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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/19 04:14 AM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/19 01:25 AM
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Because they’re children?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/19 01:21 AM
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You seriously want a 20 year old when you’re 50?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/19 08:37 AM
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They’re out there. And dating apps also work. But you need to vet hard on the apps. Don’t meet any girl just because she has nice tits. Talk to em first. Weed out all the ones who sound crazy, desperate, rude, shady, whatever. Who CARES about them? Seriously, who gives a dong? Just swipe left. There might only be 1 in 100 girls on Tinder worth talking to. Fine. All you need is one. Get efficient about eliminating ones who aren’t quality, and when you find one who is worth your time, treat her ri…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/19 07:44 AM
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Vet them harder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 04:44 AM
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Through friends and friends wives. Seriously ask them (not to set you up on some awkward date but just to invite you all to a bbq or whatever) . Get social. Say yes to invitations you’d normally pass on because it’s an activity you don’t care about. You’re going to meet the people. Go to places girls go, spinning or yoga classes, wine tastings, cooking class, salsa night. You won’t die if you learn downward dog. And you’ll meet a lot of in-shape women. Also start inviting people to stuff. If you…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 04:41 AM
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BAHAHAHA demographics man 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 11:21 PM
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Guys. Don’t give up. There are quality women out there. Just stop giving your time and energy to the worst women. Swipe left and move on. Who cares what a demented and shallow shell of a person wrote on her profile? Be thankful that she was clueless enough to write shit like this that shows you what a ridiculous person she is. The ones you need to worry about are the ones who say the right stuff while secretly thinking different thoughts. This girl deserves our pity for her meaningless existence…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 11:20 PM
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Ugh
/r/MensRights26/11/19 04:58 AM
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Are you serious??
/r/MensRights26/11/19 12:24 AM
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I’m gonna read that book. Heard about it a few times now. Seems to fit.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 08:50 PM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights25/11/19 08:49 PM
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When your dick is hard, you don’t hear a word. 😒
/r/MensRights25/11/19 08:48 PM
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Yeah I’m truly not a hater. But there are some bad players out there and you gotta know how to tell them apart.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 08:44 PM
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I’m sorry man. It does hurt. Even in my case where I feel her goal is to lock Me down for life, it’s still getting used.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:54 PM
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Good lord, how did I not see this.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:51 PM
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Ugh. Glad you dodged a bullet. Mine was the opposite. Super focused on ME. So it felt good to me at the beginning. But now I am seeing that she was focusing on roping in a man, not on giving time to her daughter. I think she wants to live the life of someone who is taken care of, and the babies are a means to get a man to do that. Not a true desire to be a MOTHER.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:50 PM
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It worked on me. She is gorgeous and very charming and she used her daughter to bond me right from go. I wanted to rescue them. I signed up to raise another’s mans child with her before I realized she had been lying about everything. Now I’m stuck in this.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:45 PM
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Wow. You nailed it on the head. (Or option 3: she tried to trap a man who she barely had by getting pregnant, but he said no. )
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:42 PM
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I agree. It’s a question of what happened in the relationship with the dad. Was it a solid marriage that eventually broke down? Or was it bullshit to begin with and she just had a kid anyway? Can they coparent after the split? Or is there going to be drama?
