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Cobfront her without attacking her, be upfront, assertive but not hurtful... and tell her to shut it ofd or you'll dump her But yeah, there are gonna be losers here who wojld tell you "hes gonna cuck you" or "she already fucked them"... those are incels
/r/ExRedPill30/12/25 07:00 PM
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Because they need someone to blame I guess... Im not saying shallow women dont exist because they do, and thats what leads insecure virgin guys to try "better themselves" (AKA becoming the overconfident jackasses they complain about) thinking thats the only way to get women, and losing their true identities in the process just to get some approval... Also, since these guys barely touch grass, their society view is molded mostly by fictional depictions of reality (high school comedies for example…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 PM
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And that tells us thats the type of girl we shouldnt waste our time on, but instead theres too many other women phenotypes who could find you attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:01 PM
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This is a little closer to reality than the actual redpill narrative of "all women want chads"... I date mostly alt/punk/goth/metal/hiphop/emo kind of girls, and do jusy fine by being myself (a bearded dirtbag with piercings that listens to Nu Metal, has a minimum wage job and clinical depression), it helps that Im not exactly bad looking (for my niche at least), Im well hung and have those "bad boy with a sweet side" vibes... But its true, my last ex (a girl I knew from the Nu Metal scene) had …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:32 PM
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I might be a little damaged, but not damaged enough to buy into Andrew Tate's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:04 PM
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Then why all red pillers are incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:03 PM
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Im a good dude (not a "nice guy", just a chill guy next door who doesnt fit on lame alpha/beta male boxes), and I've been been with both bad and good girls... Circunstances can be either an ally or a foe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:01 PM
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The advice should go to both genders equally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:57 PM
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What even is a hot man? Not every woman will give you the same answer, theyre humans, not robots...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:24 PM
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I had a 3 year long relationship with an above average girl, me being average attractive (but 6ft tall, well endowed and "her type" as far as style) and she gave me the treatment that incels think only complete Chads get... Then again, she wasnt the typw of girl thats into Chads, she always dated guys like me (the whole "bad boy" metal guy look with piercings,beards, dark baggy clothes...) and most on that phenotype range from slightly ugly to above average attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:34 PM
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This sounds like strawman blackpill... I mean, do you have to be a "chad" to be percieved as hot by women? Dont you think women and men are all individuals and can develop.their own tastes and preferences outside society's standards? Im not a Chad and during all my relationships, my partners showed constant attraction and were preetty eager and straight forward when it came to sex, even when yhere were times that I wasnt too eager and they still craved my touch... But hey, I understand the case …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:17 PM
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How did it start for them (a subtle way to ask "who hurt you?" And "what did she/he do?" gor them to be so delusional)
/r/ExRedPill10/05/25 07:00 PM
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"If they like you, theyll approach you" is something we are taught since teenagers... thats why I almost always waited for the girl to be the one saying "I like you", otherwise its murky waters sometimes, they wanna feel like theyre the more eager ones in the dynamic generally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:05 PM
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Then why so many guys are simping for Rhea Ripley? And I dont mean just feminine "sit on my face mommy" guys, but masculine guys with more normal sex habits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:53 PM
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I guess they werent that ugly or douchey to begin with and managed to meet a real life girl who liked them.... If youre not ugly or an asshole, somebody will feel attracted to you sooner or later, dont fall for the oofy doofy narrative
/r/ExRedPill09/04/25 08:02 AM
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Dont let that person go, I made that mistake and paid for it
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 04:23 PM
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Its not that they woman dont like them because theyre misogynistic, they hate women because women dont like them.... and theyre also bombarded with stereotypes of what women (supposedly) like in teen comedies (jock), urban music videos (rich thug).. So they think thats what the female body responds to, and pay fortunes to PUA scammers in hopes of becoming the douchebag women go for... but thats because they need the validation of scoring a shallow Barbie (the type of girl that goes for that type…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/25 05:23 PM
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Theres nothing wrong with being a bad boy, you can be a bad boy and a (genuine) nice guy all at the same time... the alpha fuckboy stereotype that the RP promotes is the furthest from a bad boy or a rebel, the heartless alpha male is usually a guy that embraces societal norms to a tee (jock, gymrat, businessman, military....)
