BigBoyTouche2799 Archive

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1	If you think about it, guys struggling to create relationships and incels who choose not to build them are kind of like a poor man who doesn’t look for a job or a poor man who refuses to get a job.		BigBoyTouche2799	/r/askTRP	30/09/20 07:20 AM

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18	Guys come at my table while I was with my girlfriend, how should've I reacted? I’m surprised nobody has given OP this important piece of life advice. Some people who go to bars literally go for the specific objective of getting into fights. Just ignore them lmao. My old step dad would come home from the bar virtually every weekend with his shirt torn up after claiming he was the “best high school wrestler” yes people do this. Ignore them.	/r/askTRP	06/10/20 08:57 PM
1	Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV? Well most 32 year olds are looking for people more set up in life. As they probably are themselves. And if you’re going for a younger crowd you as a 32 year old needs something other than your personality that a girl a decade younger than you would want. This could honestly be a shitpost if I couldn’t already tell that you’re serious.	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 08:37 AM
1	Work vs Play I want to say something about a situation like this. You need to decide whether doing a little traveling and making fun memories. (Which arguably should’ve been already made in college), is worth putting the next step in your career on hold. Who’s going to pay for all of this fun? Nothing is free. Fun comes and goes. The primary thing someone should worry about is up to them. You could get a heroin addict on here saying the best thing you could ever do with your life is shoot up on the street an…	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 08:33 AM
3	Coworker went out of his way to show everyone in the office I have a terrible taste in food, in his opinion. Why did he acted like this? I think you’re looking into this too much. She probably thought you were gonna get heart failure and was worried about calling 911.	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 08:50 AM
3	Are women just good looking parasites? Sounds like most people reading this have never had a good relationship. Sometimes there’s situations that you have to face totally on your own in life. They can come totally out of nowhere and potentially destroy you. Building a strong relationship with an equally as strong woman will give you the edge that not only we in modern times need but also the edge that many of our ancestors needed to survive. Sorry to say this but if you decide that women are just leeches you’ll be sorely disappointed…	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 04:32 AM
3	Thoughts on the “like tactic” to shoot your shot on IG? Just DM her what else can you do?	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 03:56 AM
1	Should I follow up or next? Sure follow up why not.	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 03:54 AM
5	What should I be aware of when doing this? You should probably be aware of seeing and having fun.	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 03:53 AM
2	I've never kissed a girl?? Focuses on eye contact when you speak to her and listen. Also you don’t have to kiss her lips first especially if you’re cuddling. Kiss her forehead or something and see what happens.	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 03:49 AM
7	Girl texts me good morning every day? Is this a good sign or do girls do this to their orbiters too? Bro she obviously is trying very hard to stay in contact. If you really want an ltr try to beat to the good mornings a few days a week and make sure to say you can’t wait to see her and stuff like that. Make sure that you are responding to her and giving her proper attention if you care about her. Girls feel just as bad as guys when they get left on read. No need to cater but be nice if you really do care to get to know her better.	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 12:16 AM
10	What's with Gen Z girls posting their nudes on IG claiming women empowerment? They just want validation. I say if they enjoy it we should too.	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 12:11 AM
4	Just turned 25 and I'm still single Being a software developer you’re probably in that get shit done analytical work mode a lot. Why don’t you just try to dip your toes into the social stuff by attending parties and just hold a drink or have a couple. You’ve got money and a place to stay. That’s something many men lack. You can find relationship material anywhere and by that I mean don’t think all women at bars and clubs are promiscuous and not looking for anything more serious. Sometimes to get a signal you have to introduce your…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 12:24 PM
1	Next move? I’m not very good with that. You could ask to make plans in the first message. You need to make sure she’s knows it’s kind of a date just the two of you. “I’m ready to make that Kenyan food.” “We need to hang out! 6 feet apart of course! :p” “Adding me on Instagram huh, beat me to it :D” “Wish we could meet up in person for this group cause I liked getting to know you!” “Hungry? I’ve been told I have a 5 star kitchen!” “I’ve heard (insert movie) goes well with (insert food). We gotta try this” “…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 10:20 AM
1	I need drugs to have fun Cloudy, you can PM me anytime. I was literally you until I had to stop all alcohol and drug usage (and other illegal things related to drugs) after I had a massive psychotic/manic episode due to a drug induced psychosis. Drugs got me women, clout, friends, connections, anything that I wanted. Although I think I’m a lot younger than you I have the experience of feeling like I needed the drugs to have fun due to the fact that well, they are fun (when you don’t go crazy) and that I related fun with…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:47 AM
