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BigBoss3737/r/seduction20/06/18 08:27 PM
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Indicators of Interest (IOIs). Signs a chick is giving you to show that she is interested or is choosing you over others.
/r/seduction11/07/20 06:14 PM
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I'll do you one better. Watch the Godfather movies. Lot of lessons on how to control frame in there
/r/seduction22/09/19 05:00 PM
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Girls who arent interested will make it harder for you to hit on them
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:24 PM
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Just bang her after
/r/seduction19/05/19 11:44 PM
2

No. Just bad game dude. That's probably why you're having trouble. You don't really listen or pay attention to the other person because you're so caught up in what you're trying to do.
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:18 PM
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Fair enough. A main tenant of game is to not ask a woman why she rejected you. That'll fuck up your game even worse. Cold approaches are almost worthless without choosing signals/iois. Was this broad sending any signals your way before you approached?
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:53 PM
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What's to be confused about? Either way, you won't be dating this chick so find another.
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:37 PM
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Always a little tougher rolling solo. You need more liquid courage.
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:56 PM
2

For all the reasons you listed in your post. You don't really want someone like that to be your girlfriend do you?
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:53 AM
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Nothing wrong with dating her but forget about making her your girlfriend
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:24 PM
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You probably won't pull but getting rejected hones your skills. Waiting for choosing signals usually leads to more notches but I say when in doubt, approach.
/r/seduction12/01/19 03:41 PM
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Your frame buckled and that's why you felt like you fucked up. Nothing wrong with asking a girl out but you got weak and tried to lay off the intensity by asking out everyone. No worries man! You tried and that's more than most guys can say. You just gotta work on your inner game some more
/r/seduction03/01/19 09:05 AM
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You gotta start somewhere
/r/seduction18/11/18 10:53 AM
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Don't apologize again. It worked out best the way it happened. Just go and have fun on Friday. Don't overcomplicate it.
/r/seduction23/10/18 11:28 AM
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Good move on your part. Self Respect is King
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:19 AM
1

