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that may not be the best idea. I agree, I'd only take that risk if actually didn't care about the outcome. But I like having her trust and I don't want to ruin a good thing by getting overeager. I accepted that months ago which is why I've been thinking about how to get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:56 AM
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I like love, sex, and holding someone I like in my arms gives me happy chemicals so that's reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:38 AM
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We are both gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:34 AM
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I have done that several times in different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:32 AM
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Eh, if it is a shit test I'm not purposeful not going to pass it. I'm autistic for that shit either you say what you want or you don't tell me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:28 AM
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Indeed, I do get to hug her and as long as I don't start feeling her up she's not upset with me touching her in any other way. So there's that upside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:22 AM
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Is she worried about things becoming awkward if it doesn’t work out? Basically this yes. She's worried about losing the current friendship we have if things don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:19 AM
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Have you considered that this is her way of checking if you are up for it? No because she knows I'm interested, I've floated the idea of us having sex or dating several times. I've done so in very explicit words that can't be misinterpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:16 AM
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Seemingly she's told me every time she's had one. The last time she had one was because we hung out alone a week ago. I am interested but I'm of the opinion once someone makes this decision they aren't going to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:07 AM
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Because she like how things are currently and doesn't want to lose the bond we have if we were to ever break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:05 AM
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A girl I'm friends with has had several sex dreams about me but doesn't want to have sex because if we did it would change things between us and she wouldn't want that despite actively thinking about doing it. I sort just don't care that much and just think about finding a gf, I do find it odd though I think it's just abandonment issues and me not being attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:53 AM
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Yes Nordstrom RACK has a 30 day return policy for instore purchase and 40 for online purchases, but Nordstrom will just let you return whatever item you bought whenever. There are a lot instances of people buying things at a nordstrom but trying to return them to a Rack store but having to get turned away because it. Though currently there is an extended return policy because of the holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:54 AM
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Don't worry Nordstrom has no return policy. You could wear it, damage it, and return it next year like nothing happened to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:42 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:17 AM
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To me, I read "prefer to be desirable over commitment" as a choice between either being desirable or having commitment. That's how I took it as well but I think she means it the other way because otherwise her question makes no sense. I doubt even most women here would rather be committed to and never desired then be desired but never committed to. I could be wrong but I think women care about being desired by they're partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:15 AM
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Okay? I don't know if I agree but even if I did I'm not sure why that would matter? Most people aren't virgins' at 35 yet some people are. Anomalies exist it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:06 AM
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>To repeat myself: women view that ability for you to accumulate money as a part of you. I know and I think they're wrong. It's a difference of a opinion that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:04 AM
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I guess you view having money as a fickle thing It's not fickle, it's important it's just not apart of who I am. don't really view my looks as a part of me either because my genetics were by chance. I didn't earn my looks. Unless, I put in effort to be pretty which is equal to a guy putting in effort to earn money. Something you earn or work for can't be part of you unless we're talking about plastic surgery. My hair is a part of me. I didn't earn it, it's just something I naturally have. I spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:45 PM
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The assumption being mad is that the person commeting to you also desires you as well. Which is in no way guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:39 PM
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100% I would take that over. Honestly being luster over is a such a great feeling and I only experience that from gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:31 PM
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It's not my nightmare, I never said rich or attractive people can't be kind. I would just argue kindness has little to do with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:30 PM
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And would you have preferred to be desirable but never have any women want to commit to you? Yes, as I'm not concerned about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:26 PM
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What am I supposed to take from this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:57 PM
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No she's not worth it. But I guess if I'm dating a woman like that presumably I have a lot of money so I might not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:55 PM
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They look ai generated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:49 PM
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I feel like I made a wish on a monkey's paw or something. I guess I can't complain about it because it's not like I'm unhappy with how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:27 AM
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Eh, it doesn't feel the same. I'm a helpful person and I like doing so but doing that and holding a woman I love are two different things. Sex and giving to charity are not equal feelings. Working out and wrapping my arm's a woman's waist do not feel the same. Seriously the feeling I get after holding someone is so different to anything else I don't know why people compare to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:17 AM
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It's because the circumstances are completely different. Women who don't need men will still have men in their lives. Yeah they'll have brothers and fathers. But they'll also have orbiters, and situationships. The elephant in the room around this topic is how much attention and affection men and women get from the opposite sex natrually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:34 PM
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Who says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:26 AM
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I'll admit I wouldn't date a fat ugly woman with tons of friends and great career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:42 PM
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While I might be intelligent. I'm also unmotivated, neurotic, unfocused, and neurodivergent. At best we would have another hot loser. There's also an extremely low chance that the kid would be and very attractive autistic person who just struggles socially but I'm not taking that chance. The curse stops with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:34 PM
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As long as we aren't having kids then yes. The world doesn't need the combination of our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:19 PM
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What does that mean? What did South Koreas president do? Did they get rid of that shadow feminist cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:08 AM
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Sounds like she might not understand social cues I think she's autistic so probably. I'd if she doesn't consider those she dates as friends she might pick bad men. Without getting to deep into the weeds of my opinion and observation about her. I'll say your perspective and mine aren't that dissimilar. I just didn't want to say to much because it's personal to her situation and it would sound like bitter whinning and shit talking on my end. I could be pedestalizing her but I don't think I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:10 PM
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People are hopefully friends with those they date She has also told me several times that she doesn't date friends. Having female friends isn't a bad thing, at least. Yeah I don't think it's a bad thing personally. She's cool, we have alot in common, and she's a good cook lol. I don't think it'll help in the gf finding front but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:42 PM
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I think he means on the cusp between Genz and Millennial. Some sources say 1997 is start for Genz so we both just make the cut for Genz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:32 PM
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I already moved the friendship to the more flirtier side of things. I've been subtle, well as subtle as I'm capable of being, and very explicit in some instances. Things have stayed more or less the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:30 PM
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she hasn't explicitly told you she's not interested She has explicitly told me she likes me as a friend and doesn't want to ruin that bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:08 PM
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I'm 27 and she's 24
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:04 PM
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there are some women who just do not give a fuck about the simplest social conventions I'm pretty sure she autistic so I think that is the answer. What normal men and women do socially and what she does, are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah the whole thing has been a learning experience. I've never had a girl treat me like this before so naturally I thought she's intrested. But then after learning more about her and just actually asking her outright the answer is no she isn't interested in me that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:59 PM
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How do you get to the point where she knows you like her, doesn't reciprocate, and gives you a key to her place? I don't know Is your flirting so bad that she doesn't know you like her, I am bad at flirting but that's not the issue here. Let's just say my attraction to her is very known. are you bad at reading signals and she wants you to make a move I am bad at reading signals but in this case I don't believe that's what's happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:51 PM
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Letting you eat dinner at her place with her? Or “you have a key, you can put yourself a plate of leftovers while I’m out”? I had a bus card I wasn't using and she asked she could have it. I said sure and she mentioned she was cooking something and asked if I wanted any. I said yeah and left home. When I got there she said she didn't have any plastic containers and asked if I wanted to eat it there. I said sure and eat the food there. Anyway regardless, have you had any really spiritual or deep …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:44 PM
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On hand I'm happy that I've gotten to the point where a woman feels comfortable enough with me to bring up giving me a spare key to her apartment, and let me eat dinner at her place. But on the other hand this hasn't gotten me any closer into a relationship. I value the friendship and my social life has improved from the state it was in before even a half a year ago. But still romance and sex alludes me, it's frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:08 PM
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lack of physical touch This is a big one for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:16 PM
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Yeah that's why in the scenario I agree to it. If she's sleeping with me then I assume she's attracted to me so I would say sure. Because I guess she just wasn't sure how serious she wanted the relationship to be. This is of course something I've never experienced before but it's something I'd be open to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:35 PM
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Tbf gay men aren’t that much better on that front. The idea that man will leave you for a man or woman is very scary. Also alot of seemingly very progressive women find the idea of their man having sex with another before they met gross and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:31 PM
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I thought it was just my account for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:28 PM
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Sure why not? Of course things like that don't happen to me but if it did I wouldn't be upset. I suppose if it was years later and she was in a worse place and seemingly just came back to me after running out of options then that would be a different question. I know I'm gonna be settled for but even I have more self respect then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:26 PM
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I think having women as friends can be great for dating in that they can introduce you to their friends. This has never happens to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:14 PM
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Just from personal experience a woman feeling safe with you dosen't mean she'll want to sleep with you or date you. Edit:I think the issue isn't that men haven't tried what your suggested. The problem is that women don't like what you suggest. Instead of trying to convice men of anything you need to talk to the women. They're the road block here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:50 PM
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Women routinely say they feel deceived when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:37 PM
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Well I think I should officially write off this semester. I would say I made a good effort but that would be a lie. I made an mediocre effort and got bad results. It's times like these that I wish I could just drop all my classes and wait until next semester to start over again because I'm not passing two my classes and I doubt I'll pass the third one I have to pass. What did I learn? Don't buy parts for and upgrade PC mid semester. Pay closer attention to my schedule and how it's set up. And st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:54 AM
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That's not that uncommon in certain areas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:40 AM
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2-6 I prefer more feminine women but I also like tomboys plenty enough if we click.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:15 AM
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I'd join but I wouldn't be very active. I don't do well in discord servers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:56 AM
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Maybe I'm crazy but OP never said how women treat the men they expect an apology from. I suppose you can infer that they don't treat those men well or at least not like the gods. But I didn't take it as a extreme as you she did. I also didn't say it was an okay opinion or hateful even. I asked how it was misogyny as I failed to see how it was hatful toward women and how it was looking down on them. I disagree with OP and think that it's a biggeted Idea but I wasn't sure I'd call it misogyny. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:02 PM
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When men talk about how easy it is for women, I always wonder how many of these women they're just not seeing. I see women like this all the time and normally they're seeing someone. Men notice these women but I would imagine the kind of men who regularly hit on women aren't hitting on them because they aren't approachable. It's not that they're invisible they just seem standoffish, not fun, or they don't respond to normal flirting cues. Guys clock them as unavailable and go after other girls. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:26 AM
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it’s not lol. “tall, dark and handsome” is quite a popular trope. same with comments of “he’s so tall 😍” I meant that it's an expectation as in it's one of the rare things women will out right name. all it took was a 5 second reddit search of “favorite part of the male body” to have my suspicions confirmed… Yeah I've read those threads. It's still difficult to find those answers when you aren't explicity looking for it. okay, you’ve answered your own question then, no? Yeah I answered it for mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:27 PM
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i mean, male height counts, as a sexually dimorphic physical trait. and ime, women are plenty open about their love of it, but apparently that’s controversial True but that's rare another popular one is v lines, veiny forearms I almost never see those talked about. it’s really not that hard to find. It is, if you a man and you don't spend time in female spaces you will never hear any of those things talked about. It's really rare to find women say they like v lines. Have I seen it? Yes but is it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:01 PM
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a straight woman should be able to point to specific aspects of a male body that she finds attractive. if she can’t, odds are she’s not straight. Honestly it's difficult to find straight, or bisexual women for that matter, who can point to specific aspects of men they find attractive. I remember hunting around for instances of women talking about what aspects of men's physical body they like. More often then not they'll just ignore the physical aspect entirely and just start talking about person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:32 PM
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I mean yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:45 PM
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D size only matter after they agree to sleep with you. You aren't gonna get laid by just telling women you have a big dick that only works on gay guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:41 PM
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It's from a movie and that's a woman he kidnapped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:21 PM
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Depending on who you are it'll help, though personally it hasn't been a permanent solution. I'd still prefer a gf but I tend to hype fixate less on the problem after sex. Like it's not mind blowing but there's a sort of calming effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:12 PM
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I think the only real answer outside of get lucky is pay for play which is expensive but what you gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:03 PM
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Does it feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:49 PM
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If yes, gonna let her know or nah? I'd feel bad about secretly doing it so yeah I'd tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:37 PM
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You know what's funny I haven't heard of LA devotee because I stopped listing after Vices-virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:08 PM
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I'd go with rock in general. My musical awaking was guitar hero 3 and before that the only music I liked was video sound tracks. The environment I grew up in was mostly RnB, and Hip-Hop which I don't have alot of interest in. When I was younger I listened to alot Paramore, Foo Fighters, Rage Against the Machine, Rise against, Linkin park, POD (which I didn't know was a christian rock band), Crush 40, Boom Satellites, Panic at the disco. I do listen to other things. Like I got really into vocaloi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:55 PM
