acted completely different to 99% of the women I've ever known but was still seemingly not into me. It was a bit of a mind fuck at the start. But I've adjusted and I do have new "women who arent attracted to me" indicators so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:27 PM
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I like helping people, and I like helping her. Besides I like spending time with her and she likes spending time with me so it feels fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:45 PM
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She's made it very clear she doesn't date friends, and last night telling me about how she hopes I find love. I understood the implied not with her in the statement. After knowing her for a little over six months I feel confident saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:32 PM
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The other day I was talking to an online friend of mine about a cowoker I'm pretty close too. She was confused about how my coworker didn't have any feelings for me. She seemed to assume that if I was doing things for a girl, talking regularly, and the girl was sharing lots of details about her life with me that natrually it meant the girl was attracted to me. This is the second time we've had this conversation and she guinually doesn't get it. I chalk it up to her being young and inexperienced …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:22 PM
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I wouldn't do that unless she's a good friend honestly otherwise she'd just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:19 PM
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Idk man, fucked up teeth, maybe an std or two. That's a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:56 AM
1

Any STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:43 AM
1

I was with you until you said fucked up teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:16 AM
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Not close enough to my extended family for that to be a thing and my immediate isn't setting anything up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:10 AM
2

What are your policies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:07 AM
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Work has been hit or miss. Mostly miss honestly, I did have my first date with a cowoker but she's not really into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:46 AM
2

I've tried discord channels and I'm never active in them. It's difficult in get involved or insert myself into the ongoing conversations. I still join some occasionally but the results are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:29 AM
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I would say cold though to be fair I don't do well in bars or clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:15 AM
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The only way for me to meet women is to cold approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:00 AM

Seeing that room would just make me like her even more honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:48 PM

It's funny how many users are in disbelief about him being a virgin. Like people can't believe he can just be a virgin not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:10 PM

I don't want to just ask men as a whole since red pillers will just skew the results since they're the most likely to shotgun approach alot of women. Yes spouses and gfs don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:03 PM

I count bars and clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:51 PM

I asked out a girl this year
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:51 PM

Q4 Black pilled and purple pilled men Not counting dating apps how many women have you approached and/or asked out on a date this year? The answer doesn't have to be a definite number it can be a rough estimate. Approaching women at bars and clubs count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:47 PM
1

But I buy things with money seems like a pretty cool illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:18 PM
1

Nah pay me with money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:45 PM
1

How much will you pay me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:43 PM
1

I'm honestly just confused about the 4B thing. I'm not sure what it's trying to accomplish politically. I can't really see American politicians caring about this, and I personally know it doesn't effect me. I could see it effecting other more sexually successful men but I imagine it's mainly going to effect liberal men which seems counter productive. Yes people keep saying that they're are conservative men who have causal sex and I agree there are but I'm not convinced there's a large enough seg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:20 PM
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So why do women in the 4B movement think that abstinence from sex is some kind of protest? I have no idea. I guess the idea of abstaining from sex, marriage, families is so terrible that it can be seen as a protest. Idk no matter how it's explained to me I've wondered why politicians should care. I've just started to dismiss it as normie bs that I largely shouldn't pay attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:17 AM
1

Honestly from demographics I feel like I should theoretical run into more of thse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:58 PM
4

A thought I have whenever the conversion about bad boys and fuck boys come up is where are these guys finding these women. Whenever some dude talks about it seems like women are attracted to toxic men who abuse them. A common rebuttal is that these men only attract terrible women with low self-esteem who are easily manipulated. Where these men finding these women? Why can they apprantly find them so easily? Why can't I find these women? Can I attract them by not being terrible? Why is it that so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:54 PM
2

To hot bro, to hot she's probably toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:46 PM
1

It is the most wonderful time of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:57 PM
1

Green
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:57 PM
1

Obviously the guy who get chased after by the popular girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:54 PM
1

Hmm interesting the women I've always been drawn to have either been older or younger then me. My ex was a year younger then me, the girl I was obsessed with for most of my life was two years older then me, the last three girls I had a crush on were 18, 19, and 33 respectively. The current girl I'm interested is 23 and I'm 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:16 PM

Or gals I like gals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:09 PM

People keep saying that theirs this large amount of conservative men and liberal women fucking each other and I've yet to see any proof of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:53 PM

She went up in height each bf and married the tallest one lol. How didn't she notice that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:46 PM
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A better example would be women who think men should have more female friends but won't date a man with females. Many such cases unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:24 PM
1

who is a woman you look up to that you’re not related to?” No body I don't look up to any man or woman. Is that better or worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:20 PM
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i don't understand their obsession with not fucking certain guys based on whatever the fuck. It's the power they have and only thing they can do. Dating and sex might genuinely be what most of their decisions are based on. Plus they, probably, have the option to disqualify a guys for any tiny thing because they have options. It's just an extension of women being picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:18 PM
1

Not all ban are IP ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:37 PM
2

Couldn't my dad died when I was three and my mom never remarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:36 PM
1

Redsand is a bottom so it's the otherway around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:34 PM
2

What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:32 PM
2

It's not dickpill. It's blackmail and extortion pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:27 PM
1

Bethany everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:50 AM
1

Dame looks like it's over for me 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:46 AM
2

If she isn't dating him how would he prove he's dateable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:56 PM
3

Isn't that abit unfair? Who hasn't violated the Geneva convention at least once?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:46 PM
0

Q4W what makes a man undateable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:41 PM
1

Works 90% everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:57 PM
0

Depends on the person. I don't feel comfortable in bars and clubs if I wanted to relax outside I'd hike or go to a book store.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:46 PM
2

I don't find this funny? I guess the joke is that it's relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:55 PM
1

Yes she does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:54 PM
1

How is it a curse?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:49 PM
4

I'd personally doubt that. I've had several female coworker ask a similar question and be surprised and none of them have set me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:48 PM
1

I have ADHD and I haven't been tested for Autism. Though people online keep saying I might be Autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 PM
1

Work, pick up my mom from the train station, and do homework. Also be horny but I'm like that everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:20 PM
3

I hope by next year people calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:46 AM
1

Cat I don't think Twox users are going through a phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:44 AM
3

Fuentes is a neo nazi and presumably those are other neo nazis. This might be a scary but there are probably enough racist and sexist in the world to get that to 30k likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:38 AM
2

Yeah it would
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:24 AM
1

Ugh but it's all so boring I don't know why people care about it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:23 AM
1

I don't really keep track of pop culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:12 AM
4

Lies! If voting for Kamala made me hot I'd have a gf by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:46 AM
2

I don't think these women are that attractive honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:02 AM
1

This is going to go on for months not days. Alternately they'll move on to something else politically if something big happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:59 AM
3

Get lucky and find a woman or group of women who like you. I don't mean attracted to you I just mean think your an okay guy. Be extremely helpful to them in general. Now they trust you and like you and think you're useful. Now you need to get lucky and get along really well with one of these women. Ask her for her number and text her on occasion. The next requires is more luck but basically invite her to do stuff and eventually she might hug you. This will take a lot of trail and error and proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:40 AM
2

Because that can easily be explained by the trends that was already happening in south Korea. I'm not saying that birth rates aren't falling I'm saying that what you're telling me would be expected regardless of if the 4B's movement existed or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:15 AM
2

Still nothing huh. Honestly I figured you'd have gotten somewhere from height alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:02 AM
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Idk I'm still skeptical. I'm not convinced the average Korean woman knows what the 4B's movement is. This could just be all the other trends just worsening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:53 AM
3

They normally have blockers between the stalls so unless someone intentionally looks over your eyes aren't going to see any dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:51 AM
2

One day this'll work. Ever try going for 5'0 latinas?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:50 AM
6

Seen several articles about the drastic drop in babies That's been happening for the last 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:48 AM
3

Ban alcohol If prohibition becomes a thing again America might actually be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:47 AM
1