/r/ExRedPill26/03/25 05:10 AM
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That they clam to not be simps, yet they encourage awkward nerdy guys to become himbos/fuckboys so they can be liked by girls... and making such effort into becoming something else just for female approval is probably the most simp thing ever
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 07:22 PM
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The Red Pill is the actual Matrix, only you'll know how to take him out and back to reality
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 12:08 AM
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I think in the case of girls, the ones who want the "chad" (they exist, wont deny it), its either because society taught them to like that type of guy, or because theyre the female veraion of that and like atracts like... If anything when I was in a relationship last time, I was dating a girl with similar looks and interests (she also had that Nu Metal style I have) and I didnt see her drooling over her barbie-like cousin's Chad boyfriend, but rather being like "meh" because its just not her typ…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 10:21 PM
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RP is the most twisted philosophy, the guys who join it are already beaten down by life itself, and a logical/healthy response would be to adhiere to something that gave them hope (wether real or fake), and instead they turn to a defeatist narrative that makes them feel worse, and on top of all, its fake, and looks more like a plot for a bad written porn movie than anything real... The truth is, unless youre really ugly or an asshole and had to make serious changes to who you are, you dont need …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 03:13 AM
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What is a bad boy really? A lot of people told me Im a bad boy for my style (beard, piercings, a tatoo or two, baggy dark clothes, drink/smoke and listen to agressive music...) yet most of guys my kind are introverts or really sweet guys hiding behind the surface, few of us are the "pump and dump" douchebag type... I associate the "bad boy" that "girls go for" more with the jock type, and those types are preetty much what society expects from men to be rather than rebels or outcasts.. .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:35 AM
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Ive been in a 3 year relationship in which we had sex almost everyday, and while we had a matching desire for each other, she was the one who lusted for me the most... is that a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:17 PM
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I get where you come from, and theres some truth to it, the thing is, if feminists want men to deconstruct themselves, then they also have to deconstruct what theyre culturally and psychologically (its not biological, as incels wanna believe) attracted... The "red pill" rethoric says that the problems is that women are universally attracted to a certain type of guy, and instead of bringing up a real solution, they perpetrate the problem by telling you that you have to become some kind of cartoon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:22 AM
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Chemistry ashould be standard #1, you could be the most conventionally attractive guy/girl, and if theres no spark, its gonna suck anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:55 AM
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Not all women have the same preferences, Im rugged, unkempt, bearded, bald, with some tats and piercings, my body's anything but fit, have a low wage job, dark humour, drink, play videogames, listen to heavy music, workout for strenght rather than looks and dont give a shit about getting rich or shredded... But theres a niche for everything, I usually go for either girls who have certain traits and preferences towards my kind, or girls who give me clear signs that theyre attracted (through her g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:29 AM
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Nope
/r/ExRedPill27/02/25 07:52 AM
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Whats attractive is subjective to anyone... I for example dont feel atteacted to fit sporty girls, but others do... Im more into quirky alt or next door kind of girls
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 06:08 PM
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Its simple, work on yourself, not into trying to be something else, but in being more comfortable on your own skin... then when you least expect it, some girl will fall for you.. Youve pribably been looking in the wrong places instead of letting the right type of girl come to you
/r/ExRedPill25/02/25 10:18 PM
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Simply find the right womsn... Im not a type of guy thats hot or attractive to every girl around me (acquired taste), but the ones that are/were atrracted were always passionate about it... Its not a one way street, everyone just likes what they like...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:16 PM
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Hes not an incel because he has money to buy women, but he has an incel-ish rethoric and is practically their role model
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 05:38 PM
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So anyone who doesnt agree with your beliefs is a blue piller... and what the fuck is a LVM or whatever 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:07 AM
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Its fun and insightful at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:23 AM
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Theres a long but entertaining video that offers help for guys like you and debunks most of the incel "all women are drawn to dark triad fuckboys" rethoric at the same time.. https://youtu.be/be_Ms3nVG10?si=MmLzLBPRkD06IpE4
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:21 PM
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Im a Metal guy and usually date within my culture, and I have my ways to spot whos a good match or not... if she simps for Alex Terrible, dont give her any time of the day... I gues the opposite sex equivalent would be simping for one of the Butcher Babies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:23 AM
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The red pill turns guys into two things: a lonely basement dweller (if theyre beyond broken) or a robot himbo (if they put in the effort)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:10 AM
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Its simple: For men: skip the bimbo For women: skip the twink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:05 AM
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Possitive masculinity could be just being kind, honest, respectful, but also confident, strong and having a big cock
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:55 AM
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Its more psychological than biological, people like what they like, and not every girl you come across will dump you for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:48 AM
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Genuine nice guys yes, incels no Youll be surprised how many of those "bad boys" (on the outside) are actually nice guys (on the inside)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:46 AM