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:38 PM
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Well thanks. But. This post opened my eyes to how certain women operate. And the one who trapped me is turning out to be as manipulative and dishonest as this post describes.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:34 PM
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That’s kind of not the point of my thread. 😑 But ok. For starters, they usually don’t have a baby from a man they weren’t married to. And married to for a long time. Because responsible adults think things through! Divorce happens. But if you have a baby before you have a commitment from the father, chances are pretty high you are either a) seriously irresponsible/crazy or b) a manipulative nightmare who got yourself knocked up to trap the man. Nice single moms are everywhere. But the good ones …
/r/MensRights25/11/19 05:30 PM
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All it takes is one
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:38 AM
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Holy crazycakes. That’s bad. I think they look for men who will always do what’s best for the kids. That’s my way and she saw it when she picked me.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:37 AM
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Well We’re having a baby together thanks to her second “accident” 😠 I’m not bailing on my kid even if I don’t trust his mother anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/19 04:33 AM
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Glad you got out man
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:31 AM
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That’s gross. Dating while pregnant?? Jesus. I’m starting to think that you can probably gauge these women by the age of their offspring. I know plenty of nice normal women raising kids alone, but they are usually older kids, like they’ll have 2 or 3 teens or tweens by the same msn who they were married to for like 10, 15 years. Fine. Shit happens. People grow apart. Men bail. Husbands die. It happens. And those women don’t usually even remarry. But a single mom with a very young child or a baby…
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:30 AM
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Sounds right
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:19 AM
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Whoa. That’s a lot of “mistakes”
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:19 AM
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Who said anything about every single mom? My post says nothing of the sort. It describes a particular set of behaviors that some single mothers display. And if they do, you should run. It is common in fact. Just as common as perfectly nice single moms are. I don’t hate all women or all single mothers, but the woman I have been seeing, who had a 2 year old when we met, just got “accidentally” pregnant....again. She then told me she’d had an abortion, waited until her 2nd trimester, and then admit…
/r/MensRights25/11/19 04:15 AM
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Claims her ex a deadbeat or abusive. Casts herself as a victim. (In reality, many Desperate Single Moms are baby trappers who failed to trap their man. Different than gold-digging. Daddy baiters are looking more for men who are caring and responsible than men with money. They often target single fathers who already have children close in age/gender/appearance to their own and pimp those feelings of love. Tho single mothers can obviously fall in love, daddy baiting is not that. It is a coldly cal…
/r/MensRights24/11/19 08:32 PM
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Thanks for the info man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 08:06 PM
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Well once you bond with a child it’s hard to let go. The mother may fuck you over but you still love the kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 07:54 PM
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Yes that’s exactly it! She has me. What am I supposed to do about her kid??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 07:53 PM
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That’s an understandable stance after what you just described, but they are good women out there. We just gotta learn to discern the good from the bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 05:02 PM
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I am the OP of this post and that is certainly not my belief or intent to project, and I have said as much many times in this thread. Obviously it doesn’t apply to all single mothers. Some are very dedicated to their kids. Some are great people. But it sure as hell applies to some, including the one who just baby trapped me—which is why I posted it. My purpose in posting this is to raise awareness of the red flags that tell you when you ARE being manipulated this way, so other guys don’t fall in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 04:58 PM
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I keep coming back to this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 12:02 PM
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It’s totally normal for them to find everything they can and use it to spy and manipulate
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 12:01 PM
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Wow I’m amazed you talked her out. Good hostage negotiation skills mate. Lol. Wish I’d had those.
/r/MGTOW23/11/19 11:50 AM
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That’s insane, hope you got someone nice now man. Jesus. I can’t even believe how many of us have these horror stories.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 11:48 AM
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Yup. Guilty as charged.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 11:45 AM
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Woot! 👊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 11:44 AM
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lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 11:42 AM
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Yes she is already morphing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 10:37 AM
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Thank you. I don’t think her goal is to bail, but if I want to get out...fuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 10:30 AM
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Thank you
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 10:28 AM
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Holy fuck! I’m so sorry you went thought that! Wtf? Sounds like a sociopath. Im glad you’re ok
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 10:27 AM
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Thank you for taking the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 10:24 AM
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Feeling this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 10:24 AM