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q4all: what’s something that makes you happy ? Discovering new songs makes me happy. Music really is one those things that helps me get through my life and if me saw me in the wild I'm probably listing to some song.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:36 PM
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Sounds bad but generally I see red pillers complain about no fault divorce not champion it. Also a lot of men stick around in sexless marriages I think most men just strug their shoulder and stay in unhappy marriages. I could be wrong but I don't think men benefit from no fault divorce as much as women or at least they don't use it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:11 PM
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Enjoy the end of no fault divorce. I'm not sure why that would upset a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:04 PM
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Okay but do you meet friends of friends at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:14 AM
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But the catch is you have to also be chill for people to want to introduce you to their friends. I don't think the issue is being chill since every person I know would describe me as chill. Still I don't go around getting introduced to friends left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:42 PM
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Then again though, my social skills aren't great and most people who don't know me well seem to be put off by me for some reason. I think it's just a "weird filter" basically. If you're off or different in someway normies tend to just pick on that. You can either end up in the "fun weird" camp or the "bad weird" camp. I have sort of a similar effect on people and it's caused me trouble growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:39 PM
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Can you think of any reason why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:26 PM
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What is an active friend group? I’ve met my friends friends at house parties, bbq’s, service industry events, bars, etc. I don't get invited to things and like I said I've only know one guy who "puts stuff together". I'm not saying they don't have other friends but I've never met them. I have three friends I would consider family at this point and I have never met their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:54 PM
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Assholes don't want to fight me and I'm good at deescalating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:38 PM
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No and I'm not bothered that they won't as they would never have to as I don't get into fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:07 PM
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It's really just all the same benefits as a male friend except maybe you'll talk about your feelings occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:15 PM
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For men who are romantically or sexually unsuccessful assuming you have friends how often would you say you are introduced to their friends? Orginally this question was going to be how many female friends has you're female friend introduced you to but I realized this can extend to male friends as well. In this instance romantically unsuccessful means difficulty forming romantic or sexual relationships. So you either don't get likes on dating apps or you get maybe one a month. You either are a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:15 AM
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Thanks I don't get complimented about my voice really.ToraDora really is amazing I wish more new gen anime fans would watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:38 AM
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https://voca.ro/1o3i7W8BJXyp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:58 AM
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I hope those women are in court themselves because that should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:10 PM
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Find a woman who desires you and you don’t ever have to worry about being left behind. I think I would win the lottery before that. I'm being settled for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:51 AM
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I don't hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:34 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vh0hj9ZD9FY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iHr5tJhTgA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:25 AM
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Personal rating is a 6 but I think women would say higher maybe after getting to know you. I agree with hoemath that women basically view all men as 5 and below until they get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:21 AM
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Wow I could have written this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:50 PM
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No it hasn't. Very few people men or women actually participate in hookup culture ev everyone just thinks everyone else is partaking in hookup culture. People keep complaining about hookup culture but it's not causing anything if anything it's the perception that we live in a hookup culture that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:44 PM
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Things were bad before the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:39 PM
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"I know women who have given up on marriage & dating" The interesting bit is that the women who have given up on marriage and dating probably aren't doing so because of the lonely men. They're doing so because the men they're currently dating and fucking aren't meeting their standards. Got noting to do with the men who can't get a date in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:29 PM
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Those cases are definitely unfortunate, but they're not common enough to fear men who approach in a public place. You can also get shot as an innocent bystander, but that doesn't mean you should fear going outside. For alot of women on reddit as long as there's even a 1% chance of a guy overreacting they feel like they have to do things like this. It's why they choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:52 AM
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anorexic girls What parts of twitter do you go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:49 AM
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so I don't know why people always show short men with GF's going "Look! Look! He has a GF! Seems like height isn't your guys' problem 🤭" as some sort of gotcha or proof. People don't have a proper understanding of statics. If I say something is highly improbable you'll have a hundred people telling me about their friend or cousin who manage to do it. I think this is why people play the lottery. They see a few people win and actually think "That could be me".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:47 AM
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Where do you live that this is "a little above average "? This is bait gg man gg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:40 AM
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That seems dumb honestly. I don't think alot of guys actually care if a girls gives it up as a ons, or in a few weeks or months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:30 AM
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Masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:27 AM
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That's not a "normal" nerdy girl, that's a model wearing glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:26 AM
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Looking on the brightside of this year I've gotten used to talking to and touching women, well a woman but whatever same difference. I can't think of a better way to say it. But if I do ever go on date I shouldn't be to afraid to touch her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:53 PM
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I mean if they just slowly poison the men they can make it seem like he died in his sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:50 PM
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Or kik or telegram
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:23 PM
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I had a Tumblr just for art but sfw and NSFW. I also followed a few e-girls because titties. I never posted anything I just scrolled and looked .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:15 PM
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One lives in California and is aromantic (and I suspect asexual) and the other isn't interested in me in that way. I know I've asked and we've talked about it. Besides we hang out together already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:58 PM
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Honestly the more time I spend with women platonically the more it makes me want a gf or some kind of female sexual companion. I'm not picky about weather it's a gf, or fwb just someone to spend time with who I also have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:39 PM
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Key word there is friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:25 PM
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You know that's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:13 PM
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That post is talking about women who do both b/g and g/g which is not what you said. A woman who exclusively dose lesbian porn is making a specific decision to only sleep with women for her job. Now there could be psychological or financial reasons why she's making that chose but first I would need to be told them and then I would have to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:27 PM
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I can't tell if that's a joke or not. If it's not then I would say purposely only doing scenes with women is gay as shit and imo shows a preference for women overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:20 PM
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No because she's probably gay. I've seen women talk alot about how they prefer women but are dating a man and it always sounds fucking horrible. I'm not putting myself through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:14 PM
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That's why I never wear white
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:11 PM
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I really don't get it either. I think black or brown hair is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:27 PM
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They both have 10 fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:02 PM
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She's obviously overreacting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:00 PM
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but hes dating someone else healthy bmi also blond I mean she's less attractive then the girl in the video but still attractive and in great shape. So still good for him and they've been together for 10 years so even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:59 PM
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I don't care about blonds so that means nothing to me but if you mean that girl at the start then yeah she's attractive. Congrats to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:44 PM
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I'll say maybe in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:41 PM
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Solid 4, he needs to lose weight. Honestly he has nice style and takes good photos. If he lost weight I'd say he'd be a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:37 PM
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That's something I've really been realizing. I think on some level they're aware of it but they don't really internalize it. It's like they'd actually have to grow up male or have very close male relatives or friends to fully get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:08 AM
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You're not a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:05 PM
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Why??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:59 PM
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You're a gay man it's not difficult for you to have a sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:57 PM
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I went to my sister's place so my BIL could take a look at my car. I talked to my sister for a bit and during our conversation my coworker came up in conversation. I find it amusing just how many questions she started asking eventhough I made it clear we weren't dating. I guess it makes sense she was being nosey, I am her little brother and this would the second girl I've ever mentioned to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:53 AM
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I wonder if genalpha is gonna be more radicalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:45 AM
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It would depend on the girl tbh if I would think it's compliant. But my gut reaction to this wasn't immediate distrust. It reeks of mind games and I'm not down for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:50 AM
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So what most women I guess? In my experience most women have bfs so I'm not sure I agree with your assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:27 AM
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What does an average girl look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:17 AM
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I'm happy I could make you cringe I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:47 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:38 AM
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Reddit users can't write dialogue to save their lives. I've never read something on reddit and thought that's what a regular person would say, it always sounds fake. I constantly wonder where these people live that everyone they know is so well spoken. No human-being talks like a reddit post and they all sound so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:24 AM
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Then why wasn't that your orginal argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:03 AM
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So the argument is because you can never know it doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:57 AM
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My mom dose I think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:39 AM
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I have and it predictably has mixed results. If a guy was having trouble attracting women changing his environment probably won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:45 PM
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No? Why would they? There might be a small number of femboys who want to live somekind of trad wife fantasy but other gay men aren't looking to have a "traditional husband".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:14 PM
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The physiquecritique is really just a bunch of gay guy complimenting and thirsting after each other. It got to the point where a guy actually censored the bulge in his pants. There's something fastening to me about a non-sexual sub becoming a haven for horny gay dudes looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:35 AM
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I don't really think about getting married so it's not something I consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:25 AM
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What actions do women do as gas? I'm being serious by the way. I've asked this question a few times with no answers. Maybe it's too obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:23 AM
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how do you define "wife material"? Woman who would make a good wife. Or do you think it doesn't exist Yeah it exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:51 AM
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Well I'm obviously biased but no it makes no sense to call a petite woman with no curves a child. When people say things like that I wonder of they've ever actually seen children. I've seen enough petite women to know they don't look like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:50 AM
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Thanks for the vote of confidence but many women would beg to differ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:21 AM
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The post mostly seems odd I suppose. But I never approache things as "I should chase this or that woman". So the idea I shouldn't chase party girls just makes me wonder how many options do you guys think I have lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:10 AM
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Can't this argument be applied to women? If a woman is a dirtbag I'm allowed to be sexist towards her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:43 PM
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I go for who's ever interested, party girl or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:54 AM
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No because I don't think people think on that level at all including politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:08 AM
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That's another angle that I don't see discussed as much. While I get women not wanting children. If mass of liberal women just collectively decide to not reproduce that will just leave the conservatives to have kids and pass on their ideology. If that actually does happen then in 20 years the conservatives would just have more political power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:49 PM
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Based on my beliefs and Laissez-faire attitude around sex and relationships I think it would make sense for me to be promiscuous. If you took an extrovert with moderate social skills and remove the neurodivergen he do totally fine romanticly. Might be abit of a hoe but fine. A moderator of incel.co said that there are two types of incels. The first type is the traditional conservative guy who wants a family and traditional marriage. He's upset about the state of dating and hates what society has…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:07 PM
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I'm not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:38 PM
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Women with small boobs and flat chest should wear more open tops and deep v-necks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:01 PM
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Exactly we agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:49 PM
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wear V-necks without looking sexual. I hate to burst your bubble but flat women in v-necks are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:48 PM
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Seeing that room would just make me like her even more honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:48 PM
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It's funny how many users are in disbelief about him being a virgin. Like people can't believe he can just be a virgin not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:10 PM
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I don't want to just ask men as a whole since red pillers will just skew the results since they're the most likely to shotgun approach alot of women. Yes spouses and gfs don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:03 PM
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I count bars and clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:51 PM
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I asked out a girl this year
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:51 PM
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Q4 Black pilled and purple pilled men Not counting dating apps how many women have you approached and/or asked out on a date this year? The answer doesn't have to be a definite number it can be a rough estimate. Approaching women at bars and clubs count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:47 PM
