BigBopper4Life Archive

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0	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? Bruh I do night time deliveries throughout Los Angeles as my job. So yesterday and today I will be taking my standard protective action to avoid the violence that I am more likely to be a victim of than you are. When was the last time your body was corralled against your will and held hostage for unwanted medical intervention that could cause you GBH or death for 9 months? Is this you talking about pregnancy in the most insane way possible? Because if so sure I can't get pregnant but if I get so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 12:17 AM
1	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? The white house	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 04:12 PM
1	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? Yeah all those women who tortured prisoners in Guantanamo Bay and Bagram Air Base weren't trying to hurt anyone right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 04:03 PM
1	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? Idk bruh I really don't have any power in society. Frankly anyone who isn't rich and part of the ownership class doesn't really have any power in American society	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 04:02 PM
1	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Do you think people laughed at it because it was absurd and not a reflection of reality nor a reflection of their real feelings?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 12:16 AM
1	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. If by fighting they mean arguing and yelling then it's more of a yellow flag since shit happens and when someone's going through a tough stressful time they don't always communicate in the best way. But an issue like that can be worked through and shit can get better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 12:15 AM
1	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. I will when you learn the difference between fiction and reality. Or just pull up another example that isn't a work of fiction	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:08 PM
2	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Yeah you think that because you base your view of reality on Wayans brothers movies. That's not how the world actually works dude and most other people can separate fiction from reality. I mean shit in their other movie Don't Be A Menace... the main character is older than his own biological father. Do you think that's something that happens in the real world too? Or when his hood friend pulled out a nuclear warhead to diffuse an argument on the street, do you think that happens in real life too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:58 PM
2	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Bruh it's a shitty lowbrow comedy movie from 13 years ago it ain't that serious and the fact that you base your view of the world off of fiction that does not represent the real world is pretty concerning. Get outside and experience the world and you'll see its nothing like any Wayans brothers movie	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:20 PM
7	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Bruh you're really citing Scary Movie 2 right now 🤣💀 Come on you know that's a fictional comedy movie from like 13 years ago that doesn't represent American society, right? Are you really basing your world view on low brow comedy movies? I can tell you from reap world experience that most men aren't assholes and Scary Movie 2 is not a realistic depiction of American society	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:47 PM
1	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Yeah well people also feared the world was gonna end in 2000 and 2012 so I really don't care what people fear. Also this doesn't even say how many people have this fear in the first place. That article is a bunch of speculation with no actual numbers. Show me some real data and I can believe you but right now it's just a bunch of nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:45 PM
9	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Yeah most men don't do that though	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:19 PM
-2	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Yeah thats nothing though. That's just what people fear not what actually happens. Show me what actually happens because I don't care about what people fear	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:19 PM
10	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. You gotta be more specific then. What asshole behaviors are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:07 PM
0	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Your link says nothing about how often people are abused after leaving the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:06 PM
15	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. That's just not true. Most men don't act like assholes. I hope you get out of the bad place you're in and see the good in people	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:45 PM
0	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. No	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:43 PM
14	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. I mean the question isn't a great one because there's no perfect way to figure out if someone is abusive and the best way to do it is to spend a lot of time with them and get to know them at a deep level. You can't control how others act and you never fully know another the same way they know themselves. So for me it's best to focus on yourself and what you can do if someone decides to get abusive. So I guess my main is to do what I already did as a man, learn how to fight and have strong bounda…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:02 AM
3	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Yeah but they also include far more examples of adults hitting on another adult. Come on don't act like all they're getting is pedophilic attention or people trying to rape them	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 07:29 PM
4	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts For real plus this is something that everyone feels so idk why it's so hard to for people to empathize with the other gender when we all have the same feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 06:01 PM
