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| 1 | I have no success in nightclubs?You're not the only one! You have to find a method that works for you. Clubs never worked for me and I approached over 1000 chicks in bars/clubs. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Your most useful seduction tip?Understand there is no one tip that fits all. Try out different ways, be experimental, and don't be afraid to try something new in seduction. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I need helpJust know that you first need to acknowledge the facts, which you have done so. So many guys will try and deny it and give outlier facts such as "oh such and such CELEBRITY is 5'5 and is still super successful with women". No, that doesn't make it different. It's still much harder to date as a shorter guy. Personally, every girl I've been with has mentioned that she wouldn't date a shorter guy. However, there are exceptions to the rule. I do know of girls who date shorter guys. The difference is… | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | First text after getting a number?Snakeee, snakkkeee, SNAKEE | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Im an OG PUA (activated in 2007). now in my 30's. had sex 1000 + times. AMATopkek 10/10 nice b8 | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How to you guys “re-attract”?Move on, she likes another guy. She doesn't like you. If she did, you two wouldn't have been separated. Move on, get a more attractive chick | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?I had plenty of girls on my roster before and I was on the hub more and more despite my irl setting. That's where my addiction got worse in fact | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?This is the best advice I've seen relating to this. Good job | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | yoDo warmups, they helped me a lot. You want to do a hell of a lot more warmups in fact. Usually I would do 15 warmups. Simply ask strangers for directions to some place nearby (asking for the time doesn't work in this day and age). That gets you warmed up, so by the time you actually approach, you feel so used to approaching strangers and talking to them, this is the next step in the evolution of it | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:03 AM |
| 5 | On a scale of 1-10 how in to me is this girl if she blushes as I tease her?You can never know for sure with coworkers. Rule of thumb is to not sh!t where you eat (i.e. never pursue a girl where if you are in school/work with her). The reason for this is because of things turning sour. If you and her were to fall apart, it wouldn't look good for your work, dynamics change, all of your coworkers and bosses will know, and it'll put you in a bad situation at work. Too many a time I've saw signs that were never there and only got hurt and embarrassed in the end. You have to… | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 05:48 AM |
| 30 | How do you not be boring?I always like to think everyone is interesting, and you be interesting (and not boring) by being curious about what interests other people. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, so I approach it by really trying hard to see what interests other people. That makes them open about themselves, and talk more, and in turn, you appear interesting because not many people have this trait (genuine interest from other people). In terms of being "boring", you don't need to fit in what society expects yo… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 01:23 PM |
| 7 | Is there any truth to the idea that too many consecutive rejections will damage your psyche and ultimately hurt you?Too many would definitely hurt you. You're just at the beginning, but you have a long road of rejection ahead of you. Don't mind it - it's part of the process. Soon, you'll eventually get results. Also don't be afraid of trying new and different things btw. I got into the seduction game 12 years ago (when I was 18). Cold approach was the big thing. I tried getting into it. I paid for 3 separate dating coaches who specialised in cold approaches in my city, joined the lair community for wing men/b… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?It's person to person. Personally I've done a recorded 800 daygame approaches and countless more at night but I was rejected by all. It crippled my social skills. I got into it 10 years ago when the RSD craze hit hard, and I do know of people who had massive results from it. But I also noticed the people who did well were all very attractive and very tall. I wasn't either, so my results reflected as such. I found another way with photos online but that took me YEARS to set it up properly. Dating… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?It literally is! Girls flag other girls so they steer clear of the guy. I only found out because of the girls I was with who tell me of the "gym creep" - there always is one in every gym they go to. Even if it's not directly approaching, they can flag a guy who slams their weight and doesn't slow down to show off, to creeps who stare...it's a thing guys are out of because they don't want the backlash for talking smack against a guy | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?A professional photographer doesn't work that well. It's because the photos are seen as too posed and touched up. Girls can sense that. They'd want a guy who is seen as good looking naturally (i.e. from a phone camera) It's a huge lifestyle change. The next time you're out