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Warn him. That’s how I learned what my girlfriend was doing. Her ex called and told me the story of how their condom broke and each and every lie that came next. I’m serious. Tell him. It’s a public service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 04:03 AM
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It’s kind of similar in a way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 04:01 AM
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Uff
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:46 AM
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Will do
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:38 AM
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Worth a shot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:37 AM
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I’m glad for you man. It’s horrible to see that this is happening to me. But I’m glad you guys are here to help me know I’m Not going crazy, imagining shit. Christ. Never did I expect Urban Dictionary to save my life. 😖
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:36 AM
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This is it in a nutshell right?? If they have a baby or a toddler and are focused on dating, chances are through the roof it was a baby trapping that didn’t take. And now she is daddy baiting you. Fml
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:33 AM
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Yeah I am getting more disturbed by the minute as I put it all together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:28 AM
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I am about to have a kid with a single mom I am starting to think is some kind of nut job who baby trapped me with an accidentally on purpose pregnancy. That isn’t even the creepy part though. I’ll post more about the whole thing soon, but it’s a lot to type. You can read more in the I fucked up reddit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:25 AM
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And thank you! ✊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 02:06 AM
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This is exactly what I need. I am good fucking man and I have treated women with respect my entire life. I love women. I love my adopted daughter. I love my mom and my sister. But this shit I’m dealing with is just plain rotten to the bone. I don’t want to sound like a girl, but I actually do feel like my life is getting violated, I need this board. I don’t like hate comments about all women, but this one deserves it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 02:05 AM
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Yeah it’s hard to see ... until you see it. Then you can’t unsee it. They can keep up an act for a couple of years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 01:42 AM
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I’m new to Reddit. Is this considered a hate sub? Or just a rightfully pissed off sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 01:40 AM
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Not yet. Our baby is due in weeks, and I just learned all this shit about her. I have been taking care of her baby daughter for 2 years now. I was ready to be a father to our 3 kids. I bought her a damn house. This is going to take some time to sort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 01:38 AM
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That’s what I’m wondering after hearing her ex’s story. I feel sick thinking about it, but it’s possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 01:34 AM
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Yes the bonding me to the kid was immediate. I don’t introduce new girlfriends to my son right away. I don’t want him getting confused if things don’t work out. But she was inviting me to her mothers house to make dinner for me there with her daughter right away. After dinner, she’d have me help her put the girl to bed and then we’d sneak into her bedroom to fool around. I felt like she must just really trust me. But now I realize she was trying to use the kid to to bond us. And the more I reali…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 01:05 AM
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They totally nailed it, man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 12:31 AM
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All of this is new to me. I’m going to keep reading. Thanks for the leads man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 12:19 AM
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Probably because so many guys are getting screwed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 12:17 AM
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Thanks man I’ll check it out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 12:14 AM
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Jesus man I don’t even know what to say. I’m sorry, That’s sick too. How did we get to a place where the guy has zero say in this?? Why don’t we get a vote? I’m not saying over the woman, but equal, it’s out baby too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 12:00 AM
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Yeah I’ve seen this kind of insecurity stuff with s lot of girls over the years pretending to like stuff you don’t like to fit in or please a guy. I think it is often innocent. In the case of my current woman I do not think it was innocent at all. I feel like it is a fraud.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 11:56 PM
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I got a little boy, a toddler girl and baby on the way with this woman. I will take care of them. But fuck her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 11:52 PM
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Super dark man. But I see what you mean.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 11:49 PM
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Ok this is a good list. What is TRP?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 11:37 PM
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Thanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 11:35 PM
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It’s eye-opening right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:53 PM
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I hadn’t even thought of that. We broke a condom. Pretty sure it’s mine. But who the hell knows. You have a point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:53 PM
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Fuck man!!!! I am so sorry. I didn’t mean to pry, but fuck. I’m so mad for you bro. Do we have any attorneys in here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:51 PM
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Thanks for sharing that man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:49 PM