6	When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communication Yeah this is all anecdotal lol. There's no studies on this or anything like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 05:53 PM
9	When women say they want a man to show more emotion, what they are really asking for is healthier emotional communication Idk in my life women have more often enforced or tried to enforce toxic masculinity on me. Could also be that I'm generally masculine enough for other men to not take issue with the ways I step outside of traditional masculinity, could also be that I'm a martial artist and pretty big (natural light heavyweight) so men don't try to bully me and risk getting their ass kicked	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:54 PM
1	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun No it happened all the time until like 2021. These past couple years we've seen the rise of the femcel but before that women in general were talking about how they get too much male attention no matter what they do	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:31 PM
4	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun No it's a lot more than that. Trust me even the fat women have been saying this. I've been around for all this shit, I started college in 2013 I was there when dating apps popped off. I was in the cultural bubble where all this dating culture was being formed and talked about frequently. Sorry but what I'm saying is not an opinion. It is straight up a fact that in the 2010s women of all types were talking about how they are constantly overwhelmed with male attention and get so many matches on da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:27 PM
2	When will things finally start looking better for men? Men have always been attracted to skinny women with big breasts and hips Lol that's just straight up a lie dude. If you were alive during the 2000s you would know this. The sex icons back then were skinny women with very little hips or ass and some bigger boobs. Like Megan Fox or something. And that's not even mentioning how in the 1920s boyish women were the hottest women. It's just a simple fact that standards have changed over time and will continue to change. You straight up can not argue wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:22 PM
11	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Well it's also that for the past 10+ years women en masse would say that's what their dating life is like. That they are so inundated with men wanting them that it's overwhelming and that they can't ever leave their house without at least one guy hitting on them. Sorry that we're finally listening to women I guess lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:18 PM
5	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts Idk if it's so much that she was "conquered" or anything but that if a man isn't someone who gets a lot of casual sex it can feel like she's just settling for him. And nobody wants to be someone's second choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:10 PM
9	When will things finally start looking better for men? If preferences are so innate why do different generations have wildly different desires? Like in the 2000s it was all about skinny women super hot, now only 20 years later it's all about thick women	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:01 PM
2	What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"? What do you think masculinity is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:53 PM
1	Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to men I mean it's cool that people say they like it online but until I start getting women interested in me irl while fat I'm gonna keep on the path to low body fat percentage. Like this isn't something I came up with today or anything either. This comes from almost a decade of dating experience and seeing how the world works. Going into college I was pretty fat and socially awkward. Fixed the social anxiety relatively quick but it wasn't until I started losing fat that I finally got some rare female …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 05:57 PM
1	Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to men Then you are in the minority of women. I straight up have the exact body type you like (decently muscular with a beer belly and hairy) and generally women are just straight up not into it. Men seem to like it a lot (sadly I'm not bisexual tho 😔) but women are rarely into it. The best bet for a man is to be at or below like 18% bodyfat and to be somewhat muscular. This love of dad bods is massively overstated and only does harm to the men who accept the advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 05:12 PM
0	LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work..... Sure and loons who bite and twist genitals shouldn't be having sex either	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:59 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. It's hard for me to see that these men aren't experiencing a romantic companionship when all they go for is casual sex. That's obviously not the way to typically find romance IMO. Idk that is kinda how it goes for young college aged people though, especially with online dating. When I was in college it was common to match on tinder or meet at a party, hookup that day or after a couple dates, then decide the type of relationship they want from there. Men complain about the lack of casual sex beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:40 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. They would not care that the women whom they desire as potential girlfriends are having casual sex with other guys while making them wait for it or not having sex with them at all. Well men care about that because we want to be desired by our romantic partners. And if I've gotta wait a while to get intimate while nobody else before me did then it looks like she's not really attracted to me. Does that make sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:29 PM
2	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. Good men are not alone involuntarily, that's all I have to say Lol plenty of good men are single involuntarily. We don't live in some just world where good people get only good things and bad people only get bad things. Dating success is generally not tied to how good of a person you are. After all look at all the abusive people in relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:27 PM