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Obviously the guy who get chased after by the popular girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:54 PM
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Hmm interesting the women I've always been drawn to have either been older or younger then me. My ex was a year younger then me, the girl I was obsessed with for most of my life was two years older then me, the last three girls I had a crush on were 18, 19, and 33 respectively. The current girl I'm interested is 23 and I'm 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:16 PM
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Or gals I like gals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:09 PM
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People keep saying that theirs this large amount of conservative men and liberal women fucking each other and I've yet to see any proof of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:53 PM
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She went up in height each bf and married the tallest one lol. How didn't she notice that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:46 PM
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I have ADHD and I haven't been tested for Autism. Though people online keep saying I might be Autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 PM
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Work, pick up my mom from the train station, and do homework. Also be horny but I'm like that everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:20 PM
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I don't think these women are that attractive honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:02 AM
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You're putting way to much thought into instagram stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:12 PM
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I mean I'll be a dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:06 PM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:37 PM
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Okay fine do that but it's not a strick that's what I'm getting at and it doesn't accomplish anything politically. I don't understand the reasoning for calling it a strick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:59 PM
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The sex strike is because they don't want to get pregnant as abortion bans span the country. Just wear condoms? Use the pill? Also if that's the argument what is that accomplish exactly? Who is that punishing? The government? Why do so many women on this site specifically mention they're doing this to punish men with no sex? Why even call it a strick? You're just being abstinent there is no strick happening. I'm pro-choice but calling it a strick seems dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:22 PM
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I mean it's not working. South Korean men aren't becoming more feminist they're becoming more anti-feminist and the population is collapsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:17 PM
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I've always been rather skeptical whenever the sex strike thing that's brought up would even do anything. For it to work it would have to mean that not only are these women regularly sleeping with their opposition but they're also marrying and having their children with them. I'm just not convinced that's happening in large enough number to be significant. If the 4B of America was a thing it would just be punishing liberal and leftist men. Which wouldn't accomplish much besides filling the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:29 PM
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Op you know the answer to this question is that it won't effect anything why even ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:59 PM
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I don't think it is and I wasn't making that argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:32 PM
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My family is going to pester me about voting and I'm not in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:17 PM
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Because they have morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:54 AM
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Always get annoyed at the notion that you have to be okay without physical affection or intimacy and if you are you have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:18 AM
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I've said this before but I'm not actually lonely anymore. Well in a platonic emotional sense. I have someone who's there for me emotionally and who I trust to be there for me and listen to me. Someone I don't really feel like I have to put on a performance around. Ofc this person is an online friend but I'm very happy and thankful since we talk nearly everyday. Combine this with the love of my family and the friends I already had I don't really feel lonely. All that said despite not feeling lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:46 AM
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Men will have high standards if they improve. That's untrue lol even if it were true I don't think it would motivate women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:13 PM
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Generally if you just want validation from other men just being in space that are predominantly male will do the trick. Be agreeable and likeable, yes I know easier said then done. But men will validate you in enough circumstances that you can find it if you look. If you specific want validation about your appearance from women then don't both unless you're attractive. It won't happen and even if it dose it'll feel like a lie, always. 9/10 it feels like I'm forcing complaient out of women. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:09 PM
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I mean who saying they don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:39 AM
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Feminist have to in inherently believe in the patriarchy it's baked in to the philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:37 AM
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Generally I don't make the assumption that women have sexual motivations unless otherwise stated. So no, I don't think groups of women have sexual motivations when they're having. I depending on the environment I could see myself assuming a group of women is going to do drugs. But I assume any sex they have while high is incidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:41 AM
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I'm curious what do you consider promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:02 AM
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Going dates and sometimes multiple dates with different people. If someone is just going on a few dates and then getting into a relationship that last anywhere from 8 months to a year. Then they aren't dating around. Dating around means that you aren't committing to any one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:22 PM
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Okay anyone but you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:46 PM
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I don't think anyone would call that dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:07 PM
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The first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:03 PM
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This question is asked so often and the answers are always the same. What's the point of this if we all know the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:38 PM
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The first girl because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:36 PM
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Brain trust of PPD what are some good date ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:43 PM
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Honestly I could see myself being a boy scout.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:39 PM
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Yes I have been that guy in the past. I don't double text anymore and I'm more comfortable making physical contact these days. But I'm still in the "nice to talk to but not to date" category for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:38 PM
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Is the idea of self control foreign to you? It not even a self control thing. Sex involves another person and if women are attracted to you; you're not going to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:52 AM
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Because you want one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:39 PM
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Unpopular opinion: men should always pay for the dates at least at the start of the dating/relationship. This isn't an unpopular opinion most normies believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:38 PM
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For me it would have to Charybidis and Dangerous. Also am I crazy or are all the gods British?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:51 PM
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Exactly I can't survive on cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:04 PM
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Going on my lunch break.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:01 PM
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How was he a bad boy? In you're example you basically did a great job. You showed proper communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:01 PM
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Might even have an opioid problem herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:59 PM
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Eh, this place isn't as negative as say foreveralone or r9k so I think it okay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:12 PM
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And then I had to explain about this place and he said that this is probably not helping because of the negativity I mean he's probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:00 PM
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That men's problem is that the makeup looks different. They aren't complaining that the makeup is smeared or looks different. They complaining that once the makeup is off the woman looks different. Yeah I'm sure they would agree the smeared makeup looks bad but they're more concerned that the woman looks different with it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:31 PM
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>a man's take on the same situation "I want to wake up with the same woman i went to bed with" re: makeup looking different I don't think that's what they mean. The men saying they want wake up with the same woman they went to bed with mean. They mean that woman look different with makeup then without makeup. This is not a defense I just think you interpreted the complaint wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah but you said "but to be mean and shit on people for no reason" I would say neither Flame-Of-Recca were mean about either of those opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:05 PM
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Eh, you can have a harmless opinion about style or appearance. I don't like women with mohawks or practically shaved heads. But that's just my opinion but I don't force it on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:56 PM
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No, I mean Flame-of-Recca currently can't get a date either kinds of women. So telling not to date a kind of woman is kind of redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:49 PM
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Is that a joke lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:33 PM
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I've never been that into TTRPG. I'm suppose I'm to shy lol and the idea of actually role playing doesn't interest me as much. I do like the idea of making a campaign though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:08 PM
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While I won't intentionally go for innocent women I'm not intentionally looking for a similarly degenerate partner. Finding that kind of woman would be like looking for a unicorn; I would have better luck playing the lottery lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:53 PM
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This isn't a standard persay but I like innocence in women. I'm hypersexual and can't remeber a point in my life where I was innocent. So realistically a woman like that would be very unhappy with my degenerate ass and I'd be unhappy with her. But it's not a standard since I don't view it as a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:43 PM
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No problem I'm happy my favorite schizo could cheer someone up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:06 PM
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short hair is disgusting. do you know how many girls are forced to have their short hair and prefer long hair? even many female idols would not be caught dead with short hair. Cutting a famous female characters's long hair short is something a misogynist would want. https://np.reddit.com/r/kof/comments/170rn97/so_ive_heard_that_mai_shiranui_might_be_in_fatal/k3nh97t/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:18 PM
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a lot of people are mindless simpletons, hollow sheep that depend on developers/writers to think for them and give them a purchase and reason to fight. those fools would be lost playing a tabletop roleplaying game (or any game with a creation mode). None of you can match this level of schizo posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:34 PM
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What type of aesthetic do you have? Idk no specific aesthetic really. I wear lost of black and wear mainly jeans. For most of my life I stock to graphic tee's mostly but I've started to wear more polo's and dress shirts. I also have started to wear more color. Blues, greens, and orange mostly but I have some more white shirts then I used too. How do you think you’re perceived by others? Within the last three years I've started to be referred to as sweet, innocent, and had one coworker call me pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:25 PM
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I like my aesthetics and presentation. I was talking about that as well in my last comment. Do you like who you are today? Yeah, I suppose I wish I had more money and sex but that's it really. If you were a woman would you be happy dating someone like you if you had more options? Yes Improving yourself doesn’t change who you are and if someone likes the improved version of you they still like you for who you are. I improve myself in ways I want to not in ways that may make women like me more. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:01 PM
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I'm being who I am as I am. I'm not into becoming what women want. If a woman doesn't want for who I am or who I personally want to be they don't want me at all. some amount of validation so maybe you could do that for them I do this already and it makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:47 PM
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But the average man is overweight there for I should be above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:41 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:36 PM
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I'm not fat though literally no one would call me fat. I'm 13lb from being overweight lol. I do like overweight women but they also aren't attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:36 PM
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What if I'm skinny as well? Tbf I'm not skinny I'm 5'9 and 157lb. So I'm close to overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:26 PM
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No because I'm not female and how tough my gf is wouldn't matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:29 PM
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Which of your parents is the black one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:52 AM
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I hate that thugmaxxing is a legit strat that works, especially for someone like me. I do as well but theirs a sort of adituded that people want in black men and there's not much you or I can do to change that sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:34 AM
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They did have the raw data for n-count the highest was 200, the second highest was 130, the third highest was 100. All three were men, two were straight and one was a gay guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:24 AM
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Not just confidence but showy outward confidence. You can be a confident introvert but that just ends up with people thinking you want to left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:17 AM
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Huh I would have figured you were interesting. I assume most women consider themselves feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:46 AM
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Kinda for the one being approached when their sales job begins after the relationship begins. They have to prove they're worth commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:36 AM
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I don't know if it's a crime but it's kinda fucked up you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:28 AM
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Everything is sales including attracting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:15 AM
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You have never been to menslib or talked to a male feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:22 PM
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No. I'm serious I can translate for you. Their degree or high powered job doesn't matter. What matters if they're attracted to me, do they have time for me in their life, do they want me in their life, and the most important question do they want to date me. Women tend not to date down so it's a fair bet that a higher educated, ambitious, athletic woman wouldn't want a man who's the opposite or less impressive. Basically you always have to do some mental math of how likely is any given woman to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah in the same way some men shouldn't have daughters some women shouldn't have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:54 PM
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B why would I ever choose A?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:06 PM
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I'm lower class and so are the women I know so my answer will probably be different from alot of people's. I know or knew two young single mothers. One was a girl I was extremely obsessed with. She got pregnant freshman year of high-school and after that was in and out of relationships for the three years I knew her. It would be a cycle where she would get into a relationship and then something would happen and 6 months she would be single again and then a month or two later she would be dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:30 PM
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Where did OP say that? It's not in the comment you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:56 AM
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I'm very jealous of men's healthcare Can you elaborate on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:16 AM
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It's less embarrassing for men to openly admit that they play video games than women to openly admit they love Taylor Swift. No it isn't, sure it's no where near as bad as it was in say the 80's or 90's. Do you not know any male nerds? Did you not see them be made fun of for playing games?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:14 AM
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You're Canadian?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:03 AM
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That uncle you see every 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:55 PM
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I genuinely confused at how this is such a common experience and I've only experience two or three times and honestly three is really stretching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah it counts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:14 PM
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Q4M Have you ever experienced a woman feigning helplessness or ignorance for attention? I can maybe if I stretch it I can think of maybe three instances but honestly two of those three are 10 year old memories that are kinda hazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:06 PM