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Jesus. We are so stupid when we have the pussy fever. I guess it’s just part of being a man. So you gotta take a cold shower and look with objective eyes. We need a waiting period, like with guns. But for vaginas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:49 PM
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Thank god
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:46 PM
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Yeah mine pretended to like a band she’d never heard of. I know because it was my buddy’s college band and only about 18 people have heard if it! My friend said they were going to play and she said oh I love them! 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:46 PM
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I’m so sorry man. I can’t believe how common this stuff is. Do you still co-parent with her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:38 PM
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Thanks for the support man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:36 PM
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Thanks man. Yeah I am really worried about the kids. All 3 of em. I’m not even sure what to do because if I leave her, What if she gets custody?? Even half time...don’t dare leave my baby alone with someone like this,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 10:35 PM
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Well put
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:53 PM
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Hey is there a way to change the title of the post? It should just say daddy baiting I think. So people can search it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:48 PM
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Yeah the last month of my life is like a bad acid trip man. One minute I was in love and having a baby with this beautiful girl. Now I don’t know what the hell I’m doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:45 PM
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I’m glad you’ve moved on. Find a woman you deserve. I agree with those 3, but I would add in 2 more: uneducated teens, and girls like mine— who really are just almost conning guys with this. It’s a ploy from the start because she doesn’t want to take care of herself. I was all about her until I found out from her ex that she had the exact same story with him! First there was a broken condom. Then she said she’d have an abortion. Then she waits until it’s too late and cries that she just couldn’t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:39 PM
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Daddy baiting daddybaiting daddybating Daddy Baiting Daddy/baiting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:22 PM
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My kid is the oldest. Her daughter is 3 now, and “we” are having a baby unfortunately now. I love her daughter and fear for her if we split up. I’m beginning to see she only had her daughter to trap first guy. She takes pretty good care of her. But things are off. You can’t pimp your kid and be a good mom. I just heard from her ex and learned some bad shit. He actually sounds like a decent guy too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:15 PM
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God
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:11 PM
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Fuuuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:11 PM
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Wow. All this to protect these dudes from screwing themselves. That paints quite a picture of how helpless we are when in the clutches of pussy fever, man. I feel a little less stupid. Apparently I’m not the only tool out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:10 PM
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This is exactly what she did to me. It felt like a fantasy. Who could say no? Took two years before she is preggers. Accidentally of course. And of course I agreed to go ahead with it because she’s perfect, right? Until she’s not. And now the real colors are starting to show.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:04 PM
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Yes he’s so terrible! he’s like raping me! (Goes and has two kids with “rapist”. ) Makes perfect sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 09:01 PM
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Right? You got wise
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:59 PM
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Yes. I’m starting to see that she sees my kid as competition. Sick. I bought a bigger house to house all three kids and she wanted each of hers to have their own room and my kid to be in this tiny space that’s not even a real bedroom. Says her daughter needs her own space and can’t share with mine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:58 PM
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Omg yes, the victim thing. She blamed her ex for everything and seemed so pitiful. I bought it because well we’ve all known guys who would do that. But now I see he was the real victim. And she got me too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:55 PM
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Yep
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:53 PM
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Agree
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:51 PM
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I read these “accidental” pregnancies spike at 30 and 40, it’s not just for ghetto teens anymore,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:50 PM
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And nice of her to lie to you about that! Wtf is wrong with these people?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:49 PM
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Glad you got out man. Mine seems to put her kid over my kid. I’m seeing that now. It’s all about her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:48 PM
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True. Mine is from a well-off family, She liked the custom yachts I built. How we met.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:46 PM
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Yeah that’s a new idea to me. I think she’s one. Borderline personality. No dad growing up. Abandonment Issues. Looks like a model but has all these insecurities that make her want to trap a man into taking care of her. Fucking Borderline Personality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:43 PM
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Holy shit man. I’m glad you got outta there. Sounds like a real winner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:41 PM
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Some probably are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:39 PM
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Uff. Sorry man. At least hookers are honest. Get paid up front.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:39 PM