4	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. BUT I’ve heard the manosphere lines — F&F podcast guys and Andrew Tate — saying things like women are only good for sexual intimacy, nobody wants companionship from women because of their personalities, they have nothing to offer, etc Yeah and the manosphere is not representative of men at all. It's just a small minority of truly deranged psychos living in a different reality. Don't use the manosphere to learn what men are generally like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:24 PM
3	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. If men complained about loneliness and finding the right girl I'd be more sympathetic But men do complain about that and still receive this same dismissive "nobody owes you sex" bullshit. People tend to assume men only care about sex and assume any man complaining about dating struggles only cares about sex no matter what he days (on reddit and twitter and shit at least. Irl people tend to be more understanding and listen in good faith). Maybe next time you come across a man complaining about da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:23 PM
2	LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work..... Yeah thats a good way to catch an ass whooping. Imagine if I just started biting a woman's clit because she squeezed my head and neck too hard with her legs. Absolutely psycho shit, you should really not be having sex with this attitude	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 03:55 PM
1	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating Well I wouldn't have sex with a man so I feel like you gotta treat women a bit differently from men if you're trying to date them lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 08:00 PM
1	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating Lol come on now dog someone can be social and still struggle with dating. During my last two years in college I was going out and partying or going to other kinds of social events on average like twice a week with a large circle of friends and still struggled with dating. The world isn't fair and someone can struggle with dating without being some anti-social hermit that never talks to another person	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 07:55 PM
6	Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data. The secret is that anyone who subscribes to a "pill" ideology is the same kind of person and does pretty much the same stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 07:27 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yeah sure dude. Or you're just lying on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 05:48 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Ok buddy, just more vague meaningless platitudes to cover for your obvious lying	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 05:06 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Existing in public and being social. Lol bruh come on its not that simple. I do that shit too and don't have women approaching me all the time. So you're either lying about what you're or you're lying about all the women coming on to you. Which one is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 04:52 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice I can go out and have women approach me without even trying and i'm literally trans, what are the rest of you men doing wrong if I can do that. So like what exactly are you doing that's getting women approaching you all the time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 05:57 AM
1	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Why are you opposed to making society better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:49 PM
4	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Ok so will anyone tell us how to socialize properly? I mean shit I have absolutely no problems making friends with any kind of person (and frankly I've never really struggled with this) but for whatever reason I've always struggled with dating. Hell I even get a decent amount of dates off the app but they don't ever lead to anything. The only thing I can think of is that it takes me a little bit to get truly comfortable with new people and am generally a quieter guy but is that relatively minor …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:46 PM
13	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe What do you want them to say? "Gee, sorry man you aren't slaying a bunch of pussy, that must suck!". Like, what do you want? Yeah honestly that's a pretty good response. Most people talking about dating struggles on the internet are really just looking for some empathy and to hear something like "damn that sucks, hope it gets better". After all you're not getting much good dating advice on an anonymous forum where nobody knows you or what you look like. These guys just need someone to not shit a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:34 PM
1	Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV men Having to sift the men who actually like you out from all the rest who see you as interchangeable with the entirety of the female population is not a luxury. It means you have all the responsibility in the relationship and get blamed for not being able to discern a man's entire character with 10 seconds of meeting him. I mean you just described what it's like dating strangers you meet online. Men have to do the exact same thing with women. This really isn't some big deal and if you don't want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:30 PM
2	Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV men I mean that zubreddit is dedicated to finding stories of women globally being murdered for rejecting men and can barely even get one post every other day. Seems like the problem isn't really that big then huh? Maybe following the subreddit is causing anxiety and a false perception of the world. After all you could make the same sub about when men refuse women but that still doesn't make it some super common huge problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:27 PM
1	Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV men Come on dog thats just not true at all. Someone who looks like Jason Mamoa is gonna get approached a lot more than someone who looks like Lena Dunham	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:24 PM
3	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" I feel fine because I know I will never come in second	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 04:34 PM
