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I've been successful enough. It seems that if a person wants to get laid with a pretty woman that "never buy a pretty woman dinner" is kind of bad advice. Epic troll though man well done 🤣
/r/seduction15/06/24 02:33 PM
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Sounds like you're a real expert then 🤣.
/r/seduction15/06/24 01:07 AM
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Cause you're busy and you're eating anyway. I assure you Chad's buy dinner. 1 meal isn't like a crazy amount of investment
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:30 PM
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If buying someone a single meal is more effort than you're trying to put out then maybe women are just too much work for you. If one meal makes or breaks you, focus less on dating and more on stacking paper. Dinner isn't "extravagant." Most people eat dinner almost every single night. Folks who get laid often eat dinner before having sex. Yes, even Chad eats dinner. You aren't going to attract a woman who will do anything but cheat on you if you're restricting your pool to those women who have s…
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:16 PM
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Fellas, is it gay to checks notes take a pretty girl out on a date? "Do you think Chad pays for her dinner?" Yeah. I do. Men who get laid pay for dinners. Then they smash. Are you brand new? Do you think attractive women are just aggressively demanding to smash total strangers? Theyre people. You have to get to know them.
/r/seduction13/06/24 06:33 PM
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Link it like a popsickle
/r/seduction28/05/24 03:55 PM
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I never said it should be the deciding factor. It should be a factor. Because it absolutely reflects upon a person's ability to prioritize others. People who are abusive in a documentable way should have that count against their character. If you abuse your child's parent, that absolutely does make you a shitty parent.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 01:44 PM
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If you choose to willfully damage your child's parent with blatantly abusive behavior that it should reflect upon your ability to be a good parent, yes. That should be a factor judge's are allowed to consider. This is absolutely not a feminist talking point. Feminists are the ones who changed the laws to their current configuration so they could avoid accountability for their actions. A cheater isn't just a bad spouse - they are an abusive spouse. And there is a huge difference between those two…
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 01:31 PM
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Orgasm is mostly just a physical response to stimulation. Causing someone to experience one doesn't take a huge amount of skill. Turns out it'd possible to orgasm with a person you can't romantically see yourself with. I'm definitely not obsessed with anyone, my ex is just a friend now, legitimately. Had sex last week. Doesn't make me better than anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 11:52 AM
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Seems like you're taking my posts very personal for some reason? Why so mad bro?
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 11:49 AM
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I'm not really concerned about it at all. Simply happy to help my long-time friend start her family since it appears she wants me to. We're both in our mid thirties and if she wants a child it's kind of last call for eggs lol.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 11:48 AM
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Lol. Never had any issues in that department dude. If anything, the sex was the only reason she stayed as long as she did because the romantic emotional connection wasn't possible for her.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 11:45 AM
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Nobody ever claimed to have a "magical dick." Lesbians can enjoy penises, that doesn't mean they don't prefer women. In fact, most lesbians have enjoyed more than one penis. They are still lesbians. Starting to understand now?