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I'll let you know when either want to have sex with me. Which do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:46 PM
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women feigning dumb to get out of an argument Never experienced this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:45 PM
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Hmm okay, well I would advice not making a broad generalization based on a few of your friends but you probably know that. To answer you're title I have no idea that is something people say on norime subs all the time but there no way for me to prove or disprove that besides personal experience. Personally I can't say my friends have this problem and I don't think I have this issue. But then again no one points out "someone who is genuinely interested in me" so this doesn't match my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:49 AM
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Do any of those men self-identify as low SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:29 AM
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Not really it's just one guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:05 AM
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Yes very much so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:19 AM
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Yes? Assuming that I'm not immature, I can still be with her while she matures. Life is a journey and I'd want to experience with a another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:44 AM
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Is this a fetish thing gloom? Either way I'd be turned on and I guess assume she's extremely comfortable or she has a waterworks fetish and is trying to gauge my interest. Either way works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:08 AM
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You're never gonna convince the other person to change so why argue? While I don't think you can directly change someone's mind I do believe in other circumstances you can basically help them move them towards changing their minds. People have to believe they changed their mind without the influences of someone else. That said I think in this specific instance that this will likely never happen. There's just not much incentive for women to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:44 AM
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<image> Better then I thought I'd get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:33 AM
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That's always my reaction to this question. Regardless of what the reasons are you are never going to convince enough women to start approaching men so the conversation is really pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:35 AM
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Well having sex would be a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:54 AM
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It's just fragrances. Wear colleen and use scented creams, shampoo, and lotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:14 AM
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A bit of self evaluation, thinking about if you've seen the situation before and what you might do. Since I've been in some of those situations before I'd equally help men and women. The only thing that would be different is that women tend to be physically weaker then men so I'm more likely to help them lift heavy things. Are you slightly more likely because of a social reason (you want to help women more) or a physical reason (you can offer strength she doesn't have)? I'm slightly more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:44 PM
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Is there anyway for me to know this? I would say I'm only slightly more likely to help a woman in any of those scenarios but I could be wrong about that. Maybe I'm not as egalitarian then I thought. Maybe I'm actually more misogynistic then I thought. Idk I can't really know for sure unless you put me in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:32 PM
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But don't you see those women are low vaule so it shouldn't bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:09 AM
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Peace is a nice-to-have Peace is a nice piece of ass? Is that what you're trying to say? I've never said all I want is peace and it would be disingenuous to say I speak for sexually successful men as I am not one. All I want is a woman who is attracted to me who I am attracted to. Who is okay with having sex with me occasionally and I guess isn't to aggressive or fat. I do like chubby women so there are bigger women I like I just have size limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:05 PM
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Great sex + bad relationship. I'm too hypersexual to be in a sexless relationship. The only way I would possibly accept that is if the sexlessness was a medical issue and even then I would probably still want some kind of sexual intimacy or physical intimacy in general. Basically I don't care how great woman A is we would be incomparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:12 PM
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This happened at the gym I go to and I rushed over to help. It was me and another guy. Then a third guy came over to check and see if she was okay. After that happened I just kept looking over at her because after a little while she went back to her routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:52 AM
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Maybe I'd have no way of knowing. But just because someone else is immoral that doesn't there for mean I get to he immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:47 AM
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Sadly I believe rape is immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:16 AM
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I also think it misses the point. Some men are against visiting prostitutes and want women they don’t pay. That’s understandable because some people have different views of sex. Exactly, this is especially true since most people in the US have some kind objection to the mere idea of seeing a sex worker. Most of the people making the incels should seek escorts argument would never see one themselves if they were in the same situation so it's ridiculous to expect an incel to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:06 AM
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It's $20.1 for 2 IMAX tickets where I'm from and I'm just spit balling here but another 20 for concessions though realistically it's probably just $15. So in total we're looking at 35 - 40 dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:36 AM
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I personally don't care how pathetic it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:26 AM
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That's cool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:23 AM
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I think you're getting scammed by women man because I guaranty average guys with their average gfs are not spend $100 to just go on a movie date. This isn't a hood thing I've never seen any other guy mention this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:18 AM
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Where do you live where that's the case? Over here a movie and popcorn would cost like $35 maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:13 AM
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That seems way cheaper than a GF if all you care about is getting sex. It's not all I care about I would just also like to have sex more then once a month. even if she's willing to spend on you you are still going to be spending a lot of time with her. You mean spend a lot of money on her right? Because I do not see the issue of spending time with your girlfriend. Can you just spend a night watching a movie with you're gf? Do you have to pay every time you see her? Do you have strictly professio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:04 AM
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Something I realized after looking for escorts and finding sex workers is that it's not for the poor. In the US unless we're talking about hookers on the street generally you're probably going to be spending $150+ for 30mins. Also $150 for 30mins actually isn't that common it's usually $200 or $300. So if you say wanted to have sex twice a month you're looking at about $300 at a minimum and at the maximum somewhere in the 1000's. If you're someone who works minimum wage or makes 17-18 dollars an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:52 AM
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I took Jujitsu for a year or two as a kid. Didn't like it and wasn't good at it. I'm not competitive, I hated sparing and I didn't really make progress at a rate that motivated me. In the end I realized material arts wasn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:51 AM
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To women yeah Edit: actually maybe most women find me ugly as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:30 AM
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That's fine the same thoughts process would still apply. Women might not like my ideas for activities or my stories but I like them so that's what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:36 PM
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I feel like this goes without saying but I don't actually think I'm unattractive. I think women aren't attracted to me but I personally think I'm average looking. I have the same thoughts about how uninteresting I am to women. I like my hobbies and interest so I don't actually think I'm uninteresting. That said I do think I'm not charming. I just think you should make a distinction between what you find attractive, and what other people find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:58 PM
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I never said they aren't effective I questioned how one developed a reputation in a city. As someone else said the real answer is mixed social circles I suppose. Which I do not have so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:34 PM
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Not good I guess but I accepted that along time ago. I'm not the social marketing guy and I don't want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:26 PM
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I don't want to know my neighbors better and my friend's friends aren't really my kind of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:20 PM
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Accepting your premises here I'm not seeing what the issue is. In my experience the most traditional a man expects women to be is young and pretty I guess. I suppose you're talking about red pillers in which case you'd have a point but otherwise it seems like you're boxing at shadows here. I do find it interesting how many women complain about being expected conform to traditional gender roles but will also expect men to conform to traditional gender roles. It stricks me as hypothetical. Women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:18 PM
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Ohh I stopped having that after high-school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:05 PM
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I've never had this happen I guess. I don't know my neighbors and they don't know me and I only briefly meet my friend's friends. So really I don't have much of a reputation with them. I suppose I have a reputation at work but that's it. Also I don't frequent places often enough for employees to recognize me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:04 PM
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what are you doing to be the product they want Nothing what is your reputation? This a strange question to ask since if you live in a city you don't really have a reputation as far as I know. Since I live in a city every person I meet is a stranger. I may have a reputation at work but that's it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:44 PM
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I mean that's still alot and probably more then most men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:18 AM
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I mean I'm of the opinion more women should wear bows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:10 AM
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I like all the girls in the lefts ecstatic. In fact I went on a date with a girl who dresses like that. I like women who wear frills, lots of colors, and tends to or only wears dresses. I also like goth and emo women. So I'm a man of extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:07 AM
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I agree it's peak hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:01 AM
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Really? you look good Thanks I've only really heard postive things about my appearance from adults, one girl, and a gay guy growing up. It was only within these last few years I've had people around my age compliment my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:28 AM
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Thanks second time I've heard that second time I was a random lady off some random website a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:19 AM
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I don't know what unc is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:12 AM
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nonthreatening black guy is like the worst male archetype In my experience you're not wrong but thats my lot in life and I don't want to thugmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:02 AM
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I could but I won't I never really wanted to. I view doing that as s big decision honestly. I get other don't but I've had my hair like this my entire life. Call it stubbornness but since I got alot of shit about my hair my entire life I view it as an extension of myself and my identity. Everyone always asked if I thought of doing something with my hair and the answer is only if I absolutely had to and it the situation was dire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:00 AM
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First time I've ever heard that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:52 AM
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Thanks it was one those things that was unpopular growing up tbh. Mainly by girls guys didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:51 AM
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Idk, the ratings are how people feel so they aren't really wrong. Though I personally think I'm average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:49 AM
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I try and I have started going to the gym. Though honestly I don't have much interest in being very muscler.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:46 AM
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Thanks I think so as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:43 AM
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How tall are you? 5'9 Can you thugmaxx? Even if I could I wouldn't. I see gang banger I do not want to be like them. No amount of pussy is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:40 AM
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Eh, not to surprised gay guys have always liked me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:38 AM
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<image> That's the pic I used for reference I'm deleting this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:37 AM
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<image> This is when it was set to females only, so it's worse then when it's both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:35 AM
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Have you considered pursuing women who are attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:13 AM
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Honestly what you orginally said sounded different then what you meant. It sound like you were saying men shouldn't but as much effort into OLD. But here it seems like you're chastising men for not putting in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:41 PM
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It's becasue you're a chubby chaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:29 AM
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I love small tits and think the smaller the better. A girl having AA-cups would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:28 AM
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If we're calling sexy things bad ass then yeah it's badass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:27 AM
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18 years old for youngest and 35 for oldest. For reference I'm 27
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:25 AM
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The democratic party doesn't know how to appeal to men so they constantly fail at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:18 AM
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I thought most women were anti-beard. I've never seen a woman happy a guy grew a breard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:42 AM
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Now that's a reveal I wouldn't mind taking part in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:45 PM
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I'm surprised you would admit to being into ageplay. I'm not shaming you or anything just surprising since it's pretty controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:42 PM
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Yeah I would tell my SO if I had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:15 PM
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I mean I agree with the overall idea that you should pay attention to how people behave and not completely trust what they say. That said u/Hosj_karp was talking about my comment and as I said in this particular instance my actions match my word. I never said I would date an ugly girl I said the opinions of other men do not effect who I date or don't date. That it wouldn't even occur to me. There's not contradiction between my actions and words in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:28 PM
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Don't listen to what people say, watch what they do. This is an instance where what I say and what I do matche. I have been interesting in women who were unattractive to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:00 PM
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I assumed she was attractive orginally because I would imagine a chad wouldn't settle for someone average. But in my reply I assumed you meant an average women and replied with that in mind. Either way the women are lucky since he would have no reason to really settle unless he wants kids and a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:15 AM
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She happened to meet him and they're personality happened to click in such away that it made a guy who otherwise has no actual reason to choice an average woman, choice her. She basically played the lottery and won. Good for her I suppose. If we're being very optimistic you could say something like "she's such great partner she won over this guy". But I'm not that optimistic so I'd say she was lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:07 AM
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It says that she's lucky and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:29 AM
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I think I'd theoretically do well where I am as well. I just don't. It's more of a personality thing I suppose. I don't really fit into the party, club, or bar scenes so that takes out that as an option. Dating apps are no better. I'm not charismatic, and women don't really find me interesting. I guess I lack "swag" an important competent of what makes a man attractive especially if you're average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:16 AM
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Yeah, east coast
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:55 AM
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Honestly being both hypersexual and not sexually successful is truly horrible and I don't know how explain it to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:54 AM
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You can be hypersexual and not sexually successful. I'm a living example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:38 AM
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I do wish people wouldn't recommend bars and clubs as much. Some people just don't belong in those environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:36 AM