You're probably right though I feel like I have alot of genral knowledge. Though my issue is that I don't have knowledge about things most people care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:11 AM
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Doubt it, I didn't even vote for him so really I just hope he doesn't fuck up the country to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:48 AM
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You also might be bad at faking interest. Idk I've been told I'm a good listener so I don’t think that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:19 AM
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I wish I was enjoying my self
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:12 AM
1

Oh you mean feigning interest yeah I do that and it doesn't do much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:10 AM
1

What is a feigned option? you need to get better at asking leading questions. I've been trying to get better at that for 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:02 AM
2

I try that as well and the conversation still dies just as quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:54 PM
4

One piece of advice about socializing that I've found to be untrue in my personal life is that if you're passionate about something people will enjoy listening to you talk about it. Growing up this has never been the case for me. I could talk about games or anime and I could see whatever interest the other person had just disappeare from their face. The only exception being people who are into the same things I'm into but anyone else was a wash. No one wants hear my thoughts on whatever fantasy …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:52 PM
4

Attracting like minded women is harder and more time consuming then universal neutrality. Anything that limits your already limited options is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:41 PM
2

No I would love to date a woman who wanted to learn about the Ottoman Empire but then I would be looking for a unicorn. Find a woman to date can take a lot of time and effort so to speed the process up you remove things that the majority of women would find unattractive. Instead of spending years finding your Ottoman Empire gf you can spend a few months or a year and find a gf who will tolerate you talking about the Ottoman Empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:25 PM
2

Like other guys have said it's to not give women the ick. They don't want to freak some woman they might otherwise have a chance by writing three paragraphs on the history of the Ottoman empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:58 PM
2

I mean I didn't vote for Trump so I didn't vote against my own interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:04 PM
3

Idk if I had to choose between being a meat dildo and being in the sexless state I'm in now I'm pretty tempted to say yes to the meat dildo. I ultimately wouldn't give up my autonomy to have sex so I wouldn't choose to be a literal dildo. But if the deal was just sex with a woman on occasion and she doesn't care about me as a person besides how my dick looks and feels then yeah I'd take that deal. Sure I would ideally like a committed relationship. But if this is the only way I get to have sex (…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:29 PM
2

You're putting way to much thought into instagram stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:12 PM
4

I mean I'll be a dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:06 PM
2

Yeah those guys are assholes and the women who say no when they mean yes are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:34 PM
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Women like romance because they're pretty much the only recipients of it. Yes and it's a blind spot for so many women and I'm not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:55 PM
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the person who actually has good, crystal clear information on whether there is “a hint of desire”, namely the person feeling it should do nothing No I think if person A is interested in person B they should make their intentions known and ask them out on a date. Failing that A should at least make it clear they're attracted to the other person. Then once person B should then reject person A if they aren't interested. If A didn't didn't do a good job not making their intentions known they have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:20 PM
5

Something I was thinking about a month ago is that I associate planning dates and pursuing women in general as always being one sided. The whole act of "romance" is just alot of upfront effort that has never brought me much. Alot of the times when this is brought up by men complaining about similar issues the answer is that women do also do these things. But they mean that women do these things in established relationships but I've never experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:58 PM
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Usually they handle the planning the most I'll do is say whether I'm free on this or that day. I've only started making plans to do things with people recently i.e. thinking of things to do, asking if they're free, etc... MY experience doing that has been poor and unenjoyable. To be fair these are new people I've met with their own lives so I guess everyone is busy and I haven't completely stopped trying. But even with platonic things I hate doing it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:18 PM
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Isn't it fun to plan dates? No, I don't even normally plan things I do I just do them. I just decide one morning that I want to go hiking this weekend and I do it. There's no planning involved. So now I have to actually plan out a day to do something which is something I don't normally do. If you plan the date you get to pick out what you want to do It would be selfish of me to pick something only I would like and I have to make sure it's interesting. I might want to go to the zoo but what if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:41 PM
1

They're just sad and need someone to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:27 PM
1

It is absolutely bizarre to treat every interaction I have like the default is that this guy is gonna instantly fall in love with me, like I’m some hot shit. Not every interaction just the one's where there's some kinda of hint of desire. If I'm just talking to a cashier I think that's pointless. Ditto if I'm asking a classmate a question. I also cannot possibly know in the first 5 minutes of knowing someone whether I’m gonna spread my legs for them. In my personal experience no one goes from be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:22 PM
1

I guinually didn't expect these abortion opinions from you. I'm not upset just surprised. I would have expected you to be in the north exception camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:25 PM
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Otherwise, there will be an excess of obnoxious bastard teenagers running around in 15 years. Hmm not convinced Plus my brief time spent assisting a childcare lawyer lead me to the conclusion that some people shouldn't have kids Now this I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:20 PM
1

But then she would scare her base from voting for her. I think she just should have talked more about inflation and plans to reduce that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:57 AM
1

It's just a Twitter comparator really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:52 AM
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they'll just talk about it for the next 4 years but nothing will happen, no one will notice, and no one will care. Oh yeah totally. It's just all talk from angry sad people. They'll never do anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:49 AM
1

That's a nice pic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:39 AM
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I cannot imagine being so arrogant I’d tell every male person I ever meet, up front, “I know you wanna bang me, but it’s never gonna happen”. I don't think that's arrogant it saves everyone alot of time. A lot of gen-z men and women don't like used the word date so they use hangout. So I think it's reasonable for both parties to make their intentions clear which can be done with a simple "This is just as friends right?". It's not worded rude or any issue. Like, would you really ever be friends w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:32 AM
1

Based ghostie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:23 AM
1

Probably but it's not like anyone knows how to fix that or like any American politician cares about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:19 AM
1

It just seems silly and short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:27 AM
1

Yeah alot of the complaints and arguments around sex largely don't effect the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:21 AM
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does that mean they would have gone on a sex spree if Kamala won? No, you were alive when Biden was in office and when Roe v wade was still a thing. Did either of those increase the amounts of sex people where having?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:20 AM
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unless they stop having sex with their bf /husband /fwb but that is unlikely That's the only way a "sex strike" could make any sense but I highly doubt that's going to happen on mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:14 AM
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Lucky or unlucky I'm not getting syphilis. But I do agree with your other comment. This probably isn't going to have a huge effect on how much causal sex people are having and sex work will just be as busy as every prices might just increase some. Overall though things will largely stay the same. It's clear to me that most people can't actually stay celibate if it's a choice they can make. Maybe a tiny minority of women will do a sex strick but most won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:05 AM
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Honestly I noticed a few years ago it was becoming difficult for me to feel bad for regular people's dating struggles. This applies to both men and women. This whole conversation around a sex strike is just reminding me of that. Like it's difficult for me to really care that the rates of causal sex will decrease as I wasn't having it anyway. It's difficult for me to care that maybe women's standards might increase because I wasn't meeting them when roe v wade was a thing. I sympathize with fears…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:00 AM
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It's scary honestly it's never been this warm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:58 AM
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Are y'all all sexually repressed puritans or what? Most of the men and women here are sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:12 AM
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Is that still going on? It feels like the spring up in the north east US and I hate it. Does everyone have Thanksgiving plans (US users)? Probably just going to eat at my sister's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:08 AM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:37 PM
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Okay fine do that but it's not a strick that's what I'm getting at and it doesn't accomplish anything politically. I don't understand the reasoning for calling it a strick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:59 PM
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The sex strike is because they don't want to get pregnant as abortion bans span the country. Just wear condoms? Use the pill? Also if that's the argument what is that accomplish exactly? Who is that punishing? The government? Why do so many women on this site specifically mention they're doing this to punish men with no sex? Why even call it a strick? You're just being abstinent there is no strick happening. I'm pro-choice but calling it a strick seems dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:22 PM

