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FDS HUMORBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:22 PM
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FDS MEMESBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:07 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:57 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥Big-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:35 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:26 AM
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NAH, SISBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:07 AM
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FDS HUMORBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:52 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:50 AM
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PICKME CULTUREBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:20 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:25 AM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021Big-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:09 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Big-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:06 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:43 AM
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NAH, SISBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:01 AM
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FDS HUMORBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:51 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:13 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:18 AM
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Muh PENISBig-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:38 PM
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Story time ☕Big-Paleontologist13/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:53 PM
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i’m kind of getting over all these scrote/roast a scrote episodes on the pod :( love you girls, love the bonus content…but the material is getting repetitive …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/22 06:40 AM
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in regards to the mods feeling unsafe due to death threats, you or me don’t get to decide on their boundaries, nor do we get to undermine their feelings. it sounds like you really wanna keep it going so why not plead your case to the mods? :) i have really missed the sub too. but i understand the shutdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/22 02:37 PM
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so start a new one ? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/22 02:22 PM
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i think you should listen to the podcasts about it & hear some of the traumatising things they were being sent from haters on reddit. i sure as hell don’t think any self respecting woman should have to sift through that. for free. plus, proper death threats, imagine if one of these douche bags found out by chance who you were as a mod. like, it’s not inconceivable. it’s not worth being raped, attacked, or murdered over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/22 02:13 PM
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really listen to the podcasts about the closing down reasons. i agree 100% with them why, and i was on here every day for 2 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/22 04:53 AM
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well fds is a kind of specialised sub, so no i don’t think it should just be handed over to just anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/22 04:52 AM
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they have a website
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/22 04:25 AM
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the mods just get far too much hate mail plus there’s just been a build up of resistance to affect any actual positive change from reddit. so many reasons. it’s worth listening to the podcasts :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/22 06:35 AM
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listen to the podcasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/22 06:03 AM
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SO much easier to listen to than the OK cupid episode! wtf was that episode? omg i almost threw my phone at the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/22 03:06 PM
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bj’s just feel like bowing down to the patriarchy now. i’m going through similar feels, i’ve met the guy i’m going to marry and i’m finding it hard to go down on him, like i want to, but yeah it just feels so porny & derogatory. EDIT- i don’t overly enjoy oral either i should add…never have. i like skin on skin 😛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 09:18 AM
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interesting, i mean there’s clearly intent & motive here. photos that ‘ended up’ on the internet gives the feeling that the wife didn’t put them there herself & she might have been victim to revenge porn from an ex or something. a lawyer to drag that up to try & defame & humiliate her SHOUlD be a chargeable offence, but i would say the lawyer knows what she’s doing unfortunately. what an awful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 06:38 PM
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it’s revenge porn. this is illegal where i am. the offender could be charged, it’s a criminal offence :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 01:58 AM
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go read & re read the handbook, listen to the podcasts on repeat, hell, even subscribe to the patreon at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:36 AM
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this is some handmaids tale level shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:00 AM
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oh fark! yes of course 😂 i’m pretty good at putting it straight away though (my kids might think it’s some weird new toy for them otherwise)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:22 PM
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let’s hope the bloodline ends with this one 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:01 PM
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right, like imagine if women masturbated with the biggest dildos we could find & literally broke our vaginas until they were ‘too loose’ for pleasurable PIV sex in our 20’s & 30’s. do we think sex therapists & men would tell us not to be ashamed? or to give the broken vag ladies a chance & ‘communicate’ no way in hell. we would be discarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:59 PM
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right! let this guy wank himself out of being able to reproduce. darwinism at its best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:54 PM
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u put your vibrator in the sink? wha? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:53 PM
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what was one of the insights on the pod? guys perspective- “do what i want & see if it works out for you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:52 PM
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absolutely! fds rescue mission for each liberal feminist ‘sex coach’ 1 at a time :) x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:51 PM
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charm the snake out of the bag magical flute playing lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:33 PM
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so THERE must be SomEthing WroNG in thE relAtionShIp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:32 PM
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translation ‘if she took part in your porn watching & degrading acts, well things might work out for her’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:30 PM
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i’ve got to say, the amount of deleted posts i’m seeing pop up on this thread far outweighs any other. this story is hitting a nerve with our lovely lurkers. die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:28 PM
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‘i’ve just read your article in the guardian. in response, you don’t think that one of the reasons this man can’t hold an erection with his 59 yo gf who sounds like an absolute FOX is due to anything but his ‘hours of masturbation’? how about some truthful advice? that he could try not masturbating for a week & see if his drive changes. we are tired of being told to communicate with men who need to STOP breaking their dicks. sincerely, every grown ass woman ever’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:50 PM
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at least something is rising!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:58 PM
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it’s a serious addiction. agreed. 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:19 AM
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then they should leave the relationship & seek therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:35 AM
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a blocked comment just read ‘maybe stop policing men’s desires!! what’s it to her if he prefers to wank to porn!!!’ oh the audacity of the garden gnome generic scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 08:59 AM
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i can jsee it now, sexy confident girlfriend coaxing limp dick loser boyfriend “come on lil guy, time to get UP”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:11 AM
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she was found not guilty of that crime, as Rachel (the friend) put the card there on her own accord. in reality they could have just been kicked out of the hotel instead 🤷🏼‍♀️don’t feel bad for her, she has gotten rich from this, all on anna’s back (fair enough) & had the debt wiped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:08 AM
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she has since confessed that she does feel remorse & guilt over what she has done. the tinder guy has not, he is free & was even making fun of his victims on his insta before deleting when the show stayed at number 1 for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:06 AM
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i sent ‘sex therapist’ an email in response, lol. i’ll post if i ever hear back 😄 edit- word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:01 AM
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i think so! this is what porn will do to you, lurkers. even your future older girlfriend will prolly leave your shrivelled sick sausage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:00 AM
