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| 1 | Whenever I talk to girls, they speak to me in a patronizing way?Wdym by that? They get bolder? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 08:22 AM |
| 4 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?Either way. Need to cut contact with this clown | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?I am. She's his problem now. I was just confused as to why she bothered lying to me about "wanting to restart". | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:52 PM |
| 3 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?Idc if they hook up. She's his problem now, she was being a pain to deal with in the first plce. She's in my social circle, so cutting her off fully is a bit hard. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?The guy has oneitis over the girl, he's doing what I did to win her over. Like I said in a previous comment he is still bluepilled and is claiming he is struggling to act indifferent and even has admitted he has become emotionally invested. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:41 PM |
| 5 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?Men copy behaviours too in other men they admire. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?Yeah it is really dumb. The guy is taking advice off me on how to win her... Anyways yes thank you for your response very appreciated! | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:20 PM |
| 3 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?The guy is asking me for advice all the time. I don't want her, he's her problem now LOL | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:19 PM |
| 3 | The light-switch effect, why is this happening if her toggle is off?Sorry to sound disrespectful. But I disagree with you here. This girl is attracted to the new guy. I don't think she wants me back at all. She likes my friend. And the fact is I did block her at one point and she told me she didn't want me to leave and that she just wanted me to fix the relationship. This is a lie. My friend was telling me she told her that she's happy that she is no longer with me. She tells me she wants to restart and take it slowly. As you see she is spinning two stories. It … | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf begging for me to comeback - Have I alpha widowed her?I've never beat my gf. And never will. I just don't cave into her emotions. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 12:48 AM |
| -4 | Ex-gf begging for me to comeback - Have I alpha widowed her?I have serious issues. I legit get joy from making her cry. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 10:39 PM |
| -4 | Ex-gf begging for me to comeback - Have I alpha widowed her?Ngl my ego has already been stroked knowing how much suffering I've caused her LOL | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?Yeah that sounds a bit like her. We were best friends for a year, and I treated her like a guy friend. She got feelings for me eventually and was chasing me for a good halfway through the year. I told her my commitment issues, she still fucking stuck by and said that we can take them on together. She even would joke around about having kids. Jfc, this is why I'm struggling so much. She still fucking loves me. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?Ok. Thank you for your help, I'll see how this goes :) | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?She's invited me for drinks in like 2 weeks. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?Today over text earlier in the morning. She fucking chases me, but she doesn't clarify what we are. I don't even know what to do bro. She's been a good gf, she's stuck through with me through so much bullshit. She even ditched her friends for me. Even when I blocked her she came and searched for me. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?I have feelings yeah. I know I can get back together with her too. But my brain says it's wrong. It's an internal conflict. I just want her to tell me to fuck off once and for all. But she keeps chasing me. I move away, I block, she'll message me and find a way. And it's pissing me off. I don't know if she likes me. If I go back, I'll be lying to myself. I'm so confused. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?Ik I'm sounding like a fucking bitch. But I feel like I've lost this battle. Like I've already met new girls and even have a date, but I still feel pissed off because she had the audacity to try to make me a beta orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 02:09 AM |
| -1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?I don't think she does. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 01:46 AM |
| -1 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?I'm just confused really. I'll be honest here. Something within me tells me she wants me again, but I look at this from an objective viewpoint and believe she's trying to make me an orbiter. And it angers me that she's trying to do that. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 01:45 AM |
| -4 | Ex-gf trying to make me an orbiter?I am very aware of my idiotic mistake... | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Why do I like making girls cry?I don't blame you. The intense eye contact they give you is intoxicating af. Like only a female can give you such submission. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do I like making girls cry?I ain't a sociopath | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Why do I like making girls cry?Hahaha, when my ex is upset my heart starts racing and I start laughing. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:57 AM |
