BigKushi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Mean but sexy Bro, at one point and after a certain amount of women, you know it ain’t worth it. I’m at the « she can go » phase i’m not even entertaining it If it wasn’t for our need to conquer and to acquire as much women, as men all of us would had one woman, because at the end of the day, all vags feels all the same with small variations that don’t even make it more enjoyable.	/r/seduction	24/07/26 10:36 PM
1	25 year old virgin in NYC, I need help Well you won’t be the player and you have to accept that. But with some game, knowing how to talk and everything you might get yourself sum	/r/seduction	31/05/26 12:03 AM
1	What are some heuristics/rules to be great in bed GENERALLY? Basics are enough: Learn her body, clit stimulation, and learn how to last long (it’s mostly mental)	/r/seduction	26/04/26 09:01 PM
-5	Time to hit the gym Yea, tbh you sound slow bro, those exact guys, if they want to get girls they should go up and talk to girls, if they want to get muscles they need to go to gym. Not want to get girls and go get muscles instead. If they want to get their whole life together that’s a whole different story. The environment police cares if I kick banana trees they’ll fine me, that’s why I don’t do that. I only kick people.	/r/seduction	19/04/26 08:34 PM
-6	Time to hit the gym Hear me out gymrat, I’m not saying it’s bad, I’m an active boxer myself, but it seems you’ve been over dosing on self-improvement videos. If you get injured and can’t go to gym for like 6 months, you lose confidence? Nah, confidence should come from within, even before gym, that’s why you need a solid base and that means work on your personality. If you’re going to take your ass to the gym to seduce better then just sit yo ass down home. Plus we all know dudes who are ripped who can’t talk to a …	/r/seduction	19/04/26 08:18 PM
-14	Time to hit the gym This is good advice but I don’t think it belongs here. You don’t need gym for seduction. I think work on game in your worst shape and state so when you do get resources shit will be easy af level.	/r/seduction	19/04/26 07:48 PM
5	How do I give up? Don’t, find a purpose in life that make dating a second quest that you are into occasionally. Start MMA or Muay Thai, and live the adventure.	/r/seduction	19/04/26 01:00 PM
1	How can I make a girl laugh? I have a theory/method I used while I was doing stand up, it’s autistic and kinda annoying but it worked for me. 15x60s : For 60 seconds I have a set up and come up with as much punchlines as possible and try to come up with funny punchlines. I do that for 8 to 15 times everyday, 30 minutes between each set of 60 seconds. It trained my brain to come up with funny stuff fast af and made me funny. BUT : it also made me find out that girls don’t actually like that funny level of guys, they like sli…	/r/seduction	14/04/26 09:18 PM
1	How can I make a girl laugh? Hang out with boys to gain that "homies natural funny skill", roast, make jokes, talk shit etc… Use that skill of naturally socially kinda funny when you’re around girls Girls don’t like clowns.	/r/seduction	14/04/26 09:10 PM
2	Lost Weight Again and Dating Instantly Improved I mean it’s your experience, but in my experience it doesn’t matter that much. Were as you confident before losing weight as you was after? Because in MY experience, been skinny, been fat, been on my boxing body, and in all them phases the succes rate was the same for me and even I was hearing about people like Patrice O’Neal built like a fat seal pulling baddies right and left.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 01:07 PM
14	Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like? Just like dating 4/10s they’re still regular women behind the looks	/r/seduction	29/03/26 08:17 PM
4	Looksmaxxing is either true or false. Either way, it's terrifying Nah, I looked pretty good in college got approached by girls, but flopped like at least 5 times because I was young and inexperienced. I had 0 game and tbh flopped with some international baddies. Now I’m a little fat/dad bod, bald, getting more game and more girls than when I looked like an italian model (tbh I think looks still play a role, not getting approached anymore but getting invited with eye contact, smiles and body language)	/r/seduction	19/03/26 10:29 PM
1	Great first date, kissing, positive texts… then she ghosted after I asked for a second date. Now she texted again. How should I respond? Don’t suggest a date right away, make her wait, if she acts fresh its over bruv	/r/seduction	10/03/26 05:55 PM
6	How to get a girlfriend advice? Nah, you have to find your rythm, the way to be yourself and have fun with women/men/life, I don't think you need 20.000$ coach to get that, just challenge yourself socially. Try stand up comedy or something similar.	/r/seduction	31/01/26 11:28 PM
24	How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women? Man, it's simple. I was just being from the hood, chatting shit and not giving an F, and I bagged a french influencer type girl who had an upcoming european boxer and a professional tennis player in her DMs. Both had super cars, I had my feet bro. Talk shit and have fun is the formula that got me all the girs in my life, from hood rats to model type girls, same formula. It's so random all you have to do is be fun/funny and have a personality and not make a big deal off it. And you definetly don'…	/r/seduction	31/01/26 11:17 PM
1	Where can i find Night clubs in istanbul??? Google maps	/r/seduction	22/01/26 09:10 AM
1	I feel so jealous of all the guys women choose to have sex with That's some stinky, unmeaningful sex that you'll start hating after a short while. Don't worry about it. A relationship is better.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 09:38 PM
2	How to be funny When they say it they mean regular dude funny like when you’re with your guys in a bar or something. Be a clown or a stand up comedian and you’ll chase them away. So have dude friends and riff with them	/r/seduction	26/11/25 08:20 PM
107	Why does sex always last 1hour+? Lol Royal Honey Sildenafil type shit. Wait until you get in a long-term relationship, and it starts lasting 7 minutes. And they're trying to impress its not even that enjoyable after 20-30 minutes Though 2 hours and didn't make the girl cum is wild	/r/seduction	20/10/25 08:43 PM
6	How do you know when someone is their age? Ask for ID or birth certificate	/r/seduction	13/07/25 03:21 PM
1	Advice that changes everything This is late response but what worked for me was a side hustle of flipping hair products on Facebook market place, I was making around 7 to 10 sales a week and if I wasn’t lazy and responded to everyone would definitely make 25ish. That makes you meet people of ALL kinds. Sales in general	/r/seduction	10/07/25 12:33 AM
-2	The Most Attractive Male Body Bru, have you seen Patrice O'neal? That dude is proof that all you need to finesse is brains and not looks	/r/seduction	16/06/25 08:24 PM
1	The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any Other What if you look kinda like a more intimidating jason statham with huge eyebrows and a big beard. Can you still say "cutest guy"	/r/seduction	23/05/25 03:55 PM
1	Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help needed Then, drink two beers and get rejected by 8/10 and 12/10 girls, or just stop drinking and be real and authentic while trying to connect with girls and unapologetically be yourself. Embrace the "fuck it" mentality	/r/seduction	09/05/25 09:25 PM
1	Can a Fat guy seduce girls or get girls? I mean, you heard about Patrice O'neal?	/r/seduction	27/03/25 12:42 AM
1	From the Natural to nobody. Can’t figure out what changed. If you're physically the same, it's just all on your head. Plus eye contact in the street and girls speaking with you in public spaces, isn't a metric	/r/seduction	18/03/25 03:50 AM
0	How not to lose hope? The problem is your mindest. I mentioned a friend of mine before on reddit his name is Younes. He's like 5"5 overweight, minimum wage, with a little tiny sense of humour, and a bald spot. In the friend group he was the one who got gifts from girls all the time, dates, etc. He just was super CONFIDENT in who he was and when we asked him abt it he used to say "There's only one Younes, it's unique like fingerprints, and only me can offer YOUNES to this ladies." That's the mindset. You as a person i…	/r/seduction	16/03/25 02:41 AM