1	Former foster kid. 19, almost 20 years old. What should I know and how should I go forward? Well honestly, you have your priorities straight it seems. Stay on that path. With religion, I’ll tell you there’s many women out there that you can fall in love with. It just takes the time of course and through that time many people are cancelled out. Fuck dude you never even truly knew this girl. Time will heal all of this but you’re just a guy who needs lots of time. Pursuing other relationships will also heal this wound. Nothing in the Bible ever says there’s only one single woman for you o…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:41 AM
1	Injuries are making me depressed, having trouble coping. Lots of physical and mental injuries in all of our lives. Bodies are made by nature for working not for show. Ignore the accomplishments and shit. As long as you’re strong you don’t have to look strong. Injuries come and go. Be as safe as possible. I know some guys who seem to get injured all the time cause they do dumb shit like lifting wrong, lifting too heavy, or neglecting or overusing some part of their body. Even the top of the top like special forces have a long list of injuries. They lea…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:32 AM
1	How to take better control of my emotions? Man I love to say I hate my dad and love him at the same time. The autistic friend thing is just something you gotta do to support your community. Always remember that when you do eventually get to one of those low points in your life your dad will probably step in and help you recover. More than anything your family, friends, and community must be nurtured in order to foster a healthy and safe environment for your people. (Sounds weird but it’s true) Remember, as a man, just like your father se…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:25 AM
1	did she lose interest? Give a friendly ultimatum. You don’t have to tell her it’s an ultimatum but make sure it is to you. Honestly at my peak in college I was cancelling on ladies and parties just cause something truly better popped up like every time. Something could still happen. Try to get her on a less busy or hype day. Maybe an afternoon movie if she says she’s bored or if she’s free.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:19 AM
1	Next move? I’d say message her right now lmao. A week and she might just forget you or lose the spark. Also fuck the dont shit where you eat policy for this. 3 months and you’re out. Just be careful and keep it cordial if you need to back off so it’s not awkward.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:17 AM
1	I have trouble physically escalating with some girls. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm an attractive guy and I generally don't have issues with kino. Well if you ever sit next to them you could always do the arm around their shoulder and then rub their upper arm a little. That’s a good ol friendly but hot thing that girls like. Obviously these two girls weren’t comfortable with touching yet which is just normal. Some girl don’t want a guy doing random touches except for maybe a hug the first date.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:14 AM
1	I've completely lost frame, jump ship? M8 I have three friends that have 4 year olds and they’re all 20 like me.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:10 AM
1	I've completely lost frame, jump ship? With the drugs it sounds like you’re on the border of having a manic episode. Talk about losing frame when you start thinking you’re talking to god and seeing aliens and shit. If your girl loves you she SHOULD love you for better or for worse just like you’re married like she’s supposed to. You need to get into an intimate conversation about first, your addiction struggles, and second, about clearing up this shit with her coworker who certainly is presenting himself as an easy out from your shit…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:08 AM
1	Is it okay to do extra exercise besides Stronglift 5x5 on resting days? Just don’t you’re already doing enough. Last thing you need is some tendinitis or some other dumb shit.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:02 AM
2	Facebook feelings singnaling Brother man if a woman cheats with you why would she make it obvious. Of course she’s going to continue with the lamebook posting like all other married people like to do.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:02 AM
1	What should I do when it comes to fighting? Uhh ignore the dude. The girls shouldn’t really care lol. No need the armor up and act like a knight. Congrats bro you got the girl now leave the cuck seething in the corner. Also, if a fight happens and you can’t escape you always go 100% and fight like a fucking animal and be ready to be hurt. Edit: take off your clothes and scream as loud as possible.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:58 AM
1	Girl at work Yea this one is a parents situation. Country club? They’re probably rich and have people over a lot. I say talk with her and her dad a lot. I’ve seen this work. You can always ask her what school and stuff she goes too and then add on the hang out part. The whole shit where you eat thing doesn’t apply here as you’re both kids and you’re working the bootleg job right now. Goddamn if you knew how many times my fellow teen Walmart associates partied and hooked up with each other...	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:54 AM
1	I found myself in an interesting situation with an older woman. Unsure of how to proceed. Dude she’s going through a divorce and wanted a hookup. You may hookup again but probably not. Do not contact her again as you’ve said you’ve already asked at least twice and she said no. Wait for her to initiate.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:51 AM