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That's not surprising. There's been research showing that incels are disproportionately poc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:31 AM
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You look like a friend of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:27 AM
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It wouldn't even occur to me usually. There are times when I recognize that woman wasn't conventionally attractive so I understand other guys wouldn't be as interested but if a girl has just been single for a while or years I just assume she's not interested in anyone. But the idea that a girl has no one interested in her at all wouldn't pop into my head. I just assume that any average girl has at least 2 or 3 guys interested in her. If she didn't have anyone interested in her that would be odd …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:09 PM
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The assumption I'm making is that 1 is also a 2 basically even I though I know that's not always the case. In fact it's probably the case. But since you didn't specifie I choose to believe 1 is also basically a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:34 AM
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1 because I can still have sex with her and presumably she's attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:30 AM
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Yeah she counts though I know that was controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:48 PM
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Action adventure games tend to appeal less to women in general, so it's natural they'd more frequently feature male protagonists. Straight female protagonists will be more rare just due to market dynamics. Male players want to romance women, news at 11? I agree with you and I think it's okay that men and women gravitie towards certain things and that those thing cater to that audience. I just find it strange or well interesting that there's been a modern push for more female protagonist in games…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:07 PM
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Eh,this is gatekeepy but I wouldn't count it as one. It has RPG mechanics but it is not an rpg.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:02 PM
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Like unless you include games where the story has a line about some wife/girlfriend or whatever you pull up maybe a handful of titles. It doesn't have to be their wife or gf just a love interest. Tales of Abyss, Tales of Graces, Tales of Arise, Tales of Hearts R, Uncharted, Jak and Daxter, Prince of Persia, Infamous 1, Infamous 2, and La Noire. Now to be fair the tales games are rpgs so they wouldn't count. But they are examples of games where the male protagonist has a female love interest and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:00 PM
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RPG's tend to have the better romance stories I disagree but that's not a big deal It seems disingenuous to formulate a hypothesis but where most of your data points will come from. I'm taking out the obvious games like otome games and rpgs because that's not what the comment was talking about. She was talking about Horizon Forbidden West. An action adventure game where you play a protagonist who goes on an adventure in a post apocalypse setting. Telling that commentor to play rpgs to get what s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:41 PM
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Purely straight, think uncharted but female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:25 PM
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Biowar stuff, Fire Emblem, Skyrim and the Witcher are all rpgs. So they don't meet the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:19 PM
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Fair fair I assumed alive because there are a few female protagonist with dead husbands but I figured the orginal commentor didn't mean games like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:15 PM
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Yeah I guess that counts. I'd count it at least since he's kinda alive so it works sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:56 PM
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Mass effect is an rpg so I don't really count it honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:48 PM
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That's only in the orginal games right? She's not married in the reboots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:45 PM
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That have a male love interest apologies for typeos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:41 PM
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How many games can you name that have a straight female protagonist that have a male love interest? Not counting dating Sims and rpgs. Edit: The reason this poped into my head is because around the time Horizon Forbidden West released there was some conversation about wheater Aloe was gay, straight, or assxual. I remember a female commentor saying how she wishes Aloe had a male love interest because there aren't any games with female protagonist with male love interest. And I remember sitting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:30 PM
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I do as well. They're probably just very obesit and/or deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:16 PM
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Alright fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:22 PM
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Notice how I said it feels like a need. That's important because weather it is one or not doesn't really matter because a lack of it will have the same or a similar affect on the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:46 PM
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I can tell you from experience they do not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:45 PM
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They are, because they’ll choose her over being single. No like he said they're desperate for women's attention and affection. It's not specific to dysfunctional women. That's what he's getting at. The homeless person just wants food and basically uncaring about the quality of the food. I'm sure if you asked them they would prefer a 3 course meal at a 5 star restaurant but they know that's not attainable so this will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:34 PM
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Getting desperate to the point he wants dysfunctional women lets me know something is mentally wrong with him. Okay, honestly I'm not sure what you're getting at probably because someone having something "mentally wrong" with them doesn't matter to me. Homeless people are in survival mode…and most of them are mentally ill too. Yes when you have a biological need or what feels like a need you enter survival mode or desperation. I don't care if they're mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:30 PM
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It's not that I don't "realize it" I disagree. This is like saying friendships just happen when you improve your life. Which I can say isn't true for me. I have to purposely try to make friends. No amount of life improvement makes friendships happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:54 PM
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Though, the clearest theory as to why these guys obsess over these people is that the guys are toxic and dysfunctional themselves, but arent aware. This is wrong. They aren't toxic and dysfunctional they're just desperate. I'm sure if you asked any of them they'd prefer a healthy relationship but baring that they will take any relationship or sexual intimacy that is both moral to them and provides them with validation. It's like a homeless person being jealous of another homeless person for eati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:51 PM
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HoeMath is that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:28 PM
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Shorter then me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:33 PM
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I don't think the majority of men hate sluts or promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:06 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:03 PM
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tbf to them they did say anything about apprance they just said "attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:03 PM
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A 27 year old male
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:59 PM
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Go about my business. Do you asking out every cute woman you see ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:08 PM
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Those channels exist they're just on tiktok. I think women use tiktok more then men do so that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:10 PM
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Why are you asking ppd? Why did you make a whole post for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:08 PM
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Taking OP's flair at her word she's a woman and presumably not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:16 AM
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Isn't that just common knowledge? I would say it's hard for people in mainstream subs to admit this especially women. They'll write whole novels about how looks don't matter or they do but only a tiny amount. They'll say it's social skills and personality that women love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:17 AM
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How would I know either would be happening? I guess I would rather be picked but since I don't think I'll be getting picked I'm already prepared to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:48 AM
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After talking to my coworker last night (she's the one I went grocery shopping with last night). It seems like the reason so many people are leaving is mostly because of problems with management. From what I can tell while there are problems with specific managers I think the main issue is top down. The main guy doesn't know how to pick quality managers, doesn't listen to his employees, and plays favorites. He also has this outward appearance of being cheerful, carrying, and understanding. He ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:56 PM
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I've only ever had to do that happen with scam artiest. No other person really wants to talk to me or see me or know what I'm doing. Honestly I'm kinda jealous of that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:04 AM
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One of the benefits of being a loaner who has difficulties connecting with people is that I don't really have to cut people off. People are always talking about how I have to be carful about who you let into your life but the thing is that no one is actively trying to be apart of my life. While I do sometimes worry about being manipulated I largely don't worry about it since there's seemingly no one who dose want to use or manipulate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:30 AM
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If both parties agree to it then it's not immoral but if one person does it without telling the other one then it's immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:16 AM
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Q4W Do men comment on your clothes? Criticize you? Compliment? Comments about what you should or shouldn't wear? I don't just mean friends or family I also mean random dudes on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:20 PM
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Lol I'm surprised a women would say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:27 PM
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Eh, I agree but I really do think you're undervaluing sex. But then again alot of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:01 PM
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But I don't want a harem...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:23 AM
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He's playing the worlds smallest violin to show just how little sympathy he has for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:58 PM
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I have and the experience I had was varying levels of poor results. I got a few likes from older women on bumble who didn't message me so I don't really count them, I talked to one woman on there for a day and then she was gone. Tinder, okcupid, and POF was all bots, scammers, escorts, and onlyfans girls. I tried boo and matched with a deaf girl who I admittedly fumbled, nothing else from there. I tried two hookup apps one gave me no results and another required I spend money to get an extremely…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:36 PM
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It's always strange reading comments about how dating apps give men a sense of having a lot of options. It's like I live in entirely different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:40 PM
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How boring of a purpose. Loki would be so disgusted. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:28 PM
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This is a Blackpill view point. That is more or less what I would say I wouldn't try to convince people they should be happy not getting into relationship or having sex. The frustration is completely understandable but aside from doing you're best with the cards you've been dealt there's nothing else you can do. Just learn to live with the pain basically and spend your time doing other thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:00 AM
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Is this a good example? I mean I guess he is accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:16 PM
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No because if I remember correctly she moved back to Argentina because he didn't have enough money to "support" her. So no like lulll said he's probably getting scammed. He should be a cautionary tale more then anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:57 PM
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It just sounds like you want a wealthy boyfriend. Why not just say that? Yeah but what are the odds that he is also hot and kind. I'm guessing you don't find alot of men hot so chances are very low. I think sugar daddies are usually geriatric and weird Weird yes geriatric is up in the air. Also you do realize there's a sexual componet to all of this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:11 AM
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True I can't have by small tity goth girlfriend and you can't have a sugar daddy. Seriously though you could probably find a sugar daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:02 AM
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If only it were that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:55 AM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:54 AM
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I'm gonna kinda disagree with you here. While sexual fantasies may play a greater role in how men perceive potential partners. I would say romantic fantasies play a large role in how women perceive potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:51 PM
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I agree but that really isn't exclusive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:43 PM
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As long as men are the "pursuers" women will have an easier time finding dates, sex, relationships, situationship, etc... It doesn't matter what's "wrong" with them they will just have an easier time meeting guys as men have a lower threshold in the initial stages of dating; but relatively high standers for commitment. If I had to guess what happens with mental ill or neurodivergent women is after they get past the initial stages the men they want start picking up on their "quirks". Which start …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:24 PM
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Why are you asking women this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:33 PM
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you would be surprised tbh in some groups of people it is normal to have 20, 30, 40. No I wouldn't be surprised as I know promiscuous people exist so no I wouldn't be surprised I'm just saying it's unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:46 AM
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Because you claimed it was an opinion when I'm trying to prove factual point. I get triggered when people say a fact is an opinion. It's not an opinion the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:42 AM
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Okay? I'm not trying to make you care. You claimed this was my opinion which isn't true it's literally facts and data. How many people normies sleep with is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:36 AM
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Yeah I mean statically it's high 7.4 Average number of sexual partners lifetime (CDC) - https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm On average, people who live in the United States have between 10 and 11 sexual partners over the course of their lives. However, the average number of sexual partners a person in the US has can vary widely from state to state, based upon local cultures and religious preferences in particular. For example, residents of Louisiana report an average of 15…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:35 AM
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I'm confused what you're saying here. Are you saying all men who befriend women are befriending cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:21 AM
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I don't care about n-count but 30 is very high. Like most people don't even get into the double digits much less to 20 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:19 AM
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What's happening in the comments of that video, are they AI generated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:56 AM
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It's a fun, currently popular show about dating with various characters set in Paris. I know what the show is about I'm just confused why you bring it up specifically. Like why not other shows? I guess you just like it alot? Stay upset by it. I was just asking questions. I thought my question were good natured. Genuinely do I seem upset? How? What did I write that made me seem upset? I can't tell if this a joke or not. Are you being playful?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:51 AM
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Okay? What does the time period have to do with anything? Can it be any show that's set in modern day?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:32 AM
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What is with you and Emily in Paris? lol Why Emily in Paris specifically? Why not Bridgerton or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:56 AM
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This sub is really not… normie. Or sociable. Is this surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:00 PM
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Have you tried getting into the local rock/punk scene? I wouldn't know where to look. I only know of one alt club and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:53 PM
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The number of losers is way too high and increasing way too rapidly. I would argue that's more to do with the lack of widespread death like there used to be in the past. Most men that didn't reproduce in the past just died young, or in war, or doing something dangerous, or to sickness. There are more people living longer healthier lives and so the losers who would normally be died by now are instead suffering alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:56 PM
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Three weeks ago I went to bar hoping downtown in the town 30min away from me. I went to 4 different bars. They were college bars full of drunk students. The music was constantly playing though to befair I only stayed in three of them 30min and I stayed in one for an hour. I went to an after part for a con last year around now. It was a basement some where in NYC. The dj played mostly caribbean music. Around sometime in April of this year I went to a club in NYC for a friend's birthday party that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:27 PM
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There wasn't in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:15 PM