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oh gosh, a girlfriend of mine who had been with her husband since she was 18 told me when they were divorcing ‘oh he’s going to look after me & the kids, he told me to trust him, he’s going to make it as simple as possible’ i got her on the phone to lawyers right away. he tried taking everything, hiding assets and even kicking her and the three kids out of their home (though he had left & moved into a 1 bedroom with his new girlfriend)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:22 AM
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nope, this def means a thrift store (yes, a charity shop)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:50 AM
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oh good for you! future triangulation nightmare right there if you had ‘laughed it off’ or stayed around like a ‘cool girl’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:08 AM
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i see this was from 6 years ago. let’s hope she found a loving, respectful partner. or, is happy alone not sucking dirty scrote dick while suffering pregnancy illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:58 AM
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oh cool thanks, saw the update here on fds though as i’m not subscribed to political strategy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:28 AM
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was i imagining there was another episode roasting elon musk & tech bros? i went to listen to it today, not there (on normal broadcast & patreon) then felt like maybe i dreamt it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:07 AM
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i don’t know much about her, but i just looked at her instagram and wow her pick-me game is strong 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:13 AM
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wow! well this reeks of a publicity stunt then on pickme & lvm’s side. what shitty people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:50 AM
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yeah for sure! she goes along with her scrotes plan to move to afghanistan where the freaking taliban have just taken over!? lordy. there’s nothing exotic or exciting about that (esp when you’re PREGNANT ffs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:32 AM
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the taliban are treating her better than her western nvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:20 AM
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ok so, this young woman falls pregnant, she spends time in her partners native country as a visitor, then, instead of marrying her to keep her in a safe country, her visa runs out and he takes her instead to Afghanistan, as it’s the only place they can live. 🃏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:28 AM
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i love my single parent fiancé, i am a single mother too. we came from very similar circumstances, and understood each other, a beautiful relationship bloomed, our two children are similar in age and we couldn’t be happier :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:41 AM
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i read this out to my amazing HV fiancé last night, his response ‘girl, you report him to the police, THATS what you do’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:54 AM
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if you don’t want kids, don’t date men that want them. if you do want kids then date a man who wants them as much, if not more than you do. in one of the podcasts it was discussed that family orientated women should seek out partners even more family orientated than themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:30 PM
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oh cute. she thinks they’re Bella & Edward cullen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:19 AM
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omg. a scrote with a large side of extra stupid. it was just sex bro! she wasn’t obliged to help you out. i love that she did that 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:29 AM
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true, this demonstrates he sees his kids as ‘baggage’ and not something he’s proud of or wants to properly invest in. she should get out before something happens, like falling pregnant, to then be kicked to the curb & her own kids becoming more ‘baggage’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:56 AM
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but ALL men have the potential to rape, not just boys without their natural fathers. i was raped in a long term relationship (sex i did not consent to) by a boyfriend from an upper class, 2 parent family. they all have the potential to do this. trust me. vet, vet, vet. have a good 2022 & stay safe x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:11 AM
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you’re now going off track from your original post to try & prove a point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:09 AM
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i would not have silenced a rape victim. cheers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:07 AM
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you got downvoted more than any other post i’ve seen, with very little support to your arguments. fds is about having standards of course. but vetting the man. you didn’t vet properly or long enough & you got hurt. live & learn, as we are all doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:26 PM
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i’m not silencing rape victims!? you’re totally over reaching with that one. i too have had awful things happen to me at the hands of ‘perfectly raised family boys’ and ‘i didn’t know my daddy boys’ and i’m not a ‘struggle mum’ that seems like a pretty degrading term, i have an excellent job, i’m on over 240k a year and my fiancé is a doctor. happy holidays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:23 PM
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this isn’t a particularly interesting convo to be having so i won’t be commenting further. you of course can have your preferences 🤷🏼‍♀️ just also hoping you don’t give away the man of your dreams because his natural father wasn’t around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:37 AM
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because it makes no difference 😂 penis size, veganism, height etc can make the difference in how we feel about the man. abusive low/neg value men come from all households.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:35 AM
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because you’re stereotyping. i think that’s very small minded. best to vet thoroughly. you didn’t and i’m sorry for that. but this mistake is on you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:06 PM
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i had the ‘stable family, wholesome childhood, boyfriend’ and he ended up physically abusing me over years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:09 PM
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isolated incidents, sure. but not a reason to run at the first sight of a boy from a single mother. good lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:07 PM
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i went out with a guy for nearly 10 years (yes, in my forever girlfriend days) he was old british money, with the perfect family to match, under this, his dad abused his mum, his mum had a drinking problem & he (boyfriend) started hitting me 5 years in. i was always ‘second best’ to his mum & he pitted me against her constantly. all families have a certain level of messed up. just leave the hard working single mums of today out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:55 AM
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lordy, this old trope again ?? those of us who are true FEMENISTS (which is why we are here, right???) are doing a massive effort to raise amazing HV sons. OP i would suggest you google search some famous HV boys raised by single mums - barrack obama being one. i’m sorry you’ve had a shitty experience, the ‘dad’ of my son was raised by a pick me mum too and he was awful, but life is more nuanced. please just don’t write crap like this.sorry if i seem angry, but it’s the holidays, us mums are try…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:51 AM
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lol the last guy i dated (before finally finding the love of my life) dated me for a month before declaring we were in a relationship, became distant a few months in, swore that he was over his ex & never going back, only to meet up with her (behind my back) after she came back from overseas, then ghost out on me. a month later he texted to tell me they were ‘maybe getting back together’ (like, yeah no shit i worked that out) but couldn’t handle me calling him a liar (like he was clearly not ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:46 PM
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i had some tears of joy reading this. i’m so effing proud of you queen lady! PLUS showing your daughters how women can ABSOLUTELY fend for themselves and actually thrive. you’re an inspiration :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:20 AM
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this guy is clearly just tormenting her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:29 AM
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absolutely, as a single parent it’s the only way. men without children just don’t understand 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:10 AM
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‘you look like you’re up to cause a bit of trouble’ - i’m looking for a manic pixie dream girl to bring me out of my middle aged stupor and make my life feel exciting again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:15 AM
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omg i’m from melbs & this is hysterical !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:13 AM
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just text “yeah i’m just not feeling it anymore, i’m turned off” guys hate that! then block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:38 PM
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lordy i hope she finds FDS soon. meek & mild mouse girl trying to keep a man happy who is happy to walk all over her & use her. she needs to stop dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:28 PM
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HVM will generally wait until they are financially more secure before making a bigger commitment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:53 AM
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high value friend/female (i’m 99% sure!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:33 PM
