BigBrilla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental?	Discussion	BigBrilla	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:56 AM
0	Sex too early in a relationship, ruins your relationship.	Debate	BigBrilla	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 11:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What is the difference between quiet and mysterious Attractiveness.	/r/seduction	05/06/25 03:03 AM
1	Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first date My go to is a picnic with a view or in a nice open park/field lots of fresh fruit and some yummy sandwiches like BLT etc. You have to bring surprise chocolate. white wine would be great 👍 It’s not glamorous or bougie but some healthy..ish food, outside on a nice day here in Australia is a great treat and it’s fun. sounds simple but it’s amazing, I love it and if a chick doesn’t dig it or wants something more fancy than that’s fine, not the gal for me :)	/r/seduction	25/05/25 02:47 AM
4	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle I have trad views on how you should treat your lifelong partner, if you genuinely want a girl as your lifelong partner and mother of your children, you need to be willing to put in the work and treat her good. I have standards, no sex work/OF at any stage in your life, no kids with another man, you can’t have a high body count and you can’t be out drinking and clubbing every weekend. If a girl ticks all these boxes I’ll do everything in my control to ensure she stays with me and make sure she’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 01:08 PM
1	ADL says MGTOW is an extreme misogynist movement. focusing on myself and making sure I am stable and steady is my goal, so I can in the future provide a beautiful life for children and my partner right now, I can’t get caught up in dumb shit especially with club girls that will waste my time and ruin my pursuit of peace Therefore I’m obviously a hateful misogynist because I want to ensure I build strong foundations for my future (hopefully) wife and children	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 08:23 AM
–	Sex is not a need 100%. I have an addictive personality so obviously sex was another why to indulge in escapism and make myself feel good. (Im a male) I’ve had enough sex to realise it’s not the determining factor in a lifelong relationship and doesn’t make the future mother of my children any more capable of being a good mother just because they can suck and fuck like a pornstar, if anything I’d rather them be very very bad at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 06:47 AM
3	Men don’t actually like “good” women I do pretty well. I’m not going to let my children starve that’s for sure It’s never a “good” time to have children, it’s always been hard and always will be hard to raise and care for children, even just 1 is difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 11:12 PM
3	Men don’t actually like “good” women Eh I can’t speak for other men but, I’m 23 and all I want is a life long partner. Someone reliable, trustworthy, caring, peaceful and a great mother to our children. I’m sick of drama, I can’t handle the petty stuff anymore. I don’t want to waste time with women who don’t have their shit together. I want to get married and have as many children as possible and have a wife that is family orientated and upholds traditional values…. that’s rare these days but each to their own. I may never find a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 01:30 PM
5	People misunderstand the idea of "stop chasing women and focus on career and life" (23m) I’m extremely blessed, I wake up everyday so so grateful, feeling so incredibly lucky and can’t believe how good my life is. Granted with a beautiful, hard working Mum and Dad to give my sisters and I a fantastic life. Born in beautiful Australia, not war torn, not in fear of my life and very safe. Great friends. A gf is not in my mindset rn as my means for one would be to marry and have children, I haven’t met a girl that’s worth the pursuit to be honest. My goal is to find a wife and giv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 11:17 AM
46	Education system is absolutely fucked Yep bro it’s horrible. Actually disgusting tbh.	/r/MensRights	26/10/23 10:32 AM
-6	When Alimony is no longer for the rest of the life it's suddenly a woman safety issue. I agree and disagree… I agree in the sense if you didn’t conduct correct due diligence; Marry a chick with a high body count. (6+) Marrying a girl that goes out and drinks all the time Marrying a girl that always uploads thirsty pick me photos on socials Marrying a sex worker (OF) Marrying a girl that isn’t willing to listen to you, respect you and submit to you. (Submission is not getting a girl to do whatever you say and suck dick on demand, it’s very different from that) I’m Christian and the…	/r/MensRights	26/10/23 10:28 AM
-12	Starting to wonder if there's any benefit to being an autistic man / male in modern society idk why bro is getting DVd, the truth hurts I guess…. I want everyone to have a good life obviously but it’s just not gonna happen magically. Maybe it’s different for me bc I am Christian so my view and mindset is different; I’m 22 and everyday I feel is a beautiful gift.… I can’t believe how unbelievably lucky I am to just wake up everyday, especially in Australia compared to war torn countries etc. I thank God everyday for giving me such a beautiful and lucky life, I genuinely can’t believe I’…	/r/MensRights	26/10/23 10:01 AM
1	Cold approaching doesn’t work Don’t give up. better than a lot of men that don’t even know how to talk to women. You’ll get better and eventually it’ll work out. Also if you are average, below average I would even go as far as saying just straight up “ugly” you’ll be fine. You don’t need to be 6’4 jacked, chiseled jaw. (Obviously that helps) I’m 5’8 and average/below average (4.5-5/10) not ripped but I work out a lot I’m semi-swole and do carry a bit of extra body fat. I’ve never felt insecure in my ability to pursue a women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 07:17 AM
–	General rise in mens resentment towards women? Love thy neighbour isn’t applied to fallacy and evil despite popular belief, Christians don’t support or condone and are actively meant to fight evil Also, seriously, try for 1 week to live by female only created things (this is impossible, where you live rn was definitely made by men) and only do things done 100% only by females you will kill yourself in 48 hours bc you’ll realise it’s impossible to avoid mens accomplishments	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 08:38 AM