I mean it's not working. South Korean men aren't becoming more feminist they're becoming more anti-feminist and the population is collapsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:17 PM
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I've always been rather skeptical whenever the sex strike thing that's brought up would even do anything. For it to work it would have to mean that not only are these women regularly sleeping with their opposition but they're also marrying and having their children with them. I'm just not convinced that's happening in large enough number to be significant. If the 4B of America was a thing it would just be punishing liberal and leftist men. Which wouldn't accomplish much besides filling the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:29 PM
1

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:53 PM
1

Is he supposed to be unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:04 PM

Op you know the answer to this question is that it won't effect anything why even ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:59 PM
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might only apply to debauched sluts What's wrong with sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:46 PM
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I severely doubt they were having sex with alot of men lol. Did they go from three guys a year to one year?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:45 PM
1

The male simping song I can think of is Skater boy. I can't think of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:15 PM
1

Just touch more women you'll start getting used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:57 PM
3

But you have to clean toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:55 PM
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I don't think I know any dirty smelly women. Even the less attractive girls I know smell fine and are clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:55 PM
1

Not being feminist enough it was some comment where I was criticizing feminism. The sub is explicitly feminist so you have to be carful about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:55 PM
1

She is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:52 PM
4

No you can just be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:49 PM
1

How've been?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:47 PM
0

I haven't been banned yet though I I did have an old account banned off r/menslib
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:46 PM
1

Do...minors mention ovulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:14 PM
1

Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:58 PM
2

Wouldn't the lesson be to appeal to young men more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:55 PM
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Honestly I've always found "the women find men more attractive when they ovulating" suspect. I will admit that's just cope on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:54 PM
1

Oh then he's legal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:50 PM
4

Q4A do you actually believe that the election results will have any effect on dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:50 PM
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The majority of dating app users are men anyway there wouldn't be that big of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:49 PM
1

I mean I'm not enjoying Trump winning but I think the country will survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:47 PM
1

Why would your cousin be deported?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:30 PM
1

I wouldn't expect to rack up a body count since women don't vaule variety as much as men and she could just understandably have high standards. I would wonder what she wants with me though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:13 PM
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Yes and it was a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:03 PM
2

How would that make child support laws fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:50 PM
3

Also wear a mourning veil
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:49 PM
2

It's hookup It's not like she got a train ran on her by the entire football team lol it's one guy. I think only intentionally celibate men would care about a woman sleeping with one guy before him in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:44 PM
1

Bedwench
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:41 PM
1

Why would I say no to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:39 PM
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It's the election
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:31 PM
1

Hey corporate slaves make good money depending on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:09 PM
2

Do conservative women even date liberal men? It never seems like women want to date across political lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:07 PM
1

What was your career choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:03 PM
1

9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:01 PM
3

Honestly I would say that's the women fault. It's Donald Trump if they can't beat him it's their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:17 PM
1

True, true well back to the drawing board
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:08 PM
1

Why Greenland and not Mexico?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:02 PM
2

I'll DM you specifically and give you an update
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:59 AM
1

Listen man I never claimed to have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:58 AM
1

But they can get an abortion here there are no restrictions and you can come from another state and get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:47 AM
1

My states been blue for the last 4 elections
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:43 AM
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More like "Those Trump supporters want to control your body unlike me babe".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:41 AM
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I live in a blue state do you think I could use my Kalmala voters to get laid 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:32 AM
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If I had to guess it's black and latino men are more soically and economically conservative. It's just that in the past they thought the dems would actually do something for them but now they realize they won't. Another factor is that like everyone here has already. The left has been bleeding male voters for the last decade or so. They've done nothing to retain male voters besides shame men which unsurprisingly didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:27 AM
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Yeah it's seemingly mainly Latino men and black men just are voting probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:07 AM
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Most of those men are married or in committed relationships. I've seen nothing saying right wingers have a lot of causal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:47 AM
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Who ever the person reading the sentence dislikes the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:25 AM
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You don't understand Sheila is the other guy gets elected the country will end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:22 AM
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🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:20 AM
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I saw a few women on Reddit suggest a sex strike on the subject of abortion and that was hilarious lol. Why is this always a suggestion. There's a high chance the men voting against Harris aren't even having casual sex anyway, hell they might not even be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:20 AM
1

First
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:01 AM
1

Be patient
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:49 AM
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They're a married couple what are either of them worried about? Are they raw dogging it everytime? I get carrying about abortion but no you don't need to forgo sex in your committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:38 AM
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I don't think he can and neither could Kamala. Kamala was never going to "get abortion rights back" it was an empty campaign promise. There might be some things they can do and I'm to dumb to think of anything but honestly no they can't do much right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:35 AM
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It'll be men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:22 AM
1

How is it do close? Everywhere I look shows Trump with a massive lead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:49 AM
1

Hmm I think I'll try that good sir. I hope I don't get arrested though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:59 PM
1

What if they start running? Should I pursue them just to be safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:50 PM
1

I don't think I've ever actually heard a woman catcalled. I live 30min from NYC and have been to midtown. I've only lived in cities and have always lived in low income areas. I feel like I should hear catcalling all the time but nope. I think the closest I might have come to it was sometime in high-school in the hallway some guy might have yelled something at some girl but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:43 PM
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Yes as long as I don't have to marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:33 PM
1

I don't think it is and I wasn't making that argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:32 PM
1

Is this a fetish for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:27 PM
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Men how long are you willing to wait for a woman to have sex with you? Three months, maybe six if there's alot of physical intimacy e.g. kissing, handholding, cuddling, fondling. I would break up with the woman of my dreams if she wanted to wait until marriage or "wasn't ready" for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:25 PM
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You and me both. Just embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:21 PM
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My family is going to pester me about voting and I'm not in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:17 PM
2

Those aren't surprising reactions. There's this whole thing of feminist not wanting to have sons because men are horrible and by having a son they're just adding to the misery of other women. Then there's another group that have sons but desperately try to teach their sons to not be an evil rapist because that's what boy grow up into otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:36 AM
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Because they have morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:54 AM
1

No you're pretty chill and seem genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:01 AM
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Not just single mothers just unusual people in general. When I say I click I mean I get along with. I connected with very few people snd it's like this with everyone male or female it's just especially pronounced with women. As for why this is I have no idea. People like me as far as I can tell. They I'm a good guy and compliment my character but it's difficult to get closer to people no matter how much I try. I've thought about why but have come up with nothing besides I'm just not a "soicalit"…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:47 AM
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It's not I don't really interact with hoodrats and none of my friends are. It just so happens that three of the few women I've been close to have all been single mothers. It's a coincidence really. Other women and I don't really click.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:25 AM
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I'm a black man that lives close to the ghetto so yeah I'm going to know several baby mommas. Lucky none of friends have been to jail. Nerds tend to be pretty idk controlled and tend to not get involved in hood shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:13 AM
1

Small petite girl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:02 AM
1

There are some relatively normal people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:30 PM
1

In my experience most people believe that it's eaiser for men to find a good woman then for a woman to find a good man. Most people I've noticed just believe women are better on average as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:30 PM
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Interesting I think that's a very rare opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:20 PM
1

Is it difficult to find a good woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:16 PM
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i described him to her and gave them each other’s social media to take it from there My friend used to do this and I never understood what he expected to happen lol. Then again I instantly connect with very few people. So just giving me anyone's socials or number isn't going to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:15 PM
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For the somewhat normal people of PPD do people actually set people up? I always see this mentioned when it comes to dating but I only know of one person that does this and I don't think he has female friends anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:42 PM
2

No her boobs are to big
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:10 PM
1

Expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:09 PM
1

Yeah I'd take out again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:08 PM
2

That's a question with a long answer. First I believe NSFW artist should be said for their work. I did, at the time at least, support a few artist on patreon or subscribe star. It's pricey so I don't anymore but I did and I don't see the difference between someone drawing pictures of tits for money and someone selling photos of their tits for money. Second bodies aren't all the same and sometimes I just want to see a certain someone naked. So I paid to see that person naked. I had the disposable…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:27 PM
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A friend of mine used to sell me nudes. She stopped selling nudes but we still talk to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:18 PM
1