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thanks for writing this, often someone has shared a story or looking for validation and support, i jump in and offer up what i know, i go back to check the post & it’s removed. yeah i feel the members need more ownership, as this is meant to be a place of growth. also o loathe the ‘pickmeisha’ flair, it was given to me once for disagreeing with a mod, and i felt awful & ashamed and embarrassed and NOT AT ALL like part of the community, that event actually led me to pull my patreon subscription.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:48 PM
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oh good catch! yes she said that. lordy. block & delete girl…or, wait, host this episode instead 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:41 PM
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agree! i’m not american, so i felt like i was listening to a republican sorority sister flexing her ‘political knowledge’ ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:40 PM
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yeah which one is DOT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:37 PM
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right! so rude & judgemental. i listen in from australia where our political groups are somewhat different, however identifying as a ‘gold star republican’ ain’t it. i felt uncomfortable through so much of this, i feel that FDS is a global community, yet this episode was so american centric, full of word salad and contradictions (in true republican style perhaps?) i hope the next eps are a huge improvement on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 10:08 AM
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you took out 2 lots of trash in one go. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:11 AM
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men are the ones who started this ‘height competition’ amongst themselves then get all offended when women decide they prefer certain heights, after THEY point it out! they continue these preferences for women by measuring their dicks and bragging about that too. like, you’re only giving us options to think about when y’all brag or put each other down over height & dick size guys 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:33 PM
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tell me without telling me that money doesn’t equate to having class or being high value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:01 AM
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chloe Ting for free at home workouts :) she has tons of free programs all on youtube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:55 AM
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yes this is true, she wasn’t child free by choice. record companies owned their superstars back then (still do in a way) & all sorts of shady drug use was used to keep control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:40 PM
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cher was married a few times & has 2 children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:37 PM
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baggage reclaim - boundary setting in work & relationships Remedial Herstory project - women only centred history podcast Femenist survival podcast Welcome To the Exploress- lived experiences of women throughout history & medieval times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:04 PM
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an ex of mine wanted to watch another guy (just as fit if not fitter & hotter than him) have sex with me, (unprotected of course) & ejaculate inside of me. after this, i would go back to him and have sex with him, while the other guy watched us, then i would tell other guy to leave to show i had ‘chosen’ my boyfriend. alas, after this confession, things died off pretty quickly & a restraining order was put in place (threats to my safety were made)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:14 AM
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ugh those men are the worst. i live in one of the top 3 affluent areas of my state and i’m constantly dealing with men like this, their wives are tradwife types who just bow their head and do as their told.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:55 AM
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So true, and that's what i'm experiencing atm. I became friends with this guy during a toxic, love bombing situation with another, which was leading to me being ghosted (found FDS around this time and swore NEVER AGAIN) So at the time I wasn't even remotelty interested in anyone (though I did think this guy was attractive) Suspected HVM was just happy to be my friend, listen to my concerns, joke around with me and there was never any pressure, I told him I only wanted friendship, and he was/is h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:43 AM
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i’m just going to add that i could have written this word for word, i’ve been friends with a suspected HVM for nearly 6 months, we’ve kissed a few times and attraction is growing, slowly, but surely. i’m going to state that i too have felt FIREWORKS before with men who have turned out to be shitty and toxic. so i’m staying on this SLOW BURN vibe to see what comes of it :) x (though i’ll add that physically i do find him attractive)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:16 PM
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truely sickening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:51 AM
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absolutely. my young son (under 9) was less than impressed when a music video of bikini clad girls came on tv the other day, his words ‘why are they wearing their bras and bikinis dancing around like that? it’s not important, don’t they know their boobies(😆) are just one part of their bodies, just like their hands or fingers mum??’ i had literally said nothing before this comment. but i had been following Dr Gails advice to remind boys that their penises are just one part of their beautiful litt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:05 AM
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MANically talks about himself for 2 hours non stop then proclaims ‘you’re my BEST friend! let’s lock this down!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:41 AM
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i’m in my late 30’s and have men my age (& older) asking to ‘hang out’ 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:50 AM
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this exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:49 AM
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sure, but i found my response similar to the answer of ‘i’m not a dog’ for ‘walk date’ requests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:11 AM
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I'm never afraid to ignore or turn down a 'when are you free to hang out' request. I've said to the last few guys, 'isn't hanging out something you do with a friend?' A few then laughed and offered dates, some disapeared, but i had no attraction left anyway after such a large red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:01 AM
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why bother topping up her wine right? it’s not like he GETS tO hAVe sEx with her after the bath while she’s bleeding. what a pig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:15 PM
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i support buddhist schools of tibetan nunneries in india. the overall attitudes have/are changing in this respect. but yeah, a long way to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:31 AM
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dumbbells at the end of baseless bed - iM woRkiNG oN mYSElf !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:03 AM
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it’s interesting, the love languages book that comes up in these podcasts sometimes was initially created for struggling marriages, husbands & wives who had been together for YEARS, had kids, mortgages, etc & who’s marriages are falling apart, the book asked each person to decipher which of their love languages was their prominent preferred through tests etc on how they felt loved. there is no such thing as having 1. it is a mix of 5.it’s being used and misunderstood these days, this book was ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:51 AM
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interesting! thankyou for writing this. i don’t know who she is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:20 AM
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yeah it’s a very american idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:18 AM
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still, it’s a start from a mainstream newspaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:53 PM
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send these suggestions to the journo :) she might follow up with another story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:46 AM
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If those at the most extreme end of the spectrum of radicalisation are carrying out massacres, it is not unrealistic to raise the concern that others may be carrying out smaller acts of violence and misogyny in their daily lives. “I enjoy walking behind women in the parking garage after work,” wrote one incel, on a forum I was investigating. “The sheer terror gives me a massive erection.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:26 AM
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YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:47 PM
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the money goes to the kabul surgical centre. all other avenues to get funds in are closed. but this is still open (for now) you can read more on the link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:52 PM
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https://donate.emergencyuk.org/donate-yourself/ donations made to the emergency hospital in kabul will be received and given to the right people, to the right hands. for any other woman feeling helpless and sick as i do. think about donating if you can. other avenues will open up soon and i’ll give more info when i can - (this link was given by a long term expat friend who spent years in kabul in aid, and who currently works for Save the children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:19 PM
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https://donate.emergencyuk.org/donate-yourself/ a good friend of mine worked in kabul for years in aid. he sent me this link, it would be one of the only ways to get money into afghanistan atm without it going straight to taliban or not being processed at all (everything is in shut down)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:18 PM
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heartbreaking news today. really can’t quite believe the taliban are back in power, women & girls will be locked away, married off, refused education & just watch global terrorism climb in the name of ‘religion’ i feel ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:33 AM
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did he actually?? holy crap :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:01 AM
10