1	Do girls care how much you make them laugh? I don’t think you’ll ever be with her. But yea some women love men who can make jokes that are funny. Some women don’t like jokes at all. Some women like goofiness and some women don’t. Sounds like you definitely picked the wrong women to chase. Stop the day dreaming m8	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:48 AM
1	Stuffed up, ignored red flags and developed feelings... Uh I say once you catch feelings if you continue to pursue it’s only gonna get deeper unless she does something to make you dislike her. If you’re already caught in the web it’s better to not roll around in it and just get out instead.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:45 AM
3	Should a lifting novice do PPL or Starting Strength? I say you stay in the gym 6 days a week to get acclimated to the schedule of going that many times. With that much time you can focus on only a couple muscle groups each day too.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:44 AM
1	My assumptions/self image are preventing me from going for hot women (9's and higher) even though objectively they are in my league, how do I stop being so self-defeating? Is there even a league or is this idea a defeating blue-pill idea? I think the only league that matters is the self-awareness and personality league when it comes to women judging men. (At least in person). Also, if you’re as hot as you think you are then guess what, go on Tinder and get matches left and right then go bang them and they’ll realize you’re a dork after the fact.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:42 AM
1	Jealousy and not having many girls Every man can fall into the inc3l hole if they allow it. You must persevere and fall down and get back up. When you have nothing it’s easy to get jealous. It’s like not getting invited to sleep overs when you’re a kid or seeing other people get hired when you’re modifying your resume 20 times a day and getting 20 rejects a day. You have a “famine” mindset it seems. The girls are out there and will always be out there. Calm yourself and focus on the mission rather than the current disadvantage yo…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:39 AM
1	How to be a sweet talker? P r a c t i c e.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:33 AM
2	Vegas solo? Idk what you mean by “do” Vegas. Also, who knows if the virus restrictions will be clear by then, just a heads up. Solo is it’s own story. If you’re going there to bring home women from clubs then solo is eh, troglodyte friends make it worse, and cool friends make it easier. Makes sure you state your goals clearly to people if you bring them. If you mean “do” Vegas in a tourist way there’s the M&M factory (very very cool), and very cool spots like the stratosphere which you can jump off of if yo…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:32 AM
4	Vegas solo? Oi m8 he’s just being keeping it straight with you. This is what Vegas is for.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:27 AM
17	I think am fucked The irony of this entire post is that you say you learned this mystic “IDGAF” mentality. Yet this post screams that you care so much. Which is why I’ve just accepted that we all do truly care and it takes more balls and maturity to realize that. I’m 20 and just got my 4 year degree. Tinder is great. Luckily sex never got banned in the US or UK so you’re in luck. Find a small group and hang out with them. Stay fit though it only expands options.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:25 AM
1	Should you start setting a sexual frame asap when on a date? Hm, I find the sitting on a bench and wrapping your arm around her to be the best starter. Also no hugs in pandemic zones cause you might turn her off or make it awkward off the bat. Don’t do hand holding if you’re not smooth with it. Pretty much just use context and don’t think too much. Edit: forgot to add the sex part. It should be pretty clear at some point if she wants to have sex with you. Never has it not been clear for me.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:20 AM
2	girl blocks me and then texts me later I’ve known girls like this. Honestly it sounds like boredom. I guess that “orbiter” thing must be true here. Although she’s pretty bad at getting you to orbit. Just ignore her but leave the communication lines open. If she’s direct about planning then it might be okay. If she’s just playing games then feel free to discontinue the conversation.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:18 AM
4	She said I was being misogynistic and offensive, was I? (screenshot link) Look at the captions of millions of women’s selfies and they’re all about getting that dick or bad bitch ready to play games and shit. This girl is weird. Now, this picture is pretty lame imo, it’s getting you nowhere with the ladies spewing that filth out of your mouth without having the clout and prestige to make fuckboy jokes like this. (Unless you have it I’m not you)	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:16 AM
1	I’m 23 and a lot of my life revolves around work. Is this a bad thing? You never said if you enjoyed the life you live or not. Do you wish you had more of a social life? Check the boxes off yourself here. Only you know the answer. My dad got married at 21 and worked the night shift as a food scientist at a fucking pickle factory. That certainly didn’t go well when he realized he was losing his youth. But you, do you like the pay you get, do you like the lifestyle you live? If not, maybe it’s time to find a different job with more social hours. Life is your choice a…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:12 AM
2	How to find girls that don’t drink or smoke? Church, anything fitnessy, alcohol anonymous meetings, rehab centers (for now), drug counselors, anybody who holds a job that is drug tested, EMS people, nurses, doctors, policewomen. I know drinking is allowed still with many of these occupations but many women within these occupations are extremely opposed to anything more than a couple drinks.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:06 AM
