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You call this a missed opportunity? Imagine you would have approached her and was at her house that day... lol That would have been an actual missed opportunity, not 1 potential pussy.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 08:01 PM
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What an amazing man you cousin is. Life will reward him greatly for this move. I'm really glad to hear a story where the man left in the right time. As for the "why did you send my stuff to a random hotel room" ROFL!!! I wish we could see her face in that moment! I would put it as my desktop background forever.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 03:27 PM
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Do not tell her anything! Ghost and avoid any further contact by any means! Women are masters of manipulation, she will find a way to excuse her request for a break, you will believe her and take her back. That's what happened in my case. Do not leave the door open for this shit to happen. That's the sure fire way to keep dating a cheater, and perhaps never finding out.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 11:27 AM
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"Eat it.... He might ;)". This one pain painful to read. Just wtf. Unfortunately I believe your case didn't really show you TRP truth in action as you can blame everything on the drug abuse?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 11:17 AM
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You think that I could benefit in any way by asking her why she's losing interest? I'm sure anyone on TRP agrees you can't negotiate desire, any attempt to do so will just backfire and make you even less attractive by being needy, insecure etc. What would you tell her if you were in my shoes?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:38 AM
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There were some cue of emotional cheating about 3 years ago, with someone she met online and claimed she never met in person. I completely ignored this as I was an idiot, and hamstered she just wanted to get me jealous. Also she was in some remote online relationship with someone else she claimed she never met before, before we started dating. When we got together, that guy sent me a massage: "If she did this with you, she'll do this to you." I thought the guy was a retard and ignored this too..…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:32 AM
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I did lose interest in her life lately although I haven't wrote this, because she's changed to a new personality I couldn't relate to. Can you explain why did you get the impression that I was controlling or borderline abusive? Also where have you gotten the impression I was upset about her traveling the world?! WTF. And who said I didn't plan to travel with her? WTF again. your whole comment is based on false assumptions?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:54 PM
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I'm here to learn, What should have I done once I've seen her losing interest? Ask her baby why are you losing interest ? Why is your pussy not as wet as before? Why are you yawning when I talk? lol Of course I should've always worked harder at bettering myself as a man, regardless of this cunt, But I would love to hear what I could have done better in your opinion in regards to communication with her (I'm not looking to argue if you get the wrong impression). If I was the one to lose interest f…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:41 PM
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It's been 3 weeks since the breakup so it isn't as emotionally painful as was at first. Still the thoughts and feeling about this are on my mind 24/7, they aren't going to leave me anywhere soon, but I'm not in rush to escape them. But of course it would have been 10 times more emotionally difficult if the relationship wasn't shit for a long time already, and without TRP knowledge. I managed to emotionally check out to some degree for the last 4 months. I was aware of my low SMV, so although the…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:17 PM
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Honestly didn't like the "new her" one bit. But I did love her, of course some aspects of her character remained the same when she change and I did like those, I did think she looked so much better than she actually does, same goes for her body (This means a lot about how much you like a girl IMO). Thing is that she still looked like the girl I knew before, had the same voice, fucked the same way etc... It's not that easy for my brain to understand the person I knew is gone. Also it happens very…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:17 PM
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I have to disagree, If you're dating a cheater you want her to cheat as soon as possible to have a faster breakup. Also if you're "the other guy" I don't think you're doing something very wrong if the girl isn't married, you don't own shit to anyone, only the girl owns loyalty to her guy. Also I'd really avoid the "another dude's belonging" mindset after this red pill experience. "She's never yours, it's only your turn". Understanding this to some degree in advanced definitely helped me cope eas…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:05 PM
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You're aware she was free to walk at any time right? Seems like you missed this tiny detail. Also I wouldn't call this "TLDR" as the thread was never about the downfall by any means, if you actually read it. It's about sharing things it taught me about women in general.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 03:42 PM
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Just to be clear, she wasn't fucking 50+ guys She did the female version of plate spinning with them while screening for the best alpha fucks, rollo tomassi talks about this on the rational male.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:32 AM
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Couldn't agree less mate. My behavior towards the end merely mirrored her behavior. She lost attraction - I showed less attraction, as there's just no other way I can behave. Same went for the personal and romantic interest. At any point she could have just said girl shit like "I love you but I feel like your'e not loving me back as much, it hurts me badly" "I feel like you lost sexual interest in me" bla bla. I would have happily explained her that I just "closed up" as I saw her losing interes…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:18 AM
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lol about the window thing hehe... My hamster told me my unicorn always forgets the window is there and she's a good girl ROFL
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:55 AM
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Again I did all this stuff in the past as well, for even longer times. We actually started to go out at the lowest point of my life when I was doing all the shit I wrote for a year, and was severely depressed. If those actions came out of nowhere from me I would agree they triggered the whole thing. But this shit has been ongoing randomly through the whole relationship, without any effect on her behavior. So I tend to think it only had little to do with the results. What mainly happened is that …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:50 AM
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Nothing that isn't obvious: Keep bettering yourself and keep the relationship in a good state (if you can't, leave asap, don't wait for a magic to happen). In my case the relationship has been garbage for the last year, so neither of us lost anything really.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:41 PM
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I agree, only reasons I avoided this in the first post, was to keep it short enough to be appealing to read, And mainly because honestly even now, I don't feel like those "hypergamy triggers" had a massive part, as I did pretty much all this shit before with little to no effects on the relationship. I am well aware of my SMV, other than being a bit better looking than average and not being a beta bitch I have pretty much nothing in regards. That's why I advised not to engage in an LTR if you are…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:23 PM
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No offense but please please avoid comments like this. I once read a post on TRP, someone found out his LTR is an escort. Many responded that they aren't surprised, AWALT etc. This type of comments made me question TRP was that genuine to some degree, people commented as if he wrote nothing lol. In this case the fucking whore hit on a guy super actively, and went straight to his place to fuck! Up to this point I was the only man who's seen her naked as far as I know, Later she texts how great th…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:59 PM
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I had my part of the downfall too, I just wanted to keep the backstory short. Regardless of what was my part, only a truly piece of shit person would do any of the shit she did. I'm posting my part to help others. But by no means it "justifies" any of the shit she did to any degree whatsoever. As far as hypergamy is concerned: I was unemployed for months as I had a passive income at that time I was out of shape, got fatter and didn't work out (I was never fat, just fatter). Of course once I star…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:38 PM
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My case was different. We had such a special first love bond, she was the true love of my life and I was hers. She truly had unconditionaled love for me. LOL I still somewhat believe the shit I just wrote to some degree, this fucking truth is almost impossible for me to accept even after seeing the chats with my own eyes. Please don't be retarded like I was :)
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:09 PM
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Absolutely. No words could fucking stress this enough. I saw the red flags and always hamstered them with so many retarded blue pill thoughts. I Stupidly asked her about some red flags 2 months after she cheated (before I found out), She "explained" it was all done "on purpose" to get my attention as I've been acting cold. I fully fucking believed her! I've been reading here for about a year now, and still never believed any of those were proper red flags, while the cunt was cheating with half m…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:03 PM
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