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Loss of passion usually happens from a disconnection, the attraction is obviously still there, but its hindered by one or both of the parties not feeling like themselves, or feeling that the other person is not itself anymore... Usually it fixes with patience and finding an enviroment that lets both parties find themselves, but its not gonna work if theres only one person putting the effort...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:45 AM
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Exactly, Ive been cringed upon made fun of for supposedly being an "edgy millenial" stereotype, and how do I respond to that? With more eyebrow piercings, wallet chains, baggy jeans and sleeveless Nu Metal band tees than before... Some chicks dig that, they find it attractive because its raw, sincere and stands out...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:30 AM
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Im somewhat neurodivergent (probably on the spectrum) and antisocial, have limited social skills, Im very kept to myself in social situations (unless its with people with shared interests / experiences), yet I always dated neurothypical girls and they didnt mind that because I compensated it with decent looks, kindness and good sex... The problem begins when outside judgement starts creeping in, wether its from family, friends or any social group, because in the middle of isolation and intimacy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:16 AM
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Everytime someone spews this incel/redpill rethoric, I can only read it while imagining it being said in some goblin-like voice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:03 AM
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We dont need so called "stacies", theres normal girls that are fun, sweet and attractive and dont have ridiculous standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:46 PM
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Both traditional and modern/empowered women are unattractive... I just like a nice quirky girl next door from a similar backgroind to mine (working class) who isnt hypergamic... and those exist, otherwise I wouldve been single my whole damn life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:31 PM
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Well, at least it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:10 AM
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Actual love motivates.monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:00 AM
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Everyone datws based off looks, but not everyone likes the same looks, and thats what the redpill/incel rethoric fails to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:58 AM
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Depending, Im socially awkward and that didnt stop a beautiful girl from falling in love with me for 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:52 AM
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Human nature is a wildcard, not every woman likes chads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:48 AM
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Because bad personal experiences, and the incel rethoric just amplifies those bad experiences, making them come off as some kind of biological norm or some shit, when its just all cases of wrong place, wrong time or wrong people...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:46 AM
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"Thirsty" means "this ugly dude that had the audacity to approach me"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:42 AM
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How bout no pill? Thats a more unbiased vision of reality, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:46 PM
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Im what anyone would call a bad boy with a sweet side /heart of gold, no bully/scumbag traits, just an edgy/rough appearance (piercings, beard etc...) and my last relationship opened my eyes that the red pill rethoric is bullshit... The girl I dated for 3 years had 3 brothers who are wannabe chads, a dumb bimbo cousin with a chad boyfriend... yet all she wanted was this imperfect socially awkeard loser (it helps that Im 6ft tall and have big frame), but I dont possess any of the alpha chad trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:45 PM
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All incel / red pill rethoric seems like a competent plot for a bad porno flick... but nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:28 PM
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Maybe youre projecting your own gay fantasies into women... maybe youre the one who wants to fuck a fictional gicachad, and theres nothing wrong with it, you like what you like 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:32 PM
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I almost never paid for a date (minimum wage job) yet good sex and kindness can get you a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:53 PM
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Masculinity can come in so much different styles and shapes, not everyone has to have chiesled abs and jawline or make 300 grand a year... Some girls just look for a healthy ballance, a bad boy with a sweet side, a nice guy with a big cock, people with some masculine features, but far away from the alpha male stereotype on the internet...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:52 PM
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Women cant control what theyre attracted to, but that doesny mean they all like Chad or some shit... My ex had plenty of sisters and female cousins, they were all different and liked different types of guys, one was a dumb blond bimbo who preferred chads, the other was a kpop dancer who liked skinny soft boys, the other a chubby otaku who liked fat nerdy dudes, and my ex was the Nu Metal girl into guys like me (latino dirtbags with beards and piercings)... and thats just depending on culture and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:40 PM
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Those women exist, nobodys doubting, but its not like theyre all programmed like robots or biologically wired to be shallow bitches, it all depends on their individual psyche or the culture around them...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:11 PM
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I dont know, I think most dudes would rather date the girl that either fits their preferences (in looks, style or personality) or makes a genuine connection, regardless of social status or whats conventionally atteactive... If anything, I dont think hypergamy is a biological thing like incels like to say, but rather cultural and psycholigical...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:05 PM
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Hypergamy is not "female nature", its just a personal trait that a big chunk of women happen to have... just stay away from that type of women and go for the ones that dont give a fuck about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:16 PM
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There are plenty of guys that arent assholes nor conventionally attractive yet they do well with girls... yet incels would call that "oofy doofy" and pretend those girls dont actually like em because its "anti-eugenic" or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:21 PM
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Not all women are attracted to twinks with a chiesled jawline, otherwise Elliot Rodger wouldnt have died a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:53 AM
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