and wearing nice clothes, get the people around you (ideally friends) to take a LOT of photos, get them to do it while you're not looking to make it more natural and less posed. You want to do this every single time you're out… | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?Most guys aren't. It's pretty bad online, but once you put effort in and getting some pics where you look like a model, you'll get results | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Game and Pick Up in Japan for TouristsThere's nothing appearance wise that gives them away, except the fact they usually are dressed less conservatively. They'll be in the clubs for the culture events that aren't Japanese centred (Latin/Spanish nights at clubs, language exchange events - look this up online). Usually they'll be looking around for foreigners. When you're in a club, they'll lock eyes with you. Glance around - you'll know it's them if they look back at you a couple times. Smile, if they smile back then it's game. Say h… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Game and Pick Up in Japan for TouristsSorry to burst your bubble but dating in Japan isn't going to be a cakewalk (it certainly is easier than the west though). Part of their economy relies on using attraction (host/ess clubs), plus it's the most looksmaxed place as most guys are fashion conscious and take care of their appearance a hell of a lot more than in western countries Also, they are extremely conscious of pick up artists, and even have a name labelling the behaviour (Nampa) Most Japanese women prefer to date within, but the… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Can you transform yourself from a man with zero success to a man with many successes?Yes. I went from a 25 kissless hugless virgin to many to count and keep track of. I never thought it was possible but it is. Just keep having faith in yourself and it'll come. What worked for me best wasn't approaches in real life or clubs, but online. It's brutal, but you need to make your profile stand out to the point where you get 100s of matches, then you move from there | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 09:42 PM |
| 2 | What to do in these situations?As long as you're polite and courteous it's good. If they do get aggressive then apologise and move on. I've been in situations where I had my girl being approached and I came back and the poor guy looked so worried and scared. Don't sweat it dude, just thank her "hope you have a great day" and move on | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?Please don't do this if you're not confident with it. You'll be labelled as "that guy" in the gym. Women flag each other of these types of men Plenty of chicks have talked about their dreaded gym experiences to me with guys approaching them and talking to them when all they want is to get a workout in and look and feel good about themselves A casual short convo works best for these types of things. Start small. "Hey, mind if I workout in with you (her machine she's using)?" Then start small and … | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Which book worked for you the most?I'm sorry to say this but no book actually helps you with women. While they may help give a perspective change and help once you actually HAVE women, they don't actually help you go from nothing to success with women. The unchained man - the alpha male 2.0 I'd say gave me the biggest perspective change. This is out of many books I've read before thinking they'd help me get women as a virgin (The Game - Neil Strauss, models - Mark Manson and the sort). Even then, it didn't actually help me get wo… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Can you be the prize as a male?Yes, this is how you should put yourself in dating. Being the damn best option she ever will come across. I was a former depressed, suicidal NEET, virgin, 25 year old kissless dateless loser. I've done 800 cold approaches during daygame, and countless for night game. I spent hours a day browsing through rsd bootcamps, reddit (seddit), but the advice given back then was meant well but wasn't practical, and definitely didn't work. Years back I only created this account because it's a time capsule … | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME?As an extreme shut in introvert, former NEET, the biggest thing was experience. Age. Work. Getting yourself out there. Once you start to work and interact with many people, you start to realise how short life is. Also, how beautiful life is. With that realisation, you start to realise that you need to live with authenticity and being yourself, no more mr nice guy. It comes with age. I realised this because I asked this same question to someone older, and it took them 20+ years my senior for them… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Don't feel bad about it. MOST guys always try and showcase and overestimate their success. Instagram would be legit but only if his profile is solid (which you say it isn't). Know this - most guys aren't sleeping around and getting loads of results with chicks, it may seem like it but everyone's frauding. I felt in a deep depression before because I thought every guy I knew was scoring heaps, but once I saw the side once I got results, I realised what most guys say doesn't add up. You have every… | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?They'll give you clues for you to initiate if you're the dom | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 10:57 AM |
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