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Even if I didn't think this was a consent problem, I'm not taking more than one No. What, to you, does "convincing" someone to have sex look like? Are you arguing? Pitching?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:01 AM
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I figured "asking" was sort of synecdoche, catch-all term for ease of conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:13 PM
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Also, for the record, I think it is reasonable for women to be afraid of how someone who is already exhibiting creepy behavior will react. A normal person would take the no, and either move forward or move on, and trying to appease aggressive people isn't a gendered trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:26 PM
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I think it's more complicated than that, and everyone is weak in some way, but basically we agree I guess? Even though we obviously have very different outlooks on stuff? Unheard of, can never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:21 PM
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While this is technically true, why ask more than once? I think if a woman is asked for sex 9 times and said no every time, yeah she should have shut things down more definitively, not only to communicate clearly but because the man clearly doesn't give a shit about what she wants. It's creepy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:09 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks, I was curious is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:47 AM
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Not arguing, wondering: isn't the initial chatting period the pre-vetting process?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:26 AM
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Of course it is, they don't have to cover every angle to be responsible researchers. People research specific things, in order to publish papers. If you have problems with some specific that's fine, but not talking to women in the 'Men And Their Coercive Sex Strategies' survey is so obvious that I feel stupid finishing this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:29 AM
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I mean the survey and question were about men, so yeah it makes sense that nobody was talking about what women do. But I'm always interested in this kind of data personally, if someone does a lady one I'd love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:24 AM
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I mostly agree with this, but would disagree with the severity of Personal Problems. I mean, that's a lot of people, but to include most it runs the risk of broadening the definition too far to be useful. That said, "weird about sex" to me also includes people who view sex as something they want and do, as opposed to something two people (uh, or more I guess) do together. That mindset is certainly the cause of a lot of bad sex, maybe most, and is probably one of the main drivers of casual sex fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:49 AM
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As a man I can't really answer the topical questions, due to having no experience with how dudes act in sexual sitations other than myself, but: Dear lord, is it not looking good for men that "95.1% reported having recently used at least one of the strategies to force or coerce a woman to have sex". I would have guessed less than 10% are for real creeps and predators, but if this data holds up to the general population it's way higher than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:39 PM
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But why would women who are afraid or cautious of men talk about men who are abused at the same time? Those are two different things. And yes, some women would dismiss male victims of abuse, but that's wrong so I'm not sure what you're looking for there. As for "Whether you feel like you're being blamed or not doesn't change the fact you ARE being blamed when people say stuff like men rape women or men abuse women", you're just asserting something without backing it up at all. Why does your feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:36 PM
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Got to say man, I've never felt like I'm being blamed or held accountable for the bad men (except on rare occasions, but those are specific instances and not a larger pattern). The reason women put what you might see as disproportionate emphasis on the damage men do is because they are legitimately potential victims of that damage. It might be a small percentage (it's not really) but it's large enough to worry about. Like, "being careful around cars when you're on a bike" worry as opposed to "be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:50 PM
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Anecdotally, I did fine on apps without ever being verified, and though I eventually paid (because the Likes that I can't see bother me) I didn't notice any increase in anything. There are two main factors involved in App Success, I think; a good profile (with clear pictures), and good banter after matching. Basically, being able to do well on the apps is a skill, and not everybody has it. I mention this only because there is undeniably a difference in how men and women experience online dating.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:57 AM
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