Yeah fuck her. Don't let her waste anymore of your time. People only value your time if you do
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:46 AM
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All I can say is if it's get to that point, start distancing yourself from the situation.
/r/seduction23/06/18 01:32 AM
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I'm always traveling but I prefer higher end places. Places were the musics louder and most people are dancing. Don't care for the quiter hole in the wall type of joints. Stick to a younger college aged demographic.
/r/seduction21/06/18 09:53 PM
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That black boa is peacocking to the next level
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:24 PM
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Only time I think someone looks like an unconfident dork in a suit is when they wear the suit incorrectly or look uncomfortable. Some people just aren't cut out for suit game.
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:14 AM
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What's your go to outfit? I usually do black slacks, black chelsea boots, black button up with a pink blazer with white pinstripes. Great gatsby style lol
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:12 AM
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When she asks if you can drive her to the airport tell her "I'll have to see what's going on that day." That's a lame af soft letdown if you ask me.
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:47 PM
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I'm still a fan of the "You look like you're having the most fun here."
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:23 AM
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I think you can get some on their websites but I just pull up YouTube and listen to them on there.
/r/seduction02/05/18 10:18 PM
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I like Roosh V. Blackdragon. Some RSD. And a few others
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:18 AM
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I would definitely cut down on the texting and save your interactions for your dates in person. No need to wait for her to make all the effort. Game on but don't let her see that you're needy, even if you are.
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:09 AM
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Get out of your head. Don't be afraid to lose her and walk away. You already know what your issue is. No abundance mentality. Go in there and set no expectations. Just game her and have fun
/r/seduction25/04/18 10:26 AM
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How would you have applied seduction, pickup, and game in this scenario? I've been blown off and gotten the bang later, even in a situation such as this, I'm just trying to find the right sort of game for this broad.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:05 AM
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Agreed. Walk with her. Then stop her before it gets weird.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:40 AM
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I think its easier to number close in a day game approach. You can build up a little more rapport through text and then you can ask her out.
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:25 AM
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You made an effort and that's what counts. Don't get so caught up in your head. Be confident and ask her out if you feel the need. Experience will be your greatest teacher.
/r/seduction18/04/18 03:26 AM
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Logistics are pretty bad since you don't have a car otherwise it could work.
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:49 PM
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We've all been there man. Eventually you learn to not idealize them or put them on a pedestal. Talk with them. If they're cool, hang out with them. Bang them then catch your feelings.
/r/seduction11/04/18 11:16 AM
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Ask em out again and zero in on one. Don't talk with your mate. Talk to the girl you like instead
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:57 AM
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You need to build some rapport first. Asking for the number right off the bat will get you that kind of response everytime. Some guy coming up with a compliment and immediately asking for a number screams fuck boi. Get to know them a little bit more. Build up some interest and mystery around yourself.
/r/seduction03/04/18 06:25 PM
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Gotta be bold man. These broads are just talkin to each other to kill the time. Talk to them and do more than just kill the time.
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:11 AM
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Halo 1 is working well so far
/r/seduction27/09/17 05:46 AM
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It's really helpful to have logistics planned out ahead of time. If you don't know what that means, look it up. Where you go doesnt matter so long as you play your hand right. Movies usually arent good first dates. Somewhere where you can be physical with her always works.
/r/seduction16/09/17 07:11 PM
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It's like any other game. There's rules but that doesn't mean it isn't any fun.
/r/seduction06/09/17 07:26 PM
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First of all man, change your attitude. You're very negative. Have a good attitude and good things will come. Law of attraction 101. Now this chick is already into you. You know that. Use that to your advantage. Take her on that date with you and have fun. When you see her, wrap your arm around her shoulders. Talk with her. Make jokes with her. Don't over think it and just have a good time man. Give her a kiss after all is said and done. It will all feel foreign to you at first but the more cool…
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:34 PM
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Precisely.
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:18 PM
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Get used to it man. This happens all the time. It's called flaking. The more you message her the more needy and unattractive you will become in her eyes. It can be frustrating but don't think that since a broad said 'yes' means she will follow through. Give her one more chance. Play it cool. If she cancels, doesnt text back, etc. move on.
/r/seduction03/09/17 12:34 PM
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Quit putting the pussy on a pedestal. Right now it sounds like you're afraid of girls. Just walk up to them say "Hi. How are you?" then ask for their name. Introduce yourself. It's pretty simple really.
/r/seduction30/08/17 05:15 PM
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"You're right. You ARE too old for me."
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:21 AM
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I never cared if they had a boyfriend. The girl will leave him if you play your cards right. You have to tread very lightly though.
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:40 PM
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Wait. You're telling me you watch tv with them and then ask for a date. Who's place at are you at? Yours or hers? It doesn't even matter. If she's comfortable enough to let you into her home to watch tv or comfortable enough to come to your place then the only thing missing is making a move. This sounds more like friend zone territory now. Make a move next time the two of you are on a couch watching something. They're saying yes to the date but they're canceling because you're not making any mov…
/r/seduction28/08/17 07:01 PM
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First things first, how do you look? No chick at a club is gonna get with a schlub dressed in cargo shorts and any old t shirt. Are you and your friends presenting the best versions of yourselves that you could?
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:21 AM
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Just start making out with her until she starts taking her clothes off. Women are super horny on their periods.
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:18 AM
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Ignore and drop the ones that flake on you. They'll say yes to your face but will 'cancel' any meet up for a multitude of reasons. Not worth it to delve into 'why' just move on to the next. You can offer another time but if they flake again then move on. It's very personal but you shouldn't take it personally when a woman flakes on you. I would quit using the 'are you sure?' game, it screams of insecurity. Arrange the date, keep talking with her but keep phone or text communication to a minimum.…
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:07 AM
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Do what buttpincher said and just go in for the kiss. If she likes you then she'll kiss back. If she doesn't then oh well, she'll be moving anyway. Go in for the kiss after doing whatever it is you do with her. Get physical with her to create that sexual tension. Give her hugs. Grab her shoulders. Stroke her chin. Rub her back. The works. Be bold and she'll eat it up. Not sure if you two cuddle at all but if you do then a kiss is a no brainer. Best to act quick though. The friend zone does indee…
/r/seduction28/08/17 07:53 AM
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Yes. Obviously proceed. It probably won't last with the logistics being so bad so make the best of it while you can. Quit doing buddy buddy stuff with her and start creating that tension. All the dominos will fall into place.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:25 AM
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