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That’s feminine bro. Don’t initiate that. The girl will bring it up once she’s ready.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:39 PM
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Rotation gang. Having 2-3 friends with benefits at a time is much more ideal. The benefits of staying single far outweigh a committed relationship.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:08 AM
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I think it depends on where you live and the women around you. I live in a large city. 30 minutes is my absolute max. If there aren’t attractive girls near you, do what you got to do.
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:33 PM
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I understand the frustration. I would take what everyone is saying about somatypes with a grain of salt... I have watched with my own two eyes, first hand, that somatypes are true. I’m an endomorph. Will literally gain 5-10 pounds of water weight after eating a large dose of carbs and it’ll take close to 2 weeks of consistent diet to get back to where I was before. I’ve adopted keto as a lifestyle - get a giant headache with weight management with this body type. I just can’t fuck with carbs. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:33 AM
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It’s easier once you gain an abundance mindset. There are quite literally billions of females on the planet. You’ll find one that you vibe with as long as you keep up w the self improvement and putting yourself out there.
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:58 PM
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Make a move fast and attempt to fuck first date. Set the tone early.
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:59 PM
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Kiss? I always try and clap her cheeks on the first date. Even if she's not w/it you set yourself up better for the 2nd date. Setting the tone early is the way to go.
/r/seduction29/08/19 10:24 PM
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"I don't buy drinks for random chicks I meet at the bar" easy. You're overthinking this man.
/r/seduction23/08/19 02:23 PM
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You don't need them. You'd honestly be better off w/o them.
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:48 PM
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You’re going to get friend zoned if you don’t fuck or at least attempt to.
/r/seduction16/08/19 04:40 AM
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That was a shit test, you did fine. Just do your best to not overthink your text responses. You can definitely fuck up w/chicks when you start overthinking on what you want to type out to a chick.
/r/seduction13/08/19 04:29 PM
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The best way I found to do this is to get a chick absolutely obsessed with you and tell her to go find you another chick. You have to almost have that bitch soul though. I'd be very certain the obsession is there.
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:58 PM
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Good mindset to have. It’ll change your life when you start to get better and fear stops holding you back.
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:05 PM
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That's lame if we're being honest. Woman know what tf you're trying to do if you try and help them w/their work. They can see right through that shit. They'll probably finesse you out of free tutoring and put you in the friend zone lol. Be more direct and lead w/your confidence/swagger/charisma and you'll get much better results.
/r/seduction12/08/19 09:37 PM
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Literally the ONLY way to get over this is to just do it. Start talking to women. Start small and build yourself up. Every day make an effort to talk to a stranger and work yourself up once you start to gain confidence. Practicing on store clerks helped me alot. Go talk to the old lady reading the newspaper on the park bench.. Whatever it takes do something every day. It's awkward and extremely uncomfortable at first but after awhile once you get used to it it gets way easier. Coming from a guy …
/r/seduction12/08/19 09:12 PM
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Thanks bro, appreciate it.
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:32 PM
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She definitely was. That would've looked really bad on me, as a professional, fucking an intern while she was still my coworker. I saw her often so that could've got real awkward if shit went south.. Definitely thought the better move was to strike after she was gone.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:48 PM
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Lol, I definitely had the balls to do it. I just got fucked by the exit checklists we use to offboard interns having the wrong date.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:32 PM
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That was my initial thought too. Kinda makes me look bad doing it online but oh well.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:14 PM
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Lol, my thoughts exactly.
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:55 PM
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It's not that. It's my parents. I fuck when they're out of town but that's about it. My parents are super strict about bringing girls over and they aren't meeting me half way when I bring it up to them despite me paying them rent, having a career and being a grown ass man. It's frustrating. They usually live with their parents too. I'll look into a friend's house. Kind of weird but I haven't tried that.
/r/seduction19/06/19 12:31 AM
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I feel you. I'm the same way. I'm not really down w/hanging w/females 1on1 if they take away the sex aspect. I dont see the point. I have dude friends and a puppy I can hang w/to just chill and hang out.
/r/seduction18/06/19 11:05 PM
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Good shit man.
/r/seduction18/06/19 10:17 PM
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Bro you were straight up and honest w/your intentions. I respect that. Not all women will appreciate that kind of straight forwardness however. You kept it 100, I see nothing wrong w/what you did. She blocked you because she felt like you were only using her for sex. I'd move on, fwb situations usually don't last too too long to begin with. Don't hit her up for any reason. If she hits you up repeat what you said until she comes around.