0	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. Yeah you're just ridiculous then because there is absolutely no way that the majority of guys on campus are looking better than Tom Holland. For one most men are much fatter than Holland is. Plus he's objectively not short, dude is straight the average height for an adult man why do you keep calling him short? What do you think average height is for an adult man? And he has terrible facial features? Then j guess Adrian Brody is also ugly because he's also got small eyes, small lips, bags under h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:16 PM
1	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. Lol still an absolute ridiculous statement that only someone with ridiculous standards can actually believe. Can you tell me why you saying most young English men look better than Tom Holland is any different than some guy saying Rihanna is ugly without makeup? I already answered your celebrity question but I guess you could throw Taylor Swift in there too but she's also still above average. Hope that answered your question	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:01 PM
1	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. I don't really know celebrities like that but off the top of my head Jennifer Lawrence is the most recent celebrity I'd say is the closest to average. But even then she's still above average. Hell personally I'm not really into Rihanna but I still recognize she's well above average in terms of looks. Whats funny to me though is you're doing the exact same thing as those guys you hate who say Rihanna is ugly without makeup. But since it's you doing it towards men it's not a problem right? I mean …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 08:52 PM
1	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. You're just insane dude. Like you're not even existing in the same reality as me right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 08:34 PM
1	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. Oh I see you're just the woman version of those weirdo guys who call models ugly because they have sharp knees or something. Ok cool I just know to not any of your opinions on this topic seriously. Seriously you're doing the exact thing as these guys l What I’m saying isn’t as close to delusional as the standard of the men here. I’ve seen them call Rihanna and Ana de Armas ugly without makeup But because you're saying it you think it's reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 08:12 PM
2	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Ok, but you know thats not the norm right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 07:32 PM
1	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. Yeah and those are his only physical flaws lol (plus he's not even short, dude is straight up average height). He's also got a great build, is in really good shape, got great facial features (tbh I don't even see the issues with his eyes), great hair, is extremely charismatic, and is also a rich and famous actor. If all that is simply average to you then I think you've got some real unrealistic standards. Like I doubt you even meet most of these standards yourself, if you don't meet the Tom Holl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 07:31 PM
2	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Yeah its kinda sad but when you've got a full time job and a family it does get hard to consistently go out and party and shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 07:25 PM
1	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Idk they also believed women were the horny gender for hundreds of years in Europe during the middle ages	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 06:26 PM
1	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. Those guys are incredibly average. It is a very low bar Bruh looking like Tom Holland being average is an insanely high bar. Lol are you really being serious right now? Like what counts as an attractive man then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 06:17 PM
3	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. Could it also be that women in American society are also expected to shave every other area of body hair and that standard just extended to pubes too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 06:16 PM
3	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" I see what you're saying, but then why go on about how the guy is such great husband material? To me this just seems like a big time backhanded compliment that people say without really thinking it through. Like no 20 year old who's struggling with dating is gonna be excited to hear that in 10 years they're gonna be a real catch when most people are married or equivalent and are generally done with their "fun". That's just not gonna make them feel better and can make it feel like they're gonna g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:47 PM
4	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Because it's not some deep intense paranoia. It's just a regular insecurity, not that big of a deal. What you can do is show your partner that you think they're attractive on a regular basis. It's pretty normal to have some kind of insecurity, especially about how you look. You gotta just support your partner when they're having a rough day and generally show them that the insecurity isn't true during your regular daily life	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:41 PM
4	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" That's nice, empathy is weirdly absent from the conversations usually. I guess most people just wanna rage out rather than actually talk 🤷‍♂️ shits mad weird here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:18 PM
3	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Well that's good for you, definitely not the norm though. Especially the whole having no husband material guys around when you went with the fuckboy. After I ain't that special and have been told the husband material line multiple times in my life from multiple different women	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:16 PM
12	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Uh no your partner should absolutely be supporting your emotions and helping you when you need it. Plus who's really gonna pay hundreds of dollars per week to tell some stranger about the pussy they didn't get in college? In the grand scheme of mental health issues this insecurity is so minor you don't need medical intervention for it. Just love and support your partner like a human being and it will be fine. Plus maybe avoid telling some 20 year old guy who's struggling with dating that he's gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:14 PM