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 11:00 AM
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Again acting like I never ate her out for some reason? Yeah man, I get the eating-her-out concept lol. Are you brand new? You don't get to define other people's sexuality.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 10:56 AM
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I said that SOME lesbians do. Which is undeniable.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 11:23 PM
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Sometimes they are sexually but not romantically attracted towards men. Not every time. But I can clearly see nuance is lost on you and you have difficulties with those who do not fit neatly into your categories.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 11:21 PM
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So yeah, she came. Lots lol. Coming wasn't the problem. It was the emotional connection.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 11:18 PM
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Says you. Now say that lesbians don't engage in sexual activities with men. Then realize how wrong you are.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 11:17 PM
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Except she maintains that she did enjoy it, just couldn't emotionally connect. I get it, it's important to you that all lesbians dislike sex with men. This "lesbian" had sex with me multiple times a week for four years. If only that were the case that all lesbians don't like penis, your sexual rejection by one lesbian who isn't representative of all lesbians would feel better to you. You shouldn't feel rejected by that. Lesbians choose women because they can't emotionally connect with men. That …
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:39 PM
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Actually I never interacted with their dicks, generally. I just used their holes because I was horny and in my early 20's lol. Enjoyed a lot of head, never gave any. Enjoyed their asses but never let then fuck mine. I'm an anal virgin, if you don't count the time I let a lesbian fuck my ass lol. You just don't know what you're talking about and you're in no position to define anyone else. Your desire to do so says more about you than about me.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:37 PM
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Not all human sexuality is defined by trauma. Some of it can be. So therefore not everyone fits in the neat little boxes you try to put them in. Sorry this makes your homophobic ass uncomfortable lol.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:32 PM
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Attraction is about more than wanting to interact with someone's genitals. It involves emotional connection. Those are 2 separate things. You don't get to define my sexuality. I do.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:30 PM
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Dude, I hadn't spoken to her for years until she contacted me a few months ago for this reason. We won't have sex anymore because she is a LESBIAN. I'll report back after October. Lesbians do need sperm in order to reproduce. Doesn't mean she wants to fuck me anymore lol. You do realize it's possible to not want sex anymore with a person you were sexually compatible with? It happens.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:25 PM
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You don't get to define my sexuality. I'm sexually attracted to both but I'm only romantically attracted to women. So I call myself straight. What I call myself, or what my ex calls herself, is nobody's business but our own
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:50 PM
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I am not obsessed with her whatsoever, in fact, the last eight-10 times we've spoken in the last month or two she has either called me or texted me first. I don't think that means she is somehow obsessed with me. You do realize that lesbians commonly have male friends, right? That's all we are now. Friends who appreciate each other's genes. As I said, any impregnation now would likely involve a turkey baster in her wife's presence lol. Her wife would be the one doing the basting.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:47 PM
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Seems like you're really still pissed that a man might impregnate a lesbian to help her have a family. I'll post here when she's conceived, lol. I will say that oral is definitely something you should have on point in order to please a woman, generally, straight or not. You act like getting a woman to orgasm is so hard, man. It hasn't ever been, in my experience. Women care about more than orgasms. They care about emotional connections. It is fully possible to be adept at creating orgasms in a p…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:22 PM
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So there we go. You get to define not only my sexuality, but that of my ex who is definitely a lesbian. To you, sex is just about who you have sex with, not who you can emotionally connect with. Why is it so triggering to you that someone might not fit in your box? IMO if you can't ever see yourself in a long term relationship with someone of a certain sex, you aren't "bi." Why is it that women who have sex with women can be believed even though they might have had sex with ten guys but a man wh…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:14 PM
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Lol. Most women quite enjoy penises. They are literally biologically built for it. Most gay men rather enjoy fucking a woman's hole if given the chance. It's the emotional intimacy with a woman they can't handle or enjoy. Sexuality is about more than the gender you prefer to have sex with. It's about the gender you can emotionally connect with. Humans very commonly have sex with people they can't emotionally connect with, simply because they enjoy sex
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:08 PM
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By your flawed definition, I would be bisexual too, but I'm not because I can't get emotional satisfaction from fucking a man. In my case I can trace this fact pattern to childhood sexual trauma. So not everyone is like you. Your experience is not the end-all be-all explanation of homosexual behavior. I have engaged in homosexual behavior. I am straight. Lesbians commonly engage in straight behavior. They're still lesbians. I enjoyed sex with men, I just enjoy sex with women more. That is true f…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:03 PM