| -2 | Why do I like making girls cry?Because it requires me to upset someone. I don't feel guilty about it, but I know society frowns upon this. Therefore if I am painted as some sort of fucked up human this will affect my chances with other women. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What's the real reason she did this?I don't think she wants me back. She's talking to other guys. And when I did agree to restart the relationship she was very ambiguous about the status. She said "You're single, I'm single but we're not single". I have made the assumption she just went crazy because she couldn't play me for a chump, so she just texted this crazy shit to make me feel bad and make me feel like I've lost out and had a chance. If she wanted me back she'd have not been so ambiguous. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls keep beta orbiters?She's not even giving sex. I discussed it because she's going to be seeing me with other girls soon, and I ain't dealing with her dramatic bullshit | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls keep beta orbiters?LOL nah she's trying to put me into orbit. She's talking to other guys I believe. I asked her our relationship status she said "You're single, I'm single but we're not single at the same time" and I was like "So we're single" and she says "yes but no" So yeah she's trying to put me into orbit, but I'm just going to cut contact slowly and fade. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Ex gf makes me a backup option, how do I preserve any self respect?This is very bs. I ghosted her when I broke up, and just didn't contact her. She claimed she was "hurt" and apparently she cried when I did ghost. I ghosted because she was acting like a cunt. When I told her this, she said "That was a test to see if you'd chase me. If you loved me you'd have fought for it." This bitch is fucking disabled, I want to ghost again but my social circle is going to go batshit again. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Ex gf makes me a backup option, how do I preserve any self respect?Fuck my ex-gf? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | She didn't want me, but now is playing victim - explain wtf is going on?Idc she broke up with me, she acted disrespectful af before we broke up that's why I ghosted. This makes a lot of sense now, she was asking my friends earlier whether or not I wanted to date her in the first place. So her hamster is spinning right now LOL | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 04:26 PM |
| 5 | She didn't want me, but now is playing victim - explain wtf is going on?I'm not jealous. Kinda disgusted like it's trashy af. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 01:37 PM |
| 2 | She didn't want me, but now is playing victim - explain wtf is going on?100%, I broke up by just ghosting her. She finds out through friends I broke up, she was planning to break up with me too. I just did it before and did it with 0 drama. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | She didn't want me, but now is playing victim - explain wtf is going on?Validation + free attention I assume? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm an idiot and a complete beta - a warning to others. Is leaving a good idea?Before entering a relationship. I would flirt with other girls in front of her, I would occasionally flirt with her. I had a 0 fucks given attitude. I however never did anything SEXUAL to her. Now. I am behaving like a bitch. I don't follow her around, I kinda lost the 0 fucks given attitude. She's complained that I don't act like her boyfriend, but she never wants to be alone with me. This girl is seriously just wasting my time I think. Deffo a learning experience and 10/10 don't regret this at… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 12:22 PM |
| 3 | I'm an idiot and a complete beta - a warning to others. Is leaving a good idea?I feel like it's not me. I tried kissing her, but she turned her cheek. When I kissed her cheek in the morning she didn't really care. I asked her if she wanted too go outside, she said no. Technically it is one since she tells everyone I'm her boyfriend - but it's not a relationship i know. This is my first one and I fucking hate it already. My idiot ass didn't set a sexual frame before and now it's just too late | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm an idiot and a complete beta - a warning to others. Is leaving a good idea?Is leaving this girl a good idea? This was a bit of a rant and warning, I just felt like sharing my shitty experience. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 36 | I'm an idiot and a complete beta - a warning to others. Is leaving a good idea?I am going to next week - it's our last week of school before we go off on study leave. So after that I will never have to see her again. This was a major learning experience for me. I read redpill before and I thought it was a bit of bs. But it's 100% true. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is this an example of playful/submissive behaviour in girls + why do girls behave like that?She feels like I'll judge her? I'm still a bit unsure - is her reaction bad or something?? Edit:- I think I understand what you meant. My current view of her is not in her favour, so she is trying to change it? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Is this an example of playful/submissive behaviour in girls + why do girls behave like that?What do you mean - at odds with her frame? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | How does a woman have feelings for mutliple men?She's very dramatic... She was a good friend, but she's started cock-blocking me lowkey. She hates every other female I talk to and even just other female friends. Thanks, I shall be cutting off contact too!! | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | HIV from a deep kiss?1.You can't get HIV from saliva exchange. Unless you had a cut and so did she there is a chance you were infected. Now, call a doctor immediately and test yourself. If you manage to detect early you maybe able to handle your condition a bit better, there are medications now for AIDS which are very effective. On a more realistic side, I believe you might have just caught a cold. But seriously check yourself out and get a test ASAP. This is your health on the line! | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Best push tactics?In a relationship it is the woman's duty/apart of her sexual strategy to get commitment off you. Once she does, she'll get bored or you will have to have redpill done on hard mode. Anyways, ignore what she says, look at what she does. She misses you, it's just a comfort test I think. So add a dash of beta in, but don't change your ways. Is she your only plate? If so then find new ones. Emotional rollercoaster. Well imo your already made her feel like a rollercoaster by going on that 3 week holid… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Walking away from an LTR - how best to do it?I'm planning to end it. She's draining me emotionally. And it's becoming unhealthy. I have to focus on myself and my misson. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Terrified of taking a relationship seriously?I just feel like I've broke with this girl. Because I told her I loved her and now she knows my feelings towards her. Before I kept her confused and made her feel an emotional rollercoaster. Now I'm scared branch swinging may occur, because she's used to me. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Made LTR cry for 3 hours, made up and now she wants me to be more emotional?What do I do? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What to do with attention whores?Asking the girl out on a date to escalate = good idea? I'm not paying btw. Also basically all I should do is act aloof and disinterested. This girl is a major attention whore, she gets annoyed whenever I talk to other girls | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Period shit test or what?She's done this before, she's made out with me on my bed before and back then I didn't promise to feed her. Although she tells everyone that she hates me and that I'm a dick - she comes back and makes out?! | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Period shit test or what?WTF?! | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Period shit test or what?You're telling she doesn't actually want sex. Yet makes out with me... I shall be ghosting, but just as a point of interest what type of game is this and how do I spot? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Plate keeps talking about other guys she was with before?Ah yes. This does add up with anothe thing she usually does - tells me about random guys that hit on her. She's just seeking my validation smh. It makes me feel sick to my stomach, she's doing the complete opposite LOL. You guys at asktrp are actually godsends! | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?You know what. I will just go ask her out, it's better I get rejected and prevent me from becoming an orbiter than going down the shit hole that is meant to be. But seriously, is it meant to be some major sort of IOI if she copies your behaviour/mannerisms? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?I've seen her give IOI's to other guys, she's trying to spin me LOL. She's got a habit of leading individuals on, she's previously tried by texting me telling me I'm attractive. Unfortunately I'm no beta. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?I see, you make very good points. And here I was thinking it was a good thing. It actually makes a lot of sense now really, this is how Beta Orbiters are made. Female gives them a little attention -> they become hooked -> they do shit for women. So literally validating a man's ego is how women spin plates LOL. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?wdym by emotional pandering and stroking the guys ego? Surely she wants me to be stroking hers?? I do agree on the male part too, spot on! | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?I have a theory of my own. Basically because the father figure of the household doesn't particularly have a strong bond with the father, she looks to another influence. Hence they'll go for the most charismatic/IDGAF person out there, therefore seeing this person as a sort of superior. Which ties into women being a reflection of a male, I.E her mimicking your behaviour is simply a reflection of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Redpilled female or what?That's kinda what I'm thinking. But loads of people say we should date, and she tells me that it is so annoying. She's a female friend | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How on earth do you tell a female you're not interested in their drama?Already had her attraction, I friendzoned her. Just wanted to keep her around for preselction and social game LOL | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How on earth do you tell a female you're not interested in their drama?Yeah that sounds like a good idea. Female friends are an absolute piss take, constantly jealous when you're with other girls and always giving you shitty pieces of gossip. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Has redpilled lied or am I missing a piece of the puzzle?Jesus... Western society is fucked as a whole. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Has redpilled lied or am I missing a piece of the puzzle?Yeah but remember "Look at her actions not her words." Sure he does the ol-betaroo, but why on earth would she makeout with him then? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 10:31 PM |