The same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:16 PM
1

Two dicks in one asshole or one pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:15 PM
2

Low body count woman only if she's willing to be as adventures witn me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:14 PM
2

I don't think most people do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:53 PM
1

Yes all of them. The lesbians can just be in a relationship with each other while married to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:34 PM
1

What are these rigged rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:25 PM
2

It really dose seem like gen-z missed all the good economic times. We even missed the tech boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:25 PM
1

I marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:21 PM
1

I'd live in my box and hopefully save some money to afford to live in an apartment in a shitty neighborhood. Hell if I could buy a house even better I'd be able to have a roof over my head and then in a year I could sell it and rent a nicer apartment. But realistically cardboard box man isn't going to able to do much to fix their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:21 PM
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Don’t commit to women, rent them out and bounce. In this analogy I'm not renting or buying I'm homeless. I'm a homeless guy that can't afford a male over his head and there are other guys that can only afford a crack house or a home in an apartment in a really dangerous neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:56 PM
1

I don't understand why this is being overlooked by so many people in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:52 PM
1

Can that behavior really be blamed on postpartum depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:32 PM

Always get annoyed at the notion that you have to be okay without physical affection or intimacy and if you are you have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:18 AM

I've said this before but I'm not actually lonely anymore. Well in a platonic emotional sense. I have someone who's there for me emotionally and who I trust to be there for me and listen to me. Someone I don't really feel like I have to put on a performance around. Ofc this person is an online friend but I'm very happy and thankful since we talk nearly everyday. Combine this with the love of my family and the friends I already had I don't really feel lonely. All that said despite not feeling lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:46 AM
1

I don't slide into DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:13 AM
1

Which leads me to believe Im comfortable being around Im just ugly What were you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:17 AM
1

Agreeded and even when they do care they still do nothing about it. It's like when people talk about how if men had higher standards it would somehow cause women to lower their because they wouldn't meet as many men. No they would just be said they can't have a family and then tell themselves move on. They might be said and depressed but they'll keep on keeping on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:43 PM
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I think we've been seeing something similar to that and the response from women is to either throw their hands up in defeat never doing anything or say how this is a good thing. There's a select few that start approaching men but even with that few alot just get rejected a few time and then call it quits forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:35 PM
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Even if you got the majority of men to stop approaching or pursing women I do not believe it would get women to onmass start approaching. I don't even think if you gave it two generations it would chang.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:21 PM
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Men will have high standards if they improve. That's untrue lol even if it were true I don't think it would motivate women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:13 PM
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Generally if you just want validation from other men just being in space that are predominantly male will do the trick. Be agreeable and likeable, yes I know easier said then done. But men will validate you in enough circumstances that you can find it if you look. If you specific want validation about your appearance from women then don't both unless you're attractive. It won't happen and even if it dose it'll feel like a lie, always. 9/10 it feels like I'm forcing complaient out of women. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:09 PM
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Q4A memes aside what do you think an "alpha male", Chad, Tyrone, highly attractive man, etc... acts like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:34 PM
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What's the joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:36 PM
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Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:35 PM
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That doesn't signfy anything to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:54 PM
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Oh I couldn't tell honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:46 PM
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Can you explain what "gf duties" are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:44 PM
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I guess not so who's getting pampered? Also what does pampered mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:43 PM
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What do either of those mean in more detail? I have no frame of reference for women pampering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:37 PM
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Are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:30 PM
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Q4W What are "Wife duties" and "Gf duties"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:20 PM
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Leave her alone she might kill my family
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:40 PM
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Reminds me of a post on virgin where a guy was adamant that what was stopping him from losing his virginity was that women weren't loose enough or to faithful. All the girls he asked out mysteriously had bf's and if they were just less loyal he would have gotten laid. It seemingly didn't occur to him that they could just be liying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:18 PM
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It's not that crazy honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:14 PM
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I do neither what does that make me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:11 PM
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I mean who saying they don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:39 AM
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Feminist have to in inherently believe in the patriarchy it's baked in to the philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:37 AM
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Idk you'd have to ask him. I'd guess something like guys complainants you and bantering back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:57 AM
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I don't think he hates you just the idea that you have a bunch of guys on here simping for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:53 AM
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Yeah I'm drawing a blank here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:51 AM
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What are wife duties? I'm at the point where I'm sort of wondering what women do in relationships or in the starting phase of relationships? Since I've been single most of my life I have no fram of reference for what gf or wife duties or benefits are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:51 AM
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1) No the cheapest would be in the $150-$300 range. Though from personal experience anything lower then 200 is usually a scam. 2) I personally can say that no I personally don't have the spare $300 to drop on escorts. Plus I don't know where you live but $200-$800 is pricey. I even see escorts online talking about how things have been slowing down because of how high the prices are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:58 AM
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Lol yes they are, they're extremely pricey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:42 AM
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Generally I don't make the assumption that women have sexual motivations unless otherwise stated. So no, I don't think groups of women have sexual motivations when they're having. I depending on the environment I could see myself assuming a group of women is going to do drugs. But I assume any sex they have while high is incidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:41 AM
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I'm curious what do you consider promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:02 AM
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Going dates and sometimes multiple dates with different people. If someone is just going on a few dates and then getting into a relationship that last anywhere from 8 months to a year. Then they aren't dating around. Dating around means that you aren't committing to any one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:22 PM
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Okay anyone but you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:46 PM
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I don't think anyone would call that dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:07 PM
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The first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:03 PM
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I did say normally but you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:59 PM
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Yes there was overall way more men then women. The few women I matched with loads of shirtless guys for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:57 PM
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Because there isn't a solution besides sleeping with women normally. All the stuff he'd do to date or hookup is the solution. So I guess just hit up bars and dance clubs and look for women there. Be open that you're looking for something causal and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:55 PM
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I have tried a non-convetional app for kinks. Besides how dry, expensive it was. It was also extremely hard to find women to sleep with. I was up front about how I was inexperienced but willing to learn and got crickets. I also used fetlife for a bit and had similar issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:48 PM
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That is a horrible idea lol. Just putting on your profile that your looking to hookup or practice eating a girl out would get you no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:40 PM
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Where do I get a practice vagina. I could just dig up a corpse but that seems like a lot of work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:32 PM
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Where can I obtain that, besides a cemetery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:27 PM
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Escorts normally don't let clients go down on them so no you can't do that with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:26 PM
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Slutty gay misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:24 PM
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Yes I assume the first had a good relationship that ended due to one of the pair diying and the other other just made a mistake and fucked the wrong person. There's obviously here because a single parent who was married could have been in an abusive relationship but my initial reaction isn't to assume that. Also I think anyone who has been in a relationship that has lasted years is a green flag. I assume the first parent was that situation. Though to be fair I knew a single mother who was never …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:33 PM
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Breakfast overhere is alittle over $40 for two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:27 PM
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If he's paying for the meal it was free for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:25 PM
1

He really is just like me frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:22 PM
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Same it's a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:38 AM
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Nothing, I do nothing to get self-esteem. Though I will admit getting compliments always gives me a nice ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:37 AM
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I'm gonna turn in early think about some stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:35 AM
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Hookup culture is a scam people get conned into thinking that they're "living their best life" but it's not what it's cracked up to be. I could be wrong but statistically very few people participate in hookup culture. Everyone just complains about it and thinks everyone else is participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:29 AM
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Where are the undamaged/healed and quality women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:42 PM

This question is asked so often and the answers are always the same. What's the point of this if we all know the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:38 PM
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The first girl because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:36 PM

Brain trust of PPD what are some good date ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:43 PM
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Honestly I could see myself being a boy scout.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:39 PM