mr sensitive’s are the worst ! it’s true you will feel as though you’ve struck a non toxic male goldmine, but as it goes on you find their emotions and feelings are always needing validating, at the cost of the partners feelings too. Run from these types, it gets harder to leave as the gaslighting is so hard to spot, this type of abuser has everyone fooled and friends/family will question your sanity/character when you complain or want to leave him. ask me how i know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:02 AM
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‘prolific shagger’ 😆🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:56 PM
3

i heard she was retired ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:48 PM
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and the more they do to try & ‘fix it’ or cover it up, the more headlines they make. sometimes justice is served. the internet is forever :/ edit- i hope the victim receives her justice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:11 PM
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i would say you’re on the money! i thought it was a male ego thing, but yeah, throw a kid in the equation, he doesn’t want to be a registered sex offender dad. too bad buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:08 PM
11

forthepod
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:04 PM
5

absolutely. i said the same thing in an earlier comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:32 PM
14

that is a really great idea- translating blogs & YT vids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:12 PM
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i might email him a pdf of ‘the gift of fear’ next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:09 PM
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eww!!! what a waste of everyone’s time! that in itself is red flag behaviour. a male dating coach, telling you not to waste time on loser guys, who literally wastes your time. oh the irony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:54 PM
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my DM is open too btw. some of the ladies here close theirs off due to scrote hate. also block him everywhere, i don’t know how it all went down of course, but u don’t want to risk the chance he will try to contact you. which will put you back at square one. ask me how i know :-/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:52 PM
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spend as much time as possible here, you need to rewire your mind. it will be painful at times, also notice the mourning period while you shed your old self. write out how you’re feeling, thinking etc. you’ll have something to measure your progress against x i’m so proud of you btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:16 AM
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to keep him in business no doubt. imagine, selling your soul like that. i guess the positive of this is, women start to become frustrated that the advice/step by step instructions aren’t working, and eventually find subs like fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:29 AM
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i’ll check it out thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:56 AM
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i love how he literally writes ‘some people will tell you- ditch him, he’s moving too fast, red flag’ this douche canoe totally knows what he’s doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:14 AM
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seems he has pulled his brother in now too. just checked the podcast 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:49 AM
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and he needs to stay in ‘business’ right? by keeping pickmeishas in a perpetual state of forgiving early 🚩the only response a request for nudes deserves is none
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:48 AM
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reading this email was a real measure against how far i’ve come. i hope the ‘cringy’ feeling was a measure for you too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:22 AM
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yeah we moved countries ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:31 AM
2