10	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Well you still fucked him didn't you? That's the issue, the oh sonl amazing husband material guys sit on the sidelines while you're hooking up with or even dating these guys you don't even like or respect at all. Why are you with these guys if the husband material guys are so great and attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:07 PM
8	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Well I've been told I'm good husband material by women my age so it does happen. And it doesn't feel great when it does happen because you're still struggling with dating despite being told how great you apparently are	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:04 PM
8	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" WHY do you keep assuming that only ugly / average looking guys can be 'good/nice guys' 'hubby material'? Why can't attractive and tall men be genuinely good, loyal, hardworking, with low body count, marriage and family oriented? Because hot guys like that don't get told they're good husband material they just get told they're great and have a much easier time with dating. The "husband material" line is used to console young men who are not having dating success despite being the exact kind of pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:02 PM
8	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" I can see that, but it honestly can be hard to believe that when the husband material guy had very little dating or hookup experience, and anything that happened required a lot of effort on his part, in his younger years. So it's like if the husband material guy is so great why doesn't anyone actually want him until everyone's done with their fun sexually free years and they want to settle down? Why aren't women hooking up with husband material guys in their college years if they're so hot and g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 04:58 PM
2	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" Why do you think occasional shitty sex with someone who doesn't give a fuck about you is better than more frequent better sex with someone who actually cares about you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 04:41 PM
13	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" The issue you're missing is that the guys who are husband material tend to have little dating success in their high school and college years. So it feels like you're just the backup plan when suddenly people are into you when they never would have given you a chance say in college or something. It feels like they don't really like you that much and certainly aren't attracted to you, and who really wants to be in a relationship like that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 04:38 PM
1	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? Yes Captain America is one of the most prominent characters in the marvel movies up until End Game. Do you now believe that most men are not abusive sexist assholes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:31 PM
1	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? Who's "they"? Because 99% of the men I've met are not like this. Even the conservative rural men I've met	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:30 PM
1	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? Captain America	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:28 PM
1	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? How do you know this? You're not even a man so how can you claim to know how men think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:26 PM
0	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? Bruh who is saying that? No men in my life have ever said anything like that and I'm working class from Midwest America	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:24 PM
1	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? I can jump in and say from experience that body fat percentage and the way you socialize also matter a whole lot. In my 4th and 5th years in college I had an honestly huge social circle with tons of female friends but did still struggle with dating despite showering, having a job, and having teeth. I think an issue for me is that I had something like 25% body fat and I was generally a bit more reserved, less confident with dating, and generally wasn't into being some dominant leader type either …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:14 PM
1	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? What's crazy is that my life has been the exact opposite to yours. I have never once met a single pedo or incel irl. Hell even my frat in college was a bunch of progressive men who viewed women as equals and had real deep emotional support for each other (shout out Phi Mu Alpha). And even online there's tons of examples of men standing against incels and shit. I do think at some level you are looking for this type of person/content online. After all you're on this subreddit which is full of men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:52 PM
2	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? I completely condone those type of men and I'm sure most men do. Heads up I think you meant to say "comdemn" here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:45 PM
2	CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on. And that justifies current attitudes towards men being abused by women? A man should just take any and all abuse from a woman because she might be weaker than him? That's cool but Amanda Nunes is weaker than me but she could kill me without breaking a sweat. Strength isn't the be all end all here	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:11 PM
1	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable I just need to pay attention? this sounds real conspiracy theorish. Idk claiming my normal statement sounds like a conspiracy theory sounds real conspiracy theorish 👀 But honestly I don't even know what you're trying to say anymore. It's just obvious that most women on reddit who talk about this stuff talk a lot about how every man they date is some kind of piece of shit and at that point they do need to pick better men. I really don't understand what issue you have with what I'm saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 10:39 PM