Yes I have been that guy in the past. I don't double text anymore and I'm more comfortable making physical contact these days. But I'm still in the "nice to talk to but not to date" category for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:38 PM
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I don't like alcohol and magically women being drunk and in my vicinity hasn't made them magically into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:33 PM
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Yeah it's an ape tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:32 PM
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All the women I seen on this sub are either in relationships or purposely not seeking them out. There's a few that are a few single women who do want to date but aren't in a relationship because they actually can't find a guy they like enough to keep seeing. I've never seen a woman on PPD complain about not being able to find a bf. Why this is, is anyone's guess. Actually there was one femcel but she was gay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:28 PM
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There aren't femcel post on PPD. There's some misandrist and vocels but no femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:49 PM
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Is the idea of self control foreign to you? It not even a self control thing. Sex involves another person and if women are attracted to you; you're not going to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:52 AM
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At the time it was either Aether realm or Streetlight Manifesto you have a nice physique ! Thank you I try
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:04 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/7piom2i6n7yd1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a9c9a905d2c4218139dc5dd07c5cb0e3c9ba9e97 Body reveal I guess. I already showed my face so there's no point in covering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:35 AM
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Predictably I think this woman is an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:37 AM
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Because you want one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:39 PM

Unpopular opinion: men should always pay for the dates at least at the start of the dating/relationship. This isn't an unpopular opinion most normies believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:38 PM
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It is preassure for those who want to have romantic relationships and children. There will fundamentally always be more then enough men willing to pursue women regardless. Plus I think if the last ten year have proven anything is that women are more then willing to go without romantic relationships and children. Plus if they want children they can logically always be a single mother. Obviously that's not ideal to anyone but it definitely is an option available.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:44 PM
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For me it would have to Charybidis and Dangerous. Also am I crazy or are all the gods British?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:51 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:15 PM
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Exactly I can't survive on cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:04 PM
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Going on my lunch break.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:01 PM
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How was he a bad boy? In you're example you basically did a great job. You showed proper communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:01 PM
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Might even have an opioid problem herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:59 PM
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This fall has been really warm and it's worrying me it feels like it's spring but without the rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:24 PM
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You look older in those pictures, late 20's but younger in others. It's definitely a style things in the two links you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:22 PM
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Ohhh 3/4 is good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:07 PM
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Idk probably some ass guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:29 PM
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I don't know what that means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:12 PM
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You got my support Ok-coat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:11 PM
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This something I think about a year ago but I think you're right. Whenever men talk about attractive women they're rarely talking about super models. I think it's because alot of models are ment to look slime and petite with minimal assets. Which alot of men don't really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:10 PM
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Do women ever beg for attention? I see meme about it and people talk about it but I think I've only seen one woman ever beg or desperately want attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:07 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:54 PM
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I have one back from when I was using R4R. Some dude liked my dick and followed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:53 PM
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Yes I would. I find noticeable gaps or missing front teeth cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:13 PM
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Can you point me towards a hypersexual bpd alt girl? That's my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:00 PM
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Honestly I couldn't tell you were being facetious. Like I got it was bait but I couldn't tell if it was bait you believed or not. My bad I fell for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:56 PM
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Wait are you just saying or joking that all misogynist are incel? Or that being a misogynist means your an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:44 PM
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Being black pilled dosen't exactly make one an incel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:41 PM
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I hate take home assignments. I can never get them done on time and get easily distracted. I can get my brain to focus for 10 minutes maybe but then after that my concentration breaks. I've tried breaking it in to 10 min blocks with breaks but that hasn't really helped much. I still have to get myself to focus again after the break. Which eventually fails. I need a better strategy for this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:50 PM
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It's not cheating but it's rude to your partner and definitely a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:50 AM
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He should instead just use "I like it" and "I'm just kinda dumb sometimes".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:15 AM
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Eh same difference I don't see the issue. I can't develop brain damage and I think if I could handle the vacuum of space I can mentally survive the void. It's not that I don't comprehend it. It's more that I just don’t fear it. My curiosity out weighs all of those emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:32 AM
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Yeah I would say that's similar to death or at least it is as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:23 AM
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Still cool I want to see the void. Sounds like death to me anyway so either way I'd be dead. Which is neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:18 AM
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Nah I want to see the end of the universe and how far humanity can go. It's not about curiosity and only being able to fulfill that curiosity via immorality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:16 AM
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I've put in maximum effort so now what do I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:14 AM
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would you date a taller woman? Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:12 AM
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I find it funny one person thought it was cute and another thought it was creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:08 AM
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Well if it's like fire punch and I magically don't need oxygen I would watch the heat death of the universe, I do want to see the end of everything. It's one of my biggest fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:06 AM
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In a relative sense maybe. He's a had of some of us but in a personal level he probably sees it as a failure. Three times a year would definitely not be enough. Honestly those in between months are probably torture. I can tell you personally my high libido is an issue I wish I could get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:02 AM
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No it's still cool. I will deal with the lost of my loved ones. Honestly humanity is to married to death as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:56 AM
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How old were you? 22 or 21 I don't remember exactly She also could've picked up on you liking her and she just smiled to make you feel comfortable I didn't like her. I didn't mention it but I didn't think she was that attractive. She was very much below average I would say but not exactly exactly ugly. I saw that she was lost and asked if she needed help and she then said that she needed to know where a bus was. Either way it's not that deep Probably not idk just something unusual that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:53 AM
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4 or 5 years ago I helped a girl find a bus stop near a train station and waited at the bus stop with her to make sure she got on the right bus. I didn't tell her I was waiting with to make sure she caught the right bus I just sat down and waited with her in silence. She was Asian, had a very thick accent, and I don't think she spoke English very well. I didn't really talk because I didn't really know what to say besides "So how long have you been in America" which seemed offensive at the time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:55 AM
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Hey fuckin ain't cheap and neither is cuddling or kissing a memeber of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:34 AM
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I totally agree with with you but thems the breaks in the US. Anything below 100 or 200 is most likely a scam or a drug addict. Until recently I was part of the sexworker sub and they've been complaining about things being slow. They had to raise prices and guys don't want to pay that much so things have slowed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:28 AM
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I meant for an escort. Realistically baring some kind of drastic change in personality I doubt he'll be come some Uber social able bar fly or club goer who's charming and charismatic. Which wouldn't geruntee anything but it would increase his chances. So escorts are the best and most realistic outcome. You can find and okay looking girl for $300 and 30min of her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:14 AM
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Save up $400
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:04 AM
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No one but a minority of mem would care if this sub was just women complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:39 AM
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That is oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:06 AM
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i guess it would depend on how much you interact w a customer. i could see it being similar Depends largely. If you work up at the register you're constantly interacting with customers and whenever I'm up there I get drained so quickly 30mins can feel like hours. Then there's asking customers if they would like to open up a store credit card. I just ask a stock question for that personally. It you work on the sales floor, which I do, you'll interact with customers fairly often but at mt store yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:05 AM
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She is though and I knew a fat lady who had a thing for balding old men since she was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:52 PM
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Anything I like really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:48 PM
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i learned a lot about social skills being in sales tbh You know what's interesting I kept seeing people say retail improves social skills but I've been workin at my job for close to 3 years and it feels like my social skills have barely improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:42 PM
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Lol what would that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:39 PM
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For me it's the lack of interest in getting to know me or speak to me in anyway. It can be more difficult with chatty women. But it's easily discerned when they dodge question about spending any time together or always seem to be busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:38 PM
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There is nothing more obvious in the world then woman not being attracted to me. I see it so clearly it's like a super.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:20 PM
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Eh, this place isn't as negative as say foreveralone or r9k so I think it okay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:12 PM
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And then I had to explain about this place and he said that this is probably not helping because of the negativity I mean he's probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:00 PM
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What's the point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:14 PM
