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It also blows the lid off of a lot of cultural programming and groupthink that exists within the seduction community. Rest assured we have our own programming even as we pat ourselves on the back for overcoming societys programming about what women want, etcetera.
/r/seduction10/09/13 07:16 PM
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It's how you go about it that matters.
/r/seduction01/09/13 04:27 PM
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The post was all about how men do not have to behave like douches to get women, was it not? You said you found the post strange, so I asked why. If you can show me how I libeled you, or where I'm mistaken, I'm all ears.
/r/seduction31/08/13 06:58 PM
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I'm afraid it is you who is now telling me what I think. If you are unwilling or unable to explain yourself just say so.
/r/seduction31/08/13 05:14 PM
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Agreed and I think overly insecure women could benefit from a healthy man that does not perpetuate their pattern of bad relationships. Unfortunately, people tend to attract lovers with complementary dysfunctional issues.
/r/seduction31/08/13 04:48 PM
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Not meant as an attack or snub. I sincerely want to know why you would find it strange.
/r/seduction31/08/13 04:42 PM
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Hopefully you would agree this does not justify exploiting their insecurities for personal gain.
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:31 PM
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This is like saying that we should be discussing how to conduct unethical experiments on prisoners in the medicine subreddit. Or predatory lending practices in a business sub. The ends do not justify the means. Things that are immoral should not even be discussed although we certainly have the freedom to do so. The bottom line is improving yourself--not getting laid at any cost, which is actually a beta thing to do.
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:22 PM
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What part of not actually needing to behave like a douchebag to have hot women in your life do you find strange?
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:17 PM
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A lot of the Gurus still have mommy issues and it's very obvious. So glad that the new wave of seduction literature is pointing out how it's not actually necessary to exploit insecure people. It seems that getting laid for some is the ultimate value with no regard for ethics or emotional damage to others. With great power comes great responsibility:)
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:16 PM
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That's what confidence is.
/r/seduction24/08/13 01:46 AM
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If you are superficial enough to need insecure women (which are the only type that are attracted to men in spite of that attitude), you can have them. Seems like a mutually-needy circlejerk to me.
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:24 PM
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Only him that matters? Only the alpha male is important? Replace "alpha male" with "narcissistic personality disorder" and I will believe you.
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:00 PM
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Good stuff, only disagreement is that women don't love over-confident males. "Over" means too much. It is the opposite extreme of underconfident and leads to horrible decisions in life as any greek tragedy will teach. Healthy, actual confidence is what women want and the world needs.
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:57 PM
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Yes, or video games, TV/movies, etc. Check out Mega Ran, Dr. Awkward, MC Frontalot and you will not be disappointed.
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:35 PM
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I have found that women like any kind of musician, including nerdcore rappers. Just being on stage makes them want you.
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:48 PM
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I think you should like what you like and if some or even most women don't think that's typically manly then to hell with them. Besides, have you seen some of the women at anime conventions? Rawr
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:51 AM
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We are here to support each other, not disrespect each other needlessly to make a point. Disagreeing with something is fine. Disrespecting others lowers your own value. Ironically, you criticize 5 people for not contributing enough to the OP, yet you have neither suggested any titles nor elaborated on them. So by your own standards, you have contributed even less to this thread than those who need to "shut the fuck up."
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:19 PM
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100 messages for 1 date is a huge waste of a man's time, that's why. I stare at a computer screen all day long. Why would I want to come home and spend a couple hours staring at one again writing messages to 100 people? Sounds AFC to me.
/r/seduction04/08/13 11:31 PM
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The post asked for the names of books, and few guys answered with the name of their favorite. So I suggest that you relax a little as it isn't a big deal. You have NO right to talk to other men here that disrespectfully.
/r/seduction04/08/13 11:27 PM
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A little off topic but I think the rise of divorce and all of the conditioning that many men have now received as a result of growing up with a single mom and no father figure in the home (or a second marriage where Mom usually wears the pants) is the primary cause of most of the inner game issues that guys have to learn how to overcome more so than feminism, which is more about not abusing power.
/r/seduction11/07/13 12:44 AM
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Having you solid guy friends can really help. I have been the position where I woke up one day and realize that all of my friends were pretty much losers or were too caught up in their own issues to really be available for me and dependable for support or doing what they said they would do. So do your best to make some friends although if you have emotional issues yourself then you will likely attract similar people to you and it's hard to tell the difference. But do your best and definitely get…
/r/seduction11/07/13 12:35 AM
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I think part of this is gathering enough evidence before drawing a conclusion and having a strong opinion. While I'm not a girl this is one of the biggest pet peeves I have about people who assume things and speak authoritatively with 100 percent confidence in things that they would know are incorrect if they bothered to ask a few more questions first. Then you just look like a dumbass to all sexes.
/r/seduction11/07/13 12:31 AM
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There is no downside to mindfulness and being present. Professional athletes like the Lakers hire mindfulness coaches to help them be more aware of what is going on at the court and therefore more effective, not stuck in their heads. You can do any activities while being mindful including bettering yourself or acting with purpose.
/r/seduction11/07/13 12:26 AM
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Loved this book and also How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Start Living.
/r/seduction06/07/13 07:05 PM
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"The Game" made him sound like a bit of a narcissist who revels in his power and influence over women.
/r/seduction03/07/13 03:20 PM
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If it is an ongoing issue or if you came from a dysfunctional family of origin where excessive criticism shaming negligence abuse compulsion or addiction took place then I strongly suggest John Bradshaw's book called Homecoming about healing your inner child. Please excuse the lack of commas as they are not working using my voice to text as they usually do for some reason.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:35 PM
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It's only ballsy if you think of it that way. And if you think it requires balls, then you will start wondering if you have enough balls to do it. I would just focus on being as present and objective as possible. It's really just two human beings interacting and meeting their social needs. Any additional interpretation or meaning you assign to it is your choice and may not be necessary. Even if you are patting yourself on the back for being ballsy, that same interpretation of the behavior we ref…
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:27 PM
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No idea. When people go sarging at clubs and the party doesn't even start until 11 p.m., part of me groans as I am a morning person and do not enjoy disrupting my effectiveness the next day just because a lot of people like to stay up really late.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:21 PM
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My experience is they require a couple of dates first, more so than white girls. I'm sure some here will have incredible exception stories, but do you think this is the case in general?
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:20 PM
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It's ALL psychology. Anything that helps with self awareness is appreciated here, by me at least, because that's all this journey is about anyway. Women are just mirrors we learn from as they reflect ourselves back to us.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:18 PM
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I dance-walked during the SF Pride Festival, and came out of my shell enough to open and chat with various people, join a group throwing frisbee, and catch a photo with the glitter man. Businesswise, close to working a deal with a famous musician to help him grow his business.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:15 PM
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Nice post and thanks for taking the time to share. Ultimately I think online game supplements offline game. It is not either-or, as the typical reaction to this type of post will get. I look at attracting women the way I look at attracting customers for my business... Much more efficient to have them come to you online then the equivalent of going door-to-door. Disclaimer: I am great from the first outing onward, and am working on approaching. But logically, both strategies have their merits and…
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:12 PM
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The complete and objective picture would be that man and woman both choose each other.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:01 PM
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I think you have your priorities in order. As Snoop Dogg said, put the purse first...ass last. Now with the addition of some women that sounds like a pretty complete and awesome life!
/r/seduction30/06/13 03:59 PM
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Could not agree more and I think that also applies to venue selection. I would only go where I would go have fun anyway.
/r/seduction30/06/13 03:56 PM
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