| 6 | Call me a beta, cuck or whatever. Am I really less of a man if I just want to spend time with my girlfriend and I want to take it further?Yeah fuck off. These guys have given a lot more useful advice than anyone has, go drink some soy cunt. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Call me a beta, cuck or whatever. Am I really less of a man if I just want to spend time with my girlfriend and I want to take it further?I am fully aware that women are temporary in your life. Family and memories you share with them are forever. The only woman that will ever have my back is my mum. A man who is clingy and obsessed with a woman is like that only because they can't get more - lack of abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do people make such a big deal out of height? I’m 6’3” and can’t get laid.Ok and what evidence do you have there? Can't get laid? Have you cold approached too? Because more than looks affect chances of getting laid. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Approached girl and her friend, third friend completely butchered me!Make sure to practice night game too! And good luck!! | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Girls seem nervous around meGo lift. Girls shouldn't feel "nervous" around you. They're most likely intimidated by you. You need to give an air of confidence too. Most people give off a vibe. Yours might be an odd one. When flirting with girls try to keep yourself entertained. Try to have fun for yourself, not her. Then report back! | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Approached girl and her friend, third friend completely butchered me!Forget it, don't waste your time on these. It's about abundance mentality. Pretend you have 5 girlfriends. If you had 5 girlfriends would you care about a rejection and go for it again? | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do people make such a big deal out of height? I’m 6’3” and can’t get laid.That's why you have height to compensate? I don't understand your complaint... If you lift and get big muscles women will immediately give you lots of attention? Have you even tried approaching?? | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do people make such a big deal out of height? I’m 6’3” and can’t get laid.Go lift. You must have terrible game. I'm 18, 5'4 and Indian and have had sex LOL | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:16 AM |
| 10 | Approached girl and her friend, third friend completely butchered me!From your complaint it sounds like you aren't very experienced with game as a result I'd reccomend you start easy and approach girls 1 on 1 We need some context. Was this during a club? Was this in a store? If it's in a club you could've saved yourself by just coming with a comeback e.g. Wow I was trying to talk to your hot friend here. Don't be put down. This girl just sounds like a cockblock or a bitch or just both. Most people aren't that rude!! | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or does the friendzone not actually exist?Thanks for all the amazing replies. Shout out to /u/UEMcGill, I wasn't aware of the ladder theory but it explains alot now. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls lie about NOT being virgins?But why?! It's not good attention? Is this meant to be some sort of flirting or is it them just trying to make me crazy? I'm just confused af, because this is the opposite of most cases. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How does one act more masculine/give off masculine energy?No facial hair, I can't grow any properly. Bodyfat is 20%, not lifting at the moment | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How does one act more masculine/give off masculine energy?So it's nothing to do with my behaviour? Also thank you for the input! | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me or is it impossible for teenagers to be redpilled?Swallowed redpill at 15, 18 now. I get what you mean. Most guys your age and my age are just thirsty af for girls. They believe girls are innocent and angels. I'm not sure when they stop thinking that. You're on a good path though. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 11:07 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with female friends?I don't want to... She is in my social circle, so it will be awkward when I dump her lol | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 11:05 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with female friends?100% agree brother. My friends group was 100% male before and we actively excluded girls from our group - in all honesty we had 0 beef and it was all fun. The girl is an alright person, but she could never be as a good friend as a male. Thanks a lot for your response! | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 11:04 PM |
| 0 | This has happened to me on three seperate occasions this month, good or bad?Yeah I do know what a shit test is, I responded with "Yeah I am cute af, I bet you wish you looked like me?" Idk if that was appropriate though, because it's arrogant af | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 09:22 PM |
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