–	General rise in mens resentment towards women? Doesn’t mean anything, all these fields are dominated by man and always will be Why don’t you actively only use females in the roles listen above and see how far you get You can hate and despise men as much as you want but you can’t deny men are used for everything in your daily life. look around you right now, I bet 90% of what is around you was constructed/produced by a male. That must drive you insane sweetheart	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 08:18 AM
–	General rise in mens resentment towards women? Women don’t need men😂 Whilst you take ur car to a mechanic You call a man to fix anything at all wrong with your house Men make up a very large % of everything you use and need in your life Men build your houses If you don’t like men that’s fine, but to say you don’t need men is very dumb. That’s not even an opinion that’s subjectivity untrue, it’s objectively false Most modern women have nothing to offer men besides their body	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 08:08 AM
4	CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sex I don’t care for sex unless it’s to express love with my future wife and to produce children.. Any girl can learn how to be “good” at sex. A good women will offer many more valuable things such as being caring, nurturing etc. I want a women that’s going to mother our children and be a lifelong partner :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 04:02 AM
-2	Should female Influencers be allowed to film in gyms? I hate the tights pulled up into their intestines, it is 10x worse than filming IMO obviously, its circumstantial because if they know what they are doing and being a genuine help to people in fitness that's some positivity most people need in their life, some people have trouble working out and they can change that for them? wow that's amazing stuff. BUT unfortunately most are just wearing the "sexiest" gym "outfits" they can and its just an excuse to show off, so gross and very unattractive wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 01:14 AM
-1	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? incorrect but thanks for your time	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:35 AM
0	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? I’m not justifying my sins It’s not a Christian take to claim a woman’s innocence is more important than a man’s nor did I say I’m Christian so it’s ok to think so I am not without flaws, I can’t throw stones inside a glass house. It’s a fallen far world and If my biggest sin since being born again is claiming a woman’s innocence is more important than a Man’s I think I can die happy with that being my biggest flaw Thanks for your reply and time	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 04:21 AM
-1	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? Indeed, luckily I don’t have double standards and am high in value compared to other men considering my wealth and health. so my standards are necessary and non-negotiable. I can sense some hostility from you, I hope you are ok. I’ll pray for you All the best	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 04:13 AM
1	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? Good question The consequences of dating a women with a promiscuous history may be the ability to pair bond, it’s no secret despite how emotional people may get about the topic, a women with a high body count is more likely to have a marriage that ends in divorce. Also since I’ve been a red-pilled slut before, I understand the mindset of not caring or respecting yourself or others just for the sake of feeling good and having sex. this mindset bleeds into many other aspects of your life such as t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 04:05 AM
0	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? In a Christian sense, traditional gender roles are very crucial In a healthy marriage And also biologically man and women are extremely different and yes indeed, a Christian’s virtues are extremely important to other Christian’s especially when it comes to choosing a lifelong partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:55 AM
1	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? True indeed my apologies	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:50 AM
-2	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? yes born again manwhore after having sex with lots of whores that don't respect themselves as much as I didn't respect myself at the time thankful I am no longer like this since growing up and realising there are a lot more important things in life than meaningless sex if a women is born again virgin for a considerable amount of time and genuine, I may be willing to pursue her	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:48 AM
3	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? luckily I don't do that either, but thanks for assuming that the conversation started on my terms it was not at my wishes to have this topic discussed but rather manipulated out of me all the best :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:46 AM
2	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? haha yea, luckily I would rather date a religious person with said values also am completely sober and don't have sex since religious. thanks for your reply and time all the best	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:44 AM
3	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? yea this is not how I operate, it was a discussion between my family and it wasn't me that brought up the topic of standards which led to being labeled a insecure misogynist but thank you for assuming it	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:42 AM
-1	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? luckily I never said I wanted a virgin :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:40 AM
0	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? if she's a born again angel I can't see why I wouldn't be with her although a man's innocence is a lot less important than a women's, because man and women are different. A women has a lot more consequences of sex than a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:39 AM