1	How to find girls that don’t drink or smoke? I for one have seen girls choose the alcohol and drugs over men that they did like. Also for some reason I’m seeing a resurgence of cigarettes in my college town.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:04 AM
2	I'm 19 I need advice Sex is easy dating is hard. If a girls really wants a relationship with you she’d walk 1,000 miles to get it. Also, why no video games? I’m actually playing one with a very cute girl I met on Tinder right now!	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 07:57 AM
1	how do you deal with "teacher/expert" AMOG? Jesus Christ if you ever have an LTR or get married you’ll be in this situation 1000 times a year. Save your blood pressure and if only he turns the conversation in a way that it’s obvious flirty then just be nice and your girl should introduce you and you can hover.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 07:49 AM
8	How has “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie impacted your life? The book is just garbage in modern times. It’s funny cause I’ve spoken to many elderly people and it seems that many times they follow this book in every way. When I first got to college I threw out the books and realized that everyday I was making massive jumps in my social and behavior skills that I didn’t have to try to memorize and act out like an aspie gorilla. Trying to act out social tactics and stuff never works tbh. It feels like you’re trying to invade Normandy and everything is going …	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 07:47 AM
2	Broke up with an LTR that showed major signs of BPD. Advice for dealing with the fallout? If you’re that scared log everything, change the locks, and wait for enough evidence for a restraining order. Hell if you see her drive by your house just call the police to get it in the legal system. Make sure you say you’re certain she’s stalking you.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 07:43 AM
4	Is the Red Pill Community fighting to legalize prostitution? Honestly if you’ve been out in the world for a few years on your own you kinda see that getting a clean prostitute is fairly easy even without legalization. I just don’t know. Do we really need to be encouraging these women to go out there and have sex for money? Would this be empowering women or actually diminishing to their worth? Say goodbye to OnlyFans and Chaturbate if we get a saturated market of clean legal prostitution which would make sex cheap and easy.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 07:41 AM
3	Ok HOW do you stop caring for girls you’re seeing? Caring is only natural and idk why people think they can turn off this fact. Reading the subtle art of not giving a fuck then hearing your mom died in a car crash isn’t going to stop you from balling your eyes out. If you really want to stop caring for someone that you truly care about you either need to spend time away from them or they have to do shit to turn your caring feelings off. You can’t just be like, “Yea I’m gonna stop caring about this person who I genuinely care about.” You can cert…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 07:36 AM
37	Really don't know whats wrong with me. Sitting inside all week will make you depressed guaranteed. I’d say no need to panic just try to fix things first then if you get out of your situation and are still feeling down then that’s not normal. Your situation is Norma to not feel good in.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 03:46 AM
124	Really don't know whats wrong with me. Isolating yourself in your room can leave you with this sense of loneliness and depression. Idk dude. Always keep up with anybody who may turn out to be a friend and actually be nice and communicate with your family. You could just start by leaving your room and working around the house and doing stuff. Try to join bootleg flag football team or something. Go to bars with a friend or two on weekends if they’re open. Go on walks. This time isn’t healthy for anyone but you should start by taking in…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 03:09 AM
3	First date tips For me I never do the basic question thing I find that stuff out later with time. Make it less like an interview and more like you’re meeting a friend.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 03:01 AM
1	How to get self respect The only person who always deserves respect is yourself. You’ve been given this life and it’s best to just go out there and make the best of it. Why do you feel you don’t deserve anything? Are you lazy and bottom feeding? Maybe you have to give yourself a friendly kick in the butt. Once you get to this low point you can really improve cause you have nothing to lose. It’s actually harder once you have something to then lose it imo. But, this is a later conversation. You’ll get better many people …	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 02:13 AM
2	Question for <5'8 guys! How do you get 8-10 girls (apps doesnt count)? Yes true.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 02:06 AM
1	Question regarding useful majors for more socially conservative women? Everybody is saying nursing. Instead of going straight for the two year program you could try something like EMT classes (usually one college quarter). You can work in a hospital if you don’t want to ride in an ambulance. You won’t make as much right off the bat but less debt then you have experience for nursing school and if you like the action you could do the two year paramedic school instead of nursing. All medical jobs have horrific schedules at first. Hell, you could be a PA and basically …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/20 03:45 AM
2	A friend likes me, but he’s not a Red Pill Man and I’m not attracted to him. How do I let him down without hurting him? Nah, that’s a little weird.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/20 03:34 AM