/r/seduction18/06/19 08:32 PM
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OP please don't follow this advice LMAO
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:41 PM
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I wouldn't reply. You could say something along the lines of "I'm not interested in being friends if you change your mind feel free to reach back out." Just understand she probably will never reach back out. I'd just move on. You won't be able to win this one.
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:05 PM
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I agree. If she has a bf and wants to cheat that's on her. Not my business. I don't bring up that question either.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:10 PM
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I'd strongly recommend staying in shape. When I was in college, I graduated December 2017, there were a few females who were fine asf that I shot my shot at. Some of those girls looked fat and nasty a year later. That's a major turn off.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:11 PM
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Just let her know you appreciate the honesty and wish her good luck in life. She's a real one for being straight up with you. Alot of females are either on some bullshit, pull back or just ghost you out of nowhere once they're done with you. That level of decency she showed you deserves some decency on your part too.
/r/seduction29/04/19 10:49 PM
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Definitely don't make her a bracelet. I wouldn't reach out to her at all. Let her come to you. Next time she initiates contact I'd invite her out and then make an attempt to invite her over to blow her back out. Lol. Kill the friendly vibe though, that'll keep you stuck in the friendzone.
/r/seduction29/04/19 10:45 PM
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What's your gaming YT channel? I'll check it out.
/r/seduction29/04/19 10:38 PM
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Hell naw. That's weak as hell. There are plenty of bitches you can fuck for free if you put in the effort.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:48 PM
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I wouldn't take tinder seriously. Most of those girls aren't even willing to meet up and are just there for the free attention. It seems like you need to take action and go through some trial and error. I was socially awkward at first too. I learned from my mistakes after talking to woman. Very long and frustrating process however. I'd suggest going over to YT and look up alpha male strategies videos. That helped me alot with the game/social skills part of meeting women. Everyone starts off horr…
/r/seduction25/04/19 07:18 PM
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They help but you could look like donkey from Shrek and if your dress game, body, charisma, and self confidence are on point you'll get laid. Looks definitely help, but personality and game can get you laid if you're lower on the look scale.
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:13 PM
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Give women a break, 6months - year should be fine, and get on your self improvement (gym, career, meditation, finances) so you can attract more females. You'll be in a much better place to do better with woman if you leave them alone for awhile. Also check out Alpha Male Strategies on YT. He has very good insight on female nature and game. Stop chasing ass that's going to fuck w/your confidence.
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:13 PM
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50+ inch tv
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:31 PM
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You could benefit from watching Alpha Male Strategies on Youtube. You're putting too much thought into this fam, you're already in for the loss with that mentality of you'd be lucky to be able to hang out with her. I'd suggest talking to more women and working on self improvement and game.
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:40 PM
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Stop being a bitch, man up, work on yourself/self improvement and try again with a different girl. There are literally billions of females in this world. This little girl behavior is fucking ridiculous my god.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:56 PM
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Read Robert A. Glover - No more Mr. Nice Guy
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:54 PM
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For sure. I followed on both my personal and gaming. Jarret and SinPie gaming.
/r/seduction04/04/19 09:46 PM
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Good shit bro. I subscribed to your YT also. You deserve more subscribers.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:29 PM
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Where do you work? I wouldn't even dare to try to mess with girls at my corporate level job. Lol
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:00 PM
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I agree with most of what you said but if a girl I find attractive comes to me and is hinting at getting some dick I don't see it as a huge no-no to give her what she wants. It's kinda exciting fucking a married woman to be completely honest. I wouldn't initiate that as it is low and weak but if she's the one doing all the work that makes things different.
/r/seduction01/04/19 09:47 PM
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I don't lol. Idgaf if they're willing to cheat, that's on them. As long as I'm not cool with the dude, I'm good. I usually won't ask relationship status since I don't really care.
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:57 PM
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I'd just accept this as an L and learn from this for next time. There are billions of females on this planet. You'll find another one you like. ​
/r/seduction13/03/19 03:50 PM
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It has alot to do with game. A lot of men don't actually do anything to try and improve their game and circumstances and complain like a little bitch about not doing well with women.
/r/seduction11/03/19 05:19 PM
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You sound butthurt dude. I would've just left her ass outside and moved on after that. Not my issue.
/r/seduction04/03/19 09:13 PM
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Nah, you're just a beta male lol.
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:49 AM
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I have. I meant what I said. Females don't give good dating advice. Listen if you want but don't be surprised if the female you're interested in starts losing attraction and starts ignoring you if you follow their advice.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:27 PM
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Alpha male strategies. Best dating coach on YouTube.