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Various genres of rock i.e. punk, pop punk, alt rock, metal, power metal, nu metal, etc... Edm (just to be general) dj's I like are Cameilla, Akira complex, Ghost Data, studio killers, MoxiFloxi I also listen to parcels, and miami horro so I enjoy indie pop stuff as well. At this point I'm not convinced the kind of music is the problem it's the environment really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:14 PM
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Yeah everytime I go to bars or clubs I reminded why I don't like them. I hate alcohol, I hate feeling drunk, everyone's in groups doing their own thing, the musics to loud and I can't hear anyone, and I wasted money getting there. It's never a fun experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:29 PM
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I mean there's not a whole lot of alternatives. There's clubs, and bars which is just cold approach in a different environment. There's joining hobby groups, and dating within your social circle but that probably has just as low success rate and relies on you constantly meeting new people. Dating apps are no better then cold approach as far as rate of failure is concerned. The west doesn't do arranged marriages. I guess you could have friend set you up but I don't know how often that actually ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:45 AM
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Dating apps still favor the top percentage of men. True but everything favors those men they are the top percentage for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:36 AM
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I think I have the right to be, but fuck them all, they don’t want or care about me so why should I care about them? How are you blue pilled? You have to be the most jaded blue piller here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:34 AM
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I work weekends and I would like to not use PTO willy nilly. I want to save up for a trip to Australia this January so I'm trying to not to use to use my PTO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:01 PM
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I guinually have no idea what you want from me. Am I supposed to just skipp classes and constantly take days off from work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:46 PM
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Eh, my work schedule is ever shifting. If I had specific days off then I would do stuff then specifically but I like money to much to not work weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:27 PM
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Tell me what are your plans to increase dopamine, increse sexual success and decrease stress for the week? This week? Nothing really besides maybe go roller skating on Wednesday and next Monday I'll do a board game event at a hobby shop in the next town over. But that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:15 PM
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Excuses. Excuses. Excuses. There was only max two excuses and one wasn't an excuse it was me saying a show looks like it sucks. I like media made for and by women just not Emily in Paris. Plan travel. I do and it happens when I only have work to worry about. Doesn't sound like you're doing it so it's not working I am it's just not working. I eat out at dinners on occasion. I treat myself kindly. Why can't you just accept that someone can do these things and not have they're dating life improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:03 PM
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I already do most of these things and anything I don't do is either because I don't want to (I hear Emily in Paris is bad), or I don't have the time (work and school mean I can't just travel willy nilly). Otherwise I do these things and my dating life hasn't improved. I guinually do not know why advice like this is so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:49 PM
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Western Europe as I'm Black and there maybe more women in western Europe okay with dating a black man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:58 AM
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This one obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:53 AM
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Imagine going to an escort and tell her you’ll pay her with experiencing YOUR kink and get free sex 🤡🤡🤡 I don’t get it Having talked to alot a sex workers this is actually fairly common. It's mostly an ego thing since most people don't really want to pay for sex and view the act of it at degrading. But if you charm a sex worker with pure charisma, and charm you're better then all those other losers. How often does that work? It's probably not common but it most likely works on occasion, once in …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:52 AM
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As long as your okay with being chatted up by drunk guys you'll be fine probably
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:02 AM
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I haven't been here long but go at it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:00 AM
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It is in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:35 PM
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Personally it's because I don't think negatively of them. That's all it is. I don't hear about some women dating some jackass and think "she's probably a cunt". Sure some have to be but enough normal women talk about how they've dated abusive men that it hard for me to write them off as trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:13 PM
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Many have short relationships all the time and pursue men they find attractive This is something I've been thinking about for awhile and I think this is the biggest reason alot of guys go after cluster be types. Unlike you're average woman they actively pursue, sometimes obsessively, the men they want. Sure sometimes it might be "subtle" but it's often more obvious then most average woman's "hints". Like I don't think men like the ups and downs or mood swings. It's just that those are the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:05 PM
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Because of all the other reasons? I'm an atheist, I'm egalitarian, I'm bisexual, I believe democracy is the best political system (for now), I'm socially a libertarian and would find strict inflexible societies distasteful at best, and it would ungodly hot. Just because my dating life would be better that doesn't mean everything else wouldn't suck. I approached the question as "would my dating life be better" and the answer is yes. In comparison to the shit state it's in now it would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:58 PM
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We?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:51 PM
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I have empathy for women and their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:00 PM
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I'm natrually quite pessimistic so optimism is difficult for me to be unless I see a reason to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:26 PM
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Because it's an arranged marriage vs no marriage. While I'm not gung ho to get married if I ever wanted to, an arranged one is my best chances. I'm not exactly going on dates and having ssx in the west; and I'm pretty sure if I do end up with any woman she'll be settling anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:55 PM
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Yeah the marriage would probably be unhappy or maybe we'll learn to tolerate each other. I'll take the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:38 PM
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If you mean exclusively for dating and not considering anything else. Then the middel east would be better as I could potentially have an arranged marriage. There's no real benefit for me in the west as far are sex and relationships are concerned. But if I consider anything else I'd choose the west despite the guaranteed wife. I'm not religious and I hate the heat so the middle east sound like hell. Edit: When I take into account my philosophical beliefs, political beliefs, religious beliefs, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:08 PM
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What do you want to be discussed exactly? Sure I agree soical skills matter quite abit and if a man isn't charming or charismatic he had better be very hot because he's doomed otherwise. And I also dislike how much emphasis women put on charm, social skills, and charisma. But there's nothing anyone can logically do about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:00 PM
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More or less yeah. I think for average looking men causal sex is only something they can have extremely rarely and for alot of them it usually involves lying seemingly. Attractive men can have it fairly easily, though I would imagine they still have to search it out abit. Unattractive men can't have causal sex and have to get into relationships in order to have sex at all. At the end of the day if you're a man who wants to have sex with women you had better be attractive or be looking for a seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:04 AM
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Pretty self-explanatory I never think about stuff like that because I would never do anything like that. Honestly that whole scenario is unimaginable to me. Even when I do stuff late at night I'm in bed by 2am at the latest. "Be spontaneous when you have time" sounds like planned sponteneity, that not how true sponteneity works. I guess but that's still plenty spontaneous to me it's how I live my life already. I keep in mind what I do and don't have time for and work around that. I have a class …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:33 PM
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And so I was curious what is going through men’s heads when we joke like this. If you mean jokes playing up gender roles then I mostly find them unfunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:17 PM
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D) Be confused about what the joke is and then after thinking about it for a minute realize that the joke is about gender roles. I don't laugh since it's not that funny. Change the subject or ask if she's gotten the car checkef recently as an attempt to make small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:14 PM
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Okay then you can still date him congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:04 PM
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Just don't move in with them. You don't have to move in and you could also just make someone clean their own mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:57 PM
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If youre living with your partner they deserve to know where youre going and what youre general schedule is. I get the general schedule part but why where you're going? (because it will impact things down the line). How? Generally you also want to be considerate of them, their time and the plans and comittments that you have made You can still do that while still spontaneously doing things. Make plans and just do stuff spontaneously when you don't have plans. Edit: Isn't this just how life is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:57 PM
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What does that have to do with being in a relationship? Just don't clean up after someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:59 PM
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Why can't you do that in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:58 PM
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Idk I've been single most of my life. I don't have any relationship experience to compare it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:57 PM
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Lol I would say the majority of the used base here are straight laced yes. The women here mostly seem to be married or in long-term relationships. They don't do recreational drugs, don't have causal sex, wouldn't date a man who does have causal sex, and hold getting into a long stable relationship as the ultimate goal. The men here are actually much the same. More often then not they don't do recreational drugs, if they can have causal sex don't want to, don't want women who do have causal sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:49 PM
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I've only been active in this sub for a short while and I find it interesting that the men and women of this sub are overwhelmingly soically conservative. Yeah there's a few soically liberal women on here but I've noticed that most of the ones posting and arguing aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:00 PM
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Give time a few years they'll get with the program
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:53 PM
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Do you think there is a level that can be reached where you can be desirable or bare minimum successful to aquire/attain a relationship or sex? Yes I think there is a level where an unattractive man could via unlimited amount of effort/energy would be able to get into a relationship but most likely not have causal sex. I would say getting into some kind of causal relationship would require a lot of effort and would be highly improbable if not impossible for an unattractive man. I don't personall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:18 PM
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Probably not if they're a good enough actor, If they're a bad actor then yeah I would know. I said I had sex with two strippers on here before and I could tell they were both acting but the first girl was the worst at it. The second woman was a better actor but she overexaggerated the quality if the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:31 PM
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Do not think of personality as something that is the end goal I think of personality as a set of actions, behaviors, and mindset that make up an overall person. So while I wouldn't use investment I suppose effort and energy are appropriate words. If we can agree that an attractive man who invests no/little effort/energy/investment is undesirable Depends what you mean by undesirable. If you mean in the long term then maybe but if you mean in the short term then I would say he would still be desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah I'd be open to interacting sexually or romantically but depending how long that ghosting went on for I would approach it with alot of caution. If it's been 6 months to a year since I heard from that person I would write them off and if they came back I would assume something like this will happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:18 PM
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You're logic is sound but I still would say looks are the most important aspect of the looks and perosnality question. That doesn't mean perosnality doesn't matter but it only matters after a relationship is established. I'm always focused on establishing a relationship rather then maintaining it, probably because that's the aspect I have difficulty with and that's the aspect I see other men struggle with as well. I think as long as the base looks test exist it will always be more important then…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:12 PM
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I know men that live in different states than their kids and talk to them every other week. I don't really have a dog in this race, as I'm probably not going to have kids. But this doesn't really prove what you're saying. I guess this shows our difference in experience but telling me that these men live in another state or only see the kids every other week tells me nothing really. There are many men who parent and be in their children lives but can't due to not having full custody and only seei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:50 AM
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Do you believe that trend exists? Not really no. In my experience I've had every girl I know talk about marriage and children. At most they just want to put it off until they're in their 30's. I almost never hear guys irl talk about wanting to get married or have kids. If not, why not? It might have more to do with my environment. While I live in a very liberal part of the American north east I'm African-American and the women I've been around are mostly Hispanic, and Black. Both the black and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:27 AM
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People that weren't noticeable or even looked awkward in photos. The problem with this statement is that you didn't describe an unattractive person. At worst this just sounds like a normal but awkward person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:07 PM
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I mean I guess yeah demeanor is important but I would still put it under looks intermes of overall importance. If someone lookes like a troll a good demeanor isn't going to suddenly turn them attractive. But if someone is already attractive yeah a good or bad demeanor would make a difference. I agree with blue and red pillers that personality matters. I just think there a base looks test. Which I'm going to guess you would agree with. In which case this is just another case of someone leaving ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:51 PM
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What is a troublesome woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:00 PM
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The solo flying one would be the least attractive to pursue something with. Very high chance that i am also not the one they want to commit being with and likely that is not even the true reason for being solo all their life. I'd say that's smart. Something people need to keep in mind is that they're probably not the exception. So if someone has high standards and has gone years or decades without finding somone who meets those standards chances are you will not meet them either. 4-5 relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:58 PM
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Do you have a lot of male friends? Do your male friends have girlfriends/wives? Yeah I have male friends but only one has a girlfriend, well fiancé now. I’ve only met his fiancé's friends twice and I didn't speak to any of them either them. I did talk to her brother alittle. Do you have female friends? I have two one online and another irl. I don't have alot of friends much less alot of female friends. Do you get along with your siblings, cousins, or other family members? I get along very well w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:35 PM
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Do you think "bad boys" are... As a rule... More physically attractive than other guys? I would say they tend to be more physically attractive then other men. But aren't always. The other mistake you're making, besides forgetting that physical attraction is a baseline requirement, is misinterpreting what is meant by a "good personality". A good personality and a good person are not the same things. I never made that mistake your assuming I made that mistake. If you had just asked me you would kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:24 PM
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It still wouldn't excuse you for not being clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:37 AM
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I don't personally assume attractive men are douchebags. Some but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:05 AM
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Because you don’t want to date the douchebag women who prefer douchebag men anyway, right? Idk maybe I do. I don't assume that they're douchebags. Why would I assume they're douchbags?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah but women often say they aren't attracted to physical aspects of a guy or down play it to such a degree that they make it seem like it's extremely unimportant. Edit: One the reasons the "women like bad boys" stereotype is so pervasive and fucks with so many guys is because the unspoken "men she's attracted" to part isn't something alot of guys pick up on until later. Some men don't realize it until they're well in to their 30's. Though most realize when they're either teenagers or in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:18 AM
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Men do become criminals to get laid... I would argue the main two reason men commit crime is money and women. If you mean most men don't become criminals to get laid then I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:13 AM
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This was a dumb question you know the answers you were going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:08 AM
