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Agreed. The level of effort is near nil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:21 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:16 AM
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Whomever cares the least in the relationship holds the upper hand in its’s dynamics.
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:03 AM
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Don’t sweat that dumb woman. Be the good you want to see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:14 AM
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I think it’s important to consider your individual work and career trajectory. If you work an assembly line making widgets, then give a honest effort and stay in the middle of the pack. There’s little benefit to killing yourself if there’s no upward mobility in your role. If you’re a professional/subject matter expert, and there’s a potential to move up or mold your career, then I think it’s important to be excellent in your primary responsibilities and start to carve out adjunct tasks in line w…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 06:04 PM
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Nice guy attitude in health care is a recipe to becoming a simp and doing everyone else’s work for them.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 05:53 PM
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You’re the White knight here to save the day!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:14 AM
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Humans biology is under evolutionary selection pressure. Your comment is patently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:54 PM
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!RemindMe 1 month
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 05:38 AM
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Sorry to hear that. It’s a really shitty feeling to have a thoughtful and expensive gift to be disregarded with no appreciation or even enough empathy to accept the gift even if it wasn’t their ideal gift. I think if a partner were to ever give me a personalized and thoughtful gift I’d want to cry. Dishearteningly, I don’t anticipate ever a partner caring enough to do so. I struggle with that knowledge emotionally, but I rather live in an uncomfortable reality than a happy delusion.
/r/MGTOW05/09/20 06:25 PM
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In early college I had no job and little extra money for luxuries, which is fine because I’m quite minimalistic. I bought my then girlfriend (also my first girlfriend) a pair of Swarovski crystal turtle doves for our first Valentine’s Day in a gesture I thought was quite romantic. They cost over $300 almost 20 years ago, so they were not cheap, particularly for a 19 year old college kid. She wasn’t overtly rude about it but asked if she can have the money instead... It broke my heart.
/r/MGTOW04/09/20 11:43 PM
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I'll give most people on the net the benefit of the doubt as it tends to bring out the worst in people. That being said, this guy is in the 99th percentile in height, movie-star good-looking, and better built than the VAST majority of men. Even if he wasn't famous this guy would be a head-turner by sheer build and looks.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 03:02 PM
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Momoa in that pic by no means looks like he has a dad-bod. Guy is 6'4" and probably 230ish with significant muscle. It's hard to gauge because it's a photo, but in person most people would think the guy is still a beast stud.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 02:56 PM
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The most unaware part of the post is their reference to inner beauty, of which Amber Heard is an abhorrent abomination.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 10:04 PM
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Thank you! I think the newspeak works best when it’s so blatantly false.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/20 02:43 PM
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That woman is obese. Likely morbidly obese. Let’s stop with the BS euphemisms. A man that size would also be classified as such.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/20 02:14 PM
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This guy’s a racist pandering to a random tweet for victim points. The woman’s statement has sexist undertones for sure, but it’s likely she’s implying she’s highly sought-after. She’s humble bragging.
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 12:32 AM
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Absolutely, yes. ​ I'm an "older" graduate student (30s) living near campus with a lot of interaction with many students, from undergrads to graduates. ​ As is common, many of the students form little cliques and friend groups to explore the city, eat together, socialize, etc. As my school is heavily demographically skewed to having many more men, the thirst of these younger Gen Z guys is out of this world. Every "plain Jane" in the group (and they're all very average to mildly cute - no knockou…
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 11:32 PM
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You just need to let her know you didn't expect that decision out of her and it's changed how you look at her. Cancel 1-2 dates. The rest will be blatantly apparent to her.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:36 AM
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Agreed. I've slept with many women on vacation with bf's and husbands at home because THEY knew it would never get back home. Women will never become friends on FB, IG, Snap with the guys they fuck. It's the guys you never knew existed that smashed. IMHO, the wish go to away with her friend is not a guarantee of anything, but you'll never know the truth. What would you do if the situations were reversed. Let that gut feeling be your guide and don't over intellectualize yourself out of it. My hum…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:34 AM
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IMHO, the key to life to become your best self. That will require complete, one-dimensional commitment to your most important goal. ​ Women will enter and exit during that timespan. I look at "monk-mode" as a way to ensure your greater, longer-term goals aren't diverted towards nothing because of fleeting feelings. ​ I don't ascribe to strict "monk-mode" or "MGTOW," period. Life necessitates relationships (family, friends, romantic, workplace, etc.). Nonetheless, the fundamental aspect of "monk-…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:01 AM
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My uncle used to say, “Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answers to”
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:51 AM
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Man of integrity: take care of you and yours, help those you can and deserve it, take no shit.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 09:29 PM