/r/seduction15/02/19 12:57 AM
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IOI's are very important it definitely matters. I get what you're saying but that's a personal choice. I don't approach and do fine w/woman. I also happen to be very physically attractive which helps. Lol.
/r/seduction15/02/19 12:07 AM
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Same response. Unless you "need" something right then and there and if she's the only one who can provide what you need I'd leave her alone and just ask at a later time when she's more receptive.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:42 PM
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I was going to make a response but you stole the words right out of my mouth..
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:38 PM
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She clearly doesn't want attention or anyone talking to her. I'd leave her alone.. That's bad timing and she's not receptive to an approach at that time. She's clearly letting you know that.. You'll very likely get rejected just trying.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:36 PM
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Lol. Yeah that's where I got my mindset from. I had zero game before watching AMS. Dude is a genius. His shit works so well.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:13 PM
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/r/seduction14/02/19 03:46 PM
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Get your shit together and become a high value male. You'll get alot of subtle hints that woman want you to approach when they see you have money, confidence, and bangin body. Woman will send off choosing signals and those approaches you do when you can see those subtle hints that a female is interested makes the approach a whole lot easier. I'm not a fan of cold approaching. I find it awkward asf going up to a random female where I have no idea of her interest level and approaching that way.. I…
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:34 PM
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Anytime.
/r/seduction14/02/19 11:44 AM
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Exactly. I'll do it 1-2 days before the date so she doesn't forget and it's fresh in her mind. I don't. They're usually interested in seeing me from the masculine seductive vibes I give off in person. I only deal with females with moerate to high interest. I don't have the time nor patience to mess around with raising interest in low interest prospects.
/r/seduction14/02/19 11:09 AM
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"Do you want to go ______ at _______ pm?" Instead say something along the lines as "Let's meet _______ at _________pm." It makes you seem more dominant and confident when you use language like that. It doesn't look as weak/needy. You'll occasionally need to ask questions but use statements instead of questions when you can. Also I will occasionally text a girl "hope you have a productive day." I only do that with girls with very high interest. Kind of like feeding them scraps. I only will do tha…
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:46 PM
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I struggle with text game myself. If you know the barebone basics of how not to be needy you shouldn't really need text game.. I've found just being dry and keeping texting to only setting up logistics works. I've had success doing this. I strongly recommend not texting back and forth with a female, save that for in person meetups. No emojis, gifs, lol's or any of that. Don't be afraid to ignore texts if a girl is saying some dumb shit or you just simply don't want to text back. Use your best ju…
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:46 PM
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Understandable. That may be a maturity thing. I still have my fuck as many girls as possible mindset I had when I was in the dorms at college..
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:47 AM
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True. I get what you're saying. If you have the right mindset this can work.As an introvert I find being masculine, mysterious, and keeping talking to a minimum on dates more my style but what you just said definitely does work.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:38 AM
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This directly ties into making your intentions super clear early on. It's going to be alot easier dealing with woman when you lay down the vibe at the beginning of the relationship. If you wait too long to fuck you will get friendzoned. A failed attempt first date is fine. You still made it clear of your intentions. It's setting up the tone of the relationship. What are your overall intentions? This advice might not fit you well if your goals with woman are different than mine.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:35 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:28 AM
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Very true. I make it clear via my actions I'm trying to fuck from the very beginning.. I always push for first date sex. It eliminates you getting thrown in the friend zone if you execute property.
/r/seduction13/02/19 10:53 AM
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Dude you're overthinking. Indications of interest (IOI's) shows her level of interest. If you see a bitch smiling, blushing, and flipping their hair at you that's a pretty good indication she has high interest. That's common sense. Woman don't do that shit towards men they don't want approaching them. Them doing that makes it pretty easy to approach.
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:04 AM
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Clearly not a cold approach. Cold approaching is going up to a woman who you have no idea about her interest level in you and shooting your shot. VERY different from if you already know her interest level.
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:52 AM
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Anyone can do it. I had very strong social anxiety too. Once I started getting money and my body right my confidence naturally shot up. I don't really even have to cold approach. I just pick up on which girls show IOI's and pick the ones I find attractive and go up to them. I rarely get rejected because I already know they'll have interest from the IOI's they were showing. Self improvement will take time but it's worth it.
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:40 AM
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You don't need to flirt to be honest. Just be masculine, mysterious, and focused on your goals and confidence/charisma will follow. My advice is don't chase ass. It can work but it's a whole lot of work. Make yourself a catch. Make yourself the best version of yourself (finances, fitness, etc) and woman will come to you.