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Also, it’s often meant to be understood when a woman says she goes for personality, she means she wants someone who she is attracted to who has a personality. Call me stupid but I never took it to mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:45 AM
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I'm not making assumptions these are things women say themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:48 PM
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I mean you could also just add "women don't want to be perceived as sluts so they don't talk about sexual things with men they aren't interested in". I came to this belief after reading post after post from a woman fearing being perceived as "easy". There's at least a thread a week on the regular relationship subs of women saying just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:19 PM
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Where does this expectation come from? Society. From their friends, family, movies, books, games, etc... there's a ideal version of female sexuality that we're sold and women are aware of it. The ideal female sexuality is above our base human desires. Her passion is driven by love, kindness, and generosity. Obviously you're average woman isn't this but it's something to aspire to be. So women often play into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:02 PM
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Does it spark fire in my loins? I don't see it In my experience women unusually don't talk about things that turn them on and when they do it's usually things like what you mentioned in your post. I just chalk this up to women not wanting to perceived as slutty; as well as female sexuality just working different then male sexuality. Though I suppose you should take what I say with a grain of salt. In my experience most women are borderline asexual unless they're in a relationship. And since I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:51 PM
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I wouldn't ask out a female friend unless I was extremely sure she was interested in some way. Women also complain about male friends having feelings for them. Besides in my experience once a girl says the word friend it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:00 AM
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The ladies are there, and they are eager to dance. The men are missing and are not going out. I just have zero interest in dancing. If I wanted to do it I would regardless of how women felt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:55 AM
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Some time in the 30's usually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:28 AM
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Don't bother with chemical castration. It only has a chance of getting rid of sexual desires and even if it does the desire for love and companionship won't disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:35 PM
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Waiting is an incorrect characterization. There are plenty of guys in the "waiting" category that aren't really waiting they're just getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:32 PM
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Of course it's only fair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:20 PM
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Yeah a kid was at best a yellow flag for me. I was really apprehensive at first but honestly after knowing her for long enough it doesn't bother me as much. At this point I think we're incompatible for different reasons. But like I said thing have worked out I'm not upset we aren't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:38 PM
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No, though I suppose they're free to answer since I didn't specify. I would imagine they talk to men more then straight men do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:35 PM
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That's a pretty vague proposition, hard to imagine a woman would respond positively to that. She said yeah and asked for my number then texted me in the morning. We went on a date but it didn't go great. Without going to deeo into the weeds here we aren't dating but we're friends and hangout and chat. I would say we're some what close. Tbh I wasn't that interested in her because she has a kid so things worked out fine as far as I'm concerned. Why not say something specific that might be of inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:48 PM
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To hear about the experiences of other men and see if my life is an outlier. Alot of people live guinually alien lives to me so I want to see if this is just another case of me not having a normal experience. I live on the more soically isolated side of the soical life spectrum or whatever you call it. So I want to figure out what normal guys are experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:23 PM
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To hear about the experiences of other men and see if my life is an outlier. Alot of people live guinually alien lives to me so I want to see if this is just another case of me not having a normal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:14 PM
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Lol I was just thinking that the advice would be useful if women made first move and asked guys on date or for numbers but they don't. I am 27 years old and I can count on one hand the amount of times a woman has as me for any contact info ever. Three of those times were managers who wanted to have my number so they could call me into work, and the fourth time was a girl I met infront of a library feeding pigeons and the fifth time was a cowoker after I asked her if she wanted hangout sometime. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:02 PM
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Could you expand on this? When I talk to other men there is no flirting, or entertaining, or asking them if they want to hangout, or asking for their number. I just sort of chat about hobbies basically. I talked to a cowoker about ape escape or we crack jokes back and forth or we talk about the state of the video game industry or a book I read. If I were to only talked to women like how I talked to men, which I do so this is speaking from experience, I would never ask them out or for their numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:04 PM
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...yes I had to think about this but the answer is yes. Now I'm not sure how we would accomplish finding a second woman but yeah I'd be down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:13 PM
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I've seen single male friends do this. What communities do you frequent that you think that doesn't happen to normies? I don't frequent "communicates" I just hangout at places alone or with friends. I watch people and I notice they do not do what you say. Edit: I went bar hoping last Sunday and I people watched and noticed people stuck to their groups. I go to community college and I would sit in the cafeteria and I don't see people meet randoms and make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:01 PM
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If they're anything like my mom it's There are more women then men in the world You'll meet someone who you have something in common with Don't give up You'll meet someone become friends and develop a relationship Basically it'll work it's self out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:03 PM
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It's not but most people even very progressive peoole don't really view it as bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:24 PM
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that despite women being more lw in their voting patterns, they are actually less accepting of outsiders then men. I wouldn't say women are more bigoted then men but yeah I would say in my experience women are less accepting to outsider then men or I guess to be more specific women are less accepting of those who are socially odd people then men. As a weird kid growing up girls disliked me the most and were the least accepting of me. I think this is because women are more sensitive to social sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:19 PM
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Meanwhile, women unanimously think that despite them having significantly more dating opportunities and interests, I don't think your average normie woman thinks she has more dating opportunities and interests then your average man. From what I can tell your average woman thinks the average male experience is roughly similar to there's. A real world example of this is when my coworkers suggest I try tinder and the shock they experience when I explain that dating apps don't work for me. Which mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:01 PM
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If your someone who dates men you are probably not going to face as much rejection as someone who dates women. Actually let me be more specific when it comes to the initial stages of dating men have very low standards. The exception to this would be men with options and men who are religious or have some kind of external reason pressuring them to be picky. Maybe if we're talking about pursing something long term we could say everyone faces a roughly equal amount of post date rejection, maybe. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:43 PM
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I was going to disagree, and then agree, and then disagree. I think I agree with you to a point. Yes some places are more conducive to engaging with strangers but alot of your list is not conducive to engaging strangers. Bars, clubs, concerts, happy hours, poetry slams do not at all seem conducive to engaging strangers. Especially bars and clubs. I would make this a point about how incorrect I think you are but instead I think this is more about our experience with the world and those environmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:25 AM
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Where is she going meet this boring man if not outside and at an event whose entire purpose IS CONNECTIONS Not that guy obviously but anywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:17 AM
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Okay Edit: My apologies by the way. It's just that these kinds of questions are odd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:28 PM
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I honestly don't think making friends and making plans with random people at a street parade is the usual experience even for normies, Yeah I really have no idea what she's talking about. Even when I go to stuff with my friend (all guys in this instance). We don't group up with other groups of randos and make new platonic friend. The experience she's describing is so alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:10 PM
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Do you party? I don't get invited to parties so no Do you host social gatherings and invite others? No but I'm working on that Do you get invited to social gatherings? Outside of family gatherings? No, though I have a friend that does stuff and invites me to things. But he's settling down so no not really. Do you go out and have fun at events and gatherings geared around people intermingling and enjoying each others’ company? I guess I don't. Idk I go to fairs on occasion, planned to go to six f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:06 PM
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I think they are but those are all red pillers in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:54 PM
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I mean I agree men should be friends with other men but that doesn't really completely fix things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:45 PM
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It's not about weather they want to have sex with those men it's about them actually having sex with them. Just because they may go on a three dates a week doesn't men they have to fuck each of those men. Also once again I don't really care about the cc thing. Mostly because I don't care about n-count and because most people have relatively small n-counts anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:53 PM
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When I say you date I don't mean men whom you sleep with and date for 6+ months. I mean men you go on a date or two with and decide to fuck on the first or second date who then don't call you back or guys who obviously have no interest in a relationship but women get into situationships with them hoping for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:19 PM
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Eh, not that I care but you don't have to fuck every guy you date. A cock carousel in my mind would be you fucking most of the dudes your dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:19 PM
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Is that just the red pill way of saying "sleeping around"? Yeah basically
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:57 AM
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Cock Carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:55 AM
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It's technically the status quote for women. She, presumably, is is still approached by men so realistically from her perspective nothing has changed. She might just be getting approached less but is overall getting approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:49 AM
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It's works like that on the east coast of the US lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:46 AM
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Yeah more or less but that's a natrual outcome of pursuing women. You'll just face more rejection then success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:22 AM
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why would approaching help? Because they aren't any other options and something is better then nothing. Besides as women often like to remind men they have reactive desire and do not feel instant attraction, I'm sure they do but it's not something they'll experience about most men. So it's not that they're unattracted they just aren't attracted. The guys is all but invisible to them romantically or sexually speaking until he's pointed out. With this in mind you have to make yourself visible so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:18 AM
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I was the same as you are - but I realized that unwillingness to adjust is pretty much my own narcissism, laziness and being narrow-minded. I have considered all three of those already. I could be a narcissist but my therapist didn't bring it up so it's probably not that. I am lazy but I've been aware of that since I was a little kid and while I wouldn't call myself close minded I can be quite stubborn. But I would call myself rather open minded and I think other people would agree with me. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:08 AM
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Personally I wouldn't care, it feels like other people are the one's that want me to care more then I actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:03 AM
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I saw some claims about how women age like milk and become "damaged goods" (feeling a bit dehumanized because of this). If it's any consolation I don't think men become more attractive with age either. It's exceedingly rare for people to become more attractive as they age. If you're lucky you'll be very attractive in you're 20's but after that it's all down hill usually. When people say men age like fine wine they're talking about things like confidence, increased salary, more life experiences, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:47 AM
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I want to say 8-9/10 men here have a sufficient idea of what it is that women look for in men. Problem is that it’s often the opposite of what they themselves inherently are. I don't think I'd say it's that high but I would say the majority of guys here have a good enough idea yeah. Personally part of what makes this all suck so much is that I really have no interest in being the kind of guy women in genral are attracted too. I want to be specific here. I'm not saying I don't want women to find …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:31 PM
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I’m honestly trying to see it through their eyes - maybe they’re just upset that they don’t live up to the handsomeness and male beauty that women seek. I could maybe give you some insight as this was something I was thinking about alittle while ago. Imagine you had a problem in your life you couldn't fix or do anything about really. You read some suggestions online and take some advice from people around you but none of it helps the problem still persists. You notice other people don't have thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:46 PM
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What are some actual examples from your personal life that you felt slighted by women? In high-school I didn't particularly get along with most of the girls in my class. They regarded me as a weird, creepy, pervert. There was one group of girls in particular that had an issue with me despite me not really inracting with them much if at all. Now to be fair so some of the girls that had an issue with me I'm fairly nonchalant about sexual topics in general, blunt, and I saw no real issue with talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:22 AM
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The thing is a lot of these things men here want women to answer for are things I've literally never seen or heard women do. I get you and empathize with but do realize this happens the opposite way as well right? There's a post I've been thinking about making about how I don't actually know any "nice guys". I have no "nice guy" friends or aquaintances. So when women are complaining about this I think there's nothing I can really do about this as it's noth something I do or have ever seen. Anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:43 AM
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I mean the main stream does talk about it they just don't talking the experiences you or I might have. Mainly because it makes women feel bad. If women aren't attracted to the men they meet in they're everyday life there is nothing anyone can do about that. Now I would say you could try to improve community outreach and try to get more young men and women interacting more. But no one has the knowledge or will to do so. Eveyone knows what the issues are but no one has the solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:39 PM
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That's reductionest isn't it? That's like saying if you aren't lying, cheating, manipulating, and stealing you don't actually want money. There's obviously a middle ground here but it should be acknowledged that pursuing pussy isn't the issue since it clearly works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:26 PM
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I sadly do have some morals my standards are low so there's that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:14 PM
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Every time I look up a single event the ages are always from 25 and up. Often times they're for 30 - 50 year olds. I have never seen one advertised for people in their early 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:57 PM
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I would argue they don't make rules of their own or at least useful ones. All the progressive dating advice and rules is just the same old stuff but with a feminist coat of paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:51 PM
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How do you hone social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:35 PM
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Not really it seems like the guys who purse pussy at the cost of both moral and standards date the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:21 PM
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So what's the advice to guys who are bad socially?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:15 PM
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Ever seen someone successful at making friends and unsuccessful at dating? Or successful at dating and unsuccessful at making friends? Yeah all the time since they're only to different skills that are only tangentially related
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:12 PM
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Yean it's like people don't realize these aren't the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:09 PM