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Forgive me but I'm curious where how far this goes. Are they of age at 18? If so what do you do then? Do you kick them out? Continue to restrict the behavior until they move out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:59 PM
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Okay what do you think the parents should do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:49 PM
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Okay fair enough but then do you just not care if someone gets 10 abortion? If you do care and you don't think the state should be involved then what do you suggest should be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:39 PM
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Okay so what should be done in this situation? Should it just be ignored? Should we shame both the guy and the girl? What do you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:36 PM
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Okay follow up question but in extreme situations like this what do you think should be done. I don't necessarily mean legally. I mean in general. Do you think the parents step in? Do you think we should heavly shame this behavior? Do you believe doctors should also give her a referral to a phycologist? What's you're suggestion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:33 PM
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What do you think should be done besides letting her get the 5th abortion? Idk what I'd do if for instance either of them were my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:23 PM
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Idk honestly, because she'll just get pregnant again and have another abortion. Maybe she'll learn something from having a kid, maybe she won't. Idk I'm not sure what to do honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:01 PM
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She's having the 5th kid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:51 PM
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You're right I'll fix the wording
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:44 PM
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This might be a controversial question but if you're pro-choice what do you believe the limits on abortion should be? I ask because I recently learned of a 17 year old girl who might have had her 5th abortion if she chose to get one and even I was thinking that might be to much. This wasn't because she had a medical emergency or anything she's just young and her bf is irresponsible. She ended up keeping the kid but still I feel like by number three there's a serious issue. Hell by the first one …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:37 PM
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Eh, I didn't see a problem with it and still don't. Besides I think it was the most affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:12 PM
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I did 3 years ago and I'm experience an emergency since I have an exam in a week an another one due tomorrow night online. So my only concern was just getting this handled right now. In the end no matter what I did the result would me the same seemingly. It all started with one mistake, one stupid mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:44 PM
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Honestly I knew my motherboard's specs but it had been 3 years since I built my pc so I just forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:35 PM
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The cpu I bought won't fit my motherboard so I had to cancel that order and get a lower power cpu. An i5-900 instead of an I5-12600k. These were all mistakes that could easily be avoided if I was carful and remembered my motherboards specs and layout. It been one of those weeks. November is cooked I've given up in it, hopefully December is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:30 PM
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The cpu I bought won't fit my motherboard so I had to cancel that order and get a lower power cpu. An i5-900 instead of an I5-12600k
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:11 PM
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you need a men's group then start one lol There was a men's group and it got taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:00 PM
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I5-12600K
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:47 PM
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I don't like being able to predict that I'll have a bad week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:38 PM
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Lol I wasn't saying I don't I'm saying that there are men that don't like boobs. Which doesn't disprove anything really. Someone going for Someone or something outside the norm doesn't prove that the norm doesn't exist. Which is the point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:07 AM
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Some men don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:49 AM
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It would have the same effects I would guess. It would just confirm every bais romanticly unsuccessful men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:06 AM
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I mean outliers exist. I'd say most men prefer big tits. My preference fot small tits doesn't suddenly make the statement untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:38 AM
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This reminds me of people saying incels should read romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:37 AM
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Life makes more sense when you realize most human behavior is subconscious. People largely just have feelings, act on those feelings, and then justify those acts later. She might be telling the truth as far as she's concerned. But her lower functions led her to choose a certain kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:30 AM
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I'm having a patented me moment where I make a mistake and that mistake compounds into other mistakes. Now I have a mess I have to fix by Thursday.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:14 AM
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That men's problem is that the makeup looks different. They aren't complaining that the makeup is smeared or looks different. They complaining that once the makeup is off the woman looks different. Yeah I'm sure they would agree the smeared makeup looks bad but they're more concerned that the woman looks different with it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:31 PM
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I don't think either I or the other were mean or belligerent in our opinions. Yeah I agree no one, Man or Woman should just randomly tell people they're opinions on the style of the opposite sex. There's a especially if they're rude, but if the opinion is just "make up can make a woman look very different" I think that's fairly benign.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:16 PM
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>a man's take on the same situation "I want to wake up with the same woman i went to bed with" re: makeup looking different I don't think that's what they mean. The men saying they want wake up with the same woman they went to bed with mean. They mean that woman look different with makeup then without makeup. This is not a defense I just think you interpreted the complaint wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah but you said "but to be mean and shit on people for no reason" I would say neither Flame-Of-Recca were mean about either of those opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:05 PM
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Eh, you can have a harmless opinion about style or appearance. I don't like women with mohawks or practically shaved heads. But that's just my opinion but I don't force it on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:56 PM
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No, I mean Flame-of-Recca currently can't get a date either kinds of women. So telling not to date a kind of woman is kind of redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:49 PM
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Is that a joke lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:33 PM
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I've never been that into TTRPG. I'm suppose I'm to shy lol and the idea of actually role playing doesn't interest me as much. I do like the idea of making a campaign though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:08 PM
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While I won't intentionally go for innocent women I'm not intentionally looking for a similarly degenerate partner. Finding that kind of woman would be like looking for a unicorn; I would have better luck playing the lottery lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:53 PM
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This isn't a standard persay but I like innocence in women. I'm hypersexual and can't remeber a point in my life where I was innocent. So realistically a woman like that would be very unhappy with my degenerate ass and I'd be unhappy with her. But it's not a standard since I don't view it as a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:43 PM
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If anyone here has watched Scavengers Reign what did you think of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:08 PM
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Any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:40 PM
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If they don’t watch, they fantasize. About women they don’t know, or do know. The amount of men that have eyes for only one woman on this earth I can put in the palm of my hand. What's the limit to this mentally? Like if I just thought I thought that Stacy in accounting had a nice ass is that "having eyes for another woman"? Does it have to be that I'm fantasizing about Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:34 PM
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I'm not sure what this is trying to convey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:14 PM
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Waiting till marriage Being extremely invested in politics Being judgmental of other people's hobbies Low libido Having no relationship last longer then 3 or 6 months I can ignore 2 and 5 if someone fits 90% of the requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:30 PM
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I think my main disagreement about people when it comes to the black pill is that I don't think the black pill tells anyone to give up. I think of it as just a set of data point you can extrapolated your own meaning from. Yeah alot of black pillers are depressed nihilist but I would argue that's because the data itself is just very bleak. But you could also be like me and think that while the chances are astronomically small that doesn't mean there's no chance. You just shouldn't expect anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:56 AM
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I can't wait until Trump is out of politics. I hope the country can be sane again .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:19 AM
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I like money so I'm going to work and I predict I'm going to be in a bad mood for the rest of this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:01 AM
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Working and being unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:59 AM
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I'm happy to have your support
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:58 AM
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No as I don't think my height is holding me back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:05 PM
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No problem I'm happy my favorite schizo could cheer someone up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:06 PM
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short hair is disgusting. do you know how many girls are forced to have their short hair and prefer long hair? even many female idols would not be caught dead with short hair. Cutting a famous female characters's long hair short is something a misogynist would want. https://np.reddit.com/r/kof/comments/170rn97/so_ive_heard_that_mai_shiranui_might_be_in_fatal/k3nh97t/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:18 PM
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No I won't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:45 PM
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a lot of people are mindless simpletons, hollow sheep that depend on developers/writers to think for them and give them a purchase and reason to fight. those fools would be lost playing a tabletop roleplaying game (or any game with a creation mode). None of you can match this level of schizo posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:34 PM
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I don't actually know what she thinks of books since only talks about games. I know she believes preferring a silent protagonist means you lack imagination and creativity. they would label a "silent" protagonist as shallow blank slate, but what is hollow is their lack of imagination nor creativity to fill in the void with their own mind and be one with that character. "that character has no personality" oh yea? their own personality can be the character's personality. its a matter of perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:33 PM
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Simps are people who like story telling in video games at all. The comment was about fighting games but I'm familiar with that user. She thinks any game that doesn't allow you to have a choice is bad and thinks story driven games are just shit. Also any game where you can only play as a man is objectively bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:57 PM
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It was 12 year ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:54 PM
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I was 15 I learned my lesson
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:53 PM
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She asked me out and I said yes knowing she had a bf. We messed around for about a month before she broke up with him. TBF we were both teens but I still feel kinda guilty honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:11 PM
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its no use reasoning with simps. like someone said "can't fix stupid". the storytelling aspect of videogames rob player agency among other things, and many gamers prefer to be slaves. so sucks to be them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:05 PM
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I'm a man who helped a girl cheat on her boyfriend do I get a goodmoring?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:02 PM