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:21 PM
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Girl you're fucking and is in your rotation.
/r/seduction12/02/19 08:57 PM
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Just overthinking. Don't fully understand text game and what you can or can't say so you maintain a girls interest level. I've fucked up alot over the years w/text game.. I keep it stale and simple. Only for logistics.
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:54 PM
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Take a break from women and get your shit together.
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:39 PM
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I thought of that but I could potentially use this to my advantage and get into her head. Have her find me a girl for a 3some is something I'm interested in trying.
/r/seduction09/02/19 12:23 AM
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I don't take females seriously. They're all hoes to me. I just want to fuck but I've already been in it multiple times.. I'm thinking of just leaving her on read.
/r/seduction08/02/19 11:54 PM
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Lost respect, lost interest levels, me running into a female I already know, having to come up w/a while bunch of lies if I'm questioned about my relationship with her,I have hoe tendencies, being a bf is not in my nature. Pretending to be someone I'm not... I can see that backfiring.
/r/seduction08/02/19 11:49 PM
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?
/r/seduction08/02/19 11:38 PM
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You're going to need to improve yourself. Learn game, get a better body, become more confident, start making more money. Basically dive into making yourself a better you with self improvement. I'd personally give females a rest for awhile while you work on bettering yourself. It will benefit you after you graduate college. I chased ass all college and regret it. If you're average on the looks scale self improvement is going to be necessary for you to get more woman.
/r/seduction04/02/19 07:53 PM
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Weird, idk why I can still see it. I'll send you a screenshot of it.
/r/seduction31/01/19 04:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/alqyui/taking_a_break_from_bitches_to_focus_on_finances/ Here's a direct link to it. It's not removed on my end. Lmk if you have any questions afterwards.
/r/seduction31/01/19 04:32 PM
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It will be. I'm 24. I strongly suggest bettering yourself young. You'll be way ahead of your peers when you get my age if you start now. When I was your age I religiously played Xbox and beat my meat. It was like a 9-5 for me lol.
/r/seduction31/01/19 04:27 PM
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Facts, you're absolutely correct. I'm currently doing that also. Go check out my post on focusing on finances and stop chasing ass. It should be insightful for your situation.
/r/seduction31/01/19 04:10 PM
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No more MR. nice guy by Robert Greene would benefit you. I'd suggest reading that. Also... Don't listen to dating advice from females. They will give you advice from a perspective that will set you up to get friendzoned.
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:06 AM
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I'd stop texting her so much and get her out on a date. You're going to kill attraction texting back and forth so much. Use the phone for setting dates get to know her in person.
/r/seduction24/01/19 04:34 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies: Dating Techniques In The Social Media Age
/r/seduction24/01/19 04:32 PM
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This! Awesome to know sleeping around when you get older still works. I'm 24 and have 0 intention on settling down for a few decades. This made me happy reading this haha.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 03:22 PM
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Read the damn post and don't be a lazy faggot. LMAO
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 03:03 PM
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You're being reactive to the situation not proactive, that's what's fucking you over. I'd suggest making yourself the highest value male possible to attract more females. Females choose, men pick. Hit the gym and get the body females crave, learn how to dress, have a solid bank account, and the most important piece... Occupy yourself with something you LOVE to do and that you're passionate about. Once you get on your purpose you will naturally start to not give a fuck about a woman since you'll …
/r/seduction21/01/19 06:28 PM
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She might be using you for your nonsexual attentionion. Women like being validated like that. That excuse for not coming over for Netflix was likely bullshit. Notice how running doesn't lead to sex, Netflix definitely does lead to sex.
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:57 PM
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It sounds to me like she lost interest because you were being too friendly. You went home with the girl.... You should have at least attempted to escalate to sex. You also may have said something over text that lowered her interest with the banter.. Keep texting to strictly setting up dates and you can avoid that. The amount of times you've gone out with this girl and haven't tried to make a move says something about her interest level fading.. My recommendation to you is to set up a date to hav…
/r/seduction26/10/18 06:26 PM
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Hey, I feel your pain. I'm a 24 yr old male with Aspergers as well. I've gone through all of those tough feelings as well. You're going to have to put in alot more work than the neurotypical. It took me years to finally get laid/start to get comfortable with women. I lost my virginity at age 23. You absolutely MUST get out of your comfort zone and talk to girls to get better. You're going to suck at first but don't give up. I'm still not the best with game. Learn from your mistakes and make smal…
/r/seduction20/09/18 09:33 PM
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