2	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable Bruh just go to twoxchromosomes and you'll see it all over the place. This isn't some small niche group. Every women's and dating subreddit has this kind of stuff all over the place. You just need to pay attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:38 PM
3	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable Damn sounds like you're just ignoring it then because it's all over the place on those type of subreddits	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 05:17 PM
7	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable Just spend some time on any women's or relationship or dating subreddits and you'll see plenty of examples	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 05:04 PM
21	“Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable Ok but it is true that if every man you date is some abusive piece of shit (like many women on this site claim) then you do need to learn how to pick better men. The fact is the vast majority of people aren't abusive pieces of shit so if you only date or hookup with those people then you do need to pick better people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 06:20 AM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Bro I've been living in LA for the last 3.5 years. I think I know what I'm talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 06:47 PM
2	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin Why do you think men who are respectful to women and will stand up to misogynistic men would be friends with a bunch of misogynistic assholes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:58 PM
1	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin Women have lots of options, but they aren't good. Do you think mens options are any better in general? Because after all men and women are human beings with the same capacity for shittiness. I find it interesting that so many people on reddit buy into the women are wonderful stereotype so hard	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:55 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Yeah I don't think you really have a coherent point bruh	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:50 PM
1	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin Why do you believe you know mens internal thought processes and lived experiences better than men do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:46 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Sure and $1 million is even better and gets you further than $100,000 in a small town. It really feels like you just don't really know what you're talking about here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:43 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB it’s just not fiendishly rich like an oil barren like you make it out to be Can you quote me on where I ever made this claim? All I said is if you're a millionaire you're rich as fuck, which is a true statement. Plus i never said you were close to a billionaire either so idk why you're bringing that up either	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:41 PM
1	Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram models Yeah sure, why would it be wrong for you to have friends that are men and to hang out with them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:11 PM
1	Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram models Yeah but having a celebrity crush as an adult is pretty weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:07 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Hey you're the one acting like $1 million per year in LA isn't great money. I'm just correcting that popular misconception	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 05:02 PM
2	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Bruh you're still rich as fuck if you're making $1 million per year in LA. You could easily live in an average 2 bedroom apartment by yourself with a decent car fully paid off and all your bills taken of with plenty to spare in the bank. I'd love to have such stress free life	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:59 PM
2	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB From what I’ve read on this sub, men have lower standards precisely because love isn’t a consideration. Well there's your problem. You shouldn't take anything you read here as indicative of the real world. This place is full of straight up insane people who's views do not represent the real world. It can be entertaining but it's certainly not educational	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:53 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Bruh if you're not even trying to date why do you care so much about this shit? Wouldn't it be better for you to focus on literally anything else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 04:49 PM
1	how to address gender entitlement? The american justice system is fucked up, but, if that were the case, I'd imagine we'd see a lot more people in mental institutions than jail Well we did until around the Regan administration. They started shutting down most mental institutions and just let the people suffer on the streets instead. You don't see them in the institutions because those institutions don't exist anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 06:18 AM
9	how to address gender entitlement? People don't call "men who speak about dating struggles" incels. Nah people absolutely do that. For many incel has just become the new way to call a man a loser virgin. It's just a petty insult to many that ironically reinforces incel beliefs about the value of sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 04:39 AM
1	how to address gender entitlement? What's your definition of entitlement? It feels like you've just got a different one than others here	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 04:18 AM
1	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women So what do you mean by this part "He pursued women, basically he didn't try to befriend them first, trick them into friendship to get sex or play weird mind games, he never negged women either, he let them know his intentions upfront"? Because (pre covid at least) I was doing most if not all of that same stuff and always struggled with dating. I had a large diverse friend group tho, and the times I did do well with hooking up or dating I didn't do anything differently so it seems like looks have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 02:31 AM