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I can tell as the the only two post from women I've seen get no upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:35 PM
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Oh well you could nap later Hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:17 PM
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Think happy things :) I'm not good at the cheering people up. Is this working?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:12 PM
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What were you thinking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:55 PM
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I'm convinced the physiquecritique sub is just gay guys. The first two post are almost indistinguishable from gay porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:47 PM
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Hispanic and there isn't a reason. I think it started with my first crush on a chubby Hispanic girl when I was 6 and then was reinforced when I became obsessed with a Mexican girl for most of high-school. I'm currently interested in a black girl and my only ex is Black but otherwise Black women/girls never really liked me much. Hispanic women mostly could care less about me but the ones that do tend to like me. Not romantically obviously that was only ever one or two but in a platonic sende I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:03 AM
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I would say the vast majority of women aren't attracted to me, ke 99%. I've had 5 maybe 6 women into me my whole life. Of those 5 or 6, three of them found me attractive for only or mostly emotional reasons. As in I made them feel someway and they really liked that. The other two or three are physically attracted to me but I wasn't attracted to one, another is my only ex, the last is a friend of mine who says she's aromantic and I personally suspect she's asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:32 AM
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I don't really have much of a "plan". I have started going to a board game night every other Monday when I have the chance so ideally I'll meet more women but that's it really. The biggest two problems is that I have no idea how to connect with people especially normies and the vast majority of women are not attracted to me. I view women not being attracted to be as an unchangeable state akin to death. The only thing that would maybe change it slightly is some drastic changes in personality and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:15 AM
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How can you be okay with something that frustrates you? If it's not something I don't really think I can do anything about I just let it rest. It is what it is. may be part of the reason people perceive you as sexless so it might make sense to mix things up a bit seeing as what you’re currently doing isn’t working. Maybe, idk I truly don't know. There's nothing I can think of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:06 AM
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I have interest in dating lol. I made several dating app profiles, I've asked out two girls this year. It's just that I'm a loner, I don’t have alot of friends, I don't ask out tons of women and I get rejected. Or the girl actually has a bf. It's funny having someone asking if I want to dates. I remember being 18 and thinking I was going to marry a girl I was obsessed with. I can't imagine actually being uninterested in dating at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:02 AM
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It doesn't really effect my dating life because I don't have a dating life lol. I suppose the black pill doesn't encourage cold approach but it doesn't encourage anything really. But I guess it does play a role in why I don't say ask out 100 women aday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:51 AM
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There was no inciting incident. I simply one day just decided to call myself black pilld after watching and agreeing with a YouTuber I enjoy. I agree more with black pill talking point then every other pill because it tends to be data driven and it to explain my lived experience better then the others. I have been mistreated by women and have experienced a broken heart but those didn't black pill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:40 AM
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5'9 (179 cm)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:33 AM
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I don't really think there was a specific age. It's was probably some time around 22 or 23. Nothing happened I just watched a YouTube and thought his arguments were convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:32 AM
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27 I turn 28 in January
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:13 AM
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I haven't been here that long but if anyone has any questions I'll answer AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:07 AM
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Oh I thought you'd be younger. You seem like you'd be 19 or 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:21 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:15 AM
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Why are you an "Aspiring Stacy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:02 AM
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I'll do one later I don't mind. Are you American?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:59 AM
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What are you talking about she's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:53 AM
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Red dress
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:52 PM
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I'm a 5 and a 6 on a good day. Women think I'm a 2-3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:40 PM
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He's a home wreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:20 PM
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I think better defining your personal style will help people know what type of person you are and decide if that’s someone you like. Maybe, idk I think my style as it is, is okay. They only thing I'd change is probably wearing more collared shirts. Since it doesn’t sound like you enjoy how you’re currently perceived It doesn't? The only thing I would want change is how essentially sexless I'm perceived as which does frustrate me. But other that I'm okay with how I'm perceived as.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:12 PM
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What type of aesthetic do you have? Idk no specific aesthetic really. I wear lost of black and wear mainly jeans. For most of my life I stock to graphic tee's mostly but I've started to wear more polo's and dress shirts. I also have started to wear more color. Blues, greens, and orange mostly but I have some more white shirts then I used too. How do you think you’re perceived by others? Within the last three years I've started to be referred to as sweet, innocent, and had one coworker call me pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:25 PM
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I like my aesthetics and presentation. I was talking about that as well in my last comment. Do you like who you are today? Yeah, I suppose I wish I had more money and sex but that's it really. If you were a woman would you be happy dating someone like you if you had more options? Yes Improving yourself doesn’t change who you are and if someone likes the improved version of you they still like you for who you are. I improve myself in ways I want to not in ways that may make women like me more. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:01 PM
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I'm being who I am as I am. I'm not into becoming what women want. If a woman doesn't want for who I am or who I personally want to be they don't want me at all. some amount of validation so maybe you could do that for them I do this already and it makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:47 PM
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But the average man is overweight there for I should be above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:41 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:36 PM
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I'm not fat though literally no one would call me fat. I'm 13lb from being overweight lol. I do like overweight women but they also aren't attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:36 PM
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What if I'm skinny as well? Tbf I'm not skinny I'm 5'9 and 157lb. So I'm close to overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:26 PM
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Yes? I agree I don't see the issue though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:41 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:49 PM
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No because I'm not female and how tough my gf is wouldn't matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:29 PM
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Yeah she is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:34 AM
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Apparently some people at work think I'm dating a cowoker because we come work together occasionally and I take her home whenever we get off of work at the same time. I get why they suspect we're dating so that's not a big deal. I'm just confused as to why none of them asked me if we're dating they only asked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:24 AM
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I was doing pre-calc homework and I don't feel like getting into arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:13 AM
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A lot of women still express their fondness and affection by cooking and supporting their partners though. Okay, but beside the fact that I see very few women express that this is the case and I see more women complain about these things. The point op was making are these things that women are expected to do so that they can say they're "treating their man right". I said that those use to be things women were expected to do but now adays not really. And as far as I can tell no women aren't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:12 AM
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That’s the main thing I have a problem with when it comes to the trad chores dynamic. It’s not realistic in 2024. I only have so much energy to do that stuff. That's fair and I feel that way about expecting women to be the primary care givers. Anyone with half a brain will understand that for the vast majority of people that's not something you'll be capable of doing in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:05 AM
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Is your head shiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:00 AM
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I'm going to disagree slightly. It's not that society has no concept of how women should treat men it's that all the traditional ways of how women treat men have been removed, or is looked down upon. A woman is suppose to support her man, follow his lead, cook, clean, take care of the house, take care of the children, etc.... Also be sexually available to her man but not other men. Pretty much all of the things listened don't seem like things women like doing for their partners besides being sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:28 AM
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What was the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:07 AM
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I guess it means she's not that into me so maybe? But either way I would break up with someone like that because I'd worry about what she'd do to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:47 PM
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I would she's cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:40 PM
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I volunteer to learn a lesson
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:38 PM
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I welcome being ruined by a mentally unstable clingy high libido Stacy. You're just describing a good time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:37 PM
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Was the movie Anyone but you? I hope not they almost no chemistry in that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:58 PM
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The fucks a Gigi Paris
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:55 PM
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No I'm asking what a woman lusting after a man looks like. Surely it happens and I thought you were implying that women lust after men differently. So what does a women lusting after men the usual way women do look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:42 PM
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they want women to like them and lust after them the same way they like women and lust after them So they should want women to lust after them the way women lust after men? Is that what you're trying to say? What would that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:06 PM
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They suggest it because it works. Yeah black men do dress in otherways it's just that the otherways don't attract as many women if any women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:02 PM
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Some see it as improvement over doing well with 0 women Yeah it's a something is better then nothing mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:52 PM
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True which in part why I don't want to do it. I don't particularly like hoodrats and I don't want to date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:49 PM
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I posted a picture of myself and someone suggested I thugmaxx and logically they aren't wrong. I'm very sure they if I took on some kind of hood aesthetic and persona in the way I speak, dress, hold myself, etc... I would probably get more attention from women. Probably not alot but more then none. But I don't want to, and that's all it comes down too. I know how I want to behave so I do that. My choice not to change in some way so that women are more attracted to me is one of the biggest reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:53 AM
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Adopt I've never had an issue with adoption. I don't have the urge to have my own biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:35 AM