0	Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental? Im a born again virgin, if a women is genuinely the same then yea, I can consider such A women with a high body count is statistically more likely to have a marriage that ends in divorce. its completely true and obvious, anyone who says otherwise clearly doesn't want to take accountability for their actions and accept responsibility. I haven't read a source that states otherwise, its the same for a man too, the higher the body count, the more likely a divorce will occur. A women being a slag is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:36 AM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear agree I will never ask women to be like X or don't do X and wear X and don't go to X etc a man has no right to try and change a women and manipulate them into what they want, that infuriates me beyond belief. I'm confident that I can and will attract a women that already wants what I want and I'm lucky I'm 23 and have some time so there's no rush thanks for the reply, all the best	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:06 AM
3	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women This just also proves that men date and fuck down whilst women date and fuck UP So all the single mamas are literally moving on from someone that’s above them (socially, economically)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:29 AM
1	Porn's impact on males' standards when it comes to women is equivalent to what dating apps/social media is doing to women's standards. Never felt so healthy and happy since I gave up porn and became r/Pornfree Cannot recommend this enough for men and especially men that are depressed Most people can’t go a month, a week or even a day without watching porn and then have the guts to say it’s not an addiction and that “ItS NoRmaL” ok buddy enjoy ur ED and over sexualising of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:27 AM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Because it is a poor outcome Sorry to break it to you but if you have a partner that is literally perfect for you and makes you happy… your life is probably a lot better at an old age than someone who is alone with no partner and no family…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:16 AM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Men can be 35/40, bald, workout a lot and still be super fit and by that age had a long time to accumulate their wealth and will have money if they worked hard. The women can still be abundant for this man and he can have kids and lots of them. With any prime birthing age women. His options will not be limited if he is a good man. A women 35/40…. Could definitely fuck whatever guy they wanted but if they want to have a marriage with a man that’s rich and handsome… that’s highly unlikely	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:13 AM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Well considering… The prime birthing age for women is late teens - late 20s /30 It’s not fear mongering. It’s facts It’s biological, for men to want young women for the highest chance of healthy offspring….	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:08 AM
2	CMV This Manosphere believe that today you will get charged with sexual assault if you approach a Women in the Street or Work, is completely delusional and couldn't be further from the truth. I mean, unless you are sexy and workout you are a perceived as a creep if you approach a women and that’s just how it is for guys I’m not complaing, I have no trouble shooting game and approaching girls bc I was once that loser 👍🏻 it’s the reality for a lot of guys and you have to work very hard to change it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 11:18 AM
1	Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships? I'm sorry but no, no matter how important and special you think you are, the right person for you will obviously amplify your life x10000 whether you a boss babe and claim you don't need a man and are gonna be happy for the rest of your life with no partner or your a red pill dude claiming you can fuck as many women as you want and live free and happy for the rest of your life... either way, you are completely delusional and telling yourself this to escape the truth: having a good partner, simpl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 11:06 AM
–	your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv! 10000%, most females aren't shallow, they can sense like an energy.. I know that sounds bizarre but hear me out.. A man that is strong and can provide and has a drive to succeed/work hard will always attract smart beautiful women because its signalling to them that they can be trusted to provide and protect its pretty simple really	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 01:19 AM
4	Men People are intimidated by masculinity (especially bc it’s rare these days), don’t pay attention to this shit and stay on your purpose, the more people talk the more of an indicator you are doing something right! HATE ONLY COMES FROM BENEATH YOU. anyone worth anything won’t have time or a mindset to drag another person down, male or female these sort of people are (to be blunt) stupid lazy people. Life as a man is ridiculously hard and females will never, ever, understand what a man goes through.…	/r/MensRights	13/10/23 12:36 PM
1	How important is having sex to having a happy and healthy lifestyle ? I believe if you build your relationship around sex, it’s a relationship doomed. You can build a genuine love without sex and it’s a deeper, better love when it’s not getting carried by sex Speaking from experience; all my past Gfs we’ve had sex 10 times a week at-least, you just fall in love with the sex and by association you are willing to put up with their BS bc you get to hit it and these relos never last more than 2 years. So many modern relos go like this: meet up have sex, have sex a few…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 12:25 PM
3	Modern feminism is a disappointment It’s a sickness tbh. Somehow; going to the club every weekend, having an OF (being a sex worker), having sex all the time, attempting to live a masculine life whilst rejecting your own femininity, is empowering?🤔	/r/MensRights	11/10/23 09:43 AM
8	Is this sub becoming more infested with feminists? IMO it’s no big deal, let them see how we feel Hope all you guys going good today ❤️	/r/MensRights	08/10/23 12:14 AM