1	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? Women can ONLY find that small pool attractive. Got any study or something to support this? This just does not seem to reflect reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 01:18 AM
5	Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for men Women on reddit are not representative of women in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 05:41 PM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. But I'm not ugly, that's the point. I'm not ugly so I should be able to kill it wherever ugly men are doing well	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 04:21 PM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. No	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 04:18 AM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Damn where? Because i need to go there so I can start drowning in pussy if standards are so low	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 10:59 PM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. I'm 26 and am pretty social. Have you seen ugly assholes getting into relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 06:36 PM
0	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. It's absolutely not considered the standard in my life and it never was. Idk where you're from or what class you're in but that sounds like a you problem and not a me problem. Not having a SAHM is a luxury that most can't afford. Baby daycare is 2K a month bro Damn and here I was a child born to teen parents on welfare that did go to daycare as a little child. Damn maybe there are affordable options out there, or they all went away in the 20+ years it's been since I was a baby. But I highly doub…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 08:24 PM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. So then their personality isn't that bad or they are hot. I don't understand your point here	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 08:20 PM
2	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. Oh well that's why you don't see it, it's because you agree with it and just hate men yourself. That explains everything But since you talk about how much men hate women. Can you pull up all the comments you're talking about? Because it obviously doesn't happen and if you can't provide all the evidence right now then obviously you're lying Edit: here look through the comments on this post and you'll see what I'm talking about https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/v4pbee/whats_with_th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:50 PM
2	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Damn so what's the issue? Like do you not have any family members or something? You and your partner can't coordinate work schedules? But yeah being a stay at home parent is a luxury that most can't afford, so if you choose being a parent as your full time job don't complain when you're expected to do the job you volunteered for. Like why should your partner make all the money and have all the financial health of the family on their shoulders and do part of your job too? Why do expect so much mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:49 PM
1	Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not? I mean for one prostitutes are pretty damn expensive. And two we want willing sexual partners. To me the idea of being in a place where I have to pay for sex and intamcy is so sad that I would honestly think about offing myself. Like the thought of paying hundreds of dollars for a single session of shitty sex with someone who doesn't wanna be there is just so fucking pathetic and sad. And honestly you thinking that getting a prostitute would solve anything for these guys shows how much you don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:35 PM
2	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. Uh no women murder men every day too. Also no I'm not gonna link you to each individual sexist comment I've ever seen in a feminist subreddit because I'm not some freak that keeps a database of offensive reddit comments. Go to twoxchromosomes and look at the comments for yourself and you'll see what I'm talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:27 PM
2	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Makes sense, what's funny though is that I've seen tons of women say that even all that is still the bare minimum for a man. To me people saying shit like that or "the bar is on the floor" just wanna hate on men and aren't being honest with themselves. Super annoying how popular it is on reddit though, but this place is not the most respectful or pro-social place in the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:21 PM
2	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. What bar? What the fuck are you talking about? Maybe you should have been sent to daycare like me so you could learn how to effectively communicate with people	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:19 PM
2	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Oh so it's entirely irrelevant lol. But honestly if someone has too many matches then they should just swipe less. It's really one of the easiest problems to solve if you don't have fomo about missing the "best person" and actually treat people with basic respect. Also who here is mad at anybody? I haven't said anything about being mad at not getting replies. For me I'm just disappointed that the few matches I do get just don't ever say anything. Sure it can get you sad if it happens too often b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:18 PM
0	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Ok but this is entirely irrelevant to my question. I'm just wondering what you consider a man going above and beyond is	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:15 PM
1	Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not? Because ideally people would treat others with respect and kindness, I certainly do that in my life, and want others to live that way. Or as a wise man once said https://youtu.be/F6JrQ2MUaqE	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:13 PM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Well if you can't handle being a stay at home parent then don't volunteer for the job. A family doesn't need a stay at home parent, especially when kids start going to school at 5 years old. Both of my parents worked and raised both me and my brother at the same time. So if you don't wanna do all the housework and child raising then don't volunteer for that job. This is a problem that's entirely within your control to solve for yourself. It's your relationship and your life, you have control ove…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:59 PM