2	A friend likes me, but he’s not a Red Pill Man and I’m not attracted to him. How do I let him down without hurting him? Oh if he likes you you’ll always hurt him a little. Like my dad said to me and my sister. “Always let them down easy.” If they respect your choice then good for you and them. If they don’t, sucks for them and you go on living.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/20 03:33 AM
1	What can I do about a weak chin/chin crease? I just saw the picture of you on your profile. I think most people either pass through or get stuck in a phase of their life where they find something wrong, get over or solve their issue, then locate something else to be self conscious about. You can always find something on your body that you don’t like but first, your chin looks fine, and second, don’t get stuck on that path. Tbh as a dude I’ve gone through this. I think sometimes people have nothing to worry about and they decide to pick on …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/20 03:32 AM
2	Question regarding alphaness Cause this isn’t a math class. 2+2 doesn’t always equal 4. Literally had the most random shit happen to me when hanging out with women.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:48 AM
3	Redpill view on being a virgin at 18? Well it’s not like there’s a giant fucking sticker on your forehead that says virgin. Forget the title and forget people who put you down or joke about you with it. When an opportunity presents itself just act normal and you’ll have normal chances.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:40 AM
2	Question for <5'8 guys! How do you get 8-10 girls (apps doesnt count)? Or just be like yea that’s my height so what.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:38 AM
3	Question for <5'8 guys! How do you get 8-10 girls (apps doesnt count)? Plenty of shorter girls who don’t want 6’ 2” Neanderthals. 5’ 7” is a great height.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:37 AM
2	Asking a woman back to your place I mean if you’re in a group you should be pretty certain she wants to go with you. Soooo why not snap her or whisper it to her or something? If you’re really in a group and you can’t get away there’s probably not a good time lol.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:34 AM
1	Asking a woman back to your place No no no. Never do something like this unless you really need to go to the store or unless you’re certain she’ll say yes. This is the top way to ruin your chances taking her away from everyone when she thinks you’re going to buy something and then you surprise her with this shit.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:33 AM
2	Upgrading my wardrobe A champion t-shirt and nice jeans or brown pants. Normal sneakers from new balance or Nike. Your wardrobe should be for you not anyone else.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:31 AM
1	What is your best experience with a women who ceded completely to your frame? Idk dude. Maybe the feeling of complete trust in each other. I don’t like the idea of a woman “ceding” cause that just feels abusive. Sometimes my female friends will come to me and it’s the worst shit ever. For example, one of their friends was on the verge of alcohol poisoning and sometimes the worst words you’ll ever hear is “what should we do” because in your mind you’re like fuck if I know but outside you gotta act like you’ll take care of it.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:30 AM
1	need advice with best friend This smells like envy coming from you. Envy is just gonna destroy you. Always good to have friends who can help you anywhere in the world. Y’all moved away from each other. He’s not your boyfriend and he’s probably doing more fun stuff than talking to his old friend. Build your own life and come back and talk about the fun you’ve both had away from each other.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:27 AM
2	Workout Routine to Destroy Myself Oi m8 you’re not an olympic lifter. Go for the long haul and take it easy.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:24 AM
1	Horrible first date. Want to ask if she’s down for a redo? Why are you worried about sounding desperate? God a girl must be pretty narcissistic to think you’re desperate if you ask her for a “redo” or whatever you’re calling it. Why not just be honest and say that the date sucked and you want to do something more fun? If she’s normal she’ll just take it as you’re still interested and aware of the garbage date.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:24 AM
1	Opinion on my beard All depends on the individual girl my dude. Some girls like it some don’t. Buuuuut I find that most girls who like you will just try to get you to shave the beard if they don’t like it.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:20 AM
9	I think porn ruined naturalism for me. How do i get back? You don’t have to quit porn cold turkey as most guys can’t do that. Just do it less. Also, the more you get close to a girl the more her flaws just become another sexy part of her. I fell in love with a girl who definitely wasn’t a super model but I’d love to watch a movie with her any day over lots of women just because of our connection. Edit: the “damage” will undo naturally with time no worry.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:15 AM
2	What are some good books/knowledge sources on diet? Yea the books and stuff are honestly a waste of money with all the internet resources we have. Make sure you just eat a heart healthy and if you lift add protein.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:14 AM
1	Need some advice on first dates Honestly dude every situation is different so your practice theory won’t pan out how you think. Just make sure you’re calm and kind and listen to them. Girls will let you know what they want and if it’s going well you’ll have natural openings where you know making a move is the right thing to do. Edit: don’t do any unnatural kino things lol. Also don’t know where you live but if you try to touch a girl with COVID going around she might be turned off.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 02:11 AM