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Except a good number do. You do realize that sexuality is about more than who you have sex with, right?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:58 PM
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Again from another alt as if you know me. Is this Josh lol?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:57 PM
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Lesbians aren't "turned" lesbian from bad sex, dude. Sounds like you think that. They're lesbians because that's how they are. A woman's sexuality is about more than the simple mechanical act of sex.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:56 PM
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Not all lesbians have trauma, but a good number do. You aren't the spokesperson for all lesbians.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:54 PM
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Another alt. Account, I love it. I think based off my conversations with her at this point there's a pretty good chance I will, sorry if my reproductive success is so triggering to you lol. Eventually, she will be able to tell her child about their biodad when they ask and she can them that their dad really did love their mom but she was a lesbian and couldn't love him back in the same way. We remained good friends and then a decade later we asked him for help to conceive you. If they ever appro…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:53 PM
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Childhood trauma can absolutely have effects human sexuality. Simply do a passing glance of literally all the data collected by social scientists about the self-reported instances of childhood sexual and physical abuse amongst lesbians and gays vs self-described straight people. This is settled social science. Does that mean that ALL gays and lesbians had childhood trauma? No. It just means that childhood trauma is one of many factors that do effect human sexuality. Sometimes not everything fits…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:46 PM
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So you're a bi man and yet you get to speak for all lesbians? Why? What makes you there spokesperson? Are you triggered by this because you were sexually rejected by a lesbian? That's not surprising. Lesbians can't connect with men. Generally they reach a point where they don't want to cause the emotional pain to males that tend to fall into unreciprocated love with them, so they stop having sex with men. After a decade and no male partners since, I believe her. She really is a lesbian, who for …
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:42 PM
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Nobody here is saying there's no such thing as a lesbian or a gay. But yes, your average "straight" man has likely had passing sexual thoughts about a male at some point. Same with "straight" women and other women. I'm really the wrong person to say this to, it isn't the "gotchya" you think it is. I actually have had sex with both genders, and still greatly prefer women. I enjoy sex with both but I'm a monogamist, not polyamorous. So I have to choose one and for me that choice isn't hard, at all…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 05:19 PM
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Ok bud. I'll be sure to post back here once I have the honor of helping her and her wife conceive. Sounds like you're the one with a homophobic mindset here. Why would me having a good relationship with my ex bother you so much? She's still one of my best friends. I literally saved her life, twice. We were homeless together at one point, and hitch-hiked across the country in our early 20's. We have love for each other even though we aren't in love anymore. Not all lesbians hate men. Some just ca…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:51 PM
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Lesbians are not compatible with men full stop. That doesn't mean they couldn't be sexually compatible with one. It's possible just that the emotional connection can't happen with them, so they therefore are not compatible. I assure you, the lesbians I were with had high sex drives and the sex wasn't the reason we broke up lol. Wouldn't have stayed as long as I did with them if that were the case.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:44 PM
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Ok internet stranger, not trying to trigger you lol. Never met you before. Some self-described lesbians do axtually enjoy penises. They just prefer vaginas and dildos lol. Some of my dearest friends are gays. Sexuality is a spectrum, not an all or nothing binary. Sounds like you have a middle school health class level understanding of human sexuality. Read about the kinsey scale please.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:38 PM
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Whoever you are with your many alts, I can assure you that human sexuality isn't so cut and dry. "Lesbians" can enjoy penises while not enjoying connecting to a man emotionally. Gay men can like sex with women but not emotionally connecting with women. There are very few "gold star" lesbians or gays. It's fully possible to be sexually compatible with a person you're not emotionally compatible with. Sexual orientation involves both.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:25 PM
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Ask yourself - is it possible that not all lesbians share your experience? Could it actually be possible that you're not a spokesperson for all lesbians? Like I said, this lady has been discussing having me father her child, so I think there is a genuine respect and admiration between us. I moved on from her years ago and she moved on from me. We're not together because she is a lesbian and can't emotionally connect with men.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:14 PM
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Lol. Believe what you want, man. I actually just spoke with her last week. She does prefer women. I was the best man she ever had. Taking it personal if a woman turns out to be a lesbian is crazy. I wish it was fanfiction because I wasted years of my life in relationships with emotionally unavailable women and that takes an emotional toll on a person, but turns out that self described lesbians commonly enjoy penetration and sex with men. They can very much still enjoy your equipment while not be…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 03:06 PM
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