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Because I'm not tall enough. Because I'm not charismatic enough. Because I'm not "normal" and she'll eventually realize. Because I'm not a social person and she'll start thinking that's terrible. Because I don't make enough money. Because my feet are gross looking. Because I have difficulties reading soical cues and women are veery sensitive to faux pas. Because I not muscler enough. Because I'm not of use anymore. I already feel replaceable in my everyday life. While it would be nice if my part…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:22 PM
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I wouldn't call this subject red pilled it pretty black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:10 PM
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I would already feel like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:08 PM
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That not all men are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:07 PM
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Are actually reading what I wrote? I literally said I would prefer a long-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:36 AM
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Not all men are as desperate. Women (and men) explicitly choose the people who can afford to be picky. If a guy can easily attract women he doesn't have the same impulses as men who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:29 AM
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That's kinda sad, no? Yeah? It's sad but that's just how things are. I guess you could say something about self love but self love isn't going to hold my hand, cuddle, kiss me, or suck my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:24 AM
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It has nothing to do with perfering short term over long-term. I would prefer a long-term relationship but I do not have the luxury. If she wants a long-term relationship great, and if she wants a short-term relationship that's also great. I just want to have a physical relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:14 AM
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I think a better comparison would be asking a homeless person if they’d accept living in a prison. You're right that's a perfect example as homeless people do willingly get arrested to have a warm place to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:06 AM
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I would be very okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:04 AM
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of your traits which is temporary is that still okay? I'd personally say yeah and if someone else had a similar trait as you, they can easily replace you because it was just a fetish anyway Yeah but that's no different from how things are already. Admittedly I could be wrong but from where I stand men are already viewed as easily replaceable. So really nothing changed there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:03 AM
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Would you lose romantic interest in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date, or would you be the contrary? I wouldn't lose attraction and I would take that as a scene that she's attracted to me. Keep in mind I'm broadly indifferent to body count and I wouldn't care if a girl was clingy or easy. So all the concerns that you're average guy would have isn't something I consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:01 AM
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It's dosen't necessarily mean they would view me as an object. But even if they did I wouldn't care. I'm not someone that's been desired really and going from not being desired to being desired is good. Besides I accept that I'm probably never going to find love and realistically I recognize that it's unlikely any woman I date would be attracted to my body so if I found that was attracted to one element of my physical body that's a win. Also I highly vaule primaril feelings like lust as I have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:43 PM
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Yes 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:17 PM
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Well there are political lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:07 PM
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It got me to thinking... would it be wrong to say "man up and deal with it!" Yes it would obviously be wrong and sexist to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:40 PM
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I don't think that would work unless you're waiting till marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:38 PM
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Okay though I care and I hold myself to a high standard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:29 PM
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Idk you want to be a moral person who lives by what they consider right and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:23 PM
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Because that's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:20 PM
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What I don’t totally get is why incels don’t just visit sex workers Besides the obvious reason of they want to be desired they also just find the act wrong. Which shouldn't be surprising as a lot of normal people have alot a moral reservations about sex work. I've even seen sex worker postive feminist talk about how they're sympathetic towards the women who eacort for their struggles but are disgusted by Johns. These kinds of aditudeds are really common. Expecting an Incel to not hold a similar …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:19 PM
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I looked it up and it seems like the average matchmaking service can cost anywhere from $1000 to $600000. Your average person wouldn't able to afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:55 AM
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and that is not the same with men? I can't speak for every guy here but the idea of a fat or old woman approaching me doesn't bother me in the slightest bit. It would be a a bit of an ego boost and there's a chance I'd say yeah just to see how it goes and out of respect for her courage. I see women bring this up as a gotcha and it's guinually confusing to me. I see guys bring this up as well going "I wouldn't want an unattractive woman approaching me" and I really don't get it. Maybe it's becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:52 PM
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How do you come across the right women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:00 AM
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You wanna know what he told me? You still need to have rizz in these circles, even when you are courting dommes in liberal environments That's not surprising to me. Something I never see talked about is that "easy women" (I'm skeptical such women exist but none the less) still want you to date them. They still want all the normal things that come with courting women. They're just more open to sex. So it's not surprising thay fetlife has the requirements. You still have to court kinky women and a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 12:59 AM
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Yeah our experience matches up. Though I would say this is true for men as well and that people like yourself I pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:07 PM
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Yeah, being willing to just be friends with women is by far the easiest way to meet other women. I mean I'm pretty down bad and I would say that's not true from personal experience. I would say it may increase the chances of meeting other women but I wouldn't call it the easiest way. Yes I have female friends but it hasn't lead to me meeting other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:04 PM
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I've had a few female friends throughout my life yeah I feel like female friends will invite you out a lot more This has never been the case for me. No woman has ever invited me anywhere no matter how friendly we were. Even a girl who in her own words considered me a brother. there’s no sexual competition when you meet their friends as opposed to when a male introduces you two There has never been sexual competition between me and a guy friend on the rare occasion he introduces me to a girl. wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:19 PM
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It would be a personality thing for me. Overly political, argumentative, mean, etc... basically a personality I wouldn't want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:25 PM
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I honestly don’t think they have thought it through. If they think Chad gets all the poon now, imagine if women approached the guys they were most attracted to. Oh no I've thought of this already. I've literally gotten into an argument with some lady on a different sub about how I don't think teaching men how to sexually please a woman is going improve things for men who can get laid anyway. At best would be a drop in the buck helping a few men in totality but overall it would mean the men who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:20 PM
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You're spot on about point 1 or at least that's how I feel. I really feel that all the women I know but one views me in this desexualised way. It's not so much that I'm one the girlfriends. It's more like the way people view their parents. Yeah sure you intellectually know your parents have sex but hearing about it is gross and if it's not gross it's surprising. On the overall point of your post though I'm not to sure. I think there's some miscommunication happening. When you or I read the phras…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:57 PM
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I also think luck is the biggest factor so I'm not trying to pre-arrange things. I'm just trying to increase my odds. So I'm trying to go from 1% to 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:21 PM
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This might be because I've seen more dating advice then you but I frequently see people mention volunteer work. I would say it's one of the more common pieces of advice. I have looked into an animal shelter in a town near me I just haven't sent the application yet. But I will at somepoint. Probably when I have a better idea what my schedule will look like next month
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:46 PM
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I see those mentioned alot. I'm honestly surprised you've never seen it mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:27 PM
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What do you mean by fucked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:07 PM
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The most of frustrating part of this advice is the idea that you're not supposed to try. Yes go to a Salsa classes but don't you dare go to a Salsa class with the goal to meet women. Just have fun and learn stuff and if you meet someone that's a bonus. I just wish there was some combination of words I could use to explain to these people that if I just do things for the experience of it I won't make friends not really and I definitely won't get int a relationship of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:29 AM
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That's cool but honestly if say, I learn to play drums (something I do want to do)or take singing lessons (another thing I want to do) and learn to be amazing at either. While I will find that enriching and great; I love music so I would be happy. But if 12 years pass and I'm now 40, single, and have still only been on a single date my entire life. I will be unhappy with that specific part of my life. Believe me I understand doing things just to enjoy myself and because I find it enriching. But,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:43 AM
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The way this was presented makes it appear like it's a little Machiavellian. Maybe I did try to say it in the most straightforward way possible without dressing it up with the idea that I just want a large group of friends. But I don't want a large group of friends. I prefer a small group of close friends which is what I have already. A lot of people will say once you're in the friend group you're stuck there, this is not true. I disagree but difference in experiences I suppose What is true howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:28 AM
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Okay thanks for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:09 AM
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Yeah but I also asked for personal experience? Like how did it take for them. You know learn about other people experience to set expectations reasonably?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:06 AM
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I also said close friend? It's not a typo It's just one thing on the list. Like join a group and gain a new close friend, or romantic relationship, or fwb, or casual aquaintance, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:03 AM
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I was not friends with any of my female friends because my goal was to date them, I was friends with them because I enjoyed their company. I should just say this off the bat but I would never befriend a woman with the intention to date her. Mainly because I know that wouldn't work. I can't speak for other men but in my experience once a woman places you in the "friend box" that's all you are. Idk, about other people and their lives but that's how it's been for me. So it's less try to befriend wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:01 AM
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That's not what I asked? I asked how long into following the usual advice did it take a guy reading this to gain a new social group, close friends, an intimate relationship of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:43 PM
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I'm not really looking for suggestions for things to since I've heard all the suggestions. I just want an idea of how long it would take before anything comes of it. Like let's say I take a salsa class. How often should I go, and long until it shows any noticeable improvements socially. This doesn't have to be ass by the way. That's why in my post I asked if you developed a new friend group. Sure the end goal is getting into some kind of relationship but I don't really expect it to be that strai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:39 PM
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I think a large reason, but not the sole reason, is that well meaning guys have listened to women about how they don't want to be approached. Sure there are women saying they don't mind or that they want to be approached but for or every story about a good experience that a woman has being approached by a guy there's 1000 other stories of bad experiences out there. Imagine for a second that you're young guy, let's say 13, you hear from some girl about a negative experience she had with a guy app…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:35 PM
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I'm gonna have to disagree with you still. There are plenty of anti-social, immoral, and criminals men who date marry and have lots of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:35 PM
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Irl? Maybe one time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:54 AM
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Yeah, in my experience I would say most guys don't really think about having kids. Like they worry about getting girls pregnant but the idea and desire to have kids isn't something most guys have really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:44 AM
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Yeah seemingly and I would agree generally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:50 PM
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When he says men place more emphasis on reproduction he means sex. I know alot of people dismiss the idea that sex is important to people but, well it is. Prostitution as a profession wouldn't exist if it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:38 PM
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Okay Edit: I will say it probably wouldn't have to be sex exclusively. Cuddling, handholding, kissing, etc... I would imagine there's a decent portion of desperate men would take only that with no sex and be content. Though I know people are dismissive of all of that anyway so I suppose it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:35 PM
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would that fix this supposed “different kind” of loneliness? Depends on the guy but I bet for a large percentage it would fix the loneliness issue but not them feeling undesirable which is a separate but related conversation. Personally I'm not lonely anymore as I have someone who cares about me and I care about her and we're close emotionally but that only solves part of the problem. The other issue can only really be solved by physical affection of some kind. I can imagine, but I could admitte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:33 PM
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So if you had a roommate- someone who was at home to hang out when you got home- would that alleviate the loneliness? You're close but not quite there. I think a "good" substitute would a fwb you cuddle and have sex with and a roommate to come home to. Then you maybe hangout with one or the other occasionally. But realistically very few men are going to be able to have that set up. What about a relationship with a woman that loved you but couldn’t or wouldn’t have sex with you for whatever reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:21 PM
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Sex he means sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:11 PM
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2, No way they are all poor options unless your standards are unrealistic. Yeah the way most women describe it you would think that 80% of men are poor options. Which is insane to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:56 AM
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"conveying yourself as a potential romantic partner.” Okay what does that look like? If I go up to a girl and I think her shirt is cool is that "conveying yourself as a potential romantic partner"? Do I have to tell her she has a nice ass? This isn't a gotcha or anything I'm guinually confused. I'm most likely autistic so this stuff isn't obvious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:22 PM
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What does presenting themselves as an option mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:03 AM
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What do you think of women talking more about postive approaches. Imo I think that's a big issue. It's far easier to find story after story of terrible and predatory approaches then it is to find women talking about how much they enjoyed a certain approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:22 PM
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It is odd the amount of people I see say stuff like this. Like what invitations? From who? Friend? If they're doing things with other people they not inviting me. It's not a problem with people not enjoying my company as far as I can tell they're just not telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:51 PM
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I didn't call you mentally ill nor did I say he knows better then you. I was just explaining why you were having the interaction you were. Idk what I did to piss you off but apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:24 AM
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I wouldn't even say 1/100 it's like 1/1000
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:48 AM
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I think what you're encountering is that most men, if I had to guess, have never actually encountered what you're talkint about or are not aware that it's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:47 AM
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Honestly OP I have never met a pick me in my entire life and that this is just an internet thing. I have never met a woman that hates women but loves men. Honestly if you told me that there's woman that loves "men" and not a specific man I would call you a lier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:42 AM
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I was thinking about this months ago but I think the vast majority or false rape allegations aren't reported to the police. Instead it's just one spreading rumors that she got raped by some guy. I see guys bring up situations like what I just mentioned all the time. But I never see it talked about at large. I suppose the most public example of this is internet celebrities getting accused of stuff and nothings done one way or another. There's just this floating rumor that 'x' is a rapist or groom…
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