i totally agree with you. my sons dad was raised by an overly coddling single mum so i make sure to not be this way. mine is 7- you sound like you’re doing a great job. i’ll add- my most HVM on paper partner wad raised by mum & dad- very well off - turned out to be a racist alcoholic abuser who had to hire a maid in his adult life to get basic housework done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:08 PM
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i am a sole mother, i find these posts helpful to keep my mind open and to make sure i’m setting my son up properly for a successful life, professionally & romantically the best that i can. thankyou for so much for your honesty. i didn’t date men from single parent households, and my parents were together until ‘death did them part’ so it’s all new ground for me :) edit- the only man i dated from a single parent family is the father of my son. his mother is awful (alcoholic/drugs/sleeps with his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:29 PM
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find a man who loves kids. measure his sense of duty (i’m not sure how to go about this…) his level of selflessness, and if he’s marriage/kids minded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:25 AM
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basically :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:47 PM
9

it’s changed back now :) i made some weak comments a few weeks back x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:46 PM
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i’m now sure he was just seeing me to hurt her during their ‘break up’ just a pawn in his game, while he was eroding her confidence & triangulating. this game would have crumbled for him if only i had just snooped when i had the chance. snoop queens. don’t be me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:18 PM
26

awful cowards. i’m sorry you had to see that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:14 PM
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the last guy i was seeing had a message thread running with his ex, i literally saw it (her pic was there) and he denied, even though they got back together the week after we broke up soon after this. they will happily lie, play and game you until they’ve taken all they need. my only regret is not clicking on their message thread (he left his phone open when he was passed out drunk) though i could see unread messages and she had sent him an old picture of them together which was visible. i was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:39 AM
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when you get the instinct that something isn’t right, you WILL 9/10 find it on his phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:30 AM
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oh my gosh, have you seen them in the 4 episode special that came out a few years ago ? things definatly went downhill for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:54 PM
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i think she’s being sarcastic too. this is the modern day ‘offering’ from lvm and she’s making satire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:10 AM
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basically, if people followed and subscribed to FDS teachings, sub reddit’s like ‘relationship advice’ would become obsolete as the population would no longer need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:40 AM
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amazing! this is a very positive take on FDS, congrats to savannah! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:10 AM
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cheerful nihilism?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:31 AM
18

i dress up as john lennon for halloween every year. people who are in the know about him too think it’s brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:51 AM
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i was thinking the same thing! i don’t even know who these people are lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:47 AM
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your story is very touching, i liked how your intuition/subconscious picked up on fds, even after what happened with your post, maybe deep down you knew that something wasn’t right? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:31 AM
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this is all i meant, feelings are different after a long term break up. unfortunately i’ve now been given the flair of pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:42 AM
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i’m not invested, i don’t care and *wont be in this situation ever, i thought you were asking a question. i’m not fussed sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:15 AM
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proud of you! i could have written this :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:44 PM
3

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:42 PM
12

as per one of the podcast episodes, this pickmeisha is displaying ‘do what he wants and see if it works out for you’ mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:34 PM
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just treat FDS as your new bible read the content thoroughly and daily. therapy podcasts and youtube videos are free and not scarce at all. i do a lot of listening to Baggage Reclaim, Therapist uncensored & FDS, i also get the extra content from FDS after subscribing to their patron, which gives me extra strength to push through, it’s not expensive. i would also suggest an app like Waking Up. i am a sole parent, who has also spent her life (im late 30’s) catering to men and for the past 3 months…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:18 PM
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his name is Pita...keep an eye on the taekwondo ladies ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:21 AM
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oh yeah my ex nvm had this in SPADES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:46 AM
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the undertone of this kind of message is ‘at least he is paying me attention, he is with me in these moments and i feel wanted, loved & validated’ this leads me to think these types of women will just do with whatever they can get, as it’s better than nothing & it’s better than fighting or having toxic interactions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:45 AM
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oh god had to read this a few times to see the satire 😆😆was about to report your comment omg 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:43 AM
2

ha! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:21 AM
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that ain’t no grass skirt with flappy wrists sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:52 PM
11

