| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -29 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereThat is bordering pedo. No adult wants someone half their age and barely of drinking age. If they do, they have messed up priorities. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | GF hanging out with “old high school friend”.This. Like what are people 12? Grow up, move on and quit acting crazy. There are other fish in the sea no need for that toxic crap. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:45 AM |
| 9 | GF hanging out with “old high school friend”.If you can’t respect each other’s boundaries then it is time to move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 9 | GF hanging out with “old high school friend”.Sounds like you both need to set boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Was I being manipulative?My assumption was that the last two times you asked her to hang out, she said no. If this is the case then she needs to be the one to ask to hang out the next time. Let her choose the date or time. You should however choose the place and event. In example: She says “Hey, what are you doing this Saturday at noon.” You say “Running some errands but I am free Saturday night if you want to come by and watch the new Godzilla movie. I’ll order us some pizza.” | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Was I being manipulative?Depends on the context of how you see or want the relationship or lack of and how long you have known each other. Sounds like your doing okay so far. Let her figure out the next day to meet up. Don’t press it more because if she is busy but likes you, she will make a reschedule for a time or place. You made the last two moves, two days in a row. Take a step back, relax. Something to think about though, where do you see your self going if 1) She doesn’t make room for you or 2) if she does make ro… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Was I being manipulative?Two or three days might be good but not weeks. No contact would make her think you gosted her and she would more than likely just write you off as flaky and move on. I would however advise not texting as much if you think you are coming off as needy and just let her have space by texting only if she texts you first. Word of mouth would not be bad, don’t lie though and don’t expect her to get the full truth. Gossip tends to shift both in good and bad ways. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Was I being manipulative?Most likely both if your not careful. Stress makes people do dumb things as well as make moody decisions. Seeing as she likes you, she can not tell if you are “like other guys” or if you care. She will make her next step based on that information because she has her school and finances as a priority. Don’t make her choose you over them because if she is this stressed out over it now she will choose them over you. She more then likely wants to know if you are loyal or if you are a hoe like the gu… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Was I being manipulative?Sounds like a miscommunication and that she has a combination of stress and trust issues. You wording it , saying your going elsewhere since she’s not wanting to hangout does come off as. “ Well fine, I’ll seek attention elsewhere.” That being said, op your on the wrong sub if your wanting no bias advice. Most of the posts on this sub are coming off as people who only want to manipulate others. Ether you two learn to communicate both of your needs better or move on. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:00 PM |
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