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I see what you’re saying. But that isn’t always a bad thing. I learned things from them too. This time was different though. It was fake. It was intended to make me feel like we were made for each other. Like saying she suddenly realized she has always wanted to try some sex thing she’s never done in her whole life. It’s fake shit. Look man I want my woman to learn more about me and grow with me. I want her to learn to make my favorite dinner. Just like I will learn things to make her happy. I d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:37 PM
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Damn man, I guess by the time you become a daddy baitiing single mom, you’ve been manipulating guys for a long time already. I hope you got away from her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:32 PM
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Ugh. Glad you saw threw her man.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 08:28 PM
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Nah you can’t say that. My aunt got widowed with 2 young boys and raised em right. Never remarried. Struggled to put em through good schools, set them up right. She always put those boys first. There ARE good single mothers. Maybe not the majority these days. And obviously not the ones who are dating with a damn 2 year old. I can’t believe I didn’t see the obvious before. I think that’s the red flag. The good single moms aren’t dating. They’re busting their butts raising the kids themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:24 PM
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Wow. I never thought of it like that but that is a creepy kind of truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:20 PM
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I agree that they play games on purpose. But doesn’t that kind of mean you are crazy? I mean, does a sane rational individual think it’s worth it to trap a man with pregnancy rather than just get a job and then later on marry someone she loves?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:18 PM
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Psychology of course. 😒 Point is, she’s not some dumb teenager with no life skills. I at least feel sorry for them. This one just does not want to do anything for herself. Except be pretty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:16 PM
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I’m glad she didn’t get a baby out of you,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:11 PM
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Disagree. My first two girlfriends and my wife were honest about who they were. Not perfect. But not faking their entire goddamn personality to con me. This felt like I had the woman of my dreams because she was too perfect for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 06:25 PM
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The rest: Says her ex a deadbeat or abusive, casts herself as the victim. (In reality, many Desperate Single Moms failed at baby trapping.) Different than gold-digging. Baiters seek men who are caring and responsible vs men with money. They look for decent, trusting guys to manipulate. They often target single dads, especially with children close in age/gender/looks to their own and pimp those feelings of love. Tho single mothers can fall in love, baiting ain’t that. It’s a coldly calculating pl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 06:16 PM
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The rest: Says her ex a deadbeat or abusive, casts herself as the victim. (In reality, many Desperate Single Moms failed at baby trapping.) Different than gold-digging. Baiters seek men who are caring and responsible vs men with money. They look for decent, trusting guys to manipulate. They often target single dads, especially with children close in age/gender/looks to their own and pimp those feelings of love. Tho single mothers can fall in love, baiting ain’t that. It’s a coldly calculating pl…
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 06:15 PM
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Understandable. I mean even if they are good people, they are basically showing up to the first date with a huge financial obligation. I didn’t think like that before. I wanted to rescue her. But now my eyes are opened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 06:05 PM
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I’m sure some are good people. Maybe if they were legitimately married for a long time and have like a 12 year old. But if they have a baby or a toddler that’s a huge red flag to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 06:03 PM
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Apparently. 🤦‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 06:01 PM
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I think you are right that mine is borderline or something. I mean. She is not typical white trash who has no other options. She is college educated and intelligent. She’s a 10 in looks. And could have any kind of career. Why pull this shit? It had to be mental issues. She seems to have this dependent personality. Like she wants to be taken care of like a child, Daddy issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 06:00 PM
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I’m glad it’s out there too. I just wish I’d read this stuff BEFORE I stepped in it. We should all go to UD and upvote this shit so it gets marked as trending. Let’s cut these girls off of their supply of big-hearted fathers for them to deceive. Because once you’re here you’ve already been burned. We’re preaching to the choir boys. Let’s spread the word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:56 PM
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Thanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:32 PM
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Fuck that is fucked up. But no I’m not military. I build boats. But we have officers and firefighters in my family. Same sense of duty. And honor. I would never abandon my kid, and she knows it. So why not get herself knocked up? It was a business strategy. To get me to take care of her, and the kid she’s already had to trap some other dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:31 PM
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Jaysus these people have no life.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 05:22 PM
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Yes they are masters at manipulation. And when our dick is involved, we can’t think straight and they have a major advantage. Brutal but true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:11 PM
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Mine was 30 when she “accidentally” got pregnant the first time with some other idiot. Now she is 33 and just “accidentally” got pregnant again with me. Idiot number two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:09 PM
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Thanks dude. Not familia. What is that?