CZ pandora trash eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:38 AM
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he’s the second search result on google for ‘tonga’ today 😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:19 AM
78

which only adds to my attraction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:20 AM
7

hehehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:46 AM
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balls tho. have you ever smelt ‘end of date night’ balls 😆🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:04 AM
7

this guy looks so familiar 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:03 AM
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zoom in ladies 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:42 AM
2

got it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:50 PM
2

oh my ex so badly wanted me to turn myself inside out trying to fix him 😆😆i refused, he was so shocked and went back to his ‘pick me’ ex of 6 years. i paid more attention to the cute pup at the bar than i did him at our last date, (where i drove across town to hear him complain about work & his mental health- again!) why do men like this feel entitled to women’s time 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:48 PM
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notice the physical signs, tight shoulders, clenched jaw, difference in breathing, stomach knots. paranoia might be something you first experience neurologically, repeating a line or sentence you deem to be correct which could then manifest physically, where as intuition is literally like a (red flag) punch to the face and will send off alarm bells x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:44 PM
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which sub is it on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:55 AM
49

please tell us how this went down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:04 AM
176

girl nooo! oh i really want to know how this panned out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:03 AM
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this is when scrotation (rotation) is really useful. also the mindset of single until married. one of the podcast episodes is on rotation management and it’s very insightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:38 AM
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i don’t see anything wrong in getting validation from other women on this sub, before becoming knowledgeable and practised enough to give it to yourself x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:02 PM
1

my favourite facial cleanser is coffee grains and olive oil, skin is baby smooth after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:45 PM
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proud of you, being properly single for the first time is strange, painful, anxiety inducing and it’s meant to be! i’m 2 months in to the FDS journey, as an ex pick me serial monogamist. i just want you to know that we all found this sub due to situations similar to yours, you aren’t alone x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:40 PM
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my lvx found jealous behaviour sexy...i remember him getting really down once when he realised he could never ‘fully possess’ me or some shit. i thought it was romantic, though my stomach started twisting and alarm bells rang. listen to instincts always ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:31 AM
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so much yes here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:29 AM
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was thinking the same thing. you’re too much his equal, he needs someone to ‘save’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:00 PM
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yep. orrrr they go back to their ex when they realise you (the current gf) doesn’t magically make them a better person :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:58 PM
11

yeah i’m curious too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:37 AM
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i feel like it’s ok if he has something special planned or has somewhere specific to take you that he knows you’re going to enjoy, but if you feel like you’re being baited to go to his area (and then to his house) then it’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:18 AM
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i’m so proud of you!! i kicked myself this past few weeks, i stayed with this exact kind of guy for 6 months. paying for it now with feeling like an idiot. good on you for getting out early!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:39 AM
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can you please reach out for the help you need. which country are you in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:02 PM
35

i’m not crying! you’re crying !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:44 AM
4

saving this one x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:32 PM
3

ahh that’s awful. i feel like if one isn’t hardcore boundaried against their mental problems it’s so easy to get caught up and start believing their problems are your own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:24 AM
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ooh yay i’ll be listening on the drive home from work tonight ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:33 PM
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me - you got involved in me and my sons life when you knew that you have untreated bi polar disorder, that’s so unfair. him- i’m so sick of being blamed for everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:34 AM
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their own comment on this idiot post at the bottom ... ‘life is 50/50 and you almost always get out what you put in’ - almost always ladies! give all you’ve got and see if it works out for you 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:01 AM
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handbook material!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:34 AM
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we did the best we could with the information we had at the time. this gives me peace x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:47 AM
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mine actually said ‘your son needs to realise i come here to see you, not him’ he only wanted to meet my son so HE wouldn’t have to get up early and leave before my little one woke up, so they wouldn’t be strangers. i hate him so much now. so nothing value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:24 AM
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i am keeping a journal about this huge shift and it’s life changing. x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:20 AM
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my lvm couldn’t even handle watching a kids film or playing mario kart with my neuro typical 7 year old. love these green flag stories ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:00 AM
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oh wow! i’ll give it a read, thankyou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:58 PM
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yeah i hear you, i don’t ever go to text unless i’ve met him and like.but i’m getting off OLD, so invited him to whatsapp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:26 AM
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i haven’t heard of it, thanks i will if i decide to continue with OLD f#%wittage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:12 AM
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blocked and deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:52 AM
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yesss my waste of time ex did this all the time 😆after i drove 40 minutes and spent $10 on tollways to get to him. oh i loathe my past self 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:30 AM
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it will do, i FINALLY got out of a relationship exactly like this, i would break up and he would come back questioning me if i was ‘sure’? then act sweet enough for a few days. it’s super toxic, and he will end up blaming you for him feeling ‘blamed’ or ‘wronged’ all the time. or like he kept ‘chasing’ GET OUT NOW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:31 PM
105

what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:11 AM
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translation- women should look like they want to fuck me more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:25 AM
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this was originally said by Mr Garrison, a fictional homosexual cartoon character on adult cartoon south park. omg scrote has gotta take it out of context just to leverage his sUPeriOritY over us bleeding gals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:38 AM
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me too sis ! except he was older and married, i was about 20 :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:18 AM
2