3	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Ok then swipe on less people. Again this is entirely a problem you create for yourself. If you're getting too many matches then swipe less. Like maybe limit yourself to 10 right swipes per day, based on your numbers that should give you a managable amount of matches so you can actually engage with your matches	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:57 PM
2	Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not? No one should have to endure 20- 99 rejections for one number. It’s dehumanizing Sadly thats just the reality of trying to date for many, if not most, straight men in America. Especially with online dating you're gonna have to face that much rejection to get any success. After all women aren't exactly approaching men or anything so we don't have any other choice than to just power through all that rejection to find someone who wants to date	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:54 PM
5	Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not? I think its just an in group bias in action. You see the same with men in these places too. People generally have an easier time empathizing with those who look like them and a lot of people seem to have never been taught empathy for others when growing up so all they only have the basic animalistic empathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:45 PM
3	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. How would you have 30 matches if you only swipe until you get 3? What apps are you using where you get matched with people you didn't swipe on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:40 PM
0	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. They also have wildly sexist generalizations about all women (and men tbh). These are not good places, anywhere that's full of toxicity and hatred is not a good place to hang around. Plus those guys who were gonna kill themselves aren't any better. They just externalized their hatred instead of letting go of it. Those guys are still severely mentally ill and need real therapy not forums full of hateful sexist freaks	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:39 PM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. No it straight up is personal standards because you're not dating those other people so just ignore them. Like who cares you don't even agree with them anyway. Also tho if you're a stay at home parent then caring for the house is your job, so why should the person who works 40+ hours without any help from the stay at home parent take on another job that should be the responsibility of the stay at home parent? Housework takes way less than 8 hours of work every day. What are they doing all day if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:36 PM
3	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. Their front page? Like most of the posts and comments about men look exactly like redpill and manosphere shit about women. There's a real serious problem with gendered hatred on reddit but people only care about it when men are the ones hating. Doesn't look good for the future of society tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:30 PM
1	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. Zero women following them around and making crude comments. Nah bro this is so wrong. Women absolutely do this shit too. We're all people and we all do pretty much the same shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:23 PM
4	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. Right but when the violence is non-reciprocal women are the perpetrators 70% of the time. Plus lesbian relationships have the highest rates of domestic violence while gay male relationships have the lowest (in America at least). Doesn't this show that women are more abusive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:14 PM
2	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. I would say twoxchromosmes is another example	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:12 PM
1	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. I mean red pill and the manosphere in general get this treatment because they are hateful bigoted communities that harm peoples lives and turn them into hateful bigoted losers. Those places are bad for you dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:11 PM
8	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. No I have never seen an ugly person with a shitty personality get a romantic relationship or hookup. Have you? Where do you live where shitty ugly men are drowning in pussy? Because I need to go there and become the top guy lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:07 PM
0	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. But who sets the bar? Doesn't each person set their own standards for what's acceptable in a relationship? It seems like people who complain that dating standards are too low should just raise their standards and that will solve all their problems with this	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:06 PM
0	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. So what do you think is a man doing more than the minimum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:03 PM
5	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Yo where are all these great women who keep dating dirty, fat, lazy, slobs with porn and video game addictions? I've been having some dating struggles and I'm only lazy and kinda fat so I should be killing it compared to these guys lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:02 PM
8	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. I mean you could always stop swiping when you have enough matches and actually make conversation with them. Then if those don't work out unmatch and then go back to swiping. Most dating apps require you both to say yes in order to match and be able to send messages. The problem of having too many matches is entirely on you and fixing this problem is within your control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 04:57 PM
8	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. I mean if these guys suck so much then there's gotta be something else appealing about them for them to get hookups and relationships with these women. And if their personality is trash they're probably gonna be hot because otherwise how are they getting these hookups and relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 04:52 PM