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She isn't as smart at that. Do you know how rare that IQ is? She wouldn't have just a masters. She's not that hot. Your post reeks of exaggeration. Sounds like you can't handle her if 1 or 2 were actually true.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:29 AM
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Go to medical school
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:11 AM
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29, Toronto. It is the same everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 02:27 AM
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It's only human to care. Don't take TRP and the responses you often see on these posts TOO seriously. A lot of it amounts to keyboard jockeys presenting their fantasized responses to slights they've incurred in the past. People are not robots and trying to be "Machiavellian" or "Dark Triad" won't make you feel any better. I think it's natural that you want to sabotage her potential plans of hooking up with this guy. I don't blame you for it. You won't be able to stop her in the future from doing…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:08 AM
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I doubt anyone here is an MD, and even if they were, it would be inappropriate and insufficient to provide you with medical advice without a proper consultation. Speak to your doctor. It sounds like you don't have anything physically wrong with you, but rather "psychological ED." This accounts for the vast majority of ED in younger people. You need to have a medical history and physical exam and perhaps be given a prescription for an ED medication to use as needed until you are sufficiently comf…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:18 PM
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Most of the responses here so far have it correct. And when I say "correct," I mean that they are giving you the advice that will help you best get over this current relationship and move forward: You've broken up with each other and she is not committed to you. She has plainly spelled this out. You have your own journey . She has made the decision to divert on a different path. You let her go. You don't look back. One foot in front of the other and look forward to the next one that will share y…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:14 PM
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Realize that everyone's favourite topic of conversation is themselves. Ask a lot of probing questions and splinter the conversation off from there. But do it in a way that is interesting to you and in a way that you can potentially learn from someone else's perspective. This will engage you in the conversation and the person you're speaking to will respond positively to you interest in them and like you.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:08 PM
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You need to just see this for what it is: social validation. Everyone likes others to say nice things about them/desire them/compliment them. Girls like these have a higher need for this validation. This sounds like something that puts you off. Use how you're responding at an emotional level to learn about what level of attention-seeking you're comfortable with in a partner and screen from there.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:05 PM
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You can't control people, and if you try they will resent you for it. "Do whatever you'd like." Don't text this; Say it to her in person and try as hard as you can to not look sour/upset/pathetic while doing so. Make it a matter of fact statement. If you break up with her before she goes she will probably hook up with him. If you just leave it up to her she may decide to not go due to the consequences. However, she may still go but be conflicted and decide not to fool around with him. It sounds …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:01 PM
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Focus on your priorities, which is your career at this point. There's no right or wrong answer to whether you should try to reinitiate with a past lover, but once relationships end they are very messy when you try to start over. Whatever you decide to do I think that the most important thing is to not lose focus on getting another job and taking care of your responsibilities. That is, do not jeopardize your 1, 5, 10 year plan for a relationship of any type. Developing your life's foundation will…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:54 PM
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I when you're being physically intimate it's a perfect time to present emotional intimacy because it reinforces positive emotions on her part to the shared experienced. It makes it a more enjoyable experience for her, and I assume you as well. This applies even moreso if you are not excessively love-dovey when not being physical.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:49 PM
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I would say something like this: "If we are to have a relationship I expect that you turn away guys that are trying to develop bonds with you. I expect the same of myself and let women know that it's inappropriate. If you agree we can continue dating, but if not, then we aren't on the same page and should part ways." You can't make anyone do anything they don't want to; you can only set the expectations of your relationship with them. If you're in agreement on what is acceptable behaviour in a r…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:46 PM
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Any scientific articles to back up any of these claims?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 09:57 PM
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Both of your analyses may not be incorrect, but yours seems like it applies moreso to very young, immature guys. As you get older, you'll see how the OP hits the nail on the head for those high SMV guys at/near 30 and beyond. Chest thumping isn't high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:28 PM
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An ex-gf of mine was looking up incomes for those in my field (medicine) and straight up said that based on my projected income that she should have a $50,000 wardrobe allowance. I was beside myself. I knew she was a princess-type but this was outrageous and served as the final straw confirming to me that breaking up with her was necessary. Cut her off completely and never looked backed.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 11:10 PM
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Of course academics matter. They are a proxy for your intelligence and conscientiousness. Don't hamster yourself into thinking performing well at school is BS because it fits your preferred outlook. Source: I'm an MD. It's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 11:06 PM