but i would give the tip that my sister gave me, she said to act as an observer would, just sit back (feminine) and watch the actions and words of potential guys without involving yourself too much. my new stance is guys are basically guilty until proven innocent, you don’t need to feel burnt out or like there’s not enough time. if you are feeling this then take time out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:47 AM
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i don’t have the answer to this, i’ve only just started to subscribe to fds principals the last few months, i let go of an lvm i was seeing for 6 months and haven’t started really dating again yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:04 AM
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ok my top 5 :) :) 1. don’t start dating too soon, you might end up feeling like you’re trying to replace something or the guy might and freak out. 2. take it slow and only go on a date when you know you feel your best, don’t feel like you can’t cancel last minute, you can, you’re a mum. 3. try to date other single dads, or guys who see kids in their near future, stay away from guys who aren’t either of these, even if they’re hot, they will only give you anxiety. 4. no introducing until months an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:24 PM
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i’m in melbourne :) i think guys think sole parents/single mums are happy with whatever we can get. complete opposite. we know trash guys and won’t settle for below average treatment 👸🏻ever. again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:03 PM
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me too! i think it’s good money if you have work at the time otherwise no. bloody fifo’s! 😆😆 same i would never date one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:02 PM
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that’s awesome! good for you. i have rejoined OLD too, im a sole parent so my social time is almost non existent. i’ve met a few great guys this way. plus there’s no pressure and can chat in your own time. well done for weeding him out so quickly ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:27 AM
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absolutely! i’ve just been realising this after a few weeks no contact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:16 AM
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as a mum to a 7 year old this episode gave me helpful constructive ways to raise a feminist son, loved it so much, and will look for more of her writing. her accounts of her sons abilities gave me hope in raising a hvm x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:35 PM
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thankyou so much for sharing this, i felt a warm glow in my heart for you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:28 AM
2

the importance of continued vetting! he had many HVM signs for 4 months, then he turned to shit 🤷🏻‍♀️ oh well, i have fds now and from here on in it’s a different journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:00 AM
5

it’s over :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:17 PM
5

my lvm demoted me from girlfriend to glorified fuck buddy then got pissed off that i wasn’t ‘excited’ enough to see him and recently had a go at me that i didn’t pay on our ‘dates’ and that me paying for a baby sitter so i could drive out to see his scrote ass (he didn’t have a car) didn’t count because it’s ‘your fuc#%^ kid’ oh the audacity. plus he’s 39
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:36 AM
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me too. don’t be sad. we have plenty of life left to do it right x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:01 PM
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if it helps, i am going through the exact same thing. as you have said, it’s chemical addiction. trauma bonds! The neural pathways responsible for intimate bonding overlap heavily with those responsible for reward and addiction. imagine you’re like a junkie basically trying to come clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:53 PM
55

Notes before Scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:30 PM
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i’ve been getting into finding out more about covert narcissists...not as easy to spot as their overt counterparts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:00 PM
164

some hotels i’ve stayed in around thailand offer female only floors. one can literally feel the difference energetically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:16 AM
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i’ve just deleted :) 1 step at a time. i love Dr Ramani. will check out melanie :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:15 PM
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you just saved me. i was about to reach out to my old narc x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:30 AM
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they sound lovely :) i just mean random images of girls turning up on the ‘explore’ newsfeed section of insta tho. not follows x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:31 PM
80

fucking yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:31 AM
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like, my algorithm changed completely from basic bitch girl crap to posts i actually engage in over the space of weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:59 AM
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yeah i believe this is recommended to start with, of course, half naked girls will keep lvm’s coming back (even if they act disgusted-ex, my ex lvm) but i don’t believe this content continues unless you’re clicking on/saving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:58 AM
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what about a guy who’s insta feed is full of ‘models’ yet he doesn’t follow any? i noticed my insta feed was full of make up tips and kardashians and random basic girl shit i don’t follow until i started not clicking on these images, over time my algorithm changed i think. my potential lvm swears it’s algorithm and he gets fed half nude girls on his feed whether he clicks it or not. is he right or am i ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:23 AM
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feedback is a privilege! yes ❤️it xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:53 AM
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weigh up the other aspects, social/friendship or professional aspects? also i’ve found in the higher earning area where i’ve been living the past 1.5 years, the hvm are usually married or going through high stress divorces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:12 PM
8

and confiscate her computer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:23 PM
28

she’s exhausting herself 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:14 AM
29

sorry i was acting crazy while you were treating me like shit 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:46 AM
37

just started following! so good :) :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:08 AM
10

i’m not on tik tok so i don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:02 PM
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oh i thought they did this so the platform just thought it was a make up video and not feminist speech ? for fear of being deleted ? am i wrong on this? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:54 PM
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sole mummy here too 😌life as a mum is perfect when you get to do it alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:55 PM
2

I teach my 7 year old son FDS ideals already. Start then early, then it’s just normal x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:46 AM
2

It’s ok. Not every meme made is meant for every person. I see so many posts on here about being childless free snd happy. I have a child, and a shitty ex. I just let it pass 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:29 AM
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Well there’s your answer. You’ve chosen not to use it. Your body has/had the ability, but you’ve chosen what’s right for you x I think, this meme is to be taken from a biological point of view only. Women give birth, yes we have fertility issues, choose not to, adopt etc. men are usually pretty useless at the conception as they are with handling the early years. Also I think the meme is pointing out how men feel it’s their right to speak over us, mansplain, yell, abuse, etc while seeming to forg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:13 PM
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Men know our power, they come from inside of us. They are either scared of us or in awe of us, sometimes they might love us for a time, but in the end they wish to damage us, it’s power over us that they crave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:01 AM
18

Tall, muscular, ponytail, dark features, big girthy dick...green eyes...ohh shiiiit. Think I just came.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:11 PM
7