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 05:07 PM
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Yes. That’s why they target single dads. She spotted me a mile off. I love my kid, and she went right in using her little girl like a weapon against me. Once her girl got attached to me, she subtly guilt tripped me into feeling like I’d be a horrible man if I even thought of bailing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:06 PM
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Thanks for the heads up. So many fun new terms I’m learning thanks to this one wrong place I put my 🍆.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 05:02 PM
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Make sure to read the full definition in the comments below or on Urban Dictionary
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 04:47 PM
1

I thought UD was a SJW-free zone
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 04:42 PM
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Mine got pregnant “by accident.” Only it wasn’t. How is this not a violation of my rights? If I were a woman I would be yelling rape right now.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 04:32 PM
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Right. Like how did you not figure out he was an asshole and an alcoholic before getting pregnant? Did you really think it was a good idea to have his baby?
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 04:30 PM
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Right.Sour grapes. You hate all women. No I don’t. I only hate women who LIE to me. Manipulation is control! And they talk about consent?? I didn’t consent to have a baby with her. What about my rights?
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 04:26 PM
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Jesus. Hadn’t even thought about that. Maybe I need a new thread about getting full custody. Head is still spinning from realizing I was lied to about so much. It’s a lot to take in.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 04:20 PM
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Thank you. I have screwed myself royally it seems but learn from my mistake. I will post more as I discover.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 04:18 PM
7

😝
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 04:16 PM
18

Right? Why do that when you can find a decent man and use him as your fuck toy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 03:51 PM
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Here is the rest of it! READ THIS! PROTECT YOURSELF!!!! Says her ex a deadbeat or abusive, casts herself as the victim. (In reality, many Desperate Single Moms failed at baby trapping.) Different than gold-digging. Baiters seek men who are caring and responsible vs men with money. They look for decent, trusting guys to manipulate. They often target single dads, especially with children close in age/gender/looks to their own and pimp those feelings of love. Tho single mothers can fall in love, ba…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 03:49 PM
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Ok I’ll do it. Thanks for the share man.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 03:36 PM
1

Sorry dude. Glad you got out. I’m not gonna be so lucky. Mine got preggers when a condom “accidentally” broke.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 03:33 PM
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Potential? As in potential life support systems to pay for their kids? Bet they were profiling him just like it says in this article. They were daddybaiting.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 03:32 PM
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Don’t feel ashamed. You fell for it because you got a big heart, man. SHE should be ashamed, not you. I’m in the same boat man. I trusted this girl because I didn’t even know people could be this manipulative. I actually felt sorry for her and wanted to protect her too, Check out my story on the I fucked up board.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 03:29 PM
1

Ugh.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 03:25 PM
1

I feel you. Anyone who generalizes too much is selling something. Its rarely that simple.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 03:24 PM
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Cause she needs something now.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 10:23 AM
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I’m sure they would. But it’s not about all mothers. It’s about this kind of lying conniving woman. I got a mom I love. And a sister I’d do anything for. All the women in my family are angels and that’s why I was so trusting. I trusted the wrong woman though.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 10:21 AM
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It’s the brutal truth, but when it feels that good, you don’t wanna believe it’s not real.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 10:18 AM
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Here is the rest: Says her ex a deadbeat or abusive, casts herself as the victim. (In reality, many Desperate Single Moms failed at baby trapping.) Different than gold-digging. Baiters seek men who are caring and responsible vs men with money. They look for decent, trusting guys to manipulate. They often target single dads, especially with children close in age/gender/looks to their own and pimp those feelings of love. Tho single mothers can fall in love, baiting ain’t that. It’s a coldly calcul…
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 08:28 AM
2

Found this on Urban Dictionary. Daddy Baiting When a Desperate Single Mom wants a baby daddy and targets a guy who meets her profile to get control over him. Tactics: Find nice guy with good job and lovebomb. Fantasy sex & massive ego strokes. She falls too fast. It feels TOO perfect. Reinvents herself to look like his ideal woman. If he loves meat, she’s done with vegetarian. If he’s into rope play, she’s suddenly “discovered“ she is too! She stalks his social media for clues about his likes, d…
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 02:37 PM
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