Which of your parents is the black one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:52 AM

I hate that thugmaxxing is a legit strat that works, especially for someone like me. I do as well but theirs a sort of adituded that people want in black men and there's not much you or I can do to change that sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:34 AM

They did have the raw data for n-count the highest was 200, the second highest was 130, the third highest was 100. All three were men, two were straight and one was a gay guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:24 AM
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Not just confidence but showy outward confidence. You can be a confident introvert but that just ends up with people thinking you want to left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:17 AM

Huh I would have figured you were interesting. I assume most women consider themselves feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:46 AM
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The mods seem to want to crack down harder on black pill and incel content. I'm pretty tame and don't make post but I never know. I'm just covering my bases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:54 AM
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Kinda for the one being approached when their sales job begins after the relationship begins. They have to prove they're worth commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:36 AM
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Hmm I'm fine with all kinds of erotic content though I would say hentai is the best personally. I like having audio but the visual's and story in hentai increases the enjoyment for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:32 AM

I don't know if it's a crime but it's kinda fucked up you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:28 AM
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Idk if he's hot but he is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:24 AM
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I do that and watch porn, Granted I'm also an open degen so it's not a big deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:21 AM
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I'll be the judge of that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:20 AM
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Even if the ban got lifted I'm not even sure I'd come back
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:18 AM
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You're not that bad if you got banned that would make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:17 AM
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Everything is sales including attracting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:15 AM
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Boobs but there are more dicks in DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:12 AM
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If I ever get banned I wouldn't bother ban evading.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:10 AM
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I disagree or at least in my experience the majority of men prefer medium/large.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:19 AM
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I'm a boob man I just prefer small boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:18 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:17 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:17 AM

You have never been to menslib or talked to a male feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:22 PM
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No. I'm serious I can translate for you. Their degree or high powered job doesn't matter. What matters if they're attracted to me, do they have time for me in their life, do they want me in their life, and the most important question do they want to date me. Women tend not to date down so it's a fair bet that a higher educated, ambitious, athletic woman wouldn't want a man who's the opposite or less impressive. Basically you always have to do some mental math of how likely is any given woman to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah in the same way some men shouldn't have daughters some women shouldn't have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:54 PM

B why would I ever choose A?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:06 PM
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I'm lower class and so are the women I know so my answer will probably be different from alot of people's. I know or knew two young single mothers. One was a girl I was extremely obsessed with. She got pregnant freshman year of high-school and after that was in and out of relationships for the three years I knew her. It would be a cycle where she would get into a relationship and then something would happen and 6 months she would be single again and then a month or two later she would be dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:30 PM
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No most people attractive or otherwise club, vap, and drink
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:13 AM
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I think most of the women here are black or other POC.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:25 AM
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I'm not saying "unattractive are the only ones who want monogamous relationships" that would be dumb. I'm saying that my being unattractive to women might have had an effect on how I view or feel about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:39 AM
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I'm very monogamous I think it was around when I was 16 and in love that I realized that I wanted to tie my life to someone else and essentially dedicate my life to them. I want a single life partner to go on this journey of life with me, but a few years ago I started wondering how much of this is a result of me not being attractive. I've always been aware that the majority of girls weren't into me and logically speaking even I were say none monogamous I don't really have the ability to exercise…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:02 AM
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I never wanted to age past 24, I had a deep fear of it. But I was also very suicidal at 16 so the idea of more of life was horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:40 AM
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Eveyone says I look younger then I actually am.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:38 AM
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I'm turing 28 in January I'm not a baby anymore sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:37 AM
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I'm not sure honestly. I'm not sure if you can say that if the option wasn't available to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:36 AM
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Where did OP say that? It's not in the comment you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:56 AM
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I'm very jealous of men's healthcare Can you elaborate on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:16 AM
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It's less embarrassing for men to openly admit that they play video games than women to openly admit they love Taylor Swift. No it isn't, sure it's no where near as bad as it was in say the 80's or 90's. Do you not know any male nerds? Did you not see them be made fun of for playing games?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:14 AM
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You're Canadian?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:03 AM
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I don't know who convinced people that they look more attractive without glasses but they're pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:08 PM
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Personally no I don't consider her a 10/10. I'd say 8 /10 she should ton down the makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:12 PM
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Periods aren't gross but you should treat the period blood like piss. Would this women use her own piss for a costume? I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:06 PM
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I'll take the chance to get pissed on over meth mouth. I assume the meth mouth has several stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:01 PM
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The Expanse, though I haven't watched the show and have only read the books. I truly think it's one of the best works of sci-fi within the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:45 PM
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I don't read alot of fantasy so I don't think I have one. I'm more of sci-fi guy but I do like fantasy I just don't read much. Currently it's The Way of kings but honestly that might change when I finally read lord of the rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:39 PM
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I finally finished v.e. schwaber's a shade of magic trilogy and I overall liked it. For the most part the character writing was really good, the action scenes we fine not great but good enough and easy to follow. There were some plot contrivences and unnecessary deaths in third book that bothered me but ultimately it didn't ruin the experience for me. If I had to say one thing in the series that bothers me is that it felt like Delilah Bard, one of the primary main characters, got away with every…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:23 PM
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I don't fear it I'm sure it will happen. If by some miracle I get a girlfriend I have no doubt I wasn't high on her list. Also I'm pretty sure she'd be low libido so she just wouldn't be interested in sex regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:39 PM
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That uncle you see every 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:55 PM
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I genuinely confused at how this is such a common experience and I've only experience two or three times and honestly three is really stretching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah it counts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:14 PM
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Q4M Have you ever experienced a woman feigning helplessness or ignorance for attention? I can maybe if I stretch it I can think of maybe three instances but honestly two of those three are 10 year old memories that are kinda hazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:06 PM
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I'll let you know when either want to have sex with me. Which do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:46 PM
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women feigning dumb to get out of an argument Never experienced this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:45 PM
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Some men mass swipe and some men complain women have to many options. Also the men complaining aren't upset women have to many options they're upset they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:03 PM
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Not that this is a problem I have but they aren't being a selective. They're just mass swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:43 PM
2

Hour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:34 PM
4

Because they believe it murder? It's not exactly hard to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:36 PM
1

8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:36 PM
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Okay that's closer to what I look like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:33 PM
1

Nah I hate suits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:32 PM
1

How much did she make from that trip?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:16 PM
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That would be monumental accomplishment for y'all... Not for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:16 PM
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Yeah we've had an abnormally warm fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:14 PM
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Surprised but amused. I'd just say I love you to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:12 PM
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Yeah when men say they don't want fat or that they're into "skinny" women. They mean women who have large to medium sized breast, wide hips, and who are filled out. They have alittle stomach fat but not alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:40 AM
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This is probably edited
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:35 AM
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Hmm okay, well I would advice not making a broad generalization based on a few of your friends but you probably know that. To answer you're title I have no idea that is something people say on norime subs all the time but there no way for me to prove or disprove that besides personal experience. Personally I can't say my friends have this problem and I don't think I have this issue. But then again no one points out "someone who is genuinely interested in me" so this doesn't match my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:49 AM
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Do any of those men self-identify as low SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:29 AM
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You do give off that vibe tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:20 AM
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Yeah I'd agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:18 AM
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