Ok, but hear me out. If you don’t get your kids involved in cleaning, cooking etc from a young age they aren’t just going to magically wake up one day and think ‘oh look there’s the dishwasher and soap, I’ll just clean up!’ This is a fairy tale. This mum has failed. She needs to involve her boys daily and they need to experience real life repercussions if they don’t get involved in keeping the house where they live clean Edit- ok she TELLS them everyday to help, pitch in, they clearly don’t, so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:56 AM
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Call your dad daddy, I loved calling my parents mummy and daddy, and they loved it back. Fuck this porno lvm. My daddy passed away 2 years ago, and not a day goes by that I don’t talk to him, and call him daddy. I still call Mum mummy snd I’m 38. X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:09 AM
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How to recover from the conditioning of this? I always feel, like you wrote, that I’ve said or done something wrong or wasn’t ‘good enough’ what are the steps to recover? I can tell myself over and over, but I always come back to feeling like I messed up, though I know in my head that I didn’t. It’s exhausting x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:21 AM
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IF she needs me too!! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:10 AM
9

My lvm told me I was ‘being a bit dramatic’ when I disclosed feeling suicidal a few months ago. The double standard is that I had listened to his mental problems NON STOP for months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:43 AM
109

Wtf!!??? Take your kids with you! How will they feel being left behind with daddy’s boyfriend?? Lordy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:08 AM
3

Really well said, agree with you 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:43 AM
2

I know right. I feel like I’m going through some kind of resurrection or re birth. The amount of stress and anxiety I’ve put myself through is appalling. All in the name of trying to be in a ‘relationship’ because that’s what I wax taught good girls do. This wake up-re birth is at times painful too. But it’s pain with a positive outcome for myself, not pain which in the end benefits some dusty lvm xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:29 AM
3

Not wrong :) we were just heavily misinformed x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:15 PM
4

Happy cake day queen x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:56 PM
111

The younger generation are really waking up WAY ahead of their time. I’m (38f) here for all their pearls of wisdom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:25 AM
10

Hahaha! So good 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:31 PM
127

I had been in a life threatening car accident. Literally was covered in these little stick on devices to measure my heart and brain activity over 48 hours and a lvx couldn’t help himself, o was so tired confused snd scared I just laid there and let it happen. My reasoning that ‘he had been so good to me that day and had dropped everything to stay in hospital for most of the day with me while the staff ran tests’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:35 PM
72

What’s the bet that ‘men age like fine wine’ was something coined by beauty industry peeps to keep women feeling ugly/inferior to their male counterparts, thus keeping us investing in make up/cosmetic surgery/ beauty procedure spending. Billion dollar industry all built on female insecurity, they act as the virus and the antidote :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:48 AM
49

Girl me too! My period came on the day it’s due (today) for the first time in literal years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:26 AM
7

Season 2 is coming May 18 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:39 AM
1

5 pilates classes a week for 5 weeks challenge! Taking all the inter/adv classes ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:32 AM
19

I should’ve left my nvm when he said ‘yeah I don’t think your workout routine is working for you, you should lift’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:10 PM
4

Yup the sky is blue! Great metaphor for the gaslighting scrotes who have tried to drive us crazy with lies snd deception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:00 AM
24

I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:56 AM
11

Listen to the latest podcast for more Disney Princess bullshit :) x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:28 PM
5

My ex wouldn’t have made it past a few weeks... he got really drunk and upset and wrote passive aggressive texts to me because o told him I was too tired to come over that night for drinks, he later told me he was annoyed because he assumed we would have slept together for first time. I felt bad as he was so upset so I hurried over there the next night, this was December last year. I’ve been in a situation ship with him since, ended it last night by actually telling him to not contact me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:40 AM
14

‘Creators’ no you’re a ‘pornographer’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:40 AM
21

1 child, finally happy to be single, run my own business in my own hours, financially stable, little one is nearly 8 and loved travelling (locally for now!) we have all the love and joy we need and no lvm will change that! Also, you can always adopt later in life if you really feel the urge to xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:11 AM
5

Faaaaark. Makes it sooo much worse!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:48 PM
87

Arial was though for sure... she gave away HER VOICE ffs. Just smiled the whole time like an idiot trying to get a kiss 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:04 AM
44

Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:45 AM
149

Unless it’s his money she’s using at the checkout, then maybe a halfway flex ? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:16 AM
25

He sounds really wonderful ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:41 PM
5

The waitress test, nice! I noticed this in an ex, thought he was just trying to be cool. Turns out he started ‘grunt talking’ to me within a year too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:06 AM
32

A month in only is hard / too early to tell. Be an observer, lean your energy back and just watch his actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:52 PM
6

Yes there are. Been there done that. My ex LVM talked on snd on about how tired he was while I was having contractions in hospital. Then proceeded to eat in front of me while I was on epidural and starving. Oh he then told me I was ‘lucky he was still around’ the day after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:00 PM
13

All these podcasts have been so helpful! Im a 38 year old who has been pick me her whole life, starting with beauty pageants and dance comps from the age of 6. I’ve spent the last few weeks beginning the shift, lots of reading, listening and note taking. I’m actually kind of addicted to this information, can anyone suggest any other podcasts as I just need to cram as much info as possible. But I’m vulnerable and don’t wanna listen to the wrong shit. Love & light x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:04 AM
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