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This post smells of male hamstering to assuage your insecurity around not having a professional/high income career. If women want you, they'll doubly want you if you're an MD, JD, etc. If you're the type of guy women don't want and you work a non-skilled, low-paying job, you'd probably still not get many women if your career was now in engineering (all other things being equal). Being professionally successful is never a detriment to your life success, be it with women, finances, socially, etc. …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:40 PM
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IMHO, social media are tools. If you know how to use them you can increase your SMV; If you don't know how to use them - or don't have a cool enough life to garner an overall positive change to your SMV - then you are best not using them at all. I feel that a lot of the hate on social media is because the haters can't capitalize on using them. If you're Dan Bilzerian or Kim Kardashian or whomever, social media is an extension (or even their entire) brand. Joe Shmoe can't improve his life with hi…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:24 PM
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I'm not sure how this is "ragingly obvious." Scientific claims that are thought to be patently obvious at face value should be confirmed through research. And confirmed again. And again. Your post shows your ignorance re: knowledge acquisition.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 07:47 PM
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Just Google Imaged her. Admittedly, some pics are bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:43 PM
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This is ridiculous; she is still gorgeous. By no means does she look like when she was younger, but still very beautiful. Don't hamster yourself cuz it feels good.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:35 PM
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Back in the day, she'd first have to pass the door test. Not to be confused with the Mario test.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:52 AM
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Agreed. Not that hot at all.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:34 PM
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Classic fratbro mentality. The original "inspirational" post has an air of immaturity, and I believe a poorly strategized focus. There's far too much focus and belief that becoming a physical Adonis will solve all of your woman/career/social/self-esteem issues. Balance is key to being content. The five pillars to well-being are as follows: Career Family Love Hobbies Health The driving motivation within each of these should mainly be intrinsic (i.e. based on the pleasure/focus/enjoyment from movi…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:41 PM
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I agree that being "thirsty" and providing women validation through likes and comment on their social media is contributory to their inflated egos and generally not a good strategy or use of time. However, if you are already fairly high status and do live a full, interesting life, then social media can improve your status and extend your social circle out to new women, or those with whom you've lost contact. Like anything else, your social media presence is a tool. What comes of it is based on h…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:22 PM
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I'm an Arab looking European guy: Dark eyes, hair, brows and beard, 6-4, athletic build, and very deep voice. /U/Listenclosely explains it perfectly. The girls that like me, REALLY, like me. Others are not down at all. It's not a bad gig. Also, I've always had a very easy time with older women (30-45 range) than younger ones, as well as women looking for a rougher partner. I swear I've been spoiled with some really "open-minded" women.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:09 AM
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Good thought. I'll have to look into Oktoberfest
/r/askTRP17/09/14 06:52 PM
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Good for you, bro! It's nice to hear it went well for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:31 PM
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"Compliments will get you everywhere with me." said with a sly smile usually gets a giggle, or an inviting "Oh, really..."
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 11:50 PM
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I completely agree. It's very easy to transition from an intellectualization of the errors made along the way in a situation like this to a "woe is me" rumination on the slight to one's ego. I'll give this guy a pass, however, as it seems his fiancee dropped a bomb on him out of the blue (or at least it's been presented to us as such).
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:43 AM
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Way to go, man. Remember: The key to success with women is to act like you have a 12 inch hammer.
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:31 PM
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I don't think bringing up the boyfriend is a smart move. If the chick has a man but she doesn't bring him up/pretends not to have one why bring it up? It's better to feign ignorance, or if she knows that you know she has a man, it's better for both of you to ignore it and just have that communal knowledge without explicitly discussing it. Relating back to the OP: I would have just kept the party going with her afterwards (go grab a bite/go back for more drinks at your place/go to an afterhours b…
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:26 PM
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Jocks - or whomever you tend to lump in this category - are usually taller, fitter, more confident guys. That usually nets them more trim.
/r/seduction01/06/11 04:10 AM
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I guess it'll depend on how you feel towards her after this. For me, personally, I have a hard time pretending things are alright when they're not and it shows. I would probably go radio silent and gauge her reaction once she re-initiates contact. You may be able to just keep a mental note and continue as if it were no big deal. The year mark was a turning point for a LDR I had a few years ago. The reality of the difficulty in keeping the relationship going really hits and you both really want t…
/r/askTRP
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Tough spot to be in. Only reasonable option IMO is to do your thing with your boys. She's made her preference known (the bday party), and you've made yours known (to be with her). If you now decide to go to the party you lose face in her eyes. Go out with your boys, have a good time. She will respect your decision to be independent of her. If you submit and now go to the party you look like a puppy dog following its owner. For what it's worth, I understand